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  • @Sabrina-LosAngeles
    @Sabrina-LosAngeles 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +452

    As an Exec Coach and having worked with senior leaders my entire life, I can attest to this. Some of them are very charismatic, inspiring and charming with an ability to destroy people and cause an immense amount of trauma to people and organizations.

    • @damienholland8103
      @damienholland8103 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Agreed but if the organization promotes them and puts up with their destructive behavior maybe it deserves the damage done? It's just too bad they drag everyone else down.

    • @Sabrina-LosAngeles
      @Sabrina-LosAngeles 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly! Organizations often lack the courage to remove these people from their positions or worse, protect or promote them as they may be viewed as "too valuable" to the bottom line when in fact, they are costly in the long-run. @@damienholland8103

    • @VestalNumbre
      @VestalNumbre 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Holy spirit and prayer with Bible study is my pysche diet while it's in my pysches health care All Scripture is inspired of God+ and beneficial for teaching,+ for reproving, for setting things straight,+ for disciplining in righteousness,+ 17

    • @ipoop7954
      @ipoop7954 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      I've seen this behavior first hand and it makes me feel that psychological evaluations should be mandatory to get into upper management positions.

    • @yomama9567
      @yomama9567 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@VestalNumbrestick with your meds

  • @MiThreeSunz
    @MiThreeSunz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +828

    Over the course of my 30 plus corporate career, I worked with industrial psychopaths who were promoted due to high performance but who were also ruthless, manipulative, narcissistic, etc. Many companies turn a blind eye to behaviour in favour of performance. Sad but true. 🇨🇦

    • @lissanne9769
      @lissanne9769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      That is the main problem with these people in management. They can cause a great deal of pain and suffering for employees under their continued employee. I've seen this happen all throughout my life. What is troubling is how prevalent it has become over the years. Upper managment is excepting these people as management more and more.

    • @maryjane4846
      @maryjane4846 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh to get to those positions they trampled over everyone and anyone to get there, most of the time. They always put profit over morals values and of course other people.. They can do horrible things and lie in your face about it and to them it's like talking about the weather.. They feel nothing for anyone else or about anything they've done to other's, but master manipulation when it benefits them. So very charming and charismatic but eventually they show you who they really are..

    • @Emilia-i9o1s
      @Emilia-i9o1s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes and they use all that money they get to force other people to economically depend on them and have them under their control. my dad is a crazy psychopath and that's exactly what he did to us

    • @Gammysgirl
      @Gammysgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      True
      And this is the vast and widespread damage they cause. They are everywhere - just as they said earlier in the video they are in every facet of life.
      Like my aunt from the south would say -
      “They ain’t all locked up”!

    • @chrisyVee
      @chrisyVee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Absolutely 100.% truer than true.

  • @WesternAustraliaNowAndThen
    @WesternAustraliaNowAndThen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +984

    The fun part for the rest of us is that functioning psychopaths and sociopaths can rise to high levels and many become politicians or CEOs of large companies.

    • @MegaTrivial
      @MegaTrivial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      or "elite"

    • @debralucas9519
      @debralucas9519 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Yes, the ones who can stay organised enough to be able to climb the ladder of their chosen position. Many of them think they are way more intelligent than they actually are - usually to their detriment. Some are so low thinking and disorganised their lives are constant turmoil.

    • @mattjack3983
      @mattjack3983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@debralucas9519i wouldn't say "many of them" think they can are more intelligent than they actually are. I'd say that some are, but generally speaking, most are fairly clear on where they stand in terms of intelligence. Normally those who have more of the narcissistic and grandiose tendencies and characteristics of anti-social personality disorder (ASPD) are usually more prone to having a false or inflated sense of their own intelligence and intellectual ability. Also the lower IQ perons with ASPD/psychopathy, as well as those who have very high characteristics and tendancies of narcissism, usually tend to be more prone to violence and criminal behavior. Of course there are always some exceptions to this, and it's important to keep in mind that psychopathy is very much a spectrum, and that genuine ASPD psychopaths make up a very small percentage of the population.

    • @jillricci587
      @jillricci587 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      I remember in psychology class in college. My professor asked the class which professions are usually psychopaths are in. I was the only one who raised the hand and when called I said “politicians” she did say anything and looked back in the class and asked the same question. No one raised their hands so she said the answer - CEOs. I guess she wanted the class to gasp on the answer because she said prior to asking the question “you will not believe which profession psychopaths are according to psychology.” 😂😂😂
      Aside from CEOs, I’m also sticking with my answer- politicians!

    • @primesspct2
      @primesspct2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      One in particular comes to mind !

  • @them4309
    @them4309 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +839

    Don't forget, just because they aren't engaging in direct person-to-person violence, doesn't mean they aren't actively hurting people through business practices, policy-making, manipulation, and other methods.

    • @katewoolf6059
      @katewoolf6059 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Eg, Trump

    • @LaJewel
      @LaJewel 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Oh yes - I saw this sort of thing happen at Disney when I was there.

    • @michaelbyrne-e4j
      @michaelbyrne-e4j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What happened did you lose your spine/we all know who'm you're referring to

    • @ellakramar1931
      @ellakramar1931 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Many employers do that from various professions. Painting their employees in a negative light behind their back via underhand

    • @watercolourferns
      @watercolourferns 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelbyrne-e4j it's not just ONE person.

  • @Aterhallsam
    @Aterhallsam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +472

    If you look in their eyes while they are speaking and you start to look for the emotional being living inside, you’ll soon realize nobody’s home.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Not all of the time, sadly.

    • @Dustandfuzz
      @Dustandfuzz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are crafty and have learned how to act by watching others but they feel nothing for anyone else’s life. Ted Bundy. The only thing they feel is the rush of the hunt and the kill. They are predatory animals adept at conning people into thinking they are caring individuals.

    • @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
      @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      If you look in a pschpaths eyes long enough they get uncomfortable. I think this is because they know some if us can spot them.

    • @WildAntics13
      @WildAntics13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Absolutely true, its like seeing into coldness

    • @Catillia85
      @Catillia85 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Oh. So you've met my mother.

  • @theresarasche3173
    @theresarasche3173 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +443

    I don’t think psychopaths can be rehabilitated because I think they are intelligent,charming and manipulative and say whatever it takes to get out of prison!

    • @almondthefurret6818
      @almondthefurret6818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Yes people with aspd are very charming

    • @rhondatallent2396
      @rhondatallent2396 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Especially since they are born this way! What do they think they can do?

    • @sociallypatterneddefect9580
      @sociallypatterneddefect9580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@rhondatallent2396 They make perfect politicians

    • @patriciarowe6685
      @patriciarowe6685 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sociallypatterneddefect9580Agreed 🤝

    • @PallorMortis-x8t
      @PallorMortis-x8t 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      On the other hand so who would not say?

  • @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
    @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +359

    I have seen people who were excellent parents - provided love, security etc. and their kid grows up to be a not-so-good human being. I have seen bad or absent parents who have a child grow up to be a much better person than their parent. It has to be something in the brain. The Dr. In one scene described it perfectly - they are like someone who is colorblind. They are blind to emotion and empathy.

    • @dunki-dunki-dawg
      @dunki-dunki-dawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Have you read about the Dark Triad? It shows there are many factors in determining how a human can develop

    • @sophiacalon3463
      @sophiacalon3463 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ted bundy was apparently an alright dad. Psychopathy isn’t a diagnosis. The disorder is antisocial personality disorder. They don’t have any empathy for anything and learn it instead. It’s easy for them to put their knowledge to be perfect to a relationship.

    • @sophiacalon3463
      @sophiacalon3463 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@dunki-dunki-dawgsome kids have parents that are perfect but still turn out bad.

    • @someone3187
      @someone3187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes, it's in the DNA

    • @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
      @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@dunki-dunki-dawg yes, I know about dark triad. I also believe all of us have a characteristic or two of narcissism. I know myself, upon learning about dark triad discovered when someone wrongs me, I tend to go Machiavellian. I can wait a long time - lol. I never realized there was a name for it! I find all this psychology and science so interesting. I wish I could go back in time and stay in college etc.

  • @cherienafo7676
    @cherienafo7676 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +328

    I have a female relative who is one. Where ever she goes, she will find a way to psychologically/emotionally damage someone she meets-like its her 'hobby'. She is scary, I,ve hid from her for years. AND -when they know that you know-then you are in more danger.

    • @emmymoreno4929
      @emmymoreno4929 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      True

    • @AimeeAimee444
      @AimeeAimee444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Toxic narcissists are dangerous when they know you know.
      They try to make your life miserable via smear campaigns and chaos.
      Psychopaths are a higher level of evil though.
      It would be frightening to have a psychopath family member.
      Remain your distance and stay safe.
      🙌🏼🤍✨🕊️

    • @primesspct2
      @primesspct2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      I know someone just like this. She seems to thrive on it. She has driven away everyone who ever loved her. It is terribly sad but truthfully, she is dangerous. Definitely diabolical as far as scheming and manipulating and the lengths to which she will go.

    • @CMoore8539
      @CMoore8539 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@primesspct2I think everyone knows one or more.

    • @Emilia-i9o1s
      @Emilia-i9o1s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      i wonder where they get the energy to constantly try to manipulate others cause that must be exhausting

  • @ahvavee
    @ahvavee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    Be careful of people who are overly charming and/or charismatic

    • @TheStephanieVeshka
      @TheStephanieVeshka 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yea I never trust them

    • @CuttySX455
      @CuttySX455 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My thoughts exactly ! These people are masters of manipulation and preying in vulnerable people.

    • @GamesCooky
      @GamesCooky 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Superficial charm is just one of the criterias of the checklist.
      But it is wise to question the motives of the person's charm, whether it's genuine or if he's trying to get something from you.
      Everyone is a bit superficial to some extent, so it's not that unusual.
      What you shouldn't be doing is trying to diagnose the person as a psychopath, because that's incredibly difficult and a waste of time.
      Even professionals struggle diagnosing psychopaths, so there's no reason to think you can do it.
      Just focus on self-preservation if you think the person is toxic.

    • @gailsieglaff8362
      @gailsieglaff8362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Like Jim Jones?

    • @ahvavee
      @ahvavee 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GamesCooky do you know how to diagnose someone?

  • @loveislove4879
    @loveislove4879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    Treatment only makes them worse because they can pretend to have empathy and care about people and pretend to be sensitive. Give up, it's a waste of time and money. They cannot and will not change. Ever.

    • @AlokitaPathak
      @AlokitaPathak 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I want to make my point. But the utube keeps deleting my comments. Tf???🙂

    • @HairyKnuckles222
      @HairyKnuckles222 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Boom exactly, when I went to prison my barrister sent a psychologist to do a evaluation on how I got to this point. I knew I had to lie and deceive to play out this story like it was all the drugs blah blah blah to receive a lower sentence. Told the same to the parole board 4 and half years later. No amount of prison will rehabilitate me, that’s a fact.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly. They actually use the therapists for information and, in turn, are able to better their “craft”. There is no “fixing” people like this.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AlokitaPathakThat happens to me too. TH-cam is just as corrupt as anything else. We have freedom of speech but nobody wants us to actually use it…unless we’re following their narrative.

  • @vintagelover2211
    @vintagelover2211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    I used to watch these old documentaries years ago when this channel was still called Barcroft Docs. So many of them got deleted for copyright and are now impossible to find.
    I wish there was a broader online library of these 1980s-early 2000s documentaries, they are fascinating. Some of my favorites were the one about British single fathers, the I Married a Maasai, the breast implant one, the gynocomastia one, the one about crossdressers in marriages, and the one about young girls with eating disorders.

    • @stacyjason6960
      @stacyjason6960 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I remember when that was the name of the channel! I wish there were more documentaries like that available today. They really stuck with me.

    • @ariesfairie11
      @ariesfairie11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They may be available at your local library. Might be worth checking out (no pun intended).

    • @thevintagepoet
      @thevintagepoet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I looked for the Chanel and it's gone

    • @OneOfUsHere
      @OneOfUsHere 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There are 4 or 5 additional channels with similar content in the description of this one. I don't think they are the exact one you're looking for but there are lots of interesting docs.

    • @rey-b9184
      @rey-b9184 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They rebranded and aren’t called barcroft anymore. Its Truly now

  • @GhastlyCretin
    @GhastlyCretin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    Documentary released in 2000 for anyone who cares.

    • @Laydeejay800
      @Laydeejay800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I do, Thank you!

    • @sky-et6md
      @sky-et6md 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you !

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you!!!!

    • @AimeeAimee444
      @AimeeAimee444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That was two blinks ago for me. 😂

    • @tobybeggs8676
      @tobybeggs8676 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank, ive been trying to figure it out

  • @nikki7962
    @nikki7962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    My sister is a psychopath, my father and mother were both narcissists. I seem pretty well adjusted considering what I grew up in. I will say I don’t get attached very easily.. ❤

    • @AimeeAimee444
      @AimeeAimee444 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That’s a difficult early journey. 😳
      Respect that you don’t trust people.
      I hope you’ve chosen to break off from them.

    • @whelkpeopleofdoom
      @whelkpeopleofdoom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I took a sociopathy evaluation, and was surprised to learn that I'm about 3% more sociopathic than your average person. It's not a big number, but it hurt me a bit. I like to think I'm a pretty empathetic person, but apparently I'm a bit less than average. I would guess that 3% comes from trauma and being very bitter and distrusting towards people in general. When the people who matter most to you, who are supposed to keep you safe, hurt you, how could you ever be much of a people person? 😕

    • @HHHKingofKings58
      @HHHKingofKings58 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Eh, someone who tells people that every member of their family has some sort of personality disorder is usually the one with the personality disorder.

    • @ellamaki3689
      @ellamaki3689 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@HHHKingofKings58 It's a bit like saying that to someone who is bullied by others at school that they must be the one doing it, or else that it is only imagination or justified.

    • @PrivateSnafu14
      @PrivateSnafu14 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@HHHKingofKings58Gotcha! Found the psycho!

  • @877swissmiss
    @877swissmiss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    What happens if you show psychopaths pictures of themselves suffering? What brain patterns are we seeing then? The same as when they look at others suffering?

    • @alie9236
      @alie9236 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Good question!

    • @theculturewatch2414
      @theculturewatch2414 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Psychopathy is a spectrum just like autism. The issue is that behavioral science isn’t advanced enough to understand the human mind.

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They don’t feel fear or sadness so…

    • @VaniaAjah
      @VaniaAjah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Maybe the same as they see other's? Or maybe even laughing? 🤔

    • @877swissmiss
      @877swissmiss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@kateashby3066 Maybe they feel angry? I just wonder if there would be any visible difference in the brain when they see themselves compared to seeing others. Don‘t know if anyone had ever tried that. Assumptions we can make a lot based on what we know, it would be interesting to look at it.

  • @timelapsega
    @timelapsega 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Narcissists and psychopaths are ruining society, sometimes quietly, sometimes loudly. They infiltrate social movements, the narcissists charm the crowd and the psychopaths bully the opposition. It's really an awful dance.

    • @FloridaGirl-
      @FloridaGirl- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Agree

    • @rockulikeahurricane
      @rockulikeahurricane 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@timelapsega and their genes 🧬 just keep on producing

  • @katedavey2045
    @katedavey2045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +310

    Children abusing and destroying animals is a sign of psychopathy.

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They grow up to be criminals.

    • @SynomDroni
      @SynomDroni 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      What? I think that is a bit of a blanket statement. Surely, these are not good signs, but I think it is impossible to outright condemn children for such behaviour. I'm aware of both children who did such things when we were kids and didn't turn out negatively at all, and also children that never did anything alarming, yet turned out pretty bad. So,I opt for a big "no" on your statement.

    • @eomanga
      @eomanga 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @SynomDroni It's true, they all turn out to be psychopaths. The ones you think turned out well are actually functional psychopaths -- most of our politicians and CEOs

    • @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
      @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Absolutely. I had a dog when living with my daughter's father 38 years ago - every time he went near her she would piss - a clear indicator that someone is NO good - the dog KNOWS. Needless to say, after my daughter was born - me,.dog and baby rolled. Lady the dog lived 14 years.

    • @613miami
      @613miami 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Child abuse not children abusing

  • @svenskanorsk
    @svenskanorsk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    There’s no curing people who have absolutely no insight into their own behavior. Even non psychopaths have this issue. Sometimes people are just evil.

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@svenskanorsk Exactly... Disease isn't a hindrance for you to be a respectful person with good morals

    • @Itsjustme.katieg
      @Itsjustme.katieg หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean, there isn't necessarily "no cure." Currently I agree we do not have a cure. But what if some day there could be an implant or something that could stimulate the right part of the brain, or gene modification that could turn on empathy?

  • @looking4things669
    @looking4things669 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Psychopaths don't believe they're damaged. Empathy and kindness are a waste of time.

    • @bibbedyboo3532
      @bibbedyboo3532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yes, often times to them the empath is the weak/ damaged person

    • @KellenAdair
      @KellenAdair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      To them kindness makes you a fool.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope. They think the opposite actually. They think they’re superior.
      They’ll never change because they don’t want to.

    • @patriciadupree3636
      @patriciadupree3636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@supernova11711 This whole video points to a genetic cause and you take away that " they don't w a n t to change . Bc they are selfish or bc their genes are defective - after seeing the video is that what u are referring to or is it their legitimate choice . Which one .

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@patriciadupree3636 Yes. Psychopathy is genetic but obviously it creates certain types of individuals. They’re quite similar in some ways and thinking their superior and flawless is across the board. It’s psychopaths in general not just this guy.
      It’s the same with NPD. They don’t change because they think they’re above everything and everyone and that they know everything. They don’t think they have flaws so why would they try to change anything.
      Before getting snippy maybe know what you’re talking about. This is like surface level when looking into these disorders.

  • @nunyabusy
    @nunyabusy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    It’s more than an inadequate answer, it’s a dangerous answer. As a child of a man with severe psychopathy, I suffered a lot of childhood abuse. Two of my siblings have severe psychopathy. My other siblings and I do not.
    However, if people hear my story, they get uneasy and worry I have psychopathy. Instead of finding out, they just disappear on me.
    I don’t hurt people. In fact, I’m kind, responsible, and accepting of others as a result of what I’ve survived.
    I look forward to the day when everyday people are aware enough to be able to accurately identify those who are safe from those who are coercive and violent.

    • @kathrynstewart-mcdonald
      @kathrynstewart-mcdonald 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you relocate and do not talk about your family you would be better off.

  • @theduder2617
    @theduder2617 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    If a psychopath knows not to commit a crime if there is a police officer present, they then know full well they should not commit the crime.
    In other words, they know full well exactly what they are doing is wrong. They CHOOSE to follow their desire to do wrong.
    Can't pity them when it is a choice.

    • @anadurao8995
      @anadurao8995 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theduder2617 yes psychopaths know and plan accordingly. Esquizophrenics on the other hand, just blank out or are possessed by demons and hearing voices and often have no idea what they just done, once they snap out of it

    • @rockulikeahurricane
      @rockulikeahurricane 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely… they know right from wrong, they just don’t care

  • @andreabennington
    @andreabennington 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Please! You must NEVER ALLOW Wayne to get out of prison!!!

    • @BonyFingers1969
      @BonyFingers1969 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      And please put Trump in prison and away from the public.

    • @severusferdinand6778
      @severusferdinand6778 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@BonyFingers1969 let’s put you in prison in solitary

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic4197
      @louieo.blevinsmusic4197 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@severusferdinand6778if Albert-mag is facing 91 felony charges like Trump than I agree. Not with solitary confinement cause that’s literal torture but I’m sure they love ‘em in gen pop. Orange jumpsuit, orange face and orange hair? He’s gonna look super stylish. Kinda like a packet of cheese crackers.

    • @patriciadupree3636
      @patriciadupree3636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@louieo.blevinsmusic4197trumped up charges , gullible . On the other hand , (b)iden son (h)unter encouraging health insurance being taken away from the mother of the (b)idens first grandchild as she was carrying the little girl is ' nothing to see here ' . Sort of like the list of psychopathic offenses biden inflicted on his daughter and on society .
      The little girl tells her daddy she loves him as he tells his deceased brother that he loves him in a video of the funeral. Hunter doesn't acknowledge the little girl who asks if she will get to be with the family at events like the other boy is in pics . Aaaaand . . . no , she won't.
      Anyone who thinks that any Democrat of the party who runs on abortion is not psychopathic thinks that bc that person is him herself psychopathic .

    • @patriciadupree3636
      @patriciadupree3636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@severusferdinand6778kudos.

  • @TAGMZs63
    @TAGMZs63 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    If the psychopath is manipulative, can't they easily manipulate the psychopathy test?

    • @taleandclawrock2606
      @taleandclawrock2606 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes, if the individual is smart enough.

    • @rinbailey1503
      @rinbailey1503 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      There are checks and balances in psychological testing to pick out those who are faking/lying. But yeah, they can if they can figure out to get around those.

    • @sarahr4099
      @sarahr4099 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Yes if their IQ is high enough. Being very intelligent and a psychopath is a bad combo

    • @fairyprincess911
      @fairyprincess911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yes, most definitely they can.

    • @shethingsd
      @shethingsd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rinbailey1503 this is why someone not educated in giving these psychological tests should armchair diagnose others or definitely themselves.

  • @debrabennett3009
    @debrabennett3009 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    No matter what you do, they just can’t be “rehabilitated.”

    • @elkadosh4726
      @elkadosh4726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Agreed. They typically don't see their behavior as problematic since they get what they want and don't care what it costs others, literally.

    • @crabb9966
      @crabb9966 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Idk if that's fully true but definitely don't be credulous. People think Jeffrey Dahmer became an angel in prison and I don't buy it at all.

    • @susieschilling4009
      @susieschilling4009 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In that case maybe the old-fashioned lobotomy or totally drugged up the rest of their lives.

  • @katiemaycosplay
    @katiemaycosplay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    That part when the guy walks by and says "this programs a sham"...

    • @DJ-nk4dq
      @DJ-nk4dq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, caught that, and he is right. Sad but true. Prisons in the US are businesses, privately owned companies, so even though everyone knows these counseling programs don’t work, and they especially don’t work with psychopaths and most sociopaths who are locked up, it’s good for the business to keep pushing them.

  • @jankasza5538
    @jankasza5538 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    Money and time should be spent on these abused children NOT these perverts!

    • @thebenjandboc6981
      @thebenjandboc6981 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They study them to figure out what makes them tick. Eventually someone smart enough will figure it out while the psycho is still a child and prevent abuse/unaliving as that person gets older

    • @batmansarah6325
      @batmansarah6325 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Unfortunately sometimes they become the same people.

    • @kimberleekuz3181
      @kimberleekuz3181 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My ex was diagnosed as a sociopath. He has narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder. The amount of dysfunction he spread was astronomical. Every person he's ever come in contact with, he has manipulated and used for his own gain. When he was diagnosed, they basically told him there was nothing they could do to help him and sent him on his way despite his insistence on harming himself and others. What became apparent in that moment is that these professionals make their money off of the people sociopaths and psycopaths take advantage of.
      I believe more research is needed because until we figure out these people among us without empathy or compassion, that wreak havoc on people's lives, we risk their damaging influence upon those who are most vulnerable.

    • @felicehappy
      @felicehappy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      but wouldn't it be amazing if this work could avoid people/children getting abused by these psychos in the first place? I think that's the aim of these researchers. It's not to help psychos cause their bad behaviour towards others doesn't bother them. It's to protect people from them before they offend.

  • @kitkat9648
    @kitkat9648 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    My cousin was both born and made. She was highly abused and took that experience into her adult life and built a mannerism to attract a specific type of man , then destroys them financially and emotionally. It's as if she seeks her revenge on all men. She is extremely skilled at her game. One husband was put in prison. And she got the old family money. Truth is stranger than fiction.

    •  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My mother seeked revenge too. I realised that in my forties.

    • @peterfreiling6963
      @peterfreiling6963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Psychopaths are very good at manipulating authority figures and law enforcement to accomplish their evil ends. Prosecutors and judges need to be aware of this.

    • @maymalone1505
      @maymalone1505 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@peterfreiling6963very true 😮

    • @elkadosh4726
      @elkadosh4726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She may likely have been a raging narcissist or sociopath. It is understood that psychopaths are capable to kill, sociopaths not but both bring immeasurable destruction to humanity in unthinkable ways.

    • @allinix7
      @allinix7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@elkadosh4726Bruh... You clearly don't know what you are talking about. In psychology, sociopathy = psychopathy, it is the same thing. Go read real studies and stop saying bull$hits.

  • @Li-vc4bb
    @Li-vc4bb 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The most bizare thing about Wayne is that he casually recounted his crimes with no sense of shame.

    • @melissastreeter22
      @melissastreeter22 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I noticed that, too, and figured it was just more of his "charming" ways to worm himself into our trust, showing us how "reformed" he'd become because of his so-called treatment.

    • @HoneySparkles2
      @HoneySparkles2 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Li-vc4bb because he had no empathy. I could care less for a mosquito or ant and would kill them without thought. They have purpose! An ant is very useful on our world!
      The lack of care of humans is their take on murder. I can't wrap my head on their psychopath lack of empathy for even their own family. 🤨

  • @marycanary86
    @marycanary86 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    dude is comparing touching the stove to feeling empathy- brah, no, those are literally the opposite of one another. one is learning to avoid hurting yourself, the other is about not wanting to hurt others

    • @Darrylizer1
      @Darrylizer1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yeah I noticed that too. Very not the same thing.

    • @whatever3132
      @whatever3132 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He’s literally incapable of empathy. Comparing it to having consequences is the closest he is capable of understanding the concept.

    • @supernova11711
      @supernova11711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think he means that through various experiences you learn empathy.
      If you burn your hand on the stove you will then be able to have empathy when you see someone else do it or they tell you about it happening to them. You know how they feel because you went through the same.
      As we grow and this happens more and more we’re able to apply that to things we may not have experienced ourselves. We can imagine ourselves in similar situations and have empathy for others because of that.

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you can't feel empathy for yours,you also can't learn to empathize with other people either.You can't pour from an empty cup

  • @lissanne9769
    @lissanne9769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    One of the biggest disservices TH-cam does is not put a date on the original content. When did first air and where?

    • @deannehuizenga4845
      @deannehuizenga4845 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I read in the comments this aired in 2000.

    • @lissanne9769
      @lissanne9769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      @@deannehuizenga4845
      Thank you very much. The reason I wanted to know is, recently the physiologic sciences are leaning toward psychopathic tendency being a learned (but not from bad parenting) construct vs a genetic defect. Thank you, your note helped.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@lissanne9769 Yes. Me, as well

    • @jenniferlynn3537
      @jenniferlynn3537 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@lissanne9769 My understanding is that there are some 8 alleles associated with reduced empathy in humans. I’ve even read that there are some 13 alleles implicated - so I’d be interested in knowing the source claiming it’s primarily the result of nurture vs. nature.
      Childhood environment may serve to reinforce the worst inclinations or to direct behavior towards socially acceptable avenues - but regardless, the fundamental proclivity remains. When you speak of psychopathy being “learned,” you have to realize that children with the predisposition towards psychopathy usually grow up in a household where one of their parents is also a psychopath - namely the one they inherited the trait(s) from. To the extent that the other parent is normative, s/he opted to pursue a relationship with a disordered individual - so their capacity to identify deviant behavior and deter it wouldn’t likely be all that developed.
      So any theory about the environment being the root cause is necessarily complicated by these factors.

    • @lissanne9769
      @lissanne9769 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jenniferlynn3537
      Your correct in that there is a lot we do know about psychopathic individuals. I feel that there is so much more we don't understand about this disorder. More research must and is still going on here.

  • @JoWhitten-mg1pn
    @JoWhitten-mg1pn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I married one , stayed for 17 years. Survived. But became very physically ill afterwards.

    • @deannehuizenga4845
      @deannehuizenga4845 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m very sorry…

    • @keariewashburn4680
      @keariewashburn4680 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I married one too. Survived. Sick with blood cancer and all from the trauma Hope you are doing well in spite of the illnesses. ❤

  • @barbandsarge
    @barbandsarge 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Dr Hare should do a case study on my Ex. He is not a criminal but he has tendencies. He is a retired police detective with a Masters in Psychology. He is very smart - just ask him. He doesn't think behavioral norms, laws or even civility apply to him. He is a master narcissist and, in my opinion, a psychopath. He has zero compassion or empathy and he doesnt have any trouble sleeping at night after destroying someone - it doesn't matter who.
    Just bloody thankful, I got out alive but he cost me everything.

    • @apoorvat4245
      @apoorvat4245 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ditto almost

    • @fehyndana7725
      @fehyndana7725 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Psychopaths flock to jobs like police officers bc there they can execute power over people

    • @jillfoley6834
      @jillfoley6834 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hi Barbara, seven years later, I’m still healing from a narcissistic manager of 17 years. It cost me friendships, my career, my sanity. No one could help me because they thought he was just a jerk. Thank you for your post, in a nutshell, they lack empathy and basic respect for others, including the business owners I brought in. He seemed to delight in sending them inferior rock salt that would have to be sent back after it ruined their customers salt spreaders. He never got reprimanded, I did, for saying something on their behalf. He even got my $500.00 bonus check and I wasn’t allowed to bring in more business. This happened in Detroit, Michigan. I wish I knew then what I know now. But I can assure you, they are EVERYWHERE.

    • @barbandsarge
      @barbandsarge 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jillfoley6834 .... his name wasn't Ralph is it??? Lol

    • @elkadosh4726
      @elkadosh4726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Soooo many of the Cluster B Personality types esp psycho, socio toxic narcs and anti socials in policing/para military.

  • @tnteachertim
    @tnteachertim 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Not every murderer is a psychopath, and not all psychopaths are murderers.
    They ALL destroy lives, though....

    • @Jacqueline12332
      @Jacqueline12332 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But all killers are purely evil people.

    • @patriciadupree3636
      @patriciadupree3636 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @tnteachertim it's important to recognize them in yur life .

  • @Laydeejay800
    @Laydeejay800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Severe childhood trauma/neglect shrinks the Amygdala in children

    • @bibbedyboo3532
      @bibbedyboo3532 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Some children who become sociopaths and NPD spend early years in hospital for illness. They are unable to properly form attachments to primary carers. It is a mixture however of nature and nurture.
      😊

    • @StellaAdler_
      @StellaAdler_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Psychopaths are born, sociopaths are made due to such a childhood.

    • @AK-47-yall
      @AK-47-yall 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@StellaAdler_ I don't believe the word sociopaths is used anymore. It is just psychopath now.

    • @timg6176
      @timg6176 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@AK-47-yallwell there's a few major differences so they can change whatever they want but much like many of their other findings they would be wrong.

    • @asrr62
      @asrr62 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So it's my fuckin parents, the cops, doctors that killed me together? My mom said she never will let me get surgery and they won't let me have a job. What can I do to get u people to not kill me

  • @LadyLash22
    @LadyLash22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    As a neuroscientist specializing in addiction I'd argue that psychopathy has a limbic system element that not only includes the amygdala & the PFC/OFC but also the nucleus accumbens (NAc) which functions in pleasure seeking & habit formation. Psychopaths often report feeling less pleasure from typically pleasant things than non-psychopaths n therefore feel the need to participate in extreme behaviors in order to feel "average/normal" pleasure/excitement. Also similar to addictive disorders psychopaths often escalate their extreme behaviors as time progesses. Gauging the extent of this deficit as well as how it escalates towards habit formation in psychopaths could definitely reveal some potential avenues for intervention.

    • @chilo8187
      @chilo8187 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought psychopaths actually decrease antisocial behaviour with age though.

    • @KellenAdair
      @KellenAdair 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Supposedly. But, Narcissism usually grows worse. I imagine it's an across the board thing with the Dark Tetrad.

    • @hecbethyname
      @hecbethyname 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chilo8187They get fewer opportunities. Youth favors many means to abuse people like strength, beauty, and young people being more gullible. I experienced a sharp escalation in the intensity of what she was trying to accomplish, after 3 years. Even though the frequency of planned abuse remained about the same.

    • @chilo8187
      @chilo8187 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hecbethyname I’m sorry you had that experience. I don’t think anecdotes are proper data, but I’m sure in some individuals the behaviour does remain the same or escalate depending on life situation.

  • @danmahon127
    @danmahon127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    My ex boyfriend is a psychopath. He used me, treated me terribly, and had absolutely no awareness of what an a-hole he is

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That describes a narcissist. Psychopaths are also narcs but they’re also incapable of shame- and capable of antisocial traits- making them far worse. Of course malignant narcs are on the border

    • @thefrankiepalmeri
      @thefrankiepalmeri 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Poor you.

    • @danmahon127
      @danmahon127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@thefrankiepalmeri that's some solid empathy right there, thank you 🙌

    • @bipolarwanderer
      @bipolarwanderer 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Ooof someone's still salty.

    • @danmahon127
      @danmahon127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bipolarwanderer 😂 funny

  • @ladypamela8269
    @ladypamela8269 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I also might add that when they're fixed on 1 person. It doesn't matter how many years it takes to achieve what they're trying to achieve. Even if that is just to make the person fearful of them. Literally they will stalk them for years

  • @dunki-dunki-dawg
    @dunki-dunki-dawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    I wonder if they ever let Wayne out after his time served? I really hope not because he will always be very deadly.

    • @grizzlybear4
      @grizzlybear4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      And why is Wayne only charged with his sexual abuses and not for the horrific murder of his brother?

    • @dunki-dunki-dawg
      @dunki-dunki-dawg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@grizzlybear4 I think he got a plea deal to confess and avoid solitary at the Max prison and escape the death penalty.
      I read something along those lines but I think because of his Psychopathy score of 40/40, and it being very rare (a pure psycho) they wanted to study him and to use him for insight into the disorder, to hopefully develop a treatment.

    • @elkadosh4726
      @elkadosh4726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope they will always find loopholes to keep him locked up. They know the dangers of his release.

    • @dunki-dunki-dawg
      @dunki-dunki-dawg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elkadosh4726 I often wonder how they come to release people after their sentences have expired when they know a person has a personality disorder and have also murdered someone in cold blood.

    • @hmc1845
      @hmc1845 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dunki-dunki-dawg where did you read this? I've been trying to find more info about him

  • @justdoit83388
    @justdoit83388 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Fantastic documentary, really insightful and informative. I never had a social upbringing and made me ponder my and my family life. I believe that people lower on the psychopathic scale can become better human beings. I'll do all i can to raise my kids better equipped with empathy and kindness. Love the older documentary styles too ✨️

  • @miss_kolissa
    @miss_kolissa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    He said what about the successful psychopaths that might still be out there? *SUCCESSFUL* that is so scary to think of☹️

    • @tinygrim
      @tinygrim 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yeah, there in business, all over .

    • @deborahnash5092
      @deborahnash5092 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      L no o

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You should be far more worried about narcissists- who far outnumber ASPD’s and are just as capable of violence and killing (Chris watts, Anthony Todt, and Casey Anthony are all narcs. Not psychopaths.
      Ps- in America 1% of the population are ASPD, and only half of those are the violent/impulsive types. So that means 1/200 people can be this^ type. Not great but farrrr from the 5-15% that are narcs!

    • @StanCat4
      @StanCat4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@kateashby3066narcissists can also be psychopaths

    • @helenaquin1797
      @helenaquin1797 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @StanCat4 I've read recently that all psychopaths are narcissistic but not all narcissists are psychopaths.

  • @lasciviouspaine
    @lasciviouspaine 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    that psychopath played those doctors like a fiddle

  • @ammasophia4663
    @ammasophia4663 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was married to a brilliant psychopath... probably well over 160 IQ.
    A brilliant mind in a psychopath is terrifying.
    When he meets people he wants to impress he doesn't reveal the dangerous malevolence.
    My ex~husband became a "respected Doctor".
    When a psychopath comes after you to destroy you, they will.
    The man with the very long face and long shoulder length hair is a perfect example of how cunning a psychopath can be, analysing himself in a way that sounds like insight.
    He sounds like he has been rehabilitated.
    I would say, there is no "happy ending" for a Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde.

  • @GastonsGuitarCovers
    @GastonsGuitarCovers 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I think approximate filming date and/or original release date should be stated in the title of these reposted documentaries. At minimum in the description.
    We need this info for context. I saw this years ago. Good documentary.

    • @sigian
      @sigian 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Especially because there were so many advances in neuroscience and we now can comprehend better how psychopathy is ‘born’

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would think so they could look at the activity in both brains and see how they respond to emotional stimuli, but I'm only guessing.

  • @Sunshine-and-Roses416
    @Sunshine-and-Roses416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    If you can determine if someone is a psychopath using brain scans I wonder if you can find if someone is an empath using the same method.

    • @SniperLogic
      @SniperLogic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I think if psychopathy doesn’t show on scan the person falls into the empath spectrum automatically.

    • @Sunshine-and-Roses416
      @Sunshine-and-Roses416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SniperLogic ah okay that makes sense.

    • @dragonfly961
      @dragonfly961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      There is more information now that empaths are basically traumatized people who have learned to be hyper vigilant about people’s emotional states for survival purposes.

    • @Sunshine-and-Roses416
      @Sunshine-and-Roses416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dragonfly961 I can understand that. I was raised in an abusive house hould with my alcoholic mother and her alcoholic boyfriend. And I was the youngest child. So I picked up on a lot of body language and facial cues that helped me know what they were feeling. No matter how hard they tried to hide it.

    • @StellaAdler_
      @StellaAdler_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SniperLogicThat doesnt make sense whatsoever. Those two are vastly different from one another. U can be neither - psycho or empath. Not everyone is either or.

  • @MustardLadySaveMe
    @MustardLadySaveMe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    one of my very good friends in highschool had a diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder, many called him a psychopath. I liked him, he said he liked us too "in the sense that it was more fun to be with us than it was to be alone" but that was kind of just his best way of expressing affection.. he had no desire to cause somebody physical harm, but he didn't have a lot of respect for rules or authority that he deemed unnecessary and acted accordingly. he did hurt our feelings sometimes and didn't really understand why we were upset, One time he even asked if I was making it up when I told him something he said hurt my feelings. But he was a good friend, a funny and smart guy, he helped me not fail trigonometry lol.

    • @msdanielle430
      @msdanielle430 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This reminds me of an article I read from a neuroscientist called, When I discovered I was a psychopath. He was doing brain studies and used his own scans and long story short that's when he discovered it. He reflected on his life in the article and when he told his wife and friends they all said that it explained a lot. He thought back about how he'd make mean jokes and what not and never understood why people got offended. They all chalked it up to him kind of having a dark humor but he wasn't extreme. Some of them are on the unemotional non dangerous side. You're very lucky!

  • @lynnschaeferle-zh4go
    @lynnschaeferle-zh4go 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My ex is a carbon copy of his dad and I don’t know who’s more psychopathic. Both disregard people unless an important person id around, then they grovel. I have never seen a smile, tears or laughter from either. If someone doesn’t entertain them, or fawn over them there will be trouble.

  • @katymitchell8200
    @katymitchell8200 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    According to the guidelines of speech, I'm not allowed to articulate what I really believe should be done with these people. Which is why we are unable to remove them from society. My mother being one of them. I told her one time that she is like a skunk. She "comes in, stinks up the place and leaves." She disturbs everyone psychologically and emotionally for decades and never pays the price. It's always...poor me....I'm treated so badly....I never get what I need....no body loves me. I have estranged myself from her and am much better for it.

    • @dragonfly961
      @dragonfly961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like she is a malignant narcissist but may not be a psychopath. True psychopaths have no real emotional life.

  • @Kaarver
    @Kaarver 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I found the ginger psycpath in prison’s thoughts about conscience very interesting. It made it utterly clear he hadn’t understood the concept, at all.
    Even if they destroy the lives of the people around them they themselves lead very sad lives, it must be totally empty and pointless to not be able to connect to other people, and to never be able to experience selfless and generous love.
    I pity them.

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Valid point.

    • @derp195
      @derp195 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That's what I was thinking too. It was almost kind of funny - he's so far out there in terms of the human experience that he thinks he has an understanding, when in reality, he doesn't grasp the basic concept.

    • @Natibebe
      @Natibebe 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some are smarter than others. Or “high functioning” I’ve seen people describe them as. Like not being in prison and being a functional person in society. I guess he’s just not as HF

    • @Kaarver
      @Kaarver 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Natibebe Probably. Also, to decribe a feeling you've never felt must be a bit like describing a colour you've never seen... (I also come to think of the early European depictions of lions, before the artists had ever seen real lions. They look weird!
      )

  • @Katie__A
    @Katie__A 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    For everyone who’s asking: there are no current new discoveries, prof. Hare is still main authority in the field.

    • @ArtU4All
      @ArtU4All 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They have been taken over by critical race theory and are attending to the transgender avalanche

    • @anniesok868
      @anniesok868 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thats because they are just demon possessed people

  • @kathleent6653
    @kathleent6653 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    He is 40 ( top) on the check list, and he can get out in 5 to 20 years !( possibly 10 more year to go) WHAT? He needs life, in my opinion! 🤷‍♀️

  • @dianalives2669
    @dianalives2669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was a victim of a few
    Psychopaths at work who worked alongside each other. The bullying and manipulation I endured after getting transferred left me with elevated anxiety and depression. Most people today have psychopath tendencies nowadays they have no remorse for the pain and anguish they might inflict on the other because of avarice or jealousy.

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic4197
      @louieo.blevinsmusic4197 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There wasn’t anyone higher up that could stop the bullying? Or at least a co-worker that wasn’t cowardly? I was never rlly bullied but some of my friends were, I just remember when I was rlly young being maybe overly emotional. As I was coming to that age of really understanding how brutally unfair the world rlly is, I’d have to leave wherever I’d been if I saw someone with a handicap or a disorder. Spent a lot of time in the hospital as I was a sickly kid and it was completely overwhelming as I def had it better than 99%, as I had two kidneys had one bitten the dust. I suffered from massive anxiety as well. Panic attacks that lead to vertigo. Nothing like being convinced your heart is going to explode as you can’t tell which way is which/have your chest feel like it’s on fire or not be able to sleep to the point your sitting up in bed, wide eyed watching dust particles as if they’re snowflakes in the wind. Unfortunately, it all lead to isolation and drugs as I just wanted to be numb as I became as mean as fear is strong. I’m sorry you had to deal with that, I can only imagine how brutal it is in middle school/high school but as an adult who just wants to get the 9-5 over with and get tf home. It must feel completely intrusive/degrading. Karma’s a MF’er tho. Those folks are usually cowards as they pile up on someone or go for someone non threatening but one day they’ll say the wrong thing to the wrong person and get their comeuppance. Just a matter of time. Hope all is well tho. Keep fighting pound for pound.

  • @terredee
    @terredee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Looks like that guy with the long, curly blond hair wears his skull on the outside.

    • @maresdreams8731
      @maresdreams8731 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He did have a look, didn't he

    • @kevinlutz5994
      @kevinlutz5994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Uncle Creepy from the 1970's comics.

    • @resarm5007
      @resarm5007 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Skeletor

    • @Ashley-jg7fo
      @Ashley-jg7fo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah a creepy dude for sure. Please keep him in a cage, he gives off very Creepy vibes.

  • @gerrispecker1033
    @gerrispecker1033 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    So, in a word, Politicians.

    • @sociallypatterneddefect9580
      @sociallypatterneddefect9580 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly they are psychopaths that get off on ruling over you and bombing women and children

    • @annmalcomson6555
      @annmalcomson6555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly what I was thinking!

    • @justine7083
      @justine7083 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Trump for sure.

    • @ev9998
      @ev9998 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My thoughts

    • @louieo.blevinsmusic4197
      @louieo.blevinsmusic4197 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And meter maids, don’t forget them.

  • @Polisciandfries
    @Polisciandfries 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Giving someone 5-20 for sexually abusing 4 young boys is INSANE especially considering you know they're likely to reoffend

  • @fab3laundry
    @fab3laundry 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Police need to be able to recognise the charming psychopath who is acting like the "normal one" while their crying victim is often immediately determined to be the aggressor. Look at the stupid cops who believed Brian Laundrie was the.victim despite that being the opposite of what the witness who called them had reported. That mistake cost Gabby Petito her life.

    • @-norsecode-
      @-norsecode- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Many police are the charming psychopath.

  • @evilpandakillabzonattkoccu4879
    @evilpandakillabzonattkoccu4879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I have ASPD (anti-social personality disorder) and I don't share all the same traits as others with the same condition has, but it's been a challenge to be a good, moral person in some aspects of my life.
    For example: I have empathy for people, but I didn't realize how it was different than others. I don't feel hate....because I have to care enough about something to hate it. If I don't love you and I don't like you....I don't care about you and can't really feel hatred for you 🤷‍♂️ Indifference, is more of what it feels like. As I grew up, I forced myself to have empathy for those that I don't know by, essentially, running a conscious algorithm in my brain. That helps me determine if I should be having sympathy or empathy. I don't have to do this with my family. I love them endlessly. Strangers.... 🤷‍♂️ ....I have to try and I wish it were embarrassing to say that, but it's not. it's just... the truth.
    I have to set a standard of radical honesty for myself. That is to say: no lies, even white lies. If I don't do this, I find myself lying for no reason. I used to get in trouble for lying when I had no clue why I lied in the first place. 🤦‍♂️ So, I have to act like a child and tell on myself. After awhile, it's easier to just not get into situations where I would have to lie than it is to lie. That makes lying more work and effort for less reward than being honest...even if it means so sudden gratification or gratification at all.
    I am not violent, in general, but... yeah, I could go on and on.
    That ☝ was me catching myself being egocentric (when my initial goal was to make it easier for others with ASPD to talk about the disorder) in real-time. 🤦‍♂️
    The point is: we are there among you. Some of us, however, are "pro-social psychopaths" .....meaning: *we get it and it's hard, but we are actually trying to get better or at least don't want to be this way anymore. not sure how many of us there are.... but 🙋‍♂️ "Here!"

    • @ellakramar1931
      @ellakramar1931 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I have it as well. When I was in middle school, we had to take a test at the end of Sociology class and I scored higher on it. When one of our older teacher's cried in school after her mother passed away. I privately told her that her empathy was fake she started to cry even harder. I was laughing at her. My father has it. My grandfather too. My grandfather used to kill animals for a living and belittle people all the time. My father acts like your friendly neighborhood Spider-Man!

    • @travissaurus4336
      @travissaurus4336 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When you say "its hard". What exactly is hard about being the way your are?

    • @evilpandakillabzonattkoccu4879
      @evilpandakillabzonattkoccu4879 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@travissaurus4336 Stopping the impulsiveness (as they are often immoral) and running empathy through an algorithm (since it's not intuitive for me. Not lying was a huge thing to over come, for me. Following laws and not taking advantage of people. Simple things.
      Don't get me wrong: when I say "it's hard" .....I understand that life gets much, much harder. I'm not a victim or anything. It's stopping myself from victimizing others that is, at time, a real challenge.

    • @deekayMK
      @deekayMK 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@evilpandakillabzonattkoccu4879 I think at some point in our evolution being a psychopath was detrimental for our survival. Most psychopath survived because they only cared about themselves, so i think there are more psychopaths than we think.
      Corporation are also exhibiting all psychopathic tendencies, so most successful men are psychopaths

  • @martinaosullivan1622
    @martinaosullivan1622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    They will never change 😢

  • @rosaflorpuig3971
    @rosaflorpuig3971 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Guy passing by him says, “The program’s a sham. Quit lying to these people.”

  • @CBrown86
    @CBrown86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    *It’s antisocial personality disorder.* Psychopath is *not* a clinical diagnosis. It’s a term used to describe antisocial personality disorder.
    ASPD is *not* a mental illness, it’s a character/personality disorder.
    People with mental illness can learn ways to cope. Individuals with ASPD cannot learn ways to have empathy. They are in many ways, very inhuman.

    • @Gilsworth
      @Gilsworth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Almost a different species even. More true to life "skinwalkers". They look human, they sound human, but they lack humanity.

    • @almondthefurret6818
      @almondthefurret6818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh so you hate people with ASPD then? They’re not evil

    • @kateashby3066
      @kateashby3066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      No one said it was a clinical diagnosis. We use it colloquially. And yes it’s classified as a mental illness because their brains are different (malfunctioned).

    • @almondthefurret6818
      @almondthefurret6818 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Gilsworth these are real people who need help. For the love of good treat nd people like people

    • @Gilsworth
      @Gilsworth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@almondthefurret6818 How do you help someone who is incapable of caring about you? Human beings are the most dangerous animal, take away empathy and morals and what are you left with? How do you possibly help someone who has zero qualms with manipulating and beguiling you?

  • @kateashby3066
    @kateashby3066 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    There are 4 personality disorders in the cluster B family. Psychopathy (ASPD) is one and borderline is another. I have borderline and I had enough traits by age 12 for diagnosis, but because we cannot diagnose children, my doctors just did this number: 🤷🏻‍♀️, so now I’m 43 and just found out this is my diagnosis- meaning I’ve suffered my entire life because they wouldn’t diagnose me at 12. Not helpful.

    • @marciasandberg4513
      @marciasandberg4513 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I’m sorry you didn’t get a diagnosis until later in your life. There is treatment that can help. Cognitive therapy and DBT shows much promise. There is much relief to be found. My sister has and she’s found so much peace.

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should have a look into Marsha Linehan.

    • @Rebecca-ys3cb
      @Rebecca-ys3cb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You can change you know! You need to developed the neurological hardware in your brain. The only way you can do this is meditation. Good Luck. It takes WORK that means every single day twice a day until you receive a download which reboots your brain. There has to be some type of trauma there that stopped you developing it when you were little.. in the meantime I know I wouldn’t want to be anywhere near you. You’re too dangerous, the damage you cause people is horrendous. So just keep meditating and you’ll know when your healed. Maybe it will take weeks or maybe months but if you work at it, it will work. Dr Joe Dizpensa.

  • @katedavey2045
    @katedavey2045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The idea of stopping and asking "IS THIS A GOOD IDEA??" NO "STOP" BUTTON.

  • @melt-in
    @melt-in 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This part from the 45th minute onwards, where he starts talking about microchips for psychopaths in order to change their brains, really hit me hard. I asked myself the question, should this whole documentary be there to ultimately introduce us to the brain chip "for everyone" because it does good things!?

    • @nono86753
      @nono86753 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I saw that too. They plan things decades in advance. Just like they already started to try to convince us, bugs are a super food after they told us red meat causes cancer.

    • @kevinlutz5994
      @kevinlutz5994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      1984

    • @kevinlutz5994
      @kevinlutz5994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Clockwork Orange.

    • @kevinlutz5994
      @kevinlutz5994 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh! And lobotomies in the mid-twentieth century.

    • @Filibie
      @Filibie 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rev 13:16

  • @Homunculas
    @Homunculas 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    The most successful psychopaths rarely end up behind bars, but instead are overrepresented in positions of power, ie: corporation heads and politicians.
    POLITICAL PONEROLOGY.

    • @katewoolf6059
      @katewoolf6059 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Trump

    • @BonyFingers1969
      @BonyFingers1969 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@katewoolf6059 For sure Trump is a psycho, He leaves a swath of destruction behind him, .He would score very high on Professor Robert Hare's checklist... Also, look at all of Trump's supporters I'll bet a large percent of them are also psychopaths. Birds of a feather flock together.

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You appear to have met Donald Trump 😀 Actually I 'm not qualified to make that kind of judgment. I do know that his niece has described him as having NPD. She is a psychologist. I don't know if Mary considers him a psychopath or not. He opinion doesn't count for much because clinicians are NOT supposed to diagnose or treat family members.

    • @nataliepapolis
      @nataliepapolis 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trump

    • @centermass5330
      @centermass5330 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@katewoolf6059 Biden trump or ANYONE running for office

  • @charlottecolley8713
    @charlottecolley8713 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Constantly trying to understand how and why human being are capable of such evil?

  • @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
    @maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    "Organic Portal".....souless human being who attaches itself to another and depletes,.usually for material gain and/or power. It only survives by this method.

    • @mrsmacca126
      @mrsmacca126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So…a parasite. Thus “ parasitic tendency”.

  • @BruselskySluzebnik
    @BruselskySluzebnik 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I did not know that John Lenon has survived and become a psychopath.

    • @Albertanator
      @Albertanator 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I kind of thought on first look that he looked like Paul Kantner from Jefferson Airplane.

    • @rosemaryoverell1375
      @rosemaryoverell1375 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Albertanatoryes that’s more accurate

  • @KymHammond
    @KymHammond 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson: Wikipedia
    This is a good counterpoint to Dr. Hare's work. In short, the subject is still very controversial, and two things that stand out by looking it over are that there is a significant medical industry that governments rely on that has sprung up around these diagnoses and an approach to it by the global media industry that requires some caution as sociopathic itself. Do these people exist? is not the point I’d suggest, but rather how best to deal with them. Remember, we once thought burning people, but mostly women, at the stake was a way of helping them by cleansing their souls in order for them to enter heaven?
    Social media provides a powerful contemporary intersection of many of those same sorts of forces.
    Watching this through, I'm a little concerned about the lack of objectivity from the prison industry, which appears to have had a significant input into this. That context is important if we understand that there is a tendency to universalise and normalise their specific aggregated points of view.

  • @elizabetherne556
    @elizabetherne556 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I know somebody that is a therapist in a prison. After years of talking with prisoners trying to help them they say the ones with the sexual deviance you cannot reform or help. There is no correcting that.

  • @leftykeys6944
    @leftykeys6944 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Congress is filled with these subhumans. Both parties.

  • @jflsdknf
    @jflsdknf 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've noticed a lot of serial killers have eyes that are more close together than normal

    • @randallsimpson1032
      @randallsimpson1032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      In the animal kingdom, those that are prey have eyes on the sides of their heads so they can spot danger. Those that are predators have the eyes in front so they can focus on their prey, and judge distance.

  • @katedavey2045
    @katedavey2045 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I like the idea of "the 'emergency brake" not working.

  • @LulasSong
    @LulasSong 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Psychopath? He sure looks it. Best therapy is being an actor playing out the evil in them. Suits their vanity and need for attention.Keeps them out of trouble. Encourage creativity.

    • @kingeino816
      @kingeino816 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really like your thinking here

  • @BrandiMartin-m9q
    @BrandiMartin-m9q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This story broke my heart and at the same time opened my eyes as a reminder to measure the depth before diving in and that includes your devotion and beliefs.. This man deserves the answers he's looked for all these yrs.

  • @naymeequillo
    @naymeequillo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Extreme trauma can definately cause major brain damage and psychopathic-like behavior. But a true psychopath is born that way. An extremely traumatized person can be treated, that person started out with natural born empathy. A psychopath simply doesn't have that to begin with. Trauma WILL make it far more likely for a psychopath to lash out in a more dangerous and damaging way. Trauma is always severly damaging.

  • @erichodge567
    @erichodge567 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    3:50
    Psychopaths can sing the lyrics, but they don't respond to the melody...
    That is as perfect an analogy as you'll ever hear.

    • @Sharon-be4df
      @Sharon-be4df 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually that presents a question....I wonder if psychopaths listen to music? Seeing as music is based on evoking emotion 🤔

    • @erichodge567
      @erichodge567 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sharon-be4df , good point. Somebody should study this.

  • @AS-cc8mp
    @AS-cc8mp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This documentary is like walking through a small town museum

  • @marilynrichardson6525
    @marilynrichardson6525 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    So educational , thank you. I am a mental health worker in Australia. I will definately look at that approach. Thank you

    • @robinantonio8870
      @robinantonio8870 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Scary that a mental health worker had anything to learn from this. You only have to be the victim of a narcissist to already know all this

  • @Ryo7_7
    @Ryo7_7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've seen this interview. Still haunting how aware he is to this day.

  • @rockygiunta3552
    @rockygiunta3552 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why are psychopaths allowed to be glorified on you tube...and when someone normal expresses their opinion they are censored on you tube?

    • @GeminiPlatypus
      @GeminiPlatypus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      define normal?

    • @FloridaGirl-
      @FloridaGirl- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are doing alot of shadow banning! I see mire and more comments saying the same and it’s happening to me as well. I will be surprised if this comment shows up actually!

    • @goldendiamon
      @goldendiamon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They aren't glorified....They are diagnosed and their brains are being studied to show how hard it is sometimes for them to not feel empathy even if they know what empathy means

  • @rontauranac
    @rontauranac 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    13:11 "I'm ready to go now."😄

  • @Whitewolfen
    @Whitewolfen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My sister married a guy that had a psychopathic ex-wife. She caused so much grief for my sister that it stole the better part of the start of her marriage. His ex-wife was extremely manipulative and charming and ugly inside at the same time. She manipulated men to kill a guy for her and she got away with it. She did spend time in prison though for something eventually. It is crazy how much damage psychopaths can cause.

    • @bekindpeas
      @bekindpeas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sorry. But I wrote facts

  • @BAFFLED-u4o
    @BAFFLED-u4o 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Love the older documentaries.

  • @acooksla
    @acooksla 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I have met a few in my life, scary stuff

    • @deannehuizenga4845
      @deannehuizenga4845 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too.

    • @salliegallegos918
      @salliegallegos918 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @derp195
      @derp195 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even scarier is that lots of people think they haven't. it's 1/100 people. We've all met them.

  • @tday99music
    @tday99music 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    children abusers should never get a chance to get out. ever. end of story

  • @karend9445
    @karend9445 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a daughter who quietly leaves a trail of emotional and psychological destruction wherever she goes. I’ve seen her once in 7 years. Happy for me I’ve learned to not respond to her manipulation. She was disappointed she couldn’t get any money, property, or response from me anymore.

  • @alierymartinez285
    @alierymartinez285 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The best material I’ve seen on the topic

  • @DinoCism
    @DinoCism 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    FBI lady: most of the people we deal with are psychopaths...
    yeah, and half of them are in uniform lol

  • @christisrisen6774
    @christisrisen6774 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Dude looks like Howard Stern, the Psychopathic Version Anyway.

  • @finwine872
    @finwine872 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The sad truth about this condition is that some industries wants and glorify these kind people. I worked in one. They’re dangerous because they see no problem in using retaliation, stalking, and verbal threats around the workplace to get what they want. Bullies and them hang around like a “moth to a flame.”if there’s one in your company, you will likely see employees being encouraged to engage in cruel acts against other employees to prove their loyalty.

  • @jannetee4861
    @jannetee4861 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Very insightful show... Having experienced the harm these people can cause first hand (and their intelligence and how most people can’t see what’s going on) I am just a bit worried about the industrial/political/medical psychopaths that hijack the micro chip implant system and use it for their agenda on healthy people building psychopath armies...

  • @ilikenachosify
    @ilikenachosify 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this is a brilliant film. these researchers have given so much . they are also ethical ! thank you

  • @doctorripply
    @doctorripply 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I'm dying to know what's with Wayne now, couldn't find anything about him, i guess it will remain mystery forever(

    • @jturtle5318
      @jturtle5318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Who's Wayne?

    • @ViciousDelicious-td8jl
      @ViciousDelicious-td8jl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jturtle5318The curly haired weirdo in the video.

  • @HenryHD88
    @HenryHD88 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What disturbed me the most about this crime. Is the sheriffs indifference to Naomis brother taking fast action about his missing sister. Rip Naomi

  • @Mic420m
    @Mic420m 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It starts with family... It ends how the family made it. you can point fingers and make intellectual definitions. But, it starts and ends with the family dynamic

  • @annettehellingrath8288
    @annettehellingrath8288 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I've wondered about the nature and nurture debate for years. Mainly because I had a terrific and happy childhood because I was raised by loving grandparents, while my widowed mother did her own thing, working, dating and spending time with friends. My father died when I was three, or six - depending on who asks my mother that question. I have no memory of the man, so I believe he died when I was three. When I was eleven she got married to a horrible man in a different country, whom she met while on holiday, which meant that the rest of my childhood was very unpleasant and kept me far away from all other family members. I had never really developed a connection to my mother and my stepfather made it clear that he would look only after his son, and that my mother would only look after me. He referred to me as, "Good for nothing." So he basically saw me as someone who was living in his house eating his food. I always thought that I was lucky to have had a good childhood, a good foundation for my first couple of years of life, which had made me a happy, confident little girl, because the next nineteen years or so were negative, to say the least. I survived because I read lots of books, had lots of hobbies and kept out of the way of these two, by spending a lot of time in my room. I did make a lot of decisions for my future while I was very young, such as never getting married and therefore never having children, after seeing first hand what marrying the wrong man can lead to. I never regretted this decision, it actually suits my personality. I like to be alone, since I enjoy reading, writing and working as a graphic artist. I always wondered though how I would have turned out differently if I had stayed with my grandparents instead of going away with my mother. I found out that this option had been discussed, when I came across a letter my mother had written to her then fiancé. I never thought about the father I never had because he was never spoken about, it's like he never existed. There were only two wedding photos of him, which I didn't see until I was an adult, so I never gave the fact that I didn't have a father a second thought. It wasn't until I was much older that I wondered what it would have been like if he had not died? This is also when it occurred to me that I had never met any of my father's family members, they were never part of our lives. I believe this was down to my mother not wanting to have anything to do with them.
    Anyway, I ended up having five dogs in my life, all of them Bouviers. All five dogs had many of the same characteristics in common, but each one had their very own personality. I treated all five dogs the same way, especially the last three, who lived in my house with me over the next thirty years. I noticed that each puppy, I got them each individually at eight weeks old, already had certain behaviors. For example Levi at eight weeks did not like to have his collar removed at night and put back on in the morning. He liked it to just stay on or stay off. He is seven years old now but still hates to have his collar touched. Thinking back I realized that whatever my dogs liked or disliked when they were puppies stayed with them throughout their adult years. You can train a dog to sit, lie down, etc., but some things will stick with them for life. I had my dogs for about ten and a half years each, until they died. I spent a lot of time with them because I worked from home, so I was very close to each dog and learned a lot about them. I started to wonder if the first eight weeks of their lives with the breeders I got them from, had already shaped their likes and dislikes and possibly their personalities. Noah for example was raised by a breeder who kept the puppies separated from their mothers, except for feeding times, in a fenced in enclosure. When I got him home it was obvious that he had never been in a house before because he was scared of everything, furniture, stairs, the TV, etc. He was even scared to go outside for a walk for the first couple of weeks. I also had to earn his trust. Levi came from a different breeder, where he was with his mother and siblings in a house and he wasn't scared of anything. He was lively, social, friendly, loving and cuddly when we went to pick him up and he is still that way to this day. Elsa was dropped off at my house on a rainy Saturday morning by Noah's breeder, but the puppies were from a breeder who had just separated from his wife and he was no longer able to take care of them. She was in a cage in the back of a truck with two of her brothers, also in cages on either side of her. She looked depressed after a very long trip the night before. I took her inside. Noah was still alive at the time and when she saw him she perked up. I fed her and the three of us got in my bed to rest. All three of us fell asleep and when we woke up we went for a walk around the block. During the walk we ran into a fellow dog owner who bent over to pet Elsa who backed away because she was terrified of him. Over the next ten and a half years Elsa backed away from any man who went to touch her. She was the best dog ever though with me, she loved cats and kittens and was an incredible watchdog. I believe that like dogs, humans to a certain extent, are what happens to us during our childhoods, it shapes us in many ways, but that just like dogs we already have our personality traits baked in. So someone who had loving parents will still end up becoming a murderer. I suppose you can learn to change some of the traits your childhood instilled in you, you might be lucky to marry someone who makes you a better person, but you could also end up with someone who has had a terrible upbringing as well and together you will be that couple that nobody wants to have around. My cousin and I often joke about the dysfunctional family we have come from, she being the daughter of my mother's brother, who according to my cousin was no picnic as a father. So the same grandparents who loved and doted on me, raised a son and daughter who both went on to be terrible parents. Both of their children moved as far away from them as possible as soon as they could, in my Uncle's case when he was 19. I'll never forget talking to my mother over lunch one day at my house, when she told me that she had always hated her parents. I was shocked. It turns out that my stepfather had grown up hating his mother, he mentioned this fact quite often. She died when she was quite young, on the other hand he adored his father. It's a wonder that any of us function at all on any level.

  • @bertvosburg558
    @bertvosburg558 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "As you like it", "All the worlds a stage" Shakespeare, and Jung would say he's putting on his "persona". "The aspect of someones character that is presented to and perceived by others." First guy says they can see the change. NOO they see what you can so expertly portray! HA! lets see, charming, manipulative, conning, etc, etc.

  • @jmation108
    @jmation108 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m pretty sure psychopaths have less grey matter in the areas of their brain that produce empathy. Their actual brain is not right, or else they would be treatable.
    They can feel some other emotions, but not normal human emotions.
    I’ve been researching into psychopathy recently, it’s alarming but fascinating. How people are the way they are is so complex.

  • @rayramos8435
    @rayramos8435 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I got into psychology because I could see that the current treatment paradigm based on cognitive behavioral therapy is ineffective. Behavior is based on how one thinks and if you just teach people to behave in a way that nets them benefits without changing what they are thinking then all you are doing is providing an extra tool for subterfuge. I think there is a lot of correlation between addictive thinking and psychopathy. Just like psychopaths very few addicts are helped,but some are. Honestly, I just think the behaviorists have had their day and a new empirical analysis needs to be developed.

  • @FortheBudgies
    @FortheBudgies 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Having grown up with a psychopathic or sociopathic father, these guys could not snow me. I have a huge respect for psychiatry and psychology, but neither can replicate being raised by a psychopath. I don't know how he scored on this scale but being raised by him gave us hypersensitive radar for BS and manipulative behavior.

  • @johannab7715
    @johannab7715 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    So Wayne is basically the real life sideshow Bob 😂

    • @maresdreams8731
      @maresdreams8731 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's what I thought...oopssss

    • @diannemose244
      @diannemose244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hysterical 😂

  • @Islam_makhachev_paidopoirier
    @Islam_makhachev_paidopoirier หลายเดือนก่อน

    His English is very good and the way he speaks is also good. I could listen to him speak all day.