I’m a Black woman and Dr Umar is speaking the truth about our attire. I am a curvy sista and I have to pay a lot of attention to what I wear. Skinnier women can wear leggings and a crop top freely. I must wear a hoodie or long shirt to cover my bottom half 😂. I laugh but I do this to respect myself and show an example to my daughters.
@@tia_pinkbuttaflyy Thank you! People always want to say Oh you can't help the way you shape yeah but you can help what you put on. The nearest always attire that can be worn that is nice, attractive and even sexy... Butt doesn't objectify the woman.
@@tia_pinkbuttaflyy Exactly! Women always try to make it seem like "You can't help how you're shaped" When that's not the case You might not be able to help how you're shaped but you can help what you put on your body. He's very much possible to look presentable attractive and even sexy without looking like an object with no self-respect.
Honestly the fake hair is due to different reasons. Most blackwomen would love to have longer naturally hair but our hair isn’t growing longer but rather shrinking to a Afro texture. There are some that it grows effortless easily but others sista can’t catch a break and try with lots of effort to grown and some become mentally drained. Going lock my hair growing. It kind of make me wonder if we black races are not to ever cut our hair and go locks? Like Samson in the Bible? I seen sister struggling to get longer hair but isn’t work only when the go natural lock and their grows longer . Maybe we are Most High people and like Samson we are never to put bad stuff in the hair or cuts it.
Thank you Dr. Umar for standing up for all the sisters (especially us dark skinned sisters) who rock they natural hair. He sees the unfairness in our treatment by everyone!!!! He knows African features are beautiful and don't need to be appropriated to appeal to white culture!😊
My fiancé is lightskin like Mya and she is pro black so I don’t think it matters…black is black who cares about complexion that’s the problem with our culture smh that’s that Willie Lynch Bullshit and one of the biggest reasons why black folks keep getting left behind
I said the same thing about all the money spent on our hair in our community and how as women we could build huge empires that bettered our communities with these dollars! I was roasted so bad on that forum and called everything but a child of God! They don’t want ANYONE not only telling them what to do….but don’t even suggest a BETTER WAY!
He is but the way the show started off was explosive in a great way because they got straight to the point and gave extremely precise examples for anybody to see or go do their research to see. But every racist and colorist know they are a colorist from the integrity of their true thoughts of the matter
As a “black” indigenous American… I desire to marry a BM because that’s who I was raised & protected by my whole life. BM are who I am most attracted to, but as a HUMAN who values humanity; I prefer to be surrounded by folks with integrity & purpose no matter the skin color 💕 ✊🏾✊🏿✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊
NO SIR DR UMAR, NOT I SAYS THIS BLK MOTHER!!!! WHEN MY BOY WAS LITTLE HE HAD SIME KIND OF FASCINATION WITH LIGHT SKINNED AND LIGHTER GIRLS; I LITERALLY STOPPED ALL OF THAT!!! I STARTED TEACHING HIM ABOUT AMERICAN AND BLACK AMERICAN HISTORY AND WHAT’S REALLY BEHIND NOT LIKING THE SKINNED FEMALE. My boy is a darker complexion than my light brown, but because most of his fights were with dark skinned kids, and his friends were light skinned, he didn’t like the darker children. Yeah but I showed him the bigger picture about upbringing and kids not listening to their parents as opposed to what I was teaching him. And of course I told him that he could never bring home any female that wasn’t blk. Now he only dates dark skinned women. 🤷🏽♀️
@@tyanasm My father was black as the night, my mother was high yellow. Grandma and grandpa the same as well as great grandmother and great grandpa. This history was taught to my son and also showed to him. He is very aware of where he comes from. And to go a step further, great great grandpa and his mother were mulattos, while great great grandma was a black Cherokee and great great grandpa’s father was a freed black man that was murked in Florida where they’re from.
"It's self hate." Well, that's like 95% of Blak ballers. I am only shocked and surprised when they actually have a Blak wife. SMH. Fame, money, and marrying an other, all go hand and hand. They feel that they must have that "trophy " once they make it out of the neighborhood.
You need to listen what katt said not this clown..it's definitely not 95% of anything if you listen to katt instead of this fake doctor trying to add his two cents you should get something different
" Some" Black women don't have ish to say until they see someone with something they think they deserve or miss out on. Now there are other layers to the story like media and the world teaching blk women to act foolish in their younger yrs and the samething for young blk men to do the same. When the light bulb goes off, it's to late in life.
IT'S NOTHING BETTER THAN A BROWN CHOCOLATE TONE QUEEN.. no shades to all other black queens 👑 because you're all as beautiful as the morning sky... it's just my type
I'm a light skin black girl and I take no offense. I love all my black men all shades but baby I need some melanin lol I need you to be 75% or higher and your melanin lol
Even if this is so do you disregard the knowledge that he is giving you or you looking for a reason to do what you want to do. We are hard headed sometimes stubborn. That's why the Democrats and that donkey target us. We are still being lynched and still chasing that dust bunny because it's so taboo. But when they set you up I can't cry for you 👀👂🏿💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿
It's crazy how ppl are openly racist towards white and light skinned ppl. Replace and switch the word black with white and imagine how crazy ppl like Umar would behave. Can't make this up 😂
I AM a black FBA woman. And I have three FBA sons. And I told them they better not date white women. And they listen to me. They told me they have never been attracted to white women. Are any other women outside of a black FBA woman. 👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽
Yes he lied..if i like or connect with latino or white women i..a date o e ..not based on what he talking about..matter of fact everyo e i know dates outside there race but not based on power or to thi k there better..maybe this applies to Hollywood
@@miekhiayltraylor8574 I hope you got you a white woman who can teach you how to spell and construct a proper sentence. If you need to be taken care of like many of you do, more power to you.
@@C-Lyfe85 What did these other women win, a 🍆? Tell us how that pays the bills. We're glad you got somebody to take care of you. We're not going to do it. What?
To all my FBA ladies and gentlemen, I love all y’all. Yea we bump heads with each other but… Don’t let this society turn us against each other. We have more in common than differences. ✊🏾
I wonder if Black folks would suffer less from emotional and mental health issues if they truly loved themselves and one another. Moreover, how about detaching from those elements of hatred and racial bias and gravitate toward loving and accepting spaces, people, places, and things.
Yes read his books. The white faces on the mummy coverings are painted white but they are not white inside. He is right they are black and yes Egypt is in Africa
@@rnbw_artz Yes he is. They had a past beef & Umar mentioned it before along with others. These Conscious Dudes talk all this Black Queen bs but all their Wives look half breed. Even the younger conscious dudes i follow do the same. It’s an ingrained self hate issue no one wants to speak on.
Hey, I'm an Ethiopian-Jew (Parents born in Gonder) from the state of Israel. Arabs tried to rewrite the history of ancient Egypt. Look how Netflix show Cleopatra being black was considered controversial.
Married to a "latina" woman half Puerto Rican half mexican ...and yes I tend to agree with Dr Umar still!...and I have preferred this type for as long as I can remember...programming!...i agree. What else could it be...if even subconsciously
It’s probably because dark skinned women always talk about light skinned privilege. You probably subconsciously want your children to have that privilege that they constantly speak of.
Wow, it's so shocking to hear brutha Umar admit that about a majority of Blk males! But it's good to see! And it's truth about that majority, too. And a lot of folks can't handle the truth. SMH.
I am a big fan of Dr. Umar and agree with him on most points. My partner and father of my child is Latino. I am African American, so I know he would disapprove of our union. Still, I acknowledge how interracial relationships can be problematic (excluding myself and my partner). I have received criticism and skepticism for not selecting a Black man as my life partner, I love who loved me most at the place I was in my life. But I do wonder if my early negative experiences with Black men is what has opened me up so much to interracial relationships and dating. I exclusively dated Black men in my early 20’s and that shifted significantly.
Once again, little to no accountability for black women as to why black men have developed these dating preferences. It is absolutely inconceivable to people like Umar that maybe there are cultural traits many black women have adopted that we just want to avoid entirely. And that MAYBE rather than risk encountering one of these women, we just avoid an entire group out of an abundance of caution. That can't be it, right? Its because we hate ourselves...
I like my black queens dark as midnight, beautiful skin with no blemishes looking like a Goddess. I once was lost and brainwashed but became conscious in my 9th grade year of Highschool. I will not ever go backwards again. Truly the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice 👀👂🏿 💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿 😍❤️❤️🌹👸🏾🌹❤️❤️
I love women, period.. yes, I love my dark skinned sisters, but my mom, Aunt, and Sister were all lightskinned, and so is my lady...I don't love dark skinned women any less
And a lot of dark skin and light skin men and women who have been victims of black and white racism against dark and light skin try to mix to balance the skin tone out. Don't blame the victims . Black people always ignore the toxic relationships that they create. AND ignore their children watching their toxic relationships and wanting to NEVER BE LIKE THAT.
To take it further, Katt also referred to these women strategically being placed into said mens lives to be their " Hollywood appropriate fixers" not just their wives
That is a good question. I could understand how kids could impact his flow, but I don’t see how a wife would. Also, he speaks on marriage as a matter of fact, although he’s not married.
I married my wife who is white because black women didn’t want me I was seen as lame corny quiet. Cool so i started dating the women that wanted me it just happen to be white woman we have 3 kids been together 10 years now. Nothing wrong with just wanting to be happy Dr umar
You wanted a black woman out of your league. You thought you were entitled, and because you couldn't get what you wanted, you decided to go elsewhere. You could've easily found a corny, nerdy black woman to be with.
@@ohanaohana8844 not out of my league just ur avg worked the same place I worked and all she wanted the drug dealer instead they both end up going to prison
Ok but if you're an a-hoe to women u won't b accepted. Women are adults not children. That try to like a man for who he is...but control, blame & lying will leave u men woman less.
I am a lightskinned brother, and my wife is white. I didn't have to have a white woman. My wife is amazing. Actually I kinda wished I would have married a beautiful black woman, but no other woman that I ever had could compare to my wife. All of my children are black! But I don't really care what color a woman is, as long as she is a good woman.
Growing up my own sisters called me a spook, i had a complex about my skin tone, we were all pretty girls as i got older our peers told me that they were jealous of you cause you were always the prettiest. I told my sister how this made me feel she was tearful when she apologized.
He answered the age old question in 3 minutes! Wow. The snickering at the "light skinned supreme session" was HILARIOUS!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 He had me iluntil.he said hmget rid of yhe fake ghair👀😂😂
Valid points. But as a studied man why does Brother Umar use the term white Jesus. Most studied people know Jesus was at least brown. In this point Umar is reinforcing white superiority for no reason.
One thing about it I operate of having love for everyone not just based off you’re skin color or what you identify as. If you show me a character trait that doesn’t align with what I see then I don’t deal with you. I don’t think nothing wrong with who someone loves based off skin tone.
I'm a proud AFRICAN AMERICAN MAN previously married to 2 BLACK WOMEN who I adore. I'm also someone who admires Dr. Umar and appreciates his work ... in general. However, I'll say this. Any MAN, who lets another MAN determine who he should LOVE ... probably isn't worthy of a WOMAN of any COLOR.
Where's that??? I don't see him doing that. And what's "love" got to do with it? Most people don't marry for love anymore these days. It's all about status, and looking good on someone's arm, and the 'x-ual' aspect.
Besides specific parts of those statues being destroyed, another way that we know what the Egyptians were is simply by their obsession with jewelry because it's still happening today
@@justsaying5753And this is why you don't need to be speaking. You speak for yourself Don't encourage other black people to do this stupid ass s***. Dating outside your race as a black person is problematic and it breeds problems for black people. He has nothing to do with a hatred or a dislike It's the overall goal of your people. Y'all stupid damn!
Wait a minute, no one but the man or woman even if you are not famous decides not even a mother or a father who you marry? You decide. Color is not important, it is the motive of the heart. Why are you marrying the person. Is it because of status quo or because you love them. No one can help their color, but you can help whether not you are persuaded by propaganda. Stop it Umar! Just stop it? You are too big for your underpants. Thank God that you don't have your way. Let people have choices, they can chose their fate.
THESE SITUATIONS R 'SPECIFIC' 2 INDIVIDUALS THO. U CAN'T 'GENERALIZE' ALL BROTHAS INTENTIONS WHEN IT COMES 2 DEALIN WIT DIFFERENT WOMEN🤷🏽♂️... #BLESSINGS 🙏🏼
This man is out here doing the work of your lower nature he will keep the baggage of hate on you which will weigh you down and restrict your salvation from all this overloading of information and false believes
Most men get cheated on by black women. Everyday. Since a youth. Date who got.your back. Just because we look the same doesn't mean we are the same at heart. P.s his niece just married a white man. Why yall didn't ask him that question? Yall still rookies on this channel. Touch all bases. Not just 1.
I’m a Black woman and Dr Umar is speaking the truth about our attire. I am a curvy sista and I have to pay a lot of attention to what I wear. Skinnier women can wear leggings and a crop top freely. I must wear a hoodie or long shirt to cover my bottom half 😂. I laugh but I do this to respect myself and show an example to my daughters.
@@tia_pinkbuttaflyy Thank you! People always want to say Oh you can't help the way you shape yeah but you can help what you put on. The nearest always attire that can be worn that is nice, attractive and even sexy... Butt doesn't objectify the woman.
Shouts out to to you sister, do you agree with him on the fake hair ?
@@tia_pinkbuttaflyy Exactly! Women always try to make it seem like "You can't help how you're shaped" When that's not the case You might not be able to help how you're shaped but you can help what you put on your body. He's very much possible to look presentable attractive and even sexy without looking like an object with no self-respect.
@@iaintmadatcha🤔🤔🤔🤔That’s a good question?!?!?!
Honestly the fake hair is due to different reasons. Most blackwomen would love to have longer naturally hair but our hair isn’t growing longer but rather shrinking to a Afro texture. There are some that it grows effortless easily but others sista can’t catch a break and try with lots of effort to grown and some become mentally drained. Going lock my hair growing. It kind of make me wonder if we black races are not to ever cut our hair and go locks? Like Samson in the Bible? I seen sister struggling to get longer hair but isn’t work only when the go natural lock and their grows longer . Maybe we are Most High people and like Samson we are never to put bad stuff in the hair or cuts it.
Thank you Dr. Umar for standing up for all the sisters (especially us dark skinned sisters) who rock they natural hair. He sees the unfairness in our treatment by everyone!!!! He knows African features are beautiful and don't need to be appropriated to appeal to white culture!😊
My wife chocolate 🍫 I love my dark-skinned woman... Not all brothers are the same
I love them also
Right
@@juandelazarza4086 is u really a brotha wit a name like dat?
I'll pray for you
My fiancé is lightskin like Mya and she is pro black so I don’t think it matters…black is black who cares about complexion that’s the problem with our culture smh that’s that Willie Lynch
Bullshit and one of the biggest reasons why black folks keep getting left behind
I said the same thing about all the money spent on our hair in our community and how as women we could build huge empires that bettered our communities with these dollars! I was roasted so bad on that forum and called everything but a child of God! They don’t want ANYONE not only telling them what to do….but don’t even suggest a BETTER WAY!
5:20 That’s not true Umar. Plenty of black mothers tell their sons that they don’t want them bunny hopping. And, are comfortable saying it.
I told my sons the same thing 😂
My mom said that shit too
Same here. I teach my son how and why it's important to respect us, too.
True he’s not talking about us he’s talking about many.
@@Ms.MeanGoodwhat is their father telling them?
Believe it or not, he is right in many areas. 😮😢
It's mostly about acceptance.
He is but the way the show started off was explosive in a great way because they got straight to the point and gave extremely precise examples for anybody to see or go do their research to see. But every racist and colorist know they are a colorist from the integrity of their true thoughts of the matter
As a “black” indigenous American… I desire to marry a BM because that’s who I was raised & protected by my whole life. BM are who I am most attracted to, but as a HUMAN who values humanity; I prefer to be surrounded by folks with integrity & purpose no matter the skin color 💕 ✊🏾✊🏿✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊
NO SIR DR UMAR, NOT I SAYS THIS BLK MOTHER!!!! WHEN MY BOY WAS LITTLE HE HAD SIME KIND OF FASCINATION WITH LIGHT SKINNED AND LIGHTER GIRLS; I LITERALLY STOPPED ALL OF THAT!!! I STARTED TEACHING HIM ABOUT AMERICAN AND BLACK AMERICAN HISTORY AND WHAT’S REALLY BEHIND NOT LIKING THE SKINNED FEMALE. My boy is a darker complexion than my light brown, but because most of his fights were with dark skinned kids, and his friends were light skinned, he didn’t like the darker children. Yeah but I showed him the bigger picture about upbringing and kids not listening to their parents as opposed to what I was teaching him. And of course I told him that he could never bring home any female that wasn’t blk. Now he only dates dark skinned women. 🤷🏽♀️
The teaching definitely starts at home.
@@robinmathis2304 You took care of that!
@@tyanasm My father was black as the night, my mother was high yellow. Grandma and grandpa the same as well as great grandmother and great grandpa. This history was taught to my son and also showed to him. He is very aware of where he comes from. And to go a step further, great great grandpa and his mother were mulattos, while great great grandma was a black Cherokee and great great grandpa’s father was a freed black man that was murked in Florida where they’re from.
I'm with Brother Umar, lets keep our bloodline pure so our kids wont grow up confused as to who they are and be proud of our race!
iDIOT,THERE IS NO RACE OR PURE ANYTHING.
AMEN HALLELUAH !!! Shout it from the rooftops !!!
They're not listening to that. There's a whole lot of excuses being made up.
You should be entitled to that. But what about white folk?
"It's self hate." Well, that's like 95% of Blak ballers. I am only shocked and surprised when they actually have a Blak wife. SMH. Fame, money, and marrying an other, all go hand and hand. They feel that they must have that "trophy " once they make it out of the neighborhood.
You need to listen what katt said not this clown..it's definitely not 95% of anything if you listen to katt instead of this fake doctor trying to add his two cents you should get something different
Yall forget about all the black women that clowned these brothers and called them corny. While the other women was down for them
" Some" Black women don't have ish to say until they see someone with something they think they deserve or miss out on. Now there are other layers to the story like media and the world teaching blk women to act foolish in their younger yrs and the samething for young blk men to do the same. When the light bulb goes off, it's to late in life.
Told my Son and my Daughter. Don't marry or have children with anyone not BLACK. We are PRO BLACK over here
And watch them find their Ivory King and Queen 😂😂😂
I told my son and daughter when they was high school about how I feel about if they dated outside their race and wasnt ashamed about it.
You weren't ashamed about what race you want your children to date?
IT'S NOTHING BETTER THAN A BROWN CHOCOLATE TONE QUEEN.. no shades to all other black queens 👑 because you're all as beautiful as the morning sky... it's just my type
I'm a light skin black girl and I take no offense. I love all my black men all shades but baby I need some melanin lol I need you to be 75% or higher and your melanin lol
I agree. . 💜🫶🏿💜
Umar 100% right
Where’s his black queen???
EXACTLY THE LAST DAMN 15 YEARS HE JUST PUSHIN BULL CUZ BLACK WOMEN KEEP HIS POCKETS FULL!!!
Even if this is so do you disregard the knowledge that he is giving you or you looking for a reason to do what you want to do. We are hard headed sometimes stubborn. That's why the Democrats and that donkey target us. We are still being lynched and still chasing that dust bunny because it's so taboo. But when they set you up I can't cry for you 👀👂🏿💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿
Or the school? Like Luke said, scammer
@@deneilwilliams4380
Knowledge and a powerful words if, you're not going to apply it.
Black people just want a sermon, this is the new form of church.
He is so obsessed with separation...he hates himself
MY CHOCOLATE SISTERS ARE EVERYTHING🍫🍫🍫
They all talk black and got light skin wives and Girlfriends
That vinegar... made me mad.... shave my head?.... never a wig.. what do he own.... me b i z owner
Yep!
The last time I checked light skinned women are black too. So just say that you have a problem with light skin black women, and get it out the way.
It's crazy how ppl are openly racist towards white and light skinned ppl. Replace and switch the word black with white and imagine how crazy ppl like Umar would behave. Can't make this up 😂
@@C-Lyfe85 If you're light skin you aren't fully black, stop it
I AM a black FBA woman. And I have three FBA sons. And I told them they better not date white women. And they listen to me. They told me they have never been attracted to white women. Are any other women outside of a black FBA woman. 👏🏽👏🏽✊🏽
And then they will TAKE YOU FOR all of your money in a divorce and call you NINJA real quick
I’m with you Dr. Umar💪🏾
💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿
I am too, on this. "Tell it like it is, and shame the devil" , is how the saying goes. Don't be 'skurred'.
But did he lie tho...😬
Yes he lied..if i like or connect with latino or white women i..a date o e ..not based on what he talking about..matter of fact everyo e i know dates outside there race but not based on power or to thi k there better..maybe this applies to Hollywood
Step your game up and go after the man you want. Instead of sitting on the sidelines being angry at all these other women for winning.
Deeper than that, hes promoting one of the most dangerous ideology in existence
@@miekhiayltraylor8574 I hope you got you a white woman who can teach you how to spell and construct a proper sentence. If you need to be taken care of like many of you do, more power to you.
@@C-Lyfe85 What did these other women win, a 🍆? Tell us how that pays the bills. We're glad you got somebody to take care of you. We're not going to do it. What?
To all my FBA ladies and gentlemen, I love all y’all. Yea we bump heads with each other but… Don’t let this society turn us against each other. We have more in common than differences. ✊🏾
💯💪🏿💪🏿
Lol when y'all opening the school
So true!. I don't understand not liking someone bc they are black or white or Indian or WHATEVER!.
@@erinwhite3444 right!
@@erinwhite3444 right!
Actually, Umar was saying this about pro athletes a long time ago.
Dr Umar speaks his opinions as if they are a fact and as if his word is the Law. You can tell he is intellectually condescending.
U a bunny hopper ain’t u 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So is Charleston White, but I kind of like them both 😅😅😅
I find him incredibly racist!
@@gorygoldygregory why?
Your white you don't like this 😒 who cares you hate truth you stupid
This man is speaking the truth.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hold on mane, you just can’t end it like that. Dr. Umar is unintentionally hilarious.
I wonder if Black folks would suffer less from emotional and mental health issues if they truly loved themselves and one another. Moreover, how about detaching from those elements of hatred and racial bias and gravitate toward loving and accepting spaces, people, places, and things.
Yes read his books. The white faces on the mummy coverings are painted white but they are not white inside. He is right they are black and yes Egypt is in Africa
He speaking on Tariq Nasheed 😂
🤣☺
No he's not
@@rnbw_artz Yes he is. They had a past beef & Umar mentioned it before along with others. These Conscious Dudes talk all this Black Queen bs but all their Wives look half breed. Even the younger conscious dudes i follow do the same. It’s an ingrained self hate issue no one wants to speak on.
@@rnbw_artz I got a lightskin BM too but i didn’t want a baby by her i saw her houseniggerish ways. My Black haitian BM my fav for cultural reasons.
Yup, a former wannabe pimp grifter who has been out there for quite some time scamming. 🤣🤣🤣
He’s definitely 💯 Right
I'm Ethiopian American...isn't Egypt in Africa? That alone should tell you they're black wtf are we talking about?
Tell that to Egyptians they will tell you all day long they aren’t black
Hey, I'm an Ethiopian-Jew (Parents born in Gonder) from the state of Israel. Arabs tried to rewrite the history of ancient Egypt. Look how Netflix show Cleopatra being black was considered controversial.
ask the Egyptologists!
If you dont see ehats obvious, youre in serious denial, trying to be daft or not too bright
Egyptians are not blacks but their country is in Africa
Thank You For All the Love and Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism
Not only black mn, north african mn too bunny hop
I’m convinced Umar has a white chick in his basement 😂
Corny🙄
Shutup😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
He dont
@@BetsyWells-od6nf-b9p
Have some eumer
Full video of this is going to be CRAZZZZY
Love? So many relationships are not based on genuine love.
Based on that ass!
Thank you, I just said. Like Tina asked, "What's love got to do with it?".
Married to a "latina" woman half Puerto Rican half mexican ...and yes I tend to agree with Dr Umar still!...and I have preferred this type for as long as I can remember...programming!...i agree. What else could it be...if even subconsciously
Thats very commendable for you to be able to accept that
I applaud you for being able to reflect and acknowledge that!
Wonderful. I love this truth. It is what it is. Same way, black women wear "Brazilian" hair
Cause she's a bad b and treats you better duh!!!
It’s probably because dark skinned women always talk about light skinned privilege. You probably subconsciously want your children to have that privilege that they constantly speak of.
If u close ur eyes Umar kinda sounds like Denzel Washington
Wow, it's so shocking to hear brutha Umar admit that about a majority of Blk males! But it's good to see! And it's truth about that majority, too. And a lot of folks can't handle the truth. SMH.
I am a big fan of Dr. Umar and agree with him on most points. My partner and father of my child is Latino. I am African American, so I know he would disapprove of our union. Still, I acknowledge how interracial relationships can be problematic (excluding myself and my partner). I have received criticism and skepticism for not selecting a Black man as my life partner, I love who loved me most at the place I was in my life. But I do wonder if my early negative experiences with Black men is what has opened me up so much to interracial relationships and dating. I exclusively dated Black men in my early 20’s and that shifted significantly.
Tell em Umar!!!!
FBA/B1
Once again, little to no accountability for black women as to why black men have developed these dating preferences. It is absolutely inconceivable to people like Umar that maybe there are cultural traits many black women have adopted that we just want to avoid entirely. And that MAYBE rather than risk encountering one of these women, we just avoid an entire group out of an abundance of caution. That can't be it, right? Its because we hate ourselves...
Rubbish. It's always easier to take the quick quiet route😅
Just stop with the foolishness, please
I like my black queens dark as midnight, beautiful skin with no blemishes looking like a Goddess. I once was lost and brainwashed but became conscious in my 9th grade year of Highschool. I will not ever go backwards again. Truly the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice 👀👂🏿 💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿 😍❤️❤️🌹👸🏾🌹❤️❤️
Well I'm not gonna limit myself and discriminate, all the hues of black women deserve praise.
If it ain't white it ain't right 😍
I love women, period.. yes, I love my dark skinned sisters, but my mom, Aunt, and Sister were all lightskinned, and so is my lady...I don't love dark skinned women any less
If you looked at hieroglyphics then you would realize that this phenomenon is not new.
And a lot of dark skin and light skin men and women who have been victims of black and white racism against dark and light skin try to mix to balance the skin tone out. Don't blame the victims . Black people always ignore the toxic relationships that they create. AND ignore their children watching their toxic relationships and wanting to NEVER BE LIKE THAT.
I think only Denzel Washington has a dark skin wife
To take it further, Katt also referred to these women strategically being placed into said mens lives to be their " Hollywood appropriate fixers" not just their wives
Self hate. Self hate.
The famous blue couch love watching these interviews
You're supposed to love thy neighbor as you love yourself. That neighbor doesn't mean your next neighbor, but the one that doesn't look like you.
Amen
That's completely wrong but ok 😂 the law of Moses was for Israel and no other Nation to lay claim on with religious nonsense
Thank you @@JaleelJCarter
I'm not going to love the neighbor that doesn't love me.
@@JaleelJCarterThat was re-established by Jesus, but I see what you were getting at.
Didn’t this man have a white wife ???
No
I wonder how he feels about Brother Polight 🤔
They disliked each other
👀👂🏿 why is his name Polight God didn't put me here to be polite 🤔💪🏿🪖❤️💪🏿✊🏿
@@antuanellis9011 ain’t he doing time for rape?
Where is this guy “wife” where is she? All these black men should marry bw - where is his wife?
We’re gonna find out he’s got a white boyfriend.😂
@@Figcity facts lol
U pro YT in da wrong business
That is a good question. I could understand how kids could impact his flow, but I don’t see how a wife would. Also, he speaks on marriage as a matter of fact, although he’s not married.
He smashes chicks like suki hanna and preaching to yall
You right about that doc especially black people would've said to drop her and call her all kind of names SMH
WRONG PERSON FOR THE COUCH
Jamie Foxx had two children by white woman. Watched his special, it spoke value. Just hope he meant and honors every word.
“Light skinned supremacists “ 😂😂😂😂😂
He is a dumb ass.
"Love is not love" with any and everything!
social media gonna make the folk dumber
I married my wife who is white because black women didn’t want me I was seen as lame corny quiet. Cool so i started dating the women that wanted me it just happen to be white woman we have 3 kids been together 10 years now. Nothing wrong with just wanting to be happy Dr umar
Talk yo shit!
And I happy for you, lm a Blk man, But the sisters are Losing 😮 and u can't Tell Nothing 💯
You wanted a black woman out of your league. You thought you were entitled, and because you couldn't get what you wanted, you decided to go elsewhere. You could've easily found a corny, nerdy black woman to be with.
@@ohanaohana8844💯
@@ohanaohana8844 not out of my league just ur avg worked the same place I worked and all she wanted the drug dealer instead they both end up going to prison
What about your family Umar they don’t have self hate
Go where you're appreciated not tolerated
Ok but if you're an a-hoe to women u won't b accepted. Women are adults not children. That try to like a man for who he is...but control, blame & lying will leave u men woman less.
Well agree or disagree, the MOST HIGH will judge our people for mixing seed and dressing like the nations. ITS WRITTEN.
Love Dr Umar. The truth is an offence.
I am a lightskinned brother, and my wife is white. I didn't have to have a white woman. My wife is amazing. Actually I kinda wished I would have married a beautiful black woman, but no other woman that I ever had could compare to my wife. All of my children are black! But I don't really care what color a woman is, as long as she is a good woman.
He’s right. Look at the NOI. Just about all of them, with the exception of Minister Farrakhan, have biracial light skinned wives.
Does it matter? they still black
That's why Malcolm Stood out!! Betty Shabazz was a BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN!!
@@Hulkamazin20of course it matters
@@Hulkamazin20
No they're not black if they're biracial
And most of the front runners for the NOI were light skin
😂 if umar rapped and put a mean team of writers around him...😂
I love this 🎉
Growing up my own sisters called me a spook, i had a complex about my skin tone, we were all pretty girls as i got older our peers told me that they were jealous of you cause you were always the prettiest. I told my sister how this made me feel she was tearful when she apologized.
Preach Dr. I’m 63 and my son is 27 and his white coworker asked if I was single his response was, my dad doesn’t date white women !💯my dude
Not “shaved bald to grow it back natural” 😂
He answered the age old question in 3 minutes! Wow. The snickering at the "light skinned supreme session" was HILARIOUS!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 He had me iluntil.he said hmget rid of yhe fake ghair👀😂😂
The CIA Could take out DR UMAR With one Snow Bunny 😂😂😂
Valid points. But as a studied man why does Brother Umar use the term white Jesus. Most studied people know Jesus was at least brown. In this point Umar is reinforcing white superiority for no reason.
I see him calling out the fact that the person that many people follow is portrayed as white.
Dedazz, let that hair go please, Please let that hair ish go.
What's so wrong with us white women ?
It’s facts tho.
One thing about it I operate of having love for everyone not just based off you’re skin color or what you identify as. If you show me a character trait that doesn’t align with what I see then I don’t deal with you. I don’t think nothing wrong with who someone loves based off skin tone.
Light skinned supremacist…. Well…that’s a new term. He’s not completely wrong though.
I'm a proud AFRICAN AMERICAN MAN previously married to 2 BLACK WOMEN who I adore. I'm also someone who admires Dr. Umar and appreciates his work ... in general. However, I'll say this. Any MAN, who lets another MAN determine who he should LOVE ... probably isn't worthy of a WOMAN of any COLOR.
Finally found an adult in this chat
Where's that??? I don't see him doing that. And what's "love" got to do with it? Most people don't marry for love anymore these days. It's all about status, and looking good on someone's arm, and the 'x-ual' aspect.
You said allat to say you a khewn ?
Besides specific parts of those statues being destroyed, another way that we know what the Egyptians were is simply by their obsession with jewelry because it's still happening today
THIS IS YEAR FOR ME TO TELL BLACK PPL, DATING NOT FOR RACE BUT FOR LOVE. DON'T LET THIS MAN SHAME YOU FOR WHATEVER COLOR OF WOMAN YOU LIKE. BE FREE
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😂😂...you people are so easily ready for the auction block...I would hate to be in that condition sheez 😭
@@justsaying5753And this is why you don't need to be speaking. You speak for yourself Don't encourage other black people to do this stupid ass s***. Dating outside your race as a black person is problematic and it breeds problems for black people. He has nothing to do with a hatred or a dislike It's the overall goal of your people. Y'all stupid damn!
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@@davemint3652 auction block? Really? Smh IF WHAT I SAID WASN'T FOR YOU IT'S OK TO MOVE THE FUCK ON THX
Dr Umar got on a gold chain talking about women buying beauty products…make it make sense
Us black man should be cherished more and celebrated more by our own women
Wait a minute, no one but the man or woman even if you are not famous decides not even a mother or a father who you marry? You decide. Color is not important, it is the motive of the heart. Why are you marrying the person. Is it because of status quo or because you love them. No one can help their color, but you can help whether not you are persuaded by propaganda. Stop it Umar! Just stop it? You are too big for your underpants. Thank God that you don't have your way. Let people have choices, they can chose their fate.
THESE SITUATIONS R 'SPECIFIC' 2 INDIVIDUALS THO. U CAN'T 'GENERALIZE' ALL BROTHAS INTENTIONS WHEN IT COMES 2 DEALIN WIT DIFFERENT WOMEN🤷🏽♂️... #BLESSINGS 🙏🏼
Even Nino had 1 in new jack city😂
This man is out here doing the work of your lower nature he will keep the baggage of hate on you which will weigh you down and restrict your salvation from all this overloading of information and false believes
I like Umar but none of this works without the cooperation of bw which isn't happening
So black women are the only ones not cooperating?
You mean you want to control us. You Black Males give us nothing to follow.
Not to be funny but He reminds me of that guy from don’t be a menace movie that talk down on white people then goes date a white girl 😂
Most men get cheated on by black women. Everyday. Since a youth. Date who got.your back. Just because we look the same doesn't mean we are the same at heart.
P.s his niece just married a white man. Why yall didn't ask him that question? Yall still rookies on this channel. Touch all bases. Not just 1.
Stop lying
Officer Tatum 😂😂😂
Knowledge + Actions= a man worth respect 🤷🏾♀️
To WHOM it may concern:
“ People (most times) date who they grew up around. Your upbringing will influence your dating habits. PERIOD. “
BS! Just because you grew up in the suburbs and married a snow bunny 🐰.
Awww .. Here’s a hug 🤗 .. Have a blessed day !!
Trey young mother is white
Nothing is more comical than a stranger saying "they have my respect".
I love the little bit a guys that love my black skin 🤎 but we are most hated on 🥀
Shaved bald though!!!! Wow
When is the school ,he’s been collecting money for the last decade, going to open and start educating children?
Dr. Umar live what you speak.No wife & no school in over a decade.