The Different Types of Listeners.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 พ.ค. 2022
- My impressions of the different ways that people listen. Listening is a hard skill to master, but so important. Some of the most likeable people are the ones who genuinely listen to you.
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His face when he says, “No…oh Jerry…not the CINNAMON ROLLS.” is priceless 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Nooooooooo! Not the cinnamon rolls!
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Never forget the one-upper. Whatever you might have to say, he had it worse or better or longer or quicker or whichever comparative story he uses to essentially devalue your own and make it about himself.
That’s just another facet of the me monster. “Hurry up and finish talking so I can impress everyone with how much better I am then you!” Brian Reagan has a bit about this. He says to never tell a two wisdom tooth story because the 4 wisdom tooth story people will swoop in and blow your two wisdom tooth story out of the water! 😂
The one-upper, also known as the person who holidays in Elevenerife. 😂
Sadly Im guilty of this. Ive had lots happen and I often dont realize I do it. I usually just try to keep the conversation going but it doesnt work well. I hope someone calls me out next time or any tome I do it. God its cringey thinking about it. 😖
@@shadowzeraora7459 yeah it’s hard to know when you’ve crossed that line. My wife tells me I just need to ask more questions and be genuinely interested in what someone else is interested in. She’s a lot better at that then I am.
I don't know why I laughed so much 🤣🤣
I'm the awkward eyes lol. It's always been very difficult for me to maintain eye contact. I try my best but some days I struggle more than others and it's very noticeable sometimes and it's awkward 😭
I thought, I was the only one
Ugh same eye contact anxiety is fr-
I thunk it started when I became the literal anybody with half a brain. Oops.
Eye contact it's just too awkward to me 😭
It's a sign of an introvert just like me
As someone who has a problem with eye contact, the “Awkward Eyes” one is very relatable and often makes me uncomfortable when I look them directly in their eye holes :>
Yeah I'm the same way. But if it's someone I know very very well, like my sister, I have no problem with eye contact. But around anybody else I get really nervous and don't know where to look lol
@@wolfwhisper40 I just look directly below their eyes haha.
lol “eye holes”
@@erikaxu4879 oop lmao that probbaly looks a bit odd 🤭😶🌫️
You can rest your gaze anywhere between their mouth and their eyebrows.
There is me, an introvert, smiling through the pain, not knowing how to respond, and ending up making the most embarassing response.
Same
I’m an introvert as well but I’ve learned how to get through all that kind of shot without making it awkward. Sorta necessary when working with others, and just because you’re an introvert, doesn’t mean you have to be socially awkward. Social skills is still a skill and I do feel like introverts use this as an excuse to not to practice.
I'm an introvert but if I'm interested on the topic, I can talk longer than I usually can.
@@Laura-Yu Maybe some introverts just don't wanna 'practice'? xD I can do without social interactions just fine
He forgot to add that one. The introvert hoping the person keeps going and going so they don’t have to come up with anything to say.
I am definitely awkward eyes. For those who have aspergers, or what is now simply in the spectrum of autism, I would like to encourage you from my experience that with enough effort, patience, and consistency that the social challenges we face can and will become easier as we get older but you have to work at it.
As another teenager with aspergers, it's nice to hear that I won't always be this socially awkward
@@leonellis4606 A good tip I've had to face myself in this situation is to pick a spot near their eyes so you're not looking at them directly, but still look like you're looking at them. Really helps with people you don't know but you're forced to interact with :) I've been able to look at people directly now if I know them
not everyone who has awkward eyes has autism or something bruh
Ah okie! I rarely talk to people face to face so uhm... idk lol. I've kinda just accepted that I'm stuck like this for the rest of my life.
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Helpful to anyone who wants to be "likable":
I read an article which said that to become instantly likeable to strangers, one of the critical elements in conversations is to always direct the convo back at the person you're talking to. Allow them to talk. We humans naturally like to talk about ourselves, so when you allow others to talk more about themselves (instead of talking about yourself), they will automatically like you. They'll be like, "That person is soo cool!!", and they often don't realise why.
But *you* know... 😉🙃
Anytime I try that, it ends up being more of an interview than a casual conversation. 😂
But I have met people that tend to redirect the subject about me, and I always LOVE talking to those people.
I always laugh at this advice. I know it’s true but then you end up with a gaggle of new friends who really REALLY “like you” but only because you let them talk about themselves incessantly. I don’t want friends who talk about themselves incessantly. So naturally it’s not really YOU they like. WE should be able to talk, together. But that’s….rude? Somehow? I can’t stand when people redirect to me or interview-style me. It feels invasive and personal on a level I haven’t granted them yet. We’re not that intimate until we’re that intimate Don’t you have anything to share about yourself?
I have always been a good listener, and the primary way of showing you're a good listener is to ask relevant questions about what they're talking about. It demonstrates that you're listening attentively and getting what they're saying, and just wanting some clarification. Also when they get to the end of a subject you can proceed to ask them a question about another somewhat related topic to help them continue on talking. People love to talk about themselves to an attentive audience!
@@madnessintomagic lol i think it's just both ways. i like to talk as much as the person i'm talking to, but i don't know what to talk about, especially when i meet someone new, so i ask them about themselves and they answer, and then i say smth relevent to the topic, then listen to them, and then talk myself, and so on.
you control the balance of the conversation, where you talk, but also listen to what the other has to say. nobody likes the person who incessantly talks about themselves and doesn't let others talk, and neither do they like the person who just quietly listens and doesn't contribute to the convo and keeps saying, "No, no, you talk; I'm listening."
if somebody talks too much and doesn't let you talk, i'd say find an opening and interject and say what you wanted to say.
I feel like this could be a 10 part series - The one who gives ridiculous free advice, the one who randomly brings in a third person and catches them up on the confidential conversation, the one who finds way to put you down from what you said ..waiting for the next parts!
And the one who compliments you and then complains about you in the same sentence!
The one who
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Yesss
Yes there are many types of listeners... but someone who is a good listener gives people ease / comfort... But I don't thing there are so many good listeners these days relatively speaking! Instead more people are interested to talk / promote themselves! By the way, the videos on the playlist on my channel might interest some people!
I thought he would do the good listener.
Or something like peter jordan
When the world needed him most, Daniel delivers another stellar video. Love the content and all the laughs you’ve given us over the years!
Thank you!
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I'm a combo of 3 of these (Depending on who I'm talking to):
1. The "Exit Seeker"
2. The "Awkward Eyes"
3. The "I'm pretending to be interested in you"
Most of the conversation's I'm in result to the 3rd one, with an awkward smile added onto it.
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Why do I keep getting weird comments? I've already got rid of this comment twice just because of them. The first time was someone plugging in a random YT video, and the other was a sex spammer, now my replies are nothing but "Sizame"... makes *zero* sense.
@@djwitheredbonnie4560 Oh man you broke the chain
And sizame means let's try (TH-cam translater)
You have never seen chain in replies ? 🤨
@@I_killed_that_beard_guy No, you both are literally the first two I've seen to do this, and I'm on YT 24/7
The "over affirmer" is actually pretty calm/silent compared to what you're expected to do when holding a conversation in Japanese 🤔.
Every 2-3 words: "yes, yes, right, oh, yes, wow, yes, right?, yes..."
The “I’m pretending to be interested in you” is actually related in my school scenarios because when a teacher is talking about something I already know and stuff, then I’d just fake it. Sometimes with classmates.
The over-affirmer made me think of my sweet grandma. She is the BEST to share news of any kind with! She helps you feel so special! 💗
He forgot one, the snoozer. Someone who keeps falling asleep while listening to a boring conversation.
Oh JERRY... not the cinnamon rolls 🥺
“No… oh jerry, not the cinnamon rolls” best line in the video 😂
definitely 😂
OH, MY GOSH, YES.
Don't forget the "I wasn't actually listening" guy. The man you just you tell your deepest secrets to and when you ask them a question, they're like "what?"
Isn't that great? They probably forget what you said immediately, and your secret is safe.
That is so true! This also made *me* (heh) realise how practicing to be a better listener is probably something that I (and others) would benefit from.
Seriously Daniel can never disappoint us 😀😂
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@@amogus7482 ha ha ha 😂😂😂
Sadly I was the "me monster" and didn't even realize how bad it was until God started showing me..😩.anywho ...love your videos their so hilarious 👍🏾👍🏾
Rip. Least you noticed in the end. Nothing worse that a person who don't self-aware
Introspection takes courage. 🙏❤️🌹
Same!
I am a "me-monster" I noticed so I'm trying to stop I just like to tell my stories or compare other stories with mine.
I'm often the exist seeker. Lol
if there was a list of the most relatable people ever, he’d be at the top of the list.
Oh Daniel you have made a video about one of my biggest peeves when I talk to other people. We need an extended version of this.
LOL. I'd definitely be on the over-affirmer side, if anywhere on the spectrum. Also, the little kid bit is EXACTLY what it feels like dealing with my youngest brother. And he's not THAT little anymore! 😄😅
Great skit, as usual! Very relatable. ^^👌
😂😂😂
Same
Same
Omg yesss!!! Hahaha!! I'm the over affirmer kind loool I genuinely thought I was looking at myself!!! I laughed so haard! Lol
I’m a “ Me Monster” and I hate that about myself and I’m trying to fix that.
I hope you have a great recovery!
No worries, a lot more of us struggle with it than admitted.
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You're not alone! Right there with you! (And working on it!)
“Me Monsters” - thank you for your honesty! :) I have a genuine question for ya’ll. When you’re having a conversation, are you wanting to talk more than listen because you genuinely enjoy telling stories? Or because it feels painful to not have a response ready after someone’s done talking? Or maybe because you want to feel seen/heard/accepted and want to make sure the listeners are perceiving you the way you want to be perceived? Or a combo? I’m just genuinely curious because I think the insight would help all of us be more understanding of one another. I’m the “over-affirmer” but can quickly become the “exit seeker” when I realize I’m in a conversation with a “Me-Monster”, cuz that co-dependent conversation will never end. Lol!! 😂 Buuuut, maybe if I understood what the “Me-Monster” is really wanting out of a conversation, I could give that and then find a way out. I always feel bad trying to leave a convo with a “Me-Monster” cuz no matter how long I let them talk, it seems they’re never quite satisfied, but also, I want to honor my boundaries and not stick around longer than is enjoyable for me.
This was so incredibly fun and entertaining, thank you Daniel! ☺️✨
The most helpful "how to make people like you" tip I ever got is to have the other person talk more than you do, and primarily about themselves. Don't know why it works, but it does!
Daniel needs to be in comedy movies lol. This dude is a comedy genius.
SERIOUSLY… he totally should he’s probably make a better film than 90% of them out there imo
Daniel is like a Jim Carrey impersonator, he would be very funny in comedy movies.
Have you noticed the high standards in his humour? He makes people laugh WITHOUT vulgar language, or sex. It's for ALL ages. Thank you for proving God's people can and do have a sense of humour. 😇🤣😂
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A second Jim Carrey 😅😁
Daniel is just brilliant! Deserves an oscar!
I read "Oscar" as "Coaster" lol
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He's much too current for an outdated award
I enjoy the way Daniel makes light of things with humour, it takes the awkwardness out of opening up and being ourselves with others. Love these videos 📹 💓
Your content will never get old. It is just to good. Keep up the good work man.👍👍😂😂
Never ceases to make me laugh! This dude is amazing! Lol!
I'm so glad! And thank you!
@@DanielLaBelle of course! Wishing you all the best, your videos really picks up my mood on bad days! True, relatable comedy!
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If we had to make a documentary about a human to represent us humans, Daniel would be the perfect dude
I'm the specific kind of a professional listener: a journalist. I ask a question, then listen very intently paying attention to everything you say and then follow up a question based on what you said or something you said. And you never hear anything about me unless I screw up. So. What happened to the cinnamon rolls, Daniel?
😃 I used to be an introvert but now i can manage to continue a conversation long enough.... But the problem is that since I'm still not good with small talk it turns into an interview 😂😝.... And sometimes i become me-monster and talk something rubbish😞
I guess practice is the only way i can make it.... 😃 But i would like to take an advice from you since you must be good at communicating
(See i can't dare to ask for something like this to people surrounding me 😅 it's awkward you know)
@@iamjust1normalgirlfromindi446 Don't worry, people love talking about themselves. I don't think they even realize it's kind of like an interview conversation😃. People love talking about *their* issues.
And then I compile that information in your file inside of my brain and can bring it up later to make you feel special, because I remember your whole life history, likes and dislikes, etc. better than you do.
It's kinda of funny.
🙁 why does this comment has only 9 likes....this cinnamon roll joke deserves more! 🌝
His eyes sparkled when said
“Oh Jerry! Not the cinnamon rolls!”🥺🥺🥺
I love how the type of conversation changes with each stereotype portrayal… like the “awkward eyes” one killed me, the fact that the guy was talking to him about parenting to suggest that he should look him in the eyes… 😂😂
Life lesson never drink water while watching Daniel videos
Can i still swim?
It’s seems you learned this the hard way
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Again, so truthfully funny! Every time I watch your videos it's like exploring the human being with new level😃
Thank you man.
You are a gift… been going through a very difficult time & I’m surprised someone can get a genuine laugh out of me.
this is so accurate it's painful
Can we all just appreciate that this guy knows how to make us laugh when we need it most.
but i didn't laugh so I guess i dont need him
I do try to turn conversations back to people and let them talk-especially with my good friends because I want to make them see my sincere interest in what they have to say-but I do have a habit of saying “well when it come to me”, just because I want to pitch in my own experiences too, I just hope I don’t sound like a me monster either 😖, so I’m working on it~ 👍🏼
He is always on point! Always makes my day!😊
The eye contact one killed me 🤣 why did it have to be so relatable!?
Bro someone sign Daniel up for a spot in a movie! Great actor!
That's so accurate, all of it 🤣
And the reason why I keep to myself because everyone tells me I'm a very good and genuine listener but no one actually ever truly listens to me. 😏
You definitely nailed all of them perfectly. Very hilarious to watch.
No doubt about Daniel.
He is like professional actor.
Love you bro and keep it up.👍💟👌😍
The amount of ideas this man comes up with is incredible.
As a people pleaser, I definitely fall into a combination of the "over affirmer," and "exit seeker."
I'm definitely the exit seeker, I hate long drawn out conversations about things I care nothing about. 🤣🤣🤣
The perfectly cut end to give you a since of how long it actually went on is just perfect
He’s probably 30 but he acts like a 8 year old and I love it.
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These guy excudes such a positive energy that they tends to lifts everyone spirits😍
**gasps**
Oh No, Jerry, not the cinnamon rolls!
😂😂😂
‘Not the cinnamon rolls’
Wise words from a wise man
We all just appreciate the content this man and his crew makes its just a masterpiece imagine what's he's gonna doing the future 💛
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That's so true though- this guy's hilarious! Amazing video as always!
You never disappoint! So real!
He nailed the "little kid" soo perfectly
lol
Part 2:
-The one that's actually interested in you
-The one that's completely ignoring you
-The therapist bud
-The overreacting pal
-The 'I don't know what to say'
-The 'yeah ofc yes indeed'
-The anxious dude
-The 'I have to go to the WC, wait a sec' but never comes back
-The 'Mr. Know-it-all' who won't let ya say a fucking word
-That one dude who has little kiddos and talks to adults like if they were kids
-That one parent that acts like if their kid was their best friend
-The cat/dog owner who treats u like if u were LITERALLY a cat/dog and caresses ur head
idk lol
-The one who is a parent of little kids, who talks to adults like kids
Oh oh and dont forget the one who knows everything and dont let you talk
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lol dog training is my hobby, and I only use positive reinforcement, no punishments. So in order for my praise to be valuable for the dog I should really mean it! I got so used to praising them with 'Goooooood boy', 'What a nice job' etc etc that I caught myself praising people in the same manner! Omg the funniest thing is that first they are surprised but then they tend to love it 😂😂 next time these people see me they almost wiggle ..ok just smile😅
I LOVED the listener! I laughed at this video. Thank you Soooo much!
What about the introverts?
- the one who genuinely listens and is glad they don’t have to talk
- the one who can’t keep eye contact and seems like is looking for an exit but actually is interested it, just seems like battery is running low again
- the one who desperately needs to go home bc battery is completely out
- the one who gets constantly lost in their own thoughts and completely forgets what the other was talking about (especially awkward when asked a question)
Never been disappointed
Keep up the good work man!
Though, his acting is actually SO accurate!
That last one is on point. They're looking for a one word answer before they make it about them.
“To be honest, you are boring me out of my mind, and I am scoping the room to find someone that can be an excuse for me to get out of this conversation”
😅😂Lol the many faces and personalities Daniel can portray is amazing he's brilliant !😃👍🏼🎊
That description was really heartwarming to read. Thank you for the continually enjoyable videos!
I’m the awkward eyes. It feels so wrong to keep my eyes focused on one place for too long, especially making eye contact with someone. But I always feel like I should be making eye contact, which results in my eyes going all over the place as I struggle to decide whether or not I should keep eye contact…
This guy should really be casted for a comedy movie role 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, it would be a masterpiece 🔥🔥👍🏿
There's a key one missing here...the "personal space invader." We've all known one.
Seinfeld called it the "close talker" lol
Daniel, you‘re absolutely amazing!
You’re getting it to the point - the Things just love it ❤️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
So true. Sadly, most people dont listen to hear, they listen to respond
Best is when the kid places the cup at the very edge of the table. I have seen my little nephew doing it, always. Daniel keen observation, you rule
already got me dying with laugher about the cinnamon rolls 🤣🤣
Daniel you are doing a great work(Making us laugh)
Keep up the good work!
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I found you two days ago... being dogs of all sorts... how I laughed...today... I laughed even more. I noticed how many times I used I and I am not surprised as " I am a me-monster."
Excellent tee shirt slogan.
I don’t get so roasted with that “Over affirmer” the way he puts his hand on his shoulder😭 that is so me
This guy is so funny bc of how accurate his vids r 😂 😂
@Carolyn he is good af
@Carolyn he is good af
Why do i relate so much to this
The over-affirmer had me on the floor laughing. Love the super-deep nod. ha!
Im def the one that tries to escape a conversation 😂😂😂 so introverted.
But what i hate is when i talk to someone and that person just busy with his/her phone! 😡
I am constantly seeking an exit, yesterday I used the "back sack and crack" excuse from Stanley Parable at a gas station when the receptionist wouldn't shut up and it actually worked!
U r legend bro
Love from india 🇮🇳🇮🇳
Love this!!!
0:55 is exactly what i imagine having a kid is like
Lets take a moment to appreciate the smile this Guy puts on our face 😊
35 likes?!? Ive NEVER gotten that much before. Can we get 60?
Bruh seriously? 60 LIKES!?? HOLY!! Can i get 100?
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“oh jerry, *not the cinnamon rolls* “
“i’m gonna wait until your done”
“tbh ur boring me out of my mind”
“ *heavy breathing* “
“oh well last year i went on 5 vacations”
🤪😂
This man can accurately display almost any situation
The teenager was the most respectful out of all of these.
This dude deserves an oscar at least we know he won’t slap anyone
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Bah oui, sa femme a des cheveux, elle !
@@Librelectron pas cool ta réponse
@@xy9580 c'est de l'humour, comme le commentaire du premier gars.
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Maharashtra bro
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The me monster is so relatable though, I met so many people who cannot wait to talk about themselves. They don't even listen to what I'm saying
you are to good at this!
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Gimme me a phone
@Î Àm ÇhrîsBB ×49 what 😂
This is one of my favs video.
i’m the awkward eyes, i literally can’t look at my teacher when she says good morning
Sa
5 vacations, one in South Africa 🇿🇦
Daniel I can assure you this is a beautiful country
And the most relatable person award goes to Daniel LaBelle
This man deserves atleast 15 million subscribers like the acting the expression*chefs kiss
I love how being genuinely invested isn’t even an option. 💀