I think it's deflection.. It wouldn't sound good if a woman said "I can't Respect a man who doesn't make what I make".. So instead they will say "men are intimidated by my income". It's a slick way to justify why their asking for a man with a certain income. And it creates the illusion that the man is the one who has the problem. Not her..
@@bigtank6465both can be true, men are intimidated by women who earn more this is true even in the workplace when there’s no romance involved and it’s also true women don’t respect men who earn less or they’re not attracted to men who earn less, it is what it is
She said she dont like 'older men who dresses like there in their twenties ' meanwhile she on the show wearing a hoodie, with a childrens character on it. Okay ......
I don’t understand why women feel the need to discuss the money they make and compare it to their suitors. The only time finances should come up if when you’re headed towards marriage. NO ONE needs to know how much you make unless you’re filing taxes together. Wild!
I’ve been saying this since the beginning! I have never discussed finances with a man I was dating! My husband is the only man I’ve ever discussed salary with and that is when we started discussing marriage
@@Tiredttttttt to each its own but it’s not a question that came up with everybody I was dating. I will say I dated in certain circles and knew their professions so I didn’t have to ask.
MEN are not turned on by a woman talking about money and her job and the same things he does. it's a complete turn off. however, if she is cute, he wil pretend to care, hit then be out. women, talk about how you take care of your nices or nephew or baby sit and live at home with mom and dad or take care of aging parents. anything other than your career and you traveling!
they find comfort in being basic, and they look for females that have low standards or they want a female that aint seen anything so they can "impress" them
I’m 41 yo & not one time in my life have I heard a dude say he was intimidated by a woman. Every time I’ve heard that, it came from a woman with a lot of kids.
Why do people come on here talking about, I'll date someone with more ambitious to make more money. Not everyone is an entrepreneur. Not everyone wants to work 80 hours a week. Work their life away then die. CRAZY!
I’m happily in the 6 figure range and happily married. I have never had to work over 40 hours if I didn’t want to. Max, maybe 45 hours here and there over some periods of my career. I work hard at my job and I don’t need to hustle. I get paid very well for the work that I provide to my company, and then I go home. I’ll be damned if I spent four years in college and then training, only to be nearly 40 years old and putting in 70 hours per week and working multiple jobs or managing multiple streams of income. My life is about as stress-free as I could imagine, which is worth much more than a little extra money. This woman on here explains exactly why women outlive men. Heart disease and primarily stress. Men have enough outside stress and then come home to more stress and pressure. This kills people, and listening to this woman shows exactly why.
@@JustBree716I felt this comment. I swear “ entrepreneur” may as well be the new word for “slavery.” If I have to work around the cock just for someone to date me…I think I’m all set. I’m 42 and tired if these folks want to work themselves into a grave they can have it.
Yes!! If I were to ever come on this show (if I really wanted my feelings hurt), I’d say I want STABILITY and RELIABILITY. As long as you don’t become a financial liability by having a bunch of money one month and asking to borrow rent money the next. I don’t care nan about an entrepreneur.
Man look, having to work that hard in your 40’s, means you jacked something up in your 20’s. I’m in my 40’s and 5 years from retirement. I’ll be damn if I start doing 70 hr weeks 😂
Meh, nah most dudes want women who has shape. The traditional bbws before big bad body chicks , and these nip/tuck females stole the word. You see it in every facet of life chicks who have bad bodies skinny or obese , "usually " will have a good feminine personality that will carry her to get a regular joe. Yet now a days you got ugly chicks claiming their bad bit"hes and have nasty insufferable attitudes and want the upper echelon of dudes.😅
They don’t want to combine their income, that’s why they kept saying providers. They want to keep their imaginary 100k to themselves while you provide the lifestyle they want to live. Modern women don’t want relationships, they want a life style and early retirement plan at your expense.
Her kids father take good care of them 50/50, and then several minutes later she has been taking care of kids for 14 years alone because she had to. And then several minutes later, her kids father wasnt a dead beat. Lol. Wouldnt that mean you in fact did not take care of your kids alone for 14 years? The contradictions are endless here.
She probably means as the CUSTODIAL parent. Ex husband probably takes care FINANCIALLY only! That's my interpretation. (Actually, she clarified it at the end.. so yea, I'm correct. )
Why do women always say he has to want more? As if he can’t be content with where he is. What if he’s done growing in life, is that so wrong? Some of you women don’t even qualify for a man that makes a certain amount but always want a man to want more make more do more. It’s tired.
Thanks for saying this. The reality is that a good, comfortable, safe fulfilling life is boring to a lot of women with their modern mindset. A guy could be an electrician making $110,000 per year and that's all he wants to do but since he won't go start his own electrician business he's not ambitious. He's happy with the great income and the 411 k match and pension. A woman would leave this man & later tell everybody he just didn't want to "grow". And when you start digging into the past of some of these womens story who are claiming men don't grow or are shiftless you start to see they just were bored.
Just because a man makes good money doesn't mean he qualifies as a good candidate for a relationship. Idk why so many of you women throw out good character. Too many speaking on income income. People need to look at Character and the upkeep of ones life as well. I know men who make good money & don't have a damn asset to their name and always crying broke and make over 100k a year
I've made over 100k for the past few years, and I work with a bunch of men who make even more than I do. WE DON'T CARE ABOUT A WOMAN'S MONEY! No man wants a bum, but we don't look at women's high income as something making her wifey material. We care about her CHARACTER! I make good money but no woman who makes high income a requirement for her, will EVER get my attention!
Yuppp... thats like the equivalent of a men that can't get an Instagram baddie... but he says im willing to date a women thats 190lbs but she gotta be willing to drop down to 140lbs... and if she doesn't shes intimidated
As a woman, I don't get how some of these woman don't hear or really look in the mirror of reality. Women have to stop leading with your income it's a non factor to most men. You can't want a high value man if you don't present as a high value woman physically or tone of voice. Yes, men want natural but if I'm a straight woman who sees your thumbnail to this clip and think you are a lesbian...who crazy? You. You are presenting as a combative boss chick who greatly favors lesbian rapper. Watch the replay sis😢
Hey there are beginning 6 figure men who look like her. Trust me they are around. Why some don't get regular haircuts, keep clothes until they know they can't hold them anymore, wait too late to attend to important stuff that their money can take care of is beyond me. I will never understand.
I don't know why women keep circulating this lie that men are intimidated by them. There is no intimidation. There's two things happening : 1. YOU lead with money, and it is off-putting to a man that doesn't care about money. We simply don't like your attitude. A lot of you lead with money and it is not attractive. Men with money don't care about your money. 2. When you do make more money than your man, you throw it in his face overtly or sneakily. Of course the man starts to resent you when you make him feel less than in that way. None of these things have to do with being intimidated.
No man has ever been taken seriously saying that. I currently make $150k per year. I am going to start saying I have the earning potential to make $1 Million.
Love is too transactional these days. The majority of this entire conversation was regarding income. Not the qualities she’s looking for in a potential spouse, not plans for a serious relationship or even love. Just income and money.
That's just woman logic. They all want credit for shit they have done yet or trying to do. Whether it's weight loss, earning potential, education etc. The man needs to match where they think they gonna be🙄
Yeah she need to take a break. No children are home so why the hell is so working that hard. She should have that well needed extra time to be a Girly Girl now
I love hearing that story about how men are intimidated by how much a woman makes when in reality is the woman's attitude that men don't like. But acknowledging the reality would require self-awareness and accountability.
Wait! Let be honest. 100-200k women are spending all they money. (Women are spenders).. 100k 200k is nothing if ur bills are very high. They never get in shape😂. Just bigger go on vacation 😂
In my 22 years and 338 days of life, I’ve often seen women try to change men into their ideal. For example, a woman might meet a man working as a firefighter, only to later expect him to become fire chief within a few months. While men should strive for stability and growth, not everyone is looking to climb the career ladder. Just like in sports, not everyone needs to be the star-role players are vital too. Women should respect a man’s contentment with his life and stop trying to mold him into something he’s not.
Once I learned men aren't wired to do a lot of things women expect, I have grace for them. Grace enough to stay in my own lane. Men are not good at multi tasking. It takes a lot out of them to do certain things. They have physical strength but its a lot that put strain on men. Women want to transform men into something he's not, then they get disappointed when he can't live up to what she had in mind. Men fall short and will continue to fall short because the expectation for them is to high.
“Men are intimidated by me because of how much money I make.” Every time a woman says this, Men (of every race and income bracket) instantly stop listening.
Baby I’m sorry but it’s giving bull dagger😖 when men say they like “natural beauty” the key word is beauty! That doesn’t mean put on fake lashes or caked on makeup but a little lip gloss and concealer never hurt anybody😅. Presenting yourself like Cleo from set it off is never the move…
I agree, at this point she might as well cross on over🤣🤣 I'm 22 minutes in and I am floored. It took 15 minutes to finally digest the fact that she's actually looking for a man
I don't often agree with the harsh comments but, this is crazy! She dated men of the financial caliber she requested but, no spark, no chemistry, and no mutual feelings. She appears to be a women who'll never be satisfied and equates her work as a relationship. I work to provide for my living- I don't work to live!
@@mrmoe110 i have been saying this for a long time...they have become men in how they present their portfolio when looking for a man. Men are not looking for themselves. Thet are looking for a women with attributes that balance off their role to make it equally qolk. They dont need a woman making six figures they need a woman who brings what a woman is supposed to provide to complete the purpose. They obviously dont want a gold digger and are not saying having her own is wrong he us saying you cant lead with attributes of a man. Lead with qualities that exemplify femininity, nurturing and the ability to work together for the overall wellness of the family. If you observe the attitude most of them have you can see why no men want them.
@@mrmoe110 I replied but someone deleted it. I agree. I have been saying this. Men generally lead with a portfolio regarding assets and degrees. Yes, it is OK for a woman to have her own for many reasons but men are looking for what makes a woman a woman not a provider.
Have dated ladies who are doctors,lawyers,MBAs,and engineers. Have never heard them say that men are "intimidated" by their ambition or their earnings. It's always an older,obese woman, who's not hitting on anything, making that claim.
Since when has the motivating factor for dating become a business deal? Most real men don't need a woman's resources, need help with writing a business plan, or need her to motivate him. That is a subordinate position. Real men assume, maintain and take pride in fulfiling the dominant role. She been dating Pookies!
It's a way to PUSH him to become what she wants. To be better man at times but IF I start the relationship saying, "I want to get you to a healthy weight"...she (most women out of shape) will surly get offended.
To tell a man "I don't need you", "I want you." That's the biggest motivation for this boss.l babe mentality imo opinion. Think about why is it so easy for a woman to submit to her boss at work but not the man she chose to marry. It's a simple power grab regarding leadership in the relationship. and while I do think there is an achievable happy medium that men are adapting as generations progress. this behavior will never be acceptable to a provider.
She said her and the ex husband contributes 50/50 to the kids. Then 5 minutes later, she said she raised the kids by herself. So she was married to a man and had 3 kids BUT she had to raise them alone. LOL
Median is a better statistic to use than average since it's the middle where as averages get really skewed by the lowest earners. That said the median I'd only about 10k higher.
More like 60k, but I totally agree with you. Plus, oftentimes men in those higher income ranges are usually married or at least have a partner or child from a past relationship, especially considering the age range she is requesting. If they are divorced, they could be paying alimony. Times are hard for people in general. Plus, it sounds as though she is so devoted to her various jobs that there is no time to have a steady relationship.
Most recent data from U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics form Q3 2024 is that men earned $1,165 per week in median income. $1,165 x 50 (2 weeks vacation) = $58,250 in U.S. male median income. Just fyi.
I think she’s missing it. She does give masculine vibes. It’s an energy thing. She’s a beautiful girl; but, men are going to make a lot of assumptions based off of her presentation - weight, style, femininity, etc.
Beautiful?!! How? Where? She’s wearing a baseball cap. 🧢 Is she going to a baseball game? Heavy, dark bags under her eyes. The Young M.A. braids as many have noted. A big, frumpy, baggy hoodie that every loser overweight dude wears. And she is 80-100 lbs. overweight depending on her height. On a scale from 0-10 she is a 3 out of 10.
she is manly, old, baby mama, can't bear healthy kids no more, boss, talks too much, etc.. there is NOTHING about this woman that is desirable as a wife. This is a jump off, nothing more
Leave the wood panels alone! It’s looks really good in an Eichler!! 😂😂😂😂😂 My parents have wood paneling in the South. 😂😂 My dad went crazy and stained it Mahogany 😂😂.
@@lizzyb5884 I get what you’re saying, but most men earning above average income are pickier when it pertains to appearance and other traits. Whereas men can more or less get away with being overweight and perhaps even unattractive if they exude enough wealth, intelligence and status. Of course it is not true for everyone, but there is a trend.
When I was first building myself before my career took off, I went from making 68k a year to 150k a year within 2 years. Women have to learn how to invest in the right man and stick with him. She's talking about 85k isn't a lot of money but only around 10-12 percent of black men make that. And I've never cared about a womans pockets before I became a high earner. No man is intimidated by your money he just don't want to date another man lol. I'm surprised more women don't study the numbers especially when what they are looking for is rare based off pure math. Last piece of advice for the is woman is get in shape! If you are finally back single in your 40's the competition is stiff!
At this point sis, either be happy single or listen to what these men are saying in the comments. It tickles me how women swears they know how men think and vice versa. May need to rebuke that masculinity and work on self and allow the man to find you. He will already know what you need and best for you. Oftentimes, money won’t be the problem solving solution to happiness.
she 40 will a hyper masculine attitude. Ain't no confident, self sufficient man who is looking for a beautiful, kind, submissive helpmate is choosing her. Ain't happening especially with the standard/preferences she has set. Ain't no way. She got a better chance of finding Neverland.
You married your high school sweetheart, now divorced thinking you are going to find something better. You are about to find out that behind the fence there are only mosquitoes, raccoons, skunks, and chickens with feathers
ma'am you said the father of your children provide 50% and you're gucci; then later said you tired of being the sole provider for the past 14 years . which one is true
@@GreatMindsSeekTruth “We can start a business in trucking”, did you catch that part? All these get rich quick tik tok schemes really have these women thinking its that easy.. But the time it gets online for everyone to do, it’s too late to just get into the business. Do people realize that?
I think SOME women don’t understand that if your strategy is to wait at the finish line for a man, the competition is fierce. There are women raised to wives that exude femininity at all times. My wife is the type of woman that can shift the energy in a room with her presence and she’s even helped me close large deals. She is also an attorney and a high earner. I’m a top 5% earner and I hate to break the news to some women. It would be hard to even break into these circles for most.
In all the years of being a man I've never had a conversation with another man where they have said or indicated that they were intimidated by how much a woman makes. There are however, always conversation about how women in certain positions think that they can denigrate people who don't make as much as them. And I'm glad Kendra brought up the mentality issue because that's what it actually is and not this story women like to tell is fictitious.
@@spencersmith9131 Yep let them keep talking and that real side comes out. Then the audience especially women see why they single. That crap isn't attractive at all.
Her children are all grown and have moved on with their lives, but I agree with you. Plus, she has way too much going on to worry about a relationship right now. She needs to prioritize her self-care. No use in having more money if you aren’t able to take care of yourself well and have time to be human.
What Kendra was trying to tell the 40 year old woman who should know better at her big age is if those 85k men which aren’t many don’t like what they see your money and accolades mean nothing. You know you’re overweight you just don’t think it should matter but it absolutely does, Your kids are grown which is good but your masculine energy doesn’t help you either.
Just met a Sister over 40 who was bragging on just buying a home, what she made, that she owned 2 cars , blah blah. I just let her talk about her accolades and eventually it came what she owes in student loans. These folks talk about what they have but not the debt behind it.
To the modern woman, money is now the unspoken language that tells you how much respect she will give you. There is absolutely no such thing as love or a traditional household anymore. Then its even worse because you have big girls with kids demanding demending prices as if they are still at their prime and their market value did not decline.
I see a lot of women say they want a man of god but never hear how much of a women of god they are. Women have a type of man in there mind that they can’t catch.
She's way off target. Men are not intimidated by what a woman makes, and they are not seeking a woman based on her income. This is said over and over again. I dont understand how Kim didn't get the memo. On top of that, she's willing to throw everything away for a man because she claims she wants a provider so she can sit around the house and cook for him and stuff lol. It just doesn't make any sense. She's trying to do too much, and wants everything. Delulu.
Let's be honest, most women don't listen or care to know what men want. You would be surprised if you talk to enough women 40 + that they still don't know that men don't care about their education, how much money they make, and they are not intimidated. I never forget the lady that came on the show who was about 5'6 and 200 lbs and was about 45 years old and said "I make 6 figures, I got the great house, my own money and a Tesla" as things that she thought men would value.
Well no they don't listen to what men want, they do but they make it into what they want to hear. They care, they just don't really want to accept the person they would have to be to play that role to appease the man. They would rather make up fantasy, fairy tale, princess stories of how they want it to be, yet never wanting to look at and accept the reality of the position they're chasing. That keeps them delusional.
Men just care about how you look and if your a nice person, we all no she needs to loose some weight. WHEN you come onthus show you have to dress a little, you gotta treat thus show like your going outside to a club.
Very good feedback that you gave her Kendra. I listened to your Kevin Samuels conversation this morning and almost everything he said you to, you said to her. Glad to see your growth.
I think if she would have presented herself better physically, she would have had better odds. She needed some concealer around her eyes because she looks older and tired, also the hat with the 2 ponytails, and the hoodie. Presentation is everything when you are on a dating show.
No wonder why she’s been single for 14 years 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ she’s defensive, she embellishes, she needs to understand that her ways are flawed and contradictory…
Kendra TIRRRRED… Shes like quit the bullsneeze. All yall ain’t getting a provider! She tired of hearing the same song. lol keep this energy all 2025 with EVERY WOMAN! 🎉🎉🎉
One thing that gets overlooked on the “provider” conversation is that being a provider isn’t the same for every person or every household. A man making $70k can be the sole provider of a household of two adults and one kid if they live in an apartment. They can own two used vehicles and can travel within 1000 miles for a decent vacation for a week over the summer. While this isn’t ideal for everyone, THIS is providing. The issue is that too many people (women especially) want the provider to provide every luxury and dream that they can think of at a moments notice. Ie. Dropping everything and then going on a two week trip, for no particular reason. Or going on regular $10k shopping trips. What these women need to come out and say is that they want to be able to quit their current job, stay at home and have little to no responsibilities or stress, spend the man’s money….while having no noticeable decrease in lifestyle.
We live in a time where women have the right to work, earn more than men, and choose independence over relationships. Yet, expecting men to shoulder all the financial responsibilities in a relationship and have them pay all the bills feels contradictory.
Man, so many women just will not accept that they are relatively average and are deserving of a relatively average man. But, they see that man as beneath them or less than them. Just find someone who is truly into, has good qualities/traits, and wants to be in a committed relationship, and build with them.
I'm glad I'm not in the dating pool anymore. Whew! His or my income was NEVER a conversation when I was dating. I've never understood this whole line of questioning. I dated or was courted by a guy, we got to know who and what we both were. We made decisions on how we were going to move forward from that point on. It's called realistic priorities. Income conversations are not "dating" conversations. Any person can have a high income, but can that income make up for a crappy personality, low life character flaws, disrespectful attitude, bad hygiene, to name a few?
I work 50 hours a week and I don’t want to. Life ain’t all about the hustle and a salary number don’t represent your value. I know someone who sells coffee through one of those pyramid business and bought a house and a car and moves how he sees fit. It’s how you work your money, don’t let the money work you.
To me, she is the man she's looking for. There is nothing famine about her. She does not understand what Kendra is saying. If you want a specific type of man you have to learn what that man wants in a woman. A six figure man is not going to be on your time when he can easily find a woman who will.
Men will go to the gym, educate themselves and change the way they dress to attract a woman. But she ain’t willing to do that and she lowkey hate men because of past experiences. What a waste of
This is Kendra's show. She's not agreeing with anybody. She's hosting her show. Some of the women she try to talk to. Like this one is way off target. She wants to be a boss, a coach, a mentor, and a servant to a man. She doing to much.
@@NewHorizons-y4d Nawwww Kendra has realized what Kevin Samuels was saying. Years into the show its irritating her to hear the same babble from women who are delusional in their reality. You're failing to realize but you probably delusional to like the callers.
How has she been the sole provider for her and her kids, when she initially said their dad takes care of them…50/50?! She’s lying all the way around. I call cap on that provider thing. A person can provide for themselves on less than $85k.
Nobody is intimidated by you being an ADULT. Like get over yourself.
she got 8 jobs, living in the house foundation, make 80k but talking like she own nvidia
I think it's deflection.. It wouldn't sound good if a woman said "I can't Respect a man who doesn't make what I make".. So instead they will say "men are intimidated by my income". It's a slick way to justify why their asking for a man with a certain income. And it creates the illusion that the man is the one who has the problem. Not her..
@@bigtank6465both can be true, men are intimidated by women who earn more this is true even in the workplace when there’s no romance involved and it’s also true women don’t respect men who earn less or they’re not attracted to men who earn less, it is what it is
True mean I spend my money on what iwant
Never understand why women say that.
She said she dont like 'older men who dresses like there in their twenties ' meanwhile she on the show wearing a hoodie, with a childrens character on it.
Okay ......
Great observation
Dang! I wish Kendra or one of the Kousins would’ve said that 😂
And the pigtail style braids. 🤦🏻♀️
Don't forget she claims to be rich but that background screams poor.
Damn 😂😂😂
Grown man energy, vibes and appearance, you are the man you say you’re looking for sis.
You have grown woman energy. Look at that profile pic 🌈
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Facts
Stud!
I don’t understand why women feel the need to discuss the money they make and compare it to their suitors. The only time finances should come up if when you’re headed towards marriage. NO ONE needs to know how much you make unless you’re filing taxes together. Wild!
EXACTLY 👏🏾👏🏾
I’ve been saying this since the beginning! I have never discussed finances with a man I was dating! My husband is the only man I’ve ever discussed salary with and that is when we started discussing marriage
The point of dating is marriage so why date someone you wouldn’t marry if you have a financial requirement for marriage lol that’s a dumb mindset
@@Tiredttttttt to each its own but it’s not a question that came up with everybody I was dating.
I will say I dated in certain circles and knew their professions so I didn’t have to ask.
MEN are not turned on by a woman talking about money and her job and the same things he does. it's a complete turn off. however, if she is cute, he wil pretend to care, hit then be out.
women, talk about how you take care of your nices or nephew or baby sit and live at home with mom and dad or take care of aging parents. anything other than your career and you traveling!
Do women not realize that the majority of men are happy being average. They have their career and that's it.
they find comfort in being basic, and they look for females that have low standards or they want a female that aint seen anything so they can "impress" them
and peace....
They dont
She's average too. Look at all of that wood in the background.
They don’t. Western wmn are 👶👶👶 who think life is a Disney movie.
She’s been independent so long she forgot about femininity… that’s what we want. She sound like one of the homies
And look 👀
Sounds like a dude
Masculine as hell. There something to be said about folks who don’t put their best foot forward.
One thing takes from the other. Can’t gain masculinity without passing femininity. Can’t bring that out of em that’s scar tissue.
Say it louder
I’m 41 yo & not one time in my life have I heard a dude say he was intimidated by a woman. Every time I’ve heard that, it came from a woman with a lot of kids.
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Because men would never admit it , hence why they don’t go for career women
@@Angel4ever4678 - 🤣🤣🤣. You’re single because you’re an undesirable, overweight, belligerent, combative, argumentative and unpleasant 🤡.
@@Angel4ever4678 - Somehow wmn of other cultures can manage to have careers and a marital rate close to 90%.🤡.
@@Angel4ever4678 - Your humanities degree from third-rate school only gets you a job and not a career. 🤡.
Dear Black Women, please stop with the I can turn a man into Warren Buffet. That dude has to want it for himself especially after a certain age.
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@@HumesDeliveryService but they can't turn a man into a millionnaire when they are not one
Turn herself into a Warren Buffet and then we'll believe her!
She doesn’t need a provider she needs a wife! Your a provider now boo!
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Why do people come on here talking about, I'll date someone with more ambitious to make more money. Not everyone is an entrepreneur. Not everyone wants to work 80 hours a week. Work their life away then die. CRAZY!
@@JustBree716facts
I’m happily in the 6 figure range and happily married. I have never had to work over 40 hours if I didn’t want to. Max, maybe 45 hours here and there over some periods of my career. I work hard at my job and I don’t need to hustle. I get paid very well for the work that I provide to my company, and then I go home. I’ll be damned if I spent four years in college and then training, only to be nearly 40 years old and putting in 70 hours per week and working multiple jobs or managing multiple streams of income. My life is about as stress-free as I could imagine, which is worth much more than a little extra money.
This woman on here explains exactly why women outlive men. Heart disease and primarily stress. Men have enough outside stress and then come home to more stress and pressure. This kills people, and listening to this woman shows exactly why.
@@JustBree716I felt this comment. I swear “ entrepreneur” may as well be the new word for “slavery.” If I have to work around the cock just for someone to date me…I think I’m all set. I’m 42 and tired if these folks want to work themselves into a grave they can have it.
Yes!! If I were to ever come on this show (if I really wanted my feelings hurt), I’d say I want STABILITY and RELIABILITY. As long as you don’t become a financial liability by having a bunch of money one month and asking to borrow rent money the next. I don’t care nan about an entrepreneur.
I'm so happy I don't work 70 hours a week. Ain't no woman going to tell me to work 70 hours a week. My 40 is good!
Let's say you do do 70 hours a week. And having to come home to this. I'm out 😂
@@bruceleeroy8302 there is absolutely no benefit whatsoever. All liabilities.
Same here I work my regular shift and go home. 48 one week and 36 the next
Man look, having to work that hard in your 40’s, means you jacked something up in your 20’s. I’m in my 40’s and 5 years from retirement. I’ll be damn if I start doing 70 hr weeks 😂
@@London2ATLRight on brother!
Most men dont want overweight women
Meh, nah most dudes want women who has shape. The traditional bbws before big bad body chicks , and these nip/tuck females stole the word. You see it in every facet of life chicks who have bad bodies skinny or obese , "usually " will have a good feminine personality that will carry her to get a regular joe. Yet now a days you got ugly chicks claiming their bad bit"hes and have nasty insufferable attitudes and want the upper echelon of dudes.😅
Plain and simple and true.
@@jaylovd8773 Yep, and unfortunately 90% of American women are overweight 🤦🏾♂️
Gotta be something that we can be proud to be seen with not have to explain 💯
Especially if he has bread
There isn’t much she can do. She is very masculine and gives off stud vibes. Not just by appearance. I couldn’t imagine her with a provider man.
Slim down, comply more.
I don’t get the mentality. If you both work, combine your incomes and pay the bills, then no one is stressing about money.
They consider having a joint account...... Controlling them
They don’t want to combine their income, that’s why they kept saying providers. They want to keep their imaginary 100k to themselves while you provide the lifestyle they want to live. Modern women don’t want relationships, they want a life style and early retirement plan at your expense.
When one of the Kousins called her Young MA, I lost it 😂😂😂
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Her kids father take good care of them 50/50, and then several minutes later she has been taking care of kids for 14 years alone because she had to. And then several minutes later, her kids father wasnt a dead beat. Lol. Wouldnt that mean you in fact did not take care of your kids alone for 14 years? The contradictions are endless here.
She probably means as the CUSTODIAL parent. Ex husband probably takes care FINANCIALLY only! That's my interpretation. (Actually, she clarified it at the end.. so yea, I'm correct. )
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eI'm just repeating what you said. Oops. I mean what "she" said. 😏
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eso would you consider that "good care"?
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eso she had the first one, got divorced, started raising the first one alone then had 2 more with that man? Make it make sense.
@@Fabrizio7171 Why do you care 🤷🏻
Why do women always say he has to want more? As if he can’t be content with where he is. What if he’s done growing in life, is that so wrong? Some of you women don’t even qualify for a man that makes a certain amount but always want a man to want more make more do more. It’s tired.
Thanks for saying this. The reality is that a good, comfortable, safe fulfilling life is boring to a lot of women with their modern mindset. A guy could be an electrician making $110,000 per year and that's all he wants to do but since he won't go start his own electrician business he's not ambitious. He's happy with the great income and the 411 k match and pension. A woman would leave this man & later tell everybody he just didn't want to "grow". And when you start digging into the past of some of these womens story who are claiming men don't grow or are shiftless you start to see they just were bored.
Well said
Just because a man makes good money doesn't mean he qualifies as a good candidate for a relationship. Idk why so many of you women throw out good character. Too many speaking on income income. People need to look at Character and the upkeep of ones life as well. I know men who make good money & don't have a damn asset to their name and always crying broke and make over 100k a year
I've made over 100k for the past few years, and I work with a bunch of men who make even more than I do. WE DON'T CARE ABOUT A WOMAN'S MONEY! No man wants a bum, but we don't look at women's high income as something making her wifey material. We care about her CHARACTER!
I make good money but no woman who makes high income a requirement for her, will EVER get my attention!
Yuppp... thats like the equivalent of a men that can't get an Instagram baddie... but he says im willing to date a women thats 190lbs but she gotta be willing to drop down to 140lbs... and if she doesn't shes intimidated
As a woman, I don't get how some of these woman don't hear or really look in the mirror of reality. Women have to stop leading with your income it's a non factor to most men. You can't want a high value man if you don't present as a high value woman physically or tone of voice. Yes, men want natural but if I'm a straight woman who sees your thumbnail to this clip and think you are a lesbian...who crazy? You. You are presenting as a combative boss chick who greatly favors lesbian rapper. Watch the replay sis😢
You summed that RIGHT up 👏🏼
She definitely gives lesbian, stud vibes
@@perdybirdie I said the same thing!
Just like women see finances, men see fitness. You don't have a 85-150k body
That's what's up😂
Dayum..lol
Then you got the nerve to look like you’re making a dump run as your 1st impression as u ask for 6 figure men???
Very good point..
Hey there are beginning 6 figure men who look like her. Trust me they are around. Why some don't get regular haircuts, keep clothes until they know they can't hold them anymore, wait too late to attend to important stuff that their money can take care of is beyond me. I will never understand.
A dump run 😂
So accurate!
Looking like Snoop from the Wire.
I don't know why women keep circulating this lie that men are intimidated by them.
There is no intimidation.
There's two things happening : 1. YOU lead with money, and it is off-putting to a man that doesn't care about money. We simply don't like your attitude. A lot of you lead with money and it is not attractive. Men with money don't care about your money.
2. When you do make more money than your man, you throw it in his face overtly or sneakily. Of course the man starts to resent you when you make him feel less than in that way.
None of these things have to do with being intimidated.
Facts
Feminism is at an all time high. Women want to be as equal and as strong as men but that’s not how God intended things to be.
She said she makes $85k, with the earning potential of $150k. Will someone please explain what that rhetoric even means.
No man has ever been taken seriously saying that. I currently make $150k per year. I am going to start saying I have the earning potential to make $1 Million.
Translation, im a liar
She was talking about how much she could possibly make with her side businesses
Earning potential doesn't pay any bills.
It doesn't matter what she meant because her income and earning potential doesn't matter to men anyway.
Love is too transactional these days. The majority of this entire conversation was regarding income. Not the qualities she’s looking for in a potential spouse, not plans for a serious relationship or even love. Just income and money.
She do look like Young MA. I can't unsee it
Oooouuuu
@@fredm.2699😂😂
Or Cleo from set it off 😂
Weight is a flaw. It can be controlled
😂😂😂😂 Exactly
She talk to dang much . . Whole bunch of word salad
Too*
You can't base anything on your "potential to earn 150K," the same as you can't base your current weight issues on the potential to be smaller.
That's just woman logic. They all want credit for shit they have done yet or trying to do. Whether it's weight loss, earning potential, education etc. The man needs to match where they think they gonna be🙄
Works 70 hours a week, her eyes are telling on her
Yeah she need to take a break. No children are home so why the hell is so working that hard. She should have that well needed extra time to be a Girly Girl now
@@gloriaatkins2038
lol
Yea she looks sick. She needs to get that checked out.
I love hearing that story about how men are intimidated by how much a woman makes when in reality is the woman's attitude that men don't like. But acknowledging the reality would require self-awareness and accountability.
Right! The attitude!
Wait! Let be honest. 100-200k women are spending all they money. (Women are spenders).. 100k 200k is nothing if ur bills are very high. They never get in shape😂. Just bigger go on vacation 😂
Lack in interest = Intimidation
Exactly
They always saying the man is the provider. Just say you want all your bills paid for and that you wanna spend his money not yours.
In my 22 years and 338 days of life, I’ve often seen women try to change men into their ideal. For example, a woman might meet a man working as a firefighter, only to later expect him to become fire chief within a few months. While men should strive for stability and growth, not everyone is looking to climb the career ladder. Just like in sports, not everyone needs to be the star-role players are vital too. Women should respect a man’s contentment with his life and stop trying to mold him into something he’s not.
Well said!!
Lack of ambition if a person just wants to be a spectator & never a contender...
Once I learned men aren't wired to do a lot of things women expect, I have grace for them. Grace enough to stay in my own lane. Men are not good at multi tasking. It takes a lot out of them to do certain things. They have physical strength but its a lot that put strain on men. Women want to transform men into something he's not, then they get disappointed when he can't live up to what she had in mind. Men fall short and will continue to fall short because the expectation for them is to high.
Multitasking isn't a gender thing. The more you climb you often are more stressed and less available to your partner because you're working so much.
@@NewHorizons-y4d Men are not good at multitasking? You made that up. 😂🤣
She talked more than she listened
“Men are intimidated by me because of how much money I make.”
Every time a woman says this, Men (of every race and income bracket) instantly stop listening.
BIG FACTS!
INSTANTLY
I'm glad one of y'all confess to not listening...
Immediate turn-off
Right !!
Don't be a grown man dressed like you're a young boy, whiles she's on the show wearing a Baltimore Bull Dke starter pack
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Sitting up here with a lilo & stitch hoodie smh
Baby I’m sorry but it’s giving bull dagger😖 when men say they like “natural beauty” the key word is beauty! That doesn’t mean put on fake lashes or caked on makeup but a little lip gloss and concealer never hurt anybody😅. Presenting yourself like Cleo from set it off is never the move…
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Yep people being lying saying it doesn’t help
She is juicy but sour and hard like a bull dagger.
100% she needs to go on a solo retreat and pour back into her feminine. she’s had to provide for so long, she’s obv in her masculine.
I agree, at this point she might as well cross on over🤣🤣 I'm 22 minutes in and I am floored. It took 15 minutes to finally digest the fact that she's actually looking for a man
It’s a shame.
This entire interview was based on money and income. Unbelievable!
Money is the root of all evil lol
@@brandonlongdikjones8117it’s the LOVE for money is the root of all evil
@@brandonlongdikjones8117The love of money is the root of all evil.
@@brandonlongdikjones8117 ^The Love of money
I don't often agree with the harsh comments but, this is crazy! She dated men of the financial caliber she requested but, no spark, no chemistry, and no mutual feelings. She appears to be a women who'll never be satisfied and equates her work as a relationship. I work to provide for my living- I don't work to live!
She living n lies and running from truth . I know she exhausted
She living n lies and running from truth . I know she exhausted
Alot of these women feel they are so great but no men are knocking down their door? They on kendra....
They’ve made themselves into the type of man they want. But that man doesn’t want someone just like him….
@@mrmoe110 i have been saying this for a long time...they have become men in how they present their portfolio when looking for a man. Men are not looking for themselves. Thet are looking for a women with attributes that balance off their role to make it equally qolk. They dont need a woman making six figures they need a woman who brings what a woman is supposed to provide to complete the purpose. They obviously dont want a gold digger and are not saying having her own is wrong he us saying you cant lead with attributes of a man. Lead with qualities that exemplify femininity, nurturing and the ability to work together for the overall wellness of the family. If you observe the attitude most of them have you can see why no men want them.
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@@mrmoe110 I replied but someone deleted it. I agree. I have been saying this. Men generally lead with a portfolio regarding assets and degrees. Yes, it is OK for a woman to have her own for many reasons but men are looking for what makes a woman a woman not a provider.
Any man who work’s full-time and contributes to the household is a provider. He is providing his income to the household.
Exactly
Have dated ladies who are doctors,lawyers,MBAs,and engineers.
Have never heard them say that men are "intimidated" by their ambition or their earnings.
It's always an older,obese woman,
who's not hitting on anything,
making that claim.
I agree, Sir
agree and i am a woman :-) you are speaking the truth. I am a single no kids in shape kind woman and I am watching this woman shaking my head.
Since when has the motivating factor for dating become a business deal? Most real men don't need a woman's resources, need help with writing a business plan, or need her to motivate him. That is a subordinate position. Real men assume, maintain and take pride in fulfiling the dominant role. She been dating Pookies!
It's a way to PUSH him to become what she wants. To be better man at times but IF I start the relationship saying, "I want to get you to a healthy weight"...she (most women out of shape) will surly get offended.
At 40 years old, either you are or you aren't. Ain't no more potential.
What’s the end goal of all this hustling ? Just asking
Great logical question! Is it to consume trinkets indefinitely, Retire early, take care of family?
To show off on other women
To tell a man "I don't need you", "I want you." That's the biggest motivation for this boss.l babe mentality imo opinion. Think about why is it so easy for a woman to submit to her boss at work but not the man she chose to marry. It's a simple power grab regarding leadership in the relationship. and while I do think there is an achievable happy medium that men are adapting as generations progress. this behavior will never be acceptable to a provider.
I'm only intimidated if she and I BOTH want the last piece of cornbread.
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😂😂😂😂 u going to HELL
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She said her and the ex husband contributes 50/50 to the kids. Then 5 minutes later, she said she raised the kids by herself. So she was married to a man and had 3 kids BUT she had to raise them alone.
LOL
Everything is a struggle. A woman will be a stay at home not paying anything at all with help with chores and will find a reason to complain.
@@Fabrizio7171 💯
Kim said 85k is not a lot the average American makes 50k AT BEST so a million women wants the guy who makes 85k or more So he is the prize
Median is a better statistic to use than average since it's the middle where as averages get really skewed by the lowest earners. That said the median I'd only about 10k higher.
More like 60k, but I totally agree with you. Plus, oftentimes men in those higher income ranges are usually married or at least have a partner or child from a past relationship, especially considering the age range she is requesting. If they are divorced, they could be paying alimony. Times are hard for people in general. Plus, it sounds as though she is so devoted to her various jobs that there is no time to have a steady relationship.
@@dogbeats9808 that’s household not per person.
@ that's why I said at best
Most recent data from U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics form Q3 2024 is that men earned $1,165 per week in median income.
$1,165 x 50 (2 weeks vacation) = $58,250 in U.S. male median income. Just fyi.
I think she’s missing it. She does give masculine vibes. It’s an energy thing. She’s a beautiful girl; but, men are going to make a lot of assumptions based off of her presentation - weight, style, femininity, etc.
Beautiful?!! How? Where?
She’s wearing a baseball cap. 🧢 Is she going to a baseball game? Heavy, dark bags under her eyes. The Young M.A. braids as many have noted. A big, frumpy, baggy hoodie that every loser overweight dude wears. And she is 80-100 lbs. overweight depending on her height.
On a scale from 0-10 she is a 3 out of 10.
We are drawn to and seek softness and femininity in a woman. There are no assumptions that can be made about that because she truly lacks any.
she is manly, old, baby mama, can't bear healthy kids no more, boss, talks too much, etc.. there is NOTHING about this woman that is desirable as a wife. This is a jump off, nothing more
A tired woman is the worst partner. No time to be the woman.
What about tired men ?
@moblack5883 . Men don't get tired working 8 hours.
$85k is good but most men are not intimidated by that amount 😂
Ambitious men don't want blown out, masculine women. And potential doesn't always come to reality.
IDC how much you claim you make. I ain't intimidated by anyone with wood-paneled walls.
Lol
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Leave the wood panels alone! It’s looks really good in an Eichler!! 😂😂😂😂😂 My parents have wood paneling in the South. 😂😂 My dad went crazy and stained it Mahogany 😂😂.
Mic Drop.
Kendra told that woman she's overweight, have 3 kids, and is being unrealistic as to what kind of man she can get.
Crazy to have demands like that, but not even be in shape
And not at least better dressed and groomed.
85k is a crazy demand???
Demands like a good income ? She didn't say he needed to be in shape did she ??? Even Steven is what it sounds like she actually wants
@@slaywayy7241 A guy who makes 85k can date a woman who is in shape with no kids. You can demand what you want, but you're still in a market.
@@lizzyb5884 I get what you’re saying, but most men earning above average income are pickier when it pertains to appearance and other traits. Whereas men can more or less get away with being overweight and perhaps even unattractive if they exude enough wealth, intelligence and status. Of course it is not true for everyone, but there is a trend.
Very simple... she is on the Kendra G show, so that man doesn't want her back
How tall are you?
Dress size?
How much you weigh the last time you weighed yourself?
She's ready to hit the A gap. 😂
When I was first building myself before my career took off, I went from making 68k a year to 150k a year within 2 years. Women have to learn how to invest in the right man and stick with him. She's talking about 85k isn't a lot of money but only around 10-12 percent of black men make that. And I've never cared about a womans pockets before I became a high earner. No man is intimidated by your money he just don't want to date another man lol.
I'm surprised more women don't study the numbers especially when what they are looking for is rare based off pure math. Last piece of advice for the is woman is get in shape! If you are finally back single in your 40's the competition is stiff!
Agree
At this point sis, either be happy single or listen to what these men are saying in the comments. It tickles me how women swears they know how men think and vice versa. May need to rebuke that masculinity and work on self and allow the man to find you. He will already know what you need and best for you. Oftentimes, money won’t be the problem solving solution to happiness.
she 40 will a hyper masculine attitude. Ain't no confident, self sufficient man who is looking for a beautiful, kind, submissive helpmate is choosing her. Ain't happening especially with the standard/preferences she has set. Ain't no way. She got a better chance of finding Neverland.
Kendra Samuels dropping knowledge again. Once again, they aren't listening.
You married your high school sweetheart, now divorced thinking you are going to find something better. You are about to find out that behind the fence there are only mosquitoes, raccoons, skunks, and chickens with feathers
ma'am you said the father of your children provide 50% and you're gucci; then later said you tired of being the sole provider for the past 14 years . which one is true
she just talks without listening.
And she is lying!
Guaranteed she doesn't make 85k a year,she went from 85 to 80,now which lie is it?
W. Earning potential to do 150.. even though shes never pulled it off…
Them wood panel walls tell a different story.
@@marquiwill1
At one point she said her girl was $250 thou!
@@GreatMindsSeekTruth “We can start a business in trucking”, did you catch that part? All these get rich quick tik tok schemes really have these women thinking its that easy.. But the time it gets online for everyone to do, it’s too late to just get into the business. Do people realize that?
Kendra went off. I love her for it. Wake up women.
She’s trying to say in a nice way that she doesn’t qualify for what she’s asking for.
I think SOME women don’t understand that if your strategy is to wait at the finish line for a man, the competition is fierce. There are women raised to wives that exude femininity at all times. My wife is the type of woman that can shift the energy in a room with her presence and she’s even helped me close large deals. She is also an attorney and a high earner. I’m a top 5% earner and I hate to break the news to some women. It would be hard to even break into these circles for most.
Don’t give away the game. Let them all wait at the finish line. It is a win for us bachelors.
Not cool! Help our people out. Not all these gals are asking for top 5-10%. They’re asking for $50K!!!
You’re already winning. Help our people get together 🙏🏾
In all the years of being a man I've never had a conversation with another man where they have said or indicated that they were intimidated by how much a woman makes. There are however, always conversation about how women in certain positions think that they can denigrate people who don't make as much as them. And I'm glad Kendra brought up the mentality issue because that's what it actually is and not this story women like to tell is fictitious.
Right 😂!
You’d expect someone to admit that to you?
No man is gonna admit that. Just like men not admitting they're gay.
I find it much more often women are intimitdated by men who have their stuff together and tend to sabotage the relationship.
Men won't admit like that, just like DL men won't admit their preference.
Some women just aren't gonna understand that the men they say they want, may not be the kind of women those men want.
... and vice versa.
I love to see Kendra keep it G and give these women reality checks!!!
Every time she tries to spit knowledge they get combative and think they know everything
Kevin Samuels lives through her ✊🏾💯
@@spencersmith9131 Yep let them keep talking and that real side comes out. Then the audience especially women see why they single. That crap isn't attractive at all.
He gotta make $85,000 a year, provide for 3 kids that aren’t his & be cool with her looking like Young MA. Ain’t no man signing up for that
Her children are all grown and have moved on with their lives, but I agree with you. Plus, she has way too much going on to worry about a relationship right now. She needs to prioritize her self-care. No use in having more money if you aren’t able to take care of yourself well and have time to be human.
@@LMLification so what, men arent signing up and running to be a step dad of 3. No one cares her kids ages
She said he can make 50k but has the potential to grow, also she's naturally pretty.
@@LMLification You stated all facts
You didn't actively listen. 2 kids are on their own. 1 kid in college and her ex husband is financially supportive.
Bottom line, STOP focusing on a man's wallet and focus on his character and how he will most likely treat you.
I agree with this comment
Apparently older women who dress like they are in their twenties is ok.
Who dress like 16 year old boys
What Kendra was trying to tell the 40 year old woman who should know better at her big age is if those 85k men which aren’t many don’t like what they see your money and accolades mean nothing. You know you’re overweight you just don’t think it should matter but it absolutely does, Your kids are grown which is good but your masculine energy doesn’t help you either.
Just met a Sister over 40 who was bragging on just buying a home, what she made, that she owned 2 cars , blah blah. I just let her talk about her accolades and eventually it came what she owes in student loans. These folks talk about what they have but not the debt behind it.
To the modern woman, money is now the unspoken language that tells you how much respect she will give you. There is absolutely no such thing as love or a traditional household anymore. Then its even worse because you have big girls with kids demanding demending prices as if they are still at their prime and their market value did not decline.
Facts
She looks just like my friend Jasmine…….. Jasmine is a lesbian.
Log off 😂😂😂
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I see a lot of women say they want a man of god but never hear how much of a women of god they are. Women have a type of man in there mind that they can’t catch.
She's way off target. Men are not intimidated by what a woman makes, and they are not seeking a woman based on her income. This is said over and over again. I dont understand how Kim didn't get the memo. On top of that, she's willing to throw everything away for a man because she claims she wants a provider so she can sit around the house and cook for him and stuff lol. It just doesn't make any sense. She's trying to do too much, and wants everything. Delulu.
Let's be honest, most women don't listen or care to know what men want. You would be surprised if you talk to enough women 40 + that they still don't know that men don't care about their education, how much money they make, and they are not intimidated.
I never forget the lady that came on the show who was about 5'6 and 200 lbs and was about 45 years old and said "I make 6 figures, I got the great house, my own money and a Tesla" as things that she thought men would value.
Well no they don't listen to what men want, they do but they make it into what they want to hear. They care, they just don't really want to accept the person they would have to be to play that role to appease the man. They would rather make up fantasy, fairy tale, princess stories of how they want it to be, yet never wanting to look at and accept the reality of the position they're chasing. That keeps them delusional.
Men just care about how you look and if your a nice person, we all no she needs to loose some weight. WHEN you come onthus show you have to dress a little, you gotta treat thus show like your going outside to a club.
No men don't care about all that lol
Just in case aliens are watching this video years from now…….40 years. 3 kids. Between 210-230 pounds. Welcome to planet Earth!
LMFAOOO 😂😂💀💀
They NEVER say match them in weight
260lb@@khrisstake2210
The aliens just want to eat us, so the fatter the better 😂
Someone who makes 85k a year should be able to afford a treadmill.
She’s not hearing you.
Very good feedback that you gave her Kendra. I listened to your Kevin Samuels conversation this morning and almost everything he said you to, you said to her. Glad to see your growth.
I applaud her growth and it happened right before our very eyes.
Aint no one intimidated of Penguin from Batman. Hush Oswald Cobblepor. 😅
Do you remember the children’s book Humpty Dumpty.
Kendra be trying to school these women that come on this show but they swear they know how real men think.
She really does! But because they think they are special they want to argue and debate about it!
This money convo again smh. 🤦🏾♀️
Some people were only staff and SM. They have nothing else to talk about.
"Everybody rich on my show" @ 21:13 - roflmao...
I think if she would have presented herself better physically, she would have had better odds. She needed some concealer around her eyes because she looks older and tired, also the hat with the 2 ponytails, and the hoodie. Presentation is everything when you are on a dating show.
No wonder why she’s been single for 14 years 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ she’s defensive, she embellishes, she needs to understand that her ways are flawed and contradictory…
Kendra TIRRRRED… Shes like quit the bullsneeze. All yall ain’t getting a provider! She tired of hearing the same song. lol keep this energy all 2025 with EVERY WOMAN! 🎉🎉🎉
One thing that gets overlooked on the “provider” conversation is that being a provider isn’t the same for every person or every household. A man making $70k can be the sole provider of a household of two adults and one kid if they live in an apartment. They can own two used vehicles and can travel within 1000 miles for a decent vacation for a week over the summer. While this isn’t ideal for everyone, THIS is providing. The issue is that too many people (women especially) want the provider to provide every luxury and dream that they can think of at a moments notice. Ie. Dropping everything and then going on a two week trip, for no particular reason. Or going on regular $10k shopping trips.
What these women need to come out and say is that they want to be able to quit their current job, stay at home and have little to no responsibilities or stress, spend the man’s money….while having no noticeable decrease in lifestyle.
We live in a time where women have the right to work, earn more than men, and choose independence over relationships. Yet, expecting men to shoulder all the financial responsibilities in a relationship and have them pay all the bills feels contradictory.
She sounds like she wants a business partner she can hunch
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Man, so many women just will not accept that they are relatively average and are deserving of a relatively average man. But, they see that man as beneath them or less than them. Just find someone who is truly into, has good qualities/traits, and wants to be in a committed relationship, and build with them.
B.B.E. Big Back Energy
Abso-fucking-lutly!
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I'm glad I'm not in the dating pool anymore. Whew! His or my income was NEVER a conversation when I was dating. I've never understood this whole line of questioning. I dated or was courted by a guy, we got to know who and what we both were. We made decisions on how we were going to move forward from that point on. It's called realistic priorities. Income conversations are not "dating" conversations. Any person can have a high income, but can that income make up for a crappy personality, low life character flaws, disrespectful attitude, bad hygiene, to name a few?
Well Said
Every one of these lonely old woman are 6 figure earners but the average woman only makes 30k per year 😮😮 they are all over achievers
I work 50 hours a week and I don’t want to. Life ain’t all about the hustle and a salary number don’t represent your value. I know someone who sells coffee through one of those pyramid business and bought a house and a car and moves how he sees fit. It’s how you work your money, don’t let the money work you.
To me, she is the man she's looking for. There is nothing famine about her. She does not understand what Kendra is saying. If you want a specific type of man you have to learn what that man wants in a woman. A six figure man is not going to be on your time when he can easily find a woman who will.
I agree with you, she doesn't understand.
KS spirit was alive in here tonight 😂😂
I thought she was the provider NGL
Men will go to the gym, educate themselves and change the way they dress to attract a woman. But she ain’t willing to do that and she lowkey hate men because of past experiences. What a waste of
Kendra finally totally agrees with the OG. I can't lie it was entertaining watching the transition
This is Kendra's show. She's not agreeing with anybody. She's hosting her show. Some of the women she try to talk to. Like this one is way off target. She wants to be a boss, a coach, a mentor, and a servant to a man. She doing to much.
@@NewHorizons-y4d Nawwww Kendra has realized what Kevin Samuels was saying. Years into the show its irritating her to hear the same babble from women who are delusional in their reality. You're failing to realize but you probably delusional to like the callers.
yea. it is. I see it in her face whenever some bird says some silly bs
OG?
@@SinaAla Kevin Samuel’s
She keeps talking about money…. Good luck lady…
A generation that went to work and were SM. She doesn’t have anything else to talk about.
How has she been the sole provider for her and her kids, when she initially said their dad takes care of them…50/50?! She’s lying all the way around.
I call cap on that provider thing. A person can provide for themselves on less than $85k.