It can have different sources. If it lies in a fear of loss, try to look into that one. After you figured something out, try and talk to your partner about it. Like the way they acted out in the end of the video. :)
I think jealousy also comes from some kind of fear. Youre afraid to lose someone or afraid to be rejected. Its good to acknowledge that too, like, where the jealousy comes from. Listening to yourself usually dissolves a big part of the feeling, atleast for me
About a movie Stevie and Ari do TWO videos together! My life is more than complete! P.s. I was intrigued by your channel name so I checked it out and I love it so much!! You are really talented.
I dated a girl a few years ago for like 5 months or something. I ended up getting overwhelmed by her endless jealousy. It got to a point where she didn't want to share me with my friends as if I were something she owned. For me, the lesson from that relationship is that jealousy can turn a relationship toxic.
In the end what's most important is, that you and your partner(s) are happy. Be open about it. You don't need to follow every trend :) But you should be prepared for your relationship to not stay monogamous. If that changes, it would be nice if you already talked about that, so you'll have a plan and don't need to end a beautiful relationship unnecessarily.
Yes it's okay, everyone is different. If what you feel you want and need is a single partner, you for them and them for you, that's perfectly okay. I'm the same way, I don't have a problem with other people having poly relationships (now that I've learned a bit about them) but I wouldn't feel comfortable in that situation myself.
I feel like my definition of jealousy and your definition of jealousy is different. When I feel jealous I'm not necessarily angry or taking action and making my partner get rid of them or anything. It's more of a fear that my partner will like them more than me and that makes me jealous. Or maybe that's not jealousy. Idk
YES. I am so in the same boat as you here. For me I only get jealous when I am feeling insecure about myself and worried that my partner or crush is going to leave me for someone else cause I am not good enough. I do think that's totally a form of jealousy.
I'm wondering how cheating plays into all of this... If your partner is getting too close to someone and you're worried they may be unfaithful, is jealousy warranted then?
The best advice I can give about jealousy, of relationship problems in general, is to figure out how you're feeling before you talk about it. It makes it easier to understand each other and you're less likely to fight :)
There is also a healthy jealousy. You can be jealous for someone. If you're jealous for their happiness then you are an activate participant in guarding it, you're invested in them. Early communication literally defuses so many problems that could result in unhealthy jealousy. Even if you're not the one experiencing jealousy, you can take the initiative to reassure and clear up misunderstanding. Some people have shit from previous relationships where they were treated horribly and it has caused a jealous nature. It may take them time to work through that and trust you. As long as they're willing to change and acknowledge it they're worth the patience. Loved this topic and how thoughtfully you two navigated it. 💗
Jealousy killed some of my relationships and I'm glad to finally get some advice on how to deal with my feelings. Definitely going to be more open in my next relationship. Thank you both!!
I love this! I so totally agree on this. I thought there weren't a lot of people feeling the same about this. And now the both of you are! I like that you share this with the world. It is important I think. Jealousy comes from fear. And fear is the opposite of love. Some people do think jealousy shows how much you love, but I think it is about controlling and holding on. Love is letting go and love is free. Sending you some! xxx Marieke
This is the video I needed! I'm gradually coming out as a polyamorous lesbian and most people give me more shit about being polyamorous. I don't want to own anyone and I don't want anyone to own me. I've always found possessiveness unattractive. I want to share my love and keep my heart open to new experiences. It is so hard to explain this to people. Thank you so much, both of you!
Thank you for this video.I really mean it, especially that last scene where you guys are having a healthy conversation pretending you're each others partners because that scene kind of clicked in my head and I went, THAT's what a healthy loving relationship should be about.
Be happy & stay focussed on yourself and jealousy will never be a problem again. Cause you're special and if someone likes you, they'll be with you. If not, whatever. *Me trying to not be jealous* Thank you fav ladies on da Tubes
This is so helpful. I don't often get jealous, but when I do it sends me off this self deprecating tail spin of I'm not good enough for them. I've learned to step back and see my own value and that if someone wants to spend time with me its because they want to not because I'm making them.
Omg yes preach. People I know find it weird that I don't get jealous, like it's unheard concepts. They justify their jealously showing that they really love someone. To me it just didn't seem right. I love this video so much, you two are amazing.
This was a really great video. I definitely understand both points of view. I personally get jealous really easily because I get very attached to people very easily. In relationships I have solid reasons for my jealousy. I'm been working on being less jealous lately and it's been going really great 😀
this is bout polyamorous relationships right bc i don't feel like these tips work for someone that's in a monogamous relationship, also jealousy is not about ownership or limiting their happiness, at least in a monogamous relationship; its fear and insecurity /:
healthy relationship talk and representation is so god damn important!! girl, I have a few friends in unhealthy relationships. jealousy and verbal abuse feels so common man it's scary.. we have conversations about it and acknowledge it's unhealthy but somehow they continue to stay in the relationship. Idk how else to help than sending them this video lol
Next time I feel jealous about a situation that involves someone I like I'll think about my actions and how I express the fact that I'm jealous because you guys are right it's not their fault. Love watching you both 😊
I'm tripping oh my god I've been thinking about the concept of jealousy all day like "I wouldn't like myself if I met myself cause I'd find something to be jealous/envious of" STEVIE U KNOW MY MIND
I just want to point out how sweet the look Ari gave Stevie was, it was honestly filled with such adoration for Stevie and it would be cool if they ended up together. Even if this was almost a year ago
Amazing video, everyone can learn something here. I don't get jealous too often but when I do I try to figure out why I am feeling that way and learn from it. I definitely learned a few new ways of looking at my feelings and why they are there. You ladies are amazing and ty. Sending love, hugs and positivity!
Thank you for this! I recently had issues with jealousy and it turned into an argument with the GF and it probably could have all been avoided if I had stopped and thought through the 3 steps. I'll remember this for the future!
hi Stevie. i definitely can relate to the content because i was that person who get jealous and feel that i own my partner. but as time past and i could say i realised that you don't own anyone and the only person that you own is yourself. Thank you Stevie and hopefully more people will understand what jealously is all about.
I needed to hear this, I was struggling with non rational jealousy but this is giving me hope and reminded me how I what my girl to deserve the freedom of not being owned. Thanks guys for helping me tell myself not to be trash! :D
what a nice script at the end, the example of how to talk thro feeling insecure. a lot of times i dont find advice vids very helpful bc the examples they roleplay are trying to be funny or silly and don't give an actual script of things you can say. That last example was a really nice straight forward but well encompassing model.
I love this video! Communication is key for any relationship. If you communicate and let your partner know how you're feeling in a non-confrontational way then they should meet you with understanding and be able to talk you through whatever it is you're feeling. If they don't meet you with understanding and get defensive and angry then that's a different story...
hahaha PREACHHHH!! I love polyamorous relationships and for sure isn't normalized and people find it weird, thanks for talking about it YAS! and as for jealousy, I use to be super insecure but as I got older and more comfortable with myself I realized how much more I enjoy sharing someone.:)
(I ship it) they're both so open about their choices in relationships!! I think I would be a little more clingy or less happy about them looking at other people in a more intense way if we were officially dating but we all have different opinions and things that make us happy :)
This video is incredibly validating. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for touching on this topic that desperately needed discussing. YOU BOTH ARE MY QUEENS.
I've dated someone who wanted me to feel jealous and would make me feel crazy for getting jealous! Looking back I see how toxic the relationship was and am so glad my husband and I don't have these issues. We both have a great understanding of what counts as cheating and come back to this conversation every few months to see if there are any things we should take off or add on to this.
i don't feel like jealousy always comes because you feel like you own someone. jealousy is feeling like there is a threat of losing your partner. i think the notion that jealousy means you care is because if your partner were to flirt with other people, they would only not be concerned if they didn't fear losing you. idk maybe im delusional
So I ended up dating my best friend of three years, but we broke up 3 months ago. She has currently moved on to a new person and I'm trying to be happy for her, but I've been scared that I will lose her. After watching this video, I think I've learned a lot and hopefully I'll find a way to be happy for her and happier with myself. Thank you!
My girlfriend usually gets super jealous over stuff I find unnecessary; such as when I mention that a certain guy is handsome (lol I know), and this used to be a source of annoyance at first.. but today I'm like used to this "trait" of hers and constantly trying to develop a right way to deal with it. I believe it's about understanding one another and also accepting it the way it is. Some people just can't help it not to desire to own their partners, it kinda depends on their masochistic/sadistic traits and all. So acceptance is key. I may not like a person who talks real quick but my girlfriend does, yet I still love her regardless. And finding a way of yours to deal with your partner's jealousy is one big fat sign of love. ❤
i think sometimes its a bit healthy to get a little jealous it shows that you care and it opens up a convo and the couple get to understand each other and open up but overall you have a great point sometimes its not healthy at all and it brings just arguments and even ends with a breakup
Rose thorn during the video I just sang at the back of my head "chocolate and vanilla swirl" with crazy eyes voice.... I ship them so bad!! both so beautiful and intelligent!!
I love your new content and how you talk about sex and relationships. You give a point of view so open that everybody can feel related to what you say. Thank you so much Stevie! KEEP ON EMPOWERING PEOPLE
I think a little bit of jealousy is perfectly fine. Also note that sometimes just communicating that maybe you feel left out of that you want to spend time w them could fix it.
I really love this video, you both talked about something very important, as soon as I feel like jelousy I think on how much I care my relationship, and the confidence we have, then I realise that is just stupid and with no sense at all, is better not to let this take power of our words or actions!!!! Love you girls, you are awsome !!! Talk with your partner, confidence is the key, even if this sounds like a cliché
the comment you made around 5:15 about being attracted to someone else.. attraction is one thing but emotional cheating is a real thing.. if you have feelings for someone else beyond attraction, that's a problem.. but no you don't die once you enter a relationship, you still have eyes and can be attracted to anyone but you don't allow yourself to catch feelings for someone when you're already in a relationship... that's about the choices you make
Currently in a poly relationship with two others who are new. It can be tough to navigate the insecurities at first, but being patient will work things out.
uoou you guys just described what I feel and keep trying to avoid because I know this is a kind of wrong feeling and I know the person doesnt belong to me, but at the end the feeling is there. Loved the video bytheway 💜💜
I really believe you lovely Ladies are right on point with this video! I just recently had a discussion about this with my roomy and how she and her bf restric each other so much because they are both so jealous.... I never understood how relationships with so much jealousy work...
I feel like we need to hear Beatrice's point of view.
bahahahahahhaa
so true
Elizabeth Schultz
Yeah like, "What was your parent thinking when they looked at a sweet pristine little baby and said 'BE-AT-TRISS'?"
same hahahaha
THIS VID IS SO IMPORTANT BOO! thank you for having me!!
no thank youuuuuuuuuuuu
Stevie no thank me
Ari Fitz I am literally here because of you. Just subbed to Stevie coz of you!!!!! You both look AMAZIIIIING!!!!!
ari, your hair! it looks so fucking amazing. i love it! 😍
Kimberly Sanchez I love her too! one of the first things I've noticed....thst gorgeous hair!
stevie seems like that one family member that you always go to for advice on everything because she gives great advice and is very easy to approach
Right
Courtney Potato agreed!
Courtney Potato right?! Like the aunt you KNOW won't snitch
yep2
Everyone needs that Auntie!
My jealousy isn't an ownership thing it's a feeling of fear that they are going to hurt me.
Meghan Dunning same
Meghan Dunning same boo
It can have different sources. If it lies in a fear of loss, try to look into that one. After you figured something out, try and talk to your partner about it. Like the way they acted out in the end of the video. :)
Meghan Dunning same
True
I think jealousy also comes from some kind of fear. Youre afraid to lose someone or afraid to be rejected. Its good to acknowledge that too, like, where the jealousy comes from. Listening to yourself usually dissolves a big part of the feeling, atleast for me
Sophie Wintermans
We need more PSA's about LISTENING TO YOUR FEELINGS AND PROCESSING THEM👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Stevie and Ari did a video together?! My life is complete.
About a movie Stevie and Ari do TWO videos together! My life is more than complete! P.s. I was intrigued by your channel name so I checked it out and I love it so much!! You are really talented.
Hellen Crown haha yeah right! And thank you!! :))
Hellen Crown
They've done collabs in the past too. Both by themselves and with past partners.
I dated a girl a few years ago for like 5 months or something. I ended up getting overwhelmed by her endless jealousy. It got to a point where she didn't want to share me with my friends as if I were something she owned. For me, the lesson from that relationship is that jealousy can turn a relationship toxic.
It sure can.
Elif Şahin see I get that, but your relationship seemed to surpass jealously and goes into possessiveness
Stevie loved every second of Ari no joke she was bathing in it
I'm jealous of Stevie's hair
soph Bates I jealous of Aris hair
I was just thinking that
soph Bates I'm jealous of ari's hair dude
The last time Stevie did a yoga video thing it was with Ally, then they started dating. Alright Ari I see you gurl
YAAAS LAurenJ Guuuurl 👅
YAAAS LAurenJ Gah I wish
YAAAS LAurenJ that's exactly what i said to myself when i saw the notification 😂😂😂
A girl can dream
Is it bad or does it make me unhealthy that I'm not comfortable with polyamory? I'm only comfortable with monogamy. Is that okay?
of course that's okay!
AnnaKittyCath Productions 1000% okay!
Thank you for asking this 🙌🏻
In the end what's most important is, that you and your partner(s) are happy. Be open about it. You don't need to follow every trend :)
But you should be prepared for your relationship to not stay monogamous. If that changes, it would be nice if you already talked about that, so you'll have a plan and don't need to end a beautiful relationship unnecessarily.
Yes it's okay, everyone is different. If what you feel you want and need is a single partner, you for them and them for you, that's perfectly okay. I'm the same way, I don't have a problem with other people having poly relationships (now that I've learned a bit about them) but I wouldn't feel comfortable in that situation myself.
I feel like my definition of jealousy and your definition of jealousy is different. When I feel jealous I'm not necessarily angry or taking action and making my partner get rid of them or anything. It's more of a fear that my partner will like them more than me and that makes me jealous. Or maybe that's not jealousy. Idk
YES. I am so in the same boat as you here. For me I only get jealous when I am feeling insecure about myself and worried that my partner or crush is going to leave me for someone else cause I am not good enough. I do think that's totally a form of jealousy.
This is just insecurity about your relationship and that's normal
That is jealousy as well... the term encompasses a multitude of feelings from insecurity, to fear of abandonment, to self-doubt
My jealousy comes from being painfully loyal, and if I date someone I expect them to be as loyal as I am. 😕
I'm wondering how cheating plays into all of this... If your partner is getting too close to someone and you're worried they may be unfaithful, is jealousy warranted then?
Ari Fitz. That hair tho😍😍
omg! the sad-face rainy window black and white cut. I'm DYING!!!!!
I think it's difficult to control our feelings, but we can all try to be more mindful of our actions.
I'm liking my comment because i like to
The best advice I can give about jealousy, of relationship problems in general, is to figure out how you're feeling before you talk about it. It makes it easier to understand each other and you're less likely to fight :)
There is also a healthy jealousy. You can be jealous for someone. If you're jealous for their happiness then you are an activate participant in guarding it, you're invested in them. Early communication literally defuses so many problems that could result in unhealthy jealousy. Even if you're not the one experiencing jealousy, you can take the initiative to reassure and clear up misunderstanding. Some people have shit from previous relationships where they were treated horribly and it has caused a jealous nature. It may take them time to work through that and trust you. As long as they're willing to change and acknowledge it they're worth the patience. Loved this topic and how thoughtfully you two navigated it. 💗
They're both so gorgeous and smart and well spoken, I'm in love
Jealousy killed some of my relationships and I'm glad to finally get some advice on how to deal with my feelings. Definitely going to be more open in my next relationship. Thank you both!!
I love this! I so totally agree on this. I thought there weren't a lot of people feeling the same about this. And now the both of you are! I like that you share this with the world. It is important I think. Jealousy comes from fear. And fear is the opposite of love. Some people do think jealousy shows how much you love, but I think it is about controlling and holding on. Love is letting go and love is free.
Sending you some! xxx Marieke
Jealous bc Stevie is a litteral goddess and I dont know what to do. Any advice?
akusav13 very true (:
If someone ever pushes my dog off the couch they can prepare to die lol. I laugh now, but I'm so serious. That's my baby. 🐶🐾
Sometimes, people can make you feel jealous on purpose, they act in a way to make you feel like this
Marine M true true true.. I've seen many people do that......so silly...
I like really hope there's no dildos or sex toys cause I'm in school 😂
jojo omg I love your pic Ginas face tho😂😂
jojo GINA!
Why would there be any of that?
M Clifton its a Stevie video, it’s not uncommon.
This is the video I needed! I'm gradually coming out as a polyamorous lesbian and most people give me more shit about being polyamorous. I don't want to own anyone and I don't want anyone to own me. I've always found possessiveness unattractive. I want to share my love and keep my heart open to new experiences. It is so hard to explain this to people. Thank you so much, both of you!
Thank you for this video.I really mean it, especially that last scene where you guys are having a healthy conversation pretending you're each others partners because that scene kind of clicked in my head and I went, THAT's what a healthy loving relationship should be about.
That thumbnail is adorable
SOMEONE GIF 6:44-6:50!!!!!
Be happy & stay focussed on yourself and jealousy will never be a problem again. Cause you're special and if someone likes you, they'll be with you. If not, whatever. *Me trying to not be jealous* Thank you fav ladies on da Tubes
This is so helpful. I don't often get jealous, but when I do it sends me off this self deprecating tail spin of I'm not good enough for them. I've learned to step back and see my own value and that if someone wants to spend time with me its because they want to not because I'm making them.
My girlfriend is jealous b/c I like Emma Watson
B O I
I know this is late but
B O I
This is even later but
B O I
Everyone knows Emma Watson is hot
This is way later but
B O I
Wait what why ?
B O I
What?
Omg yes preach. People I know find it weird that I don't get jealous, like it's unheard concepts. They justify their jealously showing that they really love someone. To me it just didn't seem right. I love this video so much, you two are amazing.
This was a really great video. I definitely understand both points of view. I personally get jealous really easily because I get very attached to people very easily. In relationships I have solid reasons for my jealousy. I'm been working on being less jealous lately and it's been going really great 😀
this is bout polyamorous relationships right bc i don't feel like these tips work for someone that's in a monogamous relationship, also jealousy is not about ownership or limiting their happiness, at least in a monogamous relationship; its fear and insecurity /:
"like you want to kill someone.... all these feelings are natural"
PREACH... I think it really brave of Ari Fitz to talk about how she expirences jealousy and thanks guys for the wisdom ✌🏼
OMG YES THIS IS ALL I WANTED IN LIFE I WAS WAITING FOR THIS
healthy relationship talk and representation is so god damn important!! girl, I have a few friends in unhealthy relationships. jealousy and verbal abuse feels so common man it's scary.. we have conversations about it and acknowledge it's unhealthy but somehow they continue to stay in the relationship. Idk how else to help than sending them this video lol
I don't see how anyone can listen to the words coming out of Ari's mouth and still feel loved...I don't care how cool she is
Next time I feel jealous about a situation that involves someone I like I'll think about my actions and how I express the fact that I'm jealous because you guys are right it's not their fault. Love watching you both 😊
I'm tripping oh my god I've been thinking about the concept of jealousy all day like "I wouldn't like myself if I met myself cause I'd find something to be jealous/envious of" STEVIE U KNOW MY MIND
Can I just say that I’m 27 years old and still learning these lessons. It’s really nice to see queer women articulate it!
I would 100% dig a podcast with stevie in it, where she talks about relationship problems or anything in general.
I just want to point out how sweet the look Ari gave Stevie was, it was honestly filled with such adoration for Stevie and it would be cool if they ended up together. Even if this was almost a year ago
I've never been this fucking early. LOVED THE VIDEO, LOVE YOU LADIES and it made me think a lot, thank you
Amazing video, everyone can learn something here. I don't get jealous too often but when I do I try to figure out why I am feeling that way and learn from it. I definitely learned a few new ways of looking at my feelings and why they are there. You ladies are amazing and ty. Sending love, hugs and positivity!
SHIP IT AF ❤🔶💛💚💙💜
Ari was on her "youtuber crushes" right ????
Jellyfixh yup
Thank you for this! I recently had issues with jealousy and it turned into an argument with the GF and it probably could have all been avoided if I had stopped and thought through the 3 steps. I'll remember this for the future!
Anyone else watch this purely bc Ari was in Stevies youtuber crush video and you wanted to see what happened...
Stevie: "I hope that you got something out of this video"
Me: "Yes I did..."
Stevie: "about jealousy."
Me: "Nevermind."
Im glad youre covering important topics, talking about things that need to be talked about
the timing couldn't be more perfect, I actually really needed this.
hi Stevie. i definitely can relate to the content because i was that person who get jealous and feel that i own my partner. but as time past and i could say i realised that you don't own anyone and the only person that you own is yourself. Thank you Stevie and hopefully more people will understand what jealously is all about.
I needed to hear this, I was struggling with non rational jealousy but this is giving me hope and reminded me how I what my girl to deserve the freedom of not being owned. Thanks guys for helping me tell myself not to be trash! :D
In case noone hasn't told you this today, you are an amazing person, Stevie
I admire you so much
A video with Ari and Stevie. My life is now complete. Thanks guys~
what a nice script at the end, the example of how to talk thro feeling insecure. a lot of times i dont find advice vids very helpful bc the examples they roleplay are trying to be funny or silly and don't give an actual script of things you can say. That last example was a really nice straight forward but well encompassing model.
I love this video! Communication is key for any relationship. If you communicate and let your partner know how you're feeling in a non-confrontational way then they should meet you with understanding and be able to talk you through whatever it is you're feeling. If they don't meet you with understanding and get defensive and angry then that's a different story...
Damn date or something already I ship them. Always wanted them to do a video together just them great video💖 Dreams do come true lol
ari is making Stevie look normal and on an even playing field. she's striking and beautiful and intelligent
hahaha PREACHHHH!! I love polyamorous relationships and for sure isn't normalized and people find it weird, thanks for talking about it YAS! and as for jealousy, I use to be super insecure but as I got older and more comfortable with myself I realized how much more I enjoy sharing someone.:)
(I ship it) they're both so open about their choices in relationships!! I think I would be a little more clingy or less happy about them looking at other people in a more intense way if we were officially dating but we all have different opinions and things that make us happy :)
Ari's voice is so amazing to listen to. Calming af.
WELL I SHIP IT! ( just kiddig but i love you both)
but like that part where she's like now you have to go down on me for 17 mins Stevie was enjoying herself I ship it
This video is incredibly validating. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for touching on this topic that desperately needed discussing. YOU BOTH ARE MY QUEENS.
I've dated someone who wanted me to feel jealous and would make me feel crazy for getting jealous! Looking back I see how toxic the relationship was and am so glad my husband and I don't have these issues. We both have a great understanding of what counts as cheating and come back to this conversation every few months to see if there are any things we should take off or add on to this.
i don't feel like jealousy always comes because you feel like you own someone. jealousy is feeling like there is a threat of losing your partner. i think the notion that jealousy means you care is because if your partner were to flirt with other people, they would only not be concerned if they didn't fear losing you. idk maybe im delusional
So I ended up dating my best friend of three years, but we broke up 3 months ago. She has currently moved on to a new person and I'm trying to be happy for her, but I've been scared that I will lose her. After watching this video, I think I've learned a lot and hopefully I'll find a way to be happy for her and happier with myself. Thank you!
My girlfriend usually gets super jealous over stuff I find unnecessary; such as when I mention that a certain guy is handsome (lol I know), and this used to be a source of annoyance at first.. but today I'm like used to this "trait" of hers and constantly trying to develop a right way to deal with it. I believe it's about understanding one another and also accepting it the way it is. Some people just can't help it not to desire to own their partners, it kinda depends on their masochistic/sadistic traits and all. So acceptance is key. I may not like a person who talks real quick but my girlfriend does, yet I still love her regardless. And finding a way of yours to deal with your partner's jealousy is one big fat sign of love. ❤
i think sometimes its a bit healthy to get a little jealous it shows that you care and it opens up a convo and the couple get to understand each other and open up but overall you have a great point sometimes its not healthy at all and it brings just arguments and even ends with a breakup
Not only this vid was great but also all these little sketches were super cute :)
this was such an important video!! I am so glad that this topic is being addressed. PREACH!!!
DAMN IT I SHIP IT
Rose thorn
OMFG I thought I was the only 1
Rose thorn. omg same
Rose thorn same
Rose thorn during the video I just sang at the back of my head "chocolate and vanilla swirl" with crazy eyes voice.... I ship them so bad!! both so beautiful and intelligent!!
started singing ebony and ivory when I saw the thumbnail. I think we all ship them.
This video helped me so much!! Thank you!!!!!!
YAS, ILOVEYOU STEVIE 💕
Danielle De Waal
I love your new content and how you talk about sex and relationships. You give a point of view so open that everybody can feel related to what you say. Thank you so much Stevie!
KEEP ON EMPOWERING PEOPLE
I feel like they are going to be dating soon I just feel it in my soul
I think a little bit of jealousy is perfectly fine. Also note that sometimes just communicating that maybe you feel left out of that you want to spend time w them could fix it.
I really love this video, you both talked about something very important, as soon as I feel like jelousy I think on how much I care my relationship, and the confidence we have, then I realise that is just stupid and with no sense at all, is better not to let this take power of our words or actions!!!! Love you girls, you are awsome !!!
Talk with your partner, confidence is the key, even if this sounds like a cliché
Okay but like I feel like we all just need to acknowledge that Ari asking Stevie out was the cutest fucking thing ever
the comment you made around 5:15 about being attracted to someone else.. attraction is one thing but emotional cheating is a real thing.. if you have feelings for someone else beyond attraction, that's a problem.. but no you don't die once you enter a relationship, you still have eyes and can be attracted to anyone but you don't allow yourself to catch feelings for someone when you're already in a relationship... that's about the choices you make
thank you so much for doing this .. love u guys 😍😘
Currently in a poly relationship with two others who are new. It can be tough to navigate the insecurities at first, but being patient will work things out.
I needed this. Thank y'all 😭❤️ Best video I've seen in awhile because it's so REAL and authentic and valuable
Yaaaaas a video with Ari 🤗🤗 time to count how many times Stevie blushes 😂
Wooo! The first video you've posted since I've become a patron!
My ship feels are going through the roof!!!
Insightful and funny! This is why i love and sub to both Stevie and Ari.
Alwayz Dart happy it was helpful!
I just love you two on a camera ❤ this is so beautiful 😘 also PREACH girls for REAL
Idk why, but Stevies voice is like my favorite thing
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH STEVIE THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU AND BEING SO INSPIRING TO ME LOVE LOVE LOVE ❤️❤️❤️
uoou you guys just described what I feel and keep trying to avoid because I know this is a kind of wrong feeling and I know the person doesnt belong to me, but at the end the feeling is there. Loved the video bytheway 💜💜
Thank you for this video! I needed a reminder about how to deal with jealousy.
I really believe you lovely Ladies are right on point with this video! I just recently had a discussion about this with my roomy and how she and her bf restric each other so much because they are both so jealous.... I never understood how relationships with so much jealousy work...
THAT AWKWARD MOMENT WHEN STALLY IS STILL IN MY HEART BUT I SHIP IT SO HARD I'M CONFUSED
CAN YOU JUST DATE ALREADY
emma IPanda right