Couple Things | Love Languages
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 มิ.ย. 2024
- This week on Couple Things, we're talking about Love Languages. Our guests often bring up this topic during our conversations when asked what's helped their communication, so we wanted to dive deeper into the subject.
Here are the topics that we cover:
0:00 Introduction
Learning the concept of love languages 3:36
Words of affirmation 18:31
Quality time 21:32
Acts of service 25:48
Gifts 30:42
Physical Touch 34:15
Communicating your love language 37:00
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I totally think that watching a show or movie together can be quality time! I can be doing homework with someone in the room and consider it quality time because sometimes I just like to have someone close by- it makes me feel connected to them!
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You should totally do one on the apology languages. They are on the same site as love languages. I find it very helpful, not just in marriages, but all relationships, especially after an argument. Also same with the words and compliments, Shawn. Idk why but that just harder for me to accept them.
I love how REAL you both are. Argument or not, it’s refreshing to not watch a perfect couple. What I mean by that is that you do argue. Relationships can’t be perfect, no one can agree 💯 of the time. Keep being you guys. ❤️
I am 100% with Shawn about watching something on Netflix together. If they are actively engaged in the activity with you it is absolutely quality time together! My top two love languages flip flop between words of affirmation and quality time.
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Shawn... Your allergies reactions REALLY showed in this episode. I hope you're doing okay. Andrew.... Keep her inside, as much as possible, while pollen counts are raised. Love you both, and the rest of the family.
I absolutely love how real you all are! I see your stories on FB all the time. This is the 1st time coming to your TH-cam channel. It is refreshing to see a couple that isn't fake with their audience. The love between the two of you is so evident even when you are aggravated. Inspirational! ❤
There's a difference between HEARING someone and LISTENING to someone. Look it up. My therapist taught me this too.😊 it really interesting.
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Love language is the key to all relationships! Understanding your needs and your partners are different is so essential! I love you sharing this!
The biggest thing I learned in therapy was this. When you are having an argument stop. The person who said something that made your spouse mad or hurt needs to ask what did you hear me say? Or ask? Calmly. He may have taken what you said wrong and that's what started the argument. This way you realize he took what you said in the wrong way. So now you can rearrange what you're trying to say until he hears what you are saying. Most of the time it works. I didn't explain it very well but I hope you get what I'm trying to say. Lol
Shawn what you said about how you don't trust word... you are not alone with that. I feel like especially now days with how easy it is for people to talk differently behind your back with texting and what not. Someone might say something kind but it is hard to know if it is truly genuine.
I totally agree I am not a texter. I would much rather talk on the phone or sit together and talk when we get home. ❤
I need to take this test! And get my hubby to do it.
Wow! Well done. I am so impressed because I was not sure I would learn so much. You both absolutely nailed this episode. I learned a lot. I think that the same way that not everything in your love language resonates, some individual things resonate in other languages that might not even be appealing as a love language category. The broad categories are helpful, but so are the specifics. Thank you for doing this episode. I loved it more than I thought I would (because I love most of the content you put out). This 1 was as mature and well planed as all of your episodes that I have watched. Thank you. Keep putting out such amazing, quality content.
I love learning more about love languages! Husband and I are still working on loving each other in the way we need to be loved! Loved listening to this episode!!
It is so true that everyone has different love languages! I love Andrews comment that we must learn our partners love language and willing to sacrifice for our spouse!
I adore the episode! Thank you for sharing this!! Mine is words of affirmation and I literally have been having the biggest arguments with my husband cus when I ask him to say these words back to me. He responds with things like “are we in high school “ or doesn’t understand what I’m feeling! It’s so important to be on the same page! Can’t wait to watch this with him! Thanks Andrew and Shawn! ❤️
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I am new to your channel and you guys have already helped me SO much! Thank you! 💖
Love this, communication is key!!
HONESTLY- LISTENING TO SOMEONE& HEARING SOMEONE, IS A BIG DIFFERENCE😘💜🙏
On the question of Netflix, this is tricky as is any similar example. Sometimes an activity or story can bond people and sometimes it can be distracting. Mr. East seemed to imply that there is no difference between watching (or doing) something together, but separately and watching or doing the same thing on one's own. I agree that while the actual thing does not change, the experience of it does. Doing something in someone else's physical space, for example reading and answering e-mail or reading different (or the same) book separately is clearly different to having the company of the person you love with you in the same space and this goes to Mrs. East's point that you want to share your experience of that book, film, or activity. For example watching Couple's Things with Shawn and Andrew ;) Mmmmmmm...... Love you both so much. Love learning from you.
This is definitely one of my favorites!!!! Thank you for sharing!❤️ 🙏 ❤️ 😍 🙏❤️
I’m familiar with the Love languages, but the review was very helpful.
My husband and I definitely have different love languages. We still struggle sometimes to show our love in ways we each prefer.
Love this book I tell everyone about it....brought it up at work one time and had everyone in the backroom taking the quiz
I loved this episode!
My husband and I did long distance for 2.5 years and we never texted back and forth either! We had at least an hour long phone call each night to talk about our days. Looking back I was annoyed I couldn’t talk to him all day (I was also 19) but it made our conversations SO much more special and meaningful! We both share our secondary love language... quality time... and I’d say Netflix can be quality time if there are no other distractions. But it also depends on the couple. We like to discuss things that happen in the show, or my husband loves to guess what’s going to happen next (and I get so annoyed because he’s right EVERY time) so we’ll often pause and talk throughout the show. But if you are both just watching it together and saying nothing then I’d say it’s probably not quality time.
This is great!!
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woohoo!! thank you christine!!
Yay! Saw this on Spotify this morning and have been waiting for the YT video to come out to listen!
Please note, words of affirmation have to be heartfelt otherwise they mean nothing. I only get words of affirmation with my prompting and they don't sound sincere. That is more hurtful.
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Love you guys!
I see the lady is off her horse!
Watching a show/movie is def quality time. Especially if you are distracted and not watching tv all the time. If it's interesting to her, then you have something to talk about after the show
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I just thought of that very expensive watch you gave Andrew.. that was your love language but not his 👍❤️
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Do you just resonate with these or did you take the test? You should take the test online it will rank them for you
Can you maybe post or send the “test”?
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Shawn... Your the most handsome thing ever.
Andrew... Thank you
Me: Oh Andrew thats the suck up before the argument. LOL
You two are just to funny and silly. You're perfect together!
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@@manofiske3318 Well me do not care bout you make fun of how i might of missspelleded some thing or did not put in the right trem for the grammer police. You are hate full and should be a shamed for it. Some people like you self are not per fect we have faults or may be a learning probelm.
Love both of you, and the entire rest of your family. Would like to hug you both. BUT.... 1) Only with your permission and 2) Your spouse must be okay with it, AND present. I'm a hugger, with permission, and triggered by hugs without permission. CPTSD is my curse.
Here is a topic. How do you get beyond the arguments? How do you make up? How do you agree to disagree?
Love you guys!
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