I'm sorry but my husband is Chinese and I'm an American and I like the fact that he takes care of me. He pays for me, worries about me when I am sick, holds the door for me, zips up my coat for me. I even turn around and do sajiao with him haha~ I am pretty conservative and very traditional and the way Chinese guys date is my style of dating too. And both my husband and I prefer courtship.. Where you don't date so casually and date to marry. Chinese men usually study abroad in universities and live in bigger cities in America, and watch Hollywood movies so they probably have the image that Americans are more liberal, date casually, split the bill and all that stuff. This is true for many places, and I know that Kat is at NYU so for Chinese guys going to big cities like NYC or states like California then yes, take Kat's advice and try to be more casual, and maybe more open minded and try the American style of dating because people are more liberal there. But at least 50% of America is pretty Conservative (which doesn't always mean xenophobic), and if you come down to Texas where I'm from or the South... If you do things like a traditional Chinese man would and pay for girls and take care of them (I don't mean being rich though) while also being confident.. Trust me, girls will LOVE it! Some girls are more traditional and some aren't. I would do some research on the country, and also the specific area that you are in (Like I said, girls here in Texas are more old-fashioned than girls from NYC and will actually respond well to more traditional gender role things) but also treat the girl as an individual. Haha, good luck I guess? Lol!
看到这个真的无限感慨。我觉得我和我女朋友就是队友的关系，两个人并肩作战。我第一次见到她的时候，她看起来很高冷，气场非常的强大，甚至德国男生都不敢上前。到后来接触了之后才发现，这个人真的非常的活泼，非常的有趣。她第一次问我也是有关于前面视频中讲的，在加拿大的中国男生为什么一身名牌，明明衣服穿起来如此的不适合他们。哈哈哈，现在才发现，原来这是一个梗。我们之后聊了很多，各种话题无所不聊，越聊越发现我们虽然有不同的文化背景，但是在很多话题上都有共同点，然后我们再由此展开。其实我不怎么会说情话，在此之前我甚至对男女关系挺悲观的，觉得我这样的条件应该永远都找不到女朋友。但是我女朋友给了我希望，原来还有这样的女生，可以去鼓励我去做自己想做的事，因为5这个数字在德国文化里有特殊的意义，她和我说了五遍，"Das schaffst du !"你可以做的到，最终我在一年事件内从什么法语都不会的人，到B2考出，成功去斯特拉斯堡交换。和她在一起之后，发现整个人生都充满了价值，无限的可能性，我的人生因为她而改变了，我因此做回了自己。有个人愿意陪你一起去成长，我觉得这样的经历，真的是无价的。她的一句话我至今还记得，她说，我不是肤浅的人，我不在乎男生多有钱，家境多好，我已经工作了，我能够自己养活自己，但是我希望自己的男朋友是一个有才华的人。这句话我至今难忘，我一生都会记得，我始终因此而受到鼓舞。我之前一直很怕公开我和她的恋情，因为我觉得，西方社会对亚裔男性的贬低，应该会对我们产生不好的影响。但是，当我决定公开的时候，我的德国朋友也好，教授也罢，还有INS上的网友都来祝贺我们，很庆幸我能找到这样一个人，真的感慨万千。真的很感谢你们的视频，让我能够回顾我们一路相伴的历程。祝你们幸福！！
@@aisingioroalex 我认为这里的原因很多，就不一一细论了，最关键的是 Learning by doing. 首先还是要找到一个合适的partner. 在接触中慢慢的调整，当然提高 interracial dating 的数量是最重要的，因为中国人在欧洲，在美国，在加拿大等等都要找到合适的 boyfriend or girlfriend,然后才能生存下来。
haha interesting topic, im a 26yo Chnese student studying in Canada. I have dated quite a few white girls here in Canada. Most of time i'm their first Asian. Let me tell you why, i admit in the west, Asian guys have many disadvantges due to the media, people would have some assumptions about you before knowing you, most of time its negative images. But it doen't mean you have no chances. You have to demonstrate high value of yourself, to prove them wrong. I am a very good example, even yesterday a white girl told me she has never been into someone from away, untill she met me. I am not bragging , because i demonstrate very high value and confidence. She and i both agree that it's my charisma to attract girls even though sometimes girls might not like me at first sight, but once they get to know me, actually they turn to be more interested in me than others. So my point here is , no matter chinese girls or white girls, as long as you are a fun, confident, humourous and outgoing male, you can attract any girls in the world, except some super racist girls, who are just small portion. Also, English proficiency is a must, unless you look like Godfrey Gao, i bet most of people are NOT, you have to master that languge to communicate with non Chinese or non Asian girls. Anyway good luck everyone, cheers!
Love your video! We in the same boat as you guys. I'm from Shanghai and she is Jewish American. We met on campus with no intention dating a person base on skin color.We just get along with each other. 加油很好的视频！
我很喜欢这个节目，支持支持，你们如果再多搞一些搞笑的节目就更吸粉。 Those ideas are the most helpful ideas that I ever seen. Please make more videos ! And the advice for you guys is making more comedy videos.
When you talked about the first advice not being so serious at the beginning, the first thing in my thought is Ted!!!!!! And you put the video clip in!!!!!!? Love himym so much.
Oh, I spent hours to check most of your videos, I like you guys so much, you are so cute! Welcome to China, Kat! And Sid, you are so lucky! Me and my girl are graduating, too. However, we don't know where should we go after graduation. Neither of us are from English speaking counties. And we are not planning to stay in the US. It really is a big problem now. Bless you guys!
Someone first will have more tolerance on this relationship. It is difficult and not easier as you find someone who have same cultural background. However, you guys are doing pretty good! Coz you have fond the most truest word among hymnal being, " the common interest"
I know there are some culture differences which hard to explain, but I found this video is very helpful for me to understand these relationship things. Thank you, you guys are cute
Its really true. Although Im just 13 yrs old and im watching this video, I learned something useful, Im an Asian that speak Chinese and English. The reason I watch this video is because my dream is to fly to US one day and have more friends.
There is an opinion in China these days that is how do you differentiate your partner with your best friends if you just treat your partner as your best friend? Does this is a problem for couples in the USA?
speaking of which, do mind giving us some advice or suggestions about using dating apps in America? and what about some specific advice in talking to girls and asking for their numbers since these things do not exist in china, I'm pretty conversant in English and I'm comfortable using it, but regardless of these I'm still the kind of guy that girls don't notice 😂
Very interesting topic and I can feel the huge culture difference between China and US. The Eye contact part reminds me a joke in China describing men from north east and west east China. Two men has an eye contact on the street, one guy asks "what are you looking at?", another guy answer "so? What do you want" , then a fight ... In north part we call it 对眼. You may find it ridiculous, but unfortunately I did involve some cases like this when I was teenager. But I agree that eye contact in US is crucial when you talk to people.
Americans or Asians both are great people depends on mutual understanding with each other, however--- Really American girls are so attractive, so lovely like YOU .
Good video. I am not good at "eye contact". I am from China and I feel it so hard to see others' eyes when I am talking. How can I improve my confidence with more "eye contact"?
ok Done !!!thank you both of you guys to shared some experience and advice I would to shared about me I made American girl at Grand Canyon, she so beautiful and kindness person on that time, we had dated and after that we are partner'life but something happed I have to go back to my country for army and that's the being of the end :( 😭😭😭😭 now, I came back to the US and hopped will see and meet someone again thank,
Event Com Right, in fact Sid felt a little weird about how we should deal with it early on but we're here in the US and it made more sense for us to share expenses.
What if I like some kind of specific race? I like white girl, that is my taste? I like big eye girls, with a bit strong nose. But that kind of girls are not very common in Asia, do I have to pretend I do not have this kind of taste?
I know it's kind of late, but I'm wondering if this video works for a chinese guy who's into a canadian girl. I met a girl in canada and I think I really like her. But I'm so afraid to ask her for her number. What should I do, or what should I say to make it not that awkward and abrupt.
I'm sorry but my husband is Chinese and I'm an American and I like the fact that he takes care of me. He pays for me, worries about me when I am sick, holds the door for me, zips up my coat for me. I even turn around and do sajiao with him haha~ I am pretty conservative and very traditional and the way Chinese guys date is my style of dating too. And both my husband and I prefer courtship.. Where you don't date so casually and date to marry. Chinese men usually study abroad in universities and live in bigger cities in America, and watch Hollywood movies so they probably have the image that Americans are more liberal, date casually, split the bill and all that stuff. This is true for many places, and I know that Kat is at NYU so for Chinese guys going to big cities like NYC or states like California then yes, take Kat's advice and try to be more casual, and maybe more open minded and try the American style of dating because people are more liberal there. But at least 50% of America is pretty Conservative (which doesn't always mean xenophobic), and if you come down to Texas where I'm from or the South... If you do things like a traditional Chinese man would and pay for girls and take care of them (I don't mean being rich though) while also being confident.. Trust me, girls will LOVE it! Some girls are more traditional and some aren't. I would do some research on the country, and also the specific area that you are in (Like I said, girls here in Texas are more old-fashioned than girls from NYC and will actually respond well to more traditional gender role things) but also treat the girl as an individual. Haha, good luck I guess? Lol!
You have a nice husband though. Congrats!
I agree with you about some of the traditional Americans.
thanks for your advice!
完全赞同.其实有时候传统保守的生活方式更能真正带给你幸福感.
LOL is the point，hahah
1,三观正。2,素质好。3,颜值高。Sid说话的时候英文字幕，Kat说话的时候中文字幕，简洁高效，我喜欢这一点
我觉得这是一种对双方尊重的表现，就好像如果只讲英文，英文不好的朋友也会有不懂的时候，如果只讲中文，更多的美国朋友就get不到他们在讲什么，所以方便了观众的同时也体现的是一种尊重，互相交流的基本就是互相尊重，尤其大家来自不同的文化背景
看到这个真的无限感慨。我觉得我和我女朋友就是队友的关系，两个人并肩作战。我第一次见到她的时候，她看起来很高冷，气场非常的强大，甚至德国男生都不敢上前。到后来接触了之后才发现，这个人真的非常的活泼，非常的有趣。她第一次问我也是有关于前面视频中讲的，在加拿大的中国男生为什么一身名牌，明明衣服穿起来如此的不适合他们。哈哈哈，现在才发现，原来这是一个梗。我们之后聊了很多，各种话题无所不聊，越聊越发现我们虽然有不同的文化背景，但是在很多话题上都有共同点，然后我们再由此展开。其实我不怎么会说情话，在此之前我甚至对男女关系挺悲观的，觉得我这样的条件应该永远都找不到女朋友。但是我女朋友给了我希望，原来还有这样的女生，可以去鼓励我去做自己想做的事，因为5这个数字在德国文化里有特殊的意义，她和我说了五遍，"Das schaffst du !"你可以做的到，最终我在一年事件内从什么法语都不会的人，到B2考出，成功去斯特拉斯堡交换。和她在一起之后，发现整个人生都充满了价值，无限的可能性，我的人生因为她而改变了，我因此做回了自己。有个人愿意陪你一起去成长，我觉得这样的经历，真的是无价的。她的一句话我至今还记得，她说，我不是肤浅的人，我不在乎男生多有钱，家境多好，我已经工作了，我能够自己养活自己，但是我希望自己的男朋友是一个有才华的人。这句话我至今难忘，我一生都会记得，我始终因此而受到鼓舞。我之前一直很怕公开我和她的恋情，因为我觉得，西方社会对亚裔男性的贬低，应该会对我们产生不好的影响。但是，当我决定公开的时候，我的德国朋友也好，教授也罢，还有INS上的网友都来祝贺我们，很庆幸我能找到这样一个人，真的感慨万千。真的很感谢你们的视频，让我能够回顾我们一路相伴的历程。祝你们幸福！！
Chentao Ma 真是难得在这种异国恋视频下面看到一个理智又有礼貌的男性评论 还是因为经历过吧 同样也祝你和你女朋友幸福❤️
@@zhilinzhou6565 西方社会对亚裔男性的贬低 他的这句评论才是关键 中国部分女性双标才是不理智评论多的原因 多的不说了 异国恋大多是什么形式的组合我们心里都有数
@@aisingioroalex 我认为这里的原因很多，就不一一细论了，最关键的是 Learning by doing. 首先还是要找到一个合适的partner. 在接触中慢慢的调整，当然提高 interracial dating 的数量是最重要的，因为中国人在欧洲，在美国，在加拿大等等都要找到合适的 boyfriend or girlfriend,然后才能生存下来。
总体来说同样的教育水平下白人女生真的比国女思想境界高太多了，各方面的见解，view of the world，很多国女读了PhD本质上还是巨婴。
I am German and I never heared that the number 5 has a special meaning 😂
haha interesting topic, im a 26yo Chnese student studying in Canada. I have dated quite a few white girls here in Canada. Most of time i'm their first Asian. Let me tell you why, i admit in the west, Asian guys have many disadvantges due to the media, people would have some assumptions about you before knowing you, most of time its negative images. But it doen't mean you have no chances. You have to demonstrate high value of yourself, to prove them wrong. I am a very good example, even yesterday a white girl told me she has never been into someone from away, untill she met me. I am not bragging , because i demonstrate very high value and confidence. She and i both agree that it's my charisma to attract girls even though sometimes girls might not like me at first sight, but once they get to know me, actually they turn to be more interested in me than others. So my point here is , no matter chinese girls or white girls, as long as you are a fun, confident, humourous and outgoing male, you can attract any girls in the world, except some super racist girls, who are just small portion. Also, English proficiency is a must, unless you look like Godfrey Gao, i bet most of people are NOT, you have to master that languge to communicate with non Chinese or non Asian girls. Anyway good luck everyone, cheers!
Intercultural Nomad 说的太棒了兄弟
maybe I don't have your height
说来说去还是自信问题。老是把失败归结为其他外界因素。你说的这个身高问题也再次体现了你的不自信。我在国内看有个泡妞论坛，那个男的身高不到170， 把了超级多的人漂亮国女。你是不是又会说因为都是中国人，人家长得帅？我看了那个男的照片，长得很一般。说白了，泡妞，自信这点很关键。自信可以装，但自然的自信是常年累积的，长期的竞争，生活中积累的信心，不是一两天的问题。如果你老是要把失败，归结为一些外在因素的话，很难成功。照你那说，我182，但是我长得也很一般，也不是特别壮，你怎么说？？？？
我欣赏你的自信，高的好处真多。我的话，没啥自信，人也不够光明正大。谢谢哥的提点，我感激不尽。
中国男人一般都没有自信, 对待外国人也比较尴尬
Love your video! We in the same boat as you guys. I'm from Shanghai and she is Jewish American. We met on campus with no intention dating a person base on skin color.We just get along with each other. 加油很好的视频！
kat 和sid有夫臉，眼睛 蠻像的。
夫妻相
merry christmas kat and Sid. love u guys sooo much
炫耀中国文化这件事，我太同意你们的看法了。炫耀中国文化和自己多富有，是一件并不是让人愉快地事。
will leon
与生俱来的东西，需要炫耀吗？
Thanks,kat and sid! 我以后会去美国读书，对我很有帮助，谢谢你们的视频！
我很喜欢这个节目，支持支持，你们如果再多搞一些搞笑的节目就更吸粉。
Those ideas are the most helpful ideas that I ever seen. Please make more videos ! And the advice for you guys is making more comedy videos.
B战刚看完，赶快过来订阅~做的很棒~加油~圣诞快乐！祝福你们！！！Great video and Merry Christmas~subscribed!
Thanks! I really like this video, even though I am not in America. Talking about confidence, it's really the shortage of Chinese guys.
我觉得这个女孩子的英文听得好舒服、声音也好好听。
他们的视频也蛮好，一下子就感兴趣滴看下去了＾＾
Don’t you feel so wired?She’s accent sounds like recite from memories when her speaking
When you talked about the first advice not being so serious at the beginning, the first thing in my thought is Ted!!!!!! And you put the video clip in!!!!!!? Love himym so much.
Oh, I spent hours to check most of your videos, I like you guys so much, you are so cute! Welcome to China, Kat! And Sid, you are so lucky! Me and my girl are graduating, too. However, we don't know where should we go after graduation. Neither of us are from English speaking counties. And we are not planning to stay in the US. It really is a big problem now. Bless you guys!
一定是新人小哥哥或小姐姐剪辑的！很nice，每次看到后面的视频搭配就很想笑😂
强烈支持这个TH-cam Channel!!! I highly support your TH-cam Channel!!!
如果make eye contact，别人问我“你瞅啥”，我该怎么办
开枪毙了她不就是了
毕然 你回他瞅你咋地
呵
不好意思我忍不住笑喷。。。
瞅你咋的啊
跟中国一样。美国也有城市和乡下的区别。多数情况下，城市人比较开放独立，乡下人比较保守热情单纯。在纽约，警察没事不会跟你闲聊。在乡下，警察平常闲得无聊，会打招呼会开警车送你回家。传统的乡下人结婚也都比城市人早，也会相夫教子，男主外女主内。
这是保守主义文化，基督教清教徒传下来的传统的生活方式。
Someone first will have more tolerance on this relationship. It is difficult and not easier as you find someone who have same cultural background. However, you guys are doing pretty good! Coz you have fond the most truest word among hymnal being, " the common interest"
I know there are some culture differences which hard to explain, but I found this video is very helpful for me to understand these relationship things. Thank you, you guys are cute
你们讲的真的蛮深的，很喜欢，觉得这是负责的对关系的考虑
I really think this video helpful! Thanks Sid&Kat!
很有帮助~我个人很支持视频中的恋爱观，不过确实有各种各样的恋爱观存在，每个人还是可以做出自己的选择的
big big shine eyes!!so beautiful!kat
There's so much value in this video. Thank you Sid and Kat!
Kat三观好正，长得也很正，Sid幸运哦～ 祝你们幸福！
好想知道你们怎么在一起的哈哈哈
Its really true. Although Im just 13 yrs old and im watching this video, I learned something useful, Im an Asian that speak Chinese and English. The reason I watch this video is because my dream is to fly to US one day and have more friends.
Kat & Sid! Aren't you get the names from Gravity Rush?
You two are so good!
What is HBA ?
You guys should tell us how did you guys meet each other
谢谢你们的建议😘🇨🇳🇩🇪🇵🇱
There is an opinion in China these days that is how do you differentiate your partner with your best friends if you just treat your partner as your best friend? Does this is a problem for couples in the USA?
Can you guys make a video about signs of a girl into you? And how Asian guys should react appropriately.
you guys looked so cute bad then, still are though. Keep up the team work guys!
*back then... LOL
升旗仪式那段太逗了:D
well... I can see, Kat is really has a lot of body language... haha and that's cool
a lot of very good points!
speaking of which, do mind giving us some advice or suggestions about using dating apps in America? and what about some specific advice in talking to girls and asking for their numbers since these things do not exist in china, I'm pretty conversant in English and I'm comfortable using it, but regardless of these I'm still the kind of guy that girls don't notice 😂
这集讲的太实际了，完全来源于生活，给你们点赞
其实这些要注意的东西，和同中国女生恋爱的时候也是一样需要注意的。
我是男生，视力比较差，又不戴眼镜，就经常会盯着一个人看好久来确定他是不是在看我。然后我有一次在路上，一个男人带着孩子，我竟然和他直勾勾的对视了10秒钟，一直到走得很近我才确认他也在盯着我看。
thx for your tiips! i really appreciated it.
Hope you can put English subtitle on your video. Helps for learning English.
👏支持你们，并且为最后的兵哥哥们点赞哈哈哈
Very interesting topic and I can feel the huge culture difference between China and US. The Eye contact part reminds me a joke in China describing men from north east and west east China. Two men has an eye contact on the street, one guy asks "what are you looking at?", another guy answer "so? What do you want" , then a fight ... In north part we call it 对眼. You may find it ridiculous, but unfortunately I did involve some cases like this when I was teenager. But I agree that eye contact in US is crucial when you talk to people.
Your babies will have beautiful eyes!!
你女票真漂亮
看完这个视频后 我只剩下唉叹
正爆，超想交外國女友ㄉ
Americans or Asians both are great people depends on mutual understanding with each other, however---
Really American girls are so attractive, so lovely like YOU .
sid has great personality! Indeed different from usual American :) very cute couple!
謝謝你們的影片我學到更多了!我才懂我要如何跟外國朋友說話!
学会自由、平等这些价值，你就能和美国人深入相处。美国这个国家就是建立在这些价值上的。
May I know the name of the speech from the guy around 6:45 please :)
不要只是因為對方的膚色和種族就再一起 這點說得很好 之前沒有意識的我有這個問題
我极为同意你们的第10点，我真的希望对方可以说出自己的心里话，真的很难猜透对方心里想什么，而且我不喜欢猜测，即使说出一些不愉快的话，我也愿意听！
Good video. I am not good at "eye contact". I am from China and I feel it so hard to see others' eyes when I am talking. How can I improve my confidence with more "eye contact"?
非常有帮助，谢谢二位。
请问6:40的视频出自哪里？能否提供链接，谢谢🙏
matthew chien 貌似是TH-cam情感博主，我去看看。
两人很配呀～～多晒晒幸福吧！
羡慕你们两个，要幸福啊
May I know what the name of the TV show mentioned in the vied is? Thanks a lot. “I think i’m in love with you”
It's called 'How I met your mother'.
sid盯着镜头的样子好蠢哈哈哈哈，毫无表情天然呆啊~~~
the way sid stare at the monitor when kat is speaking is like a dork LOL
ok Done !!!thank you both of you guys to shared some experience and advice
I would to shared about me
I made American girl at Grand Canyon, she so beautiful and kindness person
on that time, we had dated and after that we are partner'life
but something happed I have to go back to my country for army
and that's the being of the end :( 😭😭😭😭
now, I came back to the US
and hopped will see and meet someone again
thank,
我觉得这个视频题目改成”如果另一半是外国人，如何更好地相处“”比较好。很同意Kate说的，爱情和交往最重要的事彼此之间的感觉，而不是先入为主设定国籍种族肤色。评论里有些男生说我喜欢XX国的妹子，一点都没有意识到这其实很冒犯很有刻板印象。
那个how to get rid of a girl you just met的电视剧名字是啥呀
说了半天平等 我听到的怎么全是在符合美国的规则呢
李凡 为什么全是只符合美国的规则？因为你没看题目，老师没教你做题之前看清楚题目吗？中国男生如何交外国女朋友啊，而且我觉得这没什么不好的啊，也非常适用在中国，除非你想交一个拜金女或以貌取人的女朋友
hh h 交朋友是在对等的情况下 相互尊重 我是没看出来
李凡 同意 完全没看出 说的一切基本上都是要符合美国女生的择偶标准，从来没提及过美国女生该如何去满足中国男生的择偶标准。
中国男生的择偶标准就是，女孩子要懂事听话孝顺，别出去聚会，结完婚就要生孩子，我在外面挣钱不容易，孩子自己带。
整个恋爱到结婚的过程，中国男生就出了一个屌。
感谢sid和kate的视频，我想我会找到一个合适的时间去和我班上那个我喜欢的女孩子认识一下
Sid and Kat 有想法哦！ 支持你们
那段TED演讲是什么时候的啊？
In most Asian countries, this doesn't works. If a guy doesn't foot the bill, he is a loser or not being a gentleman.
Did you realize they are in US xD.
Eric W Of course. Just saying.
Event Com Right, in fact Sid felt a little weird about how we should deal with it early on but we're here in the US and it made more sense for us to share expenses.
Kat & Sid Yeah I guess so since Sid is an Asian guy and experiencing different culture. He is a lucky guy!
你只是一小部分好不好，相亲时候让女孩付钱试试，回去就没戏
What if I like some kind of specific race? I like white girl, that is my taste? I like big eye girls, with a bit strong nose. But that kind of girls are not very common in Asia, do I have to pretend I do not have this kind of taste?
升旗的那个小视频 插入太喜感了哈哈哈
Kat一看就是纽约的犹太人，怎么看？一是头发棕黄，二是鼻头较大，且有点鹰钩，三是住这么好的公寓。
David tom Cai 请看他们最新基因检测视频
你們太棒了🌟非常好的分享！
左边的男水友可以领饭盒回家了，下次Kat来就好了，I like you, Kat!
看完影片後，我覺得你們好有夫妻臉！
我喜欢你们的视频!
I like your video!
升旗仪式那段好好笑🤣
有用 好喜欢你们看剧的那些反应
One of my favorite episodes ~
最近有想追一个美国女孩子，见面聊的时候还可以，但是我因为文化差异在messenger上老是聊不到一起。我知道在国外用短信沟通才是验证关系的主要方式，这让我挺沮丧的。但是谢谢你们的视频让我找回一点勇气。我想再去试试。我其实一直有个问题想问Kat和Sid，有没有车对于追美国女孩重要吗，女孩会介意和你搭车出去约会吗。我最近在考驾照，但是需要些时间才能拿到。因为我知道没车很不方便的，所以女孩子会因为介意这个而直接拒绝我吗？
哈哈哈 那个美剧的引用很有意思 这是哪部剧？
I know it's kind of late, but I'm wondering if this video works for a chinese guy who's into a canadian girl. I met a girl in canada and I think I really like her. But I'm so afraid to ask her for her number. What should I do, or what should I say to make it not that awkward and abrupt.
我想请问一下影片里面穿插的剧，是什么名字啊？好像很好笑。
那个“我想我爱上你了！” “啥？！”的是《老爸老妈罗曼史》
How I met your mother
im from indonesia, thats true, indonesia are most many muslims. thank you for sharing
总的来说就是做个正常的自己，她们就会喜欢你，不要带着文化的差异去谈恋爱。
It's only me or someone else noticed that the cute girl smiles like a cute fox? :-))
两个小可爱！萌萌哒。
Kate的聲音非常好聽！
以后你们视频有机会我都会看 女主很美 男生很帅 尽管国家是有文化差异 但是我都会去尊重它
你们两个是怎么在一起的呢，都是AA吗
升国旗这片段插得太逗了
想知道#3最后放的演讲叫什么名字😊
其实这个问题很好回答。穷国女人愿意和富国男人结婚，但是富国女人不想和穷国男人结婚，丈夫的经济地位要超过妻子。中国有很多越南新娘，但是中国女人嫁到越南去的就很少。农村女人和城里男人的夫妻多，农村男人和城里女人的夫妻少，也是这个原因。
还有一点，跨国婚姻，大部分都是妻子要融合到丈夫的文化中去，妻子在家里说丈夫的母语。姜文、蒋经国都是这样的例子，都是老婆家中说中文的。懂英语的中国女人很多，但是懂中文的欧美女人很少，所以自然不可能很多中国男人娶美国老婆的。
快速发展中的社会 一般都是金钱至上啦
你们三观都好正！
Which state are you in? I’m also in America.Can we be friend?
And I am also a chinese
其实你们理论上说的对，但是我认为我们还是要看数据和成功概率大小来判断。在欧洲我没有看到很多的中国男生跟欧洲女生谈恋爱，不是没有，而是这个数量太小了。我认为我们喜欢或者对一个人不感兴趣很大程度上是由于长相，身材，文化，性格，教育，历史，个人经历等等各个方面综合决定的，所以很难或者说不太可能改变对方对于我们的看法，也没有必要改变。就是说她们喜欢你，就是喜欢你，不喜欢你，就是不喜欢你，不需要理由，如果不喜欢，那就不要强求，只要忽略就好。问题是我们每个人的时间，经历和生命都是有限的，我们如何创造机会，把握机会，在有限的时间找到合适的partner, 这个是非常难的，所以我建议还是要根据国家和地区来找比较合适，哪些地区的人比较开放，中立，不带有强烈的民族固化思维，对于亚洲人比较可以接受，那你找到的概率就大。比如德国就不是一个好地方，瑞典也不是。
其实美国女生质量挺高的，因为她们都非常独立，少了很多撒娇，多了互相的爱护，像朋友和助手一样，中国很多人男生我只能说几乎所有都在书里学习，缺乏自信，不要认为外国女生的开放是哪方面，你们懂的还是太少了！
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