The most toxic people can't survive on their own. They need a mirror - any mirror - to project their most unhealed wounds on so it makes sense that they quickly find a replacement when you no longer will tolerate their abuses. And because there is a sucker born every minute they eventually do. If you have been freed from a relationship with a person like this, consider yourself the recipient of a divine blessing and a sign that you are being made ready for a higher calling.
thank you, your words are so wise. I'm nearly on the other side, forgiving myself for believing the gaslighting & lies & trying to get the toxic person to be kind to me. I did enable but now feel free.
Thank you very much. Christmas is a hard time for everyone. I love myself more than the emotions I have for them. Anger too. Self love and self care is the answer. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
2:06 . I have felt the same way. I was betrayed by everyone I know, including my own children. It's so hard to want to continue. How could everyone in my world do that. We are good, caring people. Please sit with your God, and reconsider those thoughts. Your children will see who is real and who is not. You deserve love as much as anyone else.i have been stagnate around the same people that betrayed me cause of no means to move and not knowing where to go. There must be a parent or friend that you have to lean on. If not, like me, nobody but God was and still is with me. I'm deeply hurt, but I know that change is infinite. We do make our own outcome in life. I'm beginning to see my a light at the end of the tunnel and have faith through God that things will balance out and come together as it should. You have a responsibility to your children and they deserve the chance to learn and grow from you and your life experiences. If we let people like my people continue to have these influences on our children and society, what kind of world will it be. Not Godly I'll tell you that. You owe yourself,, your children, humanity and God , you wisdom and experiences so that they, when facing similar objectives in life, how to cope and have hope that life is good and people are good.A teason to live which is what we are here to do. I know the message is blotchy but you know what I mean.
@Lightcoach11 .. can we handle what life hands us ? ... can we rise above others' projections on us ? We are not an island ... we are the ocean... love and light, beautiful soul... 💖✨️💜
I met this person in a chat. He attacked me from two other accounts in the chat and then pretended from his main account to come in and support me. (Or it seems that way now.) It's a dangerous environment. Misogynists and doomers. I don't know if he was sent in to distract me or if he was just targeting me on his own. I think it is a game he plays. Within 2 months he had destroyed me, utterly manipulated and broken me. I would never have thought it could happen. As far as I can tell everything he told me was a lie. At first I didn't even think the third party was real - just another character he had made up. It's been ten months. I have good days sometimes. Other days I hate myself so much that I can barely function.
Remarry?! Her?! HIM?!! It’s always been my view that someone who doesn’t keep their promise to always tell me the truth running off with someone who feels that sometimes the best you got is a lie, that’s poetic justice, a marriage made in hell and as far as I’m concerned, wish fulfillment! 😂
I'm different than most if they're moving on its because we are over no matter who's part if you can't let go your hanging on to tight and if you need to place blame your resistant to change and haven't learned life is always in flux go with the flow or bloody your heals it's all a choice. I'm centered and grounded and happy. Looks are deceiving my whole life is a choice no one else defines me. Nothing ventured nothing gained life is a never ending lesson. In self consciousness. Yes I learned I don't like walking on eggshells it's a crunchy disturbing thing. Moved on from that.
I needed to hear all of this today, thank you 🙏🏼 One of my two children has mended their relationship with me over the past year and half, the other one still won't speak to me...but I am holding prayerful space
omg, you are telling my life story! This happened to me some years ago, and luckily my children were old enough to figure things out. I spent years healing myself inside and out. I have come through this a much more balanced person and constantly think of my ex as my greatest teacher. I am a completely different person today and never allow anyone toxic in my energy. You described my life so well, you scared me, lol. Just know that I came through the other side on the right side, and my ex is still exactly where he started, repeating the same loop.
I am well aware of how they think and feel ... ego is the great manipulator. The heart wants what the heart wants. I need help ... I am hope-full and hurting at the same time... Merry Christmas ! Sometimes the lessons we learn for our own good are neccesary. A song by Jewel comes to mind... Who Will Save Your Soul..
Sadly 😮no one ☝️ can win with this person they are extremely damaged! He turned my middle son against me; I just have to let go and let God your can’t fight anyone’s perspective! For my own mental health I have no contact!
LE DIJE QUE NO A ESA PERSONA Y ME DEBE UNA INDEMNIZACIÓN MILLONARIA...ES LO UNICO QUE ESPERO DE EL. AL DIA DE HOY SON 45 BILLONES DE DOLARES. COMETIÓ CEIMENES EN MI CONTRA Y DE MIS 2 HIJAS JUNTO A SU SECTA.
This would be my deepest disappointment, for her. Our union would have many components of unconditional love and growth. I believe she would be giving up on her life if she follows through with marriage. I would be committed to marriage with her if I had the opportunity. 😢. Be very careful my love we're older but don't throw away the rest of you life. 😢. Choose to make yourself stronger don't let it kill you. I've never been a player you don't know me nor what a deep connection is. Give yourself the greatest Christmas present ever. A chance to get to really know me.
Yes i pleased my Angels to be her angels as well , belived in her illness, I didnt know that dark craft exist. She told she play some white art for reiki and Tarot, its hurt do I need stil thinking about past?
I Jump from relatie to relatie looking for happyness but all was vampire 13 years with vampire happy Free up Jumper to worst vampire than lastone wow reader healer aww yeah but this was Total destructive dark witch fake angel tell
Turn your love toward yourself. Realize you & what you want does matter. You need to love yourself first. Find healing. ❤️🩹 It is clear you are emotionally wounded. It is up to you to claim your life for your self and not waste it by throwing it away. You are hurting. Find compassion and consideration for yourself & how you feel. When we hurt we can have irrational fear or worries. Everyone needs to claim their power for their own life & release bitterness. Focus on healing and not the pain. It’s much more self supporting & considerate.
My story is similar. I realized she was purposefully hurting me. An after I understood that, I changed. I’m not giving her that satisfaction anymore. So I’ve had to disconnect from her and my children because she’s been using them against me. I’ve had to disconnect to protect myself. She’d rather I sob myself to death and fall apart than to love and be happy. So I’m no longer giving her the satisfaction of winning because I understand I am worth so much more. An so are you. Don’t let her win. We deserve to live our best lives. Our children need us and we need to overcome the obstacles that have been placed within our path. 🙏💜🙂
Truly appreciate your timing w/ today’s message. Going on ~~ 3 weeks no-contact w/ 8yr ex..Hearing “whispers” around him “marrying” the 3rd party is ABSOLUTELY LAUGHABLE!! Saw this coming (all centered on 🤑🚫❤) Most importantly; my “apathetic” energetic/emotional/somatic response ‘hearing’ this revelation outside of my own thoughts, completely confirms/validates MY TRUTH & Healing success!! Honestly I do feel sorry (not sorry)for both of their MISERY 🤷♀️
My son ditched me for a toxic wife 9 years ago I'm a single parent of one child and I don't see him or my grand children your kids will grow up and come back but not if you're not here my mom poisoned us about my dad but I call him often never give up that they will find their own way back it's not easy but reach out to someone or a professional who can help you deal with it lot's of people are going through the same thing you're not alone the internet is a good source for information also. Hang in there! Maybe she will have a change of heart . I pray she will.
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The most toxic people can't survive on their own. They need a mirror - any mirror - to project their most unhealed wounds on so it makes sense that they quickly find a replacement when you no longer will tolerate their abuses. And because there is a sucker born every minute they eventually do. If you have been freed from a relationship with a person like this, consider yourself the recipient of a divine blessing and a sign that you are being made ready for a higher calling.
Well said!
So well said, thank you 🤍
thank you, your words are so wise.
I'm nearly on the other side, forgiving myself for believing the gaslighting & lies & trying to get the toxic person to be kind to me. I did enable but now feel free.
It definitely was a lot of drama. Definitely complex emotions. ❤
Thank you very much. Christmas is a hard time for everyone. I love myself more than the emotions I have for them. Anger too. Self love and self care is the answer. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
2:06 . I have felt the same way. I was betrayed by everyone I know, including my own children. It's so hard to want to continue. How could everyone in my world do that. We are good, caring people. Please sit with your God, and reconsider those thoughts. Your children will see who is real and who is not. You deserve love as much as anyone else.i have been stagnate around the same people that betrayed me cause of no means to move and not knowing where to go. There must be a parent or friend that you have to lean on. If not, like me, nobody but God was and still is with me. I'm deeply hurt, but I know that change is infinite. We do make our own outcome in life. I'm beginning to see my a light at the end of the tunnel and have faith through God that things will balance out and come together as it should. You have a responsibility to your children and they deserve the chance to learn and grow from you and your life experiences. If we let people like my people continue to have these influences on our children and society, what kind of world will it be. Not Godly I'll tell you that. You owe yourself,, your children, humanity and God , you wisdom and experiences so that they, when facing similar objectives in life, how to cope and have hope that life is good and people are good.A teason to live which is what we are here to do. I know the message is blotchy but you know what I mean.
@Lightcoach11 .. can we handle what life hands us ? ... can we rise above others' projections on us ?
We are not an island ... we are the ocean... love and light, beautiful soul... 💖✨️💜
I met this person in a chat. He attacked me from two other accounts in the chat and then pretended from his main account to come in and support me. (Or it seems that way now.) It's a dangerous environment. Misogynists and doomers. I don't know if he was sent in to distract me or if he was just targeting me on his own. I think it is a game he plays. Within 2 months he had destroyed me, utterly manipulated and broken me. I would never have thought it could happen. As far as I can tell everything he told me was a lie. At first I didn't even think the third party was real - just another character he had made up. It's been ten months. I have good days sometimes. Other days I hate myself so much that I can barely function.
Was definitely naïve! Lessons learned! Good advice Wendy ty sooo much
Remarry?! Her?! HIM?!!
It’s always been my view that someone who doesn’t keep their promise to always tell me the truth running off with someone who feels that sometimes the best you got is a lie, that’s poetic justice, a marriage made in hell and as far as I’m concerned, wish fulfillment!
😂
Love the sunlight 🌻
✨ Pretty extraordinary light 🌞
This will keep her from chasing so much
I wish them well on their new journey. However, I hope that I'm never brought up in any of their conversations.
She can keep him.... I'm waiting for the best.
No no no. By me being single I can be free and enjoy life to do what I want.
I'm different than most if they're moving on its because we are over no matter who's part if you can't let go your hanging on to tight and if you need to place blame your resistant to change and haven't learned life is always in flux go with the flow or bloody your heals it's all a choice. I'm centered and grounded and happy. Looks are deceiving my whole life is a choice no one else defines me. Nothing ventured nothing gained life is a never ending lesson. In self consciousness. Yes I learned I don't like walking on eggshells it's a crunchy disturbing thing. Moved on from that.
Delivered with a sensitivity and poise..
I.
Appreciate your choice of words...
Thank you bella...xo
You’re so welcome 🙏
No but it makes me happy to know she got married and it was not me. So good luck on your adventure
Aw. Wendy the sun in shining on youuuu
I needed to hear all of this today, thank you 🙏🏼
One of my two children has mended their relationship with me over the past year and half, the other one still won't speak to me...but I am holding prayerful space
🙌 Beautiful. Thank you for sharing Trish 🙏
My ex husband was remarried months after our 3yr divorce was finalized...
I've heard they may be having the same issues we had in our marriage....
Yesssssss bless the goodbyes
omg, you are telling my life story! This happened to me some years ago, and luckily my children were old enough to figure things out. I spent years healing myself inside and out. I have come through this a much more balanced person and constantly think of my ex as my greatest teacher. I am a completely different person today and never allow anyone toxic in my energy. You described my life so well, you scared me, lol. Just know that I came through the other side on the right side, and my ex is still exactly where he started, repeating the same loop.
In time my life will change so being single for a while more will be good. That way my businesses the next person will come after me
No I am not wanting to have any feelings for this person I live me now so much more now
I am well aware of how they think and feel ... ego is the great manipulator.
The heart wants what the heart wants.
I need help ...
I am hope-full and hurting at the same time... Merry Christmas !
Sometimes the lessons we learn for our own good are neccesary.
A song by Jewel comes to mind...
Who Will Save Your Soul..
Thank you for the great reading Wendy.
Love your laugh and your readings and i dont care about the third partie or my ex im only concerned about my kids,, Sean
Amazing 😇
On point 🎉
It sounds like She isn't making herself the center of this current relationship.
Look at those glorious orbs coming in from the 🪟 😍 beautiful!
✨
Sadly 😮no one ☝️ can win with this person they are extremely damaged! He turned my middle son against me; I just have to let go and let God your can’t fight anyone’s perspective! For my own mental health I have no contact!
Wonderful reading! Your my tarot therapist😂❤
I love that! 😂
Warm hugs from Sweden,you are spot on!!!!💖
Hello to you in Sweden! 👋
Wow I have seen it all.
*Your 😊
That would be hard since we're still marriied and still living together.
Then probably not your reading
Very ‘ETHEREAL’ wow!! The sun rays are casting such a glow around you!! BEAUTIFUL🪽 💫🫶🕊️
Have a great day Windy
Thx
Thank you 🙏
Lovely light, wishing everyone well.
Thank you.
Happy Friday 13th ❄️
Happy Friday 13th to you too! ❄️
Love you, Wendy Wing ❤🎉
😊🙏
Thank you💞💞💞
You're welcome 😊
LE DIJE QUE NO A ESA PERSONA Y ME DEBE UNA INDEMNIZACIÓN MILLONARIA...ES LO UNICO QUE ESPERO DE EL. AL DIA DE HOY SON 45 BILLONES DE DOLARES. COMETIÓ CEIMENES EN MI CONTRA Y DE MIS 2 HIJAS JUNTO A SU SECTA.
This would be my deepest disappointment, for her. Our union would have many components of unconditional love and growth. I believe she would be giving up on her life if she follows through with marriage. I would be committed to marriage with her if I had the opportunity. 😢. Be very careful my love we're older but don't throw away the rest of you life. 😢. Choose to make yourself stronger don't let it kill you. I've never been a player you don't know me nor what a deep connection is. Give yourself the greatest Christmas present ever. A chance to get to really know me.
So be it !
He was sleeping with my mom
Yes i pleased my Angels to be her angels as well , belived in her illness, I didnt know that dark craft exist. She told she play some white art for reiki and Tarot, its hurt do I need stil thinking about past?
I Jump from relatie to relatie looking for happyness but all was vampire 13 years with vampire happy Free up Jumper to worst vampire than lastone wow reader healer aww yeah but this was Total destructive dark witch fake angel tell
Kid is not his
🙏🕊❤️☀️👑💫
Hi Wendy ❤
Thank you Wendy for being in my life . Its an honor to have met you on this flip side Happy Holidays 😘
happy holidays Jeff 👋
Listening now .. interesting title .. let's see 😂
Looks like you are sitting in a rainbow 🌈 ❤
🌈
I can't live anymore without my children because of my ex wife. This will be my last Christmas. She ruined my life. My love didn't matter.
Turn your love toward yourself.
Realize you & what you want does matter.
You need to love yourself first.
Find healing. ❤️🩹 It is clear you are emotionally wounded. It is up to you to claim your life for your self and not waste it by throwing it away. You are hurting. Find compassion and consideration for yourself & how you feel.
When we hurt we can have irrational fear or worries. Everyone needs to claim their power for their own life & release bitterness.
Focus on healing and not the pain.
It’s much more self supporting & considerate.
My story is similar.
I realized she was purposefully hurting me. An after I understood that, I changed. I’m not giving her that satisfaction anymore. So I’ve had to disconnect from her and my children because she’s been using them against me. I’ve had to disconnect to protect myself. She’d rather I sob myself to death and fall apart than to love and be happy. So I’m no longer giving her the satisfaction of winning because I understand I am worth so much more. An so are you. Don’t let her win. We deserve to live our best lives. Our children need us and we need to overcome the obstacles that have been placed within our path.
🙏💜🙂
Truly appreciate your timing w/ today’s message. Going on ~~ 3 weeks no-contact w/ 8yr ex..Hearing “whispers” around him “marrying” the 3rd party is ABSOLUTELY LAUGHABLE!! Saw this coming (all centered on 🤑🚫❤) Most importantly; my “apathetic” energetic/emotional/somatic response ‘hearing’ this revelation outside of my own thoughts, completely confirms/validates MY TRUTH & Healing success!! Honestly I do feel sorry (not sorry)for both of their MISERY 🤷♀️
My son ditched me for a toxic wife 9 years ago I'm a single parent of one child and I don't see him or my grand children your kids will grow up and come back but not if you're not here my mom poisoned us about my dad but I call him often never give up that they will find their own way back it's not easy but reach out to someone or a professional who can help you deal with it lot's of people are going through the same thing you're not alone the internet is a good source for information also. Hang in there! Maybe she will have a change of heart . I pray she will.
@sarahbryant305 thank you for your kind words. It was just a low day for me. Be blessed by God.