Wow, it's funny how Erica and Ziheng continue to resist the test. You two can handle it as long as you love each other. I hope your relationship will last and be happy in Every day. may god guide you and protect you always we love you erica and ziheng 🇵🇭❤❤
Very mature of you Ziheng. Hard work and better communication between the two of you will help a lot. My prayers goes to you and Erica. Keep friends and family out of your relationship politely ❤❤❤
This guy truly loves his Queen. Whatever the case, fight for your love. LOVE ALWAYS WINS. You have an army of fans behind, you can do this. Look at Meghan and Harry ♥🇬🇧
@@eveillezbienetre549 you can love someone and still work to deal with extern al issues like his parent especially maybe his dads lack of support. Did u not hear him say he has not been home since they went back. Love is shown. by action s not by merely sayin g it. He shows he loves her by his actions, and she loves him as well , so i am not sure what u are talking about as if u are naive!!
As a parent of a young lady married to a foreigner living in USA, I was shedding tears watching this video. However, I am glad you're better now and are joining hands to work together toward your future goal. Together you are stronger and can resist the storms of life journey. Continue talking and supporting each other and don't lose sight of why you are together. Take care of yourself and needs before others. I am so thankful and happy for your super progress moving forward. Stay strong and work together, if you fall it's okay, pull each other up and keep marching forward. God bless you and see you in the next video from USA! 🙏❤😍🤗💖
I don't judege by the color of the skin but the character of the person. My son and daughter are Chinese and American mixture. They married whom they wanted to with Lord's blessing.
I can see how much you love each other in your eyes. It's obvious that you are meant to be together. Don't let anything tear you apart. No matter how difficult it is. Couples fight all the time their whole life its normal. If you break up you might regret it and be miserable until the rest of your life. You both are always so happy in Africa and so tense and unhappy at home. Who is so cruel to give you such a hard time every time you there? You are such a sweet couple. Why make it so difficult for you just to be happy and to be in love. It's quite sad.
I know they always seem carefree and happy in African but seem more tense in China , but hopefully they will get used to staying in both and being as happy in both an not let others impinge on their happiness
Very well said 👍. You both have to fight for your love relationship. That's nothing difficult as long as you both love each other and together. Behind every successful man, there is a woman 🥰🥰
Such a positive, strong, uplifting comeback. So happy you came out of that dark place. You look more determined than ever to fight for your future. Go for it!!! 💪 You got this!!! 😎 Never Retreat!! Never Surrender!! Z + E 💚🌹💚
❤❤Good day Ziheng and Erica 🌹. Pleased to watch you again and hear what you had to say. Whatever the issues, fight them together and try best to be positive and, don't give up. Your love for each other is first and foremost, never let family or friends take the lead in your relationship. Stay safe guys, love you.❤🥰🙏🇯🇲
Wow😢thank Ziheng for being candid with us. I know the struggle is real, but so is the love both of you have for each other. There’s no relationship without ups and downs especially a😊 relationship like yours but I can tell you both love each other so keep up the good fight and love will win❤
LOVE WILL WIN . YOU TWO NICE COUPLE I HAVE BEING WATCHING YOU FOR A LONG TIME GUIDE AND LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER. YOU HAVE EACH OTHER .LET FAMILY GIVE YOU A BREAK ERICA SO YOU CAN THINK CLEARLY TO CREATE YOU OWN FUTURE AND FAMILY TOO. GOOD LUCK FOR A WONDERFUL FUTURE FOR YOU BOTH. L
Never give your enemy something that will make them happy stick together no matter what, when argument begins one of you should keep quiet and find a way to sit and talk , Princess please never nag stay calm and rather be quite when misunderstanding arises, above all don't give up over silly things, relationship doesn't have straight path it's very bumpy but enjoyable, keep yourselves positive and calm
Your love for each other and perseverance will keep you two together no matter the obstacles. God has given me a special gift. I see you two together until the end of life. There will be challenges, but none that you two will not overcome. There are babies and grandbabies coming to you two. Neither of you is parting with the other. The more the challenge, the stronger your love will grow for each other. Your love for each other is like no other. I have both your backs in prayer and positivity. Keep the fire burning. Nothing and no one can separate you two. Ziheng and Erica forever ❤❤
Like I said in the last video you uploaded, You two can do this, I’ve done it for 38 years and I’m still loving being with my husband despite outside influences - believe me we’ve had them. He’s white and I’m black we come from two different backgrounds but we’ve managed to make our marriage work for us and I must say, we’ve done a pretty good job. Please try, it’s not easy you’ll be faced with all types of prejudices but that’s on them not you. Wishing you all the love, blessings and prosperity 🕊💕.
Ziheng, you really impressed me in this video. I am happy Ericah has someone like you in her life. You are both helping each other become better people. May your love continue to grow stronger each and everyday. You have different personalities, but they work well together. There are a lot of Chinese and African couples that stay together and are happy. Do not give up if you truly care about each other.
Dear Erica & Ziheng, there are many mix race couple, including myself who strugles in the beginning against family members who thinks they know better whats good for you and home sickness. I moved from my country to another for love and a better future. Now we are married for 31years and have 3 handsome sons. My message to you is: hang in there. As long as Ziheng is choosing for you, dont mind others. Your bound must be strong and keep your faith. God wont put you in a situation you cant handle. Oh yes, I was 23 when I left home. If I can do it, you can also. Be strong Erica💪🏼💝. No weapon form against you will prosper❤❤❤
Same here , birracial couple, maŕried for 16 years, 2 beautiful children , i leave my country for him but it worth it. Be brave Erica, with such a mature man , you Will ɓe happy together.
You two love each other you can handle whatever comes your way be strong and continue working hard for your future together all will be well and don’t let anyone else in your circle of your happiness ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for making it clear,we are only praying for you guys,now that you're more determined to make it work,everything is going to be alright
Beautiful, just beautiful ! I have been for you guys from the beginning . Everything relationship has up and down, but you learn to get past every storm. I love you guys. I can't wait to see what the future holds for you both ❤❤❤❤
Am so happy you decide to fight for love,dont ever give up, keep on loving and supporting each other. Thank you Ziheng for the up date. The last time i saw you guys i was so worried. ❤
AAAAAWWWWWWWW ❤❤❤❤❤❤😭😭😭😭😭 OH GUYS. I am SO SO SO HAPPY for you. I know, trust me, i completely understand the pressure from different cultures, but Ziheng you are a strong and thorough man. You are taking the lead to give it everything you have to succeed. I think that is realistic and commendable! 😃 I can tell Erica loves you so very much. I know your families love you too, But in the end your families made the choices for them. You have to make your choices for you. Live strong! Fight hard so you have no regrets and you can say that you tried with everything you had. I'm so proud of both of you. You are so beautiful together and all of us are wishing you success and peace ❤❤❤❤
Zehing, I'm loving you more and more! Cherish each other. Family will come around and if not; you have to live for your good health and well being. Love communication and consideration covered with kindness, patience, endurance and forgiveness will help you on this journey together! Prayers going up! Stay strong!!
You both are very special, and I pray that God bless and give you both the strength to keep fighting. Be discerning with your decisions and will for one another. And I'm so proud of you both. 🌼 Blessings 🌼
Don't let anyone stop you from loving each other not mother father sister are brother If you love someone fight for that person you truly love.....believe me love will always prevail
Yoh I am so happy to hear that you are working on your problems. Now I can relax. We all were speculating, not knowing what the real problem was about. Please work harder and overcome whatever problems you are facing. With God nothing is impossible. We wish you the best, and will always support you. Thank you for sharing this with us. I was also happy to see your old friends. Greetings to them. Love you guys, my favorite couple. ❤❤❤
You think a few words from your mouth can magically fix their real-world issues? If you're so full of solutions, why not open your wallet instead? Perhaps a little financial support would be more convincing.
@@kevinz-nv8pgyou sound so bitter heal every post you parade your negativity being this bitter ain't good life is so short why waste it being bitter and bashful
I can see it has been a really challenging and emotional time for you too. Relationships can be really hard and even more so when you are from different countries. I am really cheering for you that everything works out and you can stay togetherness. Lots of love from London! Jai yu! 💪🏽💪🏽💕
Si vous vous aimez,il faut tout faire pour surmonter les obstacles, l'amour est plus fort et il n' y a pas de frontière. Dans un couple mixte,il y toujours des personnes jalouses ou intolérantes qui ne font que critiquer. Vivez votre vie en faisant attraction de ce qui se passe autour de vous.
Traveling to and from Africa and China every now and then is expensive. I suggest that you stay in China and travel around China. Another thing, don't blew out your money by buying things all the time. Concentrate on your uTube Channel and release a video often
This is heartfelt but there are jokes mixed in. Erica, Ziheng wants you to hold his hand, not to shake it! 😂 Hold his hand and squeeze it. It says ‘ don’t worry my love, I am not going anywhere!’. 😂😂❤
Waouh i didn t realize it either. Thanks for the translation.😅 She probably was surprised by his gentle manners because he used to avoid physical gestures.
I saw Ziheng was inlove with Erica the day he took her to meet his friend back in Tanzania and he did not want them touching her. The gentleman in red was watching a music video with them and he touched Erika's head to make sure she was the one on the music video and Ziheng was not impressed with him touching her on her head like that. It was love.
I knew when they went to see their Maasai friend. Erica was holding the purse so the speak and distribute the money. I knew that Ziheng fully trusted her and that they were a couple.
I know, and the same Chinese gentleman here was the same whose house they visited and when he greeted them held Erica’s hand and Ziheng said that’s enough and made him let go of Erica’s hands 😂😅😂
Wow ziheng I am so proud of you. Fighting for you and Erica's love and relationship. You are a good person and Erica is so understanding. I can see that you both love each other. I am praying everything goes well for you all ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Courage Erica and ziheng may God establish you people financially and may ur heart desires come to ast I support your couples ,journey despite all the challenges I pray 🙏 ur heart desires come to pass amen
Please please 🙏 Zheng and Erica, don't dare let us down. We are your followers, and we appreciate that we learnt a lot from your videos. Others have seen China for the first time in your videos. We pray that please just talk and work things out.Please stick together as usual.Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 🎉
I am so happy that you and Erica are back. I pray that the Lord Jesus will give you peace in all aspect of your lives May the Lord bless both of you abundantly.
You two are in a relationship. The two of you matter the most. Family is important, but is secondary. They should not be running your life. No cross cultural issues are insurmountable if you really love each other. I'd love to follow you years down the line through marriage, kids, etc. I hope Erica understands she has to set boundaries for her own family or they will end up destroying your relationship. Erica is smart and should protect you. I say the same thing to you, Ziheng. You work together, protect each other, and survive together.
Good to see the positive video. Keep on fighting for your love guys. Ziheng know that Erica is away from family in China you are her family and protector. Please take good care of her.
@@mmabe7577 It takes a happy person to be cheerful, and takes humbleness to show humility! Your question here shows you are a caring and loving person. God bless you! 🙏🙌
Hello Hi Ziheng and Erica love wins love conquers everything love endures keep on fighting you are very close to the winning points Communication is the key...thank you for sharing Erica supports ..you are both amazing and work hard to build your future indeed
Ziheng and Erica , i am happy for you both. Your fans were worried about you. First of all interracial relationships are not easy due to cultural differences. With love and respect, it works. Ziheng, i could tell you are good with business. If you can set a business for Erica's family in Tanzania so she will not worry. I know her parents are home old and provide for them. The sister has no job. The guilt of not able to help was creating the arguments. Now beautiful Erica, you are smart and young. 24 years is the time to plan your future. You are really blessed to have a man like Ziheng who love and cherish you. A lot of women your age will like to be in your shoes. Please be sensitive to his feelings and love him. You don't know what you have until you lose it. Please take this advice from 72 year old woman. Don't let his parents say i told you. I think they prefer their handsome son to marry a Chinese woman. This is the time to hold him tight. A lot of your fans are rooting for you both. Be blessed
Remember that in a relationship first you have to think about both of you... after that family ( Mom, Dad and siblings ) because in the end they are going to be used to it and accepting it too. In my humble opinion you two are in Love 💞 and deserve to be happy and successful. Sending lots of Blessings 🙏🏽🙋🏽♀️🌹 so you can conquer whatever is upsetting you both. ❤
stormy weather has over, keep sunny smile all the way, maybe let her have some jobs to do or attending some useful courses to occupy her busy easy to pass time, she is an intelligent girl,she can gain more knowledge about local cultures 🧡🧡
One love Ziheng and Erica please one love keep you guys together,,, Erica please try and understand what your hubby is trying to say okay God bless your home,,, don't let family problem distroye this relationship ok focus you guys is one know thirds parts ok
There other couples who make this a business this would help your high expenses, like Country wife Felista and her Sister Lawu, sponsored products. You are going to have to see how you build you and Erica… and once you are financially stable then can decide what you need to do. Erica is going to have to tell her family to stop with financial pressure while you figure it out. Formally learning Chinese will help Erica
I'm so happy to hear that you two are working it out. Two-way communication and the ability to remain compassionate, respectful, and understanding are the keys to a successful relationship. You may not always agree on everything, you may have misunderstandings, and become upset with each other from time to time. Cultural differences and family input can be challenging, but as long as you sincerely love each other and work hard, everything will be OK. I wish you love, happiness, and prosperity.❤
It’s great to see the two of you smiling again. 😊Relationships have highs, lows, valleys, and peaks. As long as you love each other , maintain good communication and work to understand each other’s feelings and needs you can make it work. Hopefully, you can win over your parents if you can show that you are committed and both moving forward in the same direction. In the end you can’t live your life only for what other family members may want because doing so will make you unhappy. You have to focus on what brings you joy and if it is the relationship you are in then of course you have to fight for it. It seems you have a lot of support out here . We are rooting for the two of you because you both appear to really love each other.❤ USA
Life is always not a bed of roses,just stay strong and face life challenges together and you guys will come stronger,we are here as your fans for better or worse
Y'all should learn to live your best life for yourselves and not for anyone else. No regrets. It's your life. You only get 1 chance. Remember life is short.
You know since Erica come into the picture,she use to be pushing behind Zehing all the time,and he always push her away,,now,,,,,, like she had enough and wants to go home to where she is not pushed away,,is now Zehing wants to fight,, Erica is tired of being push by him and his family, like she has no strength to hold anymore. But if it is true that he really cares for her, things could change for the best
Hi Ziheng & Erica! Please don't give up on the genuine love you both have for one another. Is there a way that both of you could stay in one country for 6 months and the other 6 months in another country to even out the expenses? I know how frequent travel expenses could really make an impact on finances. There should be financial planning for your future. God bless to both of you. Good luck. 🥰
It seems like the same problems kept coming back. The situation with your parents Ziheng should have been dealt with and left behind already. It’s simple, they have lived their lives now it’s time for you to live yours. If they love you they will eventually understand. Let it go and move on. As for Erica’s family wanting to know your intentions with her, it’s expected. They are sending their loved one halfway around the world where she doesn’t know a single person of course they are worried. By now you should know if Erica is the one you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. But you are not telling her that. You are actually putting a stipulation on your commitment to her. You are basically saying you will marry her only if you both can work hard and make a lot of money. If all marriage proposals are done this way, most people will not be married. You join together in love, work hard to make a living. If you have a lot you spend more, if you don’t you spend less. If I am given that kind of condition in order for somebody to marry me, I would just pack my bags and leave. Erica traveled across the world to be with you not knowing the language or anyone showed that she is completely committed to you, yet you put all sorts of conditions on her. Do you think that’s fair? Making her do things that is difficult for her. You cannot fit a square peg into a round hole. Why can’t Erica keep house for you while you concentrate on work. She can still appear in your videos like she’s doing now. You can tell that’s she’s all torn up not knowing what to do, and you are all stressed out. It’s really simple you either commit fully to her now or let her go while she’s still young and very able to move on. Just my opinion.✌️
You Just spoke the truth. It seems that he doesn t Known if he wants to marry her or not. She left her wonderful nieces, her beloved parents, her home, her sunny country, her culture Just to be with him, to Know him and his culture better ... and he s Just like maybe it s her or not ? She could be model in her country and with her beauty even marry a rich man .... but no, she fight for Ziheng Who Was somehow not like caring sisters ... but if he chooses to fight for her, helping her to be a mature woman able to say stop and becoming strong minded ... i agree with that ... she is pretty, smart, funny, Caring, faithful with her friends and family... and she s the cutest childish young woman i Know : she smiling at every move of love from ziheng even if it s just a waffle ... she s rare and precious. Ziheng is wonderful now showing his tenderness that she needs .We Knowles that Ziheng is generous, funny, serious and faithful too ... but a woman needs Words of love and commitment too. ❤We were so sad almost crying for both of you. THANKS FOR THE VIDEO AND YOUR LOVING SMILES. God bless you.
@@wy1737 then he shouldn't keep her in China as a girlfriend and getting all benefits of a wife 🤷🏿♀️ That's why I really admire the rural lifestyle of China. Those men are ziheng age and are very intentional about marrying their African girlfriends Watch Lawu in China, rose in China, felista in China
Wow, it's funny how Erica and Ziheng continue to resist the test. You two can handle it as long as you love each other. I hope your relationship will last and be happy in Every day. may god guide you and protect you always we love you erica and ziheng 🇵🇭❤❤
Very mature of you Ziheng. Hard work and better communication between the two of you will help a lot. My prayers goes to you and Erica. Keep friends and family out of your relationship politely ❤❤❤
Agreed totally, fight for your love. You 2 are very natural in your relationship. There is no pretence. Bless your relationship.
I like when Ziheng says; let's work hard for our future: I wish you all the best in your life ❤️ ♥️ ❤ from South Africa 🇿🇦
亲爱的子恒和艾丽卡，愿你们在困难时期继续坚强。祝你们好运，愿你们的爱情战胜一切。加油! ❤ Remember, this is YOUR life, and YOUR love and relationship, not anyone else's. Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I totally agree greetings from uk
Absolutely 💯 love conquers all and God is ❤
It was typhoon bebinca in shanghai n hangzou ,are you ok guys?
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The two of them have created magic for us to watch. I wish them all the best and they deserve eachother
This guy truly loves his Queen. Whatever the case, fight for your love. LOVE ALWAYS WINS. You have an army of fans behind, you can do this. Look at Meghan and Harry ♥🇬🇧
quel. amour. 😊 pas. une. seule fois. je. l ai. entendu. parler. d amour. seulement. de. travail.
@@eveillezbienetre549 you can love someone and still work to deal with extern al issues like his parent especially maybe his dads lack of support. Did u not hear him say he has not been home since they went back. Love is shown. by action s not by merely sayin g it. He shows he loves her by his actions, and she loves him as well , so i am not sure what u are talking about as if u are naive!!
@@professorc8202using her to earn money from TH-cam so if she using that money to send to her family it's okay too
@@professorc8202 arrêtez. de. vouloir. les mettre. en couple. le jeune. n a jamais. parler. d amour. je pense. qu il n ya. que. de l amitié entre. eux
@@eveillezbienetre549don't decreet they relationship Erica has said many times they are a couple
As a parent of a young lady married to a foreigner living in USA, I was shedding tears watching this video. However, I am glad you're better now and are joining hands to work together toward your future goal. Together you are stronger and can resist the storms of life journey. Continue talking and supporting each other and don't lose sight of why you are together. Take care of yourself and needs before others. I am so thankful and happy for your super progress moving forward. Stay strong and work together, if you fall it's okay, pull each other up and keep marching forward. God bless you and see you in the next video from USA! 🙏❤😍🤗💖
I totally agree. Greetings from uk
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Back at ya in UK! 🤗🙌
Falling and getting up again together makes both of you stronger in your relationship.
I don't judege by the color of the skin but the character of the person. My son and daughter are Chinese and American mixture. They married whom they wanted to with Lord's blessing.
These guys should visit UK and USA
I can see how much you love each other in your eyes. It's obvious that you are meant to be together. Don't let anything tear you apart. No matter how difficult it is. Couples fight all the time their whole life its normal. If you break up you might regret it and be miserable until the rest of your life. You both are always so happy in Africa and so tense and unhappy at home. Who is so cruel to give you such a hard time every time you there? You are such a sweet couple. Why make it so difficult for you just to be happy and to be in love. It's quite sad.
I know they always seem carefree and happy in African but seem more tense in China , but hopefully they will get used to staying in both and being as happy in both an not let others impinge on their happiness
子恆你好👋我很担心你俩在一起的感覺！真希望一切安好！願上帝保佑你一切平安喜樂，真心希望你們俩的愛情永恆不變！幸福健康快樂美滿。
Very well said 👍. You both have to fight for your love relationship. That's nothing difficult as long as you both love each other and together. Behind every successful man, there is a woman 🥰🥰
子恒，听你说话让我泪流满面，我问自己很多问题，为什么外力总能带来良好的关系。我们都是人，爱是没有界限的。永远记住，我们在为你们俩祈祷。艾丽卡总是寻求上帝的庇护，尽你所能善待每一个人。你们俩都应该努力工作，为更好的未来做打算。中国父母喜欢儿子勤劳的妻子。中国有很多机会。子恒和你可以和任何公司签约，用你做他们的正面形象等等。不要大手大脚地花钱，也不要给朋友和家人买东西。让他们给你钱。在坦桑尼亚和中国之间做生意。你很熟练。子恒，我很高兴你能和我们分享。你是今年的风云人物。坚持下去，对大家庭成员闭上眼睛，竖起耳朵，总有一天他们会理解你们俩的。没有人能把真爱分开。上帝所结合的，人不能分开。不要着急。一天一天地过。永远快乐！❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Beautiful, well said dear
你似乎忘记了，子恒的生意是在非洲卖中国的羽绒服，如果没有视频流量收入，你觉得他能潇洒到今天吗
@@kevinz-nv8pg 如果他自己组织起来，他就能成功。他们俩都可以和夹克厂签约，成为他们产品的代言人，并在全球销售。这里的许多粉丝会愿意光顾他们。中国父母首先担心的是物质，然后才是爱情，对他们来说，爱情不能养家糊口。他们必须先用这些来证明自己，然后才能继续前进。
Very powerful words, well said.
The beautiful of words
Such a positive, strong, uplifting comeback.
So happy you came out of that dark place.
You look more determined than ever to
fight for your future. Go for it!!! 💪
You got this!!! 😎
Never Retreat!! Never Surrender!!
Z + E 💚🌹💚
Read the comments and you’ll see how much love and support that’s out here for you two. Peace ✌🏽.
❤❤Good day Ziheng and Erica 🌹. Pleased to watch you again and hear what you had to say. Whatever the issues, fight them together and try best to be positive and, don't give up. Your love for each other is first and foremost, never let family or friends take the lead in your relationship. Stay safe guys, love you.❤🥰🙏🇯🇲
Wow😢thank Ziheng for being candid with us. I know the struggle is real, but so is the love both of you have for each other. There’s no relationship without ups and downs especially a😊 relationship like yours but I can tell you both love each other so keep up the good fight and love will win❤
子恆，我是在你的第一個視頻節目出來時就每一集都會關注到現在，拍攝🎬的視頻非常好我很喜歡看。希望加油拍攝出更美妙絕倫的愛情故事。
吵架沒啥最重要的兩個人再一起 磨合很正常! 同鄉的人都會磨合了更何況異國 我妹夫也是非洲幾內亞人妹妹也是會跟妹夫磨合 但是他們磨合三四年有混血寶寶了 祝福你們 磨合相通過後就是幸福
看得出來小艾的心裏傷痛，子恒要多愛她－點，希望你們白頭偕老。❤
Thank you guys I'm relieved today please try harder everything is going to be okay
Greetings and blessings to you Ziheng and Erica! Super happy to see you two looking much better and smiling. Stay strong and persevere together!❤👍😍🙌
子恒👩❤️💋👨艾瑞卡你们两一定要好好的ok, 永远在一起💕 加油💪🏻
LOVE WILL WIN . YOU TWO NICE COUPLE I HAVE BEING WATCHING YOU FOR A LONG TIME
GUIDE AND LOVE AND RESPECT EACH OTHER. YOU HAVE EACH OTHER .LET FAMILY GIVE YOU A BREAK ERICA SO YOU CAN THINK CLEARLY TO CREATE YOU OWN FUTURE AND FAMILY TOO. GOOD LUCK FOR A WONDERFUL FUTURE FOR YOU BOTH.
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Exactement rester ensemble quoi qu'il arrive battez-vous et ça ira soutenez-vous.❤❤❤
Yes 👍👍👍
But try to get her company so she advertises for then that they can use her photos on products that go usually to Africa
Love always wins! Don’t give up! You two are perfect for each other
Never give your enemy something that will make them happy stick together no matter what, when argument begins one of you should keep quiet and find a way to sit and talk , Princess please never nag stay calm and rather be quite when misunderstanding arises, above all don't give up over silly things, relationship doesn't have straight path it's very bumpy but enjoyable, keep yourselves positive and calm
Your love for each other and perseverance will keep you two together no matter the obstacles. God has given me a special gift. I see you two together until the end of life. There will be challenges, but none that you two will not overcome. There are babies and grandbabies coming to you two. Neither of you is parting with the other. The more the challenge, the stronger your love will grow for each other. Your love for each other is like no other. I have both your backs in prayer and positivity. Keep the fire burning. Nothing and no one can separate you two. Ziheng and Erica forever ❤❤
子恒❤艾瑞卡，希望你們兩永遠在一起，一切順利！努力加油！加油！❤❤❤
Like I said in the last video you uploaded, You two can do this, I’ve done it for 38 years and I’m still loving being with my husband despite outside influences - believe me we’ve had them. He’s white and I’m black we come from two different backgrounds but we’ve managed to make our marriage work for us and I must say, we’ve done a pretty good job. Please try, it’s not easy you’ll be faced with all types of prejudices but that’s on them not you. Wishing you all the love, blessings and prosperity 🕊💕.
Your kids are going to be so cute in the future 💜💜💜💜💜💜
相遇在天，相守在人，陪伴是最長情的告白，時间会告訴你们，简单的喜歡最長远，平凡的陪伴，是心安，慬得你的人，最温暖，祝福你們❤❤，加油🤜🤛
Lovely beautiful Erica and handsome Ziheng ❤❤❤ forever .... be happy!
Ziheng, you really impressed me in this video. I am happy Ericah has someone like you in her life. You are both helping each other become better people. May your love continue to grow stronger each and everyday. You have different personalities, but they work well together.
There are a lot of Chinese and African couples that stay together and are happy. Do not give up if you truly care about each other.
Dear Erica & Ziheng, there are many mix race couple, including myself who strugles in the beginning against family members who thinks they know better whats good for you and home sickness. I moved from my country to another for love and a better future. Now we are married for 31years and have 3 handsome sons. My message to you is: hang in there. As long as Ziheng is choosing for you, dont mind others. Your bound must be strong and keep your faith. God wont put you in a situation you cant handle. Oh yes, I was 23 when I left home. If I can do it, you can also. Be strong Erica💪🏼💝. No weapon form against you will prosper❤❤❤
Same here , birracial couple, maŕried for 16 years, 2 beautiful children , i leave my country for him but it worth it. Be brave Erica, with such a mature man , you Will ɓe happy together.
She's so pretty. Once was your English teacher!
You two love each other you can handle whatever comes your way be strong and continue working hard for your future together all will be well and don’t let anyone else in your circle of your happiness ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for making it clear,we are only praying for you guys,now that you're more determined to make it work,everything is going to be alright
Elle est trop belle les cheveux détachés waouh
I am rooting for you both to succeed in your relationship, to overcome all obstacles, and to have a bright future together. "JIAYOU"!👍🏿
Can't stop smiling 😊seeing you guys happiness 😊
艾瑞卡是一位懂得知書達理的女孩，往後你們生的孩子智商決對蠻高的，子恆你們倆夫妻要加油，對自己要有信心。
❤❤❤❤🎉
Beautiful, just beautiful ! I have been for you guys from the beginning . Everything relationship has up and down, but you learn to get past every storm. I love you guys. I can't wait to see what the future holds for you both ❤❤❤❤
Am so happy you decide to fight for love,dont ever give up, keep on loving and supporting each other. Thank you Ziheng for the up date. The last time i saw you guys i was so worried. ❤
I couldn’t imagine the pressures both of you had encountered! Work hard together, don’t give up!
He finds calm in her,hd sees his mom in her ❤
AAAAAWWWWWWWW ❤❤❤❤❤❤😭😭😭😭😭 OH GUYS. I am SO SO SO HAPPY for you. I know, trust me, i completely understand the pressure from different cultures, but Ziheng you are a strong and thorough man. You are taking the lead to give it everything you have to succeed. I think that is realistic and commendable! 😃
I can tell Erica loves you so very much. I know your families love you too, But in the end your families made the choices for them. You have to make your choices for you.
Live strong! Fight hard so you have no regrets and you can say that you tried with everything you had. I'm so proud of both of you.
You are so beautiful together and all of us are wishing you success and peace ❤❤❤❤
希望愛情能戰勝一切！祝福你們！❤
子恒❤艾瑞卡，我們非常愛你們兩，加油！加油！❤❤❤
Ziheng you're a comedian. The day you mature and respect Erika your relationship will grow.
不要介意别人怎么看，初心不忘，放得始终。
If you love each other, Please don't loose that chance nobody is perfect in this world ❤❤
Agree there no perfect person in this world.
Thanks!
Zehing, I'm loving you more and more! Cherish each other. Family will come around and if not; you have to live for your good health and well being. Love communication and consideration covered with kindness, patience, endurance and forgiveness will help you on this journey together! Prayers going up! Stay strong!!
有担当有责任，子恒是个爷们！
爷们如果挣不来钱，也是废物。
You both are very special, and I pray that God bless and give you both the strength to keep fighting.
Be discerning with your decisions and will for one another. And I'm so proud of you both.
🌼 Blessings 🌼
Don't let anyone stop you from loving each other not mother father sister are brother If you love someone fight for that person you truly love.....believe me love will always prevail
Yoh I am so happy to hear that you are working on your problems. Now I can relax. We all were speculating, not knowing what the real problem was about. Please work harder and overcome whatever problems you are facing. With God nothing is impossible. We wish you the best, and will always support you. Thank you for sharing this with us. I was also happy to see your old friends. Greetings to them. Love you guys, my favorite couple. ❤❤❤
You think a few words from your mouth can magically fix their real-world issues? If you're so full of solutions, why not open your wallet instead? Perhaps a little financial support would be more convincing.
Well I meant well with my words. Do you have any issues with that?@@kevinz-nv8pg
@@kevinz-nv8pgyou sound so bitter heal every post you parade your negativity being this bitter ain't good life is so short why waste it being bitter and bashful
@@kevinz-nv8pgI would to see your friends I feel pitty to them they should know you better 🤦
I can see it has been a really challenging and emotional time for you too. Relationships can be really hard and even more so when you are from different countries. I am really cheering for you that everything works out and you can stay togetherness. Lots of love from London! Jai yu! 💪🏽💪🏽💕
看看这么多粉丝支持你们，说明你俩真的很般配。但凡粉丝不喜欢其中一个，肯定会骂声一片。粉丝支持你们俩就是最有力的证明，坚强一点，为了自己的幸福。外人的话不要入耳！
Yes 99% of fans support you ❤❤❤
你不是外人吗？
Si vous vous aimez,il faut tout faire pour surmonter les obstacles, l'amour est plus fort et il n' y a pas de frontière. Dans un couple mixte,il y toujours des personnes jalouses ou intolérantes qui ne font que critiquer. Vivez votre vie en faisant attraction de ce qui se passe autour de vous.
Traveling to and from Africa and China every now and then is expensive. I suggest that you stay in China and travel around China. Another thing, don't blew out your money by buying things all the time. Concentrate on your uTube Channel and release a video often
This is heartfelt but there are jokes mixed in. Erica, Ziheng wants you to hold his hand, not to shake it! 😂 Hold his hand and squeeze it. It says ‘ don’t worry my love, I am not going anywhere!’. 😂😂❤
Waouh i didn t realize it either. Thanks for the translation.😅 She probably was surprised by his gentle manners because he used to avoid physical gestures.
@@ewanbreizh5675that’s true. She was caught off guard. 😄
Keep fighting for your love guys ❤❤❤wish you all the best
I saw Ziheng was inlove with Erica the day he took her to meet his friend back in Tanzania and he did not want them touching her. The gentleman in red was watching a music video with them and he touched Erika's head to make sure she was the one on the music video and Ziheng was not impressed with him touching her on her head like that. It was love.
Oh I have to see that video 😂
I concur with you
I knew when they went to see their Maasai friend. Erica was holding the purse so the speak and distribute the money. I knew that Ziheng fully trusted her and that they were a couple.
I know, and the same Chinese gentleman here was the same whose house they visited and when he greeted them held Erica’s hand and Ziheng said that’s enough and made him let go of Erica’s hands 😂😅😂
Wow ziheng I am so proud of you. Fighting for you and Erica's love and relationship. You are a good person and Erica is so understanding. I can see that you both love each other. I am praying everything goes well for you all ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Courage Erica and ziheng may God establish you people financially and may ur heart desires come to ast I support your couples ,journey despite all the challenges I pray 🙏 ur heart desires come to pass amen
Erica boyfriend very respectful and understand there heritage as well as his very kind
If you can get through the tough times, then after it becomes easier. Praying for you guys!
Please please 🙏 Zheng and Erica, don't dare let us down. We are your followers, and we appreciate that we learnt a lot from your videos. Others have seen China for the first time in your videos. We pray that please just talk and work things out.Please stick together as usual.Much love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🙏 🙌 ❤️ 🎉
Kweli, yani ni kama Romeo na Juliet.Mimi nawapenda sana❤
用真誠及行動說服反對的人
❤ It may help if you are able to meet other couples like yourself to learn how they handle the pressure. Good luck. We are on your side ❤
I am so happy that you and Erica are back. I pray that the Lord Jesus will give you peace in all aspect of your lives
May the Lord bless both of you abundantly.
Amen
Amen
Amen
You two are in a relationship. The two of you matter the most. Family is important, but is secondary. They should not be running your life. No cross cultural issues are insurmountable if you really love each other. I'd love to follow you years down the line through marriage, kids, etc. I hope Erica understands she has to set boundaries for her own family or they will end up destroying your relationship. Erica is smart and should protect you. I say the same thing to you, Ziheng. You work together, protect each other, and survive together.
Good to see the positive video. Keep on fighting for your love guys. Ziheng know that Erica is away from family in China you are her family and protector. Please take good care of her.
跨种族关系并不容易，在社交媒体上的情况要糟糕十倍，你们一定不要面临很多挑战，你们需要团结起来，不要轻易被打破，保持坚强
需要用力维系的关系，任何的风吹草动，都会导致其迅速土崩瓦解
@@kevinz-nv8pg Have you got love in your life? you seem to be jealous.
@@mmabe7577
It takes a happy person to be cheerful, and takes humbleness to show humility! Your question here shows you are a caring and loving person. God bless you! 🙏🙌
@@mmabe7577 You're just a barking mad dog, off your leash.
@@kevinz-nv8pg 你无处不在
😊I'm happy onwards we go ..Wishing you all the best Loves❤❤
Hello Hi Ziheng and Erica love wins love conquers everything love endures keep on fighting you are very close to the winning points Communication is the key...thank you for sharing Erica supports ..you are both amazing and work hard to build your future indeed
雨过天晴，好好保持良好心态过日子，最好讓Erica 有点事惜做或者上课学习好过日子，增加知识 ，她是一位聰明女孩子👍🧡
It's not easy. I don't know about China, but in America, you have to marry before you get the privilege of going to school or work.
Yes at the end love always win.
Je suis si heureuse de vous écouter ! Lamour a gagné !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Trop bon de vous entendre rire Ziheng et Erica .
I totally agree here! 👍
Ziheng and Erica , i am happy for you both. Your fans were worried about you. First of all interracial relationships are not easy due to cultural differences. With love and respect, it works. Ziheng, i could tell you are good with business. If you can set a business for Erica's family in Tanzania so she will not worry. I know her parents are home old and provide for them. The sister has no job. The guilt of not able to help was creating the arguments. Now beautiful Erica, you are smart and young. 24 years is the time to plan your future. You are really blessed to have a man like Ziheng who love and cherish you. A lot of women your age will like to be in your shoes. Please be sensitive to his feelings and love him. You don't know what you have until you lose it. Please take this advice from 72 year old woman. Don't let his parents say i told you. I think they prefer their handsome son to marry a Chinese woman. This is the time to hold him tight. A lot of your fans are rooting for you both. Be blessed
Remember that in a relationship first you have to think about both of you... after that family ( Mom, Dad and siblings ) because in the end they are going to be used to it and accepting it too. In my humble opinion you two are in Love 💞 and deserve to be happy and successful. Sending lots of Blessings 🙏🏽🙋🏽♀️🌹 so you can conquer whatever is upsetting you both. ❤
God bless.. Prayers for you both❤️❤️❤️🇵🇷😘🙏
stormy weather has over, keep sunny smile all the way, maybe let her have some jobs to do or attending some useful courses to occupy her busy easy to pass time, she is an intelligent girl,she can gain more knowledge about local cultures 🧡🧡
One love
Ziheng and Erica please one love keep you guys together,,, Erica please try and understand what your hubby is trying to say okay God bless your home,,, don't let family problem distroye this relationship ok focus you guys is one know thirds parts ok
I'm happy for you guys may God continue kiping you together for rever ❤
Thank you so much ziheng and erica I am very happy I love this video both
There other couples who make this a business this would help your high expenses, like Country wife Felista and her Sister Lawu, sponsored products. You are going to have to see how you build you and Erica… and once you are financially stable then can decide what you need to do. Erica is going to have to tell her family to stop with financial pressure while you figure it out. Formally learning Chinese will help Erica
Keep pushing. You got this .
I'm so happy to hear that you two are working it out. Two-way communication and the ability to remain compassionate, respectful, and understanding are the keys to a successful relationship. You may not always agree on everything, you may have misunderstandings, and become upset with each other from time to time. Cultural differences and family input can be challenging, but as long as you sincerely love each other and work hard, everything will be OK. I wish you love, happiness, and prosperity.❤
It’s great to see the two of you smiling again. 😊Relationships have highs, lows, valleys, and peaks. As long as you love each other , maintain good communication and work to understand each other’s feelings and needs you can make it work. Hopefully, you can win over your parents if you can show that you are committed and both moving forward in the same direction. In the end you can’t live your life only for what other family members may want because doing so will make you unhappy. You have to focus on what brings you joy and if it is the relationship you are in then of course you have to fight for it. It seems you have a lot of support out here . We are rooting for the two of you because you both appear to really love each other.❤ USA
Happy for your dears. With love you will pass all the tests.
Life is always not a bed of roses,just stay strong and face life challenges together and you guys will come stronger,we are here as your fans for better or worse
你们很般配，一辈子遇到一个自己真正喜欢的人不容易。以后的生活是你们两个人的，外人反对只是因为面子，比方说你的父母，但酸甜苦辣咸却是你们两个人尝，他们就是外人。不要让外人干扰你们的幸福，自己够坚强，外人都是浮云。祝福你们！
Y'all should learn to live your best life for yourselves and not for anyone else. No regrets. It's your life. You only get 1 chance. Remember life is short.
Ziheng and erica fight for your love. God blessed you
You know since Erica come into the picture,she use to be pushing behind Zehing all the time,and he always push her away,,now,,,,,, like she had enough and wants to go home to where she is not pushed away,,is now Zehing wants to fight,, Erica is tired of being push by him and his family, like she has no strength to hold anymore. But if it is true that he really cares for her, things could change for the best
Hi Ziheng & Erica! Please don't give up on the genuine love you both have for one another. Is there a way that both of you could stay in one country for 6 months and the other 6 months in another country to even out the expenses? I know how frequent travel expenses could really make an impact on finances. There should be financial planning for your future. God bless to both of you. Good luck. 🥰
It seems like the same problems kept coming back. The situation with your parents Ziheng should have been dealt with and left behind already. It’s simple, they have lived their lives now it’s time for you to live yours. If they love you they will eventually understand. Let it go and move on.
As for Erica’s family wanting to know your intentions with her, it’s expected. They are sending their loved one halfway around the world where she doesn’t know a single person of course they are worried.
By now you should know if Erica is the one you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. But you are not telling her that. You are actually putting a stipulation on your commitment to her. You are basically saying you will marry her only if you both can work hard and make a lot of money. If all marriage proposals are done this way, most people will not be married. You join together in love, work hard to make a living. If you have a lot you spend more, if you don’t you spend less. If I am given that kind of condition in order for somebody to marry me, I would just pack my bags and leave.
Erica traveled across the world to be with you not knowing the language or anyone showed that she is completely committed to you, yet you put all sorts of conditions on her. Do you think that’s fair? Making her do things that is difficult for her. You cannot fit a square peg into a round hole. Why can’t Erica keep house for you while you concentrate on work. She can still appear in your videos like she’s doing now. You can tell that’s she’s all torn up not knowing what to do, and you are all stressed out. It’s really simple you either commit fully to her now or let her go while she’s still young and very able to move on. Just my opinion.✌️
Yes he even said her sister is asking what his intentions are ? Marry her or set a time of when she can do this back and forth across Africa
You Just spoke the truth. It seems that he doesn t Known if he wants to marry her or not. She left her wonderful nieces, her beloved parents, her home, her sunny country, her culture Just to be with him, to Know him and his culture better ... and he s Just like maybe it s her or not ? She could be model in her country and with her beauty even marry a rich man .... but no, she fight for Ziheng Who Was somehow not like caring sisters ... but if he chooses to fight for her, helping her to be a mature woman able to say stop and becoming strong minded ... i agree with that ... she is pretty, smart, funny, Caring, faithful with her friends and family... and she s the cutest childish young woman i Know : she smiling at every move of love from ziheng even if it s just a waffle ... she s rare and precious. Ziheng is wonderful now showing his tenderness that she needs .We Knowles that Ziheng is generous, funny, serious and faithful too ... but a woman needs Words of love and commitment too. ❤We were so sad almost crying for both of you. THANKS FOR THE VIDEO AND YOUR LOVING SMILES. God bless you.
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@@highlyfavored2434Erica's family is push him getting marry to Erica, it is not appropriate.
@@wy1737 then he shouldn't keep her in China as a girlfriend and getting all benefits of a wife 🤷🏿♀️
That's why I really admire the rural lifestyle of China. Those men are ziheng age and are very intentional about marrying their African girlfriends
Watch Lawu in China, rose in China, felista in China
Well done Ziheng and Erica we love u and will support u guys in your relationship all will be very much well with u ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
Please work through it. We love y’all together.
I hope you both stay together you both are such a sweet couple and deserve happiness ❤
What a nice man respectful and caring, just follow your heart and your love towards erika will last forever❤❤
❤❤❤子恆、艾瑞卡、加油！💪❤❤❤