Your dad disowning you over babysitting and then coming back because of your inheritance shows they care more about what you can give than who you are-that’s so hurtful
Refusing to babysit doesn’t justify being disowned, and it’s shocking how quickly they can change their tune when money is involved,it shows where their true priorities lie...
It’s sad how some families only value you when there’s something in it for them,being disowned for such a petty reason is bad enough, but them returning now is just insulting...
Refusing to babysit doesn’t make you the bad guy, and your dad disowning you for it was already extrememit’s ironic that now they’re interested in your life again because of money...
#1 they had an agreement to let the person know about babysitting. If you are going on a vacation and leaving the kids you don't tell the person the day before you leave 'oh you'll be babysitting my kids for several days'. Sis and parents are the ones in the wrong here. Surprised OP just didn't stop watching them all together. What would they of done if OP hadn't stopped by early, were they just going to show up and drop the kids off then blame OP for not being home?
There is NO good excuse to abandon your children. “Tracking them on social media” is NOTHING. “He kept me away” Nah. She left because he was abusive. She took the excuse and ran away from her responsibilities. Giving your kids money and never seeing or interacting with them IS abandonment. She abandoned her children.
You make a strong point. Trust is such a fragile thing, and once it’s broken, it’s almost impossible to rebuild. I guess the challenge is learning to protect my peace while still leaving room for forgiveness... but maybe forgiveness doesn’t mean going back.
Wonder if it ever ocurred to Lily or dictator dad that if Amelia wanted to be responsible for caring for a bunch of kids, she would have her own. Where is the law that says siblings are required to babysit brother's and sister's brats.
Let her keep the damn inheritance. I do not care about whatever money you might have. Do not care about your driveby guilting. There is a special place in hell for selfish people like you. Her father used money and lies to control his kids. Karma will be his undoing.
Wow… that comment really hit hard. I totally get the frustration. It’s exhausting to see money and manipulation tear families apart. No one should have to endure that kind of control. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
The fact that your dad disowned you for not babysitting your sister’s kids, only to come back when they found out about your inheritance, says everything about their character,it’s pure selfishness...
Refusing to babysit doesn’t justify being disowned, and it’s shocking how quickly they can change their tune when money is involved,it shows where their true priorities lie...
What OP did in the second story was spot on.
Inheritance? SHOVE IT!
Took OP time for that. Wanted that money. Even apologized after the first time.
Your dad disowning you over babysitting and then coming back because of your inheritance shows they care more about what you can give than who you are-that’s so hurtful
Refusing to babysit doesn’t justify being disowned, and it’s shocking how quickly they can change their tune when money is involved,it shows where their true priorities lie...
How does a mother walk away from two very young daughters? Without any visitation? Nope.
Yup. OP may pretend otherwise. But her mother 100% abandoned her
It’s sad how some families only value you when there’s something in it for them,being disowned for such a petty reason is bad enough, but them returning now is just insulting...
Refusing to babysit doesn’t make you the bad guy, and your dad disowning you for it was already extrememit’s ironic that now they’re interested in your life again because of money...
#1 they had an agreement to let the person know about babysitting. If you are going on a vacation and leaving the kids you don't tell the person the day before you leave 'oh you'll be babysitting my kids for several days'. Sis and parents are the ones in the wrong here. Surprised OP just didn't stop watching them all together. What would they of done if OP hadn't stopped by early, were they just going to show up and drop the kids off then blame OP for not being home?
Why do they have access to your home?? Triple lock that and do what we used to do as children with solicitors. No one is home
Right keep knocking I'm not opening the door
There is NO good excuse to abandon your children. “Tracking them on social media” is NOTHING.
“He kept me away” Nah.
She left because he was abusive. She took the excuse and ran away from her responsibilities.
Giving your kids money and never seeing or interacting with them IS abandonment. She abandoned her children.
Starting to hate that word 'selfish'. Overused in these stories.
You make a strong point. Trust is such a fragile thing, and once it’s broken, it’s almost impossible to rebuild. I guess the challenge is learning to protect my peace while still leaving room for forgiveness... but maybe forgiveness doesn’t mean going back.
Wonder if it ever ocurred to Lily or dictator dad that if Amelia wanted to be responsible for caring for a bunch of kids, she would have her own. Where is the law that says siblings are required to babysit brother's and sister's brats.
Let her keep the damn inheritance. I do not care about whatever money you might have. Do not care about your driveby guilting. There is a special place in hell for selfish people like you. Her father used money and lies to control his kids. Karma will be his undoing.
Wow… that comment really hit hard. I totally get the frustration. It’s exhausting to see money and manipulation tear families apart. No one should have to endure that kind of control. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
The fact that your dad disowned you for not babysitting your sister’s kids, only to come back when they found out about your inheritance, says everything about their character,it’s pure selfishness...
FAFO
Refusing to babysit doesn’t justify being disowned, and it’s shocking how quickly they can change their tune when money is involved,it shows where their true priorities lie...