My Stepson Demanded I Fund His Journey to Fatherhood and Insulted Me When I Refused. But Now That...
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- My stepson demanded I fund his journey to fatherhood and insulted me when I refused. But now that my husband has taken his side, they can all find a place to live together when I kick them out of my house.
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YOUR house, YOUR rules!!! DON’T allow the stepson OR his father to undermine your rights!!! Since he is unwilling to accept that he owes YOU an apology,NOT the opposite, you should expect him to file for divorce, and be ready to sign the petition. You deserve better!
Yep it would turn into “you can’t make us leave with a baby”.
She does? What if the genders were reversed? You’d say he needs to house her, don’t kick her out.
Your house!!!!!
No, you did the right thing, don’t back down.
Dad realizing he is going to lose a lot by divorcing op. What a deadbeat scumbag.
And what happens if OP doesn't put up her dukes? She ends up funding them, cleaning up after them, and providing free babysitting.
Honey change the locks. Pack his stuff put it on the porch. Call him and give him 24 hours to get it. If it's not gone it's going to the dump.
NTA. If they’re teaming up against you in your own house, they can figure it out elsewhere 💁♀
3 able body adults can figure it out. None of them are your responsibility. Take out all your money if you have a joint account.
Their relationship, their baby, their responsibility.
"I acted on impulse about the divorce". YEAH, NO SH*T, SHERLOCK 😂
The future step DIL said what.
Yes she never ever ever ever gets help from me. And if she won't work, then she would pull the pregnancy card and never do any housework.
If your husband believes that he is the one that can make sole decisions because it's HIS son, then you have every right to make firm decisions because it's solely YOUR house
NTAH! They just called you horrible names for saying no. Your husband backed them? Where is her family? Where is his mother? Girl run!!!
The FIRST thing they did wrong is you told them you needed time to think. That means they wait until you think and meet at a mutually decided time, NIT that they corner you & FORCE the issue.
How you don't want a job and can't afford not to, and then have your hand out and being disrespectful, never bite the hand that feeds you...
The ex husband has committed himself to not just Jason's life but also to the girlfriend and the grandchild. Wow. Bad decision IMO.
I was 18 when 8 got pregnant in the 70th and asked for nothing. My boyfriend also asked for nothing
We got married and lived on the second floor of his mothers house. We paid for everything our selves. Rent, electra, gas and water, insurance and everything else. We never asked anyone for money. We worked out asses of to get everything together. My daughter was born sick so i could not work during the day but when her father got home i went to work. Within a year i found an apartment we could afford and moved.
This two are just entitled spoiled brats.
Thank you for your story.
Well… like bob Dylan times are changing…
To explain what i said… now is kind dificult to have good income, yes life is better but it come with price. Many things we have now we have to paid all the time for that. My knowledge in 70 get me job 100% well paid, now is low paid job. still stepson sound like spoiled brat…
@razofdead The Netherlands was a whole other story. For one, we were in a terrible recession in the 80th.
My daughter was born in 1975. Nobody had heard of daycare. If you worked for a business that was Catholic who had to go when you were pregnant. I fought to stay and they allowed me to stay until I was 7 months pregnant because they said it is unethical to walked around with a big bump on the work floor.
I only could work in the evening so I started to clean offices for a cleaning company That way I could be home to feed her. Something I had to do every 3 hours 24\7 until she was 2 years old. I was chronicle tired because I never got more than 1 hour sleep after each other. Because I had to make her feeding fresh and clean her bed and my daughter after each feeding. The feeding itself took 30 minutes. When I wanted to start working again I could not find work in my old job because I was to expensive. For me 2 interns.
On top they were scared that I would stay home when she was sick. I was divorced by that time. So I had to start over again. I worked in the evening, went to school and took care of my daughter and traveled every Friday to my brother, who lived in a institution at the time, 2 hours from where I lived.
So please, don't tell me it is so much more difficult for young people to find a job. If you want you can work. It is maybe not the kind of work you want to do but it pays the bills and from work you find work. Not when you stay at home and the gap of work and not working gets bigger and bigger.
I had periods that I worked 60 hours a week to give my kid the things she need.
She is almost 50 and still tell her friends what a wonderful youth she had thanks to me.
Just gonna say this, if the ex-wife is apologizing for her ex-husband the same way a disappointed mother would, you might want to re-think the marriage.
The dad can go live his son and help out watching the baby! His son doesn’t need a friend but a father. It was time to tell him to grow up and take responsibility of his actions. Dad won’t be around to bell him out! I think the girlfriend will use the pregnancy to not help around the house. OP did the right thing and told her husband what he done was wrong not talking to her as a couple.
OP's husband has a history of disregarding his partners, in future he would this again. There's no point in wasting your life with someone whose unwilling to change.
The jerk made the right decision in asking for a divorce ! You were very lucky to be one of his exes !
"How dare you! I'm not impulsive!"
>impulsively files for divorce because he didn't wanna have a proper conversation
Stepson and gf demanded, if they'd asked then that might have made op feel differently but husband deciding by himself was not ok. When the ex-wife agrees with current wife it's never a good thing for the AH husband.
Narcissist 💯 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽 divorce imminent 💔
Ma'am the only thing that makes you the bad guy, is the fact that you had to ask if you were the bad guy. I wouldn't have been quite so nice as you. My son even said that I'm mean (😂 he's right 😂)
The kids should have just announced pregnancy and said they could use any help parents could offer -- not made demands.
Good for you you’re not the bad guy! Your are not responsible for other people’s choices! Your husband also made his own choices and thus had to face the consequences!
yep you gave him a good conversation!!but when that trick of a girlfriend of his said you was just a bitter old lady who was jealous of them because they were young and could have children I would have told her straight up I could have had children I didn't choose to have children but you're not going to live here I'm not taking care of you him or the baby get out!!and then Jason talking about that whatever crap he's talking I don't owe you nothing boy I didn't burp you go to your mother oh and by the way take your damn daddy with you!!you know because after all this is my house I own this before I have them at your daddy so 1 2 3 4 of you get to Steppin!!
Divorce it is!
I'm trying to figure out why Opie didn't open her mouth at that moment when they asked to move into the house I don't care if the house is yours and your husband's and he didn't look at you and ask you you should have said No at that moment.
Also the husband making impulsive decisions hope he knew that if he's pulling out $5,000 to give his son money to fix a car that he just bought from Craigslist then she knew how irresponsible the husband was and you've been taking care of him this whole time.
So don't come up here acting like you don't know how irresponsible and impulsive this man is because we could figure that out from the post.
Husband is a total pushover and enabler. He enables his son's bad choices repeatedly and that's not good parenting. Living in a small apartment isn't a big deal, especially with only one baby. His son needs to man up, they're not in need, they're irresponsible and need to figure their stuff out on their own. Also, if you can't afford a bigger apartment without handouts, than you can't afford to be a sahm. If OP let Jason live with them than Jason would probably just sponge off then forever. Husband's history of not consulting anyone before doing things seems to be just as big an issue.
You know we see on so many channels how the stories are flat out fake, well at least we can say for Reddit this story is very possibly true as it’s a story of op’s partner making bad decisions one after another and doubling down out of what we can only presume is because of his ego.
Making huge decisions without your partner's input is a sign of disrespect.. marriage is a partnership, you're not in it alone, therefore you can't make decisions that may affect the marriage/household without your partners input... he's not impulsive, he's disrespectful.. he doesn't feel he needs her opinion cause her opinions, feelings & what she wants doesn't matter a lick to him.. why would it be anyone's responsibility other than Jason & his baby mama?.. no one else was there when they decided to have unprotected sex..
Agree with you 💯 %!
Not only is the husband a toxic, narcissistic, loser, AH, but also a liar about not talking to ex wife and daughter. Good riddance AH, his loss. Only reason he wanted to cancel the divorce is because he missed his good life living for free in her house. Too bad, too sad for him
9:33 I'd say he didn't give op much of a choice
Why did she bother to call about talking the divorce over? Hubby wasn't worth keeping.
I honestly will never understand why women find this type of immature guy ( shakes head )
Their failure to plan doesn’t require an emergency on your part. If no one likes your rules everyone can go
Their failure to plan doesn’t require an emergency in your part. This is your house & if no one likes you roles everyone can go
Husband is going to die old and alone. Son is growing up to be just as useless.
it had just happened... haaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaa
Haw haw his lose
3 stooges style slap
Yep, a great go-to move !
OP's husband has a history of disregarding his partners, in future he would this again. There's no point in wasting your life with someone whose unwilling to change.
OP's husband has a history of disregarding his partners, in future he would this again. There's no point in wasting your life with someone whose unwilling to change.
OP's husband has a history of disregarding his partners, in future he would this again. There's no point in wasting your life with someone whose unwilling to change.
OP's husband has a history of disregarding his partners, in future he would this again. There's no point in wasting your life with someone whose unwilling to change.