@@dietwald Me Cooking "Oh this will be a fun lil ingredient to try!" Me baking "OH DEAR GOD I FORGOT TO CHECK THE HUMIDITY OUTSIDE BEFORE WE STARTED AND I KNOW ONLY SUFFERING FOR MY HUBRIS!"
Seeing “loves bugs” as a “feminine trait” took me out because as an afab person I was told I was ‘weird’ and ‘tomboyish’ for loving bugs as a young child.
Same, I don't love them across the board but I like spiders, butterflies, and some other bugs, and I'm generally not afraid of bugs, which was all considered masculine except for the butterflies.
I'm a man and I currently have/like/do at least 5 of the things on that "feminine bingo" card, and several more throughout my life. Who doesn't like (any) animals, listen to music or read? Seriously? Also, I find the night comforting and quiet,especially as an introverted person, and I own knitwear because it's warm. This stuff is ridiculous, and I'm saying that as a sterotypically masculine guy who doesn't moisturise. I'm not refusing to moisturise because "women do it", but I just can't be bothered. I've tried those products before (was given some by a girl).
@@Onnarashi I don't moisturize either for the same reason and I'm a woman lol. I used to consider myself not feminine because I could not get on board with the classy femininity my mom and sisters were into. Wasn't until later that I realized my femininity is more of the flower child variety.
@@dragongirl7978 I feel you. I fit a bunch of masculine stereotypes but I'm not thrilled by some of them. I've wondered if I was "masculine enough" because I didn't fit EXACTLY into some neat "man box". It's dumb, and way too narrow anyway.
Little known fact: in industrial kitchens, the stove fires can only be lit using a pen1s, and baking ovens can only be turned on by telekinesis from ovaries
For real, I've seen a male baker who was a big, hulking guy. I was thinking about how tough dough can be to work, especially in large amounts. You can get some workout pounding that dough with your fists, as well as whisking different ingredients by hand. Bakers also got to lift that dough and put them in those ovens, and that can be heavy. They have some huge trays and can but several breads worth of dough on them for baking.
@@Onnarashi Every baker I've met (myself included) has beefy forearms. Not necessarily generally fit, i've got more rolls than the dough, but I got hella arm strength.
Literally baking is so hard. You can follow a recipe exactly from a video and get wildly different results based on the general climate in your area, altitude, sea level, temperature of your hands, season, and phase of the fucking moon.
Even when its not summer, who tf goes several hours without drinking anything. But maybe thats just due to my dry mouth that makes me constantly thirsty
@@ricochetrivrI hear that, good lord. I am on a couple of meds that dry me out like jerky. I tried to hydrate enough to sell plasma (cos I’m poor) but even drinking a gallon of water the day before didn’t do it.
gender stereotypes really fucked me up as a kid only know that i'm more comfortable with myself am i allowing myself to safely explore my feminine side without the expectations of being forced into it
Right!!! I was never fully a tomboy but I also was nowhere near "girly"... My energy was "boyish" so I felt more comfortable with my male classmates in elementary school... Although I wished I had more female friends especially when I started to develop... As I got older I made female friends... I never got the lesbian rumors but that's probably because I always had a crush I was talking about... Either a secret crush or a celebrity... I was not like other girls (in my small town) but I didn't think that made me better... I actually hated it cuz I felt wrong... Now I love it tho... But that's after finally seeing people like me... Like actually comfortable in gender limbo... I'm a non-binary bisexual... Or "chaotically queer" cuz the other way sounds boring... Hehehe Gender is the stupidest thing humans created to categorize us...
@@Elle_Like_The_Letter Serious question, as a guy. Do you think gender in general is bad, even if people are happy with it? I'm mostly happy with being a man, although I wish the "man box" wasn't so narrowly defined and policed. Even though I'm generally fine with my gender identity, I do see the point of relaxing these strict gender norms placed on people. All this performative gender nonsense doesn't need to be imposed on people, but I also think it's valid if you feel like a man or a woman and you're happy with that.
@@Onnarashi gender is a social construct... Which means it changes as society evolves... The 80s there was major gender bending. Men would wear dresses just to piss people off!!!!! Men still do that. Nothing is changing about who we are just the labels... And if labels help people feel less alone then yes go go go... But so many labels are used to separate us to make us feel less than to be used as less than... I have a love hate relationship with labels... But for medical reasons we totally need a category for male and female. But gender itself was so unnecessary in my opinion... We are comfortable with what is presented to us as comfortable... My mother would walk around naked when we where younger... so I felt comfortable with nudity... until my mom thought I was perving on her cuz I accidentally walked in on her in the bathroom... I was born female fyi... So nudity became "sinful" and made me feel so uncomfortable... We start separating boys and girls as a society in elementary school... Bathrooms should hide everyone's bodies not separate bodies... Cuz this really where the gender differences get ingrained in us... Look at healthy nudest communities... I doubt people are walking around with hard ons... Cuz they don't sexualize bodies every time they see one... It's weird how many poorer countries women walk around topless and they aren't "whores"... But weirdly the societies that forces a dress code are the ones constantly sexualizing bodies... That's the main reason we separate boys from girls... Is how much we sexualize the female body... "Boys can't control themselves so girls have to cover up and be separate from the boys"... Hope this made sense... Dyslexic ADHDer...
@@Elle_Like_The_Letter I agree as a kid who didn't really get along with other kids i basically just tried to be "ultimately masculine" (basically rejecting anything feminine) but then i realised i wasn't too masculine either, nowadays im a mix because i'm allowed to be myself
Gendered ideas about bodies are also so stupid. I was 6 or 7 and wanted to play a music instrument. I ended up on the piano (but it became keyboard later because I could not reach the pedals on a piano because I was to short) and the reason I was considered well off for an instrument like that? "You have girly hands". Because apparently, pre-puberty there's a distinct difference between girl and boy hands...
As someone who both cooks and bakes, let me tell you I have never sat on my kitchen floor in tears at 11pm while cooking because the topping didn’t turn out how it was supposed to even though I was following the recipe exactly. Cooking is infinitely easier
i once remade a cake THREE TIMES trying to figure out what i did wrong lmao, doing things slightly differently each time. after the third time of the cake not rising properly, my dad and I said "fuck it" and just ordered a cake from a baker. some recipes just suck!
Cooking has never made me have multiple breakdowns because I was trying to make something vegan for a friend and the frosting recipe ended up being the consistency of sand. (For anyone else in the same boat, a few splashes of oat milk fixed it. It just needed liquid.)
I'm a woman who buys Dr. Squatch mens soap for myself because they got some pretty cool scents, have collabs with things like Star Wars and Jurassic Park, is all natural, and is actually the first soap that hasn't make my skin itch like fire in the shower. They also offer aluminum free antiperspirant deodorant that have the same scents, and honestly, I like smelling like "Wood Barrel Bourbon" I found out how good this brand was after finding Yoda themed soap for a good price, thought to myself "Aw, man, I'm a girl, so I can't buy man soap." and then I was like "... WHY THE HELL CAN'T I BUY THIS, IT'S JUST SOAP??" Best hygiene decision I've made. I smell great, I'm not having allergic reactions, and it's eco-friendly.
@@KiboSanti thats actually so interesting bc most of the men's products im familiar with due to family members using them, the men's deodorants are FAR more strongly scented than any of my "women's" products were. i have a fragrance allergy (which is just like a few allergies under one umbrella bc who knows what those ingredients are, aka i could just be allergic to this fragrance and not the other BUT) my husband's deodorant stinks up the entire room even after its gone. i found out i was reacting to it bc he bought a new one and i can STILL smell it in the bathroom DAYS after its been thrown out and i've cleaned. lol. meanwhile my old deodorant before i discovered the cause of some of my skin reactions (bc im also allergic to corn) is still in the house and is what he has to use now instead bc i at least can exist in the same room as it 😅 i can't smell it at all granted, its a "cleaner" brand and my husband's old deodorant is not but still. its SO strong haha 😅 unscented products are usually very non gendered though so at least there is that 😅😅 lol
Sorry if so already mentioned it, but: reason why there are "girls" and "boys" and not "like unicorns" and "like wizards" things are money. For example, you have girl and boy kid. They will be probably ok to play together with either wizards or unicorns. So you put gender sticker on it, say the boys cannot like unicorns and girls cannot like wizards and now you can sell two things
Uyen Ninh did a pretty funny skit where she looks at her bf's 3-in-1 shampoo like "Wow, 3-in-1, pretty amazing, right? *THEN WHY AREN'T YOU USING IT?* Your hair doesn't naturally smell like my expensive lavender scented shampoo!"
Everytime I hear abt the bathrooms with weird sign I think abt the time I went to a restaurant with my family wit one of the signs that said "blah" for men and "blah blah blah.." for women. And my little brother came back and was so confused bc he didn't know which he was supposed to go into.
16:25 "boys can't like unicorns" just made me remember something from when I went to New York when I turned 18 We were in LaGuardia airport and this little boy, maybe 7 or 8, just looked up at me and GASPED, and said "You have unicorn hair!" And it made my entire week.
I was shopping for a children's hospital for a relative once and she had such outdated views on gender like this superhero comic book is for boys, cat coloring book is for girls, dog one i for boys, etc. I swear I am not lying, ended up not even going through with it despite me needing help because i had no clue how to do it. Made me uncomfortable because I still hate pink because of what society pushes on girls, even though I know a color did nothing
@@ThatFont , I know. They do know there are male cats and female dogs right? And also, what kid doesn't want to have superpowers? Being a girl didn't stop me from imagining having magic powers as a kid
Every time I see Quora come up in videos like these I feel less bad about them permabanning me for calling a 15-year-old self-described Nazi a "failure at life." And that was it, I swear. I didn't even cuss. But apparently that still counted as "bullying."
Quora is like 4-chan if it was only for questions and answers now... I went on there for a gender question just the other day and the amount of transphobia rivals Twitter by a long shot, and from there you go into the parenting sections and... It's straight up abuse people are agreeing with, I can't imagine what the rest of it is like 💀💀💀
quora locked me out of my account for not using my real name after having had the account for several years without issue lmao idk i guess that was always a rule but i didnt real the fine print. but they wouldnt let me change it and i can't even delete my account bc i can't get in to do so 😅😂
Man that first one pissed me off. I’m a huge NHL fan - and I’m non-binary AFAB. Are they aware of the plenty women’s hockey league??? The PWHL?!? Like my guy stop gendering sports !!
@@amx._arrowyep, Manon Rheaume. She only played very briefly for the Tampa Bay Lightening, and only during exhibition games, but she was officially an NHL player
@@SarastistheSerpentShe also played in the AHL for them. Also being a hockey fan shouldn't be gendered, I watch hockey because I liked watching the Hershey Bears while working as a scare actor at Hersheypark (the majority of us were girls, although certainly not all of us). Proud to see regulars like Aube-Kubel that I watched in Hershey in the NHL and playing in the playoffs, hoping the Caps can get an upset (and I'm more optomistic about the chances than most).
LMFAO, the apple and banana thing had me rolling because I'm a masculine presenting person, but i live for the work gossip and the tea people give me. I'll never speak a word in confidence but the drama gives me life.
Do these people ever stop to wonder why someone is gossiping about a problem at work? Do they ever stop to think that maybe women aren't listened to when they try to solve a problem in the workplace so it might be easier to try to talk to people and see if you can get them on your side??
Figure skaters as a placeholder for 'women' is so funny to me when my introduction to figure skating was Yuri on Ice... lol Edit: it's a boy love anime jsyk, yes lots of boys figure skating, and also they're in love.
Fun fact: in the comics the original reason Thanos wanted to wipe out half of all life in the universe was to impress Death because he was in love with her. This was all before Deadpool was even created. So she's kinda always been drawn like that.
Deadpool might not chug his Respect Women Juice, but he definitely sips it. Marvel's Death has boobs because that's the form she chose. It gets her what she wants most effectively.
The "cooking is masculine vs baking is feminine" thing is so funny to me because growing up, my dad always preferred and was better at baking while my mom always preferred and was better at cooking
Fun fact, Languages started to sort nouns into categories before they decided those categories should be named after genders. Some Indo-European languages have "animate" and "inanimate" nouns and some languages from different groups have yet completely different noun classes. (As a native speaker of Czech, a gendered Slavic language, I feel weirdly protective over grammatical genders, I can't help it.)
Omg, random, but you could actually help me with something?? I'm currently trying to learn Czech via Duolingo, but it can only go so far, bc no rules are ever explained, and it drives me nuts! Like, when do you say “ti psi" vs "ty psy"? Why is it "děti nepijou víno" , but "děti pijí mléko"?? And I can't figure out the conjugation for the double-parted verb for liking / preferring sth for the life of me! Sorry, just, there are no Czech grammar books found anywhere in my town, I'm getting desperate lol
@@esmeraldaloschuetz9120 Oh, I do German on Duolingo! But yes, it's not very helpful. I'm sure glad to have studied German in school, too 🤣 I can try to help. I definitely think it should be "děti nepijí víno," that looks like mistake on Duolingo's side. The thing with dogs, that depends on grammatical case. It's "ti psi" in nominative and "ty psy" in accusative. It's like the difference between they and them. I guess that to like aka "mít rád" can be hard, because grammatical genders come into play there. "Rád" behaves like an adjective. It doesn't match the conjugation of "mít". Instead, its desinence changes based on the gender of a person (or a thing) that is a grammatical subject of the sentence in question. That is, the person about whose preferences the sentence talks. It goes: for singular, the masculine is "rád", feminine is "ráda" and neutral is "rádo". For plural, masculine is "rádi," feminine is "rády" and neutral is "ráda." Matching correct predicate to a subject is hard, it's actually the kind of thing in which native speakers make mistakes regularly. Honestly, I think you rock for taking on such a challenge as learning Czech 😅 it's so complicated that we also struggle with it 🤣 it's weird.
@@chanterelle483 OMG OMG you answered!! THANK YOU SO, SO MUCH!! Seriously, I can't thank you enough, how kind of you to take the time and resopond and explain everything so clearly! This actually helps a LOT and cleares things up! I can't thank you enough!! I have one folloow-up question, though: When do you use the male plural and when the female plural for several people? Because in French, the rule is: Once there is a SINGLE male in the group, the personal pronoun becomes all-male plural. A female group has to be female only to be referred to as "they" on female plural. It it the same in Czech? Is that the ominous difference between "ony" and "oni"? (Never quite figured that out, either.) Sorry to bother you, thank you so much! I can't take all the credit for making progress in Czech, I am a native Russian speaker (or used to be as a kid, now it's very rusty), so some of the grammar is similar and some of the words are easier to remember. But not all! Sometimes a very similar word means a very different thing, it can drive you nuts lol. My main language is German (it has become basically my "first" language, as I came here as a small kid) - so if you need to ask me anything about German grammar, ask away! I'm by far no expert, but I will try to explain to the best of my abilities! Thanks again! I'm going to Prague for 4 days tomorrow, super super excited!! Then my skills will be put to the test lol
When it comes to ranting vs problem solving, I’m a woman who has a huge issue of always wanting to look for solutions when my loved ones come to me with complaints. To adjust this behavior, I’ve taken to gently asking “do you want advice, or do you just need me to listen?” that way I know what my role is in the conversation so I don’t overstep and offer the correct kind of support. (Although I always do want to offer solutions even when it’s not wanted, but it’s up to me to bite my tongue and just be a sympathetic listener instead lol)
I also love asking what response people need! Another thing I have found helpful in certain cases is, if asked for help, asking what kind of help they are looking for. This is much more tailored to the specific situation but possibilities often include things like advice, talking to someone for them/acting as a go between, attempting a fix myself, etc.
11:57 Weird...My lil kitty cat boi was drinking at his water fountain...so of course as soon as I learned that, I quickly turned to him and screamed 'BABY WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!? YOU LOOK SOOOOOOOOOO GAY RIGHT NOW! S O O O O O O O O O O O O O O GAY!' but he didn't seem to care...like at all. Strange, really strange 🤔 I tried again with a classic emotional manipulation: 'Don't you want to be masculine!? Alpha!??!? GET SOME PUSSEY!!?!?!??!😭' but still didn't work! Think he's actually gay? 🤔🤨 Also, as to 'why' or 'how' French came to be a gendered language...that's a bit of a long history, but just know that we're doing our best! Now making older words 'invariables' and creating new ones! Don't be too harsh, French can be great I swear 🥲
listening to the intro and all of a sudden I remember that dress is el vestido in Spanish (taking Spanish 1 in school) yet is considered a feminine thing in society (as far as I know) Idk where I’m going with this, I just wanted to share Edit: forgot to share that anything starting with with “el” as the noun (I think that’s it, it means “the”) is masculine
Death as a woman was not for Deadpool…..it was for Thanos….Thanos loves Death…though your point still stands about skeleton boobs. Maybe Death is a physical fleshy being with boobs that is just invisible except for her bones.
The same death character has a romance with dead pool too. I think she returned Deadpool's feelings, but not thanos... the skeleton boobs are weird tho
I mean that one "Death" is "Mistress Death." There are several personifications of death in Marvel. Also Mistress Death and DP have a decent "long distance" relationship. Deadpool can't stay dead, so Death literally can only pine for him and only meet briefly.
As someone who’s relatively good at both baking and cooking, baking results can be changed by if you pack your flour into the measuring cup vs if you just scoop, and if you’re a few grams off of one ingredient it can change the texture or flavor significantly. It’s basically just tasty (and delegitimized because of sexism) chemistry
"Some parents wouldn't buy unicorns for their sons". Those poor, poor boys😢. My younger son calls himself Princess Unicorn Sparkles, and has a room full of pink, unicorns, and Barbies.
Man... the one thing that has helped so much when someone tells me that they need to tell me something that happened, I'll ask "do you need solutions, or do you need someone to listen". Helps a lot.
one time as a cashier a mom came up with her little kids and as i rang up the stickers the daughter said "the unicorn ones are for my little brother cuz he loves unicorns and the dinosaur ones are for me cuz i love dinosaurs!" it was really nice seeing the parents not forcing them to swap interests because of dumb gender roles and just letting them be kids liking what kids like :)
Let those men who diss on skincare and hygiene laugh. They don’t seem to realize that men need to take care of their skin too. It only seems women do it more because our thin skin makes us more prone to wrinkles. There are other reasons, of course, but that was the first that came to mind. And I still get a laugh when I hear the whole “men are logical and women are emotional” bullsh*t argument. I’ll admit that I don’t necessarily talk about my problems and expect advice or assistance. Sometimes just talking it out helps put things into perspective and also get out any emotions that are clouding any sort of judgement. There is a time and a place for logic and emotions and one often does tend to get in the way of the other, but we need both to properly function. One shouldn’t be superior to the other. Also, adding onto that, men AND women can be logical AND emotional. I know, it’s shocking, but it’s true.
Fun fact about Marvel's Death, another character who fancies Death is Thanos. That was literally the only motive for wanting to wipe out half of the universe's life. he wanted to bone some bones. and I doubt Death being a guy would slide back in 1992 that well, given Thanos' motives. also Death's fascination with Deadpool is based on him not being able to die, and Thanos is super jealous.
Cooking is: "Aww, man, I forgot the parsley. Anyway, this random spice I found at the back of the cupboard should be good enough to replace it." Baking is: "OH MY GOD I FORGOT TO CHECK THE HUMIDITY OUTSIDE BEFORE I PREHEATED THE OVEN AT 450.324 DEGREES NOW EVERYTHING'S RUINED"
The only thing I can come up with is that the bingo card says it's from an account "aliensarewifey" so maybe they're not referring to humans. Because otherwise none of it makes any sense. 🤔
I am a woman who plays Ice Hockey!!!!! Also, I've seen plenty of male figure skaters in my day and honestly, yes, like doing figure skating as a man is awesome and also hot ngl
I genuinely find baking easier than cooking. Not because you don't have to be precise/exacting, but actually because you really have to be precise/exacting. I have great success in baking because I find the idea of deviating from a recipe utterly abhorrent. Any variation has a significant chance of cascading horribly, so I get very, VERY precise. And, as a result, I'll know whether or not any problem with the product is an issue of the recipe or my own failing at whatever step. On the other hand, I loathe cooking because the instructions are often deliberately vague (season to taste, bake for x-y minutes or until the center begins to bubble, boil pasta until it's soft but not TOO soft, etc...) because relatively small variations in air pressure, humidity, room temperature, etc... genuinely cause notable variations in the results of any given stage and the perceived flavor of the final product. It feels significantly more stressful to me to be cooking a meal for others as I constantly have to second and triple guess whether or not I've actually reached each checkpoint to proceed or if I've done too little/too much. My mother, on the other hand, loves to experiment in the kitchen. She is very good at and enjoys cooking. She knows all sorts of little tricks to correct minor mistakes or speed certain processes up and has long since developed her memory for all the little minor signs that vague end points for common recipe steps have been met and the general flavor pallet the people she is cooking for will enjoy. However, my mother struggles significantly with baking. Her tendency to experiment or substitute backfires on her leading to things not setting right, being undercooked, burned, etc... And it's not just her. My younger brother has her same issues with baking, but is quite good at and enjoys cooking. I think it's less that one is actually harder or easier than the other than it is that they favor different mindsets. Baking is rules heavy: do it exactly or there will be problems so only experiment if you are prepared to lose the entire dish. Cooking is rules light: if you do it exactly, there will probably be problems so figure out ways to fill the gaps and save the dish.
The one about the water bottle is so bonkers 😂 I've been working on drinking more water and less caffeinated drinks (my doctor recently said that I was dehydrated) having a water bottle has been a huge help. And now I'm like what the heck 😂
@@Onnarashi fair, it's just, in my experience, when people say 'bug' they do mean an insect. i've never met anyone who actually refers to snails and slugs as insects or bugs in real life.
"Bug" actually is a scientific term! It's used to refer to the insect order hemiptera :D Colloquially though, people use it for all arthropods except crustaceans, plus some other animals like snails and slugs
I know a restaurant where the sign on the male toilet says 'blah' and on the female toilet 'blah blah blah'. I am female and went to the 'blah'-bathroom because I would consider myself a rather quiet person.
Me, listening to an endless list of Heavy Metal and horror-core (while reading a book by candlelight with my brushed hair and painted nails, surrounded by my cat and a pile of plushies): "Wow, I never realized how girly Coal Chamber is! Guess I'll throw out my studio quality headphones so I can maintain my masculine energy!" /s
For the first one, I would (as a trans woman who doesn't pass yet) DEFINITELY go to the figure skating bathroom and when people complain, just say "Oh, my bad. I thought the bathroom ls were seperated by sport! I do figure skating and assumed I was supposed to go this way." It's also a perfectly autistic response and honestly, I feel like it would actually be a plausible assumption
the whole water thing is so crazy to me, like sorry i dehydrate really easily and get bad headaches when i get dehydrated, im going to take my little sips thank you very much
Baking and cooking are not gendered, but I could see a metaphor in that baking requires hard work and rigid adherence to instructions but gets an unearned reputation of being easy, while cooking is expected to involve a lot less carefulness but some people still have very strong opinions on the results.
3:35 baking is NOT light and sweet and i'm sure any bakers out there would agree with me. The first time i tried to bake bread with my family? It didn't turn out very well.
0:30 as a French I don't know either why everything is gendered in French, but it's true for Spanish and Italian too, so I'm guessing it has something to do with our latin roots. I empathize about how it would make learning it so much more difficult, though, so kudos to you
For more commentary on male figure skating, I'd recommend the cutting documentary Blades of Glory. (in seriousness that movie has aged way better than you'd expect because while there are some jokes about two men doing something that's normally done in a male-female pairing, everyone that judges them for it is portrayed as a moron and they quickly get over how "gay" it looks because they are doing it for the love of the sport, and if that means slamming their genitals together in a hilarious special move then so be it) Also stir-fry is the ballet of cooking because the ingredients soar through the air majestically as you toss them around the pan.
regarding the first one; throwback to when i was a little kid and thought men couldn't do ballet (or ice skating). like it was against the natural order of things. my mind was blown when my mum told me that was, in fact, not true
when the water bottle is mentioned at the airport but I’m still stuck of the mention of a pocket knife at airports; you aren’t allowed to carry pocket knives at airports they will get confiscated.
4:19 you're so right about this!! I love to bake and to cook and honestly baking is wayyy harder like has this person (the one who you're replying to) even tried to bake sourdough?? It's ridiculously difficult lol
I love your content but i think the joke with the skin care/shampoo one is the joke that men have perfect skin without trying while women have to work towards decent skin.
Some shampoos contain ingredients for skin care (since there is skin under your hair), so there could be a reason to use it on your face in some instances.
The banana comic - sometimes you simply need to rant and get stuff out of your system to analyze them for yourself. ESPECIALLY when you have some problems you are stuck with. I often like to rant about stuff I design and I'm stuck on how to do that shit so the 3D-Printer is NOT going to be a pain in the ass and as I rant I often come up with a solution myself cause I discribe my problem with words and then I actually think about it and come up with a solution myself. And my partner knows exactly he often has no clue what I can do to solve the problem cause he has no knowledge in that regard. But he hears me out and thr moment I end it, he simply ASKS QUESTIONS about it. He doesn't offer solutions but asks thinks like: "are you able to do this/that?" and sometimes it scratches at an actual solution for my problem or it gives me a new way of thinking and I'm back in the game so to say. And that's why I love ranting about the stuff I'm stuck to people who know nothing about what I do cause sometimes I need that naive "Is it possible to do this?". And when I rant about my part time job (cause I'm studying/just ended studying and still have my part time job at a supermarket till I get a full time job) I simply wanna blow off steam about people who were rude, people who can't see they make others uncomfortable or simply rant about a tricky situation that made my brain literally explode cause 5 things happend at the same time. And ALL THOSE THINGS don't NEED a solution, cause they are already over and can't be lived through AGAIN to make it better. So hearing phrases like "you should have done this/that" are NOT HELPING. Especially cause I MYSELF often are already aware of those things, but my brain didn't brain properly at the moment due to getting caught pff guard or overstimulation or even cause I couldn't anticipate what was gonna to unfold by being nice to someone. I mean: how should I have known not to actually give an answer cause that person is gonna get creepily nice to you and can't shut their mouth? I couldn't know! And I try my best in being a nice cashier, but there is a limit to my smile and I simply can't see who will do their best to step over that line. I can't know! And I simply wanna rant about those people and just get that out of my system and sometimes simply cry about my shitty situation that stresses me out af and I don't wanna know what I should do or better: What I've already done wrong! Because getting unwanted advice in those times simply smacks in your face what you already did wrong and in a way tells you that you are stupid for not thinking of that. And I love my boyfriend for simply asking me in the end "Do you want my advice?" and if not he simply lets me rant. Cause sometimes I actually want it... But all in all: let me rant. I will figure it out in the end and I don't need advice. I may be happy to recieve ideas, but not for situations that have already passed. And I'm german, so my smile is genuine and not a thing I HAVE to do at work... We only need to be friendly and lend a helping hand, but nothing tells me to smile all the time or talk to customers about anything other than things they wanna purchase/give back or where they find stuff. I do the little small talks now and then out of my own volition and because most people are actually making me smile and help me get through the day without wanting to shout. And then there are those who make me wanna scream...
Oh god oh heck, I always immediately jump to problem solving when someone is venting, I just wanna help I'm autistic I didn't know it made people feel bad :(
So that TikTok said men shouldn’t drink from water fountains, but Andrew Tate said men shouldn’t carry water bottles… Are men just supposed to be dehydrated all the time?
oh gOD the last one! People who do this: maybe your "solutions" aren't that useful and I've already considered what you're saying to me. Maybe I want a discussion and not a lecture. Maybeeeee.
ngl, the baking being feminine thing is kinda funny cause i absolutely love baking more than i like cooking and well, im a guy, honestly a pretty androgynous guy, but a guy nonetheless
As for that Deadpool thing, I once did a similar thing for kicks. While designing one of my games, I thought that giving a skeletal enemy some boob bones would be the funniest thing ever and I still crack myself up when I think about it, sometimes, specifically because it made no sense. But was it supposed to be a silly punchline in that comic and not just them trying to make Death sexy and more appealing to some parts of the audience/themselves for whatever reason? I dunno, hard to tell
22:46 To be fair, the reason she's a girl might be to make Thanos straight, not to make Deadpool straight. In the comics, Thanos' motive for the snap is LITERALLY so *Death would find him hot for killing half the universe* and he's canonically jealous of Deadpool
With the whole skin care thing, my brother is a bodybuilder, he has a tiktok where all he does is flex, and when I was still female identifying he was the one who taught me about skin care.
As someone who loves baking and cooking, baking is definitely harder. I remember trying to make macaron 10 times because i kept messing it up- its one of the hardest things to bake. Whereas in cooking I just go with my gut and instinct and 90% of the time i get a satisfying product. Also baking generally takes more time to prepare the ingredients and more techniques in combining those said ingredients (for example there is a very specific way you have to mix macaron batter or else it wont work at all).
The Ice hockey toilet has more space, and a hanger for all the protection equipment. Easy reason why you would sepereate by sport. The goaly toilet doubles as a handycap accessible stall.
"cooking is harsher and more open flames" sounds like someone who's never gotten a blast of heat when opening an oven to check on a cake. Baking is harsher in terms of heat, and also so much tension to achieve the desired result. With cooking as long as the individual flavors go well together you can just throw whatever in a pot and create a new recipe everyday. With baking you need to pay so much more attention to how the texture is gonna turn out, I actually marked down my chili-chocolate-passion fruit cake recipe I made up bc I was slightly afraid I couldn't achieve the same texture. Aww also it's so cute to see I'm as much of a girl as my boyfriend! This feminine energy bingo sure isn't a load of bullshit!
22:35 Death is an established character in Marvel Comics and is presented as feminine, and generally takes a more fleshy appearance (therefore she is depicted with typically feminine physical attributes). The character is romantically pursued by Thanos, and when knowing that Deadpool was romantically involved with her, cursed him with immortality so he can be far away from Death.
I'm autistic and to me baking is so, so much easier because of those same exact reasons. It's an exact science. Cooking is incredibly difficult, stressful, unpredictable, recipes have unclear instructions etc.
Women's hockey is in a great place in the US now. the NHL now has a professional women's league. its bare bones now, but hopefully it develops over the coming years. Also Women's Olympic hockey is just straight up better than the men's
Watching this as a nonbinary person is hilarious and torture at the same time! I'll never get cis people and their gender ideology, it doesn't make any sense!
25:10 I disagree with this being bad. This one is actually positive and apple does everything right what you critcize men often do wrong. A lot of men (not all ofc) struggle with listening to someone elses, especially partners, problems without immediately jumping into fixit mode. But if you think critically about this, is it likely that he can actually FIX her office politics? In such situations the partner often just need to vent and have their feelings validated. So for the person, who tends to directly jump to fixing stuff, to ask if this is a fixing or venting situation, is absolute top notch relationship behaviour. That is EXACTLY what we see here. Mr. Apple i not assuming that Ms. Banana has the same needs as himself. Instead he asks for her needs and is willing to fulfil them to her satisfaction. This post has nothing negative, if you are seeing something negative her, it is your own bias.
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Cooking is more fucking around, baking is more finding out.
I want this on a shirt.
True. Cooking is improv-friendly fun. Baking is high-school science class with immediate grades
@@dietwald Me Cooking "Oh this will be a fun lil ingredient to try!" Me baking "OH DEAR GOD I FORGOT TO CHECK THE HUMIDITY OUTSIDE BEFORE WE STARTED AND I KNOW ONLY SUFFERING FOR MY HUBRIS!"
@@HeyItsAbrilsame 😂
Seeing “loves bugs” as a “feminine trait” took me out because as an afab person I was told I was ‘weird’ and ‘tomboyish’ for loving bugs as a young child.
Same here, lol. Spiders are my favorite animal 😍
My eyebrows are spider web tattoos 🥰
Same, I don't love them across the board but I like spiders, butterflies, and some other bugs, and I'm generally not afraid of bugs, which was all considered masculine except for the butterflies.
I'm a man and I currently have/like/do at least 5 of the things on that "feminine bingo" card, and several more throughout my life. Who doesn't like (any) animals, listen to music or read? Seriously? Also, I find the night comforting and quiet,especially as an introverted person, and I own knitwear because it's warm.
This stuff is ridiculous, and I'm saying that as a sterotypically masculine guy who doesn't moisturise. I'm not refusing to moisturise because "women do it", but I just can't be bothered. I've tried those products before (was given some by a girl).
@@Onnarashi I don't moisturize either for the same reason and I'm a woman lol. I used to consider myself not feminine because I could not get on board with the classy femininity my mom and sisters were into. Wasn't until later that I realized my femininity is more of the flower child variety.
@@dragongirl7978 I feel you. I fit a bunch of masculine stereotypes but I'm not thrilled by some of them. I've wondered if I was "masculine enough" because I didn't fit EXACTLY into some neat "man box". It's dumb, and way too narrow anyway.
Little known fact: in industrial kitchens, the stove fires can only be lit using a pen1s, and baking ovens can only be turned on by telekinesis from ovaries
😂😂😂😂
Fascinating. Is there anything powered like those? 🤔
That explains why the ovens I worked with at dunkin would just turn on when I walked by! Blasted ovaries and they're oven powers
I cackled WAY too hard at this HAHAH
Ovokinesis.
"baking is light and sweet" just watch me take my anger out on some bread dough
Valid
And with like crème brûlée cooking the top layer with open flame is probably more dangerous than using a stove
For real, I've seen a male baker who was a big, hulking guy. I was thinking about how tough dough can be to work, especially in large amounts. You can get some workout pounding that dough with your fists, as well as whisking different ingredients by hand.
Bakers also got to lift that dough and put them in those ovens, and that can be heavy. They have some huge trays and can but several breads worth of dough on them for baking.
@@s0up_1223lol not if you know how to take a dab
@@Onnarashi Every baker I've met (myself included) has beefy forearms. Not necessarily generally fit, i've got more rolls than the dough, but I got hella arm strength.
Baking is like being a composer writing for a symphony. Cooking is like solo jazz.
Nice!
Literally baking is so hard. You can follow a recipe exactly from a video and get wildly different results based on the general climate in your area, altitude, sea level, temperature of your hands, season, and phase of the fucking moon.
@@crazyratlady3115 hand temperature is actually the real factor that can affect your dough
@@crazyratlady3115and even then with all those conditions, only comes out the similar if it _feels like it_
I thought this said solo jizz for a solid few seconds 😭
3:57 “If a man cooks, it’s called art. If a woman cooks, it’s called her duty.”
called of duty?
@@limitless_valley
"THE NUMBERS, MIRANDA! WHAT DO THEY MEAN?!"
"That's how long you have to cook it for!"
@@PokhrajRoy. which is true
@@Joe-iq1bu weird Joe strikes again. 😂
@@NoxAeterna-wf4iv you keep using that word, I do not think it means what you think it means. 😂 weird is anyone who thinks dudes can get pregnant
"Can't you go a few hours without your little sips of water?" Ma'am, it's summer and I don't want to get heatstroke.
Even when its not summer, who tf goes several hours without drinking anything. But maybe thats just due to my dry mouth that makes me constantly thirsty
@@ricochetrivrI hear that, good lord. I am on a couple of meds that dry me out like jerky. I tried to hydrate enough to sell plasma (cos I’m poor) but even drinking a gallon of water the day before didn’t do it.
Me: *drinks from massive water bottle*
My Neanderthal ancestors: WOOOOT WOOOT LOOK AT THAT! She carries the waterfall in her hands!!!!
gender stereotypes really fucked me up as a kid only know that i'm more comfortable with myself am i allowing myself to safely explore my feminine side without the expectations of being forced into it
Right!!! I was never fully a tomboy but I also was nowhere near "girly"... My energy was "boyish" so I felt more comfortable with my male classmates in elementary school... Although I wished I had more female friends especially when I started to develop... As I got older I made female friends... I never got the lesbian rumors but that's probably because I always had a crush I was talking about... Either a secret crush or a celebrity... I was not like other girls (in my small town) but I didn't think that made me better... I actually hated it cuz I felt wrong... Now I love it tho... But that's after finally seeing people like me... Like actually comfortable in gender limbo... I'm a non-binary bisexual... Or "chaotically queer" cuz the other way sounds boring... Hehehe
Gender is the stupidest thing humans created to categorize us...
@@Elle_Like_The_Letter Serious question, as a guy. Do you think gender in general is bad, even if people are happy with it? I'm mostly happy with being a man, although I wish the "man box" wasn't so narrowly defined and policed.
Even though I'm generally fine with my gender identity, I do see the point of relaxing these strict gender norms placed on people. All this performative gender nonsense doesn't need to be imposed on people, but I also think it's valid if you feel like a man or a woman and you're happy with that.
@@Onnarashi gender is a social construct... Which means it changes as society evolves... The 80s there was major gender bending. Men would wear dresses just to piss people off!!!!! Men still do that. Nothing is changing about who we are just the labels... And if labels help people feel less alone then yes go go go... But so many labels are used to separate us to make us feel less than to be used as less than... I have a love hate relationship with labels... But for medical reasons we totally need a category for male and female. But gender itself was so unnecessary in my opinion...
We are comfortable with what is presented to us as comfortable... My mother would walk around naked when we where younger... so I felt comfortable with nudity... until my mom thought I was perving on her cuz I accidentally walked in on her in the bathroom... I was born female fyi... So nudity became "sinful" and made me feel so uncomfortable... We start separating boys and girls as a society in elementary school... Bathrooms should hide everyone's bodies not separate bodies... Cuz this really where the gender differences get ingrained in us... Look at healthy nudest communities... I doubt people are walking around with hard ons... Cuz they don't sexualize bodies every time they see one... It's weird how many poorer countries women walk around topless and they aren't "whores"... But weirdly the societies that forces a dress code are the ones constantly sexualizing bodies... That's the main reason we separate boys from girls... Is how much we sexualize the female body... "Boys can't control themselves so girls have to cover up and be separate from the boys"...
Hope this made sense... Dyslexic ADHDer...
@@Elle_Like_The_Letter I agree as a kid who didn't really get along with other kids i basically just tried to be "ultimately masculine" (basically rejecting anything feminine) but then i realised i wasn't too masculine either, nowadays im a mix because i'm allowed to be myself
Gendered ideas about bodies are also so stupid. I was 6 or 7 and wanted to play a music instrument. I ended up on the piano (but it became keyboard later because I could not reach the pedals on a piano because I was to short) and the reason I was considered well off for an instrument like that? "You have girly hands".
Because apparently, pre-puberty there's a distinct difference between girl and boy hands...
As someone who both cooks and bakes, let me tell you I have never sat on my kitchen floor in tears at 11pm while cooking because the topping didn’t turn out how it was supposed to even though I was following the recipe exactly. Cooking is infinitely easier
i once remade a cake THREE TIMES trying to figure out what i did wrong lmao, doing things slightly differently each time. after the third time of the cake not rising properly, my dad and I said "fuck it" and just ordered a cake from a baker. some recipes just suck!
Cooking has never made me have multiple breakdowns because I was trying to make something vegan for a friend and the frosting recipe ended up being the consistency of sand. (For anyone else in the same boat, a few splashes of oat milk fixed it. It just needed liquid.)
I'm a woman who buys Dr. Squatch mens soap for myself because they got some pretty cool scents, have collabs with things like Star Wars and Jurassic Park, is all natural, and is actually the first soap that hasn't make my skin itch like fire in the shower. They also offer aluminum free antiperspirant deodorant that have the same scents, and honestly, I like smelling like "Wood Barrel Bourbon"
I found out how good this brand was after finding Yoda themed soap for a good price, thought to myself "Aw, man, I'm a girl, so I can't buy man soap." and then I was like "... WHY THE HELL CAN'T I BUY THIS, IT'S JUST SOAP??"
Best hygiene decision I've made. I smell great, I'm not having allergic reactions, and it's eco-friendly.
I gravitate towards "mens" soap because it most likely isn't overly fragranced.
@@KiboSanti thats actually so interesting bc most of the men's products im familiar with due to family members using them, the men's deodorants are FAR more strongly scented than any of my "women's" products were. i have a fragrance allergy (which is just like a few allergies under one umbrella bc who knows what those ingredients are, aka i could just be allergic to this fragrance and not the other BUT) my husband's deodorant stinks up the entire room even after its gone. i found out i was reacting to it bc he bought a new one and i can STILL smell it in the bathroom DAYS after its been thrown out and i've cleaned. lol. meanwhile my old deodorant before i discovered the cause of some of my skin reactions (bc im also allergic to corn) is still in the house and is what he has to use now instead bc i at least can exist in the same room as it 😅 i can't smell it at all
granted, its a "cleaner" brand and my husband's old deodorant is not but still. its SO strong haha 😅
unscented products are usually very non gendered though so at least there is that 😅😅 lol
Things that should be gendered:
Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
👏👏👏 applause! Especially the points about - , , and really made sense.
Exactly
"Things that should be gendered"
People: Male and Female, as has been understood by all rational people for tens of thousands of years.
counter point, genital related doctors, probably the ONLY thing in existance that should be gendered... also pharmaceutical and medical studies
Amazing 👏👏👏👏
Sorry if so already mentioned it, but: reason why there are "girls" and "boys" and not "like unicorns" and "like wizards" things are money. For example, you have girl and boy kid. They will be probably ok to play together with either wizards or unicorns. So you put gender sticker on it, say the boys cannot like unicorns and girls cannot like wizards and now you can sell two things
This!
2:03 obviously they've never seen yuri on ice
There are only two genders. Men and Gay.
this is so real 😭
🎶We were born to make history🎶
I'm guessing it's because it's a gay anime.
im so upset about the movie's cancellation still
Uyen Ninh did a pretty funny skit where she looks at her bf's 3-in-1 shampoo like "Wow, 3-in-1, pretty amazing, right? *THEN WHY AREN'T YOU USING IT?* Your hair doesn't naturally smell like my expensive lavender scented shampoo!"
I saw that one earlier today lol! I love Uyen, she’s a riot! 🤣
That was so funny😂
I love her 😭😭😭
Everytime I hear abt the bathrooms with weird sign I think abt the time I went to a restaurant with my family wit one of the signs that said "blah" for men and "blah blah blah.." for women. And my little brother came back and was so confused bc he didn't know which he was supposed to go into.
16:25 "boys can't like unicorns" just made me remember something from when I went to New York when I turned 18
We were in LaGuardia airport and this little boy, maybe 7 or 8, just looked up at me and GASPED, and said "You have unicorn hair!" And it made my entire week.
I was shopping for a children's hospital for a relative once and she had such outdated views on gender like this superhero comic book is for boys, cat coloring book is for girls, dog one i for boys, etc. I swear I am not lying, ended up not even going through with it despite me needing help because i had no clue how to do it. Made me uncomfortable because I still hate pink because of what society pushes on girls, even though I know a color did nothing
People have assigned specific animals to a gender? That’s sad.
@@ThatFont , I know. They do know there are male cats and female dogs right? And also, what kid doesn't want to have superpowers? Being a girl didn't stop me from imagining having magic powers as a kid
Every time I see Quora come up in videos like these I feel less bad about them permabanning me for calling a 15-year-old self-described Nazi a "failure at life."
And that was it, I swear. I didn't even cuss. But apparently that still counted as "bullying."
Quora is like 4-chan if it was only for questions and answers now... I went on there for a gender question just the other day and the amount of transphobia rivals Twitter by a long shot, and from there you go into the parenting sections and... It's straight up abuse people are agreeing with, I can't imagine what the rest of it is like 💀💀💀
quora locked me out of my account for not using my real name after having had the account for several years without issue lmao idk i guess that was always a rule but i didnt real the fine print. but they wouldnt let me change it and i can't even delete my account bc i can't get in to do so 😅😂
Man that first one pissed me off. I’m a huge NHL fan - and I’m non-binary AFAB. Are they aware of the plenty women’s hockey league??? The PWHL?!? Like my guy stop gendering sports !!
Not only that, but the NHL is one of the few men’s leagues that have (albeit rarely) had women players. There have been women NHL players before
@@SarastistheSerpent oh!! Really?? I feel so stupid cause I didn’t know that 😭
@@amx._arrowyep, Manon Rheaume. She only played very briefly for the Tampa Bay Lightening, and only during exhibition games, but she was officially an NHL player
"and I’m non-binary AFAB"
So you are not actually a FEMALE? I suspect you are. Stop playing word-games.
@@SarastistheSerpentShe also played in the AHL for them. Also being a hockey fan shouldn't be gendered, I watch hockey because I liked watching the Hershey Bears while working as a scare actor at Hersheypark (the majority of us were girls, although certainly not all of us). Proud to see regulars like Aube-Kubel that I watched in Hershey in the NHL and playing in the playoffs, hoping the Caps can get an upset (and I'm more optomistic about the chances than most).
LMFAO, the apple and banana thing had me rolling because I'm a masculine presenting person, but i live for the work gossip and the tea people give me. I'll never speak a word in confidence but the drama gives me life.
Do these people ever stop to wonder why someone is gossiping about a problem at work? Do they ever stop to think that maybe women aren't listened to when they try to solve a problem in the workplace so it might be easier to try to talk to people and see if you can get them on your side??
Figure skaters as a placeholder for 'women' is so funny to me when my introduction to figure skating was Yuri on Ice... lol
Edit: it's a boy love anime jsyk, yes lots of boys figure skating, and also they're in love.
What's more masculine than a relationship where no women are involved?
Fun fact: in the comics the original reason Thanos wanted to wipe out half of all life in the universe was to impress Death because he was in love with her. This was all before Deadpool was even created. So she's kinda always been drawn like that.
Deadpool might not chug his Respect Women Juice, but he definitely sips it.
Marvel's Death has boobs because that's the form she chose. It gets her what she wants most effectively.
The "cooking is masculine vs baking is feminine" thing is so funny to me because growing up, my dad always preferred and was better at baking while my mom always preferred and was better at cooking
As someone who trawled through several “unisex” name lists to pick a new name, they’re not the same lists
Fun fact, Languages started to sort nouns into categories before they decided those categories should be named after genders. Some Indo-European languages have "animate" and "inanimate" nouns and some languages from different groups have yet completely different noun classes.
(As a native speaker of Czech, a gendered Slavic language, I feel weirdly protective over grammatical genders, I can't help it.)
Omg, random, but you could actually help me with something?? I'm currently trying to learn Czech via Duolingo, but it can only go so far, bc no rules are ever explained, and it drives me nuts! Like, when do you say “ti psi" vs "ty psy"? Why is it "děti nepijou víno" , but "děti pijí mléko"?? And I can't figure out the conjugation for the double-parted verb for liking / preferring sth for the life of me! Sorry, just, there are no Czech grammar books found anywhere in my town, I'm getting desperate lol
@@esmeraldaloschuetz9120 Oh, I do German on Duolingo! But yes, it's not very helpful. I'm sure glad to have studied German in school, too 🤣
I can try to help. I definitely think it should be "děti nepijí víno," that looks like mistake on Duolingo's side.
The thing with dogs, that depends on grammatical case. It's "ti psi" in nominative and "ty psy" in accusative. It's like the difference between they and them.
I guess that to like aka "mít rád" can be hard, because grammatical genders come into play there. "Rád" behaves like an adjective. It doesn't match the conjugation of "mít". Instead, its desinence changes based on the gender of a person (or a thing) that is a grammatical subject of the sentence in question. That is, the person about whose preferences the sentence talks. It goes: for singular, the masculine is "rád", feminine is "ráda" and neutral is "rádo". For plural, masculine is "rádi," feminine is "rády" and neutral is "ráda."
Matching correct predicate to a subject is hard, it's actually the kind of thing in which native speakers make mistakes regularly. Honestly, I think you rock for taking on such a challenge as learning Czech 😅 it's so complicated that we also struggle with it 🤣 it's weird.
@@chanterelle483 OMG OMG you answered!! THANK YOU SO, SO MUCH!! Seriously, I can't thank you enough, how kind of you to take the time and resopond and explain everything so clearly! This actually helps a LOT and cleares things up! I can't thank you enough!! I have one folloow-up question, though: When do you use the male plural and when the female plural for several people? Because in French, the rule is: Once there is a SINGLE male in the group, the personal pronoun becomes all-male plural. A female group has to be female only to be referred to as "they" on female plural. It it the same in Czech? Is that the ominous difference between "ony" and "oni"? (Never quite figured that out, either.)
Sorry to bother you, thank you so much!
I can't take all the credit for making progress in Czech, I am a native Russian speaker (or used to be as a kid, now it's very rusty), so some of the grammar is similar and some of the words are easier to remember. But not all! Sometimes a very similar word means a very different thing, it can drive you nuts lol. My main language is German (it has become basically my "first" language, as I came here as a small kid) - so if you need to ask me anything about German grammar, ask away! I'm by far no expert, but I will try to explain to the best of my abilities!
Thanks again! I'm going to Prague for 4 days tomorrow, super super excited!! Then my skills will be put to the test lol
ANOTHER CZECH???😳😳😳 neneee, ahoj 😃😃
11:20 the male equivalent to "aww" should be "amm" 😂
then should enbies say "anbnb"? or "axx"? im gonna need help pronouncing those xd
@mudkip_btw oooh yeah let's try to come up with something easier to pronounce 😅
When it comes to ranting vs problem solving, I’m a woman who has a huge issue of always wanting to look for solutions when my loved ones come to me with complaints.
To adjust this behavior, I’ve taken to gently asking “do you want advice, or do you just need me to listen?” that way I know what my role is in the conversation so I don’t overstep and offer the correct kind of support.
(Although I always do want to offer solutions even when it’s not wanted, but it’s up to me to bite my tongue and just be a sympathetic listener instead lol)
I also love asking what response people need! Another thing I have found helpful in certain cases is, if asked for help, asking what kind of help they are looking for. This is much more tailored to the specific situation but possibilities often include things like advice, talking to someone for them/acting as a go between, attempting a fix myself, etc.
Whoever did the skating signs never saw "The Cutting Edge" or "Blades of Glory"😅.
Or yuri on ice
I'm currently trying to learn German. Did you know that pizza is feminine?
Yes, because I am german. 😁
Pizza is feminine in French too!
Its feminine in spanish too
in russian it's feminine too
In German, neckties are feminine (Krawatte), dresses are masculine (Rock), and girls are neuter (Mädchen).
11:57 Weird...My lil kitty cat boi was drinking at his water fountain...so of course as soon as I learned that, I quickly turned to him and screamed 'BABY WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!? YOU LOOK SOOOOOOOOOO GAY RIGHT NOW! S O O O O O O O O O O O O O O GAY!' but he didn't seem to care...like at all. Strange, really strange 🤔
I tried again with a classic emotional manipulation: 'Don't you want to be masculine!? Alpha!??!? GET SOME PUSSEY!!?!?!??!😭' but still didn't work! Think he's actually gay? 🤔🤨
Also, as to 'why' or 'how' French came to be a gendered language...that's a bit of a long history, but just know that we're doing our best! Now making older words 'invariables' and creating new ones! Don't be too harsh, French can be great I swear 🥲
listening to the intro and all of a sudden I remember that dress is el vestido in Spanish (taking Spanish 1 in school) yet is considered a feminine thing in society (as far as I know)
Idk where I’m going with this, I just wanted to share
Edit: forgot to share that anything starting with with “el” as the noun (I think that’s it, it means “the”) is masculine
my favorite thing is how “problem” in spanish is masculine even though it ends with “a” 😂
@@jesselee2331 Ah. An irregular.
@@jesselee2331 the -ma words in Spanish usually come from Greek, where they're neuter.
3:34 Sugar, Spice and Everything Nice? It’s giving Professor who made Powerpuff Girls.
Death as a woman was not for Deadpool…..it was for Thanos….Thanos loves Death…though your point still stands about skeleton boobs. Maybe Death is a physical fleshy being with boobs that is just invisible except for her bones.
The same death character has a romance with dead pool too. I think she returned Deadpool's feelings, but not thanos... the skeleton boobs are weird tho
sans logic
The signs in the first post are to separate Mighty Ducks fans from Yuri on Ice fans obviously.
What if I like both?
@@HeyItsAbril
*Non-binaries are searching for you*
Pee on the wall
@@HeyItsAbril eat a snowcone?
I mean that one "Death" is "Mistress Death."
There are several personifications of death in Marvel.
Also Mistress Death and DP have a decent "long distance" relationship. Deadpool can't stay dead, so Death literally can only pine for him and only meet briefly.
That was some crazy ad integration
As someone who’s relatively good at both baking and cooking, baking results can be changed by if you pack your flour into the measuring cup vs if you just scoop, and if you’re a few grams off of one ingredient it can change the texture or flavor significantly. It’s basically just tasty (and delegitimized because of sexism) chemistry
14:07 why would you bring a pocket knife to an airport? That's how my dad got his swiss army knife confiscated by security
"Some parents wouldn't buy unicorns for their sons". Those poor, poor boys😢.
My younger son calls himself Princess Unicorn Sparkles, and has a room full of pink, unicorns, and Barbies.
That’s adorable
As a DND player I would like to say that boys and girls like both wizards and unicorns.
Man... the one thing that has helped so much when someone tells me that they need to tell me something that happened, I'll ask "do you need solutions, or do you need someone to listen". Helps a lot.
6:28 Even more hilarious is when they ‘discover’ Skincare.
one time as a cashier a mom came up with her little kids and as i rang up the stickers the daughter said "the unicorn ones are for my little brother cuz he loves unicorns and the dinosaur ones are for me cuz i love dinosaurs!" it was really nice seeing the parents not forcing them to swap interests because of dumb gender roles and just letting them be kids liking what kids like :)
Man, I love wearing suits. I just don't like the feeling of dresses/don't think I look good in them.
Let those men who diss on skincare and hygiene laugh. They don’t seem to realize that men need to take care of their skin too. It only seems women do it more because our thin skin makes us more prone to wrinkles. There are other reasons, of course, but that was the first that came to mind.
And I still get a laugh when I hear the whole “men are logical and women are emotional” bullsh*t argument. I’ll admit that I don’t necessarily talk about my problems and expect advice or assistance. Sometimes just talking it out helps put things into perspective and also get out any emotions that are clouding any sort of judgement. There is a time and a place for logic and emotions and one often does tend to get in the way of the other, but we need both to properly function. One shouldn’t be superior to the other.
Also, adding onto that, men AND women can be logical AND emotional. I know, it’s shocking, but it’s true.
its because they think that anger isnt an emotion.
They think emotional means sensitive, they don't know it means making decisions based on your emotions
Fun fact about Marvel's Death, another character who fancies Death is Thanos. That was literally the only motive for wanting to wipe out half of the universe's life. he wanted to bone some bones. and I doubt Death being a guy would slide back in 1992 that well, given Thanos' motives.
also Death's fascination with Deadpool is based on him not being able to die, and Thanos is super jealous.
Cooking is: "Aww, man, I forgot the parsley. Anyway, this random spice I found at the back of the cupboard should be good enough to replace it."
Baking is: "OH MY GOD I FORGOT TO CHECK THE HUMIDITY OUTSIDE BEFORE I PREHEATED THE OVEN AT 450.324 DEGREES NOW EVERYTHING'S RUINED"
Ask people if they want solutions before offering them! I started doing that because I always went oh how can I fix this and it's helped a ton
On the other hand, the person talking could make that intention known from the get-go.
The only thing I can come up with is that the bingo card says it's from an account "aliensarewifey" so maybe they're not referring to humans. Because otherwise none of it makes any sense. 🤔
Yes
I am a woman who plays Ice Hockey!!!!! Also, I've seen plenty of male figure skaters in my day and honestly, yes, like doing figure skating as a man is awesome and also hot ngl
I genuinely find baking easier than cooking. Not because you don't have to be precise/exacting, but actually because you really have to be precise/exacting.
I have great success in baking because I find the idea of deviating from a recipe utterly abhorrent. Any variation has a significant chance of cascading horribly, so I get very, VERY precise. And, as a result, I'll know whether or not any problem with the product is an issue of the recipe or my own failing at whatever step.
On the other hand, I loathe cooking because the instructions are often deliberately vague (season to taste, bake for x-y minutes or until the center begins to bubble, boil pasta until it's soft but not TOO soft, etc...) because relatively small variations in air pressure, humidity, room temperature, etc... genuinely cause notable variations in the results of any given stage and the perceived flavor of the final product. It feels significantly more stressful to me to be cooking a meal for others as I constantly have to second and triple guess whether or not I've actually reached each checkpoint to proceed or if I've done too little/too much.
My mother, on the other hand, loves to experiment in the kitchen. She is very good at and enjoys cooking. She knows all sorts of little tricks to correct minor mistakes or speed certain processes up and has long since developed her memory for all the little minor signs that vague end points for common recipe steps have been met and the general flavor pallet the people she is cooking for will enjoy.
However, my mother struggles significantly with baking. Her tendency to experiment or substitute backfires on her leading to things not setting right, being undercooked, burned, etc...
And it's not just her. My younger brother has her same issues with baking, but is quite good at and enjoys cooking. I think it's less that one is actually harder or easier than the other than it is that they favor different mindsets. Baking is rules heavy: do it exactly or there will be problems so only experiment if you are prepared to lose the entire dish. Cooking is rules light: if you do it exactly, there will probably be problems so figure out ways to fill the gaps and save the dish.
The one about the water bottle is so bonkers 😂 I've been working on drinking more water and less caffeinated drinks (my doctor recently said that I was dehydrated) having a water bottle has been a huge help. And now I'm like what the heck 😂
17:55 correct me if im wrong, but i don't think slugs/snails are bugs? they're like mollusks or smthn right??
Correct
"Bug" isn't a scientific name. It's why a spider is a "bug" but not an insect.
@@Onnarashi fair, it's just, in my experience, when people say 'bug' they do mean an insect. i've never met anyone who actually refers to snails and slugs as insects or bugs in real life.
"Bug" actually is a scientific term! It's used to refer to the insect order hemiptera :D
Colloquially though, people use it for all arthropods except crustaceans, plus some other animals like snails and slugs
i have deducted that! i am not smart enough for this thread!!!!
I know a restaurant where the sign on the male toilet says 'blah' and on the female toilet 'blah blah blah'. I am female and went to the 'blah'-bathroom because I would consider myself a rather quiet person.
Me, listening to an endless list of Heavy Metal and horror-core (while reading a book by candlelight with my brushed hair and painted nails, surrounded by my cat and a pile of plushies): "Wow, I never realized how girly Coal Chamber is! Guess I'll throw out my studio quality headphones so I can maintain my masculine energy!" /s
For the first one, I would (as a trans woman who doesn't pass yet) DEFINITELY go to the figure skating bathroom and when people complain, just say "Oh, my bad. I thought the bathroom ls were seperated by sport! I do figure skating and assumed I was supposed to go this way."
It's also a perfectly autistic response and honestly, I feel like it would actually be a plausible assumption
the whole water thing is so crazy to me, like sorry i dehydrate really easily and get bad headaches when i get dehydrated, im going to take my little sips thank you very much
Baking and cooking are not gendered, but I could see a metaphor in that baking requires hard work and rigid adherence to instructions but gets an unearned reputation of being easy, while cooking is expected to involve a lot less carefulness but some people still have very strong opinions on the results.
3:35 baking is NOT light and sweet and i'm sure any bakers out there would agree with me. The first time i tried to bake bread with my family? It didn't turn out very well.
4:21 As someone who spent 10 years in the food service industry cooking is hands down easier than baking. Baking is so much more stressful.
U have such a great intro I swear no one else's hits like that
0:30 as a French I don't know either why everything is gendered in French, but it's true for Spanish and Italian too, so I'm guessing it has something to do with our latin roots.
I empathize about how it would make learning it so much more difficult, though, so kudos to you
Didn't you know? Yuri on Ice invented male figure skaters.
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Not to be a nit-picky geek, but Death, the character, is canonically female in Marvel comics. And Deadpool in in love with her.
Imagine living in a country where you can bring a bottle of water on a plane.
*cries in American*
22:07 in the Marvel universe, Death is canonically female.
For more commentary on male figure skating, I'd recommend the cutting documentary Blades of Glory. (in seriousness that movie has aged way better than you'd expect because while there are some jokes about two men doing something that's normally done in a male-female pairing, everyone that judges them for it is portrayed as a moron and they quickly get over how "gay" it looks because they are doing it for the love of the sport, and if that means slamming their genitals together in a hilarious special move then so be it)
Also stir-fry is the ballet of cooking because the ingredients soar through the air majestically as you toss them around the pan.
regarding the first one; throwback to when i was a little kid and thought men couldn't do ballet (or ice skating). like it was against the natural order of things. my mind was blown when my mum told me that was, in fact, not true
when the water bottle is mentioned at the airport but I’m still stuck of the mention of a pocket knife at airports; you aren’t allowed to carry pocket knives at airports they will get confiscated.
Here in rural Canada...there are more female hockey players, than the number of figure skaters in total...so...cool sign bro.
4:19 you're so right about this!! I love to bake and to cook and honestly baking is wayyy harder like has this person (the one who you're replying to) even tried to bake sourdough?? It's ridiculously difficult lol
I love your content but i think the joke with the skin care/shampoo one is the joke that men have perfect skin without trying while women have to work towards decent skin.
6:54 Your kitty cow's trying to escape!
Some shampoos contain ingredients for skin care (since there is skin under your hair), so there could be a reason to use it on your face in some instances.
The water bottle thing was...
Why?
WTF is wrong with ppl?
😂'nt?
Desperately trying to enforce the patriarchy my guess
The banana comic - sometimes you simply need to rant and get stuff out of your system to analyze them for yourself.
ESPECIALLY when you have some problems you are stuck with. I often like to rant about stuff I design and I'm stuck on how to do that shit so the 3D-Printer is NOT going to be a pain in the ass and as I rant I often come up with a solution myself cause I discribe my problem with words and then I actually think about it and come up with a solution myself. And my partner knows exactly he often has no clue what I can do to solve the problem cause he has no knowledge in that regard. But he hears me out and thr moment I end it, he simply ASKS QUESTIONS about it. He doesn't offer solutions but asks thinks like: "are you able to do this/that?" and sometimes it scratches at an actual solution for my problem or it gives me a new way of thinking and I'm back in the game so to say. And that's why I love ranting about the stuff I'm stuck to people who know nothing about what I do cause sometimes I need that naive "Is it possible to do this?".
And when I rant about my part time job (cause I'm studying/just ended studying and still have my part time job at a supermarket till I get a full time job) I simply wanna blow off steam about people who were rude, people who can't see they make others uncomfortable or simply rant about a tricky situation that made my brain literally explode cause 5 things happend at the same time. And ALL THOSE THINGS don't NEED a solution, cause they are already over and can't be lived through AGAIN to make it better. So hearing phrases like "you should have done this/that" are NOT HELPING. Especially cause I MYSELF often are already aware of those things, but my brain didn't brain properly at the moment due to getting caught pff guard or overstimulation or even cause I couldn't anticipate what was gonna to unfold by being nice to someone. I mean: how should I have known not to actually give an answer cause that person is gonna get creepily nice to you and can't shut their mouth? I couldn't know!
And I try my best in being a nice cashier, but there is a limit to my smile and I simply can't see who will do their best to step over that line. I can't know! And I simply wanna rant about those people and just get that out of my system and sometimes simply cry about my shitty situation that stresses me out af and I don't wanna know what I should do or better: What I've already done wrong! Because getting unwanted advice in those times simply smacks in your face what you already did wrong and in a way tells you that you are stupid for not thinking of that.
And I love my boyfriend for simply asking me in the end "Do you want my advice?" and if not he simply lets me rant. Cause sometimes I actually want it...
But all in all: let me rant. I will figure it out in the end and I don't need advice. I may be happy to recieve ideas, but not for situations that have already passed.
And I'm german, so my smile is genuine and not a thing I HAVE to do at work... We only need to be friendly and lend a helping hand, but nothing tells me to smile all the time or talk to customers about anything other than things they wanna purchase/give back or where they find stuff. I do the little small talks now and then out of my own volition and because most people are actually making me smile and help me get through the day without wanting to shout.
And then there are those who make me wanna scream...
Oh god oh heck, I always immediately jump to problem solving when someone is venting, I just wanna help I'm autistic I didn't know it made people feel bad :(
As a speed skater, I'm having an identity crisis
Speed skaters are nonbinary
Awesome profile pic👌🏼
So that TikTok said men shouldn’t drink from water fountains, but Andrew Tate said men shouldn’t carry water bottles…
Are men just supposed to be dehydrated all the time?
oh gOD the last one! People who do this: maybe your "solutions" aren't that useful and I've already considered what you're saying to me. Maybe I want a discussion and not a lecture. Maybeeeee.
ngl, the baking being feminine thing is kinda funny cause i absolutely love baking more than i like cooking
and well, im a guy, honestly a pretty androgynous guy, but a guy nonetheless
As for that Deadpool thing, I once did a similar thing for kicks. While designing one of my games, I thought that giving a skeletal enemy some boob bones would be the funniest thing ever and I still crack myself up when I think about it, sometimes, specifically because it made no sense. But was it supposed to be a silly punchline in that comic and not just them trying to make Death sexy and more appealing to some parts of the audience/themselves for whatever reason? I dunno, hard to tell
22:46 To be fair, the reason she's a girl might be to make Thanos straight, not to make Deadpool straight. In the comics, Thanos' motive for the snap is LITERALLY so *Death would find him hot for killing half the universe* and he's canonically jealous of Deadpool
With the whole skin care thing, my brother is a bodybuilder, he has a tiktok where all he does is flex, and when I was still female identifying he was the one who taught me about skin care.
As someone who loves baking and cooking, baking is definitely harder. I remember trying to make macaron 10 times because i kept messing it up- its one of the hardest things to bake. Whereas in cooking I just go with my gut and instinct and 90% of the time i get a satisfying product. Also baking generally takes more time to prepare the ingredients and more techniques in combining those said ingredients (for example there is a very specific way you have to mix macaron batter or else it wont work at all).
Jinrets and leebit just hanging in the background makes me so happy
I always thought using water fountains is only for children, not grown ups, like at schools the water fountains were always so close to the ground
The Ice hockey toilet has more space, and a hanger for all the protection equipment. Easy reason why you would sepereate by sport. The goaly toilet doubles as a handycap accessible stall.
Okay but to be fair on the fruit one… sometimes I don’t want a solution, sometimes I just want to complain 😂
"cooking is harsher and more open flames" sounds like someone who's never gotten a blast of heat when opening an oven to check on a cake. Baking is harsher in terms of heat, and also so much tension to achieve the desired result. With cooking as long as the individual flavors go well together you can just throw whatever in a pot and create a new recipe everyday. With baking you need to pay so much more attention to how the texture is gonna turn out, I actually marked down my chili-chocolate-passion fruit cake recipe I made up bc I was slightly afraid I couldn't achieve the same texture.
Aww also it's so cute to see I'm as much of a girl as my boyfriend! This feminine energy bingo sure isn't a load of bullshit!
22:35 Death is an established character in Marvel Comics and is presented as feminine, and generally takes a more fleshy appearance (therefore she is depicted with typically feminine physical attributes).
The character is romantically pursued by Thanos, and when knowing that Deadpool was romantically involved with her, cursed him with immortality so he can be far away from Death.
I'm autistic and to me baking is so, so much easier because of those same exact reasons. It's an exact science. Cooking is incredibly difficult, stressful, unpredictable, recipes have unclear instructions etc.
Women's hockey is in a great place in the US now. the NHL now has a professional women's league. its bare bones now, but hopefully it develops over the coming years.
Also Women's Olympic hockey is just straight up better than the men's
Watching this as a nonbinary person is hilarious and torture at the same time! I'll never get cis people and their gender ideology, it doesn't make any sense!
25:10 I disagree with this being bad. This one is actually positive and apple does everything right what you critcize men often do wrong. A lot of men (not all ofc) struggle with listening to someone elses, especially partners, problems without immediately jumping into fixit mode. But if you think critically about this, is it likely that he can actually FIX her office politics? In such situations the partner often just need to vent and have their feelings validated. So for the person, who tends to directly jump to fixing stuff, to ask if this is a fixing or venting situation, is absolute top notch relationship behaviour.
That is EXACTLY what we see here. Mr. Apple i not assuming that Ms. Banana has the same needs as himself. Instead he asks for her needs and is willing to fulfil them to her satisfaction. This post has nothing negative, if you are seeing something negative her, it is your own bias.
17:30 The fact that I checked 17 (center one not included)/25 and still hit not a single bingo 😭
4:50 As someone who works in a bakery,
On advice from my doctors, I have started using baby wash as a face wash and eyelid scrub. It’s been effective and it’s gentle on my super-sensitive skin.