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  • @MattandJulia
    @MattandJulia  23 วันที่ผ่านมา +44

    If you would like to get involved, and share you & your loved ones story, please email us at: business@mattandjulia.co.uk ❤️

    • @annakissed3226
      @annakissed3226 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Julia speak as somone who very nearly not here this evening, there is saying from 'ducky' mallard (David McCullum R.I.P)
      When you're going through Hell - keep going!
      Also
      This is the price of Love, in time it will become bareable, as humans we notice the extreme points. But you will always hurt from her loss. I can cry right now for you for the memories of those I have lost. People who from the moment we met their was never was ever going to be enough time. Please take the time with your family both u Blood and Love, for they are all we ever have, to celebrate the life you and she shared. But most of all, just keep going

  • @sojournerabroad
    @sojournerabroad 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    Julia, my heart aches with you. Having lived in the Former Soviet Union for many years your segments with your gran, cooking sessions, etc were videos I loved! Your love for one another was very apparent. My deepest condolences to you.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @ricequin
    @ricequin 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +110

    I’m sorry for your loss. Please try to remember the good times you shared with your gran and keep her alive in your memories.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @taylorjames464
    @taylorjames464 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +54

    Julia, you said you always wanted to take care of her and give her everything she might need. You did! The time cooking in the kitchen, the phone call about the medicine. The outing when you would visit. The thing to remember is how much you are needed as well by Matt, your sister and brother and your viewers. She will always be your everything. She has been a big part of your channel. You need to grieve and talk. I love the cookbook idea! Please take time to heal. My prayers for you and your family fom Colorado.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for your kinds words of support, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @dweamy1
    @dweamy1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    Oh Julia, I am so so sorry. Your gran knew that she could leave this planet as she could see that you are now grown and able to stand on your own feet, and that you are happy, safe and secure with your husband. Her time was up, and she's now flying free. None of us are guaranteed tomorrow, never mind a long life all we can learn from this is that we only have 'now'. I am so sorry for your loss sweetie. Yes we will all miss her, we loved seeing her on your channel.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much for you kind words, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @juliadawn33
    @juliadawn33 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I am so heartbroken for you that such a huge piece of your life is gone. Your grandma sounds like a very special person and so important to you. I think it's a beautiful idea to create a recipe book to commemorate grandmas from around the world. That sounds like the perfect way to honor her and others.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words and your support ❤️

  • @michaelihle5264
    @michaelihle5264 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Thank you Julia for sharing your gran with us over the years. She was truly a special human being. Your pain is evidence of the love she shared with you. Many of us are praying for you and your family, and we hope that your gift of sharing her with us, will provide some comforting memories for you to look back on, in time.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @Marilyn12346
    @Marilyn12346 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I’m in tears for you Julia, I’m so sorry. Your Gran was very proud of you, I could tell, and see the love you both had for each other! Big hugs 🫂

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @ChoraNym
    @ChoraNym 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I'm so glad that you've been able to document and save so many precious memories with your Gran. You'll be able to introduce her to everyone who follows after. She'll never be lost. Or forgotten.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @MrBobbyBrown2006
    @MrBobbyBrown2006 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Julia. No words can fix anything right now. In the future months and especially years from now you will have a time capsule of video footage and experiences of her that will always be here. One of the best decisions you could have ever made in your life was starting this channel and journey with Matt. I don't know if you believe in destiny, but it sure feels like the path you're on has given you an unintended future gift in the loving footage you have of her to remember. Would that have happened without this channel, probably not. It's her future hug to you anytime you miss her.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for such a lovely message, I really appreciate it. I never thought about it that way, you are right. Thank you very much ❤️

  • @JaniceStrawn-hf2sp
    @JaniceStrawn-hf2sp 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I have found your channel over the last year, while I nursed my ill husband, then buried him. Having my dear little grandbabies, and you, have helped me so greatly. I am now moving from grief to gratitude for our lives together! My maternal grandma was my special person in my life too! Now I am the special person to my grandbabies. I sit crying for you. XoFrom Missouri USA

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your support, I really appreciate it ❤️
      I'm so grateful for your message, I can't put it into words. You giving me hope and purpose.
      I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Sending lots of hugs and love to you ❤️
      I wanted to say that if you would like to be a part of our project and share your grandmother's (or your own as you are a wonderful grandmother now as well ) recipes and her life, please email us at business@mattandjulia.co.uk ❤️

  • @jamie9364
    @jamie9364 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Oh Julia. This resonates, though it does not need too resonate for me to feel empathy for your loss. My great aunt who lived till 93, and died over a year ago, was like a mother, father, grandmother to me. Even when I moved overseas, she called me and I called her. Until she couldn't anymore. I don't think I have truly proccessed my loss yet and seeing your pain- I still feel somewhat disconnected from mine. I am not ready but I am still tearing up for you. You are sharing what grief can feel like and I know this is not easy- but I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty here. Thank you for sharing. A big virtual hug from across the sea. I hope you can make this cookbook a reality. Thanks for sharing your grandmother with us on here. It is a gift we even got to meet her through your videos. Thank you too, for emphasising how extrodinary being 'ordinary' can be. I actually needed to hear that. Wishing you healing on this journey. Thinking of you all during this time.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for your lovely message and your kind words of support, I really appreciate it! I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. sending lots of love and hugs to you! ❤️❤️❤️
      (If you would like to share your auntie's recipes and her life with us, please email us at business@mattandjulia.co.uk )

  • @lindathalman3506
    @lindathalman3506 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Sharing this is so strong of you. We were in that extraordinary Uzbek tour (unforgettable) which you joined so soon after your loss. May all those who follow Julia and Matt, do know how wonderful they are when you get to meet them in person! Julia and Matt are as wonderfully warm, kind, grounded, human, honest as you can imagine. They are rock stars. I'm so so amazed that I got to meet you both and yes, we love our grandmothers and grandfathers ever so much. Stay strong! With hugs from France and I know from all of us who were on the outstanding Uzbeck tour. From the bottom of my heart, thank you Julia and Matt for being who you are!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much Linda from the bottom of my heart, I really appreciate your kind words and your support ❤️

  • @gracietilert8952
    @gracietilert8952 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    I am so very sorry for your terrible loss. Your heart must be shattered. Sending thoughts of comfort and peace.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @julien.8277
    @julien.8277 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a Grandparent is so hard. I miss both of mine every day. I love the idea of sharing photos, stories and a recipe. Such a beautiful way to pay tribute.💜

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @johnscott7210
    @johnscott7210 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    My condolences on the loss of your gran, none of my grandparents are living, it is hard. I know she had such a great impact on your life. She'd want you to go on.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, that's the thought I'm trying to keep in my head all the time ❤️

  • @brewsandboards6439
    @brewsandboards6439 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I’m so sorry for your loss, Julia. I absolutely loved watching your videos when you visited your sweet Gran. Thank you so much for sharing her with us. Her memory will live on forever.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @annecaunce
    @annecaunce 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Sweet Julia, I'm so deeply sorry for you and your family. I've always loved the videos you've shared with your Gran in them and the love between you was evident. I have the same bond with my granddaughter as she lives with me and when it's my time to go, the last thing I want is for her not to be able to move on. I know she'll miss me, but i want her to hang on to the love we shared and remember the things I've taught her. I'm pretty sure that your Gran would feel the same and that she'd be sad to know how much you're struggling. It's very early days and you're in shock and i think the rawness will wear off and you'll be able to properly grieve. Take your time and do it your way, with support from Matt and your family. I never knew my grandparents and that's why I've vowed to be the best one I can for my granddaughter, but I don't ever want her to suffer like i see you are now. Be kind to yourself my darling and you will smile again,I promise. Sending you so much love. ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️
      We would love to to share a story from your life and a recipe that you like to make for or with your grandkids. Only if you would like to share it of course ❤️
      this is our email (if you would like to share) business@mattandjulia.co.uk

  • @crisinthemtns
    @crisinthemtns 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Oh, sweet Julia, I am sending you so much love and a big hug from North Carolina. Our Grandma's leave a mark on our hearts like no other. I am so sorry you lost her and your world is a bit dimmer. Thank you for sharing her with all of us.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @cindyamaru3959
    @cindyamaru3959 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m so sorry, Julia! Your grandmother was a true gem. She brought you many valuable things. I know your whole family will miss her dearly.

  • @lauriebecker36
    @lauriebecker36 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Losing a loved one is so awful. So sorry for your loss. Someday the grief you’re feeling will be easier. Just hold the love you had for one another in your heart❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much ❤️

  • @kimberlygatz2381
    @kimberlygatz2381 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I’m so sorry for this loss . I am so glad you went and were with your family during this time. It is important to grieve and to have been able to do that with family. Grief is horrible in the beginning… like tidal waves crashing over us. The waves will begin to grow smaller and less frequent. You will always have Gran in your heart and your memories will become very cherished. When I lost my mama in 2020, I felt like my anchor had been cut loose and I was drifting alone. ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words and you support ❤️

  • @walpoleandworcester
    @walpoleandworcester 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Sorry for your loss and condolences to your family, Julia!

  • @Deathwing2001
    @Deathwing2001 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I’m so sorry Julia. I always liked when your Grandma was in the videos, she seemed like a great lady. My Grandma is 90 so I’m dreading the day she is gone as well.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you very much, please give your gran a kiss from me ❤️

    • @Deathwing2001
      @Deathwing2001 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MattandJulia thanks, I will 😊

  • @kathleenHS
    @kathleenHS 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed watching the videos of you and your gran together. Thank you for sharing her with us.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you very much ❤️

  • @ll1602
    @ll1602 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So sorry for your loss. I think the book is a great idea 🌼

  • @ginnyyildirim2071
    @ginnyyildirim2071 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Julia you are such a brave person for doing this video in your deepest hours of grief. To share your sadness and sense of loss will open others’ hearts. Your dearest Nan, a child of war, was able to travel the world with you and Matt vicariously. She saw all the places you experienced through your eyes,stories and videos. What a gift you gave her. Watching the videos in which you visited her in Siberia so clearly showed the love you had between you. My wish for you is that those memories can help you through this grief. Be gentle with yourself. Your plan to honor her memory is a wonderful one. She is so very proud of you I’m sure. Lots of love to you.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much for your kind words and you support, I really appreciate it. Sending lots of love to you ❤️

  • @izibear4462
    @izibear4462 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I just heard about it from my son who also subscribes. We send condolences. As a mum, all I wanted to do was reach out and hug you. May you all have peace. 🙂

  • @ericmiddleton8367
    @ericmiddleton8367 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Julia, I am so sorry for your loss. I know that the pain you are feeling now is overwhelming but I need to tell you that although you won’t “get over” your loss you will learn to cope and live with it. I know that at this point you may think that it won’t happen but I promise you it will happen; it will be slow but it will happen.
    I lost my mum 12 months ago (April 29) and it has been very hard. Lots of tears and guilt (for no reason); some days were ok (and I felt guilty about that) ok but then the pain of grief would overwhelm me. Matt will help you just as my partner did; take all of the love and hugs you are offered. I spoke to a counsellor as well and it has helped me.
    You are the good loving person you are today because of your gran and how you showed your love to her. Whatever you do, remember that. x

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your wonderful message, full of love and kindness. I really appreciate it, means the world to me ❤️xxx

  • @carolraec
    @carolraec 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My deepest condolences to you for the loss of your lovely Gran Please remember all the happy times you had with her. I will miss seeing her on your videos in Kemerovo Sending hugs xxxx

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @MutluSonmez
    @MutluSonmez 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Çok üzüldüm. Başınız sağ olsun. Tanrı geride kalan sizlere sabırlar versin. Büyükannenizi eski videolarınızda görmüştüm, çok tatlı ve sevecen bir insandı. Sonsuz uykusunda ışıklar içinde uyusun. Acını bizimle paylaştın ve acılar paylaşıldıkça azalır. Tekrar sabırlar diliyorum. Yeni projenizin de başarılı olmasını ümit ediyorum.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Tessekur ederim! Really appreciate your comment! ❤️

  • @grahamcoombe5461
    @grahamcoombe5461 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My heartfelt condolences, very sorry for your loss. If there is a next life, I very much hope you both see each other again.

  • @edunbar3244
    @edunbar3244 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m so so sorry. Sending love and hugs.

  • @andyctube
    @andyctube 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Julia. I lost my nan just over a year ago and everything you've said about your relationship with yours resonates with me so much. She was a chef. She would've loved your idea so much.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your support and so sorry for your loss ❤️
      I wanted to say that if you would like to be a part of our project and share your grandmother's recipes and her life (especially as she was a chef), please email us at business@mattandjulia.co.uk ❤️

  • @TaylorFjetland
    @TaylorFjetland วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't lose insight on what your gran would have wanted for you. Tough times dont last. Tough people do. She would be proud of you. Loss is the hardest thing to deal with. Especially when it can put you in a tough spot emotionally. I dealt with my mom's loss at 17. Im 34, and it's still not easy to this day! Keep your head up high, and always remember she lives in your heart. That's what people who we have loss would want!

  • @user-st3nk9ui9j
    @user-st3nk9ui9j 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I'm very sorry for your loss Julia and thank you for sharing your lovely Gran with us. I hope the moments you've filmed with her will be a great comfort to you.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @katrinlausch3078
    @katrinlausch3078 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sending strength, warmth and hugs to you. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @emilkabielka2213
    @emilkabielka2213 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    i am so sorry for your loss... i have lost my ones at ealy age as well as my mum. it takes time to come around after all this greve. Your idea is perfect and will help you and others to remember , over and over again, the life they had... To tell a story thru food is the one to remember...

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @jaimhaas5170
    @jaimhaas5170 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I'm so glad you have all those sweet memories to call upon. Many of us never experienced that. You are strong and she is part of that strength.

  • @louispaine5307
    @louispaine5307 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So very sad news.
    Sending you love light and healing ! Julia ❤

  • @nightnurse2543
    @nightnurse2543 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Very sorry for your loss Julia brave of you to share this 😢Very best wishes to you.Take care ❤ Diane

  • @tinylions
    @tinylions 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    That is a lot, Julia. Please take care. I’m so sorry to hear this. Grandma was so much love, on this channel and in your conversations. I’m of similar situations, although I’m in my mid-30s and my gran is still living. I’m flying internationally to see her. Thank you for reminding me how precious this love is. ❤❤❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your kind words. Please hug a kiss your grandma from me ❤️

  • @coby1111
    @coby1111 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    God Bless you all….You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers xxx

  • @Paysoncougarfan.7885
    @Paysoncougarfan.7885 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Julia, try and focus on the faith that your Gran is now united with all of her loved ones who have preceded her and her happiness to be reunited with them. It is my faith that you will be reunited with your Gran as well, that families are forever. The plan of happiness is real.

  • @tenishabaker6986
    @tenishabaker6986 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Im soooo sorry for your lost my heart breaks for you.😢 I understand grief I lost two best friends in one day 2 years ago both sets of grandparents also😥😭

  • @FIONA12100
    @FIONA12100 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I am so sorry to hear about your gran Julia, she looked like a lovely lady and you could see the beautiful relationship you had with each other. I think the book idea is wonderful and I would definitely buy it! Sending you lots of love at this sad time - Fiona ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much Fiona ❤️

  • @breccalou
    @breccalou 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Julia, my Gramma died 20 years ago when i was 26. She was amazing and i miss her so much. Your raw emotion brought me to tears. I am still reeling from my feelings. You will never stop missing your Gran and nothing will fill the void she has left. The thing that you can do to have comfort in her absence is live your life ina way that honors her and treat people the way she treated you. Spread her love to everyone you meet and she will live forever.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, for your lovely words! So sorry for your loss too ❤️ Sending lots of love xxx

  • @olivierbiv
    @olivierbiv 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Condoléances. So sorry for you. ❤️

  • @leilagomulka5690
    @leilagomulka5690 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m so so so sorry for your loss. You love so much . I’m sure you are just like your grandma. 💔💔💔

  • @heathermichelle1983
    @heathermichelle1983 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Oh sweetheart. I am so saddened to hear of her passing. I know you love her so much. She was a wonderful woman and anyone could see how much she loved and cared for you. Holding space for you and thinking of you.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @user-km7vn3wj8i
    @user-km7vn3wj8i 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Very sorry to hear of your loss. Praying for you and your family.

  • @phyllishershkowitz3806
    @phyllishershkowitz3806 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My deepest condolences to you Julia. I enjoyed the times you would visit your Gran, and seeing your Gran cooking with you. It reminded me of my Gran. This is a very painful time for you. Everyone grieves differently, but know you are not alone. I send you virtual hugs! I love the idea of a recipe book. Take as much time as you need to deal❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, really appreciate your lovely words ❤️ xxxx

  • @jjh8299
    @jjh8299 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My heart goes out for you! Sometimes there are simply no words to say.

  • @ChelseaWins
    @ChelseaWins 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Deepest condolences and so sorry to hear of your loss. It’s very hard now but time will heal. Take care!

  • @carolcraig2580
    @carolcraig2580 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So very sorry, Julia. Sending a hug from the U.S. I loved and miss my grandma so much too. ❤

  • @debradavis6572
    @debradavis6572 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sorry for your loss. Sending my love and many hugs to you.

  • @sophierichardson8910
    @sophierichardson8910 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ohh Julia, so so much love and huge hugs to you. My deepest condolences xxx

  • @basildavidson4597
    @basildavidson4597 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My heart goes out to you in this time of your great loss. I think your idea of celebrating both your grand mother and all grand mothers is wonderful. All strength to you.❤🙏🏻

  • @jacklynrae4005
    @jacklynrae4005 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss, I’ve loved the videos with your gran. You were very lucky to have each other, life is too short. Thank you for sharing with the world, i love your cookbook idea. ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, really appreciate your kind words! ❤️

  • @kevinlowry4938
    @kevinlowry4938 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Prayers for you Julia and your family, stay strong.

  • @maryr8364
    @maryr8364 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So very sorry for your loss, Julia.

  • @asablomqvist5076
    @asablomqvist5076 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I´m so sorry for your loss, Julia.

  • @AfterlifeNL098
    @AfterlifeNL098 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so sorry for your loss. I loved the videos you shared with your gran, and family. Sending lots of love to you

  • @JAMMAJ-cq2bl
    @JAMMAJ-cq2bl 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am sorry for your loss Julia. May you overcome this moment of grief soon. God bless your family🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @johndavies5184
    @johndavies5184 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.

  • @travelingfoodie794
    @travelingfoodie794 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So sorry , for your loss Condolences to your family!
    watching the love between you guys. And watching her cook was amazing.❤️‍🩹🥹🥲

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @beverleydanziger4099
    @beverleydanziger4099 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you Julia for being able to share your grief with us. Being open and vulnerable and allowing yourself to feel the pain and loss of a loved one is part of the healing journey.
    I always loved the videos of when you visited your Gran and when you would cook together, it was so beautiful to watch. Allow yourself the time and space to just "be" and to grieve her loss in your life. There is no right or wrong way to come to terms with such a deep loss.
    My husband died in January and we would have celebrated our 31st anniversary yesterday,
    I chose to spend the day reflecting on and celebrating what a wonderful man, husband and father he was and our lovely life together. Gratitude is a great healer.
    Julia you have shared your Gran with all of us and our lives have been enriched by this,
    I am wrapping you in a blanket of love. Be kind and gentle with yourself.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your lovely message, I really appreciate it❤️ I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. sending lots of love to you!

  • @JM-vh7oc
    @JM-vh7oc 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing your Gran with us in your videos - I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @LichbournesOfficial
    @LichbournesOfficial 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I'm so sorry for your loss Julia ❤🙏

  • @peteryellowcloud3018
    @peteryellowcloud3018 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My dear sister,
    My deepest condolences on your loss of your Unci.
    I pray for peace of the Holy Spirit in your life.
    It hurts I know,
    I lost all my elders.
    But God has always been there for me.
    So I pray that you
    May be lifted up and made
    Whole in Jesus name.
    In our brokenness he becomes our strength.
    Peace to you and yours 💝
    Stay strong 💝💝💝

  • @halinak4797
    @halinak4797 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Aww Julia, so sorry to hear this sad news. My condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace. Your gran was such a huge part of many of your videos that I hope you will at some point make a recopie book with all that she taught you. Sending love ❤️ xx

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, really appreciate your lovely words, the recipe book is on the way ❤️ xxxx

  • @icare6076
    @icare6076 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Such deep grief, Julia. ❤ From such a beautiful love with your gran.

  • @wendykohi7465
    @wendykohi7465 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ohhhh sweet heart, I'm so sorry for your loss ❤
    My heart breaking for you an Matt. Sending you both all the love in the world ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @joannem6878
    @joannem6878 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Oh Julia I'm so sorry for your loss. I could see the love you and your gran had for each other and how happy you both were when you went to visit. What you are feeling now is normal. When we lose someone close it can be like the world looks different at first, sort of empty is the best way I can explain it. I will pray for you to receive the Lord's comfort and peace.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much ❤️

  • @totolondon
    @totolondon 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for sharing this !!

  • @annem5899
    @annem5899 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry for your loss sending a hug to you x

  • @lories8076
    @lories8076 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find a way to stay close to your family and heal. She was an amazing woman and will be greatly missed!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @user-es2pb6tw8x
    @user-es2pb6tw8x 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So sorry to here of your loss Julia, my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this sad time, I know it is difficult but think of all the great times you had with your grandma, take care both of you .

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @lenochka1735
    @lenochka1735 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you and your family so much love. We could all see how much you love your grandma in all your videos. Xxx

  • @martijnrosenbottel3616
    @martijnrosenbottel3616 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My condolences for you Matt and your family, ❤ from Amsterdam !

  • @JohnLvideos
    @JohnLvideos 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I was only 6 when my Granma died so I only remember vague memories of her and my Grandad died before I was born but I would have love to have met him as my mum adored him and named me after him. But we have to live the life we are given and make the most of life with those we share it with. My deepest sympathies with you Julia life will get easier and you have got Matt by your side to support you.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @EfeSafakSengul
    @EfeSafakSengul 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Julia, I'm so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace 🙏 These losses remind us of life's brevity and the importance of cherishing our time together before it slips away

  • @anagoncalves82
    @anagoncalves82 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending you a big hug and a lot of love

  • @marcpaloma2262
    @marcpaloma2262 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Julia, sending you and your family abundant love and hugs as you experience this terrible loss. Thank you for sharing your wonderful gran with your subscribers, and also the world. It was so very clear to see what a wonderful woman she was, and how much you loved her. Her memories will live on in your channel, and for that I am grateful. ❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much Marc, your love means the world, sending it back at you! ❤️ xxxx

  • @TheEddyrose1
    @TheEddyrose1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My deepest condoleances for your loss, my grandmother raised me because my mother did not want me and I did not know my father. My wife also passed away recently and your life changes forever, time does not heal, try to remember the good times you had with your gran, we are many who care a lot for you and love your videos, take care and know we are with you in thoughts and prayers.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much ❤️ so sorry to hear about your loss.

  • @swdist68
    @swdist68 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sorry for the loss of your Grandmother Julia :(

  • @Peshiolini
    @Peshiolini 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Julia i lived with my grandparents for half of my upbringing....when my grandad died at 92 years of age he was so religious he died of pancreatic cancer 6 month then gone, I felt not bad as I thought he lived a very long life he was happy, he gave and taught me so much that if felt happy to have known this man in my life that made changes and kept me in a stable condition...he bought me my first car and I loved my grandfather so much after my nan died....I felt I cook him nice meal clean the house and just look after him and I gave him that and I know I gave my best and that is what you have done with you gran gave your best and there should not be sadness just happiness because you where a big part or her life and she was a big part of your life growing up so celebrate death and think of her in another way she was very old like my grandad and I thought he would live until 100 he did not smoke or drink etc and he had a wonderful life so I celebrate his wonderful life and do not be sad please death is part of life and evolving et just think of good thing now and you will feel better

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much sharing your and your grandfathers story with me, it means the world. If you would like to share him and his cooking in the book, please send us an email - business@mattandjulia.co.uk ❤️

  • @adriwthomas
    @adriwthomas 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh I’m so sorry for your loss! I lost my grandmother recently and it is such a devastating time. You were obviously such a wonderful person in her life and she in yours. She always seemed so sweet in your videos. Hugs and prayers during this difficult time!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you very much for your support! So sorry for your loss, sending you lots of love ❤️

  • @johnlewis1078
    @johnlewis1078 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sending my condolences (((virtual hugs))) The loss of a loved one is painful, but the memories are a comfort we have. Be safe out there…

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much (hugging you back) ❤️

  • @angelastevens4724
    @angelastevens4724 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So sorry for your loss, to lose someone you love so much, it's like a piece of your heart is has been broken off, but in its place is a piece of your loved ones heart, this means where ever you go , they are always in your heart ❤️ 😢

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I really appreciate your kind words ❤️

  • @dlawn19
    @dlawn19 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Oh, Julia, my heart is broken for you. Your gran touched so many lives. I loved her though I never met her. My grandmom passed almost 40 years ago and I still miss her and think about her everyday. They don’t leave us. Not really. Much love to you and your family. Thank you for sharing the gift of your beautiful Gran. 🤍

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, and I'm so sorry for your loss, no matter how long ago it may or may not have been. Sending you lots of love ❤️ xxxx

  • @andersfalck6633
    @andersfalck6633 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Deep and warm feelings for your great loss, both Julia and Matt, and your family. We almost met her here on the channel too, and I can strongly relate to the sudden loss of such warm and close family. All I have seen on the screen or in your eyes and voice now, tells me she is indeed in a good spot of the Paradise now, and she will let you know with good emotions now and then, when you see things or fragments that recalls of her. Thank you for sharing Julia, Matt around a bit in the backgrounds but oh so importanlty too. Peace and Love!

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much Anders, really appreciate your kind words! ❤

  • @allenwhitehead6561
    @allenwhitehead6561 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    so sorry for your loss Julia. I feel your pain, I lost my mum one month ago, she will never leave you,she will always be with you in your heart , like my mum is with me in my heart ❤

    • @elisabonetti408
      @elisabonetti408 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your support ❤️ I'm so sorry for your loss!

  • @lynlandham3779
    @lynlandham3779 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Oh Julia. I am so sorry for your loss. It was always clear how much you loved each other. You made her happy. I hope you can soon find comfort and peace in your memories. Bless you baby. We love you. And Matt and your sister, too.

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much, I love you too ❤️

  • @danielleingarfill5139
    @danielleingarfill5139 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh Julia what a heartbreaking video. So hard to watch you so upset. Nan's are very special and I grew up with my nan and grandad from the age of 10, my grandparents were so precious to me. Like you they were not just grandparents but like my parents too. My nan taught me to knit! One of my fondest memories as a child is shelling peas at the kitchen table that my grandad had grown in his allotment ❤ give yourself time to grieve. The recipe book is a beautiful idea and I think your gran would love it ❣️

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you so much for your support and your kind words, I really appreciate it ❤️
      Please email us at business@mattandjulia.co.uk, if you would like to be a part of our project and share a recipe from your grandmother ❤️

  • @andybaker2456
    @andybaker2456 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm so very sorry. I know exactly how you're feeling, I lost my incredible mum two years ago at the age of 89. It sounds as though I had the same relationship with my mum that you did with your gran. She was my world, my rock, she knew me better than anyone else possibly ever could, she always knew exactly what to say to me to make everything better. She was my best friend and was all I had. So much of what you say rings true. The world is no longer the same, everything feels wrong. Yes, people say that time heals, but I'm yet to find that to be the case. It's true that the tears come less often, but the emotions and feelings stay strong. Sending you courage in the hope that in some small way, it helps you to deal with this incredibly difficult time. My thoughts are with you. 🙏

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, really appreciate your lovely words ❤️ Im so sorry to hear about your Mum, sending you all the love I can! xxxx

  • @shirleymayes9817
    @shirleymayes9817 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Julia, I am so sorry for your loss. You have your memories and you still have her on your TH-cam videos. This is hard at the moment and I would like to say it gets better. Am thinking of you and your family at this time. Xx

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much ❤️

  • @jennifers1123
    @jennifers1123 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Oh, Julia. I’m so sorry for your great loss. I will pray for peace for you, and your family. It was so obvious to anyone watching your videos how much love your gran had for you, and how much you love her. There will be a piece of her in each and every trip, and video, and recipe you create going forward. Sending you so much love and prayers for strength. -Jen

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much, means the world to me ❤️

  • @kymthep
    @kymthep 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Im sorry for your loss. I've enjoyed and love the videos you did with your gran😢 those were such sweet loving moments. Im glad you were able to capture it on video and cherish it. Feeling your heartbreak all the way from TX USA❤❤

    • @MattandJulia
      @MattandJulia  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you very much, I really appreciate your support ❤️

  • @stevebullard3728
    @stevebullard3728 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Grandmother in 1989. I still miss her every day. Take solace in the wonderful memories you have. Bless you.