Winning at Home - T.D. Jakes and Serita Jakes Discuss Relationships at ILS 2023
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- My bride Serita Jakes joined me to break down why it’s so critical to win at home. I don’t care if you’re an entrepreneur, CEO, preacher, politician, or parent - your family, your home is your support and sanctuary. It will drive everything you do.
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My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.
God is great ❤
Thank God for life. Congratulations 🎉
Praise God!!!! That was nothing but the blood of Jesus!!! Praying for a healthy mommy and baby!!!
Amen!!!❤❤❤
Thank You Jesus
"Speak without being offensive. Listen without being defensive. Always leave your opponent with their dignity. " 🙌🏽🙌🏽 work in progress!
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Yes!!! That part
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Hello, at what minute of the video was the quote you said?
Parenting is a calling with no expiration date 🙌❤️.
Amen it is
Death lol but God
It is my job to “love you broken” THAT IS POWERFUL & DEEP!! 🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 -TD JAKES
I opened the comments and started reading as it started. Read yours as of they were saying "love you while 'you're' broken" but he said it like "love you while IM broken" and I just thought it was beautiful that it works both ways. 🥲
"Speak without being offensive. Listen without being defensive. Always leave your opponent with their dignity". Marriages can be saved just by practicing this one!
I would like to share your comment on my Social media pages?
@@kimwellz9172 Please go ahead and share
Pastor Sarah’s face when her daddy (Bishop Jakes) when said thong literally made me screamed with laughter. I love and respect this family so much. They’ve impacted my life in so many ways and seasons. Thank you Jesus for blessing generations with this beautiful anointed family.
You are soooo right!
Give TD Jacks the credit. That's something to remember.
Bishop said "there is no one in this world he respect more than his wife." And his wife never disrespected him. Glory hallelujah 🙏 I Love y'all 41 years of seasons. 🙌
Hallelujah ❤️🙏🏽
Amen Amen
Hey
I did not expect Lady Serita to mess me up like this...I broke down in tears listening to her words of wisdom. ❤
She's so wise and graceful
Lady Grace is more like it... She is an example to follow
I love hearing her speak!!!
Good mess❤
Awhhh
So Profound
41yrs of Experience 😢❤
I listened with tears running down my face
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So did I
"Speak without being offensive; listen without being defensive; & always leave your opponent with their dignity"
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I love it
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Thank you for typing in the chat.❤
That’s so good. Speak without being offensive. Listen without being defensive. Always leave your opponent with their dignity.
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That part 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 well said
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Faith To move mountains Fantastic comment. Amen.
My husband shared this link with me and I'm really glad I got to listen to this deep message! Totally worth it❣️❣️
Your husband is a gift from God, be blessed.
Same! My husband sent this to me as well and it took me weeks to watch it.. but once I did… I love him even more.
Winning at home is the stage that we all should conquer.
It’s a pleasant pleasure to have you as a member of my ministry, your believe and constant support in growing the ministry of the potter’s house and it’s a great blessings to me which I really appreciate so very much. If I may ask for how long have you been a member of my ministry?❤️
"Speak without being Offensive
Listen without being Defensive
And always leave your opponent with their Dignity"
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Speak without being offensive, Listen without being defensive,
(and even if there is no resolution)
And always leave your opponent with their dignity.
Elaborate widely kindly 😁
Speak without being offensive, Listen without being defensive(and even if there is no resolution) always leave your opponent with their dignity
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Hello, at what minute of the video was the quote you said?
Whenever I see Serita and Bishop together I get so excited! It's a true privilege, honor, and blessing to hear them together!🧡🧡🧡🤣
As a wife and mother, this touched me immensely.
Motivational speaking will do that yo you
“She never disrespected me as a sign of strength!” ❤🙌🏾
You know....❤
Gold
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Chile let the church say amen
16:28 He who findeth a wife, finds a good thing. A wife is not just a lady or a woman, but many greater things, from a supporter, to an enabler, to a prayerful warrior, full of patience and perseverance and tolerance, full of unconditional love, may look weak outward but stronger than a man inside. Many things can be found in and learned from a wife.
I am a single woman that just turned 50 but I still believe that God has my husband waiting to find me, and I want to be prepared. This is not just for married couples but for single people as well. You can still be called too marriage no matter what age you are. I’m going to treasure all the wisdom that was said. Thank you both for being so transparent . God continue to bless your union and family!❤
I have to share that I wrote a prayer list down and told the Lord He knows what I needed and I met my husband less than two months later. He was and is what is on my list. ♥️
God will honor your faith and give you a partner that you both will serve the lord in love
Love yourself ain't nothing out here. You're dreaming
Got married at 75; single 50 years! With God, all things are possible!
@@gypsytownsend2292I was 48 and just went to Destruction sinning and didn't even know my whole family in Christ and holiness church. I lost everything... wasting away TRICKED BADLY and TV this whole world when I was nothing like this. Tricked and Disgusting. Mess my body and life up not KNOWING SPIRITUAL LIFE AND GOD. I am #2 of 7 children and both of my parents are holiness and I ruined me
People who were supposed to help only made things worst by telling me WORLD ways not praying and helping me. I shouldn't be this way at all. In my 20 I should have been rooted and doing well.
“Their self-discovery is not your failure “ That’s good.
His wife is so genuine
has a nurturing aura too.
total queen vibes!
She always has been
Absolutely 💯
Frtrr4 all pop😮
I am standing for my marriage while my wife left me and God told me he was going to fix it and until this day I haven't started another relationship because I want my children to know when you get married you honor your vows
I am standing for my marriage as well because my husband left. I am trusting God for restoration and this was SO much wisdom. I wish I had know this earlier in our relationship. I’ve learned so much. Literally as I’m watching this I have been praying that my husband comes upon this Word and truly receive it. I know if I send it he wouldn’t listen to it. But how much greater would our family and our home be if we truly received this and lived by it.
Ohh keep strong as you mentor your children
God be with you.💛😇🙏
God is a good God 🙏
Wow. God bless you sir!
I love Serita! When she speaks wisdom flows like a river! Such eloquence 💕
"Thank you for 41 years of making it easy for me to come home" powerful statement
I literally saw this comment as he was saying it!
Wow Syretta is just as powerful as he is !! Beautiful words First Lady
Speak without being offensive.... Listen without being defensive and always leave your opponent with your dignity.... This one hit me hard
Man this guy gets better with age, Blessing to you and your wife. Thank you for your service to God and us. Minister of reconciliation in deed.
Their relationship is so beautiful!
Family is the gymnasium to exercise our love in💥
I'll have to watch this again and again....until every bit of the message sinks in.
Extremely life changing. I'm going to share the link with my friends who are married
What a profound message. Every family member should hear this.
That's awesome!
Being sharing while watching
God bless you!
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 so POWERFUL!!!!!
This had me in tears, I long for a mothers love like this!!
It’s a pleasant pleasure to have you as a member of my ministry, your believe and constant support in growing the ministry of the potter’s house is a great blessings to me which I really appreciate so very much. Notwithstanding for how long have you been a member of my ministry?❤️
Tell the truth Bishop. Every day is not always sunshine and daisies. But we fight to win! We need to fight to win at home! Love and prayers to this man of God for telling life's truths. ❤🎉😊
I Love Mama Serita Jake's for her articulation and full of Wisdom. All love from Kenya
This is deep... I cannot listen to it just once. My wife made it very easy for me to come home. There where seasons of winter which took a huge knock on us. But because we invested a lot in our summer seasons, our approach was " this is a turn, it will pass" As a former motorbike rider myself, you have just reminded me of the strong cleaving during turns. The Jake's family is our role model. May the Lord do you good.
Now I’m excited and positive about everything that used to scare me about marriage. I feel empowered to make the best decisions going forward. What a privilege to watch this as a single person.
*Brother!!! STEVETECH...you are a GENIUS in every way!!!...thank you so much for your great work...I could just see all of my partner's conversations on my phone without touching her phone. ..thank you very much for your precious help...you have a new follower and I will recommend you on my social networks...THANKS A LOT OF GENIUS!!!...SUPER CRACK!!!...*
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People have to put there pride to death in a marriage and wear forgiveness like a garment keep your marriage to yourself and God. You can overcome many marital problems this way. And pray without ceasing ❤. This message is heaven sent. Thank you God for giving me a heart to hear and receive this!
I am struggling with pride
@@sellyalembi-mamasdiary2600 l struggled with it to, but God put me in several situations where l had to depend on others. He exposed my inner weaknesses to the very person l had hid them from, that forced me to be honest and real. To open my mouth and tell them l needed them, pride had become a spirit in my life. When it's just a word. It's OK to need your husband. God put marriages together for a reason. I had to humble myself, in return God rearranged my husband's thoughts and feelings about me and our marriage. Sometimes we are blocking our blessings even though we pray for God to fix others, we have to ask Him to fix us to. He will do it! He will make everything work out for the good of those that love Him. I'm a witness. Instead of prideful think greatful
THIS Message IS TRUTH BE
TOLD.
The world needed to hear this chat. Very powerful.
Speak without being offensive and listen without being defensive 👌
Serita u are so right. When my kids were little I didn't like or love myself so I was a miserable mother ND it took many years of therapy but God was the only one that healed my family ND myself.
We love u Bishop TDJakes
This lady of few words, I think this is the first time I have heard her voice. But she opened her mouth and speaks peace. I love it !
Hi, thanks for sharing
How are you doing?
Hey 👋👋
"Speak without being Offensive, Listen without being Defensive and even if there is no resolution always leave your opponent with their Dignity". Such a hard pill to swallow but is required for a successful marriage with God being the center. Amen
In other words, apply bible priincipals of kindness, love and forgiveness.
Hit me like a ton of bricks
This got me all the way together. Im gonna take this disruptive time in my life as an opportunity to correct some things, acknowledge some folks and be accountable for my past actions. Thank you God for putting this message in my feed this morning. This transformation had me defensive in the beginning but my God, I’ve been chiseled and broken down in the most amazing way. I will never speak I’ll or be offensive to anyone. I will always give grace and mercy as my father has given me. Thank you for second chances. Thank you for favor. Thank you for growth mindset in Jesus name Amen!!! Blessings to anyone that that reads this message. I release all bitterness and anger. I welcome love, healing, health, wealth and prosperity to all and myself. Thank you God!!!!
“For better or worse, rich or poor, in sickness and in health, forsaken all others.”
Marriage / Parenthood is a process; progressive ministry that requires home harmony 🥰🙏🏽
I loved this conversation! So many golden nuggets of wisdom being shared by these two seasoned saints from a married couple's perspective. Thank you Bishop and First Lady Serita Jakes for sharing just a portion of your "treasure chest" of wisdom from a spiritual, as well as a practical perspective. May God continue to abundantly bless your union all the days of your lives....❤❤❤
I AM VERY EXCITED.FIVE HOURS AGO,MY SON POSTED BISHOP AND FIRST LADY SERITA JAKE'S PLATFORM TO MY PHONE.YEARS BACK I WAS PRIVILEGED TO READ ONE OF HIS BOOKS * REPOSITIONING YOURSELF *NOW I HAVE BEEN LISTEN TO HiS SHARING *WARNING AT HOME.MAY GOD CONTINUE TO REFILL AND INCREASE YOUR MENTAL CAPACITY. GOD BLESS BOTH OF YOU AND ALL THE PEOPLE SEATED LISTENING IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN🙏
I’ve listened to hundreds of sermons by Bishop Jakes, this is ONE of the best !!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
First time listening to this beautiful couple. We need more couples like this full of wisdom. Us younger people need to LISTEN 🙏
all the way from Zimbabwe .... thank you Bishop ... after listening to this .... l had to quickly go and apologize to my man (had a fight yesterday)...
Ita ..i am sorry Farai😂
We need a whole session with Lady Serita Jakes …glory to God! The Lord bless and replenish your strength.
Hi, thanks for sharing
How are you doing?
What a healthy King sharing he’s love to he’s wife and family …Serita your a Golden Voice
You are not at home because you have all you need but because you are committed to make it a place of peace and tranquillity
I've never heard Mrs. Jakes speak until this video and she gave me chills. Things don't matter when the SOUL is rich.
Thus is my 1st time hearing his wife as well. I ❤her! My new Shero.
She usually don’t speak on Pastor Jakes’ platform but she does a lot of women ministries. She works with Sarah Jakes also . She is anointed.
Oh she's a powerhouse... you need to research her vide, you'll be blessed
I love me some Serita. She is the epitome of a woman, mom and a wife.
In a tough spot of our marriage right now and this was definitely needed. Thank you 💗
So am I!
I love Her. She’s soft and strong.Serita, Bishop,and entire family. I admire you ALL. My heart is full.
Hello 👋 how're you doing today??.
I truely meant that. I see class, however, for her to raise 5 and carry 1. That’s what made her strong.
@@reneerichards3277 Where are you from?
Serita jakes yessss mother spoke the word AMEN!!! 🙏🏾
I love this. Lady Serita is such a classy, confident and so full of grace.
So true 💯
I’ve bit the blood of out of my tongue 👅 I now can see all perspective Glory to God
Hello 👋 how're you doing today??.
Thank you Jakes Family for your time honesty and gems!! Please write a book like this on family !! We need it
Hello Lekia
Bishop and Lady Serita Jakes are just blowing my mind with the rawness of this segment. It's not old school love as Bishop says it's real love beyond the different types that are displayed today. It's real love!
Amazing
@@valeriegipson3734 "Simply" amazing!
@@valeriegipson3734 Not that it doesn't take a great deal of humility for marriage to work. When Lady Serita said that her focus was to create a home for Bishop and thier family is something she done with special attention and favor from God. I appreciate the strength she displayed which is often mistaken for weakness in society today and in past times as well. I was humbled by the entire segment.
MIND BLOWN!!!
@@ccspeaks3037 Whenever I think about this segment with Bishop and Lady Serita Jakes, I will agree with the beauty of their experiences and exchanges with one another. You can't rehearse love like this. It is original sent from God and made manifest before men. My mind is blown as well!!
Even if the children are all grown and out the house, we can still win at home!
I wanna meet serita SO badly she makes me cry, laugh, and the Holy Spirit in her makes me wanna jump outta my skin. I love how soothing her voice is.
Yes First Lady! You build it for you first. Thank you! Confirmation ❤️💋🙏🏾
Hello Ruthie
I have never cried so hard! My God!! This is good to the soul!!!
Look at this Queen! I love you all!!! The power & glory are all upon her. Thank You, Lord, for my Jakes family. I love me some of them!🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤
That was a great word for building Families 🎉🎉
My God this whole sermon was for MEEEEEE😢 Lord God I thank you!!
My husband & I watched “Winning at Home” this morning. What a Blessing!! 🥰🥰 Serita Jakes you are a blessing to all women! I love you! 😘
Its her "Shut Up" for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm not sure what's more powerful here. Bishop's incredible message or the way First Lady Serita stood by his side lovingly supporting and encouraging him for most of the message. Both were equally impactful in different ways. This was one of the most powerful things I've ever seen in my entire life. I need more of them together on a stage, please and thank you! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Growing up in a broken home, I finally get the revelation of what truly makes a home. I get it and see it. Without this revelation, I can see why I couldn't settle down without lots of turbulence.
Ms. Serita is such a beautiful soul
This needs to be on the world news!
Preach it. Wish I know how else to post this message
LOL I KNOW THATS RIGHT
This gives me hope. Being with my wife for 17yrs with 13 of those yrs being marriage, I'm thankful that we are still pushing. We have definitely had strong up and stronger downs. But we're still making pushing. Thank you, Jesus.
Bishop and First Lady Jakes this was phenomenal! I feel everyone that sees this passes it on- I will! Love you both! Continued blessings and favor!🙌🏼👍🏼👏🏻💞🌹🌹🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Paster Jake's you are the most wonderful preacher I ever heard of God bless you ❤️ 💗 ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I lost my partner to another woman and they are in love and happy together. This woke up me up and shook me to my core and opened my eyes to my flaws. But I am going to live for God and learn how to be a proper wife to the next man.
Wow,🙏🏾☝🏾🙌🏾💪🏾👑💝✌🏾💯‼️, it's reasons like that that make me not want nobody but GOD🤷🧘🧘🧘🧘💯‼️MY TRUTH.
In life we live and learn. self love is Important. Applaud you for strength. Keep shining and your love will come.
What's for you will be for you. We have people in our lives for reasons and seasons, you have to focus on you and find happiness within by the grace of God and love to loved again one day. Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side like you think when it comes to your ex.
Speak without being offensive , listen without being defensive, always leave your opponents with their dignity ❤️❤️
Mrs. Serita Jakes brings joy to my heart. Her voice is an example of how a mothers should be.❤
This message is so needed in this day and age where everyone and everything seems to be disposable pray. Thank you Bishop and First Lady Jakes.
Such a good father. He really cares about his children and very devoted to his wife
This was definitely a blessing to my LIFE..Thank you Lord❤❤❤
One watch isn't just enough. So much wisdom to learn from. Icelebrate you two
Mrs Jakes brought tears to my eyes when she spoke of home, that's exactly how I feel about home/family. 😢
Hello Sandra how are you doing today...i hope you are enjoying the teaching like i'm doing currently?
If you messed up you still got value.. thank you lord for grace 🙏🏿
The Bible scripture of forgiveness.
2nd viewing...gleaned something new...my take away 21:30-33:36, 35:28-51:37❤❤❤ooowwee
Creating A Home Safe Environment... Good God Almighty!! Bishop and First Lady Preached!!! 😂❤❤❤ Amen Amen Amen!!!
I can’t stand how y’all make grown people cry! In particular ME! ♥️ dang
I still watch and share this video. I believe every family should see it. Transformational encouragement for families to move forward in kingdom legacy.
Bishop!! You guys are a BLESSING FROM HEAVEN!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR LIFE 🎉❤🙏
Ooh Bishop! Thank you for feeding us. We got fed👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 God bless you you sir🙏🏾
Hi, how are you doing?
Such a powerful message regarding marriages, parenting and restoration of broken relationships in all areas. As a divorcee, I shall keep these words in my mind, heart and soul. My tools for my next relationship. Thank you so much Bishop TD Jakes and First Lady Serita Jakes.
It touched my heart immensely. May the Lord use it to unit my family back which I have ever long for.
I love Bishop and Lady Jakes for always keeping it real. They need to make this a series....
It’s a pleasant pleasure to have you as a member of my ministry, your believe and constant support in growing the ministry of the potter’s house and it’s a great blessings to me which I really appreciate so very much. If I may ask for how long have you been a member of my ministry?❤️
AMEN and AMEN Bishop and Lady Serita Jakes. Thank you for sharing this with us. His grace is sufficient for us. We need to do better now. No more excuses! Lord, help us all.
Man this Sermon was beyond a blessing!!! I took so much from it!
Thanks for these valuable lessons. May God continue to bless your home.❤
What a word, my 2 favorite people. Thank you for the words of wisdom Td Jakes and Serita🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This message is such a blessing... God bless you Bishop and Lady Jakes. You're truly an inspiration.
Thank you Bishop Jakes and Serita Jakes for this discussion.
An experience with GOD in your marriage is enough to get you to the finish line(until death do us part) I love this