This thing is very tricky.... back in Uni my friend fell for a very close friend of mine, I know two of them and I knew it wouldn't work so I advised her to stay safe. Na so mama tell me say make I mind my business, truly I was looking out for her but she gave me ela oju kan. I stepped aside and gave them space, last last it went sour between them sha. Now I mind my business oooo, you go learn!
Personally, except there's abuse, I'll just stay out of it. The most I'll do is confront my friend/brother/relative and ask them to do the right thing, but then they can decide to listen or otherwise. I have seen people start off dating casually, and then end up madly in love. Keep up the good work!
For me, telling her is best especially if I see that she has a good heart and she is not pretending. The final decision is still on her though. And if my brother is "that guy" I would tell him to let my friend go if he is not serious or going to get serious with her.
Interesting topic...honestly i would tell d girl ...as far as they are not married yet,i would let her know nd if she wants to go ahead...its fine! I have even done it b4...lol!
Yea..there is no need of destroying your friend in front of a man that loves her, as she said wen you and your friend are in the house alone you can bash her.that will be so good of u bcus u have done ur path, its now left for your friend to choose a better path for her life and future,..if after everything she doesnt change, she will have to face the consequences later maybe wen she is being caught by d guy..
This is a good convo. If the girl is my G or not, and she brings up the conversation or we get into the conversation, we would get real whether you want to hear it or not. But I like what Mofe said... people grow, not change. That's my same point of view. If the guy wants to drop the behavior then he'll drop it coz he grew... not because he wants to please you. But what if you're not diplomatic though, or don't know how to be?
What did the lady in blue to the left smoke? Her opinions sounds quite naive/delusional and 'unwise'. I agree with Ariyike and the lady in the purple blazer. People do not change they grow. A boy who doesn't call you isn't into you Aunty, leave and let a better Man find you. You are not an 'option', you are a 'privilege' (its a privilege to have a great woman), calling you isn't an option, it should be a 'giving' and he should 'love' and 'want to' talk to you. You are a Queen, why manage anything less than top-notch treatment. May God heal and show us women who we really are so we don't keep settling for less than what God intended for us. Love shouldn't hurt, it should make you better and not make you crazy and sad.
personally what i will tell my friend is this is the character i know the guy for but like your guest said people change or grow as you put it..i will just make sure i tell you what i know its now left to you to do what is right by you so that at the end of the day if the guy changes for the better you wont blame me because i put a disclaimer and if its the other was round you wont blame me too
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This thing is very tricky.... back in Uni my friend fell for a very close friend of mine, I know two of them and I knew it wouldn't work so I advised her to stay safe.
Na so mama tell me say make I mind my business, truly I was looking out for her but she gave me ela oju kan. I stepped aside and gave them space, last last it went sour between them sha.
Now I mind my business oooo, you go learn!
Personally, except there's abuse, I'll just stay out of it. The most I'll do is confront my friend/brother/relative and ask them to do the right thing, but then they can decide to listen or otherwise. I have seen people start off dating casually, and then end up madly in love. Keep up the good work!
Ariyiike....you are my motivator.....I love you sooooo much
For me, telling her is best especially if I see that she has a good heart and she is not pretending. The final decision is still on her though.
And if my brother is "that guy" I would tell him to let my friend go if he is not serious or going to get serious with her.
I will tell her but not enforce my decision on her because at the end ofthe day it's her choice .....
Interesting topic...honestly i would tell d girl ...as far as they are not married yet,i would let her know nd if she wants to go ahead...its fine! I have even done it b4...lol!
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Yea..there is no need of destroying your friend in front of a man that loves her, as she said wen you and your friend are in the house alone you can bash her.that will be so good of u bcus u have done ur path, its now left for your friend to choose a better path for her life and future,..if after everything she doesnt change, she will have to face the consequences later maybe wen she is being caught by d guy..
This is a good convo. If the girl is my G or not, and she brings up the conversation or we get into the conversation, we would get real whether you want to hear it or not. But I like what Mofe said... people grow, not change. That's my same point of view. If the guy wants to drop the behavior then he'll drop it coz he grew... not because he wants to please you.
But what if you're not diplomatic though, or don't know how to be?
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No I CNT let dem discover it them self. But dis depend on the kind of girl and way she accept the truth bcz some will turn it on ur head
The real mofe is really real
Might tell her depending on how free I am with her so she doesn't think something else that's not
I love you so much Ariyike
Mehn....... Once you are my close friend and we are very close. Nigga I'm definitely telling her✌
What did the lady in blue to the left smoke? Her opinions sounds quite naive/delusional and 'unwise'.
I agree with Ariyike and the lady in the purple blazer. People do not change they grow. A boy who doesn't call you isn't into you Aunty, leave and let a better Man find you. You are not an 'option', you are a 'privilege' (its a privilege to have a great woman), calling you isn't an option, it should be a 'giving' and he should 'love' and 'want to' talk to you. You are a Queen, why manage anything less than top-notch treatment. May God heal and show us women who we really are so we don't keep settling for less than what God intended for us. Love shouldn't hurt, it should make you better and not make you crazy and sad.
personally what i will tell my friend is this is the character i know the guy for but like your guest said people change or grow as you put it..i will just make sure i tell you what i know its now left to you to do what is right by you
so that at the end of the day if the guy changes for the better you wont blame me because i put a disclaimer and if its the other was round you wont blame me too