Narcissist Mom || Real Signs Of A Toxic Indian Mother || Narcissism in Family || Gulabi Life 💗💖
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- Narcissist Mom || Real Signs Of A Toxic Indian Mother || Narcissism in Family || Gulabi Life 💗💖
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Outstanding....👌👌👌...ek gandi machhli poori talaab ko ganda banati hai.... according to me narcissism is still underrated...it is dangerously increasing nowadays....
I am happy to see that finally our people started talking about narcissist moms. The girl child suffer suffer and suffer from childhood to old age and can’t complain because she make her daughter look so bad in the society that she can only suppose to feel guilty for doing nothing wrong.
Just stay away from narcissist moms. Otherwise she will destroy you.
NO CONTACTS IS GOLDEN RULE.
Thank you. 👍
सही कहा है। मांओं को देवी से तुलना करना बंद कर देना चाहिए।
My mother in law is narcissistic mother. I understood it long back after a lot of suffering but my husband is still struggling to make her happy..
How can i make him understand this.
Pls guide.
@@tacobellxo2996 maine to apni wife ko hi kho diya...tab ja k meri aankhe khuli
Right
Bilkul sahi kaha galat ko bhagwan ka darja nahi dena chahiye bhalehi vo bhagwan ke jagah le bhi rahe to...
😢😢😢
Yes I suffered all that.Both parents were like that.My whole childhood was spent walking on egg shells and feeling guilty.I started liking other people's parents more. Fortunately left home at 16 due to studies and never returned.No relationship left with my only brother whom I used to protect as a child.
I can feel your pain. ❤
I really feel so sorry for you.
@@PinkZindagimam, My mother is extremely narcissistic, and she ruined my life, .
I felt like you are telling my life story, I can tick all the points you mentioned. Narcissistic mom only believes in presenting the image of a divine personality, in reality they are evil. In our childhood, whenever going to somebody's place, she would direct us to behave nicely and guilt trap us that we are not good children and so should present ourselves as good children to others. I made so many decisions of my life, in favor of my narcissistic mother, due to the trauma bond I shared with her, I realized much later that it was not love, but the trauma bond we shared.
I had great career in IT in US, I left that and came back thinking that my mother needed me after my father's death, after coming back, I realized the grave mistake I did. You don't own anything to your narcissistic parent, its a very abusive environment, they will shame you, guilt trap you and enslave you to their demands, and thus narcissism passes from one generation to other, fortunately my father was very empathetic and compassionate person, it saved me from becoming narcissistic.
I am now gone completely no contact with my mother for more than a year and my house is a paradise now with my children behaving nicely and there is happiness all around. I am trying to heal myself from all the narcissistic abuse I face for more than 15 years. There is lot of content from clinical psychologists like Dr. Les carter, Ramani Durvasula, Sam waknin, Jerry Wise and others, which will help victims of narcissistic abuse heal. Its good that this content is now coming in Hindi.
Remember, there is only one solution to Narcissism, and that is to go no contact with Narcissist, as they will never change, grey rocking is like living dead, I have tried that too, its not possible if you want to live happy and joyful life, Narcissist will never let that happen, so go no contact and stay away from them.
Thank you for sharing your story.. 👍
Seriously surprise when I saw my mother how she is dipolimatic play son n daughter difference n money matlab jo bacha jada piase ghar laye wohi acha n she destroy daughter"s life v badly
Same
Very true mam hats off to u ur children must me lucky ❤️ i am dealing with toxic and narcissistic mother and m fatherless 😢
True
Meri mother narcissist h aur mujhe college complete krne k baad mujhe lgne lga ki ghar me kuch gadbad h..mere father bhi narcissist h..aapki sir ek ek line nhi ek ek word sach h...mujhe sach toh tb pta lga jb meri life k bohot saal nikal gye...
Exactly same my parents. They made a gap between sisters and always my father used to feel happy about it😢
💯%☑️
1000% correct..my mother is extremely manipulating and almost destroyed my life on other side give wings to his son!
Yes I lived in a fantasy world which was very painful !!!!
My mother is a narsist. Ruined whole family.
Narcissist mother ko dar hota h control khone ka dusro par 😅
Isliye vo Aisa behave karti hain
Absolutely👍
Thank you for sharing all this important info. I can relate to all these points , my mother always has excuses ready, she hated all my hobbies, cut me off from all my friends, belittled any constructive or positive move I made, bullied my career choice ( I was a teacher abroad ) and still got ridiculed and mocked. Her toxicity n bullying made me quit all my hobbies and activities, today I have no friends, coz growing up she never allowed me to form a normal friendship with anyone. She wants to force me into an arranged marriage that too with the man of her choice, I don't have much say in selection. As a result, I'm mid 30s and still unmarried. Anyway, the worst part, my Dad is also a narcissist, a covert one. I have grown up in a broken dysfunctional family. My dad's issues are a whole new chapter. Belittling, bullying, cheating on my mother n me with other women, ghosting , abandonment of family , stopping economical support and so much more....pls cover an episode on growing up with narcissist parents, when both parents are narcissists, my mother is overt one, as she often gets hyper and aggressive. Dad is covert, evergreen victim., and passive aggressive.
I can feel your pain and suffering.
True hr vkt sirf ar sirf mughe dukhi krti rhti h nye nye kaante chubate rhti h
Aapne km shabdo me,km time me ,baat ko idhar udhar na ghumate hue word to word bilkul cleary aasani se smjha dia h ..
Thank you. 🤗
@@PinkZindagi please aap grandiose narcissistic father bhi video bnayiye.. baat smjhne me aasani hogi hum sbhi ko
My mother is narcissistic 😢
My mother couldn't clear pmt at her time . But now she even doesn't support me . Due to strong support of my father I cleared neet ug 2022 and currently doing Bds from RUHS
In fact she never ever said about independence of woman or about my future.today what I m only and only bcz of my father .❤❤I love my father v much ❤❤❤❤❤
Hᴀ ɢ ᴀɪsɪ ᴍᴀᴀ ᴅᴜsʀᴏ ᴋᴇ ᴀᴀɢᴇ ᴅᴜᴋʜʀᴀ ʀᴏ ᴋᴇ ᴀᴘɴᴇ ʙᴀᴄʜᴄʜᴇ ᴋᴏ ʜɪ ʙᴜʀᴀ ʙᴀᴛᴀᴛɪ ʜᴀɪ , ᴀᴜʀ ᴅᴜsʀᴇ ɪs ʙᴀᴛ ᴋᴀ ᴋʜᴜʙ ғᴀʏᴅᴀ ᴜᴛʜᴀᴀᴛᴇ ʜᴀɪ , ᴊʙ ᴀᴘɴᴀ sɪᴋᴋᴀ ᴋʜᴏᴛᴀ ʜᴏ ᴛᴏ ᴋʏᴀ ᴋᴀʜᴇ😢
Agree! 👍
💯%☑️
Ye sirf hamari nhi hamare relatives aur
Aaspaas
K bahot logo ki story hai .
Thank God, meri maa sabki care karti hai, unke liye unke bachhon aur dusre bachho me koi fark nahi, unhone sabko support kiya hai, log unki burayi karte hain fir bhi kabhi kisika bura nahi sochti, she is pure soul, ❤ bhagwan kare narsistic personality disorder se koi bhi maa prabhavit ho vo thik ho jaye 🙏
Ma'am..sare k sare points match karete h. Meri mother to itni badi Vali nark h ki vo ham bhai-bahano ki sadi b nhi karavana chahati thi yek marriageable age me pahuchne k bad ham sab ne bahut fight Kia h shadi k liye. to bhai log to well settled h apni life me pr me or meri bahen yek toxic family ko chhodi to dusri or b jyada bdi Vali toxic family me phas gaye.or sadi b isi ummeed me Kia tha ki yahan se to achha hi hoga.pr syad hom log unme se h,dukh jinka pichha hi nhi chodta 😢
Pr ab aapse kapi motivation milta h ham apne bachho k sath yesa vyavahar nhi karte..❤😘
Aapna margdarshan yese hi bnaye rakhe..🙏🙏🙏
Oh! My God.. Terrible. ❤
Meri saas bhi aise hi hai aur apni hi ek beti ko pagal kar chuki hai aur dusri ki shaadi ni hone de rahi hai
Me bhi is pareshaani ,se gunj rahi hu dear 😢😢😢
Please make sure you don’t do this to ur kids , trauma usually gets passed on
Ab bachhe paida karke line mat lga dena kisi Asharam mein chali jao.ya anathayal wha anaath bacho ki sewa karo
Respected Mam,
It's my till date life story but now I have learnt to live life skillfully and peacefully. Life matters, peace matters. Thank you very much.
Very well said👍
I have been jobless for a year despite being highly qualified and have been doing my level best to get a job. However, instead of encouraging me my mother keeps saying that I will never amount to anything in life. This is despite the fact that I take care of her so much. Now, she even compares me to my cousins, saying that I will always be a loser. The mother whom I treated like a goddess, turned out to be a devil in disguise. I cannot explain how broken I am feeling right now. Haiz....
Achcha hai
Koi to hai jo
Aise videos k
Zariye sach
Saamne laa rhe hai . .. ..
Bahot jaruri hai
Aise videos
Aisi chije sabke
Saamne
Lana.
Mere sath bhi yhi huaa hmesa
@@poonamray2737
Bahot logo k sath hota hai . ..
Leave it . .. n just
Move on . ..
@@HaniShekhawat pr kese
Mem ne jitni bat btyi wo sb sach btayi he pr ab to bhut der ho gyi apne sare amoshan glt insan pr khrch kr diy
@@poonamray2737
Ho sake to kahi door Jake akele ek new life start Karo . ...
100 percentage reasonated
Yes, to be very honest, muze bhi isi type ki narssisist maa nasib huee ... jese upar bataye 85% points match hote he ... jisne muze mentally, emotionally, physically collapse kar diyaa ...
I can understand your pain.
Kudos to you to speak about this topic ❤
Thank you. 👍
SUPERB VIIDEO
Thank you so much
Most welcome👍
True.... Main sb feel krti hu mere ma papa bhai sb milker aisa pressure dalte rhti.. 😢😢 na mujhe sasural acha mila na ma bap m nikla chahti insb se😢😢😢
Mothers are also humans...Humans come in all forms... They can also be narcissistic and a negative person.. Our society and people should change their perception for Mothers..they too can be wrong and bad
U r right 👍
My mother is like Hitler...she is so manipulative....her ego is like I am the best....sabko control krna bhot acha lgta h unhe.... emotionally unavailable rhi hai
Me aj bhi sahi me apne trueself ko dhund rahihu
Very good & useful video.sach kaha aapne👍
Thank you. 👍
💯 Right ji Nice Video
All most sare hai meri mom mein ..
please make video on fearful & anxious attachment style (and their efforts) and permissive & ignoretive parenting style (and their efforts)
We have same problem with narcissist father
1 se 1 bat 100%. Bat sahi he madam ,me isi life me gujar rahi hu 😢😢😢😢😮
My own parents are like this. They love my other siblings than me
My Mother in law have 2 Sons & 1 daughter...her daughter was born Premature..but she still treats her worst,she treats her Sons like kings & Daughter like maid..Her Daughter loves her so much & this breaks my heart...I feel very helpless because My husband is always abusive..he never take stand for her sister....
Real picture of my family
Agar zindagi main aise maa papa ho to nehi chahiye aisa maa papa nehi chahiye aise rishte akele raho khus raho ghut ghut k nehi jeena thank god mere maa papa aise nehi ha
I dont think anything can b more damaging than a narc mother.it completely destroys the child.there is no way out too.accepting and healing one's self takes almost an entire lifetime😢
Absolutely true! 👍
I am suffering now after marriage
Mene khbi nhi socha ki mere mn ki bat ap btaiygi me bhi bhut presan hu meri ma ne meri life brbad ki
Reminds me of my narcissistic aunt!. Had a traumatic childhood due to living in a joint family with this narcissistic personality. Thanks for this insightful video❤️🙏🏼
Meri ex saas bilkul aisi hi h jo jo batein apne boli wo sab meri ex saas me h. Mera to divorce ho gaya mere husband se to me to apni saas ke trauma n control se bahar nikal ai but mere ex husband aj bhi apni NARCISSIST mother ke sath suffer ker rahe h.
Same story. Though I'm not divorced yet. Will be soon. Also,I think that my husband too is a covert narc.
Apne jo jo bhi bataya woh sab quality mere Mom pe hai....😢😢😢😢She is Narcissist Mom😢😢
Meri bhi mom hai😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😓😓😓😞😞😞
Aise maa ke liye jaan bhi agar dete he phir bhi koi feel nhi hoga
Very real video ...good for awareness
Some points agree, some disagree 😉
Don't know about 1st 6, but 7th onwards, i saw all in my in-laws
Bilkul Mere sath aisa hi hua hai
All of the points are correct and these are similar to my life. I am struggling with my narcissist mother for more than fifty years. Now the two sisters along with two brothers in law are the "Flying monkeys" of my mom. Yet I am trying to avert all negetivities and trying to motivate myself. I always try to keep my only son outside this suffocating atmosphere. Please make one detailed video about the defense mechanism against it.
Thanks for great video ❤❤
You are welcome. 👍
My mother is giving everything to siblings, but I am 40 now.. She not supported me financially, mentally, even I am bachelor , she made my life Hell. I realised today itself, now gone through video.
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Every point matched
नमिता जी आपसे बात करनी हो तो कैसे कर सकती हूं या कैसे मिल सकती हूं आज कल TH-cam पर ऐसी videos बहुत है पर बेटा आपकी बात में बहुत सच्चाई है और इतने अच्छे से explain किया , very nice , God bless you ❤
Thank you so much
.You can write to me at gulabilifewithnamita@gmail.com
Good morning 🌞 mam. How are you? All topics are true. Thanks for this video 😊
My pleasure. 🤗
Har eak shabd sahi aap bahot emotionally bahot strong ho sach me , our bahot mature bhi bahot hi sahi har paoint
Thank you for kind words. 🤗
Aap ka Video The Best and Real !
Thank you. 👍
Mother & mother in law both.
Very nice mam thank you
Most welcome 😊
Ye traits mere nani me hai vo hi tranfer hoke meri mummy me aaya hai kam hai jara per hai usme..nani pyar to karti per muze apna nahi samjzte apne wala ahsaas nahi deti..jab me apne mamaji ke ghar jau..usne kaha mere mamaji se ye bas mehmman hai ye koi nahi lagti mere ye mere nani ne kaha tha jab me so rahi thi tab mene ye sun liya tha..per mene unko sho nahi kiya ki muze malum ho gya.. yaha nani hi muze call karti hai muzse baat karne ke liye me khud nahi karti call jab bhi unki call aati hai jo vo bolti hai me bas hu haa karke rakh deti hu. Apna gussa nahi dekhati me...kya karu ?
Thank u mam aapane sahi topic Chuna
Welcome 👍
Ye Narcissistic mother ka ek pahlu he...kabhi kabhi Narcissistic mother violent nahi hoti....bahoot cool rahti he ...bahoot care karti hui dekhti he....but vo manipulate kids ko es tarah karti he ki ,kids puppet ki tarah behave karte he ..
Agree! 👍
Sahe hi
Mam sari points mujhse match krte h ..aapk videos se bahut help milti h mujhe.. thanku mam ❤
Mam ghr ki badi beti k liye specially 1 video bnaiye mam please..
Very soon.. 👍
अब जब जिंदगी की शाम ढलने लगी है अब ऐसी वीडियो देख कर akal आ रही है but अब पछताए होत्त क्या जब चिड़िया चुग गई खेत😢😂
My mom is no more but she had all these traits...she spoiled life of all my siblings. All of us are settled in different cities and no one talks to each other. Things are slightly better after her death.
Oh!
Same to me ,meri life se meri maa pareshan , meri khushi se vo bahut pareshan hai, khete he tum to aapni zindagi me bahut khush ho me bahut dukhi hun,😢😢😢
Same
Yaha sirf bacche aaye hai comments karne
Kitne maaye aaye hai comments padhne ke liye 😅
True...
🙏🏻🙏🏻
Mai e bhut dekh hai india me 2 nd daughter ko koi pyar nhi krta......controlling parents india me bhut common h
Basically selfish mother 😅
Meri mother inlow Narssist he mere hubby ko bhi narssist bna diya he meri merreg life khrb krdi he 😢😔🥺mere pati ko control krti he or uski bt ko inpoted dena muje ignore krti he ya tak ki wo hum dono ka divorce krna chahti he 🥺
Meri bhi same h mere pati kahte h wo meri MA h tu kuchh nhi mai apna Pura jivan uske liye samarpit kr duga uski khusi k liye uske sath rhte h wo aur mai apne ma k ghr ..wo unki sari kamai ye Kah k rakh leti h ki Maine bachpan se ab tk tumhe dia h papa se paise le kr ab tum mujhe doge ..jabki sasur sari salary sas ko de dete h unke pas paiso ki kami nhi h ,bolti h ya biwi ko rakh lo ya Hume agr tumne uske taraf Jane ki koshish ki to sochna ma bap Mar gye h jabki do do nand ko bhaga k sadi krwai h unse khush h ,use boli h agr tumne apne liye alag rhne ki sochi to bedakhal kr dege nark ho gya h jivan mere husband kabhi sath me dp tk nhi lagate h kahte h mummy naraj ho jayegi Kah degi joru ka gulam h wo bat bat pr ye kahti h ki tu iska naokar h kya jo iske Kam krega ye tujhe gulam banana chahti h😢
Same aisi hi hai meri maa and i hate her to the core of my heart
So relatable
Mujhe bahut dukh hai is baat ka... Meri dadi aisi thi... Ghar me ladai lagwati thi
Ma'am kya ye possible hai jiske parents narcissistic hai dheere dheere unke bache bhi waise ho jate hai
Yes absolutely
No...mostly Woh bacche zyada empathy waale hote hain
Aap ka kahna sara sahi hai....Aapke video ki Hame Talash thi . Ham to ishko ek Bimari samajh rahe the......N ....mom ne Apne pote ko Shadi ka Aashirvad Tak nahi Diya aur Duniya se Vida ho gayi...ishko kahten hai Dimag ke Soft ware ki kharabi...!
Hats off to you Ma'am. Nice to see a woman talking on this topic...!
For me it is tick in all the boxes... and i thank God for being with me all throughout! He guides me!
These NPD so called biological mothers are a real nuisance... its better people educate and learn of these traits and make others aware too.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and helping people ❤
My pleasure. 🤗
U have made awesome content…..
Yes 💯💯 right!!
Ye saari qualities meri mom mai h.......
What is a solution?
This is sooo true
100 percent true
Great video
Thanks!
My mom let me choose a career of being an artist though she said I should endure her behaviour emotional abuse and harsh cold behaviour emotionally unavailability because she gave us everything and sacrificed so much for her please talk about this dynamic too the abuse that looks subtle because physically they are providing and everyone thinks we are ungrateful
नमस्कार Madam,
आपने तो जैसे पूरी ज़िंदगी ही जैसे सामने रख दी,
आत्मग्लानि से निकालने के लिए, आपका कोटि कोटि धन्यवाद,
आपने इस विषय को जैसे पूरा पूरा रख दिया,
कोई भी बात ऐसी नहीँ है जो ना हुई हो,
शायद जिस वक्त इस समझ और सीख की ज़रूरत थी, उस वक़्त कोई बता देता तो ज़िन्दगी और बेहतर हो सकती थी,
खैर Madam आपने बहुत research करी है
लोगों के भविष्य को बचाने की,
सादर धन्यवाद
Thank you so much for your kind words. 🤗
Hamare khandaan me to generation to generation ye sab
Toxicity hai . ..
Sirf MAA nhi
Sare familiars
Aise hai .
Koi kisike sath
Happy nhi .
Kisiko relationship ka meaning hi
Nhi pata .
Sirf fights .
Dharmik hone ka dikhawa b
Karte hai . ..
Koi family member
Puri tarah
Sahi nhi .
Thank you ❤❤❤❤
You're welcome 😊
Aapki baat bilkul sahi hai 100% meri Maa bhi aisi hai aur meri adhi life sirf unko khush karne me beet gayi bahot der me samajh aya ki wo kabhi khush nahi ho sakti wo mujhe meri behen se bhi dur kar di hai usko bhi wo narcissist bana chuki hai meri Maa mujhse nafrat karti hai 😢 abhi mai stable hun mai unse bikul boundaries bana chuki hun .
Same here 😭
Mam, please make video how to deal with narrastic husband,how to protact kids from narrastic father,
Sure! 👍
Sahi baat 🎉🎉
Yh sari cheez mere mumy k under me hai 😢
pota ne Fin ki bhasha ka prayog kiya ki wo kishi ko bhi nahi chhode ga kyon ki wo jawan hai.bachpan ki baat dun na hi nahi chahta ....koi tulna nahi sunbni kushi ki ....kaha mere me Dimag hai me CS hun ,!
Yes true
Mare saas susur h ase mam .unhone Hamra jeena haram kar diya
All points
My MIL is a narcissist ....she ruined my life
How to deal maam
Will upload soon👍