We sat down with my dad and wrote his eulogy moths before he died. He knew his end was coming
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มี.ค. 2024
- Today Carol your health coach takes us through her journey of grief after the loss if her father
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Wah, Carol, my heart goes out to you. Now this is one I can say, " I 'can" understand how you feel". Just watching this brought deep deep sadness to my heart. My 80 year old dad passed on unexpectedly in 2022. I am in the US, I had just talked to him 6 hours ago, he was in hospital about to go to a surgery he might not have come out from. He was a lover of life, to the end he fought for independence. He loved me fiercely as his only daughter, and I the same. I do not think I will ever experience a greater more pure love. Its been 2 years. I am a 40 year old woman who still breaks down so badly at times at his memory. I have my moments. I try to bury the memory instead of dealing with it (Something that even I, who is a psychiatry practitioner know not to do-and tell my patients not to do). But life has to go on...Daddy sends me a sign once in a while that he got me, that he might be watching over me, but maybe those are the stories I want to tell myself. I cannot justify death...its simply the most defeating, painful process any human can go through. I miss my daddy. Carol, I hope that you find peace. It does somewhat get better with time, but you will always have those moments...
Love you n thanks for checking on our aunt
As daddy's girl i understand how you feel ,may God give you peace,hugs dear🙏🙏🙏
I just love this girl
Carol your health coach may God console you.
We love you ❤
Take heart my dea I went through the same experience with my dad 3 years ago he prepared me then left you are blessed cry it out it helps for me it took me over an year feeling a lot of emptiness but am now healing when I miss him I remember the good times we had together , healing is a process but it will come eventually be blessed
Beautiful ladies blessed with good heart always ❤
Hugs ad much love Carol ,God will be with you, grief is tough but its well,, I lost my husband 5yrsdown the line am still filling holoo in my heart … i cried for 3yrs …l know deathis heavy
Hugs Monica for visiting and comforting her
The pain of loosing a parent is unbearable, almost 3 yrs n still misses my dad. Remembering him daily 😢😢😢. So painful
Carol that was so kind of you 😊 i lost my dad 3years ago i still tear up
Hugs & love to you, Carol.
I'm in the anticipatory grief stage for my mum. I have learned practically that it is healthy to grieve our loved ones to the fullest & to allow the process happen without rushing to return to 'normal' life. We deny ourselves a vital component of the healing process when we push grief aside in order to get on with life.
There is a time for everything. A time to laugh & a time to weep. A time to rejoice & a time to grieve.
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Hugs carol
May God grant you peace and May your dad soul Rest In Peace
Monica good job 🎉
Hugs Carol.May God continue to strengthen you and give you the peace that surpasses human unverstanden.
I know how it feels to loose a loved one,, I lost my dad n 2018 and was not in a Position to go burry him,.Only tears consoled me.
Congratulations Carol. May u have peace❤
Woi Carol I feel you. 😢I really do feel you. Thanks Monica for checking up on her. She's really trying to be strong
Carol it's very healthy to cry ,It helps one to heal though it's not easy,,I have gone through this and it's only God Who strengthens someone 🙏🙏🙏
Its good to cry. Its good to feel bad. May his soul rest.
Im happy to see carol cause i was missing her thanku kagoni thanku
It's usually very difficult to accept a loved one has left I lost my Dad twenty years ago and my mum years ago and it's very devastating but be strong in the Lord
May God give you peace that surpasses all understanding.
Carol May God's peace carry you through.
Carol, it's not easy, but our God will see you through. Hugs dear
Carol you are a strong girl...no matter how,no one can be prepared for death especially for a parent...it is well sweetheart ❤
Hugs to you Carol
May God give you the peace that only He can.
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Hugs Carol it's well may God comfort you
Its well Caro you will heal.Healing its a process God will come through for you.
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Wooi Carol may God give u peace it's well
Pole Carol. May you find peace in the Lord
Hugs carol devine peace be with you
Pole saana tata wa Murio its well ifeel yr pain ilost dad n bro buried sameday kama tulipona pia nyinyi mtapona.mungu aedelee kuwafariji it's not easy but God is able
Take heart Caro we love you
Wooi Carol may God give you peace
Pole sana Carol. The pain of loosing a loved one is unbearable. 😢
Hugs Carol, Its well
Pole sana for your loss Carol. There's no right or wrong way to grieve, the important thing is to grieve. It will get better but you'll always miss your dad.🫂
Kate, you're such a vibe and AMG are lucky to have you. You're the same online and in person😘
Metha Ya Kagoni, you never disappoint, thank you.❤
Sorry for the loss of your dad
May our Lord give you peace tata witu❤❤❤
Hugs auntie....Ngai ni ageragia aria endete.
Carol take heart. I lost my mum 18th feb 2022 but to me is like yesterday i cry alot. Was so close to my mum. I know is not easy
Hugs hugs gal
Good job gals
Wonderful girls
It's well Tata it's well God will heal your heart
I remember vividly back 2004 when my mother called me at wee morning 2am and she requested me we write her eurogy and she died later after 3months
I really understand her pain....... it has never been easy.....
It's 17yrs since I lost my dad but when I feel missing him the pain is always flesh I cry like he just died
*fresh but not flesh 😅
Carol may God b with you. Personally i miss you. We miss you the murio family and we love you❤❤❤
Sorry Carole,it's never easy to lose a parent,you never heal with time that's a lie,you just get used to stay with the paid,I lost my dad in 2019 the pain is always fresh daily however much I try to fake,I never thought I would smile again😮😮😮
Don't know if I'll be able to finish watching this... lost my dad some years back and I have never healed,the wound always peels when I come across such an interview 😢😢 they say time heals everything... well to me nothing has healed 😭😭
It is nice to know that there people who know death is a part of life and it is inventible. Once born we have one day to live this world. The only way to leave the world is through death. I compare death to birth. A baby lives in utero for nine months surround by water, listening to the mother's heart beat, breath sound, and the movement of the intestines. The baby is comfortable drinks the water and swims. That is his/her world, but one day his/her world starts collapsing. The water breaks and the abdominal muscles are squeezing him. The baby has to pass through a narrow canal and he is frightened as he knows he is dying. The baby is born but he is silent and not breathing until he is tapped on the back. He takes the first breath and cries. He sees bright light and people all around. He then hears a familiar voice saying welcome my son/daughter. I believe when our soul leaves our body it goes to the Lord who is waiting for us, and we hear the familiar voice,' well done my good faithful child. The placentae is born and buried so when our soul leaves the body our body has to be buried. We are made of dust and we have to go back to dust. Our loved ones are not dead but very much alive with the Lord and we hope to meet them one day.
Grief is a process and you only learn to live without the person but u never heal completely. Carol how you feel is normal. Allow yourself to go through the process.
Am crying all over again..i get you Carol😢Dad passed nikiwa huku Gulf am yet to go home and face the reality i still imagine that i will find him and tell him all about gulf tribulations 😢😢😢😢
Hugs pole
hugs to tata🫂
With time you will heal
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God give you peace carol. Where exactly is this your shop plse.
I lost my mum on July 5th 2023,,, tulikuwa na yy kwa kazi yangu akikujia key ya gate . But after some few minutes niliitwa akiwa hocy na hivyo ndivyo hakurudi😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lost my mom same day with you. July 5th 2023 at 11.30am
Waaah this cannot be serious 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭that date, that day that tyme took good ppl am not happy
Hugs tata
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Carol my condolences to you & your family & may your dad rest in peace 🕊️
Carol nimelia sana just by watching your story. I lost my sister in 2018 and its like I've never healed. May God give us strength
It's so painful to loss a close relative mostly a parent may God give Carol strength to carry on 😢
A day at a time Caro
Mema hayaozi na yakioza hawanuki
Woi I feel like it’s too early to interview her . She hasn’t healed :(
My thoughts though 😢😢😢😢😢
By sharing her pain......it helps to heal fast since you pour it out.
My dad was perfectly fine. He came home at noontime which was unlike him saying he was feeling tired and would take a nap for 1 hour before going back to his business. 15 minutes into the nap he got a massive heart attack and died. How now? Was my question for 2 years. Take heart my dear
Mungu akupe nguvu our tata
Cate Muriuki hawayu?
Am doing great Shiko … hawayu?
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❤❤❤🎉my God give you strength
I just love this girl
Carol your health coach may God console you.
We love you ❤