Sadly, there are people who are drawn to someone's light not just because they're takers but because their only intention is to extinguish that light. Take good care of yourselves, beautiful souls! 🙏
Pile #2… a wonderful charming and gentle man was brought into my awareness through both our pursuits of music. We’ve been friends for months and he recently offered to help me with a musical project of mine. Every time I’m with him I feel butterflies beyond belief… he posted a song recently that I think was for me. Was so sweet. I feel like he really sees me and it’s intimidating. He lent me a book and sent me a documentary about a musician who writes love songs. I’m coming out of a season of let downs and heartbreak but also tremendous growth. Absolutely terrified but also so encouraged to see what may come from this. The only thing holding me back is myself. Thank you Jenny, your readings have brought so much comfort and support to me throughout the years I’ve been following you ❤❤❤
Hello Beautifuls - was very drawn to Pile 2. Something very very interested was occurring throughout the entire reading ( & continues as I write this). I am sitting in my car at a park with my windows half down. I get signs and signals ALL the time from nature and animals & insects. Especially the winged ones. I can usually decipher the symbology. Going to have to reflect with this one... A female Yellow rumped warbler ( yes, I had to look that up) has been sitting right next to my window on the car to the right of me side mirror and every few seconds flying into the side mirror and poking at it wirh her little beak. Then she'll look at me, rest and go again this has been going on for nearly an hour. There are two initially funny things about this (as in the Flourish card in the reading, Happy laughter & well being)... 1) the nickname for this bird is " butter butt" 😁& 2) the woman's car that she is poking the mirror of, is someone who has been kind of nasty and gossipy about me on several occasions - the bird has seriously dinged the mirror - it's all scratched up. I don't know, it would be magical.if I looked at it again and the butter butt had literally written something out 🤣🤣🤣 Anyway, I was in need of serious upliftment today. I feel SEEN & understood by you Jenny, from this reading, as well as many of your readings, and it's truly helpful & special. I am so grateful to be a part of your community! Sending my LOVE to you and all! 🩷🙏💜🕊🫶 💖🐦⬛🩵🩷🕊💜🪽🫶
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Love all 3, different perspectives of a lovers/family 3 way dynamic playing out in my present. As always, you're the best Jenny at helping me to muddle through the confusion with grace!
Group 2 I'd love to reach out but spirit tells me I have to wait for him to make the first move. When I last saw him, he looked like he was with someone else so it works be unethical for me to say anything
Pile Two Can’t think who this is, but it sounds lovely. Scared of being seen and others being drawn to my light rings true. So fingers crossed enough battery 🪫 drainers. Thank you, Jenny 🙏
Oh, Jenny I chose Pile #1 and really had a giggle when you pulled the Star card and then revealed her with stars covering her nudity. I love you and your gentle spirit. Thank You! Blessings!
pile 1 - spot on to my condition right now ...had a sudden altercation with my best friend .. not speaking for past 15 days .. stalemate ..suddenly apart you are very talented .. thank you for the reading
#2 reading is 100% spot on and my person is my current manager. It's funny we had a similar conversation just a few days ago!! She really is truly a wonderful person with tons of knowledge and wisdom. And you were spot on with me having to get over my fears. Thank you. Namaste ❤😊
I feel very related to pile #1. In fact I’ve been mentally stranded in the aftermath of calling an end to this love relationship for more than half a year now. I thank for myself of the effort done to continue on my own path but it was just so much pain. We were very different persons but so alike too that we sort of all wish our partners to “come to us” and indeed it is the hardest thing to do in the adult world when coming to two independent souls. I’m very very grateful to hear your reading on birthday 🫶🏻🌻I’m now feeling breathing with ease again ❤️🩹
🙏⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️🙏 Loved your reading and especially your voice. It's very soothing.... I use it as ASMR could say. Haha. And at the same time I get a reading! 🙏⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️🙏
Pile # 2 the said he is married to another person so even if we both want it. It’s not possible until he makes the decision to leave the partnership. However I am very happy to be friends.
Beautiful Jenny!!! I've been wanting to ask if you would do a reading about how do we access/unlock our creativity? Or what channel do we channel the Divine on? Your sweet voice is coaxing me out of my hermit hidey-hole. Much appreciation and tremendous love--❤
Sorry!-This has to do with the moon energy update-I wrote there but no answer-Maybe it's just me-but I couldn't get the times given to go with the information offered-before it was really clear because you would say the date and what was happening on that particular moon phase-I would always keep this and watch it as the month progressed-but I don't quite know how to use it now-can anyone help?-I always relied on this a lot!-I also couldn’t find when the runes and cards were pulled.
@@philipshannon1 bless you, I am putting yoga pdf with all the information for the coming month, I'll post how to access this, with love and blessings Jenny xx 🙏
@@MoonMagicWeeklyTarot Thank you!-because I use the energy update throughout the month and it would be a loss not to have it!-will this include the cards and runes too?-I hope so!
Pile 3, I don’t know what’s been going on but he’s more and more erratic and toxic. What ever I do and I come from a place of love he is unfair and the behaviour like ignoring of being unreasonable in expectation is getting worse. Whilst I’m normally very patient this repeated behaviour has affected no so much I’m up in arms about it. I rang yesterday and asked him to call me so we can talk and got no response. I tried again late in the evening as I could see he was on line. Again he plays dead and just lets the phone go to voicemail. It’s so disrespectful that it now has me unable to ignore it and needing a calm and balanced conversation. I’m normally the advocate for everyone with unfairness. Now I find myself having to step up for me. I’ve given many chances due to caring deeply and knowing he is going through a tough time. 3 weeks ago I was struggling with my hormones again and expressed the fear and vulnerability this gives me. He had a go and accused me of putting my issues on him which wasn’t doing. I was merely sharing how much I was struggling. Yet he then offered a co worker to meet her for a sauna (which was our thing) to listen to her tale of woe, having already told me repeatedly what a pain she is and how she brought all this on herself, during time we’d agreed we’d do things for us. He’d also said he’d step back from his toxic work environment yet doesn’t keep his word. It’s soul destroying as he careers from one thing to another yet changes his opinion and shows up differently and inconsistently moment to moment. There’s no consultation or communication, which is very hard. I don’t think he has sight of his behaviour. He was due to move in with me in January. I hope he can see the light and also hear the truthful words, that changes are needed and falling into his previous way of relating from his destructive marriage hurts everyone and serves no one. I’ve felt hopeless and struggling to advocate for myself, as he is so emotionally volatile. I start counselling today and I so welcome being able to talk to someone who is stable and objective and find a constructive way to a solution. In normally very good as a fair and honourable person but here, he is just unreasonable and it’s very challenging. We have many past lives together we were married or together as lovers in at least 3 of them. I think I’m just not that sort of person that will behave like that, where as his upbringing he hasn’t learnt that we should care about others and support them when they struggle if they are important to us. He is attentive to those he isn’t in a relationship with but for the person he’s with he seems to not even see them. Very hard. Thank you for your calm wise words Jenny.
💜🤍 I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can relate much of what you describe.. you come to a point when enough is enough. Continue to stand up for yourself and take care of your emotional needs. It's not fair to behave like that and as you say in any relationship you should not be made too feel that whenever you need support or going through something the other person ignores you while at the same time you see they put so much into work or other relationships.. dismissive avoidant and sadly it's on seems close to covert narcissistic behaviour...and if not that imatureeand selfish..this kind of relationship is gonna work then the other person really has to step up and want to chance and take ownership of their toxic was,you can't save them at the expence of your own wellbeing ❤ You seem very aware. Take good care of yourself and see your worth. Good luck I wish you much love and all the best 🙏🏻🌟 what matters the most is how you feel and that you should feel valued loved and respected. I hope you get the support you deserve 💖 and that things turn out in a fair way for you
It’s hard because I always advocate for others and am not a passive person. I’m sorry you’ve had to experience this sort of treatment before too. I have no interest in being any way other than transparent, clear, supportive and caring. It has shocked me given how much support this person needs that the few times I’ve asked for help I’ve been treated like I’m a drama fiend and asking for too much. I give everything and the slightest thing I need is more often treated like an unreasonable request. You’re right. He has to save himself. I hope you are in a good place and so appreciate such an empathetic and insightful reply. Wishing you all the love in the world and so much respect. I guess in a way I can’t loose. However I care very deeply and would like him to wake up. However I cannot live in the environment he creates currently so big changes need to happen. Bless you and thank you for this 💚🌱💚
@@alchemy8Beautiful soul! THANK YOU as well 💚I'm glad me reaching out gave you some form of validation and feeling of care. I get it as an empath this is common we are naturally very caring always trying to be fair and honest and we feel things deeper so it can be hard to grasp that others can be so narrow sometimes and all we really need is the same authentic care understanding in return..as you say either way you can't loose. There is always something to learn from every person and situation 🤍🍀 that's the blessing when we choose to heal.. Thank You I am starting to feel more empowered but of course there is that part that wish the other person choose to wake up. But that's up to them and Divine..if they show real progress and love then we can choose to grow together but it take 2 to tango 😊No matter what it's about loving ourselves in the process and to have grace for ourselves. And releese judgement and the pain that we have carried so we can be free 🕊️ praying for the highest good of all. You know in your heart what is the best for YOU and whatever you choose you can't loose. YES.🌻💚💜🍀🌄
@ I’m an empathetic too. It took me years to learn that what I was feeling weren’t my own feelings. I so appreciate your brightness. I guess I got weary and doubted myself but I am seeing clearer now. My philosophy is always be kind. Be kind cos it’s the right thing not because I anticipate appreciation or any return. You altruistic considered response is beautiful and I am glad that you feel more empowered. Please know how much you taking time from you day, means to me. In light and for the best and highest good. Thank you friend. 💞
Jenny .. pile 3... And I literally sent a message to this person asking if they were having trouble finding balance with me... and fully anticipating a conversation before the day ends .. thank you for the validation in my request... 😄🖤🩶🤍
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Sadly, there are people who are drawn to someone's light not just because they're takers but because their only intention is to extinguish that light. Take good care of yourselves, beautiful souls! 🙏
Thanks
Sooooo true 😢
Pile #2… a wonderful charming and gentle man was brought into my awareness through both our pursuits of music. We’ve been friends for months and he recently offered to help me with a musical project of mine. Every time I’m with him I feel butterflies beyond belief… he posted a song recently that I think was for me. Was so sweet. I feel like he really sees me and it’s intimidating. He lent me a book and sent me a documentary about a musician who writes love songs. I’m coming out of a season of let downs and heartbreak but also tremendous growth. Absolutely terrified but also so encouraged to see what may come from this. The only thing holding me back is myself. Thank you Jenny, your readings have brought so much comfort and support to me throughout the years I’ve been following you ❤❤❤
Go for it girl.... He's into you... good luck ❤
Thank you for Pile 2. So resonates😊❤
# 2 was a lovely reading that i really hope comes to pass, thank you Jenny xx
Pile 3 totally totally totally resonates & i hav just listened 5 mins only.. U my dear Jenny are Blessed ❤❤❤
Pile 3, Thank you so much Jenny? Really reasonated ❤
Pile 3 and thanks for this interesting and straight forward reading.
Thank you for such in depth readings! Pile 2💞🌴🍀🤍☁️ and 3🏜️💜💎⚖️🙏🏻☀️
Hello Beautifuls - was very drawn to Pile 2. Something very very interested was occurring throughout the entire reading ( & continues as I write this). I am sitting in my car at a park with my windows half down.
I get signs and signals ALL the time from nature and animals & insects. Especially the winged ones. I can usually decipher the symbology. Going to have to reflect with this one...
A female Yellow rumped warbler ( yes, I had to look that up) has been sitting right next to my window on the car to the right of me
side mirror and every few seconds flying into the side mirror and poking at it wirh her little beak. Then she'll look at me, rest and go again this has been going on for nearly an hour.
There are two initially funny things about this (as in the Flourish card in the reading, Happy laughter & well being)...
1) the nickname for this bird is " butter butt" 😁&
2) the woman's car that she is poking the mirror of, is someone who has been kind of nasty and gossipy about me on several occasions - the bird has seriously dinged the mirror - it's all scratched up.
I don't know, it would be magical.if I looked at it again and the butter butt had literally written something out 🤣🤣🤣
Anyway, I was in need of serious upliftment today. I feel SEEN & understood by you Jenny, from this reading, as well as many of your readings, and it's truly helpful & special.
I am so grateful to be a part of your community!
Sending my LOVE to you and all! 🩷🙏💜🕊🫶
💖🐦⬛🩵🩷🕊💜🪽🫶
Pile 2: I was asking about my mentor, I feel as if this was spot on. She believes in me deeply. Nice for confirmation.
Thank you for these messages. Pile 2, as you say, is full of love and hope. Blessings to you. 🙏🤗
I really pray you’re right #2 🙏🏻❤️
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❤❤❤❤India🇮🇳❤ pile2
Love all 3, different perspectives of a lovers/family 3 way dynamic playing out in my present. As always, you're the best Jenny at helping me to muddle through the confusion with grace!
Excellent reading. Thank you.
Thank you Jenny
You are a great reader with great energy ty ty ty ❤
💛☀️🙏 beautiful readings. Thank you!!
Pile 3 ❤
Group 2
I'd love to reach out but spirit tells me I have to wait for him to make the first move. When I last saw him, he looked like he was with someone else so it works be unethical for me to say anything
Pile Two
Can’t think who this is, but it sounds lovely. Scared of being seen and others being drawn to my light rings true. So fingers crossed enough battery 🪫 drainers.
Thank you, Jenny 🙏
Pile2,lovely energy. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
Oh, Jenny I chose Pile #1 and really had a giggle when you pulled the Star card and then revealed her with stars covering her nudity. I love you and your gentle spirit. Thank You! Blessings!
Peace and Love ❤️ ❤ of God Almighty ❤🙏
Thank you #3 🦋
pile 1 - spot on to my condition right now ...had a sudden altercation with my best friend .. not speaking for past 15 days .. stalemate ..suddenly apart
you are very talented .. thank you for the reading
Thanks Jenny 💗
#2 reading is 100% spot on and my person is my current manager. It's funny we had a similar conversation just a few days ago!! She really is truly a wonderful person with tons of knowledge and wisdom. And you were spot on with me having to get over my fears. Thank you. Namaste ❤😊
05.55 I claim pile 2...thank you God thank you Angel's thank you Universe thank you Ancestors thank you dear for the reading ❤🎉
❤😊, thank you Jenny, you’re the best.
Pike one! Really appreciated 🙏 ❤️ that was like a personal reading wow
I feel very related to pile #1. In fact I’ve been mentally stranded in the aftermath of calling an end to this love relationship for more than half a year now. I thank for myself of the effort done to continue on my own path but it was just so much pain. We were very different persons but so alike too that we sort of all wish our partners to “come to us” and indeed it is the hardest thing to do in the adult world when coming to two independent souls. I’m very very grateful to hear your reading on birthday 🫶🏻🌻I’m now feeling breathing with ease again ❤️🩹
Choice 1 resonated very much thank you
Pile 2, watched on November 6th, 2024.
🙏⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️🙏
Loved your reading and
especially your voice.
It's very soothing....
I use it as ASMR could say. Haha.
And at the same time I get a reading!
🙏⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️♥️⚘️🙏
Thanks, Jenny 💕 for giving me hope. Pile # 3. 💫✨🌜🌛⭐️🌺🙏🏻
Thank you Jenny I choose pile 2 yes much hope I have ❤🙏
Thank you Jenny ❤❤❤
Pile # 2 the said he is married to another person so even if we both want it. It’s not possible until he makes the decision to leave the partnership. However I am very happy to be friends.
Merci ❤❤
Thx ❤❤❤
Beautiful Jenny!!! I've been wanting to ask if you would do a reading about how do we access/unlock our creativity? Or what channel do we channel the Divine on? Your sweet voice is coaxing me out of my hermit hidey-hole. Much appreciation and tremendous love--❤
@@mjbadger thank you for such a great suggestion. With much love Jenny xx 🙏✨
Thank YOU for all the beautiful love and light and sweetness you share so freely with all of us!
P # 3 ❤🌹🌺🐞
Sorry!-This has to do with the moon energy update-I wrote there but no answer-Maybe it's just me-but I couldn't get the times given to go with the information offered-before it was really clear because you would say the date and what was happening on that particular moon phase-I would always keep this and watch it as the month progressed-but I don't quite know how to use it now-can anyone help?-I always relied on this a lot!-I also couldn’t find when the runes and cards were pulled.
@@philipshannon1 bless you, I am putting yoga pdf with all the information for the coming month, I'll post how to access this, with love and blessings Jenny xx 🙏
@@MoonMagicWeeklyTarot Thank you!-because I use the energy update throughout the month and it would be a loss not to have it!-will this include the cards and runes too?-I hope so!
Pile 2…my person is in an unhappy marriage….❤
Yes, we have a lovely friendship ❤
🙏❤️ Pile 3 👍🥰🤗💕
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I chose reading #1 🛶
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Where is this person...? When will this be come true❤️❓
Pile 3, I don’t know what’s been going on but he’s more and more erratic and toxic. What ever I do and I come from a place of love he is unfair and the behaviour like ignoring of being unreasonable in expectation is getting worse. Whilst I’m normally very patient this repeated behaviour has affected no so much I’m up in arms about it. I rang yesterday and asked him to call me so we can talk and got no response. I tried again late in the evening as I could see he was on line. Again he plays dead and just lets the phone go to voicemail. It’s so disrespectful that it now has me unable to ignore it and needing a calm and balanced conversation. I’m normally the advocate for everyone with unfairness. Now I find myself having to step up for me. I’ve given many chances due to caring deeply and knowing he is going through a tough time. 3 weeks ago I was struggling with my hormones again and expressed the fear and vulnerability this gives me. He had a go and accused me of putting my issues on him which wasn’t doing. I was merely sharing how much I was struggling. Yet he then offered a co worker to meet her for a sauna (which was our thing) to listen to her tale of woe, having already told me repeatedly what a pain she is and how she brought all this on herself, during time we’d agreed we’d do things for us. He’d also said he’d step back from his toxic work environment yet doesn’t keep his word. It’s soul destroying as he careers from one thing to another yet changes his opinion and shows up differently and inconsistently moment to moment. There’s no consultation or communication, which is very hard. I don’t think he has sight of his behaviour. He was due to move in with me in January. I hope he can see the light and also hear the truthful words, that changes are needed and falling into his previous way of relating from his destructive marriage hurts everyone and serves no one. I’ve felt hopeless and struggling to advocate for myself, as he is so emotionally volatile. I start counselling today and I so welcome being able to talk to someone who is stable and objective and find a constructive way to a solution. In normally very good as a fair and honourable person but here, he is just unreasonable and it’s very challenging. We have many past lives together we were married or together as lovers in at least 3 of them. I think I’m just not that sort of person that will behave like that, where as his upbringing he hasn’t learnt that we should care about others and support them when they struggle if they are important to us. He is attentive to those he isn’t in a relationship with but for the person he’s with he seems to not even see them. Very hard. Thank you for your calm wise words Jenny.
💜🤍 I'm so sorry you're going through this. I can relate much of what you describe.. you come to a point when enough is enough. Continue to stand up for yourself and take care of your emotional needs. It's not fair to behave like that and as you say in any relationship you should not be made too feel that whenever you need support or going through something the other person ignores you while at the same time you see they put so much into work or other relationships.. dismissive avoidant and sadly it's on seems close to covert narcissistic behaviour...and if not that imatureeand selfish..this kind of relationship is gonna work then the other person really has to step up and want to chance and take ownership of their toxic was,you can't save them at the expence of your own wellbeing ❤ You seem very aware. Take good care of yourself and see your worth. Good luck I wish you much love and all the best 🙏🏻🌟 what matters the most is how you feel and that you should feel valued loved and respected. I hope you get the support you deserve 💖 and that things turn out in a fair way for you
It’s hard because I always advocate for others and am not a passive person. I’m sorry you’ve had to experience this sort of treatment before too. I have no interest in being any way other than transparent, clear, supportive and caring. It has shocked me given how much support this person needs that the few times I’ve asked for help I’ve been treated like I’m a drama fiend and asking for too much. I give everything and the slightest thing I need is more often treated like an unreasonable request. You’re right. He has to save himself. I hope you are in a good place and so appreciate such an empathetic and insightful reply. Wishing you all the love in the world and so much respect.
I guess in a way I can’t loose. However I care very deeply and would like him to wake up. However I cannot live in the environment he creates currently so big changes need to happen. Bless you and thank you for this 💚🌱💚
@@alchemy8Beautiful soul! THANK YOU as well 💚I'm glad me reaching out gave you some form of validation and feeling of care. I get it as an empath this is common we are naturally very caring always trying to be fair and honest and we feel things deeper so it can be hard to grasp that others can be so narrow sometimes and all we really need is the same authentic care understanding in return..as you say either way you can't loose. There is always something to learn from every person and situation 🤍🍀 that's the blessing when we choose to heal.. Thank You I am starting to feel more empowered but of course there is that part that wish the other person choose to wake up. But that's up to them and Divine..if they show real progress and love then we can choose to grow together but it take 2 to tango 😊No matter what it's about loving ourselves in the process and to have grace for ourselves. And releese judgement and the pain that we have carried so we can be free 🕊️ praying for the highest good of all. You know in your heart what is the best for YOU and whatever you choose you can't loose. YES.🌻💚💜🍀🌄
@ I’m an empathetic too. It took me years to learn that what I was feeling weren’t my own feelings. I so appreciate your brightness. I guess I got weary and doubted myself but I am seeing clearer now. My philosophy is always be kind. Be kind cos it’s the right thing not because I anticipate appreciation or any return. You altruistic considered response is beautiful and I am glad that you feel more empowered. Please know how much you taking time from you day, means to me. In light and for the best and highest good. Thank you friend. 💞
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yeah..no. I only provide for myself. NOBODY else 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Jenny .. pile 3... And I literally sent a message to this person asking if they were having trouble finding balance with me... and fully anticipating a conversation before the day ends .. thank you for the validation in my request... 😄🖤🩶🤍
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