I love how her friend says he loves the dresses, but he isn't paying for it. If she wants two dresses she should pay for at least one if them. The fiancé was really put on the spot.
And she didn’t give a toss what anyone else thought anyway. Barely even gave them a chance to comment from what was shown. Hopefully they just cut all that out 🤷♀️
In my country we have 2 marriage events. One frome fiance, her family and their friends, and second from groom. So we have 2 wedding dresses, and girls buy dress for her side event by herself. Sorry for my English)
@@karaaliea7577 She also said he was going to pay for it & just had to put up with that 🤷♀️ She also said she’d pay for it once & didn’t push that at all, while she kept telling him repeatedly that he’d pay for it & then bragged about how she knew she’d get what she wanted from him.
This young woman was so disrespectful to her husband to be in assuming she could have anything she wanted at his expense. She blindsided him on the show in front of the world to see which was in my opinion was cruel. He agreed to her demand to save himself really. I think she figured he had a long sports career and money would keep rolling in but that isn’t always the case. She should have paid for the reception dress herself since she said he was paying for the wedding dress in the beginning.
certainly wasn't a long sports career, he barely played two seasons according to his Wikipedia and now works as a loan officer: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricardo_Silva_(American_football)
@@TV-el6uj Because it's about respect and how we treat people. Waylaying your future partner and manipulating him on a TV show without his knowledge is not a good sign for a successful marriage. I just read in another comment that they are now divorced. It's not surprising when one watches this interaction.
We start off with Bride talking about what an exemplary young man her fiance is: then totally rolls right over him. Frankly I feel great empathy for this young man. Anyone out there have any updates on this couple? I'm feeling like I already know without a crystal ball. Very sad. Groom seems like a real gentleman.
SELFISH! SELFISH! clearly there's no respect or boundaries. The man said 5000, you want reception dress. Girl look, keep the first dress and save that 4600, be financially responsible.
@@TV-el6uj that was never the contention... Clearly she doesn't respect his budget...and then spend his money without discussing. And the first dress she comes out in is 10k... And in front the whole world what a slap in the face #disrespectful #noexcuse #SELFISH!
Absolutely agree with you. She didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
He was totally shocked when she said she wanted two different dresses, totally blindsided him. She was wrong to put him a that position,I really pray that they work out and she matures
True! Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
@@ladyjustice1474 Like in the US? ”Child marriage is currently legal in 44 states (only Delaware, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island have set the minimum age at 18 and eliminated all exceptions), and 20 U.S. states do not require any minimum age for marriage, with a parental or judicial waiver. Nearly 300,000 minors, under age 18, were legally married in the U.S. between 2000 and 2018, this study found. A few were as young as 10, though nearly all were age 16 or 17. Most were girls wed to adult men an average of four years older. Child marriage - or marriage before age 18 - is dangerous. Even at age 16 or 17, regardless of spousal age difference, child marriage: 1. Can easily be forced marriage, since minors have limited legal rights with which to escape an unwanted marriage (typically they are not even allowed to file for divorce); 2. Is a human rights abuse that produces devastating, lifelong repercussions for American girls, destroying their health, education, economic opportunities and quality of life; and 3. Undermines statutory r*pe laws, often covering up what would otherwise be considered a s3x crime. Some 60,000 marriages since 2000 occurred at an age or spousal age difference that should have been considered a s3x crime. “ From: US Child Marriage Problem Study Findings Apr 2021
@@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja I hope that you’re making progress too. It’s such an horrendous issue that basically legalises pa3dophilia or abuse of children & should never happen in any country.
This is just wrong on so many levels. Buying dresses past the fiancés budget is just selfish and mean. Communication is the base of a good and healthy relationship and she ruined that. The way she said she gets what she wants irritated me. She's like a spoiled child.
Lol. She IS a spoiled child! She either came from a family that brought her up to be like that or she grew up hating what they were & decided to use men to get what she wants. Really really dislike this kind of person
" 10 that's not bad right?" 😱 Put a down payment on a car or house instead. I can't stand these brides that bully everyone into going severely over budget.
I feel sorry for her husband, but he caved into her demand to buy two dresses too easily. So it will be his fault when she starts over-spending during their marriage, because he has shown her that she can get her way when he is paying, from the very beginning.
Why would a consultant ask if she should go over, it's disrespectful and I see them do this all the time. I would not marry how inconsiderate and disrespectful she was....
@@BlackBellyDanceCandy I’m agreeing with you lol but I’m saying they might be telling the consultants to do that for tv drama is reality shows aren’t real
Why do so many brides think that the guests at their wedding are desperate to see them half (or more) naked? This isn’t the worst flasher wedding dress I’ve seen by any means, but it’s just a trend I really don’t get. Wouldn’t it be more satisfying to get the gasps from appreciation of a stunning dress that looks amazing on you rather than because you’re flashing your guests?
Yeah it’s such an ugly look. Not even sexy anymore but pure trashy. I actually hate these extreme low cut dresses like at least the cut could be a bit higher and not right below the hip where it looks weird
They don’t think they think their guest are desperate to see them half naked. They have the right to wear whatever, and no one has any right to judge anyone based on how they dress. Honestly don’t think it’s really pretty and honestly if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it at all. Too much Negativity is really bad.
They are no longer together. I wonder why 🤔 After his football career he taught geometry at a high school in Washington DC in 2014. He’s now a loan officer with a home mortgage company in the Baltimore, Maryland area (where he’s from) and is married to a girl named Chelsea and has 2 children with her. He and Chelsea were married in 2019. They’ve been together since at least 2015/2016 which is the year their first son was born. Chelsea, he, and his ex fiancé all 3 went to the same college in Hampton, VA.
I googled Ricardo Silva to see if he was still playing. Unfortunately he had a very short career that ended in 2013. This episode must be old. According to Wikipedia, he’s now a loan officer for a mortgage company. The way she acted, I’m sure that she expected many years of a NFL salary. I hope that she’s matured and not continues to act like a spoiled child. Good news is that they’re still married!
They are not married anymore.. I just looked up his Instagram and he is married to a lady name Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together! So glad to see he is with someone else
I laugh at nonsense like this. Thirty one years ago I married a guy who didn’t have a dime to his name. We were both grad students. Thirty one years and 3 kids later, we are still going strong. I give this marriage two years, at most.
I hate the consultant “I have a conflict, so I stick to the budget or do I go over?” YOU STICK TO THE BUDGET! Wtf??? If it’s not your money, don’t try to spend it!
WHATEVER GOES FOR ME she definitely matched the energy of the bride, but when you hear the man who is paying for the dress look at you and say “5k, no question mark.” You as the consultant, should respect that, while still trying to make the bride happy. Maybeeee pulling a dress that’s 1-2k over MAYBE, not immediately putting the bride in a dress 2x the budget!
If she wants the extra dress, then her family should pay for it. If the fiance wants to put $5000 toward the dress, her family should make up the difference for the second dress. I thought couples were supposed to made decisions together. You don't surprise your fiancé with an added expense. Poor guy.
1- While the bride should've told him, the issue isn't 2 dresses. It's do the 2 dresses add up to the $5K. She paid for the 2nd one so problem solved. 2- We can all tell he's a "nice guy" but it's also his responsibility to create boundaries. I didn't learn that til my 30s but her acting up is because he allows and fosters it. Makes me wonder what type of environment he grew up in why he wants to appease so much. Yes, "happy wife, happy life", but something is going on there with that. 3- Yes, these two are now divorced. Some digging stated the girl above has mental health issues, had lost custody of the kid(s), that she climbed the fence at the White House, but that she is also finishing up her PhD, if she hasn't done so already. Some manipulative vulture from New Orleans contacted him on Facebook in 2017/ 2018, they wed in 2019. She asked HIM out on a date (pathetic and thirsty), and he met her parents on their first date, which is generally/ should be a no no (She was plotting, like them Southern girls like to do). Btwn the divorce and remarriage, I'm not sure if that's enough time to heal but good luck to them. I hope he has learned healthy boundaries by then, cuz if he hasn't learned, history is bound to repeat itself.
Update: I googled Ricardo Silva and he married a NOLA native in 2019 after divorcing this hot mess. Pay attention fellas when the writing is on the walls.
I thought there's no way this marriage would last after treating him like this AND I WAS RIGHT. They got divorced after a few years and a kid. His football career didn't take off. He met someone else and married her a short time later. The bride in this video had some trouble with the law possibly cause by mental health struggles. BOTH of his brides wore Pnina dresses LOL
He should pack up and run for the hills. Super rude and manipulative... Demeaning him in front of everyone there and on TV... Spoiled is the wrong word selfish, entitled and self-centered would fit better
Just because he plays for the NFL doesn’t mean he has millions of dollars. He played one season with the Lions then one with the panthers. They are still married but he don’t play anymore.
This poor guy really needs to be sure if he wants to be married to this spoiled stuck up woman before it is to late. I seen the way he looked when she left with the reception dress, I felt his embarrassment was such a surprise. Good Luck Buddy your gonna need it.
She was so rude to him. "I am wearing 2 dresses get over it"? What happened to " a lot of brides have 2 dresses baby, i would like to do that to". some best friend she is. I hope they are happy together. He seems like a nice guy.
This does not bode well for their marriage. They might have a fabulous wedding but marriage with a partner who wants to get her way all the time wouldn't be fabulous in the long term.
I stopped watching these for a while and I couldn’t remember why.... this one reminds me why. I can’t stand how spoiled and entitled these brides are sometimes! Makes me wonder how much of these marriages ended in divorce.
These type of women will suck the energy from you and will lead you into financial difficulties. They think their behaviour is cute..but it is not. He is going to get tired of her real quick
At 4:40 she says, "I'll buy it" before he could get a word in, so maybe she's not that bad guys, at least if she's adding another dress on, she's buying it.
WOW, that was obvious she is not going to respect the boundaries even with a dress. 2 dresses upset the guy. She didn’t care. Don’t see this couple making it
I did hear her offer to pay for the reception dress, but I doubt he made her follow through. And I think it’s total BS she could pay for it herself, but I would love see the look on her face if he held her to it 😈🤣
@@ellenmason3833 wouldn’t that have been priceless😂 I was just saying that he was expecting her to respect the budget and only get one dress. Surprising him with that and having him pay for two dresses is kind of rude. Plus it didn’t seem to me like she was genuine in saying she would pay for it. It sounded a lot like she was guilting him into agreeing to two dresses. If someone is paying for the dress either respect the budget or pay the difference. I would never go over budget if my mom paid for the dress. But if the dress was slightly over, I would pay the difference no questions asked.
@@Intothemythicalworld And to the surprise of pretty much no one, she didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html I personally don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
I understand that a wedding happens once in a lifetime so it has to be perfect and memorable in a good way, but the bride was wrong to make the decision of buying two dresses without telling and agreeing with her fiance. Communication is extremely important in marriage.
@@L.Spencer I’m sure she got it but I bet she didn’t wear it! Not flashy enough for her. It seemed to me that she got it just to prove she could because it wasn’t actually flattering in my opinion
Very sad to watch. This woman is so disrespectful to her husband-to-be. To so flagrantly disregard his stated budget and to revel in her belief that she "always gets what she wants" is simply awful.
no clue how people behave like this in public, its totally embarrassing....she put her fiancé in a tough spot and tried to make him feel bad...she was totally crass and she was not even aware of it....
@@heavensqueen7143 Yup. He should have just said no. But I get that it’s hard to do when you’re a semi-celeb on a TV show. Pride will make people do silly things. Shame as he seems a hell of a lot nicer than her!
And she didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html No surprise that they’re divorced too. Hope he didn’t lose everything to her!
Yep no marriage can last when it's based off of manipulation and with them for what you can get from them. If he wasn't a NFL player I wonder if she would even be with him🤷♀️
His face when she said “get over the fact that I’m wearing 2 different dresses. Dude I would’ve walked out right then and there and called off the wedding
So she not allowed to choose her own clothes and must do as her husband to be allow her to dress? She said I pay fornit myself. She is allowed to have more dresses is she want to without he must approv it
I'd reconsider the whole marriage altogether.. you can't just do that. communication is key if you are in a relationship otherwise you're going nowhere!
Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
I really feel she just said that to manipulate him into buying it. Possibly embarrass him in front of the other people, “I have the means since you don’t” kind of thing. Really horrible tactic that his future life partner has.
Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
1:46 that shouldn’t be a conflict. you should pull $5000 and under. if you pull dresses over a person’s budget then you are just greedy and trying to get a person to spend more. while a good sales person should consider sales, they should also consider their customers budgets and wishes.
Omg, the ceremony gown she chose is drop-dead gorgeous. The other one doesn't compare at all. Why does she even need it? Lol. She should have just worn that gorgeous dress for both ceremonies. In my opinion the money spent on that other dress was a waste, especially since he stated $5000 max IN THE BEGINNING!!!
I was thinnking the exact same thing - the show stopper dress (last one) should've been worn from ceremony to reception - it would be a disgrace to take it off for the other gown... She needs to respect her husband and not think she can get everything she wants - be a little more grateful!!
Bet she doesn’t even wear the reception dress in the end. Or that she buys another more flashy dress for the reception. And we must have very different taste as I wouldn’t call this dress gorgeous in a million years lol.
@@jh115 Yup. Found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html And I’m with you. I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself! But if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
This comment exactly! Why would she want to take off that drop-dead gorgeous dress and put on another one, not quite as perfect, for her reception?? And spend way over budget for it? Makes no sense.
@@kyliepechler Yes! Sadly, see-through dresses or dresses with a VERY deep neckline are so trendy right now that it's difficult to find something else. There are lots of dresses I would not even wear to the beach, let alone in a church.
"This is a real big conflict for me, should I stick to the $5,000 or under or should I pull more expensive dresses." She says this immediately after the person who has to pay for it says $5,000 max., no question mark. I'm sorry but I find this disgusting, Too money hungry for me, I'm tired of it.
Both of her dress choices are hideous AND she's delusional and disrespectful. The "reception dress" does not flatter her figure at all and the "wedding dress" is really bad with the very low see through corset.
I love the reception dress. She does have a lil pooch stomach but that dress was very elegant. I HATE the wedding dress she chose. She should have wore the reception dress for the wedding and the cheap classless dress for the reception if anything.
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I love how her friend says he loves the dresses, but he isn't paying for it. If she wants two dresses she should pay for at least one if them. The fiancé was really put on the spot.
And she didn’t give a toss what anyone else thought anyway. Barely even gave them a chance to comment from what was shown. Hopefully they just cut all that out 🤷♀️
In my country we have 2 marriage events. One frome fiance, her family and their friends, and second from groom. So we have 2 wedding dresses, and girls buy dress for her side event by herself. Sorry for my English)
She said "I'll pay for it"
@@karaaliea7577 She also said he was going to pay for it & just had to put up with that 🤷♀️ She also said she’d pay for it once & didn’t push that at all, while she kept telling him repeatedly that he’d pay for it & then bragged about how she knew she’d get what she wanted from him.
She offered to pay for it even thoughtshe went by it the wrong way
This young woman was so disrespectful to her husband to be in assuming she could have anything she wanted at his expense. She blindsided him on the show in front of the world to see which was in my opinion was cruel. He agreed to her demand to save himself really. I think she figured he had a long sports career and money would keep rolling in but that isn’t always the case. She should have paid for the reception dress herself since she said he was paying for the wedding dress in the beginning.
certainly wasn't a long sports career, he barely played two seasons according to his Wikipedia and now works as a loan officer: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ricardo_Silva_(American_football)
So maybe she did pay for the reception dress. Who cares?
You are absolutely correct on this one! 😡
That's why it's called, Not For Long.
@@TV-el6uj Because it's about respect and how we treat people. Waylaying your future partner and manipulating him on a TV show without his knowledge is not a good sign for a successful marriage. I just read in another comment that they are now divorced. It's not surprising when one watches this interaction.
We start off with Bride talking about what an exemplary young man her fiance is: then totally rolls right over him. Frankly I feel great empathy for this young man. Anyone out there have any updates on this couple? I'm feeling like I already know without a crystal ball. Very sad. Groom seems like a real gentleman.
No marriage, no crazy female. He ran.
@@emsnewssupkis6453 Did he really?
@@emsnewssupkis6453 I hope so!
checked her FB, has cute babies now but i didn’t see any pics of the hubby
went a lil more deep , they’re not together & she doesn’t have her children either
SELFISH! SELFISH! clearly there's no respect or boundaries. The man said 5000, you want reception dress. Girl look, keep the first dress and save that 4600, be financially responsible.
It's her wedding day.
@@TV-el6uj that was never the contention... Clearly she doesn't respect his budget...and then spend his money without discussing. And the first dress she comes out in is 10k... And in front the whole world what a slap in the face #disrespectful #noexcuse #SELFISH!
She doesn't think she has to be financially responsible she is marrying a football player that's why she acts like that
@@TV-el6uj why do people keep saying it's her wedding day. It's their wedding day and his opinion matters if not then marry the dress not the man
Absolutely agree with you. She didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html
I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
How to ruin a marriage: Step 1.
Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
He was totally shocked when she said she wanted two different dresses, totally blindsided him. She was wrong to put him a that position,I really pray that they work out and she matures
According to other comments, they divorced and the groom is now married to a gal named Chelsea.
@@almaeclu hallelujah
Sorry that's selfish. Weddings are expensive and pushing budgets for vanity is stupid.
True! Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
@@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja really? Explain that to the countries that force under age little girl's in to marriage against their will.
@@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate for the issue in my hometown country for years, actually.
@@ladyjustice1474 Like in the US? ”Child marriage is currently legal in 44 states (only Delaware, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island have set the minimum age at 18 and eliminated all exceptions), and 20 U.S. states do not require any minimum age for marriage, with a parental or judicial waiver.
Nearly 300,000 minors, under age 18, were legally married in the U.S. between 2000 and 2018, this study found. A few were as young as 10, though nearly all were age 16 or 17. Most were girls wed to adult men an average of four years older.
Child marriage - or marriage before age 18 - is dangerous. Even at age 16 or 17, regardless of spousal age difference, child marriage:
1. Can easily be forced marriage, since minors have limited legal rights with which to escape an unwanted marriage (typically they are not even allowed to file for divorce);
2. Is a human rights abuse that produces devastating, lifelong repercussions for American girls, destroying their health, education, economic opportunities and quality of life; and
3. Undermines statutory r*pe laws, often covering up what would otherwise be considered a s3x crime. Some 60,000 marriages since 2000 occurred at an age or spousal age difference that should have been considered a s3x crime. “
From: US Child Marriage Problem Study Findings Apr 2021
@@mohammadangginugrohomcjogja I hope that you’re making progress too. It’s such an horrendous issue that basically legalises pa3dophilia or abuse of children & should never happen in any country.
This is just wrong on so many levels. Buying dresses past the fiancés budget is just selfish and mean. Communication is the base of a good and healthy relationship and she ruined that. The way she said she gets what she wants irritated me. She's like a spoiled child.
Lol. She IS a spoiled child! She either came from a family that brought her up to be like that or she grew up hating what they were & decided to use men to get what she wants. Really really dislike this kind of person
She's not LIKE a spoiled child; she IS one.
" 10 that's not bad right?" 😱 Put a down payment on a car or house instead. I can't stand these brides that bully everyone into going severely over budget.
This Bride is Nothing But A Massive Headache 🙄 & her Pushing Behaviour is just Intolerable too ☹
I feel sorry for her husband, but he caved into her demand to buy two dresses too easily.
So it will be his fault when she starts over-spending during their marriage, because he has shown her that she can get her way when he is paying, from the very beginning.
Don't feel sorry for him. He knows his limits and they are still married after 8 years.
No. If she overspends in their relationship, it is HER fault. It's his responsibility to speak up if he has a problem with it
@@AmberTris and he is not a football player like she hoped and probably miserable because she is obviously materialistic
@@AmberTris Another commenter said they are not together any more, per his Instagram. I didn't look myself so, so who knows.
yeah, I just looked at his Instagram and it seems he's married to someone else, with 2 kids.
Why would a consultant ask if she should go over, it's disrespectful and I see them do this all the time. I would not marry how inconsiderate and disrespectful she was....
It’s probably for tv drama but I absolutely agree
@@AllysonKing They do this all the time, don't ask my budget if you can't commit to it.
@@BlackBellyDanceCandy I’m agreeing with you lol but I’m saying they might be telling the consultants to do that for tv drama is reality shows aren’t real
Why do so many brides think that the guests at their wedding are desperate to see them half (or more) naked? This isn’t the worst flasher wedding dress I’ve seen by any means, but it’s just a trend I really don’t get. Wouldn’t it be more satisfying to get the gasps from appreciation of a stunning dress that looks amazing on you rather than because you’re flashing your guests?
Yeah it’s such an ugly look. Not even sexy anymore but pure trashy. I actually hate these extreme low cut dresses like at least the cut could be a bit higher and not right below the hip where it looks weird
Seeing her showing through the dress ruined the look of the dress. I though I was the only one who thought it looked awful.
They don’t think they think their guest are desperate to see them half naked. They have the right to wear whatever, and no one has any right to judge anyone based on how they dress. Honestly don’t think it’s really pretty and honestly if you have nothing nice to say don’t say it at all. Too much Negativity is really bad.
@@xeecstasy3183 First of all we can say whatever we want!
@@xeecstasy3183 stay in your lane beach!
He seems so kind and down to earth.
Yes he deserves better.
They are no longer together. I wonder why 🤔
After his football career he taught geometry at a high school in Washington DC in 2014. He’s now a loan officer with a home mortgage company in the Baltimore, Maryland area (where he’s from) and is married to a girl named Chelsea and has 2 children with her. He and Chelsea were married in 2019. They’ve been together since at least 2015/2016 which is the year their first son was born. Chelsea, he, and his ex fiancé all 3 went to the same college in Hampton, VA.
Then he wasn't married to Whitney for very long because they got married in 2014. LOL I guess we all predicted that.
Trust and respect are the bases of good marriage. Both these qualities are lacking in this bride.
I googled Ricardo Silva to see if he was still playing. Unfortunately he had a very short career that ended in 2013. This episode must be old. According to Wikipedia, he’s now a loan officer for a mortgage company. The way she acted, I’m sure that she expected many years of a NFL salary. I hope that she’s matured and not continues to act like a spoiled child. Good news is that they’re still married!
Just saw she's a PhD fellow at University of Maryland as of 2021. She might be teaching there too.
Yes, this episode is old 2014. I found their wedding video too. th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html
Someone said they are no longer together if you look at the guy's IG.
@@whatevergoesforme5129 I saw that too. The person said he's married to someone else. They had a child together but she still uses his name.
They are not married anymore.. I just looked up his Instagram and he is married to a lady name Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together! So glad to see he is with someone else
How disturbing is it to hear a bride say “I always get what I want”. Time to grow up and face reality.
I laugh at nonsense like this. Thirty one years ago I married a guy who didn’t have a dime to his name. We were both grad students. Thirty one years and 3 kids later, we are still going strong. I give this marriage two years, at most.
They lasted a year I believe. He met his now wife a year after he married this one so...
Or one year.. who can stand her!?
I hate the consultant “I have a conflict, so I stick to the budget or do I go over?” YOU STICK TO THE BUDGET! Wtf??? If it’s not your money, don’t try to spend it!
The consultant was just like that bride.
WHATEVER GOES FOR ME she definitely matched the energy of the bride, but when you hear the man who is paying for the dress look at you and say “5k, no question mark.” You as the consultant, should respect that, while still trying to make the bride happy. Maybeeee pulling a dress that’s 1-2k over MAYBE, not immediately putting the bride in a dress 2x the budget!
I'd have worn the see-through dress at the reception and the opaque satin one for the ceremony, which is supposed to be more conservative.
Boy, is he in for a ride! 😊 She looks like Rhianna!!
I felt bad when he said he didn’t have a choice. Boy you do😔
She looks so much like Rihanna bt aint nobody talking abt that lmao
"He keeps trying to make me regular!"
Excuse her. She's rude, obnoxious, entitled. It's not even a red flag anymore that's a damn bloody duvet!
If she wants the extra dress, then her family should pay for it. If the fiance wants to put $5000 toward the dress, her family should make up the difference for the second dress. I thought couples were supposed to made decisions together. You don't surprise your fiancé with an added expense. Poor guy.
She said she would pay for it. So what is the problem? She noticed his face and said she would pay for it. He could always not pay for the dress.
@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 Troll.
I think there is trouble coming....her man seems so sweet, she should treat him better
His face when she walked back to the room was funny he was like “what did I just do
The pinina dres, i dont know how is that pretty?
1- While the bride should've told him, the issue isn't 2 dresses. It's do the 2 dresses add up to the $5K. She paid for the 2nd one so problem solved.
2- We can all tell he's a "nice guy" but it's also his responsibility to create boundaries. I didn't learn that til my 30s but her acting up is because he allows and fosters it. Makes me wonder what type of environment he grew up in why he wants to appease so much. Yes, "happy wife, happy life", but something is going on there with that.
3- Yes, these two are now divorced. Some digging stated the girl above has mental health issues, had lost custody of the kid(s), that she climbed the fence at the White House, but that she is also finishing up her PhD, if she hasn't done so already. Some manipulative vulture from New Orleans contacted him on Facebook in 2017/ 2018, they wed in 2019. She asked HIM out on a date (pathetic and thirsty), and he met her parents on their first date, which is generally/ should be a no no (She was plotting, like them Southern girls like to do). Btwn the divorce and remarriage, I'm not sure if that's enough time to heal but good luck to them. I hope he has learned healthy boundaries by then, cuz if he hasn't learned, history is bound to repeat itself.
He is to blame because he ALLOWS her to treat him like that
she did not need the reception dress- that second dress was perfect for the entire wedding.
Goals... Rich enough to say 3k is cheap
Update: I googled Ricardo Silva and he married a NOLA native in 2019 after divorcing this hot mess. Pay attention fellas when the writing is on the walls.
I'm shocked that consultant even brought out that Pnina Tornai that was 10k. Dude, the groom said 5k?!?!!?!
If you're looking for Overpriced and horrendous dresses.. You know the designer to go for!
4:50 “he keeps trying to make me regular” omg ladyyyyy
Run boy, run.
To the groom ...good luck mate you will need it lol
Whitney is not married to Ricardo anymore, they do a have a child together. He's now married to a Chelsea Silva and they have 2 kids together.
She did say she’d pay for it… he shoulda been like: cool ✌🏼🤣
Runnnnn, man! Runnnnn!
There was no need to buy the reception dress. The reception dress looks like the wedding dress.
You can have two dresses they just need to equal 5k
Communication in a relationship is everything.
This girl needs to learn that....
An attitude of entitlement is very UNSEXY. Not attractive at all.
Wow. I predict they’re gonna be married about half a sec! 😳
You absolutely DO have a choice to say yes, Fiancé!!!
Good luck to the future husband … he’s going to need it … she needs to grow up
3,400 dollars is cheap? Good luck to the groom!
I thought there's no way this marriage would last after treating him like this AND I WAS RIGHT. They got divorced after a few years and a kid. His football career didn't take off. He met someone else and married her a short time later. The bride in this video had some trouble with the law possibly cause by mental health struggles. BOTH of his brides wore Pnina dresses LOL
He should pack up and run for the hills. Super rude and manipulative... Demeaning him in front of everyone there and on TV... Spoiled is the wrong word selfish, entitled and self-centered would fit better
Lawd! She is the cutest lil spoiled thing I’ve ever seen. Prayerfully her love is mature and strong enough to make the marriage last.
There is Nothing "cute" about this dreadful woman. She's vain, entitled, tacky and disrespectful.
They aren’t together anymore
@@sbg22 how you know Sarah?
She is like hurting people with smile and laughter
Just because he plays for the NFL doesn’t mean he has millions of dollars. He played one season with the Lions then one with the panthers. They are still married but he don’t play anymore.
This poor guy really needs to be sure if he wants to be married to this spoiled stuck up woman before it is to late. I seen the way he looked when she left with the reception dress, I felt his embarrassment was such a surprise. Good Luck Buddy your gonna need it.
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She was so rude to him. "I am wearing 2 dresses get over it"? What happened to " a lot of brides have 2 dresses baby, i would like to do that to". some best friend she is. I hope they are happy together. He seems like a nice guy.
This woman is bad news. I don’t see this marriage lasting.
This does not bode well for their marriage. They might have a fabulous wedding but marriage with a partner who wants to get her way all the time wouldn't be fabulous in the long term.
I stopped watching these for a while and I couldn’t remember why.... this one reminds me why. I can’t stand how spoiled and entitled these brides are sometimes! Makes me wonder how much of these marriages ended in divorce.
This one did according to some commenters here. They checked the guy's IG.
I hope for his sake....they did not get married! Hoped they had a huge fight after the show and ended it. He'll be sorry if he did go ahead.
Anyone know when this was filmed? Seeing the comments that he married another girl.
Digger all the way..yAY!! ( M wheezing so hard ) does she evn work ???
Hope to not have that kind of daughter in law 😖that's a disaster in a family.
She looks amazing and thinking about it she got two dresses under 10k.
Other brides get one for more than that.
She looks like if Rihanna and Will Smith had a kid
Vain is the word coming to mind.
Poor man! I give it 5 years. The best friend did it with the bride to be before. She is going to run when the money runs out.
These type of women will suck the energy from you and will lead you into financial difficulties. They think their behaviour is cute..but it is not. He is going to get tired of her real quick
I feel that they're gonna get divorced. The bride definitely pressured her husband to agree to 2 dresses. A marriage requires teamwork!
Yep, your prediction is right.
At 4:40 she says, "I'll buy it" before he could get a word in, so maybe she's not that bad guys, at least if she's adding another dress on, she's buying it.
He deserves better.
Her fiance needs to run away
Thank you
If there was ever a dress to say spoiled, greedy, childish, unholy.. she wins.
please say she paid for his tuxedo😄😁🎩
WOW, that was obvious she is not going to respect the boundaries even with a dress. 2 dresses upset the guy. She didn’t care. Don’t see this couple making it
Red flag for the groom
Poor guy!
Atleast she did offer to buy the reception dress herself so I guess that’s a plus? Maybe? Idk
It's obvious that this is not the way to start off a marriage! She just wants to play dress-up using his wallet. I feel sorry for him.
Well said!
They're not even together anymore. Now he is married to a girl named Chelsea Silva (Dunn).
@@localoca1313 dang
She was ready to pay it herself also he didn't seem to mind so why are you all upset ??? 🙄
Still married and he is a high school math teacher.
A bride should always respect the person paying. If the dream dress is over budget, then you should pay the difference.
I did hear her offer to pay for the reception dress, but I doubt he made her follow through. And I think it’s total BS she could pay for it herself, but I would love see the look on her face if he held her to it 😈🤣
@@ellenmason3833 wouldn’t that have been priceless😂 I was just saying that he was expecting her to respect the budget and only get one dress. Surprising him with that and having him pay for two dresses is kind of rude. Plus it didn’t seem to me like she was genuine in saying she would pay for it. It sounded a lot like she was guilting him into agreeing to two dresses. If someone is paying for the dress either respect the budget or pay the difference. I would never go over budget if my mom paid for the dress. But if the dress was slightly over, I would pay the difference no questions asked.
@@Intothemythicalworld 💯
Exactly!
@@Intothemythicalworld And to the surprise of pretty much no one, she didn’t even wear the 1st dress. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
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I personally don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding anyway. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself, or discuss with whoever is paying in advance a budget that will accommodate two dresses so they’re not put on the spot like this poor guy! And if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
I understand that a wedding happens once in a lifetime so it has to be perfect and memorable in a good way, but the bride was wrong to make the decision of buying two dresses without telling and agreeing with her fiance. Communication is extremely important in marriage.
The fact that she says that she always gets her way. You can tell she runs the relationship.. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
It was giving wayyy too many red flags with her constantly saying "He's my best friend"
Another commenter said they aren't together anymore, per his Instagram. Not surprising!!!
Looking at the wedding pictures it she's in the same dress to cut the cake, so maybe she didn't get the other dress after all.
@@L.Spencer I’m sure she got it but I bet she didn’t wear it! Not flashy enough for her. It seemed to me that she got it just to prove she could because it wasn’t actually flattering in my opinion
Very sad to watch. This woman is so disrespectful to her husband-to-be. To so flagrantly disregard his stated budget and to revel in her belief that she "always gets what she wants" is simply awful.
Gold digger
Wonder how long the marriage will last too. He needs a prenup to.
They get divorced and he married someone else. She didn't even wear the 2nd dress at the wedding Reception from the looks of it.
@@caseys6872 they are divorced already?
@@HippyMiMi yep. You can search his name on instagram and he's got a different wife and 2 kids now.
no clue how people behave like this in public, its totally embarrassing....she put her fiancé in a tough spot and tried to make him feel bad...she was totally crass and she was not even aware of it....
Oh no she was aware of it, she know she can do it because he don't have a backbone to speak up
And she had the delusion to use the word classy in reference to herself in the dress lol. Nothing classy about that gold digger at all!
@@heavensqueen7143 Yup. He should have just said no. But I get that it’s hard to do when you’re a semi-celeb on a TV show. Pride will make people do silly things. Shame as he seems a hell of a lot nicer than her!
And she didn’t even wear the 1st dress in the end. I found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
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No surprise that they’re divorced too. Hope he didn’t lose everything to her!
@@allisonjames2923 I've been reading your comments here and I absolutely agree with every one of them.
The way she keeps on saying, "I always get my way with him ." , says a lot about the relationship dynamic they have .
Yeah. It’s sad. She clearly doesn’t care about her fiancé.
Yep no marriage can last when it's based off of manipulation and with them for what you can get from them. If he wasn't a NFL player I wonder if she would even be with him🤷♀️
His face when she said “get over the fact that I’m wearing 2 different dresses. Dude I would’ve walked out right then and there and called off the wedding
They aren't married.🤪
So she not allowed to choose her own clothes and must do as her husband to be allow her to dress? She said I pay fornit myself. She is allowed to have more dresses is she want to without he must approv it
@@emsnewssupkis6453 divorced I believe
I hear ya
RIGHT?!?
I'd reconsider the whole marriage altogether.. you can't just do that. communication is key if you are in a relationship otherwise you're going nowhere!
They aren't together anymore
Totally discounting your partner is not the way to be. There’s a difference between spoiled and selfish
Dude, marry someone who cares about you.
Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
Apparently not!🤣🤣🤣
OMG... did you not hit it on the head!!!!!!!!!!!!! And SEXUALLY!!!! LOL
Um, not
Tell that to countries where under age girls are forced into marriage.
@@ladyjustice1474 I have volunteered to advocate that in my hometown country for years, actually.
Her fiance is in complete shock, if she is not adjusting with her fiance budget n emotions.hw can she adjust wd him whole life.
Exactly
It won’t last. The whole world can see it. He should rrrrruuuuuuuunnnnn.
@@drummerlovesbookworm9738 It didn’t last they are no longer together
Since she offered to pay for the reception dress, I would let her! Especially since she didn’t tell him!
I really feel she just said that to manipulate him into buying it. Possibly embarrass him in front of the other people, “I have the means since you don’t” kind of thing. Really horrible tactic that his future life partner has.
@@valerieponce3015At least she offered. Most spoiled brats don’t even offer.
she is an entitled!! doesnt deserve that man/ I feel so sorry for him marrying that woman
Yaps. Dear ladies and gents, marriage is reserved for those who are mentally, intellectually, socially, physically, and **financially** mature. Mature first, marriage comes after.
They still together and this was in 2014 I don’t know how he puts up with her
@@locketpop3851 They are no longer together he is now married to someone else
1:46 that shouldn’t be a conflict. you should pull $5000 and under. if you pull dresses over a person’s budget then you are just greedy and trying to get a person to spend more. while a good sales person should consider sales, they should also consider their customers budgets and wishes.
Omg, the ceremony gown she chose is drop-dead gorgeous. The other one doesn't compare at all. Why does she even need it? Lol. She should have just worn that gorgeous dress for both ceremonies. In my opinion the money spent on that other dress was a waste, especially since he stated $5000 max IN THE BEGINNING!!!
I was thinnking the exact same thing - the show stopper dress (last one) should've been worn from ceremony to reception - it would be a disgrace to take it off for the other gown... She needs to respect her husband and not think she can get everything she wants - be a little more grateful!!
Bet she doesn’t even wear the reception dress in the end. Or that she buys another more flashy dress for the reception. And we must have very different taste as I wouldn’t call this dress gorgeous in a million years lol.
@@allisonjames2923 Exactly my thoughts- she won't want to change but will want to milk it, after all, you only really get to use it for one day :)
@@jh115 Yup. Found a wedding video for them & she stayed in the glam dress the whole time
th-cam.com/video/UZZiulys3Sg/w-d-xo.html And I’m with you. I don’t understand having more than one dress for a normal half to 1 day wedding. Unless you find two dresses you absolutely love & can’t choose, and buy them (or at least one) yourself! But if you’re going to spend so much on a spectacular dress, why wouldn’t you want to wear it the whole event? It’s not like 99.999% of wedding dresses are ever worn again.
This comment exactly! Why would she want to take off that drop-dead gorgeous dress and put on another one, not quite as perfect, for her reception?? And spend way over budget for it? Makes no sense.
These Pnina dresses are awful, they made her look cheap istead of being sexy as she deserves to be 🤦♀️
Totally agree.
Sexy & see-through should be for the wedding night, not the wedding day when you are around your extended family, friends.
That last dress was so ugly omg 🤦♀
@@kyliepechler
And the children of friends and family. And possibly coworkers. It's just weird.
@@kyliepechler Yes! Sadly, see-through dresses or dresses with a VERY deep neckline are so trendy right now that it's difficult to find something else. There are lots of dresses I would not even wear to the beach, let alone in a church.
She’s not sexy tho she looks cheaps.
She's too much already - Dude Run - A Football Salary is Not Long Lasting nor is his Body.... 👀😮🤨😖
"This is a real big conflict for me, should I stick to the $5,000 or under or should I pull more expensive dresses." She says this immediately after the person who has to pay for it says $5,000 max., no question mark. I'm sorry but I find this disgusting, Too money hungry for me, I'm tired of it.
Agreed. That would put me off ever visiting the shop.
I love this Bride consultant: I can be anywhere price wise too… oh god She made a superb counterattack
Yes, Christiane is bomb, New York attitude at its finest!
Both of her dress choices are hideous AND she's delusional and disrespectful. The "reception dress" does not flatter her figure at all and the "wedding dress" is really bad with the very low see through corset.
The reception dress was indeed hideous, with that ugly, abruptly puffy bottom. I loved the wedding dress, though ❤️
I love the reception dress. She does have a lil pooch stomach but that dress was very elegant. I HATE the wedding dress she chose. She should have wore the reception dress for the wedding and the cheap classless dress for the reception if anything.
I agree! The wedding dress is butt ugly & the reception dress is not flattering at all. Don't see much of a long marriage in her future!
@@frickmom I was thinking the very same thing. He seemed surprised by her attitude. I hope it woke him up.
I agree that both dresses are so ugly and overpriced. I can get 4-5 dresses for way cheaper and prettier.