3 Marriages ??? | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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3 Marriages | 1980's Intercaste Love Marriage & Struggles
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The best 24 mins of my life listening to this video ❤❤❤. Thank you Bhaiya and Bhabi for recording this, now this will stay with us forever.
Thts true..i will never forget this lovestory
It would be great to record a song of your parents in your studio at home.
Lovely love story 😍
👍👍
😭Sachi me yaar ... Aunty ji ne bola wo touch kr Gaya baat Bhut pyari h aunty ji aap😘😘😘😘🧿mata Rani blessed u💖
I was in a relation with someone from different caste and religion for more than 10 years. In the end he couldn’t tell his family about me and he had an arranged marriage with someone from his own caste. Not everyone have a heart to take major life decision. Your father is a brave man.
No dowry
Intercaste Inter-community
irrespective of looks
They fell for each other's hearts
This is what marriage is all about.
Have faith...we all will find our soulmate.
Very true line.... don't know why people complicate it
sab luck ki bat bahut log esa chahte hain but wesa life partner milta nahi .. ye sab pichle karm hain... wo depend karta hain upper wala apke bare mei kya decide karta hai par ye sab har kisi ke sath hota nahi its all about destiny
My mum is a Dogri Rajput from Jammu n dad is a Maithil Brahmin from Bihar... Both doctors,met in Medical College...Dated for 7-8 years n then after a lot of struggle n manana from my fathers side..my Brigadier Nanaji agreed... In 1974 they united their lives ,souls n Its a beautiful journey since... I n my brother know 8 languages... My parents are amazing... n super grandparents now!! We enjoy the culture n cuisines from both sides...
So I love intercaste marriage stories... Thanks for this lovely story...
Wow 🙏🙏
Great...I am also a Bihari
I m also dogra from jammu
Its very difficult to do intercaste marriages in jammu especially bhramin girls
Great love story
It is Inter Community Marriage, not inter caste. Marriage between a Punjabi groom & Bengali bride. Your parents and their parents were wise, so the journey of marriage was smooth.
This story proves that supporting parents kisi bhi era me exist kr skte bas soch aisi honi chahiye k bacche khus rhe😃really lucky people.
KICHU IS LIKE WAIT FOR MY STORY😂😎❤️
Your father is a real hero, intercaste marriages are not easy today also, really I got emotional watching this video ....🙏
Yes he is very rational person
@@Mr.Singh69 bhai aj bi hmare area me gaion me ya to district me bi Intercaste mrge nehi hota...bahot muskil hai..heartsoff to this gem
🧐
Assam me kuch nahi hota😀
How lover get married they don't see their partner belongs to which cast??
Arjuna ,your father is so so practical, His thoughts are so positive he is a pure gentleman
Lucky you "Arjuna"
Yes. That is adorable to know for over intelligent caste based minded people,but it will be easy for loving mind people.
Why I said over intelligent just go below to understand this
jaati ka Matlab to ye but ki uchhi jaati ka aadmi kitna bhi bura Kare wo hamesha. Ucha hi rahega aur neechi jaati kaaadmi agar bhagwan bhi ban Jaye phir bhi wo apradhi hi kahlaye!Nature is god, this is written in every book, sun is the only lord, because every planet worship him, but some people always prayed humans!
Our hindu religion is Great because i. It we pray true Lord Sun only!
Arjuna sir's speaking style is similar to his father😁
Their story is so raw and pure. ❤
Punjabi+ Bengali combination is really remarkable... Arijit singh and arjuna bhaiya is one of them.🔥💙😂
Arijit and Arjuna.... One of them???
Bro two of them.... 😂😂
These days this is very common
I am combination of punjabi +punjabi 🤣🤣
@@akshatseth7289 me too 😂😂😂
@@harbinderkaur920 i not fully punjabi like my mom is mona punjabi and my father is khatri 🥰
I have toxic parents and they fight so much and never understand each other that always make me think that marriage is very toxic where two people just fight but after listening this story and Arjuna Divya story I feel it's most beautiful thing ...I started believing in soulmate ...your story are just ",MIRACLE" and god bless your family for such pure thoughts 🥺❤️
Same here man🙂 I'm so so glad i got arjuna sir's channel❤️
@@vaishnavii6299 yeah , at least we have different perspective after watching them😊
Same here
I am sure these two couples also fight behind the camera.. so, all marriages will have fond memories and silly fights but they always stay together, thats the beauty of our hindu marriage system...
Same here 😑
AApke mummy papa ki story aapse similar hi hai. Bs thori unpdated hai. Ab to kichu ki same story aayegi. God bless you kichu😘😘😘
Kuch pakhandi log kahte hai aap pichle Janam me kisi aur jaati me paida huyi thi, aapko swarn kul me Janam apke shresth karamo ke Karan Mila hai , Kya apko yaad hai ki pichle Janam me aap kaha paida Hui thi?
@@gaurav2254 what rubbish r u ok. Mai in chigo ko nhi manti
@@gaurav2254 ye true hai karmo ka fal milta hai ye sab jooth nahe hai jaati Kya manusya janm bhe acche karmo se he milta hai acche ko accha fal bure ko bura fal karma se he hai dusri baat duniya ki mat suno khud practical karo ok practical se he answer khud ko milte hai tum jaise log sirf bolte ho kisi ko bura khud me himmat nahe hai khud ke dam mehnat pe janne kee himmat khud me lao karo aur dekho sacchai kya hai if himmat nahe hai to parkhne ki kosish bhe bekar hai kuch nahe milega sirf aur sirf burai aur har cheej me asmanjas he rahega samjhe
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Ab pta chla arjuna ne true love krna Apne parents se sikha h❤️
@CARNAGE !!! yess
@CARNAGE !!! muslim boys can but muslims girls can't
@CARNAGE !!! You have to spread poison everywhere?
@CARNAGE !!! Speak what improves on silence. Otherwise one should keep quiet.
@CARNAGE !!! Your reply was expected. You are nurturing a lot of negativity. Let go of it
The moment Arjuna's father had tears in his eyes when his wife was telling the krishna incident, oh my god, it hit me so hardd man. I hope i get someone like him in my life❤
Same to same, my tears rolled down. This touched me intensely.
I was also noticing the same! 18:50
Aunty ko ab dekh k aisa bilkul nahi lagta ki Aunty itni bold rahi hongi. Wonderful love story!! Thats y they say Never judge a book by its cover. She is strong women pillar of strength for the family.
Uncle ji get tears everytime. How beautiful his heart is .Rooh paak tau aankh zaroor chalakti hai. So nice to know such a loving couple.
The line that marriage is conversion of two souls into one took my heart.
No ghodi Rasam and all. 😍 Having this type of thinking at that time is actually applaudable. Truly a big fan of you all😀😀
Exactly. These cultural customs maybe over time have taken on different meanings but I love the phere vows. Doesn't matter what era when you hear those 7 vows you understand that yes this is about two people becoming equal partners and growing together. Culture will change but nothing changes spirituality
Itna true love to purane time me hi hota tha. Ajkal to true love milta hi nahi. Mujhe Saif-Deepika ki Love Aj Kal movie yaad aa gai. ❤️🙏
"Marriages are made in heaven"❤️
Ur father is so sensitive caring and progressive person
I can imagine and feel the intensity of their true love for eachother. Whn uncle was crying I was also crying 😭 .....
When did he cried btw?
@@akashgusain114 At 19:10
I too feel so emotional with innocents love
M nd my bf are also from different caste plzzz pray that we get married👫💏💍👏🎉💒🍸 😕.
Same.. But it doesn't matter to my family... Also my family doesn't know that I've a bf.. 😛🤫
Keep praying for the future with him 💜🌸❤️
❤️ From Bangladesh 🇧🇩
@@chaitydhar but it does matter to my family.. They are totally against of it.
M very worried about my future🔮.😔
@@sssquare-gd2zk Don't worry... & keep praying 🙏 🌸 💜
You should tell them that, "May the caste are different but the religion is same... Isn't enough?"
@@chaitydhar yeah! Plzzz pray for us.
We both love each other truly💕
God bless u... U will definitely win . But never loose hope.. How much time it takes 😁😁
watched this today, after almost a year and now i understand why Arjuna and Divya have such an amazing love story.
19:08-19:15 uncle got emotional....😞😞 That's called true love pure ND Devine. Hats off to this lovely couple lots of respect 🙏 uncle ND aunty
I really got tears in my eyes...It was emotional 😒😒
I too want to marry with true love like uncle,he truly said that marriage is basically 1 soul having 2 bodies and no show off. i too believe in this and hope I will get the same
After listening to the Dad, Divya - if you ever need advice or struggling with some issues/problems, you have a great father in law to consult/seek his advice/suggestions. Dad is very clear in his thoughts and likely in his actions too, and Mom seems very strong. They are blessed to have each other! Wish them all the happiness and good health!
I noticed a similarity in your own story as you and Divya met again after some 10 yrs gap and seems like your parents too met again after some 10 yrs gap. In both the cases, it was the guy who sought/located the girl again. Very interesting, as they say history repeats itself!
Yup ❤
Ranga's Marriage:Ratna singing and Ranga standing at the gate ,enjoying the song without disturbing.
Kind of similar story... As Arjuna said history repeats itself ❤️😂
Divya is bangali?
@@sugaarmyradhika1792 no she's Punjabi
Kechu ka name kya hai
@@NewsRepoter avyukta.
Such pyara pariwar this Harjai family is.
Touchwood
और उसी दौरान भगवान एक और कहानी लिख रहे थे अर्जुना और दिव्या जी की 🤣🤣😆😆
I want more such parents and couples and human being to exist for real 😭❤️❤️
Amen 🙏
Yes
The way uncle talk about equality in relationship 😭😭❤️❤️❤️uncle aunty is so genuine and down to earth ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻god bless them
Everyone was speaking about uncle aunty’s love but one like for their parents who didn’t argue much or didn’t argue at all ❤️
I really liked the gentleman. And his wife of course. But the gentleman is extremely articulate and clear in his thought process. God bless this couple.
Yes you said it correctly ❤️
I really appreciate the bond Uncle and Aunty share and the kind of unflinching support they have for each other.. Really like Uncle's expression of conviction and commitment towards Aunty. It is definitely something to be replicated .. Lots of love and respect 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Why am I crying .... This man is such a good human .... ❤️❤️❤️
i am literary crying while hearing to your father , such a great soul with high values, hard to find these days.
God bless
Two of my favourite videos on this channel
1) this video
2) arjun and divya lovestory
This reminds me of the Story of my Parents. They were in Primary School aged 5 and 6 respectively in Malaysia. 14 -15 Years after they had a love marriage in Nepal. After some Years of marriage they saw old Photos and recognised each other. Destiny only knows it seems
I can't tell you Your parents love story inspired me so much .
Really Marriages are made in heaven .
I am Bengali girl and I can feel your mother's emotions .
Still mostly Bengali parents are against Love Marriage ......
But your maternal grandparents were liberal .
Still your mother smiles like newlywed bride .
Very wrong.. i got married to a marathi guy just 6days back nd we got no problem at all
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly
@Shreya Chakraborty exactly.. Bengalis are the most progressive when it comes to situation like these.. intercaste marriage is not even a thing anymore..
Are you serious man... Bengalis are the most progressive community in the country... I never saw any bengali going against love marriage of their child..🙄
@@sushmamondal9765 obviously .I am also intetcast relationship but in today's days also my parents is totally disagree with this.even they mentally torchered me due to this
Ye love story to bilkul same h like arjuna divya.. 10-12 saal tak nhi mile😁
Ohh..arjuna bhaia had inherited singing skills from both mom n dad
Nice topic and interview.Just a suggestion ,never add music when in an interview.Also since you are closer to the mike when you speak,it too sharp
Most heart touching story of love marriage, that too at that time of era when this was not common................ Inspired by Uncle and Aunty
This was magical..just loved how genuine and honest they were...most beautiful thing I saw online today
Apki mom bengali hai
Omg muje shock laga
Yr family is the best yrr including u both ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...
Mere family me 1938 se bhi inter caste love marriages chalte a raha hai mere ghar mein, abhi Tak Puri duniya ke damad bahu ghar mein a chuke hai.. unke generation vaise bhi Korean German logon ke sath shaadi kar chuke hain
I am watching this video after watching arjuna 's love story
P.S- my birthday is also on 19th august 😊
Mee too
Mine also.. 19 aug
My grandson is on 19th August and I'm 15th August.
Mine alsooo😊😊
When is aunty’s birthday? Does anyone know?
Music ne bana di jodi❤🤩🥺!!
Such strong personalities...I'm already touched by their values and the way they think! Huge respect!
Especially your dad, he has a solid jigraa....it makes me grounded again...and think about what life really is about!
We get so caught up with satisfying expectations of the world, that we let it change ourselves to match standards of other people. This was such a reality check...touched deep corners of my heart! What courage, what conviction! You parents were so crystal clear and knew exactly what they wanted in life...and stuck with it! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
बहुत अच्छी स्टोरी👌👌 अच्छे विचार व विश्वास की जीत👍👌👌
Its really unbelievable that what I'm seeing is true & happened in that time .... their love marriage looks so ideal & look at them .....so dignified & maintained the love & respect even after so many years.....that's so evident by seeing tears in uncle's eyes & the memories aunty tells. Wish all the marriages r like theirs ....Happy, respectful & full of love 😇
This is the most heart touching stories of love marriages I have heard. It shows that it's just the commitment towards your which matters as uncle rightly said there were not attracted towards each other because of physical appearance instead they were attracted to their qualities or passion which they had in their times.
Love you Uncle and Aunty
Awwww...uncle is so cute!!! he loves his wife so much and when he said about the rituals he did not believe in shows he was way ahead of time...There were tears in my eyes when he started sobbing at 19:04... so much love... this story really touched me... New to your channel... Aunty is so lucky find a man like him...
Mano to mai ganga maa hu..
Na mano...to baihta pani...😊😊
Beautiful love story...😍😍
Blessings are the only thing I can give , am speechless , god bless uncle aunty ji, they are pure soul, I strongly feel it. There was a constant smile on my face , also had tears on hearing that marriages are made in heaven , really felt the positivity.
Us time ka Pyaar Kitna real hota tha. Na din m 100 bar I l u bolna Pdta tha N last seen k lfde.. Koi fakeness nhi.ab to life Jitni asan hui sache riste Banana utne hi muskil hogye h.
Ryt
Tumhe kisne dhoka de diya hai jo tecnology ko kos rahe ho😂😂 just chill man
😁😁😆😆
Right D
Uncle ji very emotional person and down to earth
मैं अंकल के व्यूज से काफी परभावित हुआ हूं। आप वाकई एक बड़े सुलझे हुए इंसान हैं। इस वीडियो ने आपका चरित्र बता दिया। आपके अंदर मुझे सबसे बड़ी बात जो लगी इस वीडियो के ज़रिए वो है। आपकी सादगी, आपके सरल विचार और आपके अंदर सचाई। मुझे लगता है। वाकई आपके दौर के लोगों मैं ये ज़रूर मिलता था। जो की आज नहीं है। मुझे हमेशा ऐसे लोगों मैं बैठना ही पसंद हैं। जहां से आपको कुछ हासिल हो अच्छा। मैंने ये इतना लंबा लेख आपकी कद्र मैं लिखा है। और एक बात कभी आपने मौका दिया मिलने का तो मैं ज़रूर मिलना चाहूंगा आपसे आप बड़े हैं। Salute Sir 🙏
So sweet :)) Uncle is too sweet!! I wish them good health and happiness. What really struck me was, when uncle told things happen according to how you perceive them! This is so true!!
In this materialistic world, It's so nice to see how two people just wanted to be together coz they loved each other!!
He is a great storyteller..♥️...was glued to it through a whole video ..
But the most outstanding thing for me was his thought process ..it's too beautiful..
Kitne pure and real family hai etne successful hoke bhi koi showoff nahi karte .... God bless u
Isn’t Arjuna and Divya’s story similar to their parents?
I literally had tears in my eyes your dad is so emotional
Arjuna sir u r really lucky to have a parents like them...ND uncle is so down to earth and his each ND every word is nothing like a life lesson means he is talking with facts ND he's so inspiring.... Divya mam how u blessed u r to have such a beautiful ND sweet in-laws...
Arjun sir looks a lot like his father❤️
Kitna sadgi wala pyar hain...isiko kehte hain man se jor jana....Kaku and kaima long and happy married life to you....
Best love story ever. We can't comment on one segment. Full story was commendable. Kichu is blessed to have such a loving grandparents. Live live. Love love.
Very Genuine, inspiring and thoughtful video..... Thank you for sharing too personal moments with all of us..... Blessings
I have become a huge fan of your father ...He has a pure soul
Your story is so similar to your father n mother's story 😃😃 they met when they were teen agers and after 10-12 years they met , this is so special 💖
Please please 🙏🙏 pray for me that I got married with my Girlfriend, we both love eachother so much 👰❤👨
GODBLESS you all 🙏 beautiful souls 💕
lots of love from ODISHADELHI 👰👨❤
Are u from Odisha?
God bless u that u can both get married
@@Nirmit-wu3pm my future wife (gf)
Os from odisha
Pray for us bhai
GODBLESS you🙏🙏
@@Nirmit-wu3pm tq bhai
GODBLESS you🙏🙏
@@nffrincekumar2053 I have prayed for u okk don't worry U both will get married happily
❤they were so progressive even at that time, and we still suffer a lot for our love at this time
@@Soni25242 u r talking about healthy family ...
But sometimes both the sides get impractical for children as well as parents !!
Yeah
@@Soni25242 no this is in a supportive family......mere masi ne intercaste shadi ki....or kisi ko koi dikkt nhii h na meko but mere papa ko bhut h vo meko bhut tane marte h ki tumhari masi ne kisi se v shadi kr li...me abhi sirf 15 ki hu or meko abhi se daarrr lgta h😭😭....unhe sirf samaj se mtlb h or kuch nhii samaj ke liye vo kuch v krnege apne Bache ki jindagi khrab kr denge
@@Soni25242 ghanta ... Sab kuch kiya apni gf ki family ko manane k liye , but wo nahi maan rhe the last me 19 feb ko maine hi call krke mana kr diya
Reason yhi tha unke papa yhi kahte the ki samaj kya kahega jo 4 log unko jante hai wo kya kahenge ... Un 4 logo k chakkar me meri life ki what lg gyi ... Ab in future agar mere ghr wale kabhi meri shadi karenge to apne bacche ko jarur ye sikhaunga beta sab kuch krna bs ye pyar k chakkr me mat padna .. kyuki jo time maine face kra hai mai nhi chahta mere bacche face kre
@@ALPHAX44RR ha yrr Sahi bole ap mere papa v yhi bolte h samaj kya khega yr kya samaj kon h yh.....Puri zindagi me kuch v ban jaungi but samaj ke chakkr me khbhi khush nhi rhungi...vo Meri zindagi khrab kr denge samaj ke karan abhi hi itna taane marte h....
Now I understood how u sing so well.. Ur parents are such good singers and composers.. And ur mom is a bengali.. M a bengali too. I know the first thing we inherit is 🎶 music..
Thank you for the heart Arjuna
I always found your mom very different and today after hearing this🙌🏻🙌🏻 She feels so different because she is that rare personality. You people are so lucky, not all people are so spiritually gifted like your parents🙏🏻.
This is sooo amazing.!😭
I was speechless when aunty told the 'Krishna' story, and uncle told about '3 marriages'!!
And their opinion about dowry in those times is really commendable!!
The way they believed in each other is just perfect 🥺
All love to this amazing couple 💓
Sir is so candid in his expression. Relaying incidents to us just the way they happened, including some not-so-flattering comments from family.
😊💖🧿
Pure souls…best love story ever… my heart is filled with so much love and emotions after listening them..❤️
Today I came through this video... am very late.... am in class 12 but I just got amazed by hearing (dadaji's) words... he is just an amazing person...
such a sweet n heartwarming story.. rarely do we find such beautiful, musical, pure love story.. no wonder you two are the most adorable
. coz its in your genes ❤️❤️❤️
Whole family is pure n intelligent
Such a beautiful and charming story of Uncle and Aunty .
Been a while , haven't heard anything so pure like this . So was the story of Arjuna sir and Divya ma'am. Touchwood ❤
Krishna ji ki baat sunke mujhe v rona aa gaya...aap log bahut achhe insan hai ....aise hi khush rahiye uncle aunty 🙏🙏
Gonna watch this, whenever I'll feel low🥺🥲....True love❤...Also waiting for Divyuna's story❤.... Jai Shree krishna ❤🥺🙏!!
I hve nver ever listened a love story like this so pure...so intense.....real love .....hattsoff to sir and mam ....the patience they hve...the commitment they have....and that line ....."meri search tum pr khtm hoti h ".....what more a women can expect from a man....its just magical.....lots of love to all of u
Arre inke story pe toh ek poori film ban sakti hai. And very glad to know that Arjuna is half bengali.
God bless people.
Love from Kolkata ❤️😘
Felt so good to hear their story of love ❤️... Specially your dad is such a gentle person and its heart touching when he cried couple of times being emotional... Sabke thinking aisi ho jaye to bas....love in air
hats off to uncle ji ki soch.. bohot kam hote hai aisi soch wale.. aur wahi unhone apne baccho ko di hai. God bless you all
I got so emotional listening to their story; thank you bhai for sharing your parents’ story! :)
LOVED IT❤️
This is the mindset we all should have.
Thank you for bringing this to us❤️
Kitne natural log ho aap log ...very nice and very rare
Kitni khub sundor love story hei.I loved it totally.Being a bengali I know the problems.But they made possible❤
Aare wah!!! Such a beautiful story and lovely mom&dad ❤️...Nazar na lage
Really yaar ...uncle was crying on 19.4...he is such cute and honest man
Okay now I genuinely believe in true love. Mujhe lagta tha aap dono hi soulmates ho but yaha toh uncle aunty bhi soulmates hai..this is so so so beautiful..❤ aunty is so sweet and Uncle is a very wise man.
Mai itni immotional hogai k mere aankho se aansu aagaye the.. sachme agar apna soulmate miljaaye to zindagi jannat ban jati hai.. aur use koi aur jannat ki talash nh rehti
This is one of a kind story!
Never heard this kind of love story.
Bhoot achcha laga bhai is video ko dekhkar....I m girl of non bengali but my husband is bengali.....I quite happy...
Uncle aunty ki love story sunkr mujhe mera future dikh rha hai already hmne bhi ek baar shadhi kr li mandir aab dekhte hai hmri 2 shadhi hoti ya uncle aunty ki trh 3 shadhi wo bhi me Bengali+ Marwadi 😂😂