For anyone who needs it: You’ve got your whole life to figure out what pronouns/label you feel comfortable using. Don’t rush yourself. Try experimenting different labels and find what’s best for you ^^
I feel like when we’re younger, we shouldn’t be trying to label our selves, try stuff out, be open to trying on identities and other people, but it’s not until you’ve really played around with the options that you can actual give yourself a label. Idk it kinda feels like, sometimes, if you support the lgbtq+ community you might feel like you have to be part of it, but that really is just something that you might just be convincing your self is right. So don’t rush it :)
@ꨄ ☺︎︎ atsuu ☺︎︎ ꨄ I’m sorry ur friends can’t respect or help you at a time u really need it. But u need to know no matter what you identify as I respect you and ur pronouns
Yea, I thought I was straight but then I realised personality is everything so pan, but then I thought hm maybe just bi boys and girls are nice? And now I'm thinking eh not for me as in ace or aro? IDFK (edit: Actually scrap all that, I'm pan romantic an demi sexual)
It’s so confusing and sometimes NEVER feels solid, but good on yall for going on your own journeys to figure it out, rooting for you, lovelies!! - ur local biace trans boy who also spends his time mostly confused
As a Pansexual Genderfluid person, definitely had this kind of journey. BUT I hope your journey ends with a beautiful gift; the gift of knowing wtf you are.
@@JesusChrist-sm4bm I knoww When I didn't know what both my sexuality and gender identity was I was like "Am I this or am I this? AH No label instead. NONO but this label sounds really nice.. Okay I'm straight. NO I LIKE GIRLS. Back to boys.. BOTH! Non-Binary people though.. DAMMIT IT HURTS TO CHOOSE!"
Yeah i felt this in my SOUL. at this point I've gone by every label under the same, and have finally come to the conclusion that I am... a person. Who exists. Yippee.
this trend is literally just stan (aka everyone) being confused with constant questioning of his sexuality and gender identity i hope stan is doing okay rn
I've been trying to figure this stuff out for almost 2 years now and I'm still so confused. I usually tell people I'm panromantic asexual and use She/They pronouns, but honestly I have no idea what gender I am or what gender I like. It is a thousand times easier said than done to figure out gender and sexuality.
@Nelon Demisexual- 1.Demisexuality is part of Asexuality 2.Demisexual person is a person who doesn't feel sexual attraction, but has to create strong emotional bond with a person to fall in love with them I think that's what it means. I'm not demisexual myself, but I know about a TH-camr who is demisexual and who explained it.
I hereby declare you, confusion. You have nothing, your just there and go with it until you figure it out. We've all been confused and questioning ourselves once.
Yeah its hard to find your sexuality and gender but in my opinion its better to find real you even if you're not part of lgbtq+ (please remember to stay safe and have a lovely day!)
I always thought I was straight until I started to feel attracted to both girls and boys, I now identify as bisexual. Andy remember children you have a whole life to identify your sexuality, don't rush it.
remember, labels don’t have to be used! people often find comfort in having a category and people to relate too, but that’s not everyone. sometimes labels feel restricting- so remember they don’t have to be there. you be you, and if a label helps you feel more comfort, or no label does, whatever works for you is okay, even if you don’t see it as much.
So, ive been on a trans mask (not transmasc) since i was like 3 YEARS OLD BRO ''i DoNt WaNt To Be A gIrL mOm'' DUDE THAT WAS ME ALL DAY, ive never felt like a girl, but after the age of 6, i stopped feeling like a boy/ girl, just me, nothing else. AND AFTER 7 YEARS, I FINALLY REALISED THAT IM NONBINARY
Such a long journey lol and I can’t even imagine if I did this to my parents I decided I didn’t want to be a girl(I’m a demigirl) and my parents f r e a k e d because I wanted a new name and they’re worried it’s gonna keep changing lol imagine the whole pronouns thing and coming out a billion times A bit of background: I love Harry Potter, MHA, and FNaF. I got a new name for each fandom. Dynasty or Diana for HP, Tomoko for MHA, and Ann for FNaF. So they’re worried that I’m gonna keep changing my name because of that? I mean yeah maybe but like come on- Good for you tho!
Figuring yourself out is hard, but just remember, *the way you feel about your gender and sexuality will not stay the same as you are growing up!* You do t have to know what you are right now! If you find a label that fits right now, great! But you don’t need to know exactly what you are when your still young :) So just take your time :)
I feel you, I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually. It took me over a year to figure out what I am and be settled on it, and even then I'm still questioning some things
Honestly it took me the longest time to realize that im both Floric and a demiboy, i always just stuck with the label genderfluid, then i hated being called a girl, so then i labeled myself as nonbinary, then I realized that maybe i am genderfluid, which was a fucking lie, then i went back to nonbinary then decided "y'know what, i feel like a boy and i feel nonbinary, i cant decide so why not both" Then sexuality- dont even get me started I went from a straight cis girl, to a bisexual cis girl, then back to straight, then I decided hey gender, who gives a shit in a relationship, so then i was Pansexual, then I realized i hated the thought of sex so i was then panromantic, then I realized i was a demiboy and realized I wasn't attracted to girls whatsoever, but im attracted to boys and nonbinary people- so i just went with the label Floric which according to google means well non women also attracted to non women so uh, yeah im still questioning that though so i just say gay-
I'm abroromantic and it took me a while to reach this point of self discovery, so you could be abrosexual/abroromantic as well?! You could also be genderfluid!! If you need anything explained, just lmk!! Love you and support you 🥰🥰🥰
As a genderfluid pansexual I went through this and it just makes me smile be cause at least we know we are something that’s not just what others think would be right ❤️
I know I'm pretty late but- honestly- If you like the label bisexual, go with that even if its not 100% accurate. If that's how you feel comfortable identifying then go for it. Also, In case this helps any, You can definitely have a preference for girls if you're Bi! When it comes to gender, honestly- for a while I just gave people what pronouns I wanna use and figured out the label later on. But of course, everyone is different so something else might work for you! Just take your time, do whatever makes you happy :)
Hey there! What does it mean to prefer another label? I just realised I’m Omnisexual, but I’m used to being Bi- so what should I do? I love your videos
i just liked the label bisexual better :) it's more common and more simple to explain. I still had a preference, omni falls under the bi umbrella (so does pan). Bisexual individual usually has a preference anyway, most of the time it's not 50/50 with any genders. Basically i was in the situation where i could choose how to label myself, and i chose bi. Hope this helps!
I went from homophobic to *clears throat* Straight - Homophobic Straight - Accepts Straight - Supports Questioning Lesbian Bisexual Lesbian Lesbian Non-binary Lesbian Bisexual Pansexual Demi-girl Bisexual Now i'm questioning and a non-binary with she/they pronouns :,)
The first thing with bi and pan is exactly my case rn! I would date anyone that i would fall in love with, but i like the bi flag and colours better, and there's also not a really big chance for me meeting someone who's trans or smth like that. Sooo yeah, for now i go with bisexual, but we'll see
I got lucky cuz I finally figured out a good thing for my brain to settle on which is just simply “I’m a bi demiboy but I’ll just stick with saying I’m a boy when a random person asks me if I’m a boy or a girl”
Hun, it took 17 years to figure myself out. Figuring out who you are is a wonderful journey with twists and turns. Be as wrong as many times as you can because that's experience and this rollercoaster has alot of loops. Go through or around or below or above those loops, have a fantastic and fun ride. - MeepMoop
This is the reason why I don't give myself a label even though Technacly I'd be pan but I don't want to labels just know that I am attracted to a person why who they are and NOT gender
i used to label myself but i find it so hard to know whether i feel romantic attraction or not that i just gave up trying to discover it cmon unlabeled gang
Tbh I'm just a thing in existence and find it hard to have romantic attraction 👍
grayromantic, possibly?
Abromatic prob?
LUMINE
same :)
relatable
For anyone who needs it:
You’ve got your whole life to figure out what pronouns/label you feel comfortable using. Don’t rush yourself. Try experimenting different labels and find what’s best for you ^^
THIS, THIS RIGHT HERE
PLLSSS I EXPERIMENTED WITH HE/HIM PRONOUNS & LESS FEMININE CLOTHES WHEN I WAS JUST A LIL BABY GAY AND OMFG HERE I AM BIGENDER MOSTLY MASC😭😭
I like both genders, but I am also aromantic, so it would always be platonic
IOMFG MY KEYBOARD IMA TYPE SOMETHING
Ty :3
I go by she/they/herself
I feel like when we’re younger, we shouldn’t be trying to label our selves, try stuff out, be open to trying on identities and other people, but it’s not until you’ve really played around with the options that you can actual give yourself a label. Idk it kinda feels like, sometimes, if you support the lgbtq+ community you might feel like you have to be part of it, but that really is just something that you might just be convincing your self is right. So don’t rush it :)
THIS IS EVERYONE’S PAIN YOU ARE THE FIRST TO SPEAK IT😭
This is so true though
Yall, just let it be known it’s okay to be confused. This takes time and i’m also still figuring it out :) xx
@ꨄ ☺︎︎ atsuu ☺︎︎ ꨄ I’m sorry ur friends can’t respect or help you at a time u really need it.
But u need to know no matter what you identify as I respect you and ur pronouns
Yea, I thought I was straight but then I realised personality is everything so pan, but then I thought hm maybe just bi boys and girls are nice? And now I'm thinking eh not for me as in ace or aro? IDFK
(edit: Actually scrap all that, I'm pan romantic an demi sexual)
Honestly it took me like 3 months to find out I’m pansexual, demisexual and gender fluid
Same here yet im lying on the label Demi girl for now
This really needs to be known! It's been 2 years and I'm still figuring out my sexuality/gender
'oh i'm enby makes sense;
'no it doesn't'
mood
Why do I relate to this so much
LITERALLY
that hit tho
IM STAN-
This signifies my whole life
It’s so confusing and sometimes NEVER feels solid, but good on yall for going on your own journeys to figure it out, rooting for you, lovelies!!
- ur local biace trans boy who also spends his time mostly confused
As a Pansexual Genderfluid person, definitely had this kind of journey.
BUT I hope your journey ends with a beautiful gift; the gift of knowing wtf you are.
Yooo, hello from another genderfluid pan!
@@tea.2694 Hello!! :DD
Ah Same like this physically hurt
@@tea.2694 allo mate!
@@JesusChrist-sm4bm I knoww
When I didn't know what both my sexuality and gender identity was I was like "Am I this or am I this? AH No label instead. NONO but this label sounds really nice.. Okay I'm straight. NO I LIKE GIRLS. Back to boys.. BOTH! Non-Binary people though.. DAMMIT IT HURTS TO CHOOSE!"
I have gender dysphoria-
So I just label myself as gender-fluid when it comes to genders.
HOW HARD DID YOU JUST SMACK MY BRAIN IN RELATABLE.
Omg Sis-
For some reason, for a second I didnt read the fluid so I thought you said you just labeled yourself as *gender*
SAME BUT WHEN I TRIED THEN IT WAS TOO HARD TO GET PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND
@@_phoenixpotato_521 Ahh yes, *gender*
Yeah i felt this in my SOUL. at this point I've gone by every label under the same, and have finally come to the conclusion that I am... a person. Who exists. Yippee.
I'm stan-
Is just funny
Also the "WHAT AM I?!?" is soooo accurate
Your everything and nothing at the same time. The perfect person to idolize
I’m just a kid and life is a nightmare
Never thought id see THE raiden shogun working at McDonald's welcome :)
Sop the nonsense
this trend is literally just stan (aka everyone) being confused with constant questioning of his sexuality and gender identity
i hope stan is doing okay rn
I've been trying to figure this stuff out for almost 2 years now and I'm still so confused. I usually tell people I'm panromantic asexual and use She/They pronouns, but honestly I have no idea what gender I am or what gender I like. It is a thousand times easier said than done to figure out gender and sexuality.
This is probably the most chaotic one I’ve seen yet.
Me at 10 y.o: okay no doubt I'm a straight ally
The asexual spectrum: imma bout to ruin this girl's whole career
(I'm Demi sexual now)
I'm a demi-girl and bisexual.
That was me lol ;-;
@Nelon Demisexual-
1.Demisexuality is part of Asexuality
2.Demisexual person is a person who doesn't feel sexual attraction, but has to create strong emotional bond with a person to fall in love with them
I think that's what it means. I'm not demisexual myself, but I know about a TH-camr who is demisexual and who explained it.
@Nelon it means having a sexual attraction to someone only after forming a special bond with that said person
There's another thing called abrosexual, but if you can't choose your labels, it's not required. We accept and support you for who you are!
@Rainy old and unfunny and this is kinda a serious topic we’re talking about but ok.
Lgbtq is not a choice
I just saw an existential crisis in 49 seconds??.😭
I’ve seen so many of these and then I started watching “Gravity Falls” and realized that’s where the audio comes from👍🏽
Just me, but now I’m confused because idc who I date 😭🤚🏻😩 and gender is just confusing as hell
I hereby declare you, confusion. You have nothing, your just there and go with it until you figure it out. We've all been confused and questioning ourselves once.
abrosexual maybe?
@@Sillyest_Silly3
No idea 😩🤚🏻
Ur just like me bro
The amount of “I feel you” in this one video
I just love how there was a breakdown in the middle like wth
This is a whole mood and I totally feel this! Just remember you don't have to label yourself
Yeah its hard to find your sexuality and gender but in my opinion its better to find real you even if you're not part of lgbtq+ (please remember to stay safe and have a lovely day!)
@@shadesofpurple2792 thats okay! Just keep going ^^
I don't even care about sexualities at this point I can like whoever I like and be whoever I want to be
@@minilamma4879 if that makes you happy, im happy for you
I always thought I was straight until I started to feel attracted to both girls and boys, I now identify as bisexual. Andy remember children you have a whole life to identify your sexuality, don't rush it.
Do you really having a fun sex with your bf or gf or you like it💀
Been gay, bisexual, lesbian and others are wrong think again
The "I-I-I..II was wrong" got me 😂✋🏽
remember, labels don’t have to be used! people often find comfort in having a category and people to relate too, but that’s not everyone. sometimes labels feel restricting- so remember they don’t have to be there. you be you, and if a label helps you feel more comfort, or no label does, whatever works for you is okay, even if you don’t see it as much.
This is the only one I've seen that's legitimately funny. Well done!
So, ive been on a trans mask (not transmasc) since i was like 3 YEARS OLD BRO
''i DoNt WaNt To Be A gIrL mOm'' DUDE THAT WAS ME ALL DAY, ive never felt like a girl, but after the age of 6, i stopped feeling like a boy/ girl, just me, nothing else. AND AFTER 7 YEARS, I FINALLY REALISED THAT IM NONBINARY
THE WAY IT SPED IT UP GOT ME 😭
LIKE IT WAS HAVIN AN ERROR
I’ve gotten to a point where I just accepted that I was bisexual and pansexual. I was just tired of switching over and over and over again.
Question, can someone be genderqueer without using any form of they pronouns? I’m a genderqueer but I use she/him
yeah absolutely, it's up to you what pronouns you use and what you don't. Pronouns ≠ gender
@@cloudyski.6837 oh ok. Recently found my gender though!
B I g e n d e r
@@lpspatronus9536 congrats!
cloud/cloudy 😏
As I was watching this my mom texted me: “Come watch queer eye with me” and I was like “perfect timing”
I CAN’T WITH THE “I’M- I’M- I’M-“
Such a long journey lol and I can’t even imagine if I did this to my parents
I decided I didn’t want to be a girl(I’m a demigirl) and my parents f r e a k e d because I wanted a new name and they’re worried it’s gonna keep changing lol imagine the whole pronouns thing and coming out a billion times
A bit of background: I love Harry Potter, MHA, and FNaF. I got a new name for each fandom. Dynasty or Diana for HP, Tomoko for MHA, and Ann for FNaF. So they’re worried that I’m gonna keep changing my name because of that? I mean yeah maybe but like come on-
Good for you tho!
This is the problem with labeling yourself when you’re young.
I’ve just accepted that I’m still going to be questioning myself in my mid 60s
I love at the end it just cuts off and it’s just “I’m Stan”
Figuring yourself out is hard, but just remember, *the way you feel about your gender and sexuality will not stay the same as you are growing up!*
You do t have to know what you are right now! If you find a label that fits right now, great! But you don’t need to know exactly what you are when your still young :) So just take your time :)
Because it’s confusion just stop 😭
Everyone figures themselves out in some time! Nothing is a rush! ❤️
I feel you, I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually. It took me over a year to figure out what I am and be settled on it, and even then I'm still questioning some things
This goes on everyday in my head, if it happens to you to, don’t even pretend that you don’t want to screech. ☕️
Honestly it took me the longest time to realize that im both Floric and a demiboy, i always just stuck with the label genderfluid, then i hated being called a girl, so then i labeled myself as nonbinary, then I realized that maybe i am genderfluid, which was a fucking lie, then i went back to nonbinary then decided "y'know what, i feel like a boy and i feel nonbinary, i cant decide so why not both"
Then sexuality- dont even get me started
I went from a straight cis girl, to a bisexual cis girl, then back to straight, then I decided hey gender, who gives a shit in a relationship, so then i was Pansexual, then I realized i hated the thought of sex so i was then panromantic, then I realized i was a demiboy and realized I wasn't attracted to girls whatsoever, but im attracted to boys and nonbinary people- so i just went with the label Floric which according to google means well non women also attracted to non women so uh, yeah im still questioning that though so i just say gay-
I’m straight
HELP THE WAY U RUSH IS JUST😭✋-
Literally everyone when they go through a sexuality dating crisis
I'm abroromantic and it took me a while to reach this point of self discovery, so you could be abrosexual/abroromantic as well?! You could also be genderfluid!! If you need anything explained, just lmk!! Love you and support you 🥰🥰🥰
As a genderfluid pansexual I went through this and it just makes me smile be cause at least we know we are something that’s not just what others think would be right ❤️
I love how halfway through the video has an Identity crisis XD
It’s an endless loop😭😭😭
Sometimes the I'm just shocked when ever I question, just an example, I am like:
Wait, I'm non binary!?!
I'm obviously not but just an example
I know I'm pretty late but- honestly- If you like the label bisexual, go with that even if its not 100% accurate. If that's how you feel comfortable identifying then go for it. Also, In case this helps any, You can definitely have a preference for girls if you're Bi! When it comes to gender, honestly- for a while I just gave people what pronouns I wanna use and figured out the label later on. But of course, everyone is different so something else might work for you! Just take your time, do whatever makes you happy :)
Stan sound like hes being held hostage by mabel
loved the part where it said “I’m Stan and I was wrong”
love the vid lmao
Hey there! What does it mean to prefer another label? I just realised I’m Omnisexual, but I’m used to being Bi- so what should I do?
I love your videos
i just liked the label bisexual better :) it's more common and more simple to explain. I still had a preference, omni falls under the bi umbrella (so does pan). Bisexual individual usually has a preference anyway, most of the time it's not 50/50 with any genders. Basically i was in the situation where i could choose how to label myself, and i chose bi. Hope this helps!
forgot to add one thing haha-
so basically just go with what feels right to you
Thank you so much
honestly it took so much time for me to figure out i was lesbian, feel you.
This is literally just like the: “but I just can’t date a dude” meme. (I mean the extended meme)
Also same, and good luck :,)
Going through the exact same thing
Figuring out what I am and what I feel comfortable as is hard😅
I feel u currently going through the same 😭😂
Exactly why I just call myself queer, I was just stressing myself out at that point. I don’t really have a label.
Alastor: HoW dArE yOu nOt iNcLudE aRo
That's why i just eventually said "YOU KNOW WHAT IDGAF IF I FALL IN LOVE I FALL IN LOVE"
I went from homophobic to *clears throat*
Straight - Homophobic
Straight - Accepts
Straight - Supports
Questioning
Lesbian
Bisexual
Lesbian
Lesbian Non-binary
Lesbian
Bisexual
Pansexual Demi-girl
Bisexual
Now i'm questioning and a non-binary with she/they pronouns :,)
“WHAT AM I” is my whole life
End of the video: *IM STAN*
hello stan
i question myself whether i’m bisexual or pansexual
but i know goddamn well i’m bi-myself
DUDE IM WITH YOU ON THE GENDER THING
Audio: "I'm Stan."
**Zooms in on face**
The face: =)
I felt the end- bro idk what I am anymore I’m just living-
I’ve been going through the same troubles, gendering myself is so hard rn TvT
I remember when I was little I started liking my girl best friend and then I was just like “bruh no I can’t” 😭
The first thing with bi and pan is exactly my case rn!
I would date anyone that i would fall in love with, but i like the bi flag and colours better, and there's also not a really big chance for me meeting someone who's trans or smth like that. Sooo yeah, for now i go with bisexual, but we'll see
The end 🤣 just "I'm Stan"
I WENT THROUGH MORE THAN YOU LOL I BASICALLY HAD A MENTAL BREAKDOWN THINKING ABT HOW MANY SWITCHES I WENT THROUGHAJAHKABS
this is relatable on a whole different level i-
I got lucky cuz I finally figured out a good thing for my brain to settle on which is just simply “I’m a bi demiboy but I’ll just stick with saying I’m a boy when a random person asks me if I’m a boy or a girl”
i love how at the end its just IM STAAAN.
Hun, it took 17 years to figure myself out. Figuring out who you are is a wonderful journey with twists and turns. Be as wrong as many times as you can because that's experience and this rollercoaster has alot of loops. Go through or around or below or above those loops, have a fantastic and fun ride.
- MeepMoop
Im just…..A breathing heartbeating existing THING
I feel this in the deepness of my heart
as a queer asexual who spent way too much thought on identity,
relatable
I feel you, although my journey wasn't that complicated
here’s my journey:
straight (she/her)
straight ally (she/her)
bisexual (she/her)
pansexual (she/her)
pansexual (she/they)
pansexual (she/they/it)
omnisexual (she/they/it)
lesbian (she/they/it)
lesbian (she/they)
When ur a gravity falls lover im just singing along シ︎
Don’t rush it. You’ll find out eventually. You don’t need a label
I felt that on a personal level
Finally a video with omni in it I feel so represented if it was just showing your time figuring out who you are
*I honestly feel like I have a label slapped onto me for everything.*
This is the reason why I don't give myself a label even though Technacly I'd be pan but I don't want to labels just know that I am attracted to a person why who they are and NOT gender
This is accurate- I went bisexual to gay to aro and ace back to gay, and then back to bisexual
I’m just seeing this trend on my recommended and now I’m questioning it all over again thank you so much y’know 😭🔫
YASSS FIRST" IM STAN AND I WAS WRONG "WITH SOMEONE LEBIAN AT THE END!!!
(im so happy bc im lesbain)
As a not interested at relationships Omnisexual,
*I definitely feel you by questioning randomly whats my sexuality and pronouns.*
i used to label myself but i find it so hard to know whether i feel romantic attraction or not that i just gave up trying to discover it
cmon unlabeled gang
WE ARE THE SAMEE
Ur everything✨🤧🤧
Tbh, this is me in a nutshell when I find out more about the LGBTQ+ community lol