Little Man Syndrome Cure
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Coach Corey Wayne discusses how to develop unshakable self confidence if you feel insecure about your height, or that you're unsuccessful with women because you are short.
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I'm very short, 4'11" and have run the whole course. I've been rejected for being short and I have not. If you have a good personality, laugh and enjoy being yourself for what you are, women will be attracted to you. Not all of them, but then, I have my own standards too!. I've dated women from my height up to 6'4"! I've had great romances and lots of good memories. My wife of 15 years is 5'8" and very beautiful. She chose me because I'm a man that acts like one, short is what I am, it does not define me. Hope this helps somebody.
Richard Pate I’m mildly autistic and this does help me. Thank you.
This really helped im 5'6 /5'7 and knowing you have been able to cope with it makes me know I will
I left a comment but seems it was deleted. Anyway, good for you! I personally think it's a bit silly and naive when women judge a guy by his height alone.
Of course short men are overly aggressive - they have to be. Society is telling them that they are automatically less manly and deserve less respect then their taller counterparts. They have to be twice as athletic as a tall guy to get respect on the field. Twice as handsome and charming as a tall guy to get the girl. Twice as intelligent or skilled as a tall guy to get the high paying career.
If society is telling you that you lack an essential part of "being a man" (height), than of course you're going to compensate with another trait deemed masculine (aggressiveness). If height bias in society stopped, I guarantee that the so called "little man syndrome" would stop as well.
Well said my friend
Just to add to this the Romans were comprised of shorter men than usual according to modern day standards, and yet they ruled the world at one point. They themselves had "some" height requirements for joining the Roman Legions but for the most part they were going up against foes who were in many cases much taller than they were especially the Germanic north. Shame that Germanic height became the standard for all men across the western world since the fall of the Western Roman Empire. Such is life and nature I guess.
Spoken like a short man. Long response to overcompensate. Statements about how society is unfair.
Negation F Agreed
But they are less manly looool
With all due respect, Coach, you're simply incorrect about height not making a difference.
When I get bored, I go out to do some fun social experiments. I can be charming, clever and well spoken in my normal shoes and get absolutely nowhere. Then I can turn around, put on a pair of three inch lifts, act like a complete social idiot and still have substantially more successful social interactions than I did the prior night in my normal shoes.
That's the difference going from short to average height can make: from having ZERO women in that 50-60% range to having many at the range where they're willing to overlook severe social awkwardness.
@Jason... Height means jack shit. It's how you make a woman feel what matters and how you connect with her spiritually and emotionally. Yes, for some people hype might have something to do but that's only about maybe 5% out of 100. Height is not everything in life and if that's what you think, you need to start reading Corey Wayne's book 12 to 15 times. Let's face it, big men with personalities were short and were conquerors. Beethoven, napoleon, mozart, James Madison, etc
@@samanthamcbride8285
Beethoven literally died childless and unmarried. Only two people attended his funeral: one friend and one enemy.
Fuck that.
@@jaecyn42 Actually you're 100% mistaken. Me being a classical musician and also having studied music history that's 100% false what you said. Beethoven had a lot of people at his funeral and as a matter of fact he actually had a child but he never knew it. Classical musicians biography is one thing that I know so you might want to expand your horizons with knowledge before debating. Yet you have not answered anything in regards to my point that height has nothing to do with anything. You need to work on your low self-esteem because it's obvious that you have it and feel inadequate for whatever the reason is. Like I said, you're never going to get anywhere with women with that sort of attitude. 👍
No the reason why, is because big guys get all the glory because of thier size, and what I mean about that is that they get all the jobs and all the opprotunities goe to these guys that are bigger.. it is stero types to think that all tall or big guys are all strong, and all short are weaker, so it is understandable that short people are angry, and plus a lot of big people seem like to rub it in that they are big and that you are small. society has to change :(
I actually have witnessed taller guys going up to women and just telling them their height (6'1 for this case) and she instantly looked at him and asked "are you really 6'1?" and 15 minutes later they were making out in the corner. True story and I've watched it happen three times. It's crazy how much of a HUGE advantage a 6'9 guy has over a guy that's 5'5 and bald, double negative) when it comes to the dating scene. Women mostly say they like men with confidence but only if they are 5'10 and taller. I grew up watching HeMan and playing with HeMan toys as a kid so to me it made me think that being tall/muscular. and a full head of hair would qualify guys as real men. Same things happen with women that grew up watching things like Miss America.
Some women actually don't care about height. My friend is about 5'9" and his girlfriend is about 6'1", they are a great couple too abd really love each other.
Between men, height is meaningless after high school. The only benefit conferred to men over 6’ is that you’re going to be the guy that tiny women ask to reach for crap off the top shelf at the store.
My friend who had small mans disease when h e got a job as a plasterer. they wear stilts you see. He is fully cured now.
Corey is 5 ft 6 ? Damn I wouldna called that...
How do u know ?
He's 5'9
3:20 Your skills aren't going to get any better if you're not talking to or interacting with women. You need to be talking / interacting with women wherever you go.
5:47 Attraction is not a choice. You either meet her minimum standards of attraction or you don't.
Shorties
I'm only 5'3 and had a 4 year relationship with a woman who was 5'9. My good friend is only 5'4 and gets laid with no problem. Sure, women prefer taller guys, but height isn't everything. Just dress well, be confident, make eye contact, smile and if height is brought up, don't be affraid to make a light hearted joke about it and transition into a different subject. Also, don't sweat it if someone makes fun of your height once in a while, it's gonna happen...life is too short.
you also Live in Brazil those women down there are Beautiful an Friendly an of course have standards BUT!!! if you try hard enough for long enough I imagine you would have success I am 35 years old 5ft6 1/2 without shoes on an alone for 10 years now I try when I have chances but most of these spoiled rotton anti social unnaprochable hateful mean difficult paranoid American who are white with the bad fatherless attitudes will not give me the time of day I live in a state called Oregon I even take care of myself an stay in shape an Tan I'm moving down to sao Paulo before its too late still need to get a kid in life an your country maybe the last chance I have at it in life I understand some stuff about the Brazilian culture an hope to learn more Portuegese Language an continue my studies from home
I still prefer taller I am 5'3 and in many cases I was teased about my height at school and at work I still prefer being taller. Many people get bullied cause of there height at school so for some people height is a problem and not easy to overcome. I hate when ppl even tell me omg I didnt know you were 26 years old your so short you dont look like it sorry but. I would rather be older and taller for my age in the end as long as I am happy.
Haha Nice pun
@@mikec3904 the way you’re talking about women is so sad.
The point about lil man syndrome is who gives af that you're short smfh stop showing your masculinity every single day n grow up. Nobody gives AF about lil Trimp syndrome n yes trimp is a term I made up too describe how inferior their masculinity is the more the show it
If you're short like me (5'4), you definitely need to be witty to get by.
Interesting. My dad has Napoleon complex so I’m trying to understand how it feels. Does it really affect your overall and everyday life?
@@stevienguyen2047 Who said that I have a Napoleon Complex?
But being my height makes it very difficult to attract attractive women. Because I basically have to forget about getting with attractive taller women and then also most women my height or shorter want guys that are taller than me. So that's very frustrating because I can't change my height.
When I do attract attractive women, I can't make any mistakes in order to fuck. I don't care about the other aspects of being shorter.
@@stevienguyen2047 if you let it, literally everytime I go out into public I feel inadequate and insecure. I know that's all in my head but it's almost impossible to shake. It makes me very sad to know that if I was just 5 inches taller I would be way more accepted in groups of grown men and in the dating pool. I cant get the kind of girls I want because they have basic standards and if they were to date me, we'd stick out like a sore thumb and there would be alot of questions...
I started dating this short man. He is 5'6". I found him charming and we connected instantly. One year later I have realized he has small man syndrome. I am 5'7". I do not mind that he is short. However he gets into fights every time we go out and I can't take it anymore. His crazy mom encourages his nutty behavior. His grandpa was 5'4" and was a boxer and beat the crap out of everyone. I on the other hand I come from a big peaceful family. I do not not think we will make it.
I went on 4 dates with a girl. She would text me right after the date and I would make sure to reciprocate and then as she messaged me again in the week, I would set the date for the following week over our first 4 dates over the first 4 weeks. She was excited to see me and was very affectionate but told me she wished I was bigger. I am 5'4. I just laughed and said "well that's how I am, so don't worry about it ;)". I felt strong and confident but she said simply she couldn't be with someone smaller than her. it hurts that it's something I can't change and we had a good time together. Some people are just judgemental and insecure about themselves and felt like she projected it onto me. I executed in a centered and strong way but I also know i'd like to be with someone who's not judging me on that and someone who's not going to judge me on her own insecurity. I guess she helped me to move on. Good luck short guys! I know it ain't easy but that's life. #next 😎
Bro I love your attitude, that how it should be. Also you dropped this 👑
Yep she definitely had a lack of self confidence. Which is okay, and glad you saw it rather than thinking you are the problem.
Glad you took it in stride! I've seen this on terrible dating profiles (Better Bachelor) quite a few times - always ticks me off that some women actually put in their profile that they won't date someone shorter than they are. I actually didn't know this was a thing until recently. Anyway, some women say it's because they don't feel as "protected," but if you behave like a man and have a great personality, chemistry and compatibility, who gives a flip??...
Don't let that effect your confidence, you do you!
Just think of this. Wolverine in the comics is actually 5'3", and he's a fucking badass! I use that to give me reassurance about my height, for I'm 5'3" as well. I do have my days where I don't give a shit about my height, and I have my days when I do. Today I was having just a moment where I felt like my height was dooming me. But then I realized, dude, I'm a fucking beast! I have a great job, and I've got great friends, and I have a goal in life. I can talk to any woman I want if I feel like it. And when I do, I'm fucking amazing! Nobody should ever feel as if they can't do anything due to something so small (no pun intended) like height differences. Own what you got! I'm 5'3" and I'm Wolverine!
being short doesn't mean you are automatically 'laughing stock of the group' if people around you show their shit attitude trying to justify themselves don't put up with it MAN UP AND GIVE THEM A GOOD ANSWER verbally, mentally, physically or altogether! it doesn't have to be 'short men syndrome' even if they label you anyway they want. If someone disrespects you even when you didn't even bothered them it means they believe you are too weak to defend yourself...you have all the rights to prove them wrong.
If a short man being aggressive for no good reason then he is going through 'short men syndrome' then what do you call when tall men and women behaves irrationally in public and at work places? 'baby syndrome'? or maybe 'asshole syndrome' ?
this is nothing but fickle standards of society's morale, you people show kindness to physically disabled people or you think its dark even when autistic one gets bullied or made fun of...then why double standards for short men? if physically disabled people and autistic individuals or deaf and blind people DID NOT INTENTIONALLY CHOOSE THEIR WEAKNESS neither short men choose to being short...
I can fully appreciate your giving me that advice. Even so, I wish that you were a 5 foot tall adult male who was giving me that advice.
Corey is 5 ft 6 supposedly
Corey is 5'9
8:54 gorgeous what?
Lmaooo I caught that too hahahahah
utterreasons 🤣🤣🤣
Looked through the comments just to see if anyone else noticed 😂😂
LOL 3 years later dumb funny....he wanted to say gorgeous bitches so bad...what type of coaching business is this
Lol we all talk that way sometimes in private.
The best part of this video is he almost says gorgeous bitches.
This is actually sad. The one guy getting knocked dead :(!
What was said in the video was very true: height should not be a limiting factor for a man in finding a woman as a potential mate, at least for the non-superficial women who will look past a mans height or other physical characteristics, because at the end of the day, a mans height is the equivalent to a woman’s boob size: you have no control over it.
5'10 checking in
That’s avg height
I'm short and i like it but i always square up to bigger guys than me in school. I am aggressive and angry.
Interestingly, psychology doesn't recognise the Napoleon Complex, it defines it in terms of paranoia, and being 5''7', most people seem taller than me and it does make you paranoid. What it has done for me is that I am now a talanted guitarist, I can shoot pool, play sports and I came from a poor self-defetous, deprived background and have a masters degree and the one thing I don't have is a girlfriend. Two baby mamas, no current girlfriend. Either way, it's really damn hard for us short guys. Especially with those hot one's. I'm sure corey has the cure ;).
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Bro there is no syndrome 😂 I feel like its just fine to joke in short dudes there’s no fat women syndrome yet where’s the study for that I’m joking by the way but seriously this is just a study picked up on nothing
5'1 damn.... what about... "i think i am awesome becase i am Tall man syndrome"
Or "ego-tall syndrome"
LOL they just call that being a Chad
I see that shit all the time.
and this is why average height guys win, the rarely talked about group. lol.
Also, the average height guys > tall people because we usually just about get to go through doors without banging our heads lol
MAN I Don't get it. I responded about a year ago and followed your advice what you said to me but I still get rejected for being short. I don't have a problem with being short (5'5) but I have a problem that they don't like that I'm short. I just play it off cool and move on. I'm 40 years old retired army I built up so much courage to talk to every women I see sitting at a bar are standing in line somewhere. The latest rejection I had a few weeks ago was " if you were taller I'd be all over you". I don't know man maybe it's just California women that act this why. I even mess around and use the techniques of sailing the army when I was a recruiter for three years. God this sucks!
+robert southwood
If you were taller I'd be all over you? That doesn't sound like a rejection to me, that sounds like a test. Focus on the positive of what she says, not the negative, and pat yourself on the back for making progress. Revel in your progress and love yourself for it. This doesn't suck, this is awesome, because you're getting better! But FFS if that happened weeks ago then you're not getting rejected often enough to find the ones that DON'T reject you! I get rejected several times a day.
Go to the mall (a busy one) and find yourself a hot little Asian girl that's like only 4'11". She may be walking around, chilling in the corner, sitting on a bench, sitting at a table, looking at clothes, alone or with friends or family - if you go to the mall at the right time on a busy day you WILL find this hypothetical generic hot little Asian chick. She's just gotta be there! And she has no business telling you you aren't tall enough for her, so if she gives you shit you just tell her "You're only 4'11"!" and then she'll tell you that she's taller with high heels on, so you'll tell her that she shouldn't be wearing high heels anyway because they're unsafe to wear - they're just not very stable shoes, and girls are always losing their balance in them! Make up a story about how you personally know "like 10 people that had horribly graphic deaths." Do it with a smile of course so she knows you're teasing.
I'm 5'6"... the truth is that it's all in the numbers.. some women will not like your height and will not date you purely on that... but women also might do the same thing for the shirt u have on...
who cares... u didn't lose anything u were never going to have..
you might increase your odds if you focus on girls in the 5ft to 5ft 2 range..
and very tall girls aswell surprisingly.. it's hard to find a guy taller than a 6ft2 woman.. she won't care as much.
I had a 6 foot woman hot on me once... (before I read the book) I said "you're a little tall for me aren't ya".. her response was "we're all the same hight laying down"!!!
just keep going... can't stop won't stop.
Go for Asian women, they worship Americans
Dude, I'm the same height as you and I'm going to give you some advice: go to tallmenshoes dot com, get yourself a pair of three inch lifts and see what a difference being average makes.
It'll set you back about $60-80, but I guarantee, people will react differently to you when you wear them.
And don't listen to any bullshit about how that's "dishonest". Women use all sorts of little cosmetic white lies to give themselves an advantage, why shouldn't you?
Brandon Nielsen It doesn't make me feel better, but it does change the way other people perceive me and react to me.
I see no good reason not to take advantage of that fact.
You might have just saved my life. Thank you for sharing your friends story.
This sounds a hell of a lot like the old RSD stuff from back in the day lol.
We know two men who are well below average height. Both are compulsive liars, continually
coming out with stories about how tough and strong they are. One in particular makes out
that he has personally know many well know people, and how he had a top job working for
an airline. When he was in fact a sweeper upper, and general dogsbody. The thing is, if you
are not going to tell the truth, you need a good memory.
Or maybe they were angry cause somebody slighted them, who knows? I guess the main thing is that as a short man you just have to ignore assholes.
I agree with Corey , but also high is important for women.
the problem is not the high. THE EGO is, short guys are so hard to love.
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If a tall guy had the ego and aggressiveness of the short one your talking about you wouldn’t complain
Loks like a manlet
Studies consistently show taller men make more money and get promoted more.
Mark Zuckerberg and Jeff Bezos are 5’7” tall. Which “studies” are you referring to?
They're self made. They are talking about the corporate world. Taller men are promoted much more than shorter men even if they're not as qualified. Saw it firsthand.
Who has time to go on 100 dates lol
I obsessed over my height and I’m averge
Average might as well be short. Nowhere in life is average good enough. Certainly not for women.
I subscribed to your book. I really believe what you say is true about women, but height is a handicap. You speak differently about this topic because it’s not something you’re familiar with. I’ve never seen you look up with your eyes before.
Love this video I m 5'6 n never had a problem its all about personality I have dated taller women but any women that emphasize s on height are shallow and need a personality check also being short men are better bodybuilders to just saying
The cure is from within
Wtf I'm 5'6 and should it be a problem? Lol. Never had any issues with my height. I'm short but it has never been handicap for me in anything. Well, there's actually a positive side on it. If my partner dumps me for taller guy then she deserves to go
True it's like a filter for less superficial women.
Listen, its not as easy as this guy makes it out to be. I am sure he doesn't practice what he preaches here.
Lmao that escalated quickly
roman both of you seem to be over compensating for you stature above and below the belt
Hi Corey I’m working with a guy that seems to suffer terribly of the symptoms how can I talk to him about it??? How can I tell him u ain’t shit ese!
LOL go a head and bash me again lol
You remind me of Dan Bilzerian actually for some reason(in a good, funny way)!
Snoop dogg is a loozzitz
This "get over it" thing is not the best idea.
If women can have movements that are accepting of their bodies, why can't we?
I'm sorry, but this just sounds like classic boomer talk 🤷🏽♂️
Women who are not superficial or immature will take a bigger interest in the personality rather than the body shape. If you are someone kind, caring, interested, therefore you are interesting. Stop focusing on yourself, focus on the person you are interested in.
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I'm short i'm 5'2 and I've been with a lot of women. I don't get it???????
+Chris C I admire you Chris, I don't get it neither I mean on what i'm doing wrong. Im 40 years old short (5'5) and bald. Ive been rejected by almost 2000 women in the past 35 years and overtime they rejected me it was for being short (they actually tell me various things when rejected me for being short) I don't have a problem about being short but I have a problem they they reject me for being short. How do you do it?
I'm in a different era, I'm 40 years old so that puts me in a difficult spot when it comes to getting a girlfriend. Do you remember the 80s commercials "he's so tall, dark and handsome" and even Disney brain washed women to thinking they have to have a taller man. Ever scene a short bald Disney character that is the star of the show and gets the girl? That's the era I was raised in.
Damn! you had women tell you that you weren't tall enough too? Have you ever sat in a resteruant and listen to two women talk or a group of girls talk around their tables? When ever they talk about a guy they always bost about how tall their sons or boyfriends are. Have you noticed in tv commercials that when there is a short guy and a tall guy together the shorter guy is the one that always loses or makes the bad decisions?
I'm pretty jealous of guys 6 foot tall and over LOL but I'm 5'5 so that goes with out saying haha. I met a guy a few months back that was 7'8 and he hated his height too, I wouldn't want to be that tall neither. Women thinks a guy that is 6'1 just that alone is like finding gold or something no matter how much of a duet bag he may be. Did you know if a guy was under 5'9 or was it under 5'8 it makes him unacceptable to donate sperm to sperm banks?
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Thanks.