Faisal Salam actually the actor who played Derek wanted to leave the show. So Shonda killed him off... but I was thinking maybe in an upcoming season they could do an episode like if/then but like what if Derek hadn’t died and he had gotten the surgery and Meredith got to tell Derek she was pregnant again and he met his daughter.
Meredith was correct. Cristina CHOSE not to have children and Meredith was just learning to balance and yes, Cristina had decent points last episode but her delivery was coming from a place of anger that not everybody is 100% medicine.
Regardless of Christina coming anger, which she didn’t. She made great points that Meredith did not want to accept. If Meredith can look at it objectively and not personally, Christina is right. There’s nothing wrong with being a mother and wanting to have a good career. But remember sometimes people, like Meredith, lose track and you need someone to tell you you lost it.
@@azngettoone yeah Christina is objectively right but the way she came across basically said “ you’re a mom. Your career stops here.” It fricken hurts to have that said to you. I’m all about harsh truths but Meredith is learning how to balance it all and Christina while right came across as unsupportive and uncaring of Meredith’s life.
These are choices. They say you can't have best of both world. People who choose to be Meredith sometimes lose themselves and their passion while trying to balance. They think if they hadn't chosen this they might have been thriving.While people like Christina often see people like Meredith and get jealous of their wholesome life and family. But it would be incorrect to say that children means downfall of your career and also that one is incomplete without children/partner. But yeah you can't have best of both world.
These are choices. They say you can't have best of both world. People who choose to be Meredith sometimes lose themselves and their passion while trying to balance. They think if they hadn't chosen this they might have been thriving.While people like Christina often see people like Meredith and get jealous of their wholesome life and family. But it would be incorrect to say that children means downfall of your career and also that one is incomplete without children/partner. But yeah you can't have best of both world.
Stéphanie Nguyen it happens with time , Too many things changed for Meredith not the same for Christian. Ofcourse we know things change but adjustment still takes time . A phase of adjustment due to change is natural 🙂 .
@@stephaniee it’s cause they’re more like sisters than friends at this point imo. They either get together super well and are there for each other or tear each other down really coldly
It's because they change clothes whenever they are in their work. And Wear the same clothes they wore, when they came to work, back to their homes. It's a common practice of every doctors or nurses.b
what i dont understand is that basically everyone in the hospital used that red mug, it got lost, filled with coffee, lost again, broken, washed, then brought back looking perfect like it hadnt been glued back together. a bit confusing if u ask me lol
@@Rjs81187 imo Cristina was potentially right to cut her off of the surgery but what she said later was completely not okay imo. She acted that just bc mer had kids her career pretty much ended there and she would never be able to be as good
I absolutely don't agree with Christina's delivery because she decided not to have children and while she is an absolute machine in the OR there have also been things that have affected her greatly and Meredith has always been there for her. I can understand if Meredith had a baby six months, a year ago but she literally just had a baby and was just trying to find a good work/home balance which many new parents have to do. I do think in that particular episode Meredith did have a lot going on and so it probably was best for Bailey to scrub in but Christina could have delivered it in a much different way. LOL we are all talking about this like it is real life but you know what Grey's is real life to me haha
All of you say Meredith has a point, I’d say maybe, but Cristina made it clear that she didn’t think of her any less, but when you become a parent the job doesn’t come first and she wasn’t focused, balance can happen but when the job is just as important as the family, the balance breaks, Cristina knew that, and tried to make Mer understand in a way that won’t hurt her, yet Meredith took it really personal, I get why she’s mad, but she never thought that Cristina could be right
No Mer was right she needed a support from her friend yet she threw her under the bus, even here she is saying have been supporting you never judged you, but now it's time for her to support only for her to say that you have kids you can't be as good surgeon as I am, she could have find a way to tell her, all Mer needed was support like the one she has been giving her without judging her, in case you realise all the episode Cristina needed Mer more than Mer needed her.
The reason why they have the same outifts is because they change clothes whenever they are in their work. And Wear the same clothes they wore, when they came to work, back to their homes. It's a common practice of every doctors or nurses. It's practicality, besides the clothes they wore when they came to work is still clean. Some doesn't practice this, especially when they have events or errands after their shifts. But overall, they always do this.
Cristina was still right here. She tried to show an interest in Mer the whole episode and she got defensive about it. She’s just desperate to prove she’s as good as Cristina. And no, Cristina didn’t push her out of surgery because she had a baby, she did it because Meredith was distracted and late and she didn’t research the case. Merediths just upset because she knows Cristina was right in the last episode.
I case you dint notice there friendship is all about Cristina, what Mer wanted was just a support you can even hear her saying it, But instead cristina just finf a way of judging her,
@@maia9056 No she never made it personal, friendship is about caring for one another and pushing one another but calling Mer incompetent was way out of line.
@@maureenavilia208 Mer was not ready for that surgery. Not because she had a baby. But because she hadn’t read the article. Bailey did. It’s just like season 5 when cristina chose Alex to do the solo surgery because Alex was the ONLY one who actually knew the procedure from opening to close and Mer got mad at cristina then too. I love Mer but even she admitted that she was angry and jealous of cristina. She admitted all of it at aprils wedding.
See you can have both🤷♀️withaut husband, best friend. That's just destrecations when you balance between Husband, Friend, Children, Carrer it's easy boyfriend sex and concetreate on a job but at the and of the day or life you are all alone. Seems crappy I loved Christina but she got to ambiusus that's OK but still you can have friend's withaut insulting them they know they don't work same as you but that's their choice to have a children and very successful carrer like Meredith. Sorry Mer had right in here she just said to her I need you I always was there for you even when Cristina didn't "want" she was there. That's the point.
Say that again and what I got mad at her is that she called Mer incompetence three her dead mother in the face I can say Mer is a great Dr S4 she did research and it turn out successfully, while Cristina was chasing surgery, Mer has been supporting Yang endlessly I remember she asked Ellis before she died if one can have both and yang said you tried it didn't work and Ellis told her I never tried harder but you do, she became cut through ended up Making Mer loose her research .
Why is no one talking about “the automatic paper towel thingy won’t recognize me as human so I’m just standing there waving my arms like an idiot”
That happens to me all the time
“I’m sorry what?”
@@SumthinFishy the automatic paper towel thing I have to like wave my hand at for like 2 minutes sometimes to get it to register
@@arrowversehandon2692 they were quoting mer
Nobody else is crying about the fact that Derek said he doesn't want to be around for when Zola is dating?😭😭😭😭😭
He seemed to speak his death into existence.
I cried too
@@faithwatkins7811 well the only reason he died is because of the writer shonda rhimes. Maybe she was low-key hinting at it here.
Faisal Salam actually the actor who played Derek wanted to leave the show. So Shonda killed him off... but I was thinking maybe in an upcoming season they could do an episode like if/then but like what if Derek hadn’t died and he had gotten the surgery and Meredith got to tell Derek she was pregnant again and he met his daughter.
*shakes fist* SHONDAAAAAAA!!!
Meredith was correct. Cristina CHOSE not to have children and Meredith was just learning to balance and yes, Cristina had decent points last episode but her delivery was coming from a place of anger that not everybody is 100% medicine.
Regardless of Christina coming anger, which she didn’t. She made great points that Meredith did not want to accept. If Meredith can look at it objectively and not personally, Christina is right. There’s nothing wrong with being a mother and wanting to have a good career. But remember sometimes people, like Meredith, lose track and you need someone to tell you you lost it.
@@azngettoone yeah Christina is objectively right but the way she came across basically said “ you’re a mom. Your career stops here.” It fricken hurts to have that said to you. I’m all about harsh truths but Meredith is learning how to balance it all and Christina while right came across as unsupportive and uncaring of Meredith’s life.
These are choices. They say you can't have best of both world. People who choose to be Meredith sometimes lose themselves and their passion while trying to balance. They think if they hadn't chosen this they might have been thriving.While people like Christina often see people like Meredith and get jealous of their wholesome life and family.
But it would be incorrect to say that children means downfall of your career and also that one is incomplete without children/partner.
But yeah you can't have best of both world.
These are choices. They say you can't have best of both world. People who choose to be Meredith sometimes lose themselves and their passion while trying to balance. They think if they hadn't chosen this they might have been thriving.While people like Christina often see people like Meredith and get jealous of their wholesome life and family.
But it would be incorrect to say that children means downfall of your career and also that one is incomplete without children/partner.
But yeah you can't have best of both world.
Derek saying he doesn’t want to be around for when Zola’s dating... HE WON’T BE 😭
😭😭😭😭😭
“You don’t have time for people who want things you don’t” simple way to say Selfish!
I hate how the writters made Meredith and Cristina fight...😢😢😢
Enzo Martinez besties fight too
sweet spicy Yeah but mer and cris became really cold like not the besties fight type but idk how to explain it but it’s weird
Stéphanie Nguyen it happens with time , Too many things changed for Meredith not the same for Christian. Ofcourse we know things change but adjustment still takes time .
A phase of adjustment due to change is natural 🙂 .
@@stephaniee it’s cause they’re more like sisters than friends at this point imo. They either get together super well and are there for each other or tear each other down really coldly
Look at Callie’s face when he said he and Zola were going to a dance class 0:18
gabby buckley
I love Callie’s facial expressions. Also I love how she says to Zola “this way babes”
Ahah
Agent Peggy Carter I was about to say that
I’ve watched this scene several times and just realized they basically have the same outfit on 😭
It's because they change clothes whenever they are in their work. And Wear the same clothes they wore, when they came to work, back to their homes. It's a common practice of every doctors or nurses.b
@@ebed5956 She meant Meredith and Derek are wearing the same outfit as each other almost.
Love how they dress the same
Tanya Murphy me too
Meredith: “Is that ours?” With a whole cabinet full of the same mugs 🤣🤣🤣 I’m dying right now
“Maybe along the way I’ll give you another year like when Zola will be dating, I don’t want to be around for that” Well, YOU WON’T 😭😭😭😭
that made me cry like a baby
@@srtweeds1592 😭😭😭
what i dont understand is that basically everyone in the hospital used that red mug, it got lost, filled with coffee, lost again, broken, washed, then brought back looking perfect like it hadnt been glued back together. a bit confusing if u ask me lol
It wasn’t the original mug.
I just realized he said “when Zola is dating, because I won’t be around for that.” He told us he was leaving.
3:17 you’re never going to be there for it💔💔
nooooooooo
3:37 bet he wishes he hadn’t said that
Meredith has a point......
No she doesn’t, she didn’t push her aside because she had a baby. It’s because she was distracted.
@@maia9056 I agree.
She didn't have a point she was bitter that yang did what was best for patient over their friendship
@@Rjs81187 imo Cristina was potentially right to cut her off of the surgery but what she said later was completely not okay imo. She acted that just bc mer had kids her career pretty much ended there and she would never be able to be as good
Of cours she has a point!
Why is no one talking about him putting the red mug back into the cupboard the wrong way round?! 💔😭😂
I absolutely don't agree with Christina's delivery because she decided not to have children and while she is an absolute machine in the OR there have also been things that have affected her greatly and Meredith has always been there for her. I can understand if Meredith had a baby six months, a year ago but she literally just had a baby and was just trying to find a good work/home balance which many new parents have to do. I do think in that particular episode Meredith did have a lot going on and so it probably was best for Bailey to scrub in but Christina could have delivered it in a much different way. LOL we are all talking about this like it is real life but you know what Grey's is real life to me haha
Omg thank you sooo much for this channel! I love them and i am watching all your videos right now! Thanks very much!
Looking back this makes me so sad cause he said he didn’t want to around when Zola was dating and now he won’t
Well good news I get you're not going to be around for that
😭😭
That is not ok. GO AND SIT IN THE CORNER AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU DID!😭😭😭😭
meredith has a point
who puts matching mugs back and leaves one rotated in the opposite direction?!?
Their friendship is all about cristina
That’s the #husbandgoals!!!
All of you say Meredith has a point, I’d say maybe, but Cristina made it clear that she didn’t think of her any less, but when you become a parent the job doesn’t come first and she wasn’t focused, balance can happen but when the job is just as important as the family, the balance breaks, Cristina knew that, and tried to make Mer understand in a way that won’t hurt her, yet Meredith took it really personal, I get why she’s mad, but she never thought that Cristina could be right
No Mer was right she needed a support from her friend yet she threw her under the bus, even here she is saying have been supporting you never judged you, but now it's time for her to support only for her to say that you have kids you can't be as good surgeon as I am, she could have find a way to tell her, all Mer needed was support like the one she has been giving her without judging her, in case you realise all the episode Cristina needed Mer more than Mer needed her.
He did resent her for taking the time to flesh out her career. . .
The red cup
She didn’t push Mer aside. That was a tricky surgery and Meredith wasn’t prepared. I hate how they made cristina the villain
😭😭😭😭😭 DEREK!!!
The reason why they have the same outifts is because they change clothes whenever they are in their work. And Wear the same clothes they wore, when they came to work, back to their homes. It's a common practice of every doctors or nurses. It's practicality, besides the clothes they wore when they came to work is still clean. Some doesn't practice this, especially when they have events or errands after their shifts. But overall, they always do this.
They are meaning Meredith and Derek have almost the exact same shirt as each other on.
Cristina was still right here. She tried to show an interest in Mer the whole episode and she got defensive about it. She’s just desperate to prove she’s as good as Cristina. And no, Cristina didn’t push her out of surgery because she had a baby, she did it because Meredith was distracted and late and she didn’t research the case. Merediths just upset because she knows Cristina was right in the last episode.
I case you dint notice there friendship is all about Cristina, what Mer wanted was just a support you can even hear her saying it, But instead cristina just finf a way of judging her,
@@maureenavilia208 Meredith made it personal. Cristina was right.
@@maia9056 No she never made it personal, friendship is about caring for one another and pushing one another but calling Mer incompetent was way out of line.
@@maureenavilia208 Mer was not ready for that surgery. Not because she had a baby. But because she hadn’t read the article. Bailey did. It’s just like season 5 when cristina chose Alex to do the solo surgery because Alex was the ONLY one who actually knew the procedure from opening to close and Mer got mad at cristina then too. I love Mer but even she admitted that she was angry and jealous of cristina. She admitted all of it at aprils wedding.
Thank you
See you can have both🤷♀️withaut husband, best friend. That's just destrecations when you balance between Husband, Friend, Children, Carrer it's easy boyfriend sex and concetreate on a job but at the and of the day or life you are all alone. Seems crappy I loved Christina but she got to ambiusus that's OK but still you can have friend's withaut insulting them they know they don't work same as you but that's their choice to have a children and very successful carrer like Meredith. Sorry Mer had right in here she just said to her I need you I always was there for you even when Cristina didn't "want" she was there. That's the point.
Say that again and what I got mad at her is that she called Mer incompetence three her dead mother in the face I can say Mer is a great Dr S4 she did research and it turn out successfully, while Cristina was chasing surgery, Mer has been supporting Yang endlessly I remember she asked Ellis before she died if one can have both and yang said you tried it didn't work and Ellis told her I never tried harder but you do, she became cut through ended up Making Mer loose her research .
😭😭😭
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