黑咪's Talk Time | 傾傾計👉🏻妒忌 Let's Talk About Jealousy
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兩年後既今日睇返哩個vlog, 仍然咁有啟發性。
黑咪 ，你是一個有智慧有深度的人，我十分欣賞你，能跟你做朋友是一種福氣。要一直正能量開心生活下去。在順心或不順心時也別忘記現在的自己。祝福你
讚美，我真的很不習慣。剛好看著這個video的時候，公司有一部分的同事share了幾張照片在公司的whatsapp group裡，原來今天星期六有部分的同事回去公司替門口的兩面牆油新漆，把公司的大門弄得美美的。我當下心裡很佩服也很感謝，但是因為不習慣讚美別人，所以已讀不回，繼續看你的video。可是看著看著，覺得稱讚一下別人又不會死，而且人家星期六假日頂著大太陽幫公司油漆，自己身為公司的一分子卻躺在家裡沙發上舒服看youtube，連一聲感謝別人的話都吝嗇去說，自己都覺得不舒服。所以pause了video去group裡回覆了留言，雖然當下自己覺得很不習慣很突兀，可是做完這個動作後反而覺得鬆了一口氣，感覺頂在心裡的話說了出來變輕鬆了！踏出第一步真的很難，這真的要慢慢讓自己變成習慣。
+Xyliacht well done 😉
真的好感恩，可以在偶然的情況下，在這平台，認識到妳，令我在各方面都有得着。You're just like my mentor. 感謝妳花這麽多時間 making the valuable videos. You rock!!!
我係個24歲既女仔，黑咪你講既呢個topic我感受好深好深，過去十年我都會經常同閨蜜比較，好難受，但慶幸我呢一年終於醒覺，我見到自己付出咗好多注重mental health既努力，好似你所講會成日同自己傾計，慢慢接納咗自己，果然好多野都放開咗懷抱。黑咪，好開心你今日開呢個咁有深度既topic，I feel so much better!🤗🤗🤗
Hi Hakme, I cannot agree more with you in this video. I turned 25 this year and i'm so happy with what I have right now even though it might not be a lot. I think when you become grateful with what you have, you begin to dissolve the jealousy around you and you will start to desire to achieve more. The workplace can really affect your mentality as it occupies a majority of your daily hours it is so important to start positive and lend a helping hand to everyone even though this might not be the normal way to do things in Hong Kong lol. Thanks for your video, hope this video continues to inspire others!
除左你啲化妝片，其實我真係好鍾意你啲講野片。雖然無見過你真人，但睇左你好多片感覺好似同你係朋友
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好喜歡哩類話題，好想聽多啲...令自己有個反思👍🏻
多謝黑咪～
呢一刻我內心正正需要呢段片～
So true that we should focus inwards, know what we want, improve ourselves to be the best we can be. No sense always trying to be someone else. We are unique and exist for a purpose. It takes sometimes a lifetime to figure out what that is so we can fulfill our destiny and legacy. Your video was very helpful and relatable. Thanks so much for sharing 💗
thank u for sharing!!! can't wait to see more of this series:)
我都好中意讚美身邊既朋友 係外國仲會讚唔識既路人 拍拍佢膊頭話比佢知佢條裙好靚 佢開心時我又positive咗 何樂而不為呢😊
好多謝HakMe的分享!我相信你咁詳盡同有條理的分析,會幫到好多年輕人,改變一吓自己的心態.我其實好佩服你年紀輕輕,睇嘢同諗嘢就如此透徹.我自己一把年紀先領略到些,而且每日仲學緊!我贊成要多D稱讚吓別人,尤其是你関心嘅人.老公和子女,久而久之,會有驚喜和收獲...好鐘意你呢類心靈分享嘅topic,真係做得好好，好少youtuber會攞個心出嚟同人傾計，加油呀!
絶對認同。 我有兩個同事，初初大家都恭恭敬敬；日子久了，真性情出來了，不是挑剔別人，就是説別人不值某職位。久而久之，觀察久了，看穿他們就是同一類人，欠缺自信安全感，踩著別人抬高自己。 我自己會避開這些負面人，感覺清新又自在。 我喜歡抱著一種態度，人家落難不幸時，幫到就幫；人家得意時，便替別人高興。
Gingy Chan 講的好
其實我覺得肯用心, 知道勤力既重要性亦是一種智慧! 所以我都好中意睇你既片, 因為我覺得你係一位好有心好用心好生活化既TH-camR! 你講得好好, 既然浪費時間自怨自艾或嫉妒的話, 不如將時間用響POSITIVE既地方.... 因為太多人喜歡抱怨, 而唔行動改善自己! 一係就要接受自己或現狀, 一係就改變自己! 希望大家會活得有意義同將快樂既種子散播! TKS HAKME!!!!
無意中睇到呢個topic ,聽完覺得好有得著和共嗚。
之前都經歷這些妒忌的行為、又經常開口講晦氣說話攻擊別人的成果，慢慢日復一日成習慣。最後，有一天在餐廳遇見超級靚女，佢都係開口埋口都講妒忌酸味勁重既攻擊說話，突然覺得呢個靚女無論幾靚，都因為佢的妒忌、尖酸刻薄的說話，而破壞佢所有的美。那一刻叮一聲我醒了，原來妒忌的潛意識行為，係會令自己好醜陋之餘，更令身邊的人辛苦、唔舒服的。所以，慢慢學習訓練自己思考「正面」的事，多欣賞別人的「美」和讚美。而家思想正面點，重新學習待人接物，原來可以變得更美好。😍😁睇到你video 原來可以有多個方法做得更好，謝謝分享。❤️✨
can't agree more for what Hak Me has said. Do focus on what you acquired rather than what you don't have.
Thanks Hak Me !! Its a really good video.
We have to spend more time to develop ourselves, try to step out our comfort zone and value ourselves more!!
Treasure and enjoy our moment and practice of letting go. We all are unique shining star !!!!!
+Cherry Cheng yes love the shining star bit! Well said!!! 😘
OMG! You are so true to yourself and honest to people. I always love to share positive messages to all people around me. I love the way you are and agree with you that all people should be different, how far you can go depends on how hard you work. BTW it's my first time to comment on your video and I really support you keep do review and haul video, keep going and you must go farther, you can make it. XOXO
Agreed ! I think that depend on how mature u ar, I dont care someone jealous me and I never compare friends they looks good than me, I just do my best, live my style.
There's a lot of strength and positivity in your character. Thanks for the very good advice ! Love your videos ❤️
Many thanks for this talk - Jealousy. It really happens all the time in our journey. We usually compare what we've had with our friends, our colleagues, our family members and even strangers.
The truth is no one is PERFECT.... but most of the people are doing the comparison ALL THE TIME.
During watching the video, I started thinking of my life since I've just started a new journey in my career.
I do hope that I can see you in your shops in some days.
THANKYOU!!!
由細到大我都俾親戚朋友們同自己D妹去比較，咩都比一餐，(肥廋、多唔多男朋友、搵到幾多，靚唔靚)。細個好唔開心，日日喊「因為我咩都比D妹差」。但幸好有個經歷令我明白，努力比任何野都重要，只要努力愛自己，就會有動力改變自己，之後我將自己既妒忌作為目標，好開心自己做到一半了。Happy。你的見議好正，Thank you，看一切都美好是好重要。
Heylee Lee 個d人超級衰
好耐無呢類型TOPIC啦, 希望日後會有更多^^ 好喜歡睇
Hak Me，多謝你，呢個talk真係好好
Hi,I'm from Malaysia..You've covered this topic very well and explained it in such a relateable manner..good job and yes, self realisation and making peace with ourself is very important.. I know I am not alone now, feel so much better and will focus on being the best version of myself!Thank you
第一次睇黑咪d片, 真係每樣野都講入心 好似黑咪跳左出電腦坐系我面前講野咁樣haha (可能真係我太投入啦~) 多謝你啊 令我捻通左晤少野
黑咪講野有深度，係幾好睇😁
黑咪 好認同你既觀點
妒忌係人之常情
重要既係你要有意識自己係妒忌緊
然後從中再改變思想
其實我都努力緊 ：）多謝你既分享～
好鍾意你呢類型既片！好欣賞你！
好中意睇你既talk time! 之前睇完你講interview skills之後真係幫到我，好快就搵到工❤
幾年後睇番都好正, 謝謝黑咪
十分好的分享，我已bookmark，會常常再聽！因為呢個video subscribe左你，好多謝你，好感謝你既分享，幫到我解開左D心結，支持你呀～
真心覺得黑咪講野好中point，聽你講野好舒服，會令人反思下 😉
講得好好~了解自己重要過了解人地
反思自己好過要求人地改變
it's the very first time i leave a comment to a youtuber, coz you really inspired me!!!! Thanks a lot HakMe!
Love this! I really need something in boosting up my self-confidence these days as I am about to take a very big challenge. What you said on this video meant a lot to me and a reminder to me that I deserve to be happy. Hakme have you ever doubted yourself, and if yes what motivated you getting back on track? I would be interested if you can share any tips about being more confident. Cheers!
以我嘅經驗，好多時貪心同自負嘅人更容易妒忌人…
Yes focus the things that we like. No another youtuber also said that we should have been friends with ourselves.
hakme, 好鍾意你分享!!!好成熟, 好似我嘅大姐姐咁(雖然我家中係大家姐:P),好似個mentor :) thank you for spending your precious time to share your experience, continue to support you!
吾好去羨慕別人擁有既野，因為你永遠吾知人地背後付出幾多先有今時今日既野。花時間去恨人地有既野，不如唸下點樣將自己變成令人羨慕個個。
if only our society more of your mindset, the world would be so much better. i’m sure less bully, less mental health issue happen to people.
i’m also those weird kind of category person in my major friends group, lucky to have few friends mindset similar to me, but took some times to have good friends accept “hmmm you are weird, different but good kind of weird, you become you” haha
i believe that if we keep believe in ourselves, be ourselves ,someday will find inner peace. ^^
妒忌真係好恐怖! 尤其係面对自己親人,我自問不是好偉大,但對週圍啲人付出一点点,從没有去想回報。原来你付出,别人就以為你"好好境",令其他人十分妒忌,
Agree :) 讚美 & 欣賞找替妒忌, 容許自己有自己的價值觀, 容許別人有別人的價值觀.....欣賞別人能增強自己的正能量^_^ Always appreciate Hak Me produce nice videos so regularly!!
讲话很流利，听起来很舒服。😊
我好少妒忌人，但成日打沉自己，挑剔自己，自信心低下。我知道自己比人哋叻啲乜，但成日覺得唔夠果方面叻嘅人叻，覺得自己唔夠叻。我知道唔應該需要人哋嘅認同，但我又好在意人哋點睇，但我又唔會刻意俾人知我叻果方面，但又好介意人哋覺得我唔叻。不過我認同，與其自卑，應該努力去令自己proud. 我知我未盡全力。
Loved your soul and spirit. Thanks for sharing your positive energy with us.
I laughed a lot at 13:35 ><
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS TOPIC BECAUSE I DEAL WITH IT ALSO. I WANT TO LIKE THIS VIDEO A MILLION TIMES. I watched this without blinking because I didn't want to miss a word. Whenever someone is prettier than me or smarter than me I always get jealous and I hate it because I really want to be happy for them but I also ask myself why can't I be prettier or smarter? I always compare myself with people who are better than me in any aspect, I feel like in this video you
講出我內心的感覺 it's nice to be able to relate with someone who feels the same way. Thank you Hak Me a thousand times!
I have a suggestion for another topic I would really want to hear your opinion and advice on!! I think I struggle with realizing that life is full of ups and downs, I really picture a good life to always be happy all the time, but it seems especially in my early 20s or as I'm becoming a full grown adult that whenever I have a super good 3 days the next 3 days are like crap, and I find it so frustrating and annoying, how can I deal with it since I can't seem to accept it...AND another topic suggestion is how do you find good friends? friends who are good for you, genuine not fake, and makes you feel good about yourself? Thanks in advance!!
認同。唔會一出生就跟别人一模一樣，總有自己獨特之處。👍💪😊
我唔明d人任何情況下都要表現自己，人地獲得d成績又唔抵得，唉，距地唔辛苦的咩？咁多時間妒忌不如多d努力多d增值自己。
I do like comparing myself with myself.
Thanks for your sharing again and it can help me to face jealousy more effectively
講得好好👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼我地只係睇到人地成功，背後辛酸睇唔到，所以唔洗妒忌人。反而追求自己成為一個更好ge人
鐘意依類型嘅分享！加油
今日呢個topic 好有意思！
This is totally well said. Highly appreciated.
Love ur talk videos! Thanks for sharing ur thoughts and advice👍🏻❤️
The ig-er Rome foto story is rly inspiring !
I feel better after watching your video. thank you so much.😘
Hakme, you are extremely motivational, loving your talk time session. 🙋♀️👍💪🤘
多謝你今日的分享😊以前的我又係好無自信唔接受自己慢慢大個左開始接受自己開心左😅多謝你的題點😊
好鐘意聽你講野 ♥️
This is so true and deep and helpful and inspiring
好鐘意你😘😘😘 我覺得你想法好成熟～💗💗 好想有你做我的朋友～～
黑咪 其實我由中學開始都為自己噶身高（矮）覺得自卑，所以勤力d讀書然後成績好d就有開始有自信d啦 深有體會 我好鍾意聽妳分享哩d生活經歷同感受 我仲想聽多d妳關於工作同愛情噶睇法（btw 我覺得妳好高同埋讀書叻大個之後又有好工作妳應該不會有嫉妒人的機會 ）
黑咪，说得好好👏🏻👍🏻
我有睇👍👍its Tamara, she is gorgerous !! Thanks for this video really inspiring 🤗
五个手指都有长短。Sometimes parents also compare their children with their friends' children and some even within the family. Actually, gradually as we grow up, we will realise that we are equal and we are all individual with our own value. Try to stay away with negative people. Spend some time to read some motivational book. I would recommend Tony Robbins - Awaken the Giant Within.
不要妒忌 美貌會過去 知識經驗係永遠 做父母多鼓勵小朋友 有自信 就有安定感 唔會妒忌別人。
我細個有個好朋友好靚女 因為家庭唔好 冇父母所以冇自信 冇安全感 成日妒忌别人 同人不比 大個因為她成日怕老唔靚 反而妒忌我越老越靚 我覺得好累。所以冇咗來往了。
Thank you黑咪，你个video开解咗我，令我諗通咗
Hak Me. 你講得好好！我好有感受👍🏻
Yes I like talking to myself but I like to talk out loud at home.
以前有同學話我好彩。我當下聽到，我無俾任何反應佢。其實嗰啲我聽到係唔開心嘅。因為我有努力過。直至而家我都記得。無任何野可以不勞而獲。
黑咪,好中意你尼個分享!
多謝黑咪，令我想通好多野！
hakme幾時開live做q&a? :D
Your sharing is very useful thank you hakme!!
在香港談追夢真的不易………………
But anyway, this is really really a good video....👍👍👍
I like your valuable sharing.👍🏻
thanks hakme! learn a lot.
真心欣賞你!
喂呀……要加油！love u 咪咪
♥️love your personality
please do more self-help videos!
it really helps
我知自己幸运,但同大部分人一樣，我也有困难和努力的時候, 但别人只看表面,便去計算自己,例如: 你拿出一千蚊,就講'唔好以为你一千蚊就好大!" 又或者" 你都比到一千,點解唔可以比多啲?" / 或者講: 我唔感觉你再比多有咩問題喎"........大部分时间我:都忍,息事宁人，但就好失望,忍到爆……我唔同人比较,但我control 唔到别人思想.......
多謝妳嘅分享.好有智慧.
Thank you for sharing, it's inspirational. 🙏🏻
好中意你~我每次都認同你講既野
点解要去不抵得人。每個人的背後也要付出的。你看到他的成功。他的付出你又看不到呀。不要
講得好好呀🤗
黑媽媽 得閒兩朵花😂😂😂😂
So honest ❤️
Oh !! You are saying Aimee song that blogger right ?!!
+Salome Leung No - Tamara :)
比较令自己唔開心,但被比较係更加委屈
Carol Yeung ii
喜歡你，加油。
@hak me，你已經好好啦，對你講大學畢業有幾錢幾錢一個月。我個時d親戚直頭兜口兜面對我講讀外交，讀化學系沒前途的，一定打死一世工，唉！所以宜家我隔絕左我d親戚了。
Was that fashion blogger/youtuber Tamara?
+Bingchan Wu Yes
Thank you! Luuuuuv this video! So inspiring!!!
Well said👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
不要去妒忌人吧。每個人也有自己的好處。😅
有時jealous身邊同事超靚女😢拍埋鏡度覺得自己好醜。好似你開頭咁講，見人眼大大，臉尖尖，皮膚好，真係有d酸😢
有d人酸到出哂面
講得好！