WAIT WHAT? That is actually devastating as fuck. I've been following you guys since i started seeing some of your reactions during lockdown, and i never thought something like this would happen man. Seeing your guys' growth and marriage was beautiful. I can't believe she would rip it apart like that. I'm not religious so i won't say i'll pray for you, but i do really hope you get through this dude.
Wyatt you'll make it. I cant begin to comprehend what you're going through right now, but you have to believe everything will work out. I've been watching you for 6 years and the happiest you've been is since you started this journey of working on your mental and physical health. Keep doing what you love and inspiring us with your teachings and videos, and trust everything will get better with time. Stay strong Wyatt, we love you.
Be true to yourself my friend... Times will be tough but with time they will get better! One thing I learnt over the years from heartbreak is focusing on the things you love and enjoy doing, playing drums has been a big part of my life and kept me on track when I've felt down... while things in life are always down to your own choices I feel a calling for you getting back behind a drum kit and showing the world how badass you are on the drums! Stay strong brother!💪🏻
I fell out of love with drumming 2 years ago when I stopped playing 🙏🏻 we don’t stay the same forever. I’m a new person since those days of playing the kit ❤️ I may return I may not - not sure. Trying to feel out what my heart wants.
@@LifeOfWyatt you are a different person indeed but maybe you needed this Journey to better that journey. Maybe the first song you play is what you need. You seem more grounded mentally and would love to see what Wyatt now could come up with in the music world.
I don’t understand how someone could be with someone for almost a decade and do something like that. All the blood sweat and tears that go into a relationship, especially one that long, it just makes no sense to me
My wife of 10 years cheated on me with my best friend of 14 years. So yeah I know exactly what Wyatt is going through. I only see my 6 year old daughter once or twice a week now.
Everything will be okay buddy! Sending love from Bulgaria. I will tell you this. Why do we fall Wyatt ? So we could learn to pick ourselves up . A famous movie quote and a good one . Be strong my friend, god knows his work .
Chin up brother. I was in a relationship for 6.5 years when she cheated on me as well and moved on with someone else. Just realize you dodged a bullet. May not feel that way now but you definitely did.
@@Alvah707 nah man at least they didn’t have kids and everything and then she did that to him. Better to happen now then after marriage and kids and completely fuck everything
Yeah I see this perspective. It would have been much harder if we had a home and children. 🙏🏻❤️ grateful at least to be able to move on completely now.
My advice is going to sound misaligned to most on here, but you should go home to your family bro. I’m a few years older mate and I know what you’re dealing with. Get a flight to your family because that’s who care for you more than anybody else. London will always be there. But wish you well dude.
Go surround yourself with friends and family and go to a therapist. I still struggle with a past relationship and it's been 9 going on 10 yrs now. Nothing better than going ahead and nipping it in the butt.
@@LifeOfWyattif that’s not an option it’s totally understandable. but just please take care of yourself man I’ve been watching you for years and I just want what’s best for you. Live life to the fullest man and be safe!
@@LifeOfWyattI’ve been there before. I chose pussy over my family and they didn’t want shit to do with me. Thank God I was able to make things right with them. I felt so guilty for years.
I went through the same thing except didn’t have help and ended up drinking a handle of vodka and almost offing myself in a bathtub, cops came in and saved my life and put me in a behavioral center, but it does get better with time, I know that’s what everyone says but it’s true. I ended up getting a steady trade job that I can bear with, I’m married and a kid on the way, you are NOT alone Wyatt been here the whole way love you man
I am goin through the same thing. My wife and I of 13 years are getting a divorce. Just keep your head held high and take it one day at a time. Love and Peace.
Damn bro. My hearts broken for you. I've been down this road many times, but it's not the end my brother. It's never easy to start over, but unfortunately this shit happens. It's gonna hurt for awhile, and seem like there's no reason to continue on, but you can't give up man. Don't let her destroy you. You gotta pick yourself back up, and live bro. You're a very talented individual, and you will get through this.
Wyatt hang in there my friend. I just got out of the military and separated with my best friend and my soulmate of 5 years. I ended end up incubated in the hospital but still found your videos as I recover refreshing. Keep your head up head up my man. I’m right there with you, it absolutely sucks, however you’ve got this.
Take care of yourself brother ❤ I went through a dark and uncertain time in my life and decided to move closer to family and I found peace again. Do whatever it is that you feel gives you purpose and healing will follow
I had a similar thing happen in my life recently. I won't pretend i know your pain and your problems. Everyone feels and experiences things differently. Music actually helped me a lot. "Remember you are loved, and you always will be"
You're not alone, I was with my ex from age 19 to 29 even got married which only lasted maybe half a year when I left work early only to walk in on her cheating on me.... life was so hard after I wanted to give up so many times but I had to push through to say f**k you to the hand life dealt me and prove i could win. I took 5 years to myself to heal and then got back on the dating scene for a year and as of now I'm with an amazing woman who has shown me what it feels like to matter again. Stay strong brother ❤
Rock bottom is a solid foundation to create a life you never thought was possible. Your trajectory has changed. Everything will come to you at the right time. Be patient. You got this homie.
How can two people be together for so many years and end up failing like this? Personally my first and current relationship of 6 years is a strong one as well and we're engaged too. I can't imagine going through the rest of my life with us breaking up. It would be too heartbreaking!
No words can ease your pain but you are not alone. Had been with my wife for over twenty years. A year and a half ago she revealed she had a three month affair before we got married and didn't tell me till now as she thought I would leave her. I'm divorcing her and moving on with my life. The pain is unreal and feels like a limb is missing, but it's what must be done. You'll get through it. I wish you peace and strength.
One thing I found quite helpful after being let go by a long time partner was staying in a hostel. Something about being around a bunch of other people just seemed to make things so much more manageable. It might be impossible to see now, but you will make it through this. Time has a way of healing!
You’ll come out on top of this. 2 years ago my 6 year relationship concluded in a similar fashion. It’s awful how some people can be so deceitful when you have literally committed to being their partner for life. It’s a long road of pain, discovery and recovery but I believe in you. For a long time you were my source of new metal bands coming out so thank you for that.
Totally feel you, man. I was with my ex-wife for 9 years and we got divorced. It was incredibly hard trying to figure out where to go from there. She was all I knew. It took like a year and a half for me to figure out stuff. I am now remarried and the happiest I have ever been. Things will get better. I know that's not the easiest thing to hear, but I felt the same way when I went through what I did. I'll definitely be keeping you in my prayers, brother.
Hey man. Just randomly came across your channel and this is my fourth video jumping from your other channels to here. I went through a divorce after 6 years back in 2016. Infidelity that I caught in the act. Yeah, it sucked. It wrecked me in a way that was genuinely transformative. In many ways, I'm better. I will say I'm more protective of my feelings. Been in a couple relationships since then, and I'm currently in a 3 year relationship. I won't lie, it changed how I approach relationships in a significant way. All anyone can say is "you'll get through it"...because you will. It sucks so much though. Make that new individual identity.
Brother I’m here with you. For the past year I’ve been trying to deal with my marriage of 7 years ending for the same reason. It’s very very painful. I strive to push forward with the image of the strongest version of myself being on the other side of this darkness. Some days it just doesn’t seem possible. Some days are easier. We got this shit homie. Never give up. Much love and well wishes to you.
Bro!. This is one of the most painful parts of life. Things don't go the way you want them to. I'm so sorry, Wyatt. You got this!. Stay strong, brother!. Much love!. God bless!
I’m going thru same, brother. But it did last 3y over here. Lived together. Did everything together. Suddenly she left me with 3 dogs. I’m taking every step at a time too, breath after breath, and that’s how we go.
I’m so sorry man. I remember seeing all the videos and I can’t begin to imagine how this feels. I pray for you to have a peace, love, happiness, and a healthy mental state. Keep taking it one day at a time. You’ve got this. I believe in you. I’m proud of you. 💜
They always leave when you're at your lowest. Happened to me too. 8 year marriage, she left because I started to struggle with depression. She said she was bored and didn't want to be stuck with all that sadness in her life. 2 months later she was with another guy. I feel really good now, not open to love for obvious reasons, just focusing on myself. It gets better.
This is so unfortunate man it really sucks to hear. I cant imagine if something like this happened between me and my wife. You have my sympathies keep going,just bc that world is over. Doesnt mean your world is! 💙
I had a 4 year relationship end in a night after essentially being blocked and ghosted. That was quite easily the worst possible pain I've ever felt in my life, waking up and my cousin having a message from someone related to my ex and it was literally the worst fucking pain possible. It's been nearing 3 years since that happened and honestly I'm happy and I'm ok. I've never been so horribly drained in my life as I was for the whole year after that. The best decision I made during that time was sticking close to my family, without them I simply wouldn't be alive, I needed supervision and couldn't be alone really. Having no money but being with your family is better than being dead or being alone and horribly depressed.
I've been there. The pain is inescapable. Staying busy while building yourself up will serve as a distraction while you grow. It won't be quick but it's just a matter of time that you'll know and feel that you're gonna be ok.
I'm sorry to hear man. I've also just split with my wife after 8 years together in total. She abandoned me because of some mental health conditions I've been diagnosed with and the difficulties associated with them. They way you described how you feel, is how I feel. I feel lost and broken. I still love her with all my heart but I can't force her to stay. But I just want to let you know that you're not alone. Just keep pushing through my dude, keep fighting.
Im so sorry bro ive been watching awhile and this is a big surprise. I broke up with a girl 10+ years ago and its still so so hard. Ive moved 24 times and im only 29. Lost all my friends. I get it man, I really do... I hope your doing alright Wyatt.
I've seen this when it first came out but never got to watch it cause I was also going through shit. I really hope you find your way back to us man, you're alot stronger than you think you are Wyatt
My girlfriend left after 12 years its been the worst 3 months of my life. I keep thinking its going to get better but its not it hurts the same everyday, I try to take my mind off if her but I cant.The hardest part of my day is when I unlock my door and walk into my house and she isnt there to hug me and say hello, I feel dead inside and I cant shake this feeling, I dont know how I make it through some days. The engagement ring I had for her and the paperwork I had filled out to go get married sits on her empty nightstand haunting me everyday and I cant bring myself to pawn the ring and rip up the paperwork and throw it out.
Hi man, I know how you feel, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, a week after the breakup, she called me, we agreed to try again, then we stayed for another 2 months, but she no longer felt for me what I felt for her, and that's enough, I haven't spoken to her for 21 days, I feel physical pain, anguish, and sometimes I have had suicidal thoughts, but this sadness always comes in waves, which are less and less common, it's difficult to stop see someone you still love , and to be honest, I don't know if I'll be able to let go, but I've been improving, focusing more on myself, which has helped me a lot, but I'm firm, I hope you're firm too. A hug from Brazil, so you can see that this happens all over the world, and many people are together, feeling the same as you, you are not alone, um abraço e um beijo do Brasil
A little late watching this man. I know you’re on your way back to greatness. This is just another chapter in your life. Much love and respect to you man! You can and will overcome everything. 🫶🏽
I was with someone for 8 years also I feel your pain man. For the last two years I’ve been on my own I lost all my friends I question on living everyday day but I really push hard on myself to keep going. In my world isolation has been my down fall it seems no one wants anything to do with me. It’s just hard because I’m 39 and no one is around anymore. My advice is keep going and do what you love. You will do great in life and someone will come along by surprise.
Hey man, I'm so sorry to hear this. I saw you play music, I hope you can find some other players to talk to and depending where you live, also to play with just for fun. It creates bonds that carry people over you know. Isolation is the down fall for everyone pretty much. So many people are so lonely and it's hard to break out from solitude and the feeling of "nobody cares about me". People do care, there are people who care. For sure.
Dude You are a sick drummer, & done many great things! Music is apart of what you pour your passion in since day 1! Keep being great, Continue to reinvent and come out better then you once was but for yourself! Love ya bro!
Makes perfect sense man! Take the time you need! You got this! If she was with another person she wasn't meant for you, plus if she can do that after 8 years she never truly loved you. Go be you and the one will find you!
Everything will get better man. I just turned 26 a couple months ago and last year me and my wife divorced after being together 6 years (married for only 4 months) after we had bought a house together as well. I had a rough time myself for sure but it will get better at some point man.
I don't know you, but you've added value to my life with your content. I wish the best for you and a smooth transition into this next chapter. It's hard to think about the future when you're broken down. It takes a lot of courage to make videos life this. You've got this
My advice is to take your sabbatical, and then return home to your family until you are on your feet. I always urge people looking for a new path is to get into tech. There are a lot of companies based in the US and Canada that take entry level people that pay VERY well ($75k+ USD) and have a great work/life balance, so you can still focus on your passions. Most are hybrid or completely remote, and they have great PTO plans. In your case, you have a long history in social media and marketing that you can leverage, as well as just having such an interesting and diverse skill set. Field marketing, BDR, inside sales, and anything in that world would suit you I think. It was a life changing move for me and I've never been happier, especially since I can still focus on our music. Feel free to reach out if that's something that would interest you and you'd want to know where to start. I've been there and I'm happy to help.
Brother i can tell you that things may start out hard but sometimes its for the better. I went/still going through the most fucked up divorce. My ex wife cheated on me. Mentally abused me and turned everyone i thought i loved against me. For no reason other than for her own demented pleasure. I was to the point i about killed myself. Like yourself i had no idea what i could do. I was couch surfing as well. Until i found so real friends that allowed me to move in with them my own bedroom. I struggled with trust and everything for a few years after this. But i always kept my faith in myself strong went through the tough battles with my psyche wrote songs about my pain. At the end of the day man please remember one thing to move on is to grow. Try your best not to torture yourself youre a fantastic human. Everything will be okay. And make sure you take it one day at a time. Do whats best for you. If you need anything like a place to crash or whatever i got your back fam dm me or whatever ill shoot you my number even if its just to talk to a homie thats been through a similar situation. Love ya dog.
My ex girlfriend and i watched u and ur lindsay's music video reactions often, quoted u a bunch of times. She left me last november. I still think of your vids and how we'd laugh over some of your reactions. Sad to see this news of your breakup today. The pain ur feeling now, the pain i felt when she left, im feeling just as much today. But im still here, despite many, many nights contemplating suicide. Ive dated a few girls since, fucked around and all that bullshit. I have nothing to say that's hopeful or inspiring, all i can do is share this pain with you here in a comment. At least maybe there's some comfort in knowing you're not alone in this seemingly unending suffering
Been wondering where the videos have been! You'll be fine. Things happen for a reason. This'll be a new chapter for your life and a chance for you to start anew. You got it!
People come and go, everything happens for a reason. Everyday is a blessing 😇🙏🏻 Keep moving forward, you are such a talented human being. Keep your heads up and smile every single day. It helps a lot 😁
At the end of the day, you can only control your actions. Move forward and do the things to put yourself in a position for you to feel better about where you are.
have lived through this myself, pick up the pieces and you will become a better person, easier said than done at the moment but you you are at the worst part of a long term break up, where you doubt yourself etc. looking back im glad it happend, i have reached levels i never thought i would with better people in my life, keep your head up my man!
Never ceases to amaze me how things like this happen. One day at a time man. it gets easier but just one foot in front of the other for a bit. Before you know it it’ll feel like a fever dream. Much love from the US, keep being you brother ❤
Yo Wyatt I’m very sorry to hear that situation. I’ve been single for 3 years for a lot of reasons because this generation ruined a lot of good girls due to social media and negativity. 2021-2023 werent good to me. 2024 was a warm up and 2025 will be “THE” year for me. But hope you’re doing okay and don’t let this shit bring you down. Keep doing what you’re doing for your next chapter. It’s life and things happens for a reason. Rest. Figure out. Get back up and hope you find another loving person in your life man Stay safe Wyatt 🙏
Wyatt, brother, I feel you and what you’re going through. I know it’s easier said then felt, but it may feel uncertain now, but it’s not time, the wounds will heal. I’ve had my fair share of trials and tribulations with life and relationships. They were surely rough and led me down many foggy and dark roads, but if there’s one thing I can say for certain, it’s this. What you’re feeling? That’s what they are, feelings. They are natural during times like these, but what they aren’t are facts. It’s what we choose to do about the feelings that heal us and move us positively. I don’t know your situation, so what I say may not carry much comfort, but that which I shared I have come to know as truth. The feelings will pass, and if you just continue to push and find joy in the little things, the things you love and connecting to a spiritual grounding as you described, you WILL be ok. Women will come and go. Again, easier said then felt. But trust me, you’ll meet someone else further down the road, but for now just keep being strong and more importantly, yourself. Love you man, sending you love from NJ 🤘🏻
It's been a year since my 4 year relationship with my fiancé ended. Only time will heal tbh. Music will help out a lot as well. You'll use this time to reflect but don't live in the past and "what ifs" too long. Use this time to focus on yourself, get better, heal/cope, and grow stronger. Having distractions def helps. I've learned a lot in this year. Unfortunately with my breakup that also accrued a lot of debt and made me realize I was being manipulated/used and was the sole provider of the family. Having bought the house for us, cars, credit cards, etc. Seemed like a take take relationship and no real benefits for me. Love faded away as fast as it started. Now I'm left with myself, the house I built for a family of 3 now 1, and a pile of debt in my name. On the bright side we never got married and my life isn't completely ruined 😂. Keep your head up and look on the bright side. Almost always there is a silver lining in these situations. 💪
Chin up my man it all happens. Me and my partner had a lil knock told me she loves me but not in love with me anymore. But after a week she's realised that we can work at it and it's something we can both work on together as a team we was together almost 5 so dnt beat yourself up try to see a silver lining and look to all the good times you both had and reflect on them and maybe build on them I'm not sure what's happened and going on but us as a collective are here for you my man :) chin up
Very sad to here this 😢one of the things I live by the helps me is these words.”when times are dark the chance of light is always greater! Best of luck dude.
So sorry to hear that! Absolutely devastating to be cheated on! I know its hard, but try to not think about her, or the future that isnt there anymore. It will almost become like an addiction i've heard. So dont expose yourself to things that remind you of the relationship! Set goals and keep moving. The wounds will heal over time. My relationship ended around two years ago, it pretty much shattered me. The future i had planned out with her was destroyed. Insane feeling of emptyness when your future is gone. But through doing what i just suggested, i've turned things around, i switched career to programming after 18 years as an excavator operator, and now i have my own cabin here i sweden. Life is honestly really good now. Things to turn around if you strive forward!
Hey bro, it's not easy, i've been there too. Respect your feelings and surround yourself with friends and family. Hope to see your drums covers again. Be well!!
I can't imagine the pain you're going through right now. But, hey... You are amazing, excelent musician/drummer and I know you'll thrive and prosper. Take your time, heal... After this come back even stronger. We are with you, always.
accept and enjoy life for what it is. that's how i found peace and contentment. you can be free of all pain and suffering if you accept things for what they are. it's actually that simple but you have to fully embrace it and apply it to your life.
I wish you nothing but the best brotha, we all know you got this, no matter what you decide to do next or any time in the future your fans are still here and we all support you anything you do, much love man, you got this
i always knew that their relationship wont last. Most noticeably when they started to travel Lindsay was forcing herself to do what she dont want to. most of the time she was stressed out or mental brake down. Then now finally she let go. i think this will best for her.
Aw, my guy, I'm so sorry she did that to you. You didn't deserve that. Sorry for the unimaginable pain you'll be dealing with. So sorry, Wyatt. Please remember, it's not your responsibility for someone to choose you. You gave her your heart and she decided to break your trust forever. You'll not be able to think that way now, and will blame yourself regardless, so, please don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes shitty things happen to good people, and it will close a door for you, another will open, but it'll take time. Do your healing brother. Much love ❤
seeing this late obviously, but bro you're still young, its netter to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. take some time for yourself, reflect, think about things that can make you better and move on. i wish you well brotha, ill be here to see the rest of your journey. you'll be okay.
For once, I thank TH-cam recommendations logarithm. As someone who was in the same Situation. I could understand the umbrella pain - I was in a relationship of 16 years and my fiance called it quits. Covid really pushed the relationship to the fucking limits and really made our future impossible. It hurts man, to get replaced until 3 months - it's like getting double tapped. All I can say is is now it's all about improving that mental and physical health because even. though it's been two years, it still haunts me to the stay for the fact that I have this void in my heart and everything that I do reminds me of them. Just gotta be strong and since you got people on here - know that people actually look up to ya and wish to support ya.
I’m so sorry, brother. There aren’t any words anyone can say to you to make you feel any better right now. All you can really do is control what you can control and that’s focusing on the simple, mundane tasks that create the day and take it one day at a time and allow time to slowly start to heal you’re shredded soul. It will get better but it will take time. Sending love all the way from Minnesota, bro! 🫶🏻
That's rough man. I used to watch your reactions and I just had this video recommended to me. Be proud of everything you've done and cherish your experiences. I've always wanted to do some travelling myself, but I'm way too anxious to even try.
One thing you cannot lose is us. We are your supporters and we will be here no matter what you are going through. Take whatever time you need to get back on your feet and grind. We will be here when you get back. Luv bro💯
Hey man, I’m going through the same as you. It hurts so bad, but think of it this way. Things works out for a reason. She didn’t deserve you. And you’re gonna find someone so much better homie. Trust 🙌
Bro im sorry to hear this news. Ive been watching your channel for years and youve never dissapointed. I had this happen a couple times and its soul destroying. But one thing that got me through was as hard as it is but realising that the kind of person that could do that is not the person that should be in your life. And from those experiences ive become stronger minded. Turn it into a positive. I know its overwhelming, but one step at a time. Your possibilities are endless dude. And i wish you all the best in this new chapter of life. You're a legend 🤘
New chapter bro! Avoid going home. I'm visiting my home town after a break up and it's not helping. Can't wait to get back on the road and in my element
DUDE WHAT. Why throw away almost a decade of your life just for lust??? It makes zero sense, I'm actually so shocked. I remember feeling so at home watching your guys Motionless In White and Bullet For My Valentine reactions and just loving how you guys had like 10 minute long intros just vibing, it is actually so sad how someone could do that. Hang in there dude, you're living my worst nightmare right now and any advice anyone could give you won't help, it's your battle to ride out. Much love man.
Hey, i was in the same situation a year ago, it feels sh*t, and nothing will help except a time, so stay strong, be with your loved ones and later you will be fine, thats what I’m telling myself 😅
Really sorry to hear this, me and wife broke up 5 years ago after being together for 12 years,i feel your pain been there myself, as time goes on you learn to deal with the hurt better, stay strong 💪 and make sure you have someone to talk too
Mate..im not gonna lie... its gonna be a lot harder the next coming days/weeks... missing and thinking will ramp up,and the feeling of being lost will intensify... But.... i promise,.. as we all been trough,.. this feeling will be replaced by peace.. and slowly., life without will become a normal feeling again.. Just hang on.. feeling like shit isnt a bad thing.. just hang in there,and make sure to tell yourself ..its okay,.it will get better
I am so sorry Wyatt.. I've found myself wondering how Wyatt is, what he is up to! you were a huge part of my TH-cam gazing for many years.. before Lindsay.. I remember just you and the interviews, the drumming and then the addition of her... We accepted her! but ultimately we are fans of Wyatt. You know what impact you have in the Drumming, music and reaction community.. you don't need to go far to figure out what to do for work man! I know you will be even stronger than before and honestly, bigger and better than before. We are here always when you need it.
Well…. I don’t know how diligent you are about reading all of these comments, but speaking as a Canadian, who literally dipped my foot in Sweden yesterday (currently in Copenhagen for a school trip) who has also gone through some of what you’re dealing with, I know the struggles of living in Canada and trying to find solid ground again. Thank fuck you don’t have kids caught up in the mix, things could always be worse. You’re right in that things are expensive, but you have the freedom to do what needs to be done and make those drastic moves without needing to worry about impacting really anyone else. Additionally, what you do for a job does not define you, it’s a means to an end. Honestly speaking, putting in some good physical labour work also helps you have an outlet for the frustration, but you want to not get stuck in your head. Spend your downtime reconnecting with friends and family, and finding a hobby that takes you out of the home to prevent wallowing alone in your room… Or in this instance someone’s couch. The problem most people -including myself -have is that they place all of their happiness on the person that means the most to them, but when you have all your eggs in one basket, you’re left with nothing when they leave.. you need to sit with yourself and figure out who you are as an individual, and what brings you peace and happiness apart from her. Your partner should add to your life, not replace it. Which means, you need to have a life first -develop yourself, become someone who you can be proud of, take care of yourself -and you’ll not only begin to feel better -but other like-minded positive people will be drawn to you. You talk about joining the monks, but 3 months with them won’t teach you how to live with yourself for life. (My dad also practices Buddhism) and it’s more a supplement to your life, it still requires you to still kind of have your shit together. My first recommendation is to make yourself two lists, and they can be as long as you like, but in my opinion, the longer the better. I want you to list every single thing that makes you happy in one, and all of the things that make you miserable in the other. There’s something peculiar about seeing these things written down in front of you that forces you to see and acknowledge all of the triggers that influence how you feel every day, especially when you think about how often those triggers occur in your day-to-day life. Once you know, you can make a conscious decision to include more positive triggers, and limit negative triggers, or force yourself to confront certain triggers until you gain the fortitude to overcome them. Second I would try and find something to work towards, because having something to fall back on and continuously pour energy into, means you won’t be sitting idle. Instead, you can begin to feel good about making steady progress in something, instead of feeling lost or stagnant. Happiness comes from overcoming challenges, which means you need to give yourself a challenge with achievable goals. Moving back to Canada might be the challenge, but if you sit down and meticulously list all of the things you need to do in order to get your life back together, perhaps you can start crossing those off your list as you work to set up a life for yourself. I’m in Copenhagen for just this week, but I got data enough to message back and forth if you need an anonymous ear to listen. Otherwise, I’ll be back near Toronto after this weekend. Best of luck either way buddy
Architects once said: Enough pressure will create a diamond.
Wishing the best for you Wyatt🙏🏻🤲🏻
Wise words ❤️🔥🥰
WAIT WHAT? That is actually devastating as fuck. I've been following you guys since i started seeing some of your reactions during lockdown, and i never thought something like this would happen man. Seeing your guys' growth and marriage was beautiful. I can't believe she would rip it apart like that. I'm not religious so i won't say i'll pray for you, but i do really hope you get through this dude.
Wyatt you'll make it. I cant begin to comprehend what you're going through right now, but you have to believe everything will work out. I've been watching you for 6 years and the happiest you've been is since you started this journey of working on your mental and physical health. Keep doing what you love and inspiring us with your teachings and videos, and trust everything will get better with time. Stay strong Wyatt, we love you.
Thank you ❤❤❤ I will 🙏🏻
Really sucks to see this man. I’m sorry you’re going through it, but praying for peace and healing for you.
🙏🏻❤🔥
Be true to yourself my friend... Times will be tough but with time they will get better! One thing I learnt over the years from heartbreak is focusing on the things you love and enjoy doing, playing drums has been a big part of my life and kept me on track when I've felt down... while things in life are always down to your own choices I feel a calling for you getting back behind a drum kit and showing the world how badass you are on the drums! Stay strong brother!💪🏻
I fell out of love with drumming 2 years ago when I stopped playing 🙏🏻 we don’t stay the same forever. I’m a new person since those days of playing the kit ❤️ I may return I may not - not sure. Trying to feel out what my heart wants.
@@LifeOfWyatt you are a different person indeed but maybe you needed this Journey to better that journey. Maybe the first song you play is what you need. You seem more grounded mentally and would love to see what Wyatt now could come up with in the music world.
I don’t understand how someone could be with someone for almost a decade and do something like that. All the blood sweat and tears that go into a relationship, especially one that long, it just makes no sense to me
My wife of 10 years cheated on me with my best friend of 14 years. So yeah I know exactly what Wyatt is going through. I only see my 6 year old daughter once or twice a week now.
@@Tipsi_Jedi I find it crazy how a mother can cheat on their partner, and still have the fucking right to raise their child
That is why even in a “stable relationship” we should always be conscious that people change.
Most women cheat. They cheat far more than men do.
Problems can build over time, people change over time.. some people don't grow together and instead grow apart. It sucks, but it happens..
Everything will be okay buddy!
Sending love from Bulgaria.
I will tell you this.
Why do we fall Wyatt ?
So we could learn to pick ourselves up . A famous movie quote and a good one .
Be strong my friend, god knows his work .
Yeah, you’re right. The “pick up” is well under way 🙏🏻🔥❤️
Chin up brother. I was in a relationship for 6.5 years when she cheated on me as well and moved on with someone else. Just realize you dodged a bullet. May not feel that way now but you definitely did.
Brother didn’t dodge a bullet he got hit by the bullet…
@@Alvah707 nah man at least they didn’t have kids and everything and then she did that to him. Better to happen now then after marriage and kids and completely fuck everything
Yeah I see this perspective. It would have been much harder if we had a home and children. 🙏🏻❤️ grateful at least to be able to move on completely now.
My advice is going to sound misaligned to most on here, but you should go home to your family bro. I’m a few years older mate and I know what you’re dealing with. Get a flight to your family because that’s who care for you more than anybody else. London will always be there. But wish you well dude.
No bro - you don’t know my situation. That isn’t an option. 🙏🏻
That situation was brought on by you being a shithead lol
Go surround yourself with friends and family and go to a therapist. I still struggle with a past relationship and it's been 9 going on 10 yrs now. Nothing better than going ahead and nipping it in the butt.
@@LifeOfWyattif that’s not an option it’s totally understandable. but just please take care of yourself man I’ve been watching you for years and I just want what’s best for you. Live life to the fullest man and be safe!
@@LifeOfWyattI’ve been there before. I chose pussy over my family and they didn’t want shit to do with me. Thank God I was able to make things right with them. I felt so guilty for years.
I went through the same thing except didn’t have help and ended up drinking a handle of vodka and almost offing myself in a bathtub, cops came in and saved my life and put me in a behavioral center, but it does get better with time, I know that’s what everyone says but it’s true. I ended up getting a steady trade job that I can bear with, I’m married and a kid on the way, you are NOT alone Wyatt been here the whole way love you man
I am goin through the same thing. My wife and I of 13 years are getting a divorce. Just keep your head held high and take it one day at a time. Love and Peace.
Damn bro. My hearts broken for you. I've been down this road many times, but it's not the end my brother. It's never easy to start over, but unfortunately this shit happens. It's gonna hurt for awhile, and seem like there's no reason to continue on, but you can't give up man. Don't let her destroy you. You gotta pick yourself back up, and live bro. You're a very talented individual, and you will get through this.
Wyatt hang in there my friend. I just got out of the military and separated with my best friend and my soulmate of 5 years. I ended end up incubated in the hospital but still found your videos as I recover refreshing. Keep your head up head up my man. I’m right there with you, it absolutely sucks, however you’ve got this.
Be well - we will rise together now ❤🔥
Take care of yourself brother ❤ I went through a dark and uncertain time in my life and decided to move closer to family and I found peace again. Do whatever it is that you feel gives you purpose and healing will follow
I had a similar thing happen in my life recently. I won't pretend i know your pain and your problems. Everyone feels and experiences things differently. Music actually helped me a lot. "Remember you are loved, and you always will be"
You're not alone, I was with my ex from age 19 to 29 even got married which only lasted maybe half a year when I left work early only to walk in on her cheating on me.... life was so hard after I wanted to give up so many times but I had to push through to say f**k you to the hand life dealt me and prove i could win. I took 5 years to myself to heal and then got back on the dating scene for a year and as of now I'm with an amazing woman who has shown me what it feels like to matter again. Stay strong brother ❤
Rock bottom is a solid foundation to create a life you never thought was possible.
Your trajectory has changed. Everything will come to you at the right time. Be patient.
You got this homie.
Don’t sit in sadness bro, it’s a lonely friend that doesn’t give back. Take the time required and move forward. I miss your drumming videos
How can two people be together for so many years and end up failing like this? Personally my first and current relationship of 6 years is a strong one as well and we're engaged too. I can't imagine going through the rest of my life with us breaking up. It would be too heartbreaking!
No words can ease your pain but you are not alone. Had been with my wife for over twenty years. A year and a half ago she revealed she had a three month affair before we got married and didn't tell me till now as she thought I would leave her. I'm divorcing her and moving on with my life. The pain is unreal and feels like a limb is missing, but it's what must be done. You'll get through it. I wish you peace and strength.
One thing I found quite helpful after being let go by a long time partner was staying in a hostel. Something about being around a bunch of other people just seemed to make things so much more manageable. It might be impossible to see now, but you will make it through this. Time has a way of healing!
You’ll come out on top of this. 2 years ago my 6 year relationship concluded in a similar fashion. It’s awful how some people can be so deceitful when you have literally committed to being their partner for life. It’s a long road of pain, discovery and recovery but I believe in you. For a long time you were my source of new metal bands coming out so thank you for that.
I’m really sorry to hear that brother, I couldn’t imagine what your going through for real. We love you and are here for you!❤️
🙏🏻❤🔥 Thank you!
Totally feel you, man. I was with my ex-wife for 9 years and we got divorced. It was incredibly hard trying to figure out where to go from there. She was all I knew. It took like a year and a half for me to figure out stuff. I am now remarried and the happiest I have ever been. Things will get better. I know that's not the easiest thing to hear, but I felt the same way when I went through what I did. I'll definitely be keeping you in my prayers, brother.
Hey man. Just randomly came across your channel and this is my fourth video jumping from your other channels to here. I went through a divorce after 6 years back in 2016. Infidelity that I caught in the act. Yeah, it sucked. It wrecked me in a way that was genuinely transformative. In many ways, I'm better. I will say I'm more protective of my feelings. Been in a couple relationships since then, and I'm currently in a 3 year relationship. I won't lie, it changed how I approach relationships in a significant way. All anyone can say is "you'll get through it"...because you will. It sucks so much though. Make that new individual identity.
Stay strong man!
In life we never loose, we either win or learn!
Waiting for your comeback !
Brother I’m here with you. For the past year I’ve been trying to deal with my marriage of 7 years ending for the same reason. It’s very very painful. I strive to push forward with the image of the strongest version of myself being on the other side of this darkness. Some days it just doesn’t seem possible. Some days are easier. We got this shit homie. Never give up. Much love and well wishes to you.
Bro!. This is one of the most painful parts of life. Things don't go the way you want them to. I'm so sorry, Wyatt. You got this!. Stay strong, brother!. Much love!. God bless!
I’m going thru same, brother. But it did last 3y over here. Lived together. Did everything together. Suddenly she left me with 3 dogs. I’m taking every step at a time too, breath after breath, and that’s how we go.
I’m so sorry man. I remember seeing all the videos and I can’t begin to imagine how this feels. I pray for you to have a peace, love, happiness, and a healthy mental state. Keep taking it one day at a time. You’ve got this. I believe in you. I’m proud of you. 💜
They always leave when you're at your lowest. Happened to me too. 8 year marriage, she left because I started to struggle with depression. She said she was bored and didn't want to be stuck with all that sadness in her life. 2 months later she was with another guy. I feel really good now, not open to love for obvious reasons, just focusing on myself. It gets better.
This is so unfortunate man it really sucks to hear. I cant imagine if something like this happened between me and my wife. You have my sympathies keep going,just bc that world is over. Doesnt mean your world is! 💙
I had a 4 year relationship end in a night after essentially being blocked and ghosted.
That was quite easily the worst possible pain I've ever felt in my life, waking up and my cousin having a message from someone related to my ex and it was literally the worst fucking pain possible.
It's been nearing 3 years since that happened and honestly I'm happy and I'm ok. I've never been so horribly drained in my life as I was for the whole year after that. The best decision I made during that time was sticking close to my family, without them I simply wouldn't be alive, I needed supervision and couldn't be alone really.
Having no money but being with your family is better than being dead or being alone and horribly depressed.
I've been there. The pain is inescapable. Staying busy while building yourself up will serve as a distraction while you grow. It won't be quick but it's just a matter of time that you'll know and feel that you're gonna be ok.
I'm sorry to hear man. I've also just split with my wife after 8 years together in total. She abandoned me because of some mental health conditions I've been diagnosed with and the difficulties associated with them. They way you described how you feel, is how I feel. I feel lost and broken. I still love her with all my heart but I can't force her to stay. But I just want to let you know that you're not alone. Just keep pushing through my dude, keep fighting.
Stick through this Brother!!! Lots of love from germany. We all love you Brother ❤
Im so sorry bro ive been watching awhile and this is a big surprise. I broke up with a girl 10+ years ago and its still so so hard. Ive moved 24 times and im only 29. Lost all my friends. I get it man, I really do... I hope your doing alright Wyatt.
I've seen this when it first came out but never got to watch it cause I was also going through shit. I really hope you find your way back to us man, you're alot stronger than you think you are Wyatt
You're a deep and awesome soul. Something has a new chapter in store for you my friend.
My girlfriend left after 12 years its been the worst 3 months of my life. I keep thinking its going to get better but its not it hurts the same everyday, I try to take my mind off if her but I cant.The hardest part of my day is when I unlock my door and walk into my house and she isnt there to hug me and say hello, I feel dead inside and I cant shake this feeling, I dont know how I make it through some days. The engagement ring I had for her and the paperwork I had filled out to go get married sits on her empty nightstand haunting me everyday and I cant bring myself to pawn the ring and rip up the paperwork and throw it out.
Hi man, I know how you feel, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago, a week after the breakup, she called me, we agreed to try again, then we stayed for another 2 months, but she no longer felt for me what I felt for her, and that's enough, I haven't spoken to her for 21 days, I feel physical pain, anguish, and sometimes I have had suicidal thoughts, but this sadness always comes in waves, which are less and less common, it's difficult to stop see someone you still love , and to be honest, I don't know if I'll be able to let go, but I've been improving, focusing more on myself, which has helped me a lot, but I'm firm, I hope you're firm too. A hug from Brazil, so you can see that this happens all over the world, and many people are together, feeling the same as you, you are not alone, um abraço e um beijo do Brasil
A little late watching this man. I know you’re on your way back to greatness. This is just another chapter in your life. Much love and respect to you man! You can and will overcome everything. 🫶🏽
I was with someone for 8 years also I feel your pain man. For the last two years I’ve been on my own I lost all my friends I question on living everyday day but I really push hard on myself to keep going. In my world isolation has been my down fall it seems no one wants anything to do with me. It’s just hard because I’m 39 and no one is around anymore. My advice is keep going and do what you love. You will do great in life and someone will come along by surprise.
Hey man, I'm so sorry to hear this. I saw you play music, I hope you can find some other players to talk to and depending where you live, also to play with just for fun. It creates bonds that carry people over you know. Isolation is the down fall for everyone pretty much. So many people are so lonely and it's hard to break out from solitude and the feeling of "nobody cares about me". People do care, there are people who care. For sure.
Dude You are a sick drummer, & done many great things! Music is apart of what you pour your passion in since day 1! Keep being great, Continue to reinvent and come out better then you once was but for yourself! Love ya bro!
Makes perfect sense man! Take the time you need! You got this! If she was with another person she wasn't meant for you, plus if she can do that after 8 years she never truly loved you. Go be you and the one will find you!
Everything will get better man. I just turned 26 a couple months ago and last year me and my wife divorced after being together 6 years (married for only 4 months) after we had bought a house together as well. I had a rough time myself for sure but it will get better at some point man.
I don't know you, but you've added value to my life with your content. I wish the best for you and a smooth transition into this next chapter. It's hard to think about the future when you're broken down. It takes a lot of courage to make videos life this. You've got this
sorry to hear that big dawg, i know it sucks but you'll build yourself better my guy
My advice is to take your sabbatical, and then return home to your family until you are on your feet. I always urge people looking for a new path is to get into tech. There are a lot of companies based in the US and Canada that take entry level people that pay VERY well ($75k+ USD) and have a great work/life balance, so you can still focus on your passions. Most are hybrid or completely remote, and they have great PTO plans. In your case, you have a long history in social media and marketing that you can leverage, as well as just having such an interesting and diverse skill set. Field marketing, BDR, inside sales, and anything in that world would suit you I think. It was a life changing move for me and I've never been happier, especially since I can still focus on our music. Feel free to reach out if that's something that would interest you and you'd want to know where to start. I've been there and I'm happy to help.
Brother i can tell you that things may start out hard but sometimes its for the better. I went/still going through the most fucked up divorce. My ex wife cheated on me. Mentally abused me and turned everyone i thought i loved against me. For no reason other than for her own demented pleasure. I was to the point i about killed myself.
Like yourself i had no idea what i could do. I was couch surfing as well. Until i found so real friends that allowed me to move in with them my own bedroom. I struggled with trust and everything for a few years after this. But i always kept my faith in myself strong went through the tough battles with my psyche wrote songs about my pain. At the end of the day man please remember one thing to move on is to grow. Try your best not to torture yourself youre a fantastic human. Everything will be okay. And make sure you take it one day at a time. Do whats best for you.
If you need anything like a place to crash or whatever i got your back fam dm me or whatever ill shoot you my number even if its just to talk to a homie thats been through a similar situation. Love ya dog.
stay strong brother!
My ex girlfriend and i watched u and ur lindsay's music video reactions often, quoted u a bunch of times. She left me last november. I still think of your vids and how we'd laugh over some of your reactions. Sad to see this news of your breakup today. The pain ur feeling now, the pain i felt when she left, im feeling just as much today. But im still here, despite many, many nights contemplating suicide. Ive dated a few girls since, fucked around and all that bullshit. I have nothing to say that's hopeful or inspiring, all i can do is share this pain with you here in a comment. At least maybe there's some comfort in knowing you're not alone in this seemingly unending suffering
Been wondering where the videos have been!
You'll be fine.
Things happen for a reason.
This'll be a new chapter for your life and a chance for you to start anew.
You got it!
I’m really sorry to hear that man. I’m keeping you in my prayers.😢🙏
Still my favorite drummer on YT dude.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 you got this bruv!! 🫶
I'm really sorry man, it seemed unthinkable. Wish u the best.
People come and go, everything happens for a reason. Everyday is a blessing 😇🙏🏻
Keep moving forward, you are such a talented human being. Keep your heads up and smile every single day. It helps a lot 😁
At the end of the day, you can only control your actions. Move forward and do the things to put yourself in a position for you to feel better about where you are.
Sorry to hear, man. It sucks big time but will bounce back and learn + grow from this.
You’re not alone my man. Unfortunately things happen. It’s life. You’re loved by a lot man, I love you man. Chin up, stay positive bro.
have lived through this myself, pick up the pieces and you will become a better person, easier said than done at the moment but you you are at the worst part of a long term break up, where you doubt yourself etc. looking back im glad it happend, i have reached levels i never thought i would with better people in my life, keep your head up my man!
Never ceases to amaze me how things like this happen. One day at a time man. it gets easier but just one foot in front of the other for a bit. Before you know it it’ll feel like a fever dream. Much love from the US, keep being you brother ❤
Yo Wyatt I’m very sorry to hear that situation. I’ve been single for 3 years for a lot of reasons because this generation ruined a lot of good girls due to social media and negativity. 2021-2023 werent good to me. 2024 was a warm up and 2025 will be “THE” year for me. But hope you’re doing okay and don’t let this shit bring you down. Keep doing what you’re doing for your next chapter. It’s life and things happens for a reason.
Rest. Figure out. Get back up and hope you find another loving person in your life man
Stay safe Wyatt 🙏
Wyatt, brother, I feel you and what you’re going through. I know it’s easier said then felt, but it may feel uncertain now, but it’s not time, the wounds will heal. I’ve had my fair share of trials and tribulations with life and relationships. They were surely rough and led me down many foggy and dark roads, but if there’s one thing I can say for certain, it’s this. What you’re feeling? That’s what they are, feelings. They are natural during times like these, but what they aren’t are facts. It’s what we choose to do about the feelings that heal us and move us positively. I don’t know your situation, so what I say may not carry much comfort, but that which I shared I have come to know as truth. The feelings will pass, and if you just continue to push and find joy in the little things, the things you love and connecting to a spiritual grounding as you described, you WILL be ok. Women will come and go. Again, easier said then felt. But trust me, you’ll meet someone else further down the road, but for now just keep being strong and more importantly, yourself. Love you man, sending you love from NJ 🤘🏻
It's been a year since my 4 year relationship with my fiancé ended. Only time will heal tbh. Music will help out a lot as well. You'll use this time to reflect but don't live in the past and "what ifs" too long. Use this time to focus on yourself, get better, heal/cope, and grow stronger. Having distractions def helps. I've learned a lot in this year. Unfortunately with my breakup that also accrued a lot of debt and made me realize I was being manipulated/used and was the sole provider of the family. Having bought the house for us, cars, credit cards, etc. Seemed like a take take relationship and no real benefits for me. Love faded away as fast as it started. Now I'm left with myself, the house I built for a family of 3 now 1, and a pile of debt in my name. On the bright side we never got married and my life isn't completely ruined 😂. Keep your head up and look on the bright side. Almost always there is a silver lining in these situations. 💪
Hang in there Man! Take your Time to process everything, talk to a therapist if you need to, dont be afraid.
Love you. Be safe.
Can't say I didn't see this coming. She just wasn't the one for you dude
Chin up my man it all happens. Me and my partner had a lil knock told me she loves me but not in love with me anymore. But after a week she's realised that we can work at it and it's something we can both work on together as a team we was together almost 5 so dnt beat yourself up try to see a silver lining and look to all the good times you both had and reflect on them and maybe build on them I'm not sure what's happened and going on but us as a collective are here for you my man :) chin up
Sorry for you man…life sucks sometimes but you will be alright, keep your head up
Very sad to here this 😢one of the things I live by the helps me is these words.”when times are dark the chance of light is always greater! Best of luck dude.
Hey Wyatt, I live in the uk so if you need anything. Don’t hesitate to reach out
So sorry to hear that! Absolutely devastating to be cheated on! I know its hard, but try to not think about her, or the future that isnt there anymore. It will almost become like an addiction i've heard. So dont expose yourself to things that remind you of the relationship! Set goals and keep moving. The wounds will heal over time. My relationship ended around two years ago, it pretty much shattered me. The future i had planned out with her was destroyed. Insane feeling of emptyness when your future is gone. But through doing what i just suggested, i've turned things around, i switched career to programming after 18 years as an excavator operator, and now i have my own cabin here i sweden. Life is honestly really good now. Things to turn around if you strive forward!
Hey bro, it's not easy, i've been there too. Respect your feelings and surround yourself with friends and family. Hope to see your drums covers again. Be well!!
I can't imagine the pain you're going through right now. But, hey... You are amazing, excelent musician/drummer and I know you'll thrive and prosper. Take your time, heal... After this come back even stronger. We are with you, always.
accept and enjoy life for what it is. that's how i found peace and contentment. you can be free of all pain and suffering if you accept things for what they are. it's actually that simple but you have to fully embrace it and apply it to your life.
I wish you nothing but the best brotha, we all know you got this, no matter what you decide to do next or any time in the future your fans are still here and we all support you anything you do, much love man, you got this
I'm so sorry bro, I send you lots of strength and encouragement from Guadalajara, Mexico
i always knew that their relationship wont last. Most noticeably when they started to travel Lindsay was forcing herself to do what she dont want to.
most of the time she was stressed out or mental brake down. Then now finally she let go.
i think this will best for her.
You got this, bro. Cheering for your come up. 🎉
Aw, my guy, I'm so sorry she did that to you. You didn't deserve that. Sorry for the unimaginable pain you'll be dealing with. So sorry, Wyatt. Please remember, it's not your responsibility for someone to choose you. You gave her your heart and she decided to break your trust forever. You'll not be able to think that way now, and will blame yourself regardless, so, please don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes shitty things happen to good people, and it will close a door for you, another will open, but it'll take time. Do your healing brother. Much love ❤
seeing this late obviously, but bro you're still young, its netter to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. take some time for yourself, reflect, think about things that can make you better and move on. i wish you well brotha, ill be here to see the rest of your journey. you'll be okay.
For once, I thank TH-cam recommendations logarithm. As someone who was in the same Situation. I could understand the umbrella pain - I was in a relationship of 16 years and my fiance called it quits. Covid really pushed the relationship to the fucking limits and really made our future impossible. It hurts man, to get replaced until 3 months - it's like getting double tapped. All I can say is is now it's all about improving that mental and physical health because even. though it's been two years, it still haunts me to the stay for the fact that I have this void in my heart and everything that I do reminds me of them. Just gotta be strong and since you got people on here - know that people actually look up to ya and wish to support ya.
Take care of yourself my friend, your life is more than a past relationship. You have a long life ahead of you and always keep pushing forward.
I’m so sorry, brother. There aren’t any words anyone can say to you to make you feel any better right now. All you can really do is control what you can control and that’s focusing on the simple, mundane tasks that create the day and take it one day at a time and allow time to slowly start to heal you’re shredded soul. It will get better but it will take time. Sending love all the way from Minnesota, bro! 🫶🏻
That's rough man. I used to watch your reactions and I just had this video recommended to me. Be proud of everything you've done and cherish your experiences. I've always wanted to do some travelling myself, but I'm way too anxious to even try.
One thing you cannot lose is us. We are your supporters and we will be here no matter what you are going through. Take whatever time you need to get back on your feet and grind. We will be here when you get back. Luv bro💯
Hey man, I’m going through the same as you. It hurts so bad, but think of it this way. Things works out for a reason. She didn’t deserve you. And you’re gonna find someone so much better homie. Trust 🙌
Bro im sorry to hear this news. Ive been watching your channel for years and youve never dissapointed. I had this happen a couple times and its soul destroying. But one thing that got me through was as hard as it is but realising that the kind of person that could do that is not the person that should be in your life. And from those experiences ive become stronger minded. Turn it into a positive. I know its overwhelming, but one step at a time. Your possibilities are endless dude. And i wish you all the best in this new chapter of life. You're a legend 🤘
this breaks my heart man, praying for you
Thank you, much love ❤️
New chapter bro!
Avoid going home. I'm visiting my home town after a break up and it's not helping. Can't wait to get back on the road and in my element
Heard you! 🙏🏻
DUDE WHAT.
Why throw away almost a decade of your life just for lust???
It makes zero sense, I'm actually so shocked.
I remember feeling so at home watching your guys Motionless In White and Bullet For My Valentine reactions and just loving how you guys had like 10 minute long intros just vibing, it is actually so sad how someone could do that.
Hang in there dude, you're living my worst nightmare right now and any advice anyone could give you won't help, it's your battle to ride out.
Much love man.
Hey, i was in the same situation a year ago, it feels sh*t, and nothing will help except a time, so stay strong, be with your loved ones and later you will be fine, thats what I’m telling myself 😅
Really sorry to hear this, me and wife broke up 5 years ago after being together for 12 years,i feel your pain been there myself, as time goes on you learn to deal with the hurt better, stay strong 💪 and make sure you have someone to talk too
I’m so so sorry man that sucks! nobody deserves to be treated that way man, take as long as you need ❤
Mate..im not gonna lie... its gonna be a lot harder the next coming days/weeks... missing and thinking will ramp up,and the feeling of being lost will intensify...
But.... i promise,.. as we all been trough,.. this feeling will be replaced by peace.. and slowly., life without will become a normal feeling again..
Just hang on.. feeling like shit isnt a bad thing.. just hang in there,and make sure to tell yourself ..its okay,.it will get better
I am so sorry Wyatt.. I've found myself wondering how Wyatt is, what he is up to! you were a huge part of my TH-cam gazing for many years.. before Lindsay.. I remember just you and the interviews, the drumming and then the addition of her... We accepted her! but ultimately we are fans of Wyatt. You know what impact you have in the Drumming, music and reaction community.. you don't need to go far to figure out what to do for work man! I know you will be even stronger than before and honestly, bigger and better than before. We are here always when you need it.
Everything happens for a reason. God has you bro.
I promise you...time really will heal everything...just be good to you !
Stay strong brother! You have so many people who got you and care. Keep your head up.
Much love and many thanks! New beginnings now ❤️🔥
Well…. I don’t know how diligent you are about reading all of these comments, but speaking as a Canadian, who literally dipped my foot in Sweden yesterday (currently in Copenhagen for a school trip) who has also gone through some of what you’re dealing with, I know the struggles of living in Canada and trying to find solid ground again. Thank fuck you don’t have kids caught up in the mix, things could always be worse. You’re right in that things are expensive, but you have the freedom to do what needs to be done and make those drastic moves without needing to worry about impacting really anyone else. Additionally, what you do for a job does not define you, it’s a means to an end. Honestly speaking, putting in some good physical labour work also helps you have an outlet for the frustration, but you want to not get stuck in your head. Spend your downtime reconnecting with friends and family, and finding a hobby that takes you out of the home to prevent wallowing alone in your room… Or in this instance someone’s couch. The problem most people -including myself -have is that they place all of their happiness on the person that means the most to them, but when you have all your eggs in one basket, you’re left with nothing when they leave.. you need to sit with yourself and figure out who you are as an individual, and what brings you peace and happiness apart from her. Your partner should add to your life, not replace it. Which means, you need to have a life first -develop yourself, become someone who you can be proud of, take care of yourself -and you’ll not only begin to feel better -but other like-minded positive people will be drawn to you. You talk about joining the monks, but 3 months with them won’t teach you how to live with yourself for life. (My dad also practices Buddhism) and it’s more a supplement to your life, it still requires you to still kind of have your shit together.
My first recommendation is to make yourself two lists, and they can be as long as you like, but in my opinion, the longer the better. I want you to list every single thing that makes you happy in one, and all of the things that make you miserable in the other. There’s something peculiar about seeing these things written down in front of you that forces you to see and acknowledge all of the triggers that influence how you feel every day, especially when you think about how often those triggers occur in your day-to-day life. Once you know, you can make a conscious decision to include more positive triggers, and limit negative triggers, or force yourself to confront certain triggers until you gain the fortitude to overcome them. Second I would try and find something to work towards, because having something to fall back on and continuously pour energy into, means you won’t be sitting idle. Instead, you can begin to feel good about making steady progress in something, instead of feeling lost or stagnant. Happiness comes from overcoming challenges, which means you need to give yourself a challenge with achievable goals. Moving back to Canada might be the challenge, but if you sit down and meticulously list all of the things you need to do in order to get your life back together, perhaps you can start crossing those off your list as you work to set up a life for yourself. I’m in Copenhagen for just this week, but I got data enough to message back and forth if you need an anonymous ear to listen. Otherwise, I’ll be back near Toronto after this weekend. Best of luck either way buddy