REAL TEA ON CHILDBIRTH!!!...

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  • @lizziedrizzyhamilton
    @lizziedrizzyhamilton 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I find it so relaxing listening to you talk! You’ve got such a soothing voice 🙏🏽

    • @annmurugi9738
      @annmurugi9738 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah! Such a gracefully queen!!

  • @anayagillespie8710
    @anayagillespie8710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I’m due in November so watching other moms talk from start to finish about their birthing experience makes me feel prepared for what’s to come 💙☺️

  • @itsmemackayla468
    @itsmemackayla468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Im a student Midwife and I think this is the most descriptive labour experience video I’ve ever seen. VERY helpful x

    • @TT-fr7gz
      @TT-fr7gz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Best of luck with your training, it’ll fly by. X

    • @itsmemackayla468
      @itsmemackayla468 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      T T thanks much appreciated, Covid slowed it down a bit 😞

    • @TT-fr7gz
      @TT-fr7gz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Itsme Mackayla did you do the aspirant midwifery at all?

    • @itsmemackayla468
      @itsmemackayla468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T T No, I went straight onto the midwifery course and now going into 2nd year. I know another ways to do it, is to do nursing first then midwifery for a year. However, I knew I wanted to specialise in women’s health, so I didn’t do it that way. x

    • @tnic2818
      @tnic2818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But not everyone gets that overwhelming feeling after birth. So I hate hear women tell other women that you feel like overwhelming feeling of love and so on then you don’t get it a feel like the worst mother. When sometimes it take a few day etc to get this love feeling.

  • @mearapillay1243
    @mearapillay1243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thought clicking on this video would lead me to some childbirth tea but instead, I got a wake up call. Women are SO strong. Never sleeping on the superiority of my gender ever again.

  • @heatheranne2578
    @heatheranne2578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Trying to poo the pain away is literally a life goal!

  • @Corysworldd
    @Corysworldd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Erin is the realist person, Mila is lucky to have you as a mum ❤️

  • @AuthenticInFashion
    @AuthenticInFashion 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol at you telling the lady to stitch it extra tight! That is so funny! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Ironwater_2024
    @Ironwater_2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations with your newborn your a champ to have gone through all that pain and powered through all the crazy of being a new mommy.

  • @ambs23av
    @ambs23av 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love how in depth you went with this. I've always wanted someone to explain it properly. Thank you and you look incredible ❤️xx

  • @claudiawisener5657
    @claudiawisener5657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings 🇹🇹!!!!!!
    I did not know you experienced all that trouble and discomfort after the birth of your adorable baby! So happy to hear that you survived everything. Thanks for sharing. Stay as sweet as you are! Stay safe!! Much blessings to you and Mila.

  • @claudiaesparza3932
    @claudiaesparza3932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you so much for posting this!! I’m due approx Sept 6! And have been avoiding birth videos because all I ever hear is the negative or hard part of birth... but not how this is a life changing experience. And how capable our bodies really are! This really helped to calm me!! Thank you ❤️ and congratulations on your baby girl’s birth, she’s beautiful like her momma!

    • @ErinBudina
      @ErinBudina  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Claudia Esparza it’s the most magical experience you should be so excited! Good luck & be calm our bodies were made to do this! Women really are amazing xxx

  • @lauraj4939
    @lauraj4939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was fab I’ve been through all of what you mentioned and can I just say apart from myself obviously your the only one to describe it all so bloody correctly this felt so nostalgic hun xxx

  • @chloebray8527
    @chloebray8527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I thought I was the only one who felt weird getting up for the first time because literally no one talks about it 🤣

  • @jodie4592
    @jodie4592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was spewing as soon as I ate as well 😩😂 being in the bath was my saviour too, felt like it lifted the weight but as soon as you get out holy shit... torture. The post baby belly feels sooo weird as well! Almost feels hollow, hard to explain. Mila is such a gorgeous baby 💖 congratulations Erin 🥰

  • @mimad57
    @mimad57 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Giving birth is hard and my god the pushing is awful but NOTHING could prepare me for the aftermath. The pain down there a few days after - ergh!

  • @StupedFresh
    @StupedFresh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do a newborn essentials video! The stuff you actually loved/used & recommend

  • @yasminreid4507
    @yasminreid4507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’m so scared now after this

  • @nuggetsworld638
    @nuggetsworld638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like your vids.... and seen a different side to you. I've been very judgy before. You seem really lovely. Your daughter is gorgeous. Well done on becoming a new mum. X

  • @micamalcolm7482
    @micamalcolm7482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is an amazing video ♥️ i had my 2nd baby in November and i wish i could do it all again now after whatching this! I love watching your journey with little mila shes beautiful xxx

  • @babyrose6767
    @babyrose6767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Due in Feb but trying to prep for labour as much as I can. It seems like such a scary process. Your baby girl is SOOO beautiful and your so gorgeous! Thank you for this story. New Subbie 🤍

    • @jaileneramos8411
      @jaileneramos8411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Baby Rose u can’t prep enough for it everything can change on what u thought it will be

    • @babyrose6767
      @babyrose6767 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jailene Ramos that’s super true

    • @jaileneramos8411
      @jaileneramos8411 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baby Rose yea my second birth did not go as I expected at all

    • @babyrose6767
      @babyrose6767 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jailene Ramos that’s my biggest fear 🥺

    • @jaileneramos8411
      @jaileneramos8411 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baby Rose it will all be okay
      For my first everything went perfect

  • @kellyjohnson3292
    @kellyjohnson3292 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for sharing this video I'm sure it'll be a big help to first time mother's. You're baby is so lucky to have u as a mother. God bless your family.

  • @kaitlynx3540
    @kaitlynx3540 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hospital bag video and day/night routine with a newborn xx

  • @zazimkhize4049
    @zazimkhize4049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Poop the pain away 😂💕😂

  • @user-mg5nz6il3n
    @user-mg5nz6il3n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love you erin! love your youtube channel keep it up xx

  • @hotnov
    @hotnov 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My Baby is due in about eight weeks ❤️

  • @Sonya77353
    @Sonya77353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You did great giving birth! Congrats on your sweet bundle of joy 🌸

  • @meleesmillennialmoms3210
    @meleesmillennialmoms3210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You really don't know what the hell to do when your having a contraction😂😂 the contractions once your fully dialated are the worst🤣

  • @Mimi-bs7kn
    @Mimi-bs7kn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m getting major Kim Kardashain vibes lol, her daughter is tooooo cute 🥰😍

  • @kelly9714
    @kelly9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video Erin 💞
    You smashed child birth and motherhood 💕

  • @123Emilyx
    @123Emilyx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your videos so much, always so real !!

  • @hazzyb1785
    @hazzyb1785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this! the only thing I would have loved to hear about the birth of the placenta! 😁

  • @Sss-vs1xp
    @Sss-vs1xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her voice is relaxing omg

  • @jadeweir3572
    @jadeweir3572 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so glad I had an epidural 😂👍🏼 pushing only 16, mins and didn’t feel a thing!!

    • @jameskay4806
      @jameskay4806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jade Weir you’ll feel the pain later down the line. Lol from the needle being sticked in your back.

  • @abbeycameron5227
    @abbeycameron5227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    honestly it's quite ironic that I got a condom ad for this

    • @SH-kc8ce
      @SH-kc8ce 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @XXZoiaShahXX786
    @XXZoiaShahXX786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    congratulations girlll 🥺💓💓💓 xxx

  • @icw5378
    @icw5378 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Erin, in one of your previous videos you mentioned that you have PCOS. I recently found out that I also have it and wondered if it affected any part of your pregnancy experience?
    Thanks

    • @deedeesodelicious0
      @deedeesodelicious0 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it doesn’t it could however effect you getting pregnant as you are not ovulating if your periods are to very irregular but there is medication that can help with that i know many people that have normal pregnancies with pcos

  • @rachaelmoxon6227
    @rachaelmoxon6227 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Erin, looking lovely 💓
    Were you one of the lucky ones that didn’t poop during the pushing stage then? 😂
    I was praying the whole time during both my labours that I wouldn’t but my other half said he didn’t notice even if I did because the midwifes were busy at that end whilst he was by my head 😂

  • @E_nez
    @E_nez 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @anyawi3857
    @anyawi3857 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an amazing mother!

  • @A123-j9q
    @A123-j9q 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stupid question. Did u take an epidural? X

  • @glor432
    @glor432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh my baby had/has jaundice too and we were also in and out of the hospital for the blood tests. She’s a lot better now and we no longer have to go get the tests done but it was still stressful.
    But I just need to ask, how long did you wear the pads for? Cause I’m about sick of wearing these big pads and granny panties🤣
    I’m almost 2 weeks postpartum.

    • @deedeesodelicious0
      @deedeesodelicious0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats and depending on how heavy your bleeding is you can change them now to the normal pads just dont use tampons

    • @glor432
      @glor432 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dee d I already switched to the normal ones! But I don’t like them either lol. I’m just not used to wearing them so they’re uncomfortable to me

  • @Billie.boe.jade.crazy.Cousins
    @Billie.boe.jade.crazy.Cousins 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What you actually used in your bag... would love that x

  • @brandymcdonald3205
    @brandymcdonald3205 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t wait to get my flattummy ultimate bundles am so excited

  • @mse5284
    @mse5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to add closed captioning and put her on mute. Since y'all said it was so good.

  • @izzyporter9828
    @izzyporter9828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where are your nighties from which you took and wore in the hospital when you had Mila x

    • @ErinBudina
      @ErinBudina  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Izzy Porter got them from Tesco xx

    • @izzyporter9828
      @izzyporter9828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Erin Budina thank you so much, I’m due in December will definitely be getting some!! Xx

  • @nombusontuli2727
    @nombusontuli2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm never having kids! No one says it's not painful😣

    • @eleanorknight1991
      @eleanorknight1991 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I enjoyed my labour gas and Air is amazing 😉 hardly felt any pain

  • @felixkyriakou4383
    @felixkyriakou4383 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been in the same position in the hospital room for 8 hours 😞

  • @imaxinebrown694
    @imaxinebrown694 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing

  • @erinscott7202
    @erinscott7202 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m due in December I’m so ducking scaredddddddd!!!

  • @sikirav1891
    @sikirav1891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this

  • @Sss-vs1xp
    @Sss-vs1xp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Who’s the father of her baby? She never talks about him wth

    • @shaniceminnis5058
      @shaniceminnis5058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      how is this going to add to your life exactly ? he has been shown before.

    • @ladytee2017
      @ladytee2017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shaniceminnis5058 exactly! This nosey person....lol

    • @rebeccat6825
      @rebeccat6825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s there he just doesn’t like to be on camera and is very private but if u want to see him go to her Dubai holiday blog and at something like 10:05 u can see him

    • @Sss-vs1xp
      @Sss-vs1xp 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebeccat6825 yeah I just saw it cute they look like a very comfortable and cute couple

  • @kkdiazz
    @kkdiazz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you had your six week check up yet

  • @politicanacional.1380
    @politicanacional.1380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cute Erin....!!!!

  • @miaconifer8744
    @miaconifer8744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please share your playlist you had for birth!!!

  • @rae2457
    @rae2457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did you go to a private hospital and on the scale of 1-10 , 10 being the worst pain how would you rate it ? Would you do a natural birth again ?

  • @taylahdesantos
    @taylahdesantos 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙌🏼♥️♥️♥️

  • @papakwawduker4828
    @papakwawduker4828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    No baby daddy love on this channel

  • @suzettedupreez2797
    @suzettedupreez2797 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Erin I love you so much 😘

  • @courtneyjones4322
    @courtneyjones4322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should be scared 😂 very scared 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @xoxolove985
    @xoxolove985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really don’t mean to be rude, or offend you but has your baby been checked for downs? I’m just curious. I’m a student nurse.

    • @ErinBudina
      @ErinBudina  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      XOXO LOVE if you were a student nurse you know they do these checks early in pregnancy. Ur unnecessary dumb comment will only empower the negative energy within you

    • @xoxolove985
      @xoxolove985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erin Budina it’s not negative energy at all, and sorry if I offended you. But nurses ain’t perfect and get things wrong all the time, and also miss stuff like this! So was curious for your own sake . Anyway have a good day. X

    • @ErinBudina
      @ErinBudina  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      XOXO LOVE you can’t miss something like that because it means they have an extra chromosome. Something you check for during pregnancy. Therefore I know you are not a studying nurse. This is something that is taught in year 7 science lessons. So your comment was ignorant and rude but you don’t have the intelligence to make your rude comment make sense

    • @xoxolove985
      @xoxolove985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Erin Budina Don’t you think I know about an extra chromosome!! I know all that, but I’ve witnessed nurses/midwifes missing so many vital things during pregnancy and testing!! So I was just advising you to check, how is that ignorant? Did I call your baby ugly like these trolls.No! I asked you a simple question that prob half of these people are thinking but not saying. As I said have a good day. She’s beautiful either way. 💓

    • @elysejannati
      @elysejannati 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When you get pregnant you will remember that you said things like this to other people

  • @jassmineroxx578
    @jassmineroxx578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼