IMAGE IS EVERYTHING. Sadly, so many men, black men in particular, are apathetic about their image and it shows in their outcomes. I’ve never lost to “Pookie or Ray Ray” honestly it’s the other way around.
This is 100% true. I see it every day. People respond to you differently when your appearance is tighter. If guys would throw on a suit occasionally, and tighten up their hair/facial hair, they'd see the difference. Also, your demeanor tends to change with your appearance. When you project confidence and calm, it changes how people approach and address you.
I have a lot I have to change as a man because my aura was not right and I need to change that with bigger goals and bigger dreams with consistent growth.
King Holden _ that's dope, just make sure you find some one on that same journey because it nothing like having some one thats conflicting or not balance to your dream...
Women love to believe in the law of attraction but hate this basic tenant or principal of it. When its time to shine the light on their excuses for failed relationships, for some reason it never has anything to do with them.... Insecure as a show really showcased how true this is ...
Edward Anderson insecure is basically a window into the soul of the American black woman and highlights their questionable mating decisions and thought processes they put into that. Art imitating life. Sistas telling on themselves yet again. It’s basically Waiting to Exhale in series format.
@@JuanTomlinson472 the difference is society and consequences come to men lightning fast. Women for a variety of reasons can and are isolated from the consequences. That's the defining difference. That's what get missed by the basic they do it too argument. Go deeper then the basic BM do it to argument. You really trying to tell me that BM can live in delusion the same way women can in this society huh
"You are what you eat"..."Birds of a feather flock together" and "No class attracts low class". Alright, I made the last one up. But, you can see where I'm going with this. Laws of attraction is a powerful thing.
The statement "we attract what we are" confused me for years and years in my 20s and early 30s. How, I thought to myself at times, could I have attracted this or that person/experience into my life when I have STRONG VALUES that had nothibg to do with that person or experience?????? One day by chance I found the answer to this mystery in a magazine I chanced upon and read this: "We attract what we are, or what we are willing to tolerate." Bingo!!! LIGHTBULB MOMENT! This is the COMPLETE saying, and I realized then these words should always be said in this way. We attract what we are, or what we are willing to tolerate. Saying the first half alone is not a complete thought, I have come to realize. Great vid - it gives a chance to clear up this lack in this very popular and bantied about expression.🌟👍☺🐸
Most of the time it is true, however occasionally you can get the anomaly. I haven’t bought a pair of Nike’s/Jordan’s in 8 years so I definitely don’t have swag that will appeal to a lot of black women. I prefer wearing vans.
Most people arent honestly self reflective. They can only highlight their self described pros, while conveniently ignoring their cons, hence why they tend to attract whoever they consider to be dead weight.
I agree. I have dated a lot of good street wise men. They have a beautiful heart but they know what's up in those streets. Can't tolerate no man that don't know the game. Still cordial with all if them and they still help me if need them. Except one, he would help but I would never ask. My selfishness prevented me from marrying when asked. But most are married now and pretty good husbands.
It’s a tough pill to swallow when you see what you attract - I see why women and men don’t like to tell they story - your story may tell who you are now or at that time in life
One day one of my male friends and I had one of our deep talks, and I asked him his opinion on why I wasn't getting men my age to approach me, let alone ask me out, because majority of the time they were at least 10 years my senior (early 30s and up). I told him they weren't necessarily ugly men, and they tended to dress nicely and seemed well to do (one even felt the need to mention to me that he had a business), but they were just way too out of my age range. My friend told me something that I never knew that guys even went through: he said, "I'm going to be honest with you. It's not that you're not attractive, or nice, or that you're not feminine. The guys that stare at you and don't approach, even when you give them an obvious signal, probably think that you're out of their league. I was like that one point when I was younger, and assumed that attractive girls had guys vying for their attention all the time, so why would I have the chance? Now that I'm older and a bit wiser, I don't have that same insecurity anymore, and neither do those older dudes. And if you don't believe me, I've talked to my other friends that have met you, and when I asked them if they would at least ask you out, they said, and I quote, "Nah man, I ain't got it like that." I asked him if it seemed as if what I wore seemed expensive, because my clothes were flowy and high quality and I love wearing jewelry, but I have sensitive skin so it has to be certain metals only. However, almost all of my jewelry and a lot of my clothes I've gotten on sale or was given to me. He told me, "Yeah, I know that. But they don't know that." That really sat with me, because I had no idea that guys went through that internal battle whenever they were deciding to approach a girl or not. I'm not sharing this story to brag; I'm sharing it in relationship to this video, because it's very very true. Eventually I had a man my own age ask me out, and surprise, he also owned and operated a business and was a pretty good dude. As an aside, I've also never said to myself, or even complained, about there being no good black man "out here". I have yet to prove myself wrong, as I have met "good" ones way more than "bad" ones, whatever those actually mean. If you keep saying stuff like "There are no good black men/women", how do you expect to find them? If you follow Mr. Rom's advice and be who you want to be with, you'll find that your circle of people and those you're attracted to will begin to change. Thanks for reading.
Water seeks its own level is what I've heard. I also believe water flows to the point of least resistance and this is perhaps the issue with some people who complain about the folks they allow in and out of their life but refuse to take responsibility for the roll they play in attracting them and being either dirty or clean water themselves. Good Drop OG..
Great Discussion. I'm Thoroughly working on Becoming the Best Version of Myself. I am Attracted to Beautiful Women on the Outside & Inside so I am working on becoming OnPoint in BOTH aspects.
On point fam! A reflection of who you really are always signifies who you attract along with who you're going to continue to attract. It's definitely how you see as well as display yourself which plays a part in who you attract, what you desire, are you qualified to attract what you desire because they're two different things! Another thing too, how you carry yourself along with the energy you display tells a lot about yourself and who you are even if you're really where you want to be in life but you're working towards getting there. It's all about how you feel about yourself and along with how you value yourself. Inspite of what you go through in life and where you're at at the present moment and I'm speaking in reference to myself, always look at yourself a certain because that's going to radiate energy within you a certain way! That's how I'm able to attract certain women right now because of my mindset, now if the women do find you attractive along with that, then that's a plus. I picture myself right now attracting certain women now, it's just a matter of me putting myself in the position to be qualified to get what I really desire but it's all in the mind and you being worthy of it, knowing it in your and that's what shows in your energy along with your physical presence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
In my experience it’s mostly women who don’t understand or refuse to accept this basic concept. A lot of women are disingenuous by thinking their education or salary will attract the quote on quote good guy. But these same women will work in corporate America and still be attracting the dope boys. Yes rom you attract who you are and what you value. Good video brother
Women who attract dope boys are either from the streets themselves or too focused on making money by any means. Dope boys are focused on making money any means. They just do it in different environments.
I don't think we attract who we are. maybe I was lucky, or maybe it's my destiny but the few men that I've met before my hubby and even him, we'd nothing in common. We're not even from the same income family.they always appear very simple, good looking but very basic and then when I got to know them I feel I am not on their levels and even ask myself why are they interesting when I don't see what I could offer that time. 18 years later, I learnt why, it was because after conversating with me, my hubby said that he quickly understood that I would be the force for him to strive even higher because he ask me my thoughts on certain ventures, even the most complicated ones and never a woman was so clever. So sometimes you you do not attract who you are.
I find amazing what you're saying, i attract old dudes all the times, I'am in my late tweniee and the guys who approch me most of them are in their fifties and even sixties. I'm still reflecting why this happening, it's not the type i want....
Uncle Rom, I’m so happy you to referred to Ayn Rand. I’ve been curious for a while if you were familiar with her work. It sounded to me as though the select man; real man you suggest we aspire to be has lots of parallels with her characters Howard Roark, Francisco D’Anconia, and John Galt.
I always get the real feminine types, quiet, to themselves but just be vibing, knowledge seekers too. Clean but they especially always like to keep their nails nice lol
Good pod as usual Rom. So true for me and some women i know. When i was big, i attracted big women. Get healthy, they leave. You hit home with the you like you're into white women. I laugh. It weeds out the nonsense. For females i know,they complain about this. I tell them you act slick,slick coming your way because they feel like they can you.
I get what you're saying years ago I would have tracked many people men that is lol but now I don't attract that many and the reason is I gained a little weight
Here is some Revolutionary excellent level game that i would love to say i developed this but i didn't but i will love to share this which can take the dusty brother to unrecognizable levels of his best self (i don't like when sisters down brothers, but if you can reach one with this game you will teach one, and he will remember when she called him dusty when she says to him later he is looking fine now, if you want to change the you that attracts the people that happen to be less than what you want. I will call this level of GAME "THE BLUEPRINT" PEEP THIS: we are ruled by our habits Winning in life is a habit, Loosing in life is a habit, 1) We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act but a habit. Find the cue, change the routine ,and reap the reward. When you find the cue to the bad habit change the routine, and reap the reward. 2) the chains of habits are too light to be felt, until they are too heavy to be broken (This qoute was by "Warren Buffett"). The creation of a bad habit is like a ninja you don't notice any harm into it until it is dirrupting something and has become a weight and a burden that you want to break from your life like smoking. 3) Sow in act, and you reap a habit, Sow a habit, and you reap a character, Sow a character, and you reap a destiny. If you don't like who you attract change what you do. Peep this: pretty boys get woman but guys who have a habit of excellence can take em or attract them. I was playing poker with this white guy and his girlfriend back in the day and for some reason to him he couldn't understand why his girl was attracted to me and out of the blue she said i like men like you and I'm attracted to your presnce at the table. He got mad at her and left, and she later followed him but before she left i asked her why she felt that way, and it was because i was playing a excellent game, i was winning must of the large pots and loosing the small ones, i wasn't able to be able to get a read on by others and i was the only one quite at the table and that winning and mysteriousness drew her even though her white boyfriend was right there. I say all this to say this: build habits of excellence brothers and sisters. Take the cue for the reward of that bad habit and change your routine. For all you who take time to read and heed this you will be blessed. This is a late post but i considered it deeply and put some powerful nuggets in it. Its long but the value is a great prize. You all deserve the best from you. So the next time you see that less then average looking dude pull that bad ass female she was drawn to excellence and wanted to grow and receive that to. Pimps call it izm, cool players call it game. I call it a good strategy like rom, or game. Don't short changing yourself. Give your best to better you in everything you do and make those things good habits. Make room for your gift and your gift will make room for you. After you work hard to develop good habits the upkeep maintenance will be easy. You have to learn how to master mind and accomplished short term goal, stay focus, and believe the vision as if it was already done. Feel it like you would if you had it. I don't care how long it seem to take for you to get it (peep this: when it shows up it will feel like you always had it, you will be ready for it, and you will be able to keep from loosing it.) Young people you have to be prooven (test to know if you really want what you desire before you can get it). To a winner loosing is just a indication that you need to step your game up and learn from that temperary fail. I got a good friend who's a air traffic controller thats what he wanted fo be and he got it. He also wanted this woman that wouldn't give him the time of day, so he found out what zhe wanted in a man and he stuck wuth the script but he also ignored what was unrealistic cos he has wisdom and now they have been married for 20 plus years. Get your blueprints and get to work. Ignore insecurities its a enemy, ignore procrastination its a "thief". If you love yourself do it for you whatever it is that you want. Whatever you can't get go build it yourself. Knowmatter how long you work on something you are still just one day 24 hours from having until you quit. Hmm? I think i will do a you tube channel lol so i can quit these long post, but thiz information here you can't put a price on it becauze it will forever be your number one investment "self excellence ".
J born sinner yeah and it suits them fine to attrack people jusr like themselves. Success to one man is different to another. I'm not knocking what they want "if they got it". But for those who want something else there ain't know reason they can't get something else. To many of us have been taught to settle for what we can get. I believe you should be able to get whatever your imagination puts in front of you if you really want it bad enough and if you still can't get it then there is something better than that for you if you want it.
To your last point, I have heard often over the years "you seem like you only date white girls" even though I've never even touched one. Some were shocked and relieved to find I was going on 10 years married to a black woman with 4 black kids.
Great video, Rom. But what about the anomaly? You know, the guy who seems to attract an assortment of "types". Oftentimes, outwardly speaking, types which look to be the exact opposite of what he would go for. Have you done a video about that type of guy?
Rom Wills agreed. There's always a commonality. But to the observer it's difficult to see what it is. I'd love to hear you talk about that 1%. It seems to me that this group of men go beyond what you describe as simply being select, players, pimps, etc...
So true..the version of the female educated lames. This is ok by me they just aren't as adventurous in nature ad I'd like. But alot less baggage as you said previously.
@@MARVELRIVALS-REALM I realized that the way I dressed all the way down to the way I was acting was what was attracting them. It's also worth mentioning that my standards wasn't set too high at that point in time either. Specially since at that time, all I focused on was how pretty her face was and how nice her body was and nothing more. While I ain't changed how I dressed too much, I done toned down a helluva lot as far as how I act. While I still go for women with pretty faces and nice bodies, I look for way more than that when it come to women nowadays
Fun fact about me I never dated a woman with a tattoo just seem to happen that way, when I was younger they were all making more money and buying houses so it naturally elevated me to who I've become now. Be careful who your around
The greatest way to raise your vibration is to change what, how you eat. and do intense exercise- in that order. However this takes time, effort and commitment so i'll give you a nugget. Our sense of smell has a greatest effect on the brain than all our other senses combined! Go to the health food store and buy 3 all natural essential oils - ylang ylang, vanilla and peppermint. Imm. after you shower mix 3 drops of ylang ylang, 2 drops of vanilla and 1 drop of peppermint and dab it- wherever. Ylang ylang decreases anxiety and boosts confidence; vanilla brings emotional comfort and peppermint rejuvenates and stimulates. Perfect to spark attraction and interaction.
Rom, the title of the video alone is pretty self explanatory... If ppl were to be honest w/ themselves, this video would EXPOSE THEM for attracting/hooking up with the wrong type of ppl, both MEN AND WOMEN
Imagine having the mind being conditioned consistantly by Great Men....Dad, Ra un nefer, and Rom having the biggest impact, master Yao, Bobby Hemmit, Yusef El etc. Women are the least of my concern...its about manhood.
I've always attracted the coolest girls around that everybody likes, and but they r some really bad bitches with real family issues. Whats with that tho!!!
The Hawk i no i talk to rican now i live in pittsburgh pa most of the woman down here stuck up so maby i travel to other city im lay back smooth type of dude and i keep 100 i need woman that exlacty what i am
Aaron Myrick I used to try Latinas, but they wasn't feeling your boy I guess only some black guys can get them. Black girls like me by default so I gave to stay in my lane.
Ive been told more then once that i need a white girl...thing is im always going after sister with bullshit results...im about to start talking to white women...im having no luck with sisters
I dont know everything about attraction, but i sure as shit dont attract black women. The women who our elders say we should marry and accept because they look like us.
IMAGE IS EVERYTHING. Sadly, so many men, black men in particular, are apathetic about their image and it shows in their outcomes. I’ve never lost to “Pookie or Ray Ray” honestly it’s the other way around.
Real talk.
Kev!! :)
This is 100% true. I see it every day. People respond to you differently when your appearance is tighter. If guys would throw on a suit occasionally, and tighten up their hair/facial hair, they'd see the difference. Also, your demeanor tends to change with your appearance. When you project confidence and calm, it changes how people approach and address you.
Discipline validates confidence.
I have a lot I have to change as a man because my aura was not right and I need to change that with bigger goals and bigger dreams with consistent growth.
King Holden _ that's dope, just make sure you find some one on that same journey because it nothing like having some one thats conflicting or not balance to your dream...
That’s why it’s important to strive to be your best self. (Mind, body, and spirit)
I always say people weakness connects them more than they strenghths to each other
Women love to believe in the law of attraction but hate this basic tenant or principal of it. When its time to shine the light on their excuses for failed relationships, for some reason it never has anything to do with them.... Insecure as a show really showcased how true this is ...
Edward Anderson insecure is basically a window into the soul of the American black woman and highlights their questionable mating decisions and thought processes they put into that. Art imitating life. Sistas telling on themselves yet again. It’s basically Waiting to Exhale in series format.
Facts!!!!!!
Edward Anderson,
That's why some women don't want to deal with the law of attraction.
Some men are like this as well not as many as women but men can be just as delusional
@@JuanTomlinson472 the difference is society and consequences come to men lightning fast. Women for a variety of reasons can and are isolated from the consequences. That's the defining difference. That's what get missed by the basic they do it too argument. Go deeper then the basic BM do it to argument. You really trying to tell me that BM can live in delusion the same way women can in this society huh
"You are what you eat"..."Birds of a feather flock together" and "No class attracts low class". Alright, I made the last one up. But, you can see where I'm going with this. Laws of attraction is a powerful thing.
Yep.
The statement "we attract what we are" confused me for years and years in my 20s and early 30s. How, I thought to myself at times, could I have attracted this or that person/experience into my life when I have STRONG VALUES that had nothibg to do with that person or experience??????
One day by chance I found the answer to this mystery in a magazine I chanced upon and read this: "We attract what we are, or what we are willing to tolerate."
Bingo!!! LIGHTBULB MOMENT! This is the COMPLETE saying, and I realized then these words should always be said in this way. We attract what we are, or what we are willing to tolerate. Saying the first half alone is not a complete thought, I have come to realize. Great vid - it gives a chance to clear up this lack in this very popular and bantied about expression.🌟👍☺🐸
very interesting.
I attract women with high family values and closet freaks so I can agree
Those the best types.
Definitely. Your presence will tell you what you need and desire.
This is so true. Radiate good,positive energy, meet and come in contact with good and positive people.
Most of the time it is true, however occasionally you can get the anomaly. I haven’t bought a pair of Nike’s/Jordan’s in 8 years so I definitely don’t have swag that will appeal to a lot of black women. I prefer wearing vans.
hope sullivan Ha! Exactly, that's all I wear is vans and Chuck's. (I just keep it simple)
Left_Hand_Introvert luv my chuck's 👍🏾
Thats black women biggest problem they only go for swag and all this other bullshit i say fuck em continue to be you.
Most people arent honestly self reflective. They can only highlight their self described pros, while conveniently ignoring their cons, hence why they tend to attract whoever they consider to be dead weight.
It's always the negative side.
+background187 Fucking brilliant observation. I feel that way myself and when I tell people that they look at me like I lost my top.
I agree. I have dated a lot of good street wise men. They have a beautiful heart but they know what's up in those streets. Can't tolerate no man that don't know the game. Still cordial with all if them and they still help me if need them. Except one, he would help but I would never ask. My selfishness prevented me from marrying when asked. But most are married now and pretty good husbands.
That's real talk. I always appreciate your honesty.
Deep Discussion. The Concept of Attraction is Complex yet Basic at the same time.
It’s a tough pill to swallow when you see what you attract - I see why women and men don’t like to tell they story - your story may tell who you are now or at that time in life
I had to face this myself. People have to be honest with themselves.
I forgot about this.....you can figure a man or woman out by who they attract and who they're attracted to. Thanks fam!
That's how I figure out things.
One day one of my male friends and I had one of our deep talks, and I asked him his opinion on why I wasn't getting men my age to approach me, let alone ask me out, because majority of the time they were at least 10 years my senior (early 30s and up). I told him they weren't necessarily ugly men, and they tended to dress nicely and seemed well to do (one even felt the need to mention to me that he had a business), but they were just way too out of my age range. My friend told me something that I never knew that guys even went through: he said, "I'm going to be honest with you. It's not that you're not attractive, or nice, or that you're not feminine. The guys that stare at you and don't approach, even when you give them an obvious signal, probably think that you're out of their league. I was like that one point when I was younger, and assumed that attractive girls had guys vying for their attention all the time, so why would I have the chance? Now that I'm older and a bit wiser, I don't have that same insecurity anymore, and neither do those older dudes. And if you don't believe me, I've talked to my other friends that have met you, and when I asked them if they would at least ask you out, they said, and I quote, "Nah man, I ain't got it like that." I asked him if it seemed as if what I wore seemed expensive, because my clothes were flowy and high quality and I love wearing jewelry, but I have sensitive skin so it has to be certain metals only. However, almost all of my jewelry and a lot of my clothes I've gotten on sale or was given to me. He told me, "Yeah, I know that. But they don't know that." That really sat with me, because I had no idea that guys went through that internal battle whenever they were deciding to approach a girl or not. I'm not sharing this story to brag; I'm sharing it in relationship to this video, because it's very very true. Eventually I had a man my own age ask me out, and surprise, he also owned and operated a business and was a pretty good dude. As an aside, I've also never said to myself, or even complained, about there being no good black man "out here". I have yet to prove myself wrong, as I have met "good" ones way more than "bad" ones, whatever those actually mean. If you keep saying stuff like "There are no good black men/women", how do you expect to find them? If you follow Mr. Rom's advice and be who you want to be with, you'll find that your circle of people and those you're attracted to will begin to change. Thanks for reading.
Thanks for sharing your testimony.
Water seeks its own level is what I've heard. I also believe water flows to the point of least resistance and this is perhaps the issue with some people who complain about the folks they allow in and out of their life but refuse to take responsibility for the roll they play in attracting them and being either dirty or clean water themselves.
Good Drop OG..
Well said fam.
Great Discussion. I'm Thoroughly working on Becoming the Best Version of Myself. I am Attracted to Beautiful Women on the Outside & Inside so I am working on becoming OnPoint in BOTH aspects.
On point fam! A reflection of who you really are always signifies who you attract along with who you're going to continue to attract. It's definitely how you see as well as display yourself which plays a part in who you attract, what you desire, are you qualified to attract what you desire because they're two different things! Another thing too, how you carry yourself along with the energy you display tells a lot about yourself and who you are even if you're really where you want to be in life but you're working towards getting there. It's all about how you feel about yourself and along with how you value yourself. Inspite of what you go through in life and where you're at at the present moment and I'm speaking in reference to myself, always look at yourself a certain because that's going to radiate energy within you a certain way! That's how I'm able to attract certain women right now because of my mindset, now if the women do find you attractive along with that, then that's a plus. I picture myself right now attracting certain women now, it's just a matter of me putting myself in the position to be qualified to get what I really desire but it's all in the mind and you being worthy of it, knowing it in your and that's what shows in your energy along with your physical presence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How a man carries himself is very important.
People still dont get this simple yet powerful truth. It is also a good litmus test for our personality and character.
In my experience it’s mostly women who don’t understand or refuse to accept this basic concept. A lot of women are disingenuous by thinking their education or salary will attract the quote on quote good guy. But these same women will work in corporate America and still be attracting the dope boys. Yes rom you attract who you are and what you value. Good video brother
Women who attract dope boys are either from the streets themselves or too focused on making money by any means. Dope boys are focused on making money any means. They just do it in different environments.
I don't think we attract who we are. maybe I was lucky, or maybe it's my destiny but the few men that I've met before my hubby and even him, we'd nothing in common. We're not even from the same income family.they always appear very simple, good looking but very basic and then when I got to know them I feel I am not on their levels and even ask myself why are they interesting when I don't see what I could offer that time. 18 years later, I learnt why, it was because after conversating with me, my hubby said that he quickly understood that I would be the force for him to strive even higher because he ask me my thoughts on certain ventures, even the most complicated ones and never a woman was so clever. So sometimes you you do not attract who you are.
I've been waiting on this!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Hallelujah!!! Hallelujah!!!! Hallelujah!!!!
Thank you.
India Aire said it in Butterfly
Rom and that mac outfit hehehe 👍
Spreading wisdom, uncle Rom
Numerous black women told me that I look like I only date "Beckies" until they got to know me
I get that a lot too from black women and black men as well.. Especially here in Miami.
I need to address that issue.
Rom Wills please.
I was told that once and that shit made me feel some type of way because I know better lol
Wow, before I even listened to your video, my initial thoughts were about the characters of Atlas Shrugged--funny.
I find amazing what you're saying, i attract old dudes all the times, I'am in my late tweniee and the guys who approch me most of them are in their fifties and even sixties. I'm still reflecting why this happening, it's not the type i want....
I honestly have no idea why I attract I've never noticed anything. My friends told me that I attract older women in their early to mid 30s. I'm 28.
I attract women that aren't crazy.
It's a great life man
That's a good thing.
You don't look like you attract anyone :/
Candy Godiva Why the negative comment you must be fucked up huh?
They’re all crazy. They wildin when you’re not around
This is so True Rom! I've been preaching this for the past several months
That was some good shit Rom Wills. Some real shit.
Great message.
Rom, Steve the dean, gorgeous dre, juju the gentelman, you brother's elevate the game
Uncle Rom, I’m so happy you to referred to Ayn Rand. I’ve been curious for a while if you were familiar with her work. It sounded to me as though the select man; real man you suggest we aspire to be has lots of parallels with her characters Howard Roark, Francisco D’Anconia, and John Galt.
Great Information Unk.
I always get the real feminine types, quiet, to themselves but just be vibing, knowledge seekers too. Clean but they especially always like to keep their nails nice lol
Good pod as usual Rom. So true for me and some women i know. When i was big, i attracted big women. Get healthy, they leave. You hit home with the you like you're into white women. I laugh. It weeds out the nonsense. For females i know,they complain about this. I tell them you act slick,slick coming your way because they feel like they can you.
I’m always told that I carry myself well, also adding that I’m an introvert, why do I attract the drama queens? 😆
They see something in you that they want.
what if you dont seem to attract anyone?
Everybody attracts. It's just that people don't pay attention to everybody.
I get what you're saying years ago I would have tracked many people men that is lol but now I don't attract that many and the reason is I gained a little weight
Lol this was some real shit you cut it off just when it was getting good!
Agreed elder
AGREE👍👍👍👍
Great video dog
Here is some Revolutionary excellent level game that i would love to say i developed this but i didn't but i will love to share this which can take the dusty brother to unrecognizable levels of his best self (i don't like when sisters down brothers, but if you can reach one with this game you will teach one, and he will remember when she called him dusty when she says to him later he is looking fine now, if you want to change the you that attracts the people that happen to be less than what you want.
I will call this level of GAME "THE BLUEPRINT"
PEEP THIS: we are ruled by our habits
Winning in life is a habit,
Loosing in life is a habit,
1) We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act but a habit.
Find the cue, change the routine ,and reap the reward.
When you find the cue to the bad habit change the routine, and reap the reward.
2) the chains of habits are too light to be felt, until they are too heavy to be broken
(This qoute was by "Warren Buffett").
The creation of a bad habit is like a ninja you don't notice any harm into it until it is dirrupting something and has become a weight and a burden that you want to break from your life like smoking.
3) Sow in act, and you reap a habit, Sow a habit, and you reap a character, Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.
If you don't like who you attract change what you do.
Peep this: pretty boys get woman but guys who have a habit of excellence can take em or attract them. I was playing poker with this white guy and his girlfriend back in the day and for some reason to him he couldn't understand why his girl was attracted to me and out of the blue she said i like men like you and I'm attracted to your presnce at the table. He got mad at her and left, and she later followed him but before she left i asked her why she felt that way, and it was because i was playing a excellent game, i was winning must of the large pots and loosing the small ones, i wasn't able to be able to get a read on by others and i was the only one quite at the table and that winning and mysteriousness drew her even though her white boyfriend was right there.
I say all this to say this: build habits of excellence brothers and sisters. Take the cue for the reward of that bad habit and change your routine. For all you who take time to read and heed this you will be blessed. This is a late post but i considered it deeply and put some powerful nuggets in it. Its long but the value is a great prize.
You all deserve the best from you.
So the next time you see that less then average looking dude pull that bad ass female she was drawn to excellence and wanted to grow and receive that to.
Pimps call it izm, cool players call it game. I call it a good strategy like rom, or game. Don't short changing yourself. Give your best to better you in everything you do and make those things good habits. Make room for your gift and your gift will make room for you. After you work hard to develop good habits the upkeep maintenance will be easy. You have to learn how to master mind and accomplished short term goal, stay focus, and believe the vision as if it was already done. Feel it like you would if you had it. I don't care how long it seem to take for you to get it (peep this: when it shows up it will feel like you always had it, you will be ready for it, and you will be able to keep from loosing it.) Young people you have to be prooven (test to know if you really want what you desire before you can get it). To a winner loosing is just a indication that you need to step your game up and learn from that temperary fail. I got a good friend who's a air traffic controller thats what he wanted fo be and he got it. He also wanted this woman that wouldn't give him the time of day, so he found out what zhe wanted in a man and he stuck wuth the script but he also ignored what was unrealistic cos he has wisdom and now they have been married for 20 plus years.
Get your blueprints and get to work. Ignore insecurities its a enemy, ignore procrastination its a "thief". If you love yourself do it for you whatever it is that you want. Whatever you can't get go build it yourself. Knowmatter how long you work on something you are still just one day 24 hours from having until you quit.
Hmm? I think i will do a you tube channel lol so i can quit these long post, but thiz information here you can't put a price on it becauze it will forever be your number one investment "self excellence ".
Great game.
J born sinner yeah and it suits them fine to attrack people jusr like themselves. Success to one man is different to another. I'm not knocking what they want "if they got it". But for those who want something else there ain't know reason they can't get something else. To many of us have been taught to settle for what we can get. I believe you should be able to get whatever your imagination puts in front of you if you really want it bad enough and if you still can't get it then there is something better than that for you if you want it.
To your last point, I have heard often over the years "you seem like you only date white girls" even though I've never even touched one. Some were shocked and relieved to find I was going on 10 years married to a black woman with 4 black kids.
Synchronicity: The women that have this glow or aura. For me always have horrible childhoods. I was telling my homegirl this last night
Good video.
Lol winter coats in the summer..
She was built like a brickhouse though. Crazy AF.
Great video, Rom. But what about the anomaly? You know, the guy who seems to attract an assortment of "types". Oftentimes, outwardly speaking, types which look to be the exact opposite of what he would go for.
Have you done a video about that type of guy?
Those are extremely rare. There's usually something they will have in common even if it's not apparent.
Rom Wills agreed. There's always a commonality. But to the observer it's difficult to see what it is.
I'd love to hear you talk about that 1%. It seems to me that this group of men go beyond what you describe as simply being select, players, pimps, etc...
So true..the version of the female educated lames. This is ok by me they just aren't as adventurous in nature ad I'd like. But alot less baggage as you said previously.
There was a time I had to fallback and understand why I was attracting video vixen/IG model types then crying about them later...
What conclusion did you come to? I think I've been noticing a similar pattern...
@@MARVELRIVALS-REALM I realized that the way I dressed all the way down to the way I was acting was what was attracting them. It's also worth mentioning that my standards wasn't set too high at that point in time either. Specially since at that time, all I focused on was how pretty her face was and how nice her body was and nothing more. While I ain't changed how I dressed too much, I done toned down a helluva lot as far as how I act. While I still go for women with pretty faces and nice bodies, I look for way more than that when it come to women nowadays
Does this include just the way you look? Or also personality wise?
Everything plays a role.
ROM 👀 😂🤣 💯
I judge a man by the character of his woman
Wealthy men do the same thing.
Fun fact about me I never dated a woman with a tattoo just seem to happen that way, when I was younger they were all making more money and buying houses so it naturally elevated me to who I've become now. Be careful who your around
How do you change your energy??!
You have to do some real soul searching and make an effort to change.
The greatest way to raise your vibration is to change what, how you eat. and do intense exercise- in that order. However this takes time, effort and commitment so i'll give you a nugget. Our sense of smell has a greatest effect on the brain than all our other senses combined! Go to the health food store and buy 3 all natural essential oils - ylang ylang, vanilla and peppermint. Imm. after you shower mix 3 drops of ylang ylang, 2 drops of vanilla and 1 drop of peppermint and dab it- wherever. Ylang ylang decreases anxiety and boosts confidence; vanilla brings emotional comfort and peppermint rejuvenates and stimulates. Perfect to spark attraction and interaction.
+SILVER STAR i didnt ask about food. and that cant be the ONLY way....
Well I'm quiet and I tracked them loud alphaman I don't get it this is weird
I attract those loud Alpha men correction stupid auto voice thingy
10:17 - 10:35 I unfortunately know alot of off beat ass niggaz who are exactly like that, one of the many reasons why I roll solo.
Dusty men. You’re speaking of sheraven7. She mentioned she knows you.
I know of her. Everybody use the term "dusty" though.
Rom, the title of the video alone is pretty self explanatory... If ppl were to be honest w/ themselves, this video would EXPOSE THEM for attracting/hooking up with the wrong type of ppl, both MEN AND WOMEN
Correct.
Exactly
Wooooooo!!
Imagine having the mind being conditioned consistantly by Great Men....Dad, Ra un nefer, and Rom having the biggest impact, master Yao, Bobby Hemmit, Yusef El etc. Women are the least of my concern...its about manhood.
I feel you.
s/o to Uncle Rom #dc #dmv
I've always attracted the coolest girls around that everybody likes, and but they r some really bad bitches with real family issues. Whats with that tho!!!
What type of women would a Kevin Samuels type of dude attract??
High class women who keep up their image.
I like latin woman i pretty much done whit black woman tbh
Aaron Myrick. You gotta go where they're biting your bait. Those Latina's are pretty much black women anyway. The culture is just different.
The Hawk i no i talk to rican now i live in pittsburgh pa most of the woman down here stuck up so maby i travel to other city im lay back smooth type of dude and i keep 100 i need woman that exlacty what i am
Aaron Myrick I used to try Latinas, but they wasn't feeling your boy I guess only some black guys can get them. Black girls like me by default so I gave to stay in my lane.
C4Zero oh a lot of black woman dont like me and im not a nerd eather
Aaron Myrick.... hahaha too much problems, even the good ones.
Ive been told more then once that i need a white girl...thing is im always going after sister with bullshit results...im about to start talking to white women...im having no luck with sisters
I dont know everything about attraction, but i sure as shit dont attract black women. The women who our elders say we should marry and accept because they look like us.
Neville Goddard
Rom did that person die? No dislikes!! :)
Oh snap. I didn't touch a nerve with this one.
I've tended to attract black chicks who are decent chill people overall but just average looking in the face...at least imo.