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It’s worth the effort to be in good shape and be financially well off. But for ourselves and our loved ones. Most women today don’t deserve a man like that.
No... All of this FOR YOURSELF ... Then if U attracted women U decide to invite them In.... But if Ur not willing to Self-Improve for Urself... U R the Definition of a Looser
Agreed. Better Bachelor's Joker did a video on this, within the past .. 18 months? *Why* should men put forth all that effort, time and money, for w0men who: 1) are overweight; 2) have piercings in other than their ears; 3) have multiple tattoos; 4) have a body count higher than the predator; 5) possibly have Chad's or Tyrone's kid(s) in tow; etc.
@@M0viLover the saddest picture is a muscled jacked tall dude walking next to 250-300 lbs land whale who is not even attractive in the slightest. It’s disgusting actually. It’s like eating from a dumpster. Why do men disrespect themselves like this?
Not in my book. You have to understand that you can't do much for women, you can only be someone for women. My wife changed a lot for better over time.
An introvert is not a person that doesn't like to communicate. This is frequently misunderstood. An introvert is an person who recharges his batteries being alone and may only take intermittent periods of time to do so. Interacting with other people costs him energy, but he make still enjoy it. It's just that eventually he will have to refill his energy and withdraw for that. Think of it like doing cardio. You like it but only for so long until you need a brake. Karl Lagerfeld was a typical introvert. He sometimes spent a whole week end seeing nobody, speaking not a single word to anyone. Next Monday he was bursting with energy and went out doing his thing. An extrovert is just the other way round. He looses energy being alone and recharges energy by interacting with people. Former ACDC lead singer Bon Scott was a typical extrovert. When he had nobody to talk to he even called his relatives in India just to be able to talk to somebody. His alcoholism was at least in part due to his inability to be on his own. So, being introverted does not translate into not being able or constantly not like to socialize. What people oftenly mislabel as introvert is in reality shy, socio-phobic or Asperger's. Cats are the masters of being loved unconditionally :-) Dogs love unconditionally.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
I tried the services of Shelly Renee White. At first I was pleased but she ended up stealing all the money from my bank account and sodomizing my dog. I don't think I would recommend her.
1 - Be yourself 2 - Marriage is a good ide for *men* 3 - Being a passport bro will solve everything 4 - There are good girls out there 5 - You are a victim and you're *owed* something 6 - being out of shape is fine 7 - you can be an introvert and don't need a network 8 - you don't need to know how to fight. 9 - Money doesn't matter.
The first point isn’t quite right. Being yourself doesn’t mean NOT to work on yourself. You can always absolutely be striving to improve yourself and still stay true to who you are and what you want to be.
A "good girl" really exists. I've heard the true story from an old hunter, who once came across this creature in remote lands. No one from his party survived. He ended up heavily wounded, but managed to escape her claws.
@@ModelJames13 Hah... Same, same... She's the one eh? She's your soulmate.... Take your time and heal brother, we are going to make it! Just yeah... Take it slow to truly know them, let's not be fools again and learn from our mistakes
I’ve been married for 33 years and totally agree with Rich on this. Marriage is a horrible idea for men today given the pool of actual wife material these days. You would be lucky to find a woman u def the age of 50 who is actual wife material today. I was very lucky in that I hit the lottery with my wife. Her kind is practically non existent these days. Women have demands in men that eliminates 98% of the male dating pool immediately. On top of that, they are not bringing to the table the qualities that men want in a wife. They will freely give up their best years to Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie, and then demand excellence in a prospective mate.
Women have demands in men that eliminates 98% of the male dating pool immediately. On top of that, they are not bringing to the table the qualities that men want in a wife. They will freely give up their best years to Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie, and then demand excellence in a prospective mate.💯
Simply be the best you can be - put your energy into optimizing yourself, take responsibility for areas of weakness and do the work, realize that most of your bulls**t is due to unrealistic expectations and preferences - Yes - quit crying because you didn't get what you wanted the way you wanted it, be the fittest you, be the best option for your woman, be the best employee at work, the best player on the team. The world owes you nothing and you have to take it.
Biggest thing I found helpful at 37 is getting in shape. I have 21-28 y/o females match on the apps all the time. Jiujitsu was the best thing I ever started 2 years ago. Still rolling with people half my age just fine. First thing Get in shape. Probably the hardest but worth the effort
Enjoy the benefits. I am 46 with 20,22 & 29 year old side pieces. I don't look my age so in public & social settings we have no issues and its just a huge ego boost when you waking uo to a girl half you age and you in better shape than her! LOL
@@TomNook. Of course he doesn't. He left out how age prejudiced women are. The same women that want you and accept dates from you will kick you to the curb as soon as they learn your age. Happened to me twice last year. Age prejudiced. 😎
The passport bro one is gonna backfire badly in a few years when all these guys sponsor fiances green cards and get dumped once they become permanent residents. End up divorced and paying spousal support for 10 years since that's a condition for sponsorship. Look for a foreign spouse only if you are able to relocate overseas and live with her overseas else don't do it!!!
Not to mention the mail order bride is toxic always and wants to bring their entire family into your home that's what happened in California when that dude killed his china doll and her parent parasites
The biggest issue is the toxic feminist culture we have in the US. Bringing a woman from another country to the US is not a solution to it. Not that I endorse it, but as far I understand, most people know that you need to STAY in another country if you want the benefits of that culture in a marriage.
I'm leery of the "passport bros". I picture a creepy old western dude who goes to SE Asia, thinking he's getting some hot young local chick to do his bidding. He sticks out like a sore thumb in the community, and the locals are either resentful of him or looking to scam him. Criminal gangs and corrupt law enforcement are lining him up as a huge mark, and he's cruising for big trouble. I'm sure by now the people who live where these guys show up are onto the game, and are ready to take them down.
Biologically speaking, the length of time it takes to raise a child to maturity requires a significant amount of effort and resources. The gestation period of a human baby alone is 9 months. Then the child is practicing helpless on it's on for the first 4 to 5 years, and still will require significant attention for the next 10 years. This leads to a significant investment by both parent to make sure their offspring can survive the riggers of childhood. Hence marriage, which has proven over the millennia to be the most efficient way of achieving the end result. Unfortunately feminism and the complete and total degradation of motherhood and child rearing has turned the institution of marriage into an anachronistic joke.
Learning to fight is also hands down the best way to stay in shape and learn genuine application as well as building a tribe. 3 years into bjj because of Rich and it’s totally worth it!
majority of business flourish thanks to network. the fact that you believed this tells me two things. 1. you have no business 2. if you have a business, it probably worth nothing
@@punkdrop8582 I do have a business. I netted close to $800K after tax this year. My performance as a professional has been assessed by a third party to be in the top 0.14% worldwide. I work alone. Thanks for your input.
I can attest that being in shape definitely helps with women. When I retired ten years ago at age 60, I was bored so I started working out EVERY day for 2-3 hours. Now, when I go to the store, women of ALL ages aggressively flirt with me. Get this, teenage girls start DANCING when they see me. Hilarious.
I appreciate the list. I only take issue with the misconception of introversion. Introversion has nothing to do with being shy, social anxiety, or any of these related ideas. Most actors are introverts. Introversion is the idea of being drained of energy through social interaction instead of recharged like extroverts. A person can be my favorite person in the world. I am still drained by interaction and need recharge time on my own. This is a completely separate concept to shyness. Most introverts aren't shy at all, although a shy person can be an introvert
If you think you need to do something to get ahead, don't listen to people who say you don't really need to do it. Even if you don't need it, accomplishing it will make you more confident and at peace.
I would suggest that being well groomed - dressing well and taking care of your appearance - is more important than muscles. Now if you can combine the two that is definitely the ideal, but I wouldn't present in some sort of gym top and a bandana wrapped around my head. In the world we live in a man that dresses well stands out and makes a good impression.
Honestly the biggest reason most people get married is because of things like medical benefits family writes all that kind of stuff. If they would make it less painful to get a divorce as far as child support and alimony and having to give up half your retirement and things like that and then also make it where if I live with a lady she can be put on my insurance so we're not both having to pay for insurance or other legal things that require you to be married. That's why I gave people were fighting to get married so much is not so much because it's that holy matrimony but it's more about the legal side.
Including "introverts" in presenting one of the lies doesn't make sense. Please, check the definition you have for introverts. Also, you forgot the #11: "Friendship with women doesn't exist. If you believe you have one; it's a figment of your imagination. This doesn't mean that you have to be an ass*ole with women. Friendships with women never have the same dimensions of friendships with men. Period.
I think Rich completely misunderstands introversion here. Some of the best business leaders are introverts, look at Elon Musk for instance. Introversion is not synonymous with shy, nice guys. Many introverts are High Self Monitors and have very strong levels of assertiveness which means they are able to “cloak” in extroversion in order to achieve their goals but then do need periods of time alone to recharge the battery. Use different terminology when describing these personality types and their correlation to success otherwise you are using a misnomer and providing inaccurate information that could be detrimental to aspiring leaders on the left side of the introversion-extroversion spectrum
I know legit millionaires who raised their kids in a good home and environment and worked their arses of to get there. Both children are now young adults under 30, and both have drug problems. Both children are spoiled brats, and they're causing a huge stress to the family because they are aimless, probably now worthless young adults. They don't even work or want to make anything of themselves. In this case they would have definitely been better off having no children.
Na, even millionaire is not good. Schools are poisoned with drugs, brainwashing, there's no family unity and family law encourages divorces. Not worth it.
It’s more engaging format - you are listening but your eyes are distracted by moving landscape. I think it’s form of keeping viewers relaxed and engaged even if they stop listening
I was very good looking man aged 18 - 25, I haven't really tried dating for a while so not sure how I'll do aged 35, can I still be as attractive aged 35 than I was aged 18 - 25? Or has age put me out of the race (especially with young women)?
If you are in good physical shape (ideal weight, exercises regularly, eats healthy, sleeps well, dresses and grooms well) and good financial shape, you are in your prime and are actually more attractive to younger women. Think George Clooney. When I was in my 30's I dated women who were 7 to 17 years younger than me. In my 30's, I was fit and my career had finally taken off. If you're a broke dad bod slob who looks like he's 45, you're going to struggle with younger women. In fact, I would tell you to stay away from woman older than 30, especially if you're looking for an LTR. Know your worth.
For a lot of guys bring a passport bro is the solution. I just became one my self recently and boy do I see a difference. There is nothing in the west that interests me.
“Be yourself” doesn’t mean be complacent, although some may construe it that way. To be oneself is to authentically follow his own North Star in this life. Money and cars without meaning and purpose is useless. Love your essence of who you are and then strive to unlock your fullest potential from a place of self-love, not fear and ego,
You just said a lot of nonsense to be a contrarian without adding anything of substance. It's like a self loving column you'd read in a woman's magazine. Being "yourself" is invariably used as a cop-out for not improving the aspects of your life that are lacking and are holding you back. It's used by losers to feel better about themselves, and it's a favourite of women who are sub par but refuse to acknowledge their own mediocrity. You very well know that's what he meant, yet you still felt compelled add your contrarian drivel, why?
The grass is greener on the other side brother. I have to disagree you're paying either way and would you rather pay for a leftover American overweight woman with three baby daddies or will you rather pay less money and live in Asia for instance and get a woman that massages you takes care of you yes you still have to take care of them financially but it's way cheaper
I live in East Europe. Woman are pretty and they are more likely to talk to you and wish to have husband. Unfortunately if you are beta they will still cheat on you with ex
I refuse to go my own way. I married a traditional virgin, we have 2-sons now (18months and 5months). Life is good here. Even if she decide to leave, life goes on. But I am not going to buy into that deceitful rhetoric to go my own and die alone and single. These TH-camrs preaching this movement, in secret have a family, trust me.
Spoken by someone who clearly hasn't been betrayed as a husband/father. The most important thing to take away from Rich's stuff is that ALL woman are wired for the capability to bail on you. Take it from someone who got with a virgin, subsequently married & had kids with her. Fast-forward some nearly 30yrs later she betrayed me & the kids. I still had a great career, roof over head, vacas, little/no debt, no abuse etc etc etc. Bottom line is don't be ignorant to the facts of how each gender is hard wired from nature, protect yourself, & don't be surprised if it goes to schite down the line, no matter how great of a guy you are.
@ but you can’t say “ALL Women”. I understand that you talking from a place of hurt and bitterness. My parents are dead now, my mother never ran away from my father. My older brother and sister have been married for 27yrs now still together. You can’t say ALL marriages must end in betrayal. So are you saying all men now should die alone and single ??.
@@emperorcesar8208 I'm not saying to not get married or have kids at all. What I am saying is look at hard data (historical fact), acknowledge it, & make wise decisions based on what reality of our lives are. The data clearly bears out that the majority of the time it's the woman in a marriage that petitions for divorce. The data also clearly bears out there's a VERY good chance a marriage will fail. One of the follies in the marriage/family construct is a person, most often a man, thinking that his choice in a female, coupled with his nobleness / how he lives his life, will insulate him from what happens to the majority of people, it will not. When a woman bails on husband &/or father, part of what destroys the man the very most is the guy not being able to grasp the betrayal. In other words he was naïve to the reality of male/female relationship dynamics. Don't be that guy that goes thru life thinking it can't happen to you. Get right with the fact it can so if/when it happens (5, 10, 25yrs down the line) you're not 'blindsided' by it. Basically I'm saying keeping it real will build in resiliency for the man.... again, because the majority of the time as bore out by hard data, it's the woman departing the relationship. There are always outliers, exceptions to the rule & data points on the far end of the bell curve. What Rich & people like myself talk to is the bulk of people who are indeed inside the bell curve.
@@loseerich493 you made a valid point and I totally get you. But I am already married there is nothing I can do about it but stay positive and believe it ends well. And trust me I have already made up my mind, that if it doesn’t end well, life goes on. But I am happy I have two sons they are my world. My wife is a great woman, and paraventours she flipped the script, she will be the one to suffer not me. I have zero dollar in my American account I have over $500,000 overseas savings hiding somewhere. I am 40 and as a continue to work hard my investment will be taking out of the USA. Trust me I am ready to embrace any forthcoming betrayal. But I won’t dwell on it or allow red pill to mess with my thought process
You’re wrong about the brotherhood crap. We should be a brotherhood but we aren’t. Dudes be competing with eachother trying to one up each other. Your buddy will use a stranger before he lets you make a dollar off him. That’s how fucked they are. They can’t stand the idea that you might get ahead of them. Everything else you said is dead on.
Good points but I would add create an offensive and an alpha mindset. Being assertive is only the first step. One has got to be aggressive. That's how Trump won the election both now and in 2016. The USA west wasn't won by the cavalry circling the wagons.
🙋♀️⁉️I understand and even sympathize with some of your reasons why the marriage calculus no longer pencils for men, given the fairly unappealing modern feminist social mores currently denigrating their options. However, on some of your other podcasts, you emphasize the empirically sound truth that a 2-parent home is optimal for child development. How do you reconcile discouraging men to marry yet unequivocally acknowledge the best chance for children to become successful adults and enrich the societies they will eventually lead is an upbringing in a 2-parent home? You also express deep concern about population decline in western countries and suggest gov’t policy changes that could bolster family size and mitigate financial barriers to family-building. Isn’t telling men that marriage is a bad idea fairly antithetical to your stated concerns about societal stability? Finally, doesn’t discouraging men to marry ensure more “future-men” are raised in single female-headed households? That doesn’t bode well for anyone…. I understand you may insist men can still be competent and involved fathers if they aren’t married to the mom, but realisticall, when dad lives away from kids or even has 50/50 custody, by default mom generally takes reigns of childrearing and sets the emotional and thermostat in which child is raised. Anything else is swimming against a current of fundamental truths of human behavior. I’m not trying to be combative or score points here, I just sincerely don’t understand how all the messaging intersects or how a broader undercurrent feeds all streams of thought. Maybe you could explain on a Short or podcast? Thank you!
Unless you were raised with religion and marriage is definitely in the conversation just make better decisions and pay attention to red flags don’t overlook them,have been married 25 years next September to the same woman both 1st marriage and no step children with 3 of our own two are college athletes both graduating in the next 2 years not saying it’s easy by any means but it can be done be smart and do the work that’s why I listen to these clips the work never ends and you can’t ever get comfortable bc that leads to softness
you need to be good with a pistol and karate. Good enough to be PAID to teach those skllls. You need to be that good for your own protection and being that good will get women for you. It will take all of your spare time and money for 2 years to achieve this, with rare exceptions. Some MIGHT be able to do it in one year, if they are making or have a LOT of money. Money= spare time. Dont bother with karate classes that have more than 2 other people in the classes, cause you'lll just be learning bad habits. Expect to paay at least $20 per hour and to need 6 hours per week for at least a year. 6-12k Another 4k will cover the pistol, IF you know to learn most of it with .177 lead pellet guns and airsoft, and most of the live fire with a .22. A 9mm aint that much harder to control than a 22, guys. If you do it this way, you'll learn much faster and much more safely. Figure on spending as much on your coach as you do on guns, ammo and gear. Again, at least $20 per hour and no more than 2 other people in the class. Mistakes with a gun are too often lethal, or mllion-dollar lawsuit mistakes.
I don't think Rich is someone men should be listening to. This desire to be this alpha male is all ego and poor self-esteem driven. Every time I watch him I come away from it thinking something is just off. Yea, he has points.. but that doesn't make him right. If you are to live the life he promotes for you to live there will be nothing at the end of it but burnout. I mean, if women are so immoral... why try to bed them to prove something to yourself? That's a "beta"male mentality. Someone controlled by their physical desires is a weak man. Listen to someone like this instead. Even if you're not a religious person. The moral behind Fr. Moses' message is way more powerful than Rich. th-cam.com/video/qgRf_vAjmIw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=C54W0SFI-KbOQ43R
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It’s worth the effort to be in good shape and be financially well off. But for ourselves and our loved ones. Most women today don’t deserve a man like that.
Women don't deserve a man to be in shape. But men deserve their woman to be in shape? Hypocrisy perhaps?
All this for a woman? No thanks.
Agree you shouldn't do these things specifically for women. But for example #6, being is shape is just an improvement in your quality of life.
No... All of this FOR YOURSELF ... Then if U attracted women U decide to invite them In....
But if Ur not willing to Self-Improve for Urself... U R the Definition of a Looser
It's for life. Women may or may not come along
Agreed. Better Bachelor's Joker did a video on this, within the past .. 18 months? *Why* should men put forth all that effort, time and money, for w0men who: 1) are overweight; 2) have piercings in other than their ears; 3) have multiple tattoos; 4) have a body count higher than the predator; 5) possibly have Chad's or Tyrone's kid(s) in tow; etc.
@@M0viLover the saddest picture is a muscled jacked tall dude walking next to 250-300 lbs land whale who is not even attractive in the slightest. It’s disgusting actually. It’s like eating from a dumpster. Why do men disrespect themselves like this?
Rich - you replied to my comment over a year ago - "She's an anchor" - one simple comment changed my life. Thank you
The only 2 things you need to understand about women:
1. Women can't be understood.
2. Women can't be helped.
Not in my book. You have to understand that you can't do much for women, you can only be someone for women. My wife changed a lot for better over time.
@@r.s.4174 Has she read books of Laura Doyle?
@@mj7335 She read John Gray.
An introvert is not a person that doesn't like to communicate. This is frequently misunderstood. An introvert is an person who recharges his batteries being alone and may only take intermittent periods of time to do so. Interacting with other people costs him energy, but he make still enjoy it. It's just that eventually he will have to refill his energy and withdraw for that. Think of it like doing cardio. You like it but only for so long until you need a brake. Karl Lagerfeld was a typical introvert. He sometimes spent a whole week end seeing nobody, speaking not a single word to anyone. Next Monday he was bursting with energy and went out doing his thing.
An extrovert is just the other way round. He looses energy being alone and recharges energy by interacting with people. Former ACDC lead singer Bon Scott was a typical extrovert. When he had nobody to talk to he even called his relatives in India just to be able to talk to somebody. His alcoholism was at least in part due to his inability to be on his own.
So, being introverted does not translate into not being able or constantly not like to socialize. What people oftenly mislabel as introvert is in reality shy, socio-phobic or Asperger's.
Cats are the masters of being loved unconditionally :-)
Dogs love unconditionally.
you sound like the introverted nobody he mentioned. due to the exessive explanation about the meaning of losers
Extroverts are energy sucking vampires, fify
@thomasharvanek2411 To an introvert, yes.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
I tried the services of Shelly Renee White. At first I was pleased but she ended up stealing all the money from my bank account and sodomizing my dog. I don't think I would recommend her.
Great list. The first one should be, if she is not attracted to YOU - move on.
SIMPLE TRUE WORDS SPOKEN HERE.
1 - Be yourself
2 - Marriage is a good ide for *men*
3 - Being a passport bro will solve everything
4 - There are good girls out there
5 - You are a victim and you're *owed* something
6 - being out of shape is fine
7 - you can be an introvert and don't need a network
8 - you don't need to know how to fight.
9 - Money doesn't matter.
The first point isn’t quite right. Being yourself doesn’t mean NOT to work on yourself. You can always absolutely be striving to improve yourself and still stay true to who you are and what you want to be.
A "good girl" really exists. I've heard the true story from an old hunter, who once came across this creature in remote lands. No one from his party survived.
He ended up heavily wounded, but managed to escape her claws.
I found the needle in the haystack! But the needle stabbed me in the jugular............. I still haven't fully recovered. 🩸
@@ModelJames13 Hah... Same, same... She's the one eh? She's your soulmate.... Take your time and heal brother, we are going to make it!
Just yeah... Take it slow to truly know them, let's not be fools again and learn from our mistakes
I’ve been married for 33 years and totally agree with Rich on this. Marriage is a horrible idea for men today given the pool of actual wife material these days. You would be lucky to find a woman u def the age of 50 who is actual wife material today. I was very lucky in that I hit the lottery with my wife. Her kind is practically non existent these days. Women have demands in men that eliminates 98% of the male dating pool immediately. On top of that, they are not bringing to the table the qualities that men want in a wife. They will freely give up their best years to Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie, and then demand excellence in a prospective mate.
Women have demands in men that eliminates 98% of the male dating pool immediately. On top of that, they are not bringing to the table the qualities that men want in a wife. They will freely give up their best years to Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie, and then demand excellence in a prospective mate.💯
I would add that the female gene pool Is abysmal.
Simply be the best you can be - put your energy into optimizing yourself, take responsibility for areas of weakness and do the work, realize that most of your bulls**t is due to unrealistic expectations and preferences - Yes - quit crying because you didn't get what you wanted the way you wanted it, be the fittest you, be the best option for your woman, be the best employee at work, the best player on the team. The world owes you nothing and you have to take it.
Biggest thing I found helpful at 37 is getting in shape. I have 21-28 y/o females match on the apps all the time. Jiujitsu was the best thing I ever started 2 years ago. Still rolling with people half my age just fine. First thing Get in shape. Probably the hardest but worth the effort
Even out of shape women demand in-shape guys, it’s hypocritical but it is what it is.
Do you declare your real age on apps?
Enjoy the benefits. I am 46 with 20,22 & 29 year old side pieces. I don't look my age so in public & social settings we have no issues and its just a huge ego boost when you waking uo to a girl half you age and you in better shape than her! LOL
the real success is attracting chicks without the use of pathetic dating apps.
@@TomNook. Of course he doesn't. He left out how age prejudiced women are. The same women that want you and accept dates from you will kick you to the curb as soon as they learn your age. Happened to me twice last year. Age prejudiced. 😎
The passport bro one is gonna backfire badly in a few years when all these guys sponsor fiances green cards and get dumped once they become permanent residents. End up divorced and paying spousal support for 10 years since that's a condition for sponsorship. Look for a foreign spouse only if you are able to relocate overseas and live with her overseas else don't do it!!!
Not to mention the mail order bride is toxic always and wants to bring their entire family into your home that's what happened in California when that dude killed his china doll and her parent parasites
The passport bros actually think they have found some kind of cheat code. Women are women wherever they go. They will find out eventually.
Passport bros isn't about just women, it's about going abroad & experiencing other cultures & people around the world.
The biggest issue is the toxic feminist culture we have in the US. Bringing a woman from another country to the US is not a solution to it. Not that I endorse it, but as far I understand, most people know that you need to STAY in another country if you want the benefits of that culture in a marriage.
I'm leery of the "passport bros". I picture a creepy old western dude who goes to SE Asia, thinking he's getting some hot young local chick to do his bidding. He sticks out like a sore thumb in the community, and the locals are either resentful of him or looking to scam him. Criminal gangs and corrupt law enforcement are lining him up as a huge mark, and he's cruising for big trouble. I'm sure by now the people who live where these guys show up are onto the game, and are ready to take them down.
Biologically speaking, the length of time it takes to raise a child to maturity requires a significant amount of effort and resources. The gestation period of a human baby alone is 9 months. Then the child is practicing helpless on it's on for the first 4 to 5 years, and still will require significant attention for the next 10 years. This leads to a significant investment by both parent to make sure their offspring can survive the riggers of childhood. Hence marriage, which has proven over the millennia to be the most efficient way of achieving the end result. Unfortunately feminism and the complete and total degradation of motherhood and child rearing has turned the institution of marriage into an anachronistic joke.
Learning to fight is also hands down the best way to stay in shape and learn genuine application as well as building a tribe. 3 years into bjj because of Rich and it’s totally worth it!
A year or two of bjj to understand it, but then switch to muay thai or boxing because bjj is gay.
The fact that you need a network to be successful in business is a TOTAL LIE.
The genesis of his comments with this subject I have to believe are based around him selling 'a network' to folks that will pay for it.
majority of business flourish thanks to network. the fact that you believed this tells me two things.
1. you have no business
2. if you have a business, it probably worth nothing
@@punkdrop8582 I do have a business. I netted close to $800K after tax this year. My performance as a professional has been assessed by a third party to be in the top 0.14% worldwide. I work alone. Thanks for your input.
I can attest that being in shape definitely helps with women.
When I retired ten years ago at age 60, I was bored so I started working out EVERY day for 2-3 hours.
Now, when I go to the store, women of ALL ages aggressively flirt with me.
Get this, teenage girls start DANCING when they see me. Hilarious.
Great video, thanks Rich
Thanks!
Addendum:
11. You need to spend big bucks on a coaching platform.
I don't think I understand
You mean those self improvement courses?
But hey, how will our favorite grifters afford expensive sport cars? Think of the poor, poor PUA content creators!
@Jadty what is grifter?
I appreciate the list. I only take issue with the misconception of introversion.
Introversion has nothing to do with being shy, social anxiety, or any of these related ideas. Most actors are introverts.
Introversion is the idea of being drained of energy through social interaction instead of recharged like extroverts. A person can be my favorite person in the world. I am still drained by interaction and need recharge time on my own.
This is a completely separate concept to shyness. Most introverts aren't shy at all, although a shy person can be an introvert
you understood exactly what he meant and youre here to play semantics. dont be a lone ranger loser. did he struck a nerve?
Capitalist logic dictates that you be what other people want
If you think you need to do something to get ahead, don't listen to people who say you don't really need to do it. Even if you don't need it, accomplishing it will make you more confident and at peace.
For number 5. Outcomes are the result of decisions. Decisions are based on beliefs.
I would suggest that being well groomed - dressing well and taking care of your appearance - is more important than muscles. Now if you can combine the two that is definitely the ideal, but I wouldn't present in some sort of gym top and a bandana wrapped around my head. In the world we live in a man that dresses well stands out and makes a good impression.
Great and overlooked advice. Who knew that simply showering every day and wearing clean, pressed, clothes that fit could be a game changer.
People who say this sort of thing are lazy. Just own it puss
@@elsa_nyc You be surprised how many people groom & wash their clothes once a month
I agree, some muscle men are right posers, dressing well is a much greater attraction!
And the requirements for women are "just show up"???
Rich tells the absolute truth about all females sadly.
Don't be yourself. Be like Richard Greico.
As we all know there are many more lies men believe, but this was a good start.
Self confidence tops all other traits
One of your best vids yet.
That's a very long "to do" list just to "try" to get a ran through 304 once Chad and Tyrone discard her. No thanks!!
This is facts 💯
Sure, people should "be themselves". But there's a multitude of areas that everyone should always maximize
The begining is good, the rest is nonsense.
Your competence to women are your looks, that is it.
Wrong dipshit
Biggest lie? When she says i love you.
If it isn’t enhancing your life and working you towards your goals, don’t bother with it.
Honestly the biggest reason most people get married is because of things like medical benefits family writes all that kind of stuff. If they would make it less painful to get a divorce as far as child support and alimony and having to give up half your retirement and things like that and then also make it where if I live with a lady she can be put on my insurance so we're not both having to pay for insurance or other legal things that require you to be married. That's why I gave people were fighting to get married so much is not so much because it's that holy matrimony but it's more about the legal side.
Nice & Neat straight to the point.
Including "introverts" in presenting one of the lies doesn't make sense. Please, check the definition you have for introverts. Also, you forgot the #11: "Friendship with women doesn't exist. If you believe you have one; it's a figment of your imagination. This doesn't mean that you have to be an ass*ole with women. Friendships with women never have the same dimensions of friendships with men. Period.
Too right. You can ALWAYS flirt with women.
it does. introvert lie to themselves they can be successful ALONE. the message is there, you dont have to argue about the semantics
@@punkdrop8582 No, it doesn't. It isn't just semantics; it's conceptual. Genus & differentia.
@@DragonNo1 have fun being introverted loser then
I think Rich completely misunderstands introversion here. Some of the best business leaders are introverts, look at Elon Musk for instance. Introversion is not synonymous with shy, nice guys. Many introverts are High Self Monitors and have very strong levels of assertiveness which means they are able to “cloak” in extroversion in order to achieve their goals but then do need periods of time alone to recharge the battery. Use different terminology when describing these personality types and their correlation to success otherwise you are using a misnomer and providing inaccurate information that could be detrimental to aspiring leaders on the left side of the introversion-extroversion spectrum
We got screwed out of number 10
kids are a VERY bad idea in the US until you're at LEAST a millionaire.
So only 15% of the population should have kids stupid comment
Or you are piss poor... then it doesn't matter😂
I know legit millionaires who raised their kids in a good home and environment and worked their arses of to get there. Both children are now young adults under 30, and both have drug problems. Both children are spoiled brats, and they're causing a huge stress to the family because they are aimless, probably now worthless young adults. They don't even work or want to make anything of themselves. In this case they would have definitely been better off having no children.
....and of course in the US only dirt poor people are having kids.
Na, even millionaire is not good. Schools are poisoned with drugs, brainwashing, there's no family unity and family law encourages divorces. Not worth it.
very true rich do the work beast mode . i loved your book . thanks for helping men .
this....this is a comedy right...😂😂Look at you go boy🤣😂
💯💯💯
What's with this car driving counseling session? Does he just drive around or is he really going somewhere?
He's in the garage with a movie screen background.
He's rich, he's got all the time in the world to drive around. 😎
It’s more engaging format - you are listening but your eyes are distracted by moving landscape. I think it’s form of keeping viewers relaxed and engaged even if they stop listening
Thank you.
I was very good looking man aged 18 - 25, I haven't really tried dating for a while so not sure how I'll do aged 35, can I still be as attractive aged 35 than I was aged 18 - 25? Or has age put me out of the race (especially with young women)?
If you are in good physical shape (ideal weight, exercises regularly, eats healthy, sleeps well, dresses and grooms well) and good financial shape, you are in your prime and are actually more attractive to younger women. Think George Clooney. When I was in my 30's I dated women who were 7 to 17 years younger than me. In my 30's, I was fit and my career had finally taken off. If you're a broke dad bod slob who looks like he's 45, you're going to struggle with younger women. In fact, I would tell you to stay away from woman older than 30, especially if you're looking for an LTR. Know your worth.
Leykis 101.. If you know, you know...
Leykis was a funny guy but he was a fat clown.
For a lot of guys bring a passport bro is the solution. I just became one my self recently and boy do I see a difference. There is nothing in the west that interests me.
Two words: Tactical soap
What is that?
4:35 Who tells guys that they don't need to be in shape? I have never heard any of that body positivity stuff offered to men.
Zombie Apocalypse. It's all fun and games until the undead feast on your flesh.
“Be yourself” doesn’t mean be complacent, although some may construe it that way. To be oneself is to authentically follow his own North Star in this life. Money and cars without meaning and purpose is useless. Love your essence of who you are and then strive to unlock your fullest potential from a place of self-love, not fear and ego,
You just said a lot of nonsense to be a contrarian without adding anything of substance. It's like a self loving column you'd read in a woman's magazine.
Being "yourself" is invariably used as a cop-out for not improving the aspects of your life that are lacking and are holding you back. It's used by losers to feel better about themselves, and it's a favourite of women who are sub par but refuse to acknowledge their own mediocrity.
You very well know that's what he meant, yet you still felt compelled add your contrarian drivel, why?
And no pictures holding up a dead fish,
Who is this guy? What are his qualifications?
There are two types of women.
The first type of woman are those of first class.
The second type are the rest
Richard is right about women . They are money driven everywhere. I seen in west and Asia. Its same attitude
All he’s doing here is introducing men to box checking, and that leads to ultimate failure.
The grass is greener on the other side brother. I have to disagree you're paying either way and would you rather pay for a leftover American overweight woman with three baby daddies or will you rather pay less money and live in Asia for instance and get a woman that massages you takes care of you yes you still have to take care of them financially but it's way cheaper
7:11 that hit hard
Sounds like so common sense, but we certainly live in real life not like that at all.
I live in East Europe. Woman are pretty and they are more likely to talk to you and wish to have husband. Unfortunately if you are beta they will still cheat on you with ex
I refuse to go my own way. I married a traditional virgin, we have 2-sons now (18months and 5months). Life is good here. Even if she decide to leave, life goes on. But I am not going to buy into that deceitful rhetoric to go my own and die alone and single. These TH-camrs preaching this movement, in secret have a family, trust me.
Spoken by someone who clearly hasn't been betrayed as a husband/father. The most important thing to take away from Rich's stuff is that ALL woman are wired for the capability to bail on you. Take it from someone who got with a virgin, subsequently married & had kids with her. Fast-forward some nearly 30yrs later she betrayed me & the kids. I still had a great career, roof over head, vacas, little/no debt, no abuse etc etc etc. Bottom line is don't be ignorant to the facts of how each gender is hard wired from nature, protect yourself, & don't be surprised if it goes to schite down the line, no matter how great of a guy you are.
@ but you can’t say “ALL Women”. I understand that you talking from a place of hurt and bitterness. My parents are dead now, my mother never ran away from my father. My older brother and sister have been married for 27yrs now still together. You can’t say ALL marriages must end in betrayal. So are you saying all men now should die alone and single ??.
@@emperorcesar8208 I'm not saying to not get married or have kids at all. What I am saying is look at hard data (historical fact), acknowledge it, & make wise decisions based on what reality of our lives are. The data clearly bears out that the majority of the time it's the woman in a marriage that petitions for divorce. The data also clearly bears out there's a VERY good chance a marriage will fail.
One of the follies in the marriage/family construct is a person, most often a man, thinking that his choice in a female, coupled with his nobleness / how he lives his life, will insulate him from what happens to the majority of people, it will not. When a woman bails on husband &/or father, part of what destroys the man the very most is the guy not being able to grasp the betrayal. In other words he was naïve to the reality of male/female relationship dynamics. Don't be that guy that goes thru life thinking it can't happen to you. Get right with the fact it can so if/when it happens (5, 10, 25yrs down the line) you're not 'blindsided' by it. Basically I'm saying keeping it real will build in resiliency for the man.... again, because the majority of the time as bore out by hard data, it's the woman departing the relationship.
There are always outliers, exceptions to the rule & data points on the far end of the bell curve. What Rich & people like myself talk to is the bulk of people who are indeed inside the bell curve.
When you inevitably go to the slaughterhouse and you will the red pill community awaits
@@loseerich493 you made a valid point and I totally get you. But I am already married there is nothing I can do about it but stay positive and believe it ends well. And trust me I have already made up my mind, that if it doesn’t end well, life goes on. But I am happy I have two sons they are my world. My wife is a great woman, and paraventours she flipped the script, she will be the one to suffer not me. I have zero dollar in my American account I have over $500,000 overseas savings hiding somewhere.
I am 40 and as a continue to work hard my investment will be taking out of the USA. Trust me I am ready to embrace any forthcoming betrayal. But I won’t dwell on it or allow red pill to mess with my thought process
Thank you Rich. Real G 🫡
What about getting a escort? Just an idea.
Great lessons here. Also do not be old, bald or drive a shitty car. Your market value is downhill no matter what you think of yourself.
A nice car is golddigger bait. If she likes you for your car then you've got a loser.
Terrible advice
Most guys you meet are your friend based on conditions
Do you have something to offer me
You’re wrong about the brotherhood crap. We should be a brotherhood but we aren’t. Dudes be competing with eachother trying to one up each other. Your buddy will use a stranger before he lets you make a dollar off him. That’s how fucked they are. They can’t stand the idea that you might get ahead of them. Everything else you said is dead on.
Rich your content is stagnit. You’ve been saying the same thing now for 3 years.
Facts
No Finger Trophies!
What is a fingers trophy
@@leyenda6149 A wedding ring.
Good points but I would add create an offensive and an alpha mindset. Being assertive is only the first step. One has got to be aggressive. That's how Trump won the election both now and in 2016. The USA west wasn't won by the cavalry circling the wagons.
Bring back arranged marriages.
Make women great again
I wish the expression m*ga would disappear into the dustbin of history. It's like after Watergate, every political scandal was a something gate.
🙋♀️⁉️I understand and even sympathize with some of your reasons why the marriage calculus no longer pencils for men, given the fairly unappealing modern feminist social mores currently denigrating their options. However, on some of your other podcasts, you emphasize the empirically sound truth that a 2-parent home is optimal for child development. How do you reconcile discouraging men to marry yet unequivocally acknowledge the best chance for children to become successful adults and enrich the societies they will eventually lead is an upbringing in a 2-parent home? You also express deep concern about population decline in western countries and suggest gov’t policy changes that could bolster family size and mitigate financial barriers to family-building. Isn’t telling men that marriage is a bad idea fairly antithetical to your stated concerns about societal stability? Finally, doesn’t discouraging men to marry ensure more “future-men” are raised in single female-headed households? That doesn’t bode well for anyone…. I understand you may insist men can still be competent and involved fathers if they aren’t married to the mom, but realisticall, when dad lives away from kids or even has 50/50 custody, by default mom generally takes reigns of childrearing and sets the emotional and thermostat in which child is raised. Anything else is swimming against a current of fundamental truths of human behavior. I’m not trying to be combative or score points here, I just sincerely don’t understand how all the messaging intersects or how a broader undercurrent feeds all streams of thought. Maybe you could explain on a Short or podcast? Thank you!
🤔👉Rich, start selling Only For Men beard coloring 🎨🖌️
Pretty sad view of the world. 😂
Don't get married but have kids. GL with that scenario.
Bad audio
Religion.
But why 10 too too many keep it simple
Unless you were raised with religion and marriage is definitely in the conversation just make better decisions and pay attention to red flags don’t overlook them,have been married 25 years next September to the same woman both 1st marriage and no step children with 3 of our own two are college athletes both graduating in the next 2 years not saying it’s easy by any means but it can be done be smart and do the work that’s why I listen to these clips the work never ends and you can’t ever get comfortable bc that leads to softness
you need to be good with a pistol and karate. Good enough to be PAID to teach those skllls. You need to be that good for your own protection and being that good will get women for you. It will take all of your spare time and money for 2 years to achieve this, with rare exceptions. Some MIGHT be able to do it in one year, if they are making or have a LOT of money. Money= spare time. Dont bother with karate classes that have more than 2 other people in the classes, cause you'lll just be learning bad habits. Expect to paay at least $20 per hour and to need 6 hours per week for at least a year. 6-12k Another 4k will cover the pistol, IF you know to learn most of it with .177 lead pellet guns and airsoft, and most of the live fire with a .22. A 9mm aint that much harder to control than a 22, guys. If you do it this way, you'll learn much faster and much more safely. Figure on spending as much on your coach as you do on guns, ammo and gear. Again, at least $20 per hour and no more than 2 other people in the class. Mistakes with a gun are too often lethal, or mllion-dollar lawsuit mistakes.
Hard work pays off and be a gentleman you'll get any girl you want. Sound familiar? Lol opinions are my own. Have a good day reader.
I don't think Rich is someone men should be listening to. This desire to be this alpha male is all ego and poor self-esteem driven.
Every time I watch him I come away from it thinking something is just off. Yea, he has points.. but that doesn't make him right. If you are to live the life he promotes for you to live there will be nothing at the end of it but burnout. I mean, if women are so immoral... why try to bed them to prove something to yourself? That's a "beta"male mentality. Someone controlled by their physical desires is a weak man.
Listen to someone like this instead. Even if you're not a religious person. The moral behind Fr. Moses' message is way more powerful than Rich.
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I watched that video you linked to and I agree. I gave up one this one halfway through.
Earn ya money in the west and sepnd it in the east, unofficial Passport bro here