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  • Season 5, Episode 17 - Muller v. Robinson: A Texas woman comes to court with hopes of leaving with a father who will walk her down the aisle in her upcoming wedding.
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  • @classicstorm
    @classicstorm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2042

    Mother needs to stop with all the side noise because you weren't there either...the child grew up in the system...

    • @ariyoakinlosotu6781
      @ariyoakinlosotu6781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      The girl said she practically raised herself

    • @tatiannadaniel496
      @tatiannadaniel496 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Right. Why was she even there??!!!!

    • @inezgusa01
      @inezgusa01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      I think that the judge realised, as I did, that the mother is mentally unstable and she was polite not to bring it up. I guess that is why the child was taken to foster care.

    • @Umbilal271
      @Umbilal271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      classicstorm very true

    • @mom1stalways114
      @mom1stalways114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Facts

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1312

    Whyyyy was the child in foster care???? Is what I want to know!! Why didn’t anybody ask her mother where SHE was???? This story got some big old holes.

    • @sophiasmith5949
      @sophiasmith5949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      is none of any ones business the show is about establishing paternity for the father not the mother. Mother is not on trial

    • @elizabethpope7079
      @elizabethpope7079 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jay George nn

    • @dontrellsmith8632
      @dontrellsmith8632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      On drugs somewhere 9 times out of 10

    • @tonihlove
      @tonihlove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      do you know tha people can loose their children because things get hard and they cant afford to pay bills and get homeless.. watch good deeds.. smh

    • @inezgusa01
      @inezgusa01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I think that the judge realised, as I did, that the mother is mentally unstable and she was polite not to bring it up. I guess that is why the child was taken to foster care.

  • @magicworld3242
    @magicworld3242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1179

    She Wants To Blame Her Father For Everything, But Her Mother Is Just As Awful.

    • @mildredagunda3555
      @mildredagunda3555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True

    • @nurudeenadenekanmuraino7443
      @nurudeenadenekanmuraino7443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agree 👍

    • @inezgusa01
      @inezgusa01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I think that the judge realised, as I did, that the mother is mentally unstable and she was polite not to bring it up. I guess that is why the child was taken to foster care.

    • @tembamhangami3655
      @tembamhangami3655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      MOM at fault too

    • @mom1stalways114
      @mom1stalways114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Well she blamed both but she is in contact with mom so that's why it seems like it just on him. But mom had issues going on.

  • @teachermichelle9632
    @teachermichelle9632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1021

    This woman is such an example for all young people! She beat the odds and broke the mould of what she was born into. She should be so proud of herself!

    • @Drsirkin
      @Drsirkin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where was mom

    • @mudhakirudauda7933
      @mudhakirudauda7933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Really proud of herself coz she stood by herself and make her proud for her and her country.

    • @samanthanickson6478
      @samanthanickson6478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Michelle Engelamm problem is she's got this family hole in heart so big, she won't be happy until it's filled. what she doesn't realize, and i hope she eventually does, is that you carry family with you as long as you have friends and those that really care for you, around you. your skin folk, ain't necessarily your kin folk. i wish i could give some of mine back!

    • @jeanthree
      @jeanthree 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      However she has a nasty attitude. My mother grew up in the systrm and she does not have her attitude

    • @snow4e23
      @snow4e23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am so proud of her.

  • @jesuzee11
    @jesuzee11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +731

    Why is the Mother sitting there acting all high and mighty and appauled when the woman said she was basically an orphan growing up.

    • @sophiasmith5949
      @sophiasmith5949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      because the show is about establishing father paternity she wasn't on trial.. why is it that some people always look at the wrong issues concerning a specific purpose?

    • @allybean8885
      @allybean8885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You're right I noticed that to the girl was in foster care for a reason.

    • @tinarussell6656
      @tinarussell6656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree with you. Mama was probably in jail and came out wanting to start life anew.

    • @lifeofjas5943
      @lifeofjas5943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tina Russell agreed

    • @assaultislove
      @assaultislove 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Sophia Smith mama was either in jail and/or on drugs. Her goofy, inappropriate laugh tee makes me thinks she’s kind of off mentally

  • @adirayasharahla984
    @adirayasharahla984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2274

    Everyone wants to demonize the father, but what about the mother? Why was she in Foster care?

    • @NYAZWoman
      @NYAZWoman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      That's exactly what I thought. Where's mom? I don't think her father cares enough about her to be the dad she wants and needs.

    • @fcook24
      @fcook24 6 ปีที่แล้ว +161

      That’s exactly what I’m saying no one ask the mother why was she even in Foster care in the first place and the mother up there like this man is so bad smdh

    • @shelbyvan
      @shelbyvan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      Yesssssss. The mother up in there acting like she was a good mother. At least he went and got her

    • @carultch
      @carultch 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Didn't you get the memo? Men who aren't ready to be fathers when they have accidental children are selfish lazy deadbeats. Women who aren't ready to be mothers when they have accidental children, are exercising their right to choose.

    • @shelbyvan
      @shelbyvan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      carultch and this is unfortunate

  • @AlleeeeHooop
    @AlleeeeHooop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    "Cause when we think we are unworthy, we act like we are unworthy, and we block our own blessings!" PRAISE BREAK!!

  • @ms.clarkslearninghangout1253
    @ms.clarkslearninghangout1253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    Mom standing there like she a great mom! Why was the child in foster care anyway. Blame everyone for letting this child down. Great on her that she made it!

    • @positiveelegance286
      @positiveelegance286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      LMBO! 🤓 Right! Mom looks like she may have dibbled in the street life ...drugs possibly.

    • @30teriann
      @30teriann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you. She was shaking her head saying yes while the daughter was saying she felt she was treated differently when that man took her in from foster care. I haven't finished the video yet. But I'm like, how would u know? U wasn't there mom. She didn't even know him until he took her from foster care. So what was u doing mom that this girl was in foster care to begin with?

    • @bettitamas93
      @bettitamas93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Because worst moms think they do the greatest and the great moms always think they could do better.. This Lady is the perfect example for this. I really hated her attitude. Awful

    • @detrajackson5992
      @detrajackson5992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Imjust Sayin thank you! I was wondering the same EXACT thing!! She was shaking her head, laughing or crying I am not sure which but, I would like to know WHY was she in foster care??

    • @HeIsKJW
      @HeIsKJW 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly that’s what I’m confused about!!!

  • @lifeofjas5943
    @lifeofjas5943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Both parents are accountable. The mom standing there like she hasn't done anything. Why was your daughter in foster care?

    • @beegee6
      @beegee6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LifeOf Jas yeah.. at the beginning i thought the mother has passed away cos no one mentioned her.. who is she to stand there blame the father

  • @whatsgood4685
    @whatsgood4685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    Bottom Line!!
    Psalms 129:10 "When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up."

    • @kiss4ever610
      @kiss4ever610 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      amen

    • @CyeOutsider
      @CyeOutsider 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Foster care took her up.

    • @zamariametcalf1012
      @zamariametcalf1012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Psalms 129 only goes to vs 8...

    • @altagraciacr1142
      @altagraciacr1142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LOL

    • @arielparadise2229
      @arielparadise2229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is true I can testify to this my moma left me when I was a baby👶 and my dad was in pen ⛓️ God took care of me very well when I look back I can say wow thank you Lord 🙌💕

  • @wikzaotearoa9592
    @wikzaotearoa9592 6 ปีที่แล้ว +664

    My fave line: “these results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics, and they read as follows”

  • @lisaharper8790
    @lisaharper8790 6 ปีที่แล้ว +523

    why put everything on the father where was mom. and when the son testified on her behavior I believed him

    • @seanwooldridge5326
      @seanwooldridge5326 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lisa Harper so do you wear Avia socks

    • @cindygirl8849
      @cindygirl8849 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Lisa Harper I do as well.. I think she was a troubled child who had already been through a lot which is probably why she was taken from her mother and placed in foster care. No one is addressing why she was taken From her mother in the first place

    • @KayepeeR
      @KayepeeR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I did too she said she was troubled. But that don’t mean his wife wasn’t telling her she’s not his child. She probably
      Did feel like she didn’t belong.

    • @khadijayussuf6267
      @khadijayussuf6267 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lisa Harper I believed him too

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Khadija Yussuf It doesn't matter. She said she was troubled. I know how some step mothers treat their children better than the step child. What a dirty mother! This girl was treated badly. It is obvious!

  • @quitecontrary23
    @quitecontrary23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    I understand the deep psychological need for a relationship with both biological parents. But personally, my common sense trumps that subconscious need. If you treated me poorly and denied me my whole life, I don't want you at my special life moments! Definitely not to walk me down no aisle!

    • @gidgethrobowski3860
      @gidgethrobowski3860 6 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      quitecontrary23
      Best comment, I feel the same way. I say this, but my mother treated me like trash, couple of months ago, she passed away. Although I forgave her due to my Christian beliefs, it still hurts that someone that was my mother was so psychologically depraved and couldn't love me. But thank God for God and for others who gave me love. Yet I still believe this young lady was better off without this guy and her mom because they seemingly aren't taking responsibility for their actions.

    • @quitecontrary23
      @quitecontrary23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Gidget Hrobowski I'm glad you forgave her. Forgiveness lifts a load off our own shoulders. I usually forgive people and keep my boundaries up, unless they go out of their way to do right consistently to stay in my life. But not many people will do that work after they do wrong, so I forgive and keep it moving.

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      quitecontrary23 Same here.

    • @keithezell8217
      @keithezell8217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That would definitely be my words to him

    • @keithezell8217
      @keithezell8217 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And lets not let the mother make it how are you in foster care...but your dad paid child support

  • @candy5760
    @candy5760 6 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Why was she in foster care with 2 parents

    • @lateashawoods7427
      @lateashawoods7427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Drugs.

    • @heathercombs8170
      @heathercombs8170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know right!!!!

    • @brownin329
      @brownin329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was probably acting out and out of control so the mother had no choice but to get help. You can still see your child in foster care.

    • @brownin329
      @brownin329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also, foster care could be that she lived with a neighbor or relatives, but she would have said so.

    • @SandfieldBunny84
      @SandfieldBunny84 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thatd a great question.

  • @TexasPinklady
    @TexasPinklady 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I'm curious about her mother.
    The brother said that everyone had counseling to prepare them for Thurmeka coming to live there; but did Thurmeka receive counseling?

    • @p0migranit700
      @p0migranit700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was looking for this comment

  • @OdyneTalks
    @OdyneTalks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Thurmeka that name was enough proof for me

    • @firebrandsgirl
      @firebrandsgirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And Thurmarcus. hahaha

    • @EAUGUSTA1
      @EAUGUSTA1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nella Gomez 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @thompsonh4
      @thompsonh4 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nella Gomez 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣

    • @MSGJD2
      @MSGJD2 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @elsugga3736
    @elsugga3736 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Getting rejected as a kid is very heart shattering

    • @ejdean57
      @ejdean57 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then blame the mother. They are the ones planting doubt!! Strange how women can have male friends,but men can't have female friends.

  • @kimberlyfelix3320
    @kimberlyfelix3320 6 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Who else notices all women who come out in this show have nice eyebrows including the judge 😂, their makeup artist is on point 💯 their makeup looks good

  • @serenblodwyn7914
    @serenblodwyn7914 6 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Dad doesn't make sense. All those years ago, when dad took the little girl from foster care and placed her into his home, WHY didn't he arrange a DNA test ?

    • @shirleyjohnson1440
      @shirleyjohnson1440 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Susan Fuller what about her mother where was she

    • @sumand1143
      @sumand1143 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Susan Fuller cause no one knew about DNA test back then

    • @LLK7962
      @LLK7962 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!

    • @onlineversion
      @onlineversion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      No one knew about DNA test back then? How long are we talking back? She's only 29. Could've gotten a DNA test when she was a child. DNA testing began in the late 1980s. The Maury Show has been doing DNA testing since 1990s. I'm a bit older than this lady and as young as I could remember DNA testing has always existed during my time growing up lol.

    • @Southamericangirl42
      @Southamericangirl42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Piatequila, onlineversion Precisely!!

  • @ms.vibrantvirgo1006
    @ms.vibrantvirgo1006 6 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    DNA Tests needs to be mandatory after the child is born including married people as well guarantee it will stop alot of this bull .

    • @sirchristopherblair8889
      @sirchristopherblair8889 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ms.Vibrant Virgo 100 lol you about to start something in here, lol let's get the bill together.

    • @KimmySaurusRex44
      @KimmySaurusRex44 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ms.Vibrant Virgo 100 do you know how much a dna test costs? That's why people go on shows like this because they cover all costs in exchange for getting to air it on TV.

    • @angelastormeful
      @angelastormeful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It cost only 135 dollar.

    • @smmurden
      @smmurden 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      As expensive as birthing babies is, it should be complimentary!

    • @cherrylove528
      @cherrylove528 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Definitely couldnt agree more.

  • @kikibrownskin4385
    @kikibrownskin4385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Updates on the families would be nice to see.

  • @mmegane5808
    @mmegane5808 6 ปีที่แล้ว +486

    Am I the only one that reads the comments to know in advance 🙊🙊.

  • @zamile7112
    @zamile7112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    "He's a bald-faced liar" LOL 6:28

  • @aimhigh4620
    @aimhigh4620 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Do you know what happened to me in foster care...Powerful words...smh

  • @jaimoi2012
    @jaimoi2012 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    When she said "I feel like I needed you. I feel like I had to learn the hard way how a man is suppose to treat me. I might have been a tough child, but I didn't need you to throw me away." That broke my heart.

    • @jusvicki1981
      @jusvicki1981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pass the conebread...

    • @chase__red
      @chase__red 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My life 😢

  • @ebonipoindexter
    @ebonipoindexter 6 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Lauren Lake is my TV Auntie. I love her. #blackgirlmagic

    • @AH-os9dy
      @AH-os9dy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eboni Poindexter girl same!!

    • @incidentalist
      @incidentalist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is my Sister from another Mother!

    • @sehmat_bhat
      @sehmat_bhat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too young to be called Auntie 😘🥰

    • @gailbillups6508
      @gailbillups6508 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lauren Lake is my TV daughter I love her she is truly amazing God bless her

    • @jesuschrist8069
      @jesuschrist8069 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is a biased feminist sexist piece of garbage and a fake judge she is a family lawyer

  • @tegalicocious
    @tegalicocious 6 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    Her parents old picture look like Queen Latifa and Lionel Richie 😂😂😂

  • @hayleygolding4187
    @hayleygolding4187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This show is living proof that you don't have to be a victim of your upbringing (or lack of) I applaud this young woman for creating her own destiny. Everyone can create their own destiny, in spite of the bad behaviour of others.

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!

  • @KayepeeR
    @KayepeeR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Her eyes ( the mom) look crazy

    • @babytoi2002
      @babytoi2002 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kickin it With Kaye stoooooopppp 😂😂😂

    • @Star3marie304
      @Star3marie304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why are her eyes like that?

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Star3marie304 she was shot in the eye when i was a kid by my stepfather

    • @denisemanfre9542
      @denisemanfre9542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is that her biological mother or another relative?

    • @sharifshabazz834
      @sharifshabazz834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Big Facts!!

  • @Mrarticaldan
    @Mrarticaldan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    Great episode just one question
    Where was mom?

    • @elondaherheart3438
      @elondaherheart3438 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mrarticaldan u r so right....where was mama through this hold thing.... Was she on drugs or not in a stable condition to take care of her...

    • @mari_j_mc
      @mari_j_mc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I was thinking the same thing. Seems like Mom is deflecting to avoid her obviously abandoning her daughter. I believe the daddy.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Both parents were unfit obviously. She said she chose to go with her mother but her father sent her to foster care. It's likely that the dad got himself together before mom, so he had more say in what happened to her.

    • @Mrarticaldan
      @Mrarticaldan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Elonda Her Heart I'm surprised the judge never asked about mom whereabouts.

    • @CanithaReme
      @CanithaReme 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mrarticaldan same question I have too?

  • @80bbygrl
    @80bbygrl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Isn’t having “daddy walking you down the aisle” about being close with your dad?

    • @beegee6
      @beegee6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Andi Leigh yes she’s not ready to forgive him but she wants him there.. she needs to be angry with her mum

    • @valerieosborne
      @valerieosborne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He said, he did not hear her say that. I wonder if he will be there for her.

  • @africanflower3607
    @africanflower3607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    This is so sad! All these years wasted, and he treated others better than his own child! If he had doubts he should’ve asked for a DNA test to prevent all of this from happening!

    • @iamlivin4me491
      @iamlivin4me491 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Souadou Camara exactly

    • @PeggyRabbit32
      @PeggyRabbit32 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Souadou Camara and the mother is blameless?

    • @shelbyvan
      @shelbyvan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think that sometimes as children your actions are the reason why things were different for you. The daughter has some responsibility too and that’s her behavior. But like she said you deal with your disrespectful child. Not put her back in the system. But he still did more than her mother did

    • @patricewilcox
      @patricewilcox 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He didn't even have to "ask" for the test, the child lived in the home with him. The father could've gotten the DNA test while the child was in his custody. She may have been a disrespectful child, but she had obviously been through a lot being in foster care and obviously having an unstable life with the mom, so he shouldn't have given up on her just to save his marriage. I can totally believe that this child was treated differently and felt like an outcast coming into this family and then she acted out. She should have been able to count on her father to love her through her difficult times. Sad.....

    • @marciawellington4333
      @marciawellington4333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@shelbyvan He did not put her back in foster care. He sent her to her mother. For whatever reason, she went back to foster care from there. The mother needed to be questioned instead of sitting there with that self-righteous attitude as if she didn't also contribute to her daughter's troubled childhood

  • @leggs4113
    @leggs4113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I honestly wouldn’t want him in my life at this point. How you gone send your own child back to foster care.

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Leggs People don’t listen well...

  • @5822huron
    @5822huron 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Why dont they ever hold the mothers on these shows accountable for anything? Either they lie about not having other partners or they are poor mothers.. why was she in foster homes and her mother is right there? Tell the whole story

    • @bud9585
      @bud9585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They’re bias towards the men on this show; they always side with the women from the jump

  • @missmarcicolettle78
    @missmarcicolettle78 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    He really didn’t want to hug her

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Wow, your child was abused, neglected, and came to you damaged. So, you threw her away like trash. I’d really like to know whether he regrets that decision.

    • @love83forever
      @love83forever 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Leslie Sinclair He didn't own up to being a neglectful father, I didn't see any guilt in him. He painted himself as a saint instead of 'manning up' and acknowledging his role.

    • @achatwithgoitse
      @achatwithgoitse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bad bad dad.

    • @TRINITYAUGUSTIN
      @TRINITYAUGUSTIN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      His wife probably force him to send her back.
      So many years wasted

    • @denisegregory9369
      @denisegregory9369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TRINITYAUGUSTIN I could see that happening! This is sad; but the young lady persevered! Proud of her. With a father and a mother, why foster care?

  • @calinull545
    @calinull545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    The son said her behaviour was bad when she lived with them as a child. What do they expect from a child that has gone through the system! We have no idea what she went through. As a father he should have got a DNA test and also dealt with her behaviour as a father should instead of putting her back into care.

    • @JAYBLAK00
      @JAYBLAK00 ปีที่แล้ว

      She wasn’t in the system at that point. She said she went there after she left his house

  • @tank9192000
    @tank9192000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Wow. It's always the man but where was her mom at? That's the life we live in though. Sometimes the woman need to be accountable too. 💯

    • @miriamcobbs5173
      @miriamcobbs5173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was there for my child.
      It is more to the story than meet the eye.
      I lot of this was lies.

    • @brownin329
      @brownin329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why is it whenever a man is chastised, some men point the finger at
      women? Take responsibility for what YOU do!

    • @sharnanbarreauny6535
      @sharnanbarreauny6535 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@miriamcobbs5173 No you wasn’t that’s why your child was in Foster care stop the lies you got off the hook seems like to be me that the father was more in her life than you.

  • @Eli0418
    @Eli0418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    They need to get these names together cuz chile..."ThurMeka" and ThurMarcus" ain't it chief!

  • @emmwen4549
    @emmwen4549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The daughter was hurt and angry because her dad has a new family. He has other children. Imagine how that would feel.

    • @brownin329
      @brownin329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know. My father chose to take care of his stepchildren instead of me.

    • @denisegregory9369
      @denisegregory9369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm sure she was hurt; but there was already a made family when she came to stay with dad. I'm almost sure the step mom, didn't her job as a caring stepmother, because she should've had her husband step up! Everyone dropped the ball on this young lady.

    • @drewoke2584
      @drewoke2584 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She made the choice to go ba k yo her pathetic mom and ended up in foster care . That’s not his fault

  • @ba4572
    @ba4572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This judge is a blessing to the world ❤️ As more I look at this cases as bigger my admiration and respect for her grow higher‼️ What a woman, what a jurge and What a blessing she is‼️ Greetings from her biggest fan in Norway 🇳🇴

  • @moomoo0670
    @moomoo0670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    The son is lying, he has been conditioned by the father to blame the daughter. That young lady has been through a lot from both parents and tuned out to be a strong. I would leave that man and rest of his side along

  • @chedebnam6025
    @chedebnam6025 6 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    The son lying because he never addresses her as his sister.

    • @NODE1975
      @NODE1975 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Che Debnam it proves what she says happen while living in his home.

    • @shequetarichardson6401
      @shequetarichardson6401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No he was not lying at all

    • @Darlene-xv4mw
      @Darlene-xv4mw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think he telling his version of the truth

    • @est.inthe80s
      @est.inthe80s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How you figure she admitted she had behavior issues which he stated happened repeatedly

  • @neverwhere1391
    @neverwhere1391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I applaud that young woman for having the tenacity to make her life successful after such a start in life. 👏🏻🙌🏻

  • @debatingaftershock6816
    @debatingaftershock6816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She is proof.. living and sincere proof that circumstances, family, blood, and experiences cannot make you who you are.
    Yes it influences us, yes there are so many things that happen to us, beyond our own control....
    But it never is an excuse for our criminal choices or for us giving up and settling for what others think we are worth (based on perception, social status, culture).....
    We can strive and be better than where we came from.
    Im so happy for people like this in the world
    It is highly possible that she was treated ok, but started life rough, and felt second best and felt treated unfairly.... based on brother’s testimony.....
    The dad came and got her, despite of doubts, mom didn’t.
    Still ..... it hurts. I hope there is future healing for her and the dad can try in a way that speaks to her

  • @ComicBooksandVideoGameNerd96
    @ComicBooksandVideoGameNerd96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I remember this episode people if you have doubts please do not sign the birth certificate

    • @allybean8885
      @allybean8885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      DNA should be done when they are born.

  • @jaeshasway
    @jaeshasway 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kudos to this young woman for raising herself up right. Young people with struggles sometimes forget they have choices and the power to make positive changes in their own lives to build great futures. Sometimes there is simply no one there to rescue you. You have the power to make your own way; you just need the desire and perseverance to move forward. ✌🏾❤️

  • @CraftyMimi19
    @CraftyMimi19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Made me tear up when she said “you did not have to throw me away.”

  • @queennanny4792
    @queennanny4792 6 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    She better leave them alone and go on with her life, she'll be ok. He knew she was his. And just like mothers take care of their kids when their fathers abandon, he should have been a decent person and taken care of his child

    • @moomoo0670
      @moomoo0670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes sometimes its better to cut people loose family or not.

  • @Umbilal271
    @Umbilal271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Useless parents kept their beautiful child in foster care am crying with this girl. Very sad. Very beautiful strong educated confident young lady I hope she find happiness.

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, and I did!

  • @lifewithdeedee3392
    @lifewithdeedee3392 6 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    All the years he mistreated her and he is the father

    • @bbredhead70
      @bbredhead70 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Transparent life of Dee Dee truly hearbreaking for that beautiful young lady!

    • @kia4020
      @kia4020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Transparent life of Dee Dee, spoiler alert!!!😐 I guess i only have myself 2 blame 4 bein nosey, lookin thru comments,lol😅

    • @swim610
      @swim610 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Transparent life of Dee Dee spoiler alert...lol

    • @a.v.london1952
      @a.v.london1952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Transparent life of Dee Dee he likes to put his foot in his mouth feel sorry for girl she did well for herself!!

  • @testedtried1233
    @testedtried1233 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The mother dropped the ball to why was she removed from the beginning. And went back and removed again.

  • @renabrooks7707
    @renabrooks7707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The mother make me sick listen to her she ain't all the way right herself .

  • @eyerusalembogale6813
    @eyerusalembogale6813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "When we think that we are not worthy we block our blessings".
    Thanks Mrs.

  • @shaylap2038
    @shaylap2038 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "When we think we're not worthy, we don't act worthy." Judge Lauren Lake is a QUEEN 👑✨🙌🙌🙌 Love her!

  • @JayneTenn
    @JayneTenn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I know it's irrelevant to the case but, I can't help wonder why she was in foster care.
    Also stepmom owes her an apology.

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So often the judge says ‘You dragged the defendant to court...’. That sounds very partisan. Just me? Eh. Ok. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    He raised his son to think exactly like him. Ew.

  • @keirobangs6666
    @keirobangs6666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman testimony was very emotional.she emphasized the importance of male figure in little girl psychological construction. I learnt a lot. Thank you.

  • @commoninterest3145
    @commoninterest3145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    WHEN YOU THINK YOU ARENT WORTHY- YOU DONT ACT LIKE IT---WORRRRRDDDDDD

    • @brownin329
      @brownin329 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not necessarily, but she owned it.

  • @dontreplyinoc7934
    @dontreplyinoc7934 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This court is opening my eyes, when it comes to relationships.

  • @szqsk8
    @szqsk8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    "That's the way they do it in my town" lol

  • @vanessah4545
    @vanessah4545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I wouldn't even want him to walk me down the aisle, she's better off without him. It hurts to see people go their whole life without knowing the truth about who their real father is.

    • @patricialegare6847
      @patricialegare6847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why was she in foster care. The mom throw her away.

    • @cristerbrady8864
      @cristerbrady8864 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even if she turned out not to be his, at least he tried. What about the mother? What's her excuse for her child being in Foster care and dad going to get her from school to live with him? Why wasn't she living with the parent that was 100% beyond doubt? What was it that made it better for the child to be in Foster care than be with her mother? Why is mom and child so silent about that? Sure, she was a problem child who pulled herself up but he paid child support and tried to be the father even with doubts. I don't form the view that your placing all the blame where it should be...soldier

  • @colettemr
    @colettemr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "That's the way they do it in my town." (mic drop)

    • @willenemusic1
      @willenemusic1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Jerome, remind me not to move to that town!"

  • @gregorytucker8402
    @gregorytucker8402 6 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This girl awesome

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @betterthanwealth
    @betterthanwealth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This man knew this was his daughter.... he still acts like he doesn’t want the relationship...

  • @helentalia9923
    @helentalia9923 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mother + daughter teamed up for revenge?...! Otherwise, why isn't the daughter holding the mother accountable since she claims she was not raised by either parent. And why isn't the judge dropping them bricks on the mother too?? At the end of the day, you can't force fatherhood on anyone, especially since the mother was rumored to be dilly-dalling. Some flawed story 👀

  • @trishakinstle2097
    @trishakinstle2097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how the mother that didn’t raise her is standing there in such judgement.

  • @itzsheena5941
    @itzsheena5941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This just brings back bad memories of when I was 10 and spent the holiday with my stepmother. She hated his kids and she told him all these lies and he came to my mom saying he didn't want anything to do with me and stopped talking to me. When the truth came out I didn't even get an apology. I still think about it 20 years later. 😢

    • @britneycampbell7486
      @britneycampbell7486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. Not even an apology 😣😣 When I said "you talking to me but never even said sorry or w.e" his response was "Your parents are 2 people who can do anything n you have to accept" plus he ain't giving me no apology. And I am his ONLY child.

    • @itzsheena5941
      @itzsheena5941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Britney Campbell that's the most hurtful part. But forgiveness is for us, not for them.

    • @lizsnipe4406
      @lizsnipe4406 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Britney Campbell Forgive him without asking to begin your emotional healing.....people, especially parents, that are too proud to apologize are narcissistic...they believe they never have faults or problems that make them look bad....the best way to go forward is to understand you are worthy of all you desire and no one person can make YOU happy they can only enhance it or lessen it.....but it is up to you to love you more than anyone can...been where you were...decided at 33 yrs old enough was enough...my life has been awesome without the need for an apology from my mom because I learned that living well has it’s own reward

    • @morriskaraine9873
      @morriskaraine9873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      itz Sheena sad ..sorry for that.

    • @itzsheena5941
      @itzsheena5941 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      morris karaine thank you. I'm okay now and I hardly ever think about it anymore

  • @AuthoressPluto
    @AuthoressPluto 6 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    That man is a piece of garbage... saying he was always there for her but sending her away when she (as all young children do) pushed boundaries. I don't know where mom was (she's probably sketchy as all get too) but as for dad he is definitely a piece of garbage. I'm glad this woman was strong enough to forge her own path!

    • @ashleyschannel4066
      @ashleyschannel4066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree totally! He claimed he was always there for her but he didn’t come to her deployment ceremony! I know that hurt her feelings. Even complete strangers would of showed up . He didn’t want to be her father!

  • @KicknitOskool
    @KicknitOskool 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her mom’s reactions though 😂

  • @ambergreen6714
    @ambergreen6714 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Only one worth anything was the daughter. That brother, and father. What do u think she's gunna feel being in a house it takes time and years later still holding a grudge for her being bad in the house. She probably was testing them to see if they loved her. And his wife probably treated her different many women do if it didn't come from me ... non sense additude. I wish the daughter the best of luck. You deserve so much better, than all of them.

  • @ytcarol
    @ytcarol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "This is how you move forward: you move forward by not moving back."
    Brilliant, love Judge Lane's wisdom and compassion.

  • @theoriginalpulengvezi6174
    @theoriginalpulengvezi6174 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Why sign if you have doubts that child looks just like him

    • @carultch
      @carultch 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let's be honest here. A lot of babies DO look alike. With enough convincing, you can be persuaded to believe the baby looks like anyone.
      Babies don't really start looking distinctly different enough to see serious features in common with their parents, until long after a negative paternity test is too late to legally exonerate a paternity fraud victim

    • @shydovefifty-seven4962
      @shydovefifty-seven4962 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      She sure does, I said that the moment I laid eyes on both of them..

    • @1goddessy193
      @1goddessy193 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't think they look nothing alike

  • @JerseyLiyah
    @JerseyLiyah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Judge Lake so much she is such a inspiration to me she always has kind words to help ppl keep pushing...❣️

  • @612anderson
    @612anderson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m only a few minutes in but her mom is really irritating me. The young lady said she was in foster care so clearly she was unstable. He had doubts for a reason!
    I’m not really understanding why she’s completely blaming her dad for being in foster care. Her mom is getting off easy.

  • @alllivesmatter9291
    @alllivesmatter9291 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your service. I don't know who neither of my biological parents are. Seeing and hearing what you been through they are overrated. I too practically raised myself. Few people survived as you have. You're not only courageous you're very beautiful. Maybe it's better that I don't find out who or why they're unfit to lace my boots which I taught myself to do.

  • @annaj6004
    @annaj6004 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stop sleeping around before you get married ..

  • @drnahinu
    @drnahinu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mother is very Beautiful...she must have done something right for her daughter to achieve in life...Thank you very much for your service Mrs. Muller

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are welcome 🙏🏾

  • @b.r.s.7118
    @b.r.s.7118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This young woman is so amazing. I 'm really happy for her..

  • @maryreyes2036
    @maryreyes2036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for your services Thurmeka.

  • @AlishaArlene
    @AlishaArlene 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When the judge told Thurmeka that she is NOT trash, that she IS worthy, it brought tears to my eyes. It is so, so important for those of us who grew up without our biological fathers to hear those words. We are children of the most high God, and for that reason alone, we ARE worthy!

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I can see the tears in your eyes 😂

  • @iamabeautifulwoman2885
    @iamabeautifulwoman2885 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so happy for you Thurmeka Robinson. You are truly a jewel.

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! 🙏🏾

  • @lorraineslife
    @lorraineslife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wait wait wait I am so wrong for laughing but did y'all see how the mom started to pretend to cry at the 9:50 mark😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @Princessmom9
    @Princessmom9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    For those of you who want to know why she was in foster care and where the mother was, this show is not about that, it's about finding out who the daddy is. With that being said they were both to blame. Yes, he got her and took her home but he didn't get her the help she needed to adjust nor did he make sure the rest of the family was treating her the way she NEEDED to be treated. Instead of giving her back he needed to take the time to get her the help she needed to get over whatever she had gone through and to just love her where she was. Obviously because of his doubts he did just the bare, minimal basics for her and that only makes a child feel more unloved.

  • @leahthomas5003
    @leahthomas5003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That judge is Right on

  • @d1bucha72
    @d1bucha72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "That's how they do it in my town" ... priceless

  • @YuBeace
    @YuBeace 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Jerome remind me not to move to that town.” 😭😭😭

  • @alanamyeshia
    @alanamyeshia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🗣This is a classic case of “your mother hurt me so I’m taking it out on you!”

  • @brendar3324
    @brendar3324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Feelings ain't got nothing to do with DNA." Alright Judge!😂😂

  • @brandangreen5422
    @brandangreen5422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He never had any real doubts to begin with.🤦‍♂️

  • @funkemoore3786
    @funkemoore3786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The step brother rubbed me the wrong way, siding with his mother and saying he doubted paternity too. Somehow. He should be tested too.

  • @kimberlytraylor3
    @kimberlytraylor3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Both parents are the blame. Especially coming from foster care myself.

  • @kathycrc
    @kathycrc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That face on that man when he turned out to be the father. Its one thing not to be able to take carenof your child but a whole other thing when you can and throw her to the wolves. No kid is easy but a parent who loves you will try to do everything to keep you from.harm.

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts. He ain't ish!!

  • @crazifyit
    @crazifyit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU MOVE FORWARD, BY NOT MOVING BACK! Ok! Motivation for the day! Thank you Judge Lake!

  • @IdaBynum
    @IdaBynum 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why is that mom acting so high and mighty about? I am glad that lady is doing so well.she changed her situation for the best.

  • @bamidelekoledoye1161
    @bamidelekoledoye1161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waoooh. Her testimony really moved me and encouraged me as well. She is a role model and im proud of her

    • @shantarob
      @shantarob 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @notemiIy
    @notemiIy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve been sitting here all episode wanting to punch the daylights out of the father. He claims he wanted to do the right thing but you can clearly tell that the daughter lived in torment with her dad.

  • @Kek-fn1jh
    @Kek-fn1jh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The father and stepmother needing counseling on how to deal with a child in foster care. It’s not easy, I’ve been a foster carer for 15 years and some of these kids come with broken hearts, attitudes, disrespect & a need to reject you before you reject them. This is absolutely heart breaking to me that these services were not offered. 😢 Things could have turned out so much different

  • @michellew.7978
    @michellew.7978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This man is as cold as ice. The step brother says kids were going around saying "He was not the father" kids repeat what they hear so I;m sure they heard it from some adult, it wouldn't surprise me if the step mom or emotionally unattached dad didnt put it out there. Then he say "She was disrespectful" Wow ! I can only imagine the mess that she had to go through at nine years old. I wish her continued success and best of luck.