many such cases, sad part is young women have no problem leading these guys on for a loooong time, by the time they know better they're in their 30's locked down..
He should cry it out when he’s alone and to himself. You gotta get those feelings out of you when you’re young, it’ll help him forget her. He’s gonna be a stronger man👍🏽
This world will turn a good man cold. That's why they say ignorance is bliss 💯 Luckily never had problems with getting women but when you're with a lot of women you see they are a lot darker than they present themselves. They seem like angels but they really demons. I don't chase kitty anymore, haven't for years. Too many problems that come with it and I enjoy my peace too much to deal with these narcissistic women. Kitty is not that good, I've had lots. Have some respect for yourselves , don't give her the upper hand. They can't control themselves when they get power. Almost all of them can't be trusted
He deserved what he accepted. He accepted someone who COMPLETELY disregarded and disrespected him entirely. While it's also the women's fault and she's a nasty person, he needs to understand that he let her walk all over him as well.
The guy got played big time.theirs no way im in a 4 year relationship and get no sex from my girlfriend.thats doesnt make any sense.she was cheating on him and another guy was hitting that.
@dmythica no she wasnt.she was fucking somebody else.i was in a relationship for 4 months.she broke up with me cause she saw I wasn't happy.we never made love or kiss at all.she did me a favor.1 time I called her another man answer her phone.she said it was her cousin which was bullshit.that was day she and I broke up.even my godsister told me she was sleeping with somebody.never invited me to her apartment.i can't believe he stuck around for 4 years.thats fucking crazy to me.believe me she was getting her back blownout.
@JohnJunior-l9zl9z your situation isn't his. The girl you know isn't this girl. There are definitely girls around that are waiting until marriage, but if it was never even mentioned so that's pretty unlikely. I've been with my wife for 18 years we didn't wait until we were married, but both have only had sex with each other. My oldest kid is 16 now, and just starting to date. I've taught her the reason for dating is to find a life partner, and advised her to wait until she's married. I don't want my daughter devaluing herself with multiple partners. If my wife wasn't a virgin when we met, I don't think we'd be together now. Having only 1 sexual partner optimises pair bonding, and you will feel closer to your life partner than if either of you have had multiple partners. More fathers need to teach their daughters correctly. Be open about it, and keep an eye on them. Loose women are ruining the dating market.
Yall clowning him for being human but he’s got more of a genuine heart than most of you people. There’s good people still around but most of you guys just look for one sided love which is why yall are clowning this mf cuz yall can’t comprehend how he feels.
This. Dude has a good heart and he will find someone else that matches his level soon enough because of it. Last thing we want is him to make someone else feel pushed or uncomfortable rather than letting things develop organically with the right person.
This poor kid...and he’s still a kid with a kiddy mindset. This is LITERALLY THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP. I feel sorry for this young man. He’s got to move on and gain more confidence.
He was kinda harsh with this guy, but honestly, hearing all of these kind of guys, they really do need to wake up! I had one long term relationship, but I’m listening to all of these guys and I’m going to be careful next time around.
@@morefitxfearlessclips-official Yeah, no s**t! Even though I had only one relationship, I just want to date around and maybe sleep around, but, big but, I’m gonna be smart about it and careful.
What I came to realize is that parents and fathers are slacking in their responsibilities to teach their sons how to become men. Damn bro, this is gonna be a huge problem for society in future.
Man i feel for this guy. You can see the words hitting him and him experiencing the first time his heart gets ripped out. Hopefully he learns from this and wont let this happen ever again.
Probably the nice girls aren’t getting the nice guys because the nice guys keep falling for the mean girls who turn them into bad guys - which the nice girls later receive.
I know it’s easy to clown Cody but some of us guys weren’t aware of female nature; especially at that young age. Good thing he learned this at a young age though. This is necessary for character development
Y’all go easy on the guy, I was Cody once upon a time. I was the same age as him too, and fell for the pretty n spice everything nice girl. He’s an innocent good man. Cody go cry it out bro, get into fighting, weights, or a sport and become a beast. You’re gonna be a strong man bro, believe that. 👍🏽
Don’t unfollow that’s makes you weak. Develop the mentality to ignore her while you improve yourself, and apparently that’d reflect on your social media
@@jeremiaharyeetey9877 for someone like this he gotta be unfollowing / blocking or she still gonna be leading him on and still wasting his time + energy as she did for the last 4 years😭😭
i respect cody for having the sense of maturity and not letting his dick do the talk. rare to see young men with that type of mindset. cody, you’re young and there’s plenty of life experiences you have yet encountered. live your life and find a partner that meets your needs.
Wait, seriously? It's like that. I wouldn't know. That's interesting to know. I imagine younger couples doing in more often, yeah. I'm 26. I don't step out much. Or do anything with people. But I've done stuff with several women in witcher 3. That was fun
Cody, appreciate the good times, and let the bad times make you stronger. You won’t make this same mistake again! And add value to yourself so you don’t feel desperate to keep everyone who comes your way!
@@tysage1473 not just confidence man. This guy was gaslit and abused. It's different if that's what you grew up with and that's the only experience you have in life. Obviously the guy thought it was normal and what not. It's really no different than a women stuck in a abusive relationship with a man. You gotta feel somewhat bad for them. Confidence won't automatically give you all the life experience you need to know what's right and wrong. Yes he can use more confidence but that's not the only issue
@@tysage1473he is decent looking, which got him the relationship in the first place, it was his personality that got him fucked. He needs to muscle up, and make himself look good, then start approaching girls he’s attracted too, but most importantly have boundaries do shit like this won’t happen
@@melhorfutebol451 easy brother!!! No need to get all personal and shit!!!! And by the way we all have out own preferences when it comes to women so don't assume them are the ones you talm bout!!!! All love tho.
To hell with what’s touchy when we are dating. Nothing is off limits. She made him feel like it’s touchy using the infamous gaslighting so he’d never bring it up again
This reminds me of the movie "Get Out" where girl says she's never been with a black guy before. Later guy finds photo album where she's basically slept with every black man in the city
The same thing happened to me before. The only difference is that it only lasted a year for me because she started being disrespectful. But I was attached to her bcuz she approached me and rizzed me up. That was the first time a female ever validated me like that
@@elibands6956 canon event indeed brother, we dated for almost 3 years, at the end of our relationship, the last 4-6 months of our relationship, intimacy and sex became non existent. I thought we were just going through a rough patch and wanted to work things out. Only to come to the realization that she had lost feelings for me sometime ago, and was using me to further her own agenda at the expense of my feelings when she broke up with me sometime ago suddenly one night out of the blue. Just looking back at our text messages from the day prior to when we broke up, it’s like two different people. It’s a scary world we live in
I was finessed the same way, but for a month of dating. Thank god i didnt let her do me for 4 years like that. That was my first "relationship" too, where I was under the impression that is all i could do. And he's right, had i had more options, or was not desperate I would not have let that happen to me.
Happened to me for 6 months but she was a good girl. I just had a lot of anxiety and couldnt make a move when we would hang out. We would Watch a move and she laid her head on me. I just froze all stupid
same bro at 16, i’m 18 now and this video has removed any doubt and regret i have whenever i reflect on that situation. I gotta stop being passive, I gotta put myself out there so i don’t become desperate. I actually have to be confident and iniate sex because women WANT sex. I was so blinded and caught up with being a nice guy this and that.
Bro ur kinda right but come onnn. Girls out there giving out cat to strangers, if a girl is in a relationship she will make it obvious she wants u to initiate, it should just flow. All these "you should just initiate bro" without some feedback on her side is just gonna get yall a SA charge
@@PolWritesStuffexactly women rather give it to strangers and rapist than a nice guy. I even saw them saying they like ted bundy women are not human beings
This shit honestly made me sad bro. Like gahd damn. That bitch straight robbed this dude 4 years of his youth that could have been spent in the field. Blows my mind that there are dudes that put up with this shit. He’s a good looking dude too. Shit makes no sense.
@@andresj7586blame is on her cause she’s the one oppressing him it’s not his fault at all he’s just a nice guy aka womens most hated being aka the men that women oppress for fun
Even at my most naive when I was in my late teens and early 20s, I would never keep a relationship going with a girl who made me wait even 4 months without sex, never mind 4 years! I knew even before he said it, that he had some sort of financial provision with her during those 4 years as that was the sole reason she stayed with him, and now those finances have run out she inevitably bounced.
Yep you mean innocent men. Girls oppress men for fun which is why we had to oppress them back. Women hate men for no reason so hate them back. They hide under the niceness of men they oppress men while men are nice to them
Man I’m ngl I felt bad af when bro said “I don’t understand that. I mean I have a D”. This is really sad. You’re inspiring me to start a channel and help some dudes out. There’s no way shxt should be this badly for so many men. I thought most men were walking around confident. Idk things were like this.
“I’m assuming she’s a virgin” while at the same time saying it’s a touchy subject is the wildest thing I’ve ever heard. Bro is so far down the rabbit hole he’s chillin with Alice in Wonderland
He reminds me of my early college years. That was about 8-9 years ago. I certainly feel for this young man, but this simp epidemic among young men is very real. Every man needs that first real heartbreak before they wake up. I hope this is that for him.
I relate hard to this guy. I got played so hard by this one girl. A word of advice to all men, do the inner work needed to start loving and respecting yourself. We need to tap into our masculine and assertive energy NOW!
the worst part is the fact that he is actually attractive (no diddy) bro just wanted a relationship to love and be loved and he still got played into stupid games and no emotional connection. that girl really is for the streets😭💀
You got my subscription after this. Bro got his rizz maxed out and he helping us youngins out. I’m young but I’d never got played like this goddamn😂😂 4 years no sex?? HELLL NAHHHHHH
And here i thought 6 months with no cat was crazy lol. I was 18 when i had my first “relationship” the thing was i had a lot of anzxiety. Never made a move. She would hug me and shit and nothing from me. That last date i had i told myself i was gonna make a move on the next hangout. Then she said she was to busy with college and couldnt date me no more lol. I don’t blame her tho. I was a bitch. 4 years tho fuck that
if i’m dating a chick and i don’t smash within the 2nd date or even the first month of talking to her i’m on to the next , let along 4 YEARS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO SEX.
It's kinda strange saying men want a nice classy woman but then also shame her for not putting out quickly. Sounds like she was clear and they did everything but actual intercourse so that was her boundary, it's on him to end things with her if he decided they have different wants. Honestly for his age and also in the more christian world it's pretty normal to have a college relationship and do everything but "sex". All the comments saying "if she's not giving it out on the 3rd date I'm done" "I wouldn't wait 6 days", you can't say you want one type of woman but go for another
@@undefinedchannel9916 Might not be for you, like I said different people and especially in the religious world don't find it strange to wait to have actual intercourse till marriage
Thank you, the whole red pill game is just abt how to have a lot of sex while putting women down enough to make them want to lay down with them. To say that they couldn't go 4 years w/o sex and call her a whore for NOT sleeping w him, when in that same breath they say they want to marry a virgin and that a woman with a low body count is the best. They're hypocrites
See that’s where I’m confused too. Saw someone say if she’s not putting out on the second date he’d ghost her but they are also so quick to shame women for being too easy
I wish he could read what I’m about to say. I was in a situation that had some similarities. I left after 1 1/2 years. I understand in hoping she’d come along as time passed… when you find a girl that actually loves you back it comes along. There’s not of this waiting for it to come along. There’s none of this doubting yourself and questioning what you do. You’ll see the difference in how she treats you in every way right away. Once you see someone that actually loves you it’s becomes super clear how bad the other situation was. If you’re looking for a relationship and there’s any mentioning that she’s young, doesn’t know, wants to experience or spend free time doing every other thing than spend time with you, leave she’s not for you… same thing for women if a guy says that type of stuff. She probably had some feelings for him but really wasn’t in it. I can imagine him calling her and she’s always busy giving him scraps of time and energy. Him thinking it just needs more time to develop. It’s a shame.
This video is a reality check, when women notice you're a nice guy and "husband material" she will start creating standards for you like "no cat until marriage" or some bs like that, I was the bad guy for a while and she was all about giving me that cat and then I turned nice and she start demanding stuff that she would give for free previously hahahahaa that's why I got rid of her, glad I did in time she almost ate my heart.
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how you get friendzoned in a relationship 😭
Guys get friend zoned I marriages too. 🤦
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😂 if they were happy fine
Happens more than u think bru bru
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If they were both virgins waiting for marriage that would make more sense, but this dude has honestly been bamboozled.
what happens when you’re oblivious to female nature
He got finessed 😢😂
@deshaun_williams nah some are legit but most are capping
@@sentry4270 agreed
dude this doesnt happen anymore wake up
Hes so innocent mahhhhn. Very gentle and soft
That’s why it happened to him unfortunately you can be a good man but not a nice man
he probably needs TRT.....
And you're seeing the results in 4k
@@presmokanAin’t that the truth 😢😢
He clueless , i hope he gonna understand soon. If he stay like this he doomed
He actually cares to help. Bro saving lives
dude wanted to cry at the end. Im sure he had real feelings for her (even though shes for the streets) but its just a shame he didnt know any better
many such cases, sad part is young women have no problem leading these guys on for a loooong time, by the time they know better they're in their 30's locked down..
He should cry it out when he’s alone and to himself. You gotta get those feelings out of you when you’re young, it’ll help him forget her. He’s gonna be a stronger man👍🏽
This is why we as men need men communities and manly spaces
Most probably he is a Mama's boy. A single Mama's boy.
@@panos7256What’s wrong with being a Mama’s boy? 🤨
i cant believe this entertainment is free 😂😂😂
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Unless she's a virgin that's waiting for marriage that's the fattest L in history
She ain’t he goes when he bought it up she acts like it’s a funny subject
@@IFAMILYIHyeah virgins tell you right away basically. Either the first few dates or when you first go to take off the clothes
She is cheating on him all day long but he is clueless
what if she had sex trauma from assault? It could be a possibility, of course the fact that she broke up w him because he's not providing it's crazy
@@sassofrasso4655say that then
Feel so bad for bro man😭😭 “we need to have a moment of silence for you”
Wild 😭
but where's this dude's friends man I'm so confused?!?!?! He didn't have anybody to tell him to smarten up? i feel so shit lol
@@AnthonyKartsevhis friends probably just assumed he was getting cheeks just based off the fact that they had been together for so long.
He needs to wake tf up😂😂😂
@ dude fr lollll
this poor duude bruh... this is how some people are, punish naive people... Dude deserved a gem but got the streets
This world will turn a good man cold. That's why they say ignorance is bliss 💯 Luckily never had problems with getting women but when you're with a lot of women you see they are a lot darker than they present themselves. They seem like angels but they really demons. I don't chase kitty anymore, haven't for years. Too many problems that come with it and I enjoy my peace too much to deal with these narcissistic women. Kitty is not that good, I've had lots. Have some respect for yourselves , don't give her the upper hand. They can't control themselves when they get power. Almost all of them can't be trusted
Agreed he probably would be a good bf to a girl but he picked the wrong one.
He deserved what he accepted. He accepted someone who COMPLETELY disregarded and disrespected him entirely. While it's also the women's fault and she's a nasty person, he needs to understand that he let her walk all over him as well.
@@IamMortuipeople get rlly blind in certain situations, almost like they need to zoom out and rlly understand whats going on
"Deserved a gem"? No. Since when does being naive and foolish grant you "a gem"?
This is the start of his metamorphisis, he needed this
Real shit
Man is going to look back and think how crazy this is .
nigha talm bout he dk what she did in high school, boi u betta go find out what she did in college 🤣🤣
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Facts she was probably cheating on him 😂
@@LTay12not "probably". She 100% was cheating on him
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@@OGhunnedbro 😂
I wanna see this guy succeed so bad bro he deserves it
The guy got played big time.theirs no way im in a 4 year relationship and get no sex from my girlfriend.thats doesnt make any sense.she was cheating on him and another guy was hitting that.
Multiple guys were probably hitting
Bruh that’s so fcked ⬆️
Depends. Maybe she's waiting for marriage.
@dmythica no she wasnt.she was fucking somebody else.i was in a relationship for 4 months.she broke up with me cause she saw I wasn't happy.we never made love or kiss at all.she did me a favor.1 time I called her another man answer her phone.she said it was her cousin which was bullshit.that was day she and I broke up.even my godsister told me she was sleeping with somebody.never invited me to her apartment.i can't believe he stuck around for 4 years.thats fucking crazy to me.believe me she was getting her back blownout.
@JohnJunior-l9zl9z your situation isn't his. The girl you know isn't this girl.
There are definitely girls around that are waiting until marriage, but if it was never even mentioned so that's pretty unlikely.
I've been with my wife for 18 years we didn't wait until we were married, but both have only had sex with each other. My oldest kid is 16 now, and just starting to date. I've taught her the reason for dating is to find a life partner, and advised her to wait until she's married. I don't want my daughter devaluing herself with multiple partners.
If my wife wasn't a virgin when we met, I don't think we'd be together now. Having only 1 sexual partner optimises pair bonding, and you will feel closer to your life partner than if either of you have had multiple partners.
More fathers need to teach their daughters correctly. Be open about it, and keep an eye on them. Loose women are ruining the dating market.
Yall clowning him for being human but he’s got more of a genuine heart than most of you people. There’s good people still around but most of you guys just look for one sided love which is why yall are clowning this mf cuz yall can’t comprehend how he feels.
This. Dude has a good heart and he will find someone else that matches his level soon enough because of it. Last thing we want is him to make someone else feel pushed or uncomfortable rather than letting things develop organically with the right person.
Nothing good about being a coward
hes a good guy but hes been a cuck for the past 4 years
You must be using men too…
@jayn6496 bro go start with getting an actual girl to talk to you before talking sh in the comments. Stank ah mf😂
This poor kid...and he’s still a kid with a kiddy mindset. This is LITERALLY THE DEFINITION OF A SIMP. I feel sorry for this young man. He’s got to move on and gain more confidence.
This guy doesn’t believe that women like sex
He was first friendzoned in a relationship, then she wanted him to be in the simpzone putting more work in than she does for him.
not a simp just a young unexperienced naive kid... got nothing to do with simping
@@AnthonyKartsev nah that’s definitely simping. We all were getting action at his age. Let’s not act like age has anything to do with it
not true you will be surprised how many guys get no booty until there like 25-30 irs crazy
He was kinda harsh with this guy, but honestly, hearing all of these kind of guys, they really do need to wake up! I had one long term relationship, but I’m listening to all of these guys and I’m going to be careful next time around.
they’re literally ruining their lives in real time. now isn’t the time to sweet talk some sense into them. they need some bitter truth
@@morefitxfearlessclips-official Yeah, no s**t! Even though I had only one relationship, I just want to date around and maybe sleep around, but, big but, I’m gonna be smart about it and careful.
he honestly was very tame. i was expecting fit to call cody a paypig LMAO
@@morefitxfearlessclips-officialbro you got *0* chicks and you can’t have an actual convo with em
@@SLX_632fuk your talm bout 😂
What I came to realize is that parents and fathers are slacking in their responsibilities to teach their sons how to become men. Damn bro, this is gonna be a huge problem for society in future.
Agreed
Absolutely.
that's because 304s kicked out the fathers for a check
Fit's facial expressions each time this man adds something is hilarious 😂
Man i feel for this guy. You can see the words hitting him and him experiencing the first time his heart gets ripped out. Hopefully he learns from this and wont let this happen ever again.
I can’t wrap my head around this. I almost cried lol I feel so sorry for this guy.
Love yourself and respect yourself.
women always cry about no good men, but good men get treated like trash. never be the nice guy!
Probably the nice girls aren’t getting the nice guys because the nice guys keep falling for the mean girls who turn them into bad guys - which the nice girls later receive.
Exactly
Exactly. Proof shows women oppressed men while men never oppressed women
Dont ever be a simp.when you simp she doesnt respect you.
Simping is healthy just not one way
@DereineLord it's not healthy at all.simping is terrible.
@@DereineLordYou make the masculine look weak.
@@DereineLord dude never give up your self respect for any chick.
@@DereineLord you clearly have no clue what simping is if you think it’s healthy
I know it’s easy to clown Cody but some of us guys weren’t aware of female nature; especially at that young age.
Good thing he learned this at a young age though. This is necessary for character development
Y’all go easy on the guy, I was Cody once upon a time. I was the same age as him too, and fell for the pretty n spice everything nice girl. He’s an innocent good man. Cody go cry it out bro, get into fighting, weights, or a sport and become a beast. You’re gonna be a strong man bro, believe that. 👍🏽
Good looking dude too, I pray he comes back stronger
Hy it’s a fun journey tho
Please tell me cody is trolling, 4 years getting finessed is crazy 😭
Many young men getting played like this due to a lack of guidance from a masculine father/father figure/brotherhood🤷🏾♂️
10:00 😂😂😂
Yup@@emekaasiegbu3697
Crazy fosho
He has to be. It’s not like he’s a bad looking guy either
Dude definitely got played I’m glad u put some sense into him💯💯💯💯
I think she was cheating on him
Most definitely!!
The whole time i bet smh
Here's what I think: she was probably gay and wasn't sexually attracted to men
@@FITfor2NOWprobably but 9 outta 10 she just doesn’t appreciate him cause of the way he doesn’t value himself
i could bet my house on this😂
These women out here violating these guys man. Fit X out here helping dudes 😂
Men, please understand: if you are not sleeping with your gf, someone is
True
Not if she’s a virgin
@@thetruth9939 even if she is a virgin she sleeps with men that hate her I’m living proof of that
Keep preaching the good message Fit
He needs to go no contact. Stop replying to her texts and move on. Unfollow everywhere
Don’t unfollow that’s makes you weak. Develop the mentality to ignore her while you improve yourself, and apparently that’d reflect on your social media
@@jeremiaharyeetey9877"that makes you weak" bro you're probably 30+ and still single, reIax
@@jeremiaharyeetey9877wrong. Block her on everything. What is wrong with you?
@@jeremiaharyeetey9877 for someone like this he gotta be unfollowing / blocking or she still gonna be leading him on and still wasting his time + energy as she did for the last 4 years😭😭
@@jeremiaharyeetey9877 It doesn't. Having constant updates of your exes never does good.
This dude is cooked
Barbecued with mayonnaise cooked!
this is why you fail to talk to women
Cooked, packed in the fridge, reheated in the microwave... then incinerated lol
Cooked is a soft word for that kind of situation, I have never seen a person cooked worse than that…
Dude is overcooked, overseasoned, dry, and stringy
i respect cody for having the sense of maturity and not letting his dick do the talk. rare to see young men with that type of mindset.
cody, you’re young and there’s plenty of life experiences you have yet encountered. live your life and find a partner that meets your needs.
Bro really had a friendzone relationship 😂😂
hes handsome, doesnt look weak, seems like a genuine guy., thats ironically just what a girl like her needs tbh
Mentally weak…that doesn’t show in physical
He comes across as way too passive. A lot of women do not like that. You gotta be assertive.
He good on paper but women want toxic theyr the problem
@@lonetardigrade I'm saying more of what they could possibly need, not want
You talking about bad women, good women don't like toxic@@ValourFlame
Bro nah, I see it in his Eyes.. This Man grew up. He on his Villian Arc now
I really feel like some of these are just trolls. Bro if your girl goes even a WEEK without fucking you, there is a problem.
Facts
what you already know, is brand new info to others
be ffr
@@morefitxfearlessclips-officialmaybe he was a professional fortnite player
Wait, seriously? It's like that. I wouldn't know. That's interesting to know. I imagine younger couples doing in more often, yeah. I'm 26. I don't step out much. Or do anything with people. But I've done stuff with several women in witcher 3. That was fun
Cody, appreciate the good times, and let the bad times make you stronger. You won’t make this same mistake again! And add value to yourself so you don’t feel desperate to keep everyone who comes your way!
Honestly crazy, good looking kid too. Hope this is what he needed to snap out of it.
I know he's not ugly just shows you confidence matters more
@@tysage1473 not just confidence man. This guy was gaslit and abused. It's different if that's what you grew up with and that's the only experience you have in life. Obviously the guy thought it was normal and what not. It's really no different than a women stuck in a abusive relationship with a man. You gotta feel somewhat bad for them. Confidence won't automatically give you all the life experience you need to know what's right and wrong.
Yes he can use more confidence but that's not the only issue
@@ayushmalpeddi2793 agreed he's young confidence is not the full solution but it would help him make better decisions.
@@tysage1473he is decent looking, which got him the relationship in the first place, it was his personality that got him fucked. He needs to muscle up, and make himself look good, then start approaching girls he’s attracted too, but most importantly have boundaries do shit like this won’t happen
“that’s all you got out of 4 years, blue balls!” 😭😭😭
Simps are cooked.
Western men r cooked 😂😂 forefathers died for us not you guys 😂😂😂 thank you to your forefathers...
when bro actually wake up he gone be a demon
I've already seen it. He's gonna be a menace.
He gon be a player fr😭😭
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That’s what girls like
@@thaaLoverboyy9944Soka.
She was DEFINITELY getting her guts rearranged by Chad , poor kid
Like your western mother before she met that cuck that impregnated her. Westerns 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂REARRANGED is diabolical you know
@@melhorfutebol451 easy brother!!! No need to get all personal and shit!!!! And by the way we all have out own preferences when it comes to women so don't assume
them are the ones you talm bout!!!! All love tho.
@@melhorfutebol451 its all love brother. Blessings your way💯
To hell with what’s touchy when we are dating. Nothing is off limits. She made him feel like it’s touchy using the infamous gaslighting so he’d never bring it up again
100%
1:08 I hope doesn't think she didn't have sex with someone else
Because there's no way she was just chilling with her boy best friend for 4 years 😂
she most likely did 😢😂
This young needed to hear the truth. Luckily he's still very young
Poor guy, he’s too innocent. I’ve been there but you learn through experience. Thats life
This reminds me of the movie "Get Out" where girl says she's never been with a black guy before. Later guy finds photo album where she's basically slept with every black man in the city
Nahhh😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂
Just stop talking to her....shell come back and just ignore her ass 😅
Cody... Cody... Cody!
The same thing happened to me before. The only difference is that it only lasted a year for me because she started being disrespectful. But I was attached to her bcuz she approached me and rizzed me up. That was the first time a female ever validated me like that
Canon event. 1.5 years for me. Can’t let dat shit happen again tho
@@elibands6956 canon event indeed brother, we dated for almost 3 years, at the end of our relationship, the last 4-6 months of our relationship, intimacy and sex became non existent. I thought we were just going through a rough patch and wanted to work things out. Only to come to the realization that she had lost feelings for me sometime ago, and was using me to further her own agenda at the expense of my feelings when she broke up with me sometime ago suddenly one night out of the blue. Just looking back at our text messages from the day prior to when we broke up, it’s like two different people. It’s a scary world we live in
@@elibands6956a year and a half with no cat is crazy
Hold up, can you tell me how she started being disrespectful + the signs?
Same
I was finessed the same way, but for a month of dating. Thank god i didnt let her do me for 4 years like that. That was my first "relationship" too, where I was under the impression that is all i could do. And he's right, had i had more options, or was not desperate I would not have let that happen to me.
A month isn’t bad at all. I just been through this too.
@@Giopowered Yes, ik, but you know youve been finessed when she led me on for 6 weeks and others she slept with first date
Happened to me for 6 months but she was a good girl. I just had a lot of anxiety and couldnt make a move when we would hang out. We would Watch a move and she laid her head on me. I just froze all stupid
same bro at 16, i’m 18 now and this video has removed any doubt and regret i have whenever i reflect on that situation. I gotta stop being passive, I gotta put myself out there so i don’t become desperate. I actually have to be confident and iniate sex because women WANT sex. I was so blinded and caught up with being a nice guy this and that.
@@aarongonzalez4458It's okay bruh. I hope you were able to learn from that and move on.
He didn't initiate. He thought it would just happen without him doing anything.
Bro ur kinda right but come onnn. Girls out there giving out cat to strangers, if a girl is in a relationship she will make it obvious she wants u to initiate, it should just flow. All these "you should just initiate bro" without some feedback on her side is just gonna get yall a SA charge
Guy did say he initiated it but the girl wasnt feeling it
@@PolWritesStuffexactly women rather give it to strangers and rapist than a nice guy. I even saw them saying they like ted bundy women are not human beings
I pray for Cody 💪🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽
love the honesty 😭😭😭
This shit honestly made me sad bro. Like gahd damn. That bitch straight robbed this dude 4 years of his youth that could have been spent in the field. Blows my mind that there are dudes that put up with this shit. He’s a good looking dude too. Shit makes no sense.
The girl used him and abused him, but if we’re honest he’s the one to blame for staying there for 4 years. The kid is wayyy to passive
@@andresj7586100%. He’s a good guy and she’s an awful person, but the blame is on him for letting this happen.
@@andresj7586blame is on her cause she’s the one oppressing him it’s not his fault at all he’s just a nice guy aka womens most hated being aka the men that women oppress for fun
He had me saying "Codyyy!" out loud smh 😂
She took full advantage of him. Most moms don’t prepare their sons for this.
This is honestly kind of sad, angered me a little
This happened to me too! Except it’s been 10years. We’re married now.
did you smash yet
cody was getting played, plain n simple, poor dude. I wouldn't have wasted more than 2-3 months on someone like that
Even at my most naive when I was in my late teens and early 20s, I would never keep a relationship going with a girl who made me wait even 4 months without sex, never mind 4 years! I knew even before he said it, that he had some sort of financial provision with her during those 4 years as that was the sole reason she stayed with him, and now those finances have run out she inevitably bounced.
Go easy on him and make him understand his mistakes.
He’s been gaslighted hard, innocent people often go through this :/
Yep you mean innocent men. Girls oppress men for fun which is why we had to oppress them back. Women hate men for no reason so hate them back. They hide under the niceness of men they oppress men while men are nice to them
Innocent men go through it
Men don’t oppress women ever which is why women are predators trying to destroy men for fun
Man I’m ngl I felt bad af when bro said “I don’t understand that. I mean I have a D”. This is really sad. You’re inspiring me to start a channel and help some dudes out. There’s no way shxt should be this badly for so many men. I thought most men were walking around confident. Idk things were like this.
Go ahead bro. More power to you.
“I’m assuming she’s a virgin” while at the same time saying it’s a touchy subject is the wildest thing I’ve ever heard. Bro is so far down the rabbit hole he’s chillin with Alice in Wonderland
She could have been raped
He reminds me of my early college years. That was about 8-9 years ago. I certainly feel for this young man, but this simp epidemic among young men is very real. Every man needs that first real heartbreak before they wake up. I hope this is that for him.
Fitx just saved bros life 😭
When he said “I don’t even understand why she would do that” it hurt my soul 😭
I relate hard to this guy. I got played so hard by this one girl. A word of advice to all men, do the inner work needed to start loving and respecting yourself. We need to tap into our masculine and assertive energy NOW!
Nah you need God. Y’all thinking a a few minutes of pleasure is worth yall eternity. Fornication is a sin🤦🏾
Hold on bro lemme get my popcorn 🍿 😂😂😂😂
Bro got finessed sooo hard wtf
Bro is hurting 😂😂😂😂
the worst part is the fact that he is actually attractive (no diddy) bro just wanted a relationship to love and be loved and he still got played into stupid games and no emotional connection.
that girl really is for the streets😭💀
You got my subscription after this. Bro got his rizz maxed out and he helping us youngins out. I’m young but I’d never got played like this goddamn😂😂 4 years no sex?? HELLL NAHHHHHH
stop saying rizz
@@morefitxfearlessclips-official😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@morefitxfearlessclips-officialthank you
Tony is the definition of the “nice guy” he’s gotta straighten up , you can be a good guy; but can let ppl walk over you like he’s doin lol
Guy just sits there in cope, man its so sad. I hope he finally straightens up.
Fit said “she doesn’t have a job and she’s worried about if you can provide or not?!” That’s why she’s worried about it, bro. 🤦🏽♂️😂😂😂
4 years and no cat is wild
And here i thought 6 months with no cat was crazy lol. I was 18 when i had my first “relationship” the thing was i had a lot of anzxiety. Never made a move. She would hug me and shit and nothing from me. That last date i had i told myself i was gonna make a move on the next hangout. Then she said she was to busy with college and couldnt date me no more lol. I don’t blame her tho. I was a bitch. 4 years tho fuck that
nah it just depends on the person
20 years here i can still breathe ahahhaa whats your point
if i’m dating a chick and i don’t smash within the 2nd date or even the first month of talking to her i’m on to the next , let along 4 YEARS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO SEX.
Yo this is so sad bruh lol but funny as shit too
God bless you Cody 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Dude Fs was swinging in the air after the call 😂😂
Fa?
@@nicholasrodriguez4990 for sure
It's kinda strange saying men want a nice classy woman but then also shame her for not putting out quickly. Sounds like she was clear and they did everything but actual intercourse so that was her boundary, it's on him to end things with her if he decided they have different wants. Honestly for his age and also in the more christian world it's pretty normal to have a college relationship and do everything but "sex". All the comments saying "if she's not giving it out on the 3rd date I'm done" "I wouldn't wait 6 days", you can't say you want one type of woman but go for another
4 years is not “quickly”. No, it’s not normal to not have sex after 4 years.
@@undefinedchannel9916 Might not be for you, like I said different people and especially in the religious world don't find it strange to wait to have actual intercourse till marriage
Thank you, the whole red pill game is just abt how to have a lot of sex while putting women down enough to make them want to lay down with them. To say that they couldn't go 4 years w/o sex and call her a whore for NOT sleeping w him, when in that same breath they say they want to marry a virgin and that a woman with a low body count is the best. They're hypocrites
Then it seems pretty dumb for them to date when they're not ready for ready for marriage
See that’s where I’m confused too. Saw someone say if she’s not putting out on the second date he’d ghost her but they are also so quick to shame women for being too easy
4 YEARS, OMG, SHE USED HIM
She definitely cheated on him if she wasnt getting action from him otherwise she wouldve left him a long time ago
why some girls are pulling off shit to nice people man this kid is gold
This is the most pain imaginable
It is, I would be devastated in that situation. Oh my god 😂
Not letting your bf of 4 years smash then wanting to breakup at 22 because of financial security is some CRAAAAAAZY work.
If she don’t give it within the first week or month leave.
6:44 Bruh 🤣 I literally spit out my food 😆
The biggest problem with this conversation is the host has a hard time calmly listening to the guy then offering the guy advice.
Wdh you talking about! He needs the shock. Evidently his father taught him nothing or gave him ass advice.
Nah. This shit is genuinely crazy dude.
Aint no calmly listening this guy needs to wake up
I wish he could read what I’m about to say. I was in a situation that had some similarities. I left after 1 1/2 years. I understand in hoping she’d come along as time passed… when you find a girl that actually loves you back it comes along. There’s not of this waiting for it to come along. There’s none of this doubting yourself and questioning what you do. You’ll see the difference in how she treats you in every way right away. Once you see someone that actually loves you it’s becomes super clear how bad the other situation was. If you’re looking for a relationship and there’s any mentioning that she’s young, doesn’t know, wants to experience or spend free time doing every other thing than spend time with you, leave she’s not for you… same thing for women if a guy says that type of stuff.
She probably had some feelings for him but really wasn’t in it. I can imagine him calling her and she’s always busy giving him scraps of time and energy. Him thinking it just needs more time to develop. It’s a shame.
crazy thing is hes good looking too
Your a 🌈 forsure 😂
Thanks for helping this youngster. Lord knows we’ve all been there. 😉
This video is a reality check, when women notice you're a nice guy and "husband material" she will start creating standards for you like "no cat until marriage" or some bs like that, I was the bad guy for a while and she was all about giving me that cat and then I turned nice and she start demanding stuff that she would give for free previously hahahahaa that's why I got rid of her, glad I did in time she almost ate my heart.
Can you give examples of what stuff she starting demanding that she would give for free?
Exactly I believe you.
I hope this kid listens this was all facts
this shi is cold how this happens to people