Your SPOUSE isn’t SUPPOSED TO BE PERFECT!! & STORY TIME

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  • @hottmasala
    @hottmasala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    You can meet the right person but at the wrong time. And that's ok, there was a lot I had to work on myself including breaking generational curses. For years I denied he was my Kingdom Spouse because he wasn't my type. But God kept telling me gently he was. If it took me years to admit to it, I owe my KS the time to come to that conclusion on his own. We both can reach the same destination but at different times. Meanwhile he's still my best friend, and I'm busy loving myself and living my best life!!! Thanks Steph!!!!

    • @jiyutheplanet
      @jiyutheplanet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you break all curses

    • @hottmasala
      @hottmasala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jiyutheplanet Thank you. It's tough but doing my best 🙏🏼

    • @loveedaniels221
      @loveedaniels221 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vxvzzxvg

  • @tashabrown837
    @tashabrown837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nobody's perfect but I'm not going to keep putting up with same mess for months and years while being betrayed. If some people want to deal with certain things that's their right..and if I don't want to put up with certain things that's MY RIGHT... and I choose to move forward...I'm sure GOD WONT PUNISH ME FOR THAT....I WISH EVERYONE THE BEST😘

    • @johnmoya2826
      @johnmoya2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trust gets you killed, Love gets you hurt, Being real gets you hated...-

  • @ChildrenofthelivingGod
    @ChildrenofthelivingGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Lord help me not to give up coz that man is trying me. I’m not in the mood of repeating the same patterns.
    Edit: ladies he was not the one! Never the one! Please pray to God and find out if you are not lying to yourselves. And if any of you is idolizing these prodigals or prodigals messages etc set your hearts right with God.

    • @dancing2040_prophet.
      @dancing2040_prophet. ปีที่แล้ว

      The most annoying human being on earth at the moment right??

    • @brianna9774
      @brianna9774 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay this made me laugh bc EXACTLY

  • @TiffaniTip_Starr
    @TiffaniTip_Starr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    On time word!!! Sometimes when we see all these toxic relationships I was thinking that’s how it was going to be for me nope God hide me for most of my 20s until 2 years ago and my kingdom spouse came into my life!!! And been fighting so hard but not realizing being loved on the right way is soooo beautiful and it’s the way God intended!! No more I receive it all because I deserve it and I thank God thank you woman of God for this word and confirmation 🙌🏽❤️💍🔥Amen

  • @MyFaithCounts.PureFireMinistry
    @MyFaithCounts.PureFireMinistry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yes, so true.... The enemy will swoop in, especially after a confusing or hurtful breakup with the person you thought was the one or is the one. Our enemy is ruthless. He will go in for the kill when you are down already. Believe me, she is right with this. I let the confuse me even more because I was hurt and I let it change me. Because I listened to the lies telling me I might as well give into the way of the world, because no one would love me the way I knew God wanted me to be loved. It was a dark time. Thank God he began to take me out of believing I wasn't worthy of that kind of love. When you are hurt, press into God, stay far away from the world and take every thought or lie of the enemy captive. God will save you from yourself and the enemies blows if you allow him to heal the wounds and show you how loved you are by Him. He is a Good Good Father. Always there to comfort you thru life's ups and downs, our mistakes and others too.

  • @LadyLatriciaSpeaks
    @LadyLatriciaSpeaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As you walk with God, you grow, mature and learn. They are all lessons to develop you. Not necessarily mistakes but what your soul needed to grow, know and mature. Trial and error. It's how we learn and grow.

  • @nejlaandme9698
    @nejlaandme9698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    We are not perfect as an individual but as a couple we can be perfectly in love and in a harmonious relationship 😊👍🙏

  • @carolyn5555
    @carolyn5555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is such an accurate word. I too made that same mistake in the past with an ex. I was solely focused on his look and physique that I ignored all the red flags. He turned out to be a narcissist and very abusive.

  • @winnielee7561
    @winnielee7561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There is an assignment when God ordains your KINGDOM SPOUSE 🔥☄️💥

  • @meiyongriffin3753
    @meiyongriffin3753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Waiting on my Kingdom Husband(ADG)💖🤞.... While I'm waiting I'm also working on myself and trusting GOD my heavenly father...

  • @ninachanell
    @ninachanell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stephanie, listen, this whole video from start to finish had me in Tears!!! This describes the Complete situation with my Kingdom Husband. And the Story Time!!! WOW! It brought so much context to everything Perfectly. I can honestly say that after watching this I can see things through His perspective! Even the details of not letting myself go, take care of myself while focusing on GOD's Will right now. SPOT ON!!! I KNOW IT'S GOD THAT IS SPEAKING!!! I'm on Lunch Break & HE Told Me to Watch This Video! AMAZING!!!!! Stephanie, once again, I CAN'T thank you enough! I will be a blessing to you soon Woman of GOD.

  • @nivanisadhai2476
    @nivanisadhai2476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marriage takes time for both people to mature and grow spiritually together and work things out with confidence and compromising.

  • @Yahsbelovedgem88
    @Yahsbelovedgem88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you Yahusha Hamashiach! I find myself wanting my spouse to be perfect 😫

  • @henrytoney3418
    @henrytoney3418 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank u sister n Christ, for this Beautiful teaching. We all fall short, at points n our life. But true love is hard to find. So being patient to GOD's will, we come out ok. He knows the beginning and the end. Trust God's plans. Amen💓🙏🌹

  • @eiguajardo
    @eiguajardo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sometimes we pick our partner out of trauma, he is strong, he is smart, he know the ways of the world, he is confrontative, he ends up using all that against you. Every story is different, sometimes too much hurt was caused, is God the only one capable of healing and changing the situation if it is for his glory, not ours. Accepting this and forgiving has been one of my greatest challenge. I have just one unbreakable rule, never ever ever under any circumstance go back, is a very basic dignity principle for me, I have live strongly by it for decades, but what if God tells me to do it?

  • @multicreativeartist6579
    @multicreativeartist6579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm 17 years old and I know who my future wife is, we're both single Christians in 11th grade (right now) and we had class together last semester. So I don't have her in class right now. But we're texting each other and I told her that "I'm interested in you and would like to get to know you" she hasn't responded yet but hopefully she does soon. I just hope we'll be able to finally get together in person. As a Chosen One who's a lone wolf. All I need is God and my Kingdom Wife

    • @crisslee123
      @crisslee123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Make sure my dear you get Gods timing on it. 🙂 God bless

    • @mzyotruthnlove8263
      @mzyotruthnlove8263 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crisslee123 Amen. Timing is very important. Sometimes rushind ahead if The Most High's timing is the reason the relationship is having so many problems.

  • @chinitareid8625
    @chinitareid8625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    AMEN YOU RIGHT YOU DO NOT WANT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE WE MADE IN THE PAST AND FOLLOWING GOD IT IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT A BIG DIFFERENT THIS TIME AROUND GOD IS OF # ORDER# GREAT, GREAT PROPHETIC WORD STEPHANE.

  • @jiyutheplanet
    @jiyutheplanet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope everyone here breaks any generational curses they have

  • @shawnhughes2552
    @shawnhughes2552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yesterday you don't want me, now today u do. I don't deal with Woman who doesn't know what they want.

  • @samuelgwhiston3108
    @samuelgwhiston3108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for this message princess Steph and lord Jesus Christ amen hallelujah amen 🙏,and Holy Spirit,

  • @touchpoint4christministries444
    @touchpoint4christministries444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love you to Stephanie this message was so heartfelt .I had a similar situation like that It’s such a blessing to know that there is someone out there that you have a lot in common with .You are such an authentic and loving ,caring and sweet woman and you bless me each and every day with your prophetic teaching and gifting. 💗🙏🏾🥰

    • @moma5501
      @moma5501 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amén!!

  • @deborahquarnstrom2437
    @deborahquarnstrom2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your word has really opened my eyes about my past relationships. The shoe on the other foot is reality. WOW!!!

  • @katherinebradley1961
    @katherinebradley1961 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You right, I know I’m not perfect,I’m striving trying to make it in and I don’t expect him to be if it’s God will for me to have one to be perfect. Amen

  • @shannondarby2474
    @shannondarby2474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the longest I've been single. I really needed this! Puts alot into perspective.

  • @ashleysneed5842
    @ashleysneed5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for always giving these profitic words

  • @Siyab589
    @Siyab589 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So true. The decisions of the next person don't define who you are. Thank you Stephanie ❤

  • @thebattleaxe6867
    @thebattleaxe6867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On time word. Continue to let the Lord use you. God does not show favoritism. He will judge us all accordingly. I am consistently and forever being humbled and open to the truth to heal and be delivered. Be blessed my sister in the Lord.

  • @michelledenise8482
    @michelledenise8482 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so great full for you putting this testimonial out . Girl seriously thank you for this !

  • @Proverbs31Ministries222
    @Proverbs31Ministries222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men are simple. I've learned this and women are definitely more emotional.

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏🏾 a true eye opener for me 🖤

  • @MsHarrison76
    @MsHarrison76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this message! I really needed to hear this. This is confirmation for me

  • @buyaphilip
    @buyaphilip 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are genuine and honest. You encourage us allot.

  • @rebeccamouton7058
    @rebeccamouton7058 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Man when I tell you I ignored all the red flags from my ex of two years then I finally left him go it was god and I think that’s another reason I feel that way about spouse though I know he’s going through war far it’s crazy thank you steph love you beautiful for this message 🙏🏾❤️✨

  • @JustMe-cb7dl
    @JustMe-cb7dl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💛
    Thank you for your message.

  • @Db_Supa_Dupa
    @Db_Supa_Dupa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really needed to hear this. Thank you very much for the msg and the story.

  • @Neeesha
    @Neeesha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the confirmation Stephanie! You are always on point

  • @emerald7938
    @emerald7938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful, awesome message, I hope many here this, it’s the truth, it’s REAL life. ❤️🙏🏽

  • @christibellamy7033
    @christibellamy7033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So well spoken and wise to be so young.,,have my own memories and wonders...life does go on....God Bless! TY

  • @francesgardner975
    @francesgardner975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a Beautiful Confirmation Prophetess Stephanie. It all makes perfect sense. Thank you for sharing. God Bless You Always.

  • @samuelgwhiston3108
    @samuelgwhiston3108 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your hair like that and your nails too ,

  • @amberwynne7480
    @amberwynne7480 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't expect perfection. I just respect them being real.

  • @britts.5443
    @britts.5443 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooo good!!

  • @topic.of.the.gospel9117
    @topic.of.the.gospel9117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GM, MY SISTER. I LOVE YOU, AND MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP BLESSING YOU.

  • @thepreciouspalaceministries
    @thepreciouspalaceministries ปีที่แล้ว

    The Lord has been leading and putting your posts on my timeline. You are so obedient, thank you for sharing your testimony ❤️

  • @monicarice2697
    @monicarice2697 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow Steph, i think this may be for me! ❤ Thank you! Hugs! I did need to hear this!

  • @Rissababy628
    @Rissababy628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I been binge watching romantic movies 😩😩😩😩 lmfao & I was wondering / hoping if I’ll just meet the person and feel the instant connection type of love

  • @ulafayeisrael7130
    @ulafayeisrael7130 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Thank you sis for sharing this message. God bless you ❤🙌🔥

  • @Ministryofthepearl
    @Ministryofthepearl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Spirit of Truth!!!

  • @divinelyguided79
    @divinelyguided79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you my beautiful siStar you are appreciated. ALL GLORY BE TO GOD!!!

  • @RachelEdghill
    @RachelEdghill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You want to know if someone is anointed this is it, they can be transparent of where they came from🔥🔥🔥. God bless you for sharing your truth.

  • @staceewright
    @staceewright 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stephanie, thank you for this message. I’m the woman that was also used to toxicity and I married the bad boy and yes a lot of good has come as far as me becoming a better person, getting right with the Lord and getting closer but in all honesty I’m very sad in my marriage. Please pray for me. 🙏🏽

  • @mrclassictv9295
    @mrclassictv9295 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's true steph. More grace

  • @iamthatiam-l
    @iamthatiam-l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This cleared it all up for me. 🙌❤️

  • @nicholashamblin3600
    @nicholashamblin3600 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hang in there Stephanie I'm grateful for you your words bring me hope your insight gives me help to fight this evil you are beautiful and amazing thank you

  • @geniadooley2622
    @geniadooley2622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yep....This is so true....

  • @mele1617
    @mele1617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am taken and literally taught by the Lord and he doesn’t take the pain but He helps us endure..And the revelation is powerful because it’s His word has come to life

  • @gloriapye641
    @gloriapye641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You! I agree totally with all you are saying! On time word!!! Sometimes when we see all these toxic relationships, I was thinking that’s how it was going to be for me! I thank God thank for you woman of God for this word and confirmation! This is something to think about for sure!

  • @lilylovecheng8646
    @lilylovecheng8646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 no words to say and needed to hear this today. Nobody is perfect we all will make some mistake without these mistake we won’t be learning of who we are. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @milanitier9627
    @milanitier9627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow I can relate to your story , that happen to me

  • @soniasalamon6504
    @soniasalamon6504 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im so sorry. As hard as it is Holy Spirit helped you to share so fluidly.......Hugs and Gratitude for helping us to see a "Bigger picture and Broader perspective too". I pray your heart healed a little more too as you shared with us........Wow, you are causing us all to put on our big girls/big boy drawers on😉. Raising the standard to Kingdom levels Amen and God Bless You!

  • @QYOUNG10_03
    @QYOUNG10_03 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    FATHER YOU HONESTLY KNOW HOW TO COMFORT MY HEART💖

  • @michelinelanglais8786
    @michelinelanglais8786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO THIS IS HITTING ME HARD GOING THROUGH THIS RIGHT NOW BLESS YOU PRAISE GOD ALL THE GLORY TO GOD IM SO BLESSED AND IM LISTENIG LORD THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE

  • @imsunnybaby
    @imsunnybaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this is sooo deep

  • @mjmfox
    @mjmfox 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing with us

  • @OneLove-ng7qr
    @OneLove-ng7qr ปีที่แล้ว

    ABSOLUTE TRUTH... EVERY WORD 🙏

  • @dawnmariepraisepansandpoet2005
    @dawnmariepraisepansandpoet2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you SO MUCH FOR THIS WORD… AMENNNNN

  • @anekameade4742
    @anekameade4742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow 😯 this is on point

  • @jessycolon5879
    @jessycolon5879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen Glory Glory Glory

  • @pearlhunterunself-righteou7865
    @pearlhunterunself-righteou7865 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay, now that makes much more sense. Because I was sooo frustrated that I just kept throwing my hands up & trying to move on.

  • @deborahquarnstrom2437
    @deborahquarnstrom2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is GREAT WORD

  • @yogabyjaneika9886
    @yogabyjaneika9886 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love all of your content 🥰💓

  • @renataphillips6911
    @renataphillips6911 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was thinking that maybe he felt he had to change, this is deep thanks for sharing

  • @aymara.
    @aymara. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Stephanie that story time touched my heart💔

  • @EYEAMPROTECTED
    @EYEAMPROTECTED 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I so appreciate you. God Bless You

  • @nicholeerhoden700
    @nicholeerhoden700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know what you are saying
    Blessings to you
    Amen

  • @anujohn9021
    @anujohn9021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen. Its strange Steph how our lives are so similar.... ❤️

  • @imsunnybaby
    @imsunnybaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are so awesome

  • @empresstameica7438
    @empresstameica7438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Woman of God for a wonderful world from god 💜💜🙏🙏

  • @angelaslaton3211
    @angelaslaton3211 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so deep 😭❤️🙏

  • @toyaqueen-kp2wz
    @toyaqueen-kp2wz ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u Stephanie 😊

  • @peachezrodriguez6687
    @peachezrodriguez6687 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow... Great Testimony.. That mindset comes when you have been in an abusive surrounding for such a long time.. I know that feeling too well...

  • @Mikil7777
    @Mikil7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    some people were very confuse some people thought you were talking about your situation and that wasn’t the case but thank you for breaking things down I feel bad for the lady or man that’s going through that situation me personally I’ve never been through that I’m married with children and I value family i truly understand we all have made mistakes thanks sis for painting my comment

  • @fieldskim385
    @fieldskim385 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good teaching experience

  • @evineshacampbell5010
    @evineshacampbell5010 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I asked God who is my kingdom husband and I saw my ex with his new girlfriend and all her family was at my house tearing things up while I was sleeping. I woke up and asked everyone to leave

  • @jeanhayner2691
    @jeanhayner2691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I still have a lot of work to do on myself; but am powerless to do it alone.

  • @jeffadams5418
    @jeffadams5418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    never arouse love until it is ready to be roused. This verse hurts on so many levels.

  • @QueenPen888
    @QueenPen888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a great message. But I have no desire to reconnect with men from the past. Whatever the reason was you didn’t chose me when you had the chance, don’t come back later singing a different tune. Even if he did grow & evolve during the time apart I still don’t want you anymore. My prayer to God is to send my person who will be able to see my correctly the 1st time. Not the guy who rejects me hurts me, then he gets hurt by the person he thought was better than me & now all of a sudden sees me as his wife. No sir absolutely not! Lol 😂

  • @neptaliamc4859
    @neptaliamc4859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stephanie are you my twin sister 😅 you’re speaking nothing but the truth ❤

  • @jennifersylaire7536
    @jennifersylaire7536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can really relate to that… I learned thé hard way and in the midst of all i met God and see things in a spiritual perspective 🙌🏻

  • @britty-britsopenhouse7792
    @britty-britsopenhouse7792 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you my sister Stephanie. Perceptions are different.

  • @kingsadventures6139
    @kingsadventures6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hear that 🙏🏾

  • @shantellaspruiell8265
    @shantellaspruiell8265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great share shalom!!!

  • @gloriapye641
    @gloriapye641 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real Talk Oh My God!

  • @janedove5390
    @janedove5390 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏 🦋✨

  • @deborahquarnstrom2437
    @deborahquarnstrom2437 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow Thi is so on point. I need to make a testimony about this because this is what happened to me. I new years ago... he didn't..... I have faith but I

  • @Proverbs31Ministries222
    @Proverbs31Ministries222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I have seen love spells happen to men as well. I'm happy you just said this. Cause I noticed this more with men than women. God will always reveal

  • @beauty1259e
    @beauty1259e 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wonderful 😔

  • @angeleye5219
    @angeleye5219 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank q . I understand what you are saying 🙏🙏🏽

  • @ronnamora3277
    @ronnamora3277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nobody's Perfect

  • @fredrikjonsson3599
    @fredrikjonsson3599 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen
    There is many video on this topic. I pray for us❤️❤️❤️
    THANK You Lord True ALLMIGHTY God 🤍🤍🤍