I HAVE TO EXPLAIN…

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ธ.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 861

  • @Iamcassyful
    @Iamcassyful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +879

    I personally just feel sad for what has happened to you guys, especially to those who have followed you from the start, I am one of them. I guess with Jon's video it gave me the impression that you were just trying to be strong, but I don't see you as happy with what's happened. I guess no one will be happy being apart from someone who you loved for 11 years. Don't worry about what people say; none of us really knows what goes on in your house or between the two of you. I would still hope that you would fix it, but if everything still fails, we would just support you, even though you chose a different path. Sending love!

    • @dmfdn25
      @dmfdn25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Exactly. People post nasty comments because they take sides in people's personal lives just because they post content online. Janni is loved by all of us who respect her and Jon's privacy and wish them the best. For those who are hateful, they have their own issues.

    • @lionelchapis5572
      @lionelchapis5572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dear Janni, we are and will always love you. Of course we are sad about the separation. Don’t listen too much (I know it’s probably very hard) to the haters. They should not define your live. Take care.

    • @TonyCarrollPassion4Motorsport
      @TonyCarrollPassion4Motorsport 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cassy well said** Tc x

    • @gailevasara4299
      @gailevasara4299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right to the point 😌

    • @getmary101
      @getmary101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! We love you Janni

  • @alisonhyde5373
    @alisonhyde5373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    I’m so sorry, breaks my heart that people are so cruel. You both always have been an inspiration, as individuals, as a couple, as parents and now and co-parents.

    • @alisonhyde5373
      @alisonhyde5373 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Gringo Loc0 You sound sad and angry

  • @niklasfalemar9565
    @niklasfalemar9565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Being raised by parents that split when I was only 3 y/o but remained frendly, I can tell you that it warms my heart that Jon and you can still remain friends. It'll make all the difference in the world for Leon and Leia! Keep it up and lots of love to the entire family!

  • @ciej1684
    @ciej1684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just say whose idea it was to get divorce at First. Who said it first

    • @jjjyli686
      @jjjyli686 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      U already know. Jon was never wearing the pants in the relationship

  • @happylifewithgolden
    @happylifewithgolden 2 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    You DO NOT have to explain anything! Bad comments were under Jon's video. It's not your audience, they don't know you... We are with you Janni. Hugs and love.

    • @Choune991
      @Choune991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They were under her video posted on her channel, go have a look

    • @95lal
      @95lal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      You don’t know her either you weirdo lol

    • @layla9377
      @layla9377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@95lal at least we are her audience?!? And if you don’t know someone, then no one to send hate for situations that they don’t know about

    • @lindaevans9906
      @lindaevans9906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!!

    • @hectorgonzales8822
      @hectorgonzales8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop eating glue. It will affect your tiny brain.

  • @LindseyDara
    @LindseyDara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    When I watched it (the last video) I didn’t get any bad sensations, and I recognized that it was for your channel first, I don’t know why, for me it was clear. And even though I don’t know you personally, I knew by intuition that you aren’t the person to cheat or do terrible things, I can tell it’s just not your character. You are an amazing mom and don’t listen to the stupid trolls. You are a classy mother, business women, leader, and this too you will overcome! Many blessings to you and your family’s future!

    • @halioman
      @halioman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I second everything above, what utter nonsense people say...people read far too much into what they think they are seeing. As you say, family know you, and that is all that matters. It is what it is and you and Jon have bought us all plenty of joy over the years. Life goes on people. Keep you unkind thoughts and opinions to yourself. Seriously! Lots of love from Australia.

    • @milire2668
      @milire2668 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      theyre both some kind of celebrity. they voluntarily share their lives with the internet. ofc people gon talk bs. anywayz, they prolly shouldnt expect their real followers to understand if they aint explainin shit to these followers. they shoulda been more straightforward from the getgo i guess. idk, im just another retard. peace peace

  • @heth300
    @heth300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It speaks volumes to you and Jon's level of commitment to being good parents and good friends that you're able to peacefully co-exist. I love it! I said it in your last video, my husband's parents divorced when he was 12 years old, and they remained best friends for the rest of their lives. I look forward to more videos from both of you.

    • @Rin-id2sd
      @Rin-id2sd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's al just a show lol, they have to make content somehow

    • @DjMiBsweden
      @DjMiBsweden 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rin-id2sd sure... U dont know a Swede so zipp it hater why even comment if u are a hater... Wow go back to moms basement

  • @laeticiasara7524
    @laeticiasara7524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You were my number 1 role models and I thought I always wanted a happy relationship like yours. I wish you both all the best and maybe one day you will find back together or will find someone else. You are still the best ❣️

    • @Sam-pn2kc
      @Sam-pn2kc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You watch this junk lol

  • @madelynmcgaughey6793
    @madelynmcgaughey6793 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think Janni and Jon were very compatible before they had children. Children seem to have not been the best option for their relationship even if they are incredible parents. Not for them together is what I mean. Just my opinion ❤

  • @ashley85919
    @ashley85919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Having been a long-time watcher of the vlog I have gathered you are a tough cookie and you've never been a person who is super emotional. For example, if I were to go off of just your videos and feedback, I'd think giving birth is not that bad, it's nothing to be too scared of - which, watching other vloggers, I know it's not the case. But that's just Janni, she's tough and she can handle it. That's what I saw in the last video too, strong Janni, the show must go on Janni. Whereas I think Jon is more facially expressive with his emotions. Anyways, hope you're doing better babe ❤️ I resent that you were sent such horribleness your way coz you honestly didn't deserve that ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kaysha
    @kaysha 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You shouldn't have to explain yourself. Sending you healing energy. Don't let the mean ignorants spoil your energy

  • @EH1670
    @EH1670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Okay but what's wrong with people?
    Not one of these ugly thoughts entered my brain while watching the previous video.
    Stop projecting your own negativity on others, the world doesn't need it.
    "Loving people live in a loving world, hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world. "
    Take care Janni, don't worry about the haters and focus on your own healing!

    • @privat6558
      @privat6558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mate we all know how women are. It's obvious in this case as well.

    • @getmary101
      @getmary101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right, I was thinking the same thing. No one truly knows everything going on behind closed doors. Just because you think they know them from following them for years doesn't mean you actually know EVERYTHING! They're going through a hard time, why would you knock them down even more?

    • @lottoo5693
      @lottoo5693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hope jon finds himself a better GF and ghost her and only contact her when it comes to the children

    • @maxinerijckmans4034
      @maxinerijckmans4034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!

    • @nickwoodward3034
      @nickwoodward3034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Lot too . Jon will hate your comment. did you not watch?

  • @veronika350
    @veronika350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It is so refreshing to see a bit more of the faceted you, not just the happy-vlogging you.
    Screw all of those with the mindset who blame the woman/girl in these situations.
    Can't wait to see more of your journey as Janni 2.0 🙌

  • @aeoj
    @aeoj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I have followed Jon since I was 12 and he was competing in x-games, I wrote about him in school like “This is my idol”. When you guys started dating I felt like you were perfect together and to this date you really are. It’s totally fine that you are divorced and stuff but just seeing you hanging out is the best thing in the world! You really normalise the fact that a divorce isn’t the biggest thing and have to mean blocking each other!
    Thank u for u being u Janni! We love u

  • @isat.1057
    @isat.1057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s always so easy to be mean with the woman/wife more than with the man/husband, especially when he seems more emotionnally. If it was the other way a round, he will probably don’t have the same mean or intense reaction from people. Don’t worry, the real one love you and support you. Sending you much love and good vibes ❤ really mean it ❤

  • @curlybrunete
    @curlybrunete 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When I first saw Janni on YT I thought 💭 who is this inspirational girl 💙 she was always inspiring us about fashion and lifestyle and now she inspires about life like there is life after divorce 💎Everything happens in life so we need to be strong 💙thanks for these amazing years sharing with us 🎈and I Love You

  • @DANIELJRAINEY
    @DANIELJRAINEY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I understand that you have to give some sort of explanation because you’re life is somewhat public, but you still deserve your privacy ! You both are great amazing people

  • @Ssaraedlund
    @Ssaraedlund 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Det är fan sinnessjukt att du går igenom en separation och måste sitta och förklara dig på detta sätt. Känner verkligen med dig. All kärlek till dig Janni!❣

  • @dzagaleta
    @dzagaleta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Be you! You don’t need to explain yourself, live and enjoy your life! I wish you and Jon the best! Keep putting out amazing content!

    • @hectorgonzales8822
      @hectorgonzales8822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yea be you! Divorce a few more times like your daddy! But be you!

    • @ITSBIGBOY
      @ITSBIGBOY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like she wants new action

  • @turkanfeyzullayeva9720
    @turkanfeyzullayeva9720 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Whatever happens, whatever the reason .I understand that breaking up with someone who was your soulmate,who was your life partner is one of the saddest and difficult thing ever .So stay strong

    • @duohere3981
      @duohere3981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Does she seem sad to you? In the original video? To me Jon seems more sad. She kept saying nothing happened, and now she goes out saying “you don’t know the whole story”
      Lol

  • @stephengaudet4520
    @stephengaudet4520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is exactly how influencers need to address things. Good for you and I wish you both and your family the best.

  • @Marta44
    @Marta44 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    For me Janni, showing such stability meant that you had suffered a lot before. ❤️

    • @CapitalJC
      @CapitalJC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      or she just didn't care and already detached before the actual divorce

  • @edshellard
    @edshellard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please tell us the full story...... its so sad to see this play out, and the undertones to both your content is so, sad.

  • @akihelin8391
    @akihelin8391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Children’s real home is their parents relationship. If relationship is working even when parents are separated kids are good and safe.

  • @olivierbailly
    @olivierbailly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    We loved it when you were a couple. We love you already in your new definition! what an example! each of your mental balance is what matters most to your fans of the first hour. Cheer up for the ups and downs! We're not leaving... we're staying here :-)

    • @getmary101
      @getmary101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said!!

    • @rchunter3569
      @rchunter3569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, you put words to my thoughts for me. We support you just by sending good vibes. Please try to ignore any negativity, in any form. Thank you for letting us know, too. Nice one.

  • @marijnjorissen6333
    @marijnjorissen6333 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Janni, being a full time parent is the biggest grow proces you can do and it is the hardest. The kids trigger all day long the pain inside of us that we cannot see. The kids keep triggering them till we cannot bear it anymore and we see that we need to heal our pain. And this is possible! You gave a good example by all the mess children make during the day. You learned to deal with it. The hardest part are their emotions, because our emotions were suppressed as a child, so we don't know how to handle it. Aletha Solter wrote books that can help you greatly with that. You take your responsability with your children, that is so powerful. It is beautiful to see that you and Jon are still hanging out, you will get through this with a beautiful future in front of you. All the best!

  • @michaelschneider3446
    @michaelschneider3446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that's the sad side being well known in the Social Media. people projecting their own issues to things and being too much into foreign business as they have no control in their own life. but that kind of friend zone divorce is the worst one you can do to both yourself.

  • @MiaMajaLoevmose
    @MiaMajaLoevmose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I’m just so happy to see you two, doing all this stuff with your kids together, and showing them how family love looks like. Even though you aren’t in love anymore, you can still hang out together and laugh together, in the presence of your kids. But also when the kids are asleep. They are so lucky to have such mature and loving parents. Sometimes life doesn’t go as planned, and that’s just how it is. If you two has made the decision, that it’s best for you and your family not to be together, then that’s the right decision. All of us viewers can say so much and believe so much, but only you two know how things really are and feels. All my love and good feelings towards you two. ❤

  • @piske020
    @piske020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Amazing to get a notification from you Janni! Don’t mind to much what people think of you! I have been following you since the beginning and you are a amazing person! Stay strong and please keep making vlogs! ❤️

  • @koenvanderharten5381
    @koenvanderharten5381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you guys; heartbroken to see you apart, but unbelievable strength to keep it up in this way!

  • @marilynlucas3072
    @marilynlucas3072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am feeling for both of you as some decisions are very hard to be made . Personally I have watched you before you were married and watched you falling in love and have beautiful babies. I was worried , I noticed you seem to have lost a little weight and was worried it was health related. I am 71 , my husband and I split when we had 2 kids . We did get back together and we were married 50 years. Peace to both of you and enjoy your beautiful kids. You will remember them for the rest of your life. Love seeing all of you and will continue to be a faithful subscriber.

  • @amyatt25
    @amyatt25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think its great the way you both are handling this divorce. Stay true to yourselves, don't listen to the toxic talk. Just keep looking after yourselves and doing what's best for you and your family. All the best to you both x

  • @trumpwon8972
    @trumpwon8972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My parents got divorced. They are cordial with each other but honestly their divorce really made me sad. Wounds are tough.
    I wish you both all the best, and I hope you both can forgive each other and reconcile.

  • @santa1423
    @santa1423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like hugging you. Chin up and do whatever makes you happy. You’ll find it eventually

  • @albinosquirlz
    @albinosquirlz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So I guess an era has come to an end. Thanks for the years of cool videos. I started watching Jon's videos cause it was a fun escape watching his blessed lifestyle....living in Monaco, cars, yachts, travel, parties, products, shopping, food....it was so great.
    Once the domestication took over, things gradually lost it's fabulous playboy lifestyle vibe.
    It was a fun escape while it lasted...thanks again guys✌

  • @lovelifementoring5399
    @lovelifementoring5399 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Communication is the most important between you both and your children. There is so much support and love, a lot of parents staymg together in a marriage struggle to give that. 🥰

  • @annina3617
    @annina3617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you are such a strong woman and this situation is sooo hard for both of you. this can happen to anybody and it shows how strong you guys are to make this step. to say OK we are just friends and not a love couple anymore. there are sooo many relationships without love, more than brother and sister, and they do never have the courage to do this step so they point on others doing this...
    you guys will get trough this and there will be ups and downs.
    whish you only the best and much love and trust in what you do! you are e precious soul❤

  • @bitak2095
    @bitak2095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are just so absolutely sweet and too kind with your reaction to the haters! I wish you all the best in these hard days and always. You are beautiful,strong and capable of going through the good and bad that this life has plan for you! You are a great mother! You are a wonderful TH-camr. You are simply a joy to watch. I am a divorced single mom and have a super friendly and loving relationship with my ex for the past 15 years. Everything is possible when you are a kind human! Much love to you and your family 😘😘🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @michaelasjoberg8856
    @michaelasjoberg8856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All kärlek till er! Så fint att ni fortfarande är vänner och gör allt för barnen. Tydligen så lätt för andra att tycka och tänka och vara elaka, men det säger mer om dom än om er.
    Tycker fortfarande det är väldigt roligt att följa dig och din familj!

  • @candisnohl
    @candisnohl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've only seen a handful of your videos throughout the years. But after watching this one I went and watched the video you referenced.
    It truly seemed mutually respectful.
    Nobody can ever fully know the intricate details of someone else's relationship. So as complete strangers, it would be wise for everyone to hesitate even commenting at all.
    To be fair, when things are consensually made public knowledge it also opens the door to speculation. Sometimes the words of others can make you feel understood and supported, but sometimes the backlash can feel discouraging and icky.
    Personally, when I'm presenting something I know to be real and true, I always try to remind myself to allow reactions to exist just as they are and I free myself from any obligation to manage those reactions or to endlessly stew about them in my head.
    A reaction should rarely ever be indicative of how wrong or right you are. Especially when it comes from people who have no real involvement in the situation.
    Don't allow people who have no business influencing your life, to take up even a minute of space in your day. Save that precious space for the people and things that do count.
    My last thought, for whatever it's worth, is this. Without knowing either of you, from what I've seen, it feels like each of you are trying to lead with love in a very difficult situation. Flaws and all, the compassion and respect you two have for each other is apparent. My only hope is that you will always give those things to yourself as well

  • @zoeywillems
    @zoeywillems 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So happy you made this video! This actually shows the "old" Janni. Your real feelings, real emotions.. Feel like haven't seen that for such a long time. TBH still balling my eyes out while watching the rest of the video of all of you spending time together. You were always the dream couple in my eyes, always making my bad days better feeling like real love does exist. And I guess it does but just in a different way, which is kinda heart braking but still so much love and respect how you're both going with it, still sticking up for each other, still as a team. I know It must not have been easy for all of you. I'm proud of the 2 of you for following your dreams and doing what feels best for you, no matter what the outside world thinks. It sounds crazy but after following you for what? nearly 10 years, you kinda feel like family and the both of you will always be such an inspiration ♥ Hang in there, it will get better 🙃So much love X 😘

  • @GWills-ys6rd
    @GWills-ys6rd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    In my opinion, once you decide to start a family you need to accept the commitment to the children and compromise accordingly. Divorce obviously comes with consequences and complications for the children. Divorce is usually a result of a complete marriage breakdown and I don't feel (with my limited knowledge) there was a complete breakdown in this case, boredom or lack of purpose can be resolved with a renewed focus on shared family values and ambitions. The pressure and demands on parents are at their highest when children are aged under 12, it becomes easier after this point as the children are less dependent. It helps to sometimes talk about an end-of-life scenario and work your way backwards as this is the ultimate moment of truth, what legacy would you like to leave behind for the family, material assets are somewhat irrelevant in terms of love and legacy. But whatever the outcome, I wish you love and peace.

    • @MrDriss1986
      @MrDriss1986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ye but what catch of a man is going to trust a woman who homewrecked a nice stand up guy like jon.
      She probably is thinking like she`s still 19 and with no kids..
      She indeed picks her own happiness over the well being of her own kids.
      This is not a lovable woman and a self, and the people that love her damaging individual.
      But other than that i dont believe she deserves any love, very good post.

  • @ashagregersen7698
    @ashagregersen7698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    God girl, just be you! Everyone copes differently! And you guys are just filming a glimpse of your life, i Think People forget that. You and Jon are so super strong, love following your adventures! ❤

  • @ruthj8828
    @ruthj8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry you feel you need to justify yourselves. I'll never understand how people can leave hate comments/DMs online, it's disgusting!!! All love your way, you don't need to explain yourself xx

    • @ruthj8828
      @ruthj8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Enjoyed the rest of the vlog!:)

  • @SandraFribergs
    @SandraFribergs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Är själv influenser och det är inte lätt med alla åsikter överallt. Ibland postar man saker som känns så naturligt och rätt men som tas emot helt fel… och alla åsikter som folk har och måste spotta ur sig. Har aldrig förstått detta! Stå på dig - ditt liv och dina val, även om vi inte alltid förstår andras val måste vi fortfarande respektera dem. Vi har inte hela bilden ❤

  • @EthanFromLondon
    @EthanFromLondon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Nice to see you guys being so civil and respectful plus friendly with each other. My hats off to you for dealing with screaming kids with a smile. Now I thank God for not giving me kids 😂

  • @Flower_El
    @Flower_El 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sending you both lots of love, I saw some of those vicious comments, no one deserves that!

  • @awakenthegreatnesswithin
    @awakenthegreatnesswithin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s the end of your chapter, this happens sometimes in life. Everyone thinks they can judge everyone else but they don’t look at their own problems. All the best for the future.

  • @georgiivanov8066
    @georgiivanov8066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some day when you're older you will find what big mistake you make and you will never find other man like him. To be married it is hard job and you need to fight for this and to give everything from you and not to think only for you. You are just a week person.

    • @marianna3253
      @marianna3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They already did the best they could. They've been to therapy etc. Sometimes there's nothing you can do. People fall out of love, it happens every day.

  • @Sunn637
    @Sunn637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having young kids is tough on any relationship,maybe you guys will find your way back to each other?
    You’re respectfulness of each other is lovely.
    Go easy on yourselves ❤

  • @lenielwe
    @lenielwe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tack för att ni väljer att dela och även förklara er situation. Det måste varit otroligt tufft att komma fram till detta beslut. Beundrar er styrka ❤️ Har verkligen svårt att förstå hur folk anser sig ha rätten att döma en situation/ andra personers liv utifrån och dessutom ösa ur sig massa hat istället för att fokusera på sitt eget. Tack för en fin video ❤

  • @gemmagray4266
    @gemmagray4266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Janni, I can’t even imagine having to go through something like this and then having to explain yourself to the world! You are obviously a beautifully natured person and deserve all the happiness in the world. You do you! 💕✨

  • @Fgdfgyrdfhjkkbgff
    @Fgdfgyrdfhjkkbgff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've never seen a divorce like this where the family stays together.

  • @kimgedult4717
    @kimgedult4717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can see your heart is breaking Janni. I think you never wanted to divorce and it’s even more sad because you ever wanted your children to be in this situation. I think you still love each other and maybe with time you and Jon will regain what you once had. There is still hope. Sending you lots of love and well wishes. ♥️

  • @caktus5
    @caktus5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The most important is not us and the social media but your kids.
    It's always difficult for kids to go through a divorce.
    I hope everything will be fine for them

  • @Ok-551
    @Ok-551 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m sorry, I obviously don’t know the entire story, but The last 15 yrs I’ve been dating single mothers. All educated, all had a dream of a family and a husband that provided for them while they stayed home for a few yrs. And I ask every one of them the same question. Why did you leave? And I have never heard one good reason for them doing what they did to their husbands and and children. Not one good reason. It’s always, “we felt more like friends” or “ he works too much”
    So basically, I don’t trust them not to get bored with me 5 yrs from now and I move on.
    Then, now they are approaching 50, and still single.
    Plenty of bad guys out there ladies, when you find a good one, honest and loyal, think carefully.

  • @duskodupor5383
    @duskodupor5383 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stay together, you are a good couple, you have everything others want, just lower your head and work on yourself... you have two beautiful children, don't let misunderstanding or infidelity get in your way, real life is more than that.

    • @marianna3253
      @marianna3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      why stay together if there's no love anymore (I know they still love each other like they said but I mean romantic love). It's better to separate than stay as in a loveless marriage like room mates, it's not healthy

    • @Joseph-C
      @Joseph-C ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marianna3253 The only difference between being in a "loveless" marriage and what they're doing currently is that they can see other people. That's it. You can still be married and live separately and do what they're doing now. If they need to see other people for some personal reason then that's their business, but obviously people are surprised by that after a decade long relationship and no explanation.

    • @marianna3253
      @marianna3253 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Joseph-C They did say they grew apart if I remember correctly. But I think it's easy to lose your relationship when you have 2 small kids. Still, it's none of our business. Whether they divorced for something like tax reasons (maybe in Sweden there are higher taxes for married people or something) or if it's for other reasons 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

  • @piratiniwood547
    @piratiniwood547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even if you are married, or you are a mother/father, it doesn't mean that you need to give up your life-goals, values, ideas etc, when it goes with the partner on your side.... Marvelous, if not then look for solutions. I think you both will manage that, some days better than other days, but hey... That's life.
    I have a Motto in my Whatsapp profile: Your opinion of me does not define who I am.
    I think this tells everything.
    Stay healthy, physically and mentally, and don't waste time with negative energy.

  • @lanceking4863
    @lanceking4863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Send you lots of love and support from Portugal. Been through a similar thing and with kids, it's always challenging...especially under the microscope of public opinion. Keep up the great work.

  • @sophieleddig7123
    @sophieleddig7123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All the love to you guys. You will find a way how everything works best for you two and your kids. No one should be allowed to judge that.

  • @locoliza1
    @locoliza1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sending you strength and encouragement. I secretly hope that after some time and healing you two can start just dating each other again and see where that takes you. 💕 can’t deny the chemistry, mutual appreciation and mutual respect.

  • @khrisi9410
    @khrisi9410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can't please everybody. You're both great people going through a very difficult life transition.

  • @nicolebezuidenhout3817
    @nicolebezuidenhout3817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You have a beautiful family ❤ thanks for sharing your life with us!

  • @tamunagegiadze6594
    @tamunagegiadze6594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dear Janni, there is no excuse for such hate and mean comment, no one has right to offend other people, I'm divorces, I have baby boy, he is 2,5 y, it's still the hardest period of my life, and I'm still taking medicine to overcome it, but people dont' see all the pain, struggle I'm going through, still, I'm very sad for you and Jon, I've been following you from the start, and you seemed to be happy, you have two kids, I'm always said when people get divorced :(

  • @lisa_and_christian
    @lisa_and_christian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Btw, I'm one of those loves the grocery store shopping segments! 🙊 And Leon dancing in the basket---sooooo cute!

  • @MommyIlona
    @MommyIlona 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU are the most important person in your life. Live your life how you want it and feel it. Hugging you ❤️

  • @khs17
    @khs17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Dearest Janni, people are just so cruel and heartless they have no clue at all. Yes I was completely shocked and extremely sad with the news of your marriage breakup. I honestly thought that You and Jon were the perfect couple who would last the distance. I wish both You and Jon nothing but the best and loads of love to your beautiful children. Love from Kirsten, Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺 ❤❤❤

  • @dwarfer2309
    @dwarfer2309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why even get divorced if they spend all there days together but whatever

  • @jennahei
    @jennahei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    wtf I'm shocked that people feel they have the right to comment on your relationship and divorce... it's your life and you CHOOSE to share your life with us. you don't need to explain anything. so grateful for your vlogs!

    • @melissa-jadewilliams8136
      @melissa-jadewilliams8136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed, she should really not have to explain herself and her choices to the internet trolls. Stay strong Janni ❤❤❤❤

    • @sebastianrojas7007
      @sebastianrojas7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then she and him shouldn't have made their lives public if they wanted privacy or to receive comments based on the way their relationship is going. Secondly we do have a right to comment because the relationship is in the public eye view granted some comments can blatantly disrespectful or crude and nasty while others can be actual criticism as to why the divorce even took place because if everything was fine in the relationship then they wouldn't have separated.

  • @tudor7245
    @tudor7245 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Damn, Janni. I can't even imagine how hard is to be a parent in those moment. Mad respect for both you and Jon for staying strong!

    • @fraided88
      @fraided88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She wanted a pursue model career so she broke up. Western women are trash today.

  • @vivashea1657
    @vivashea1657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's so brave of you to let us know what is going on and I am so sorry you are being punished with mean comments. You don't deserve that. Noone deserves that. I hope things will feel easier with time and I think you are a great person! Please don't let mean people dictate the way you feel about sharing this. I've loved your videos for 10 years now and you are doing amazing even if you are struggling. Thank you for everything!

  • @mesivigh7711
    @mesivigh7711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Guys you are amazing as person and parents. Life is happening.. but I am sure you will deal with this new chapter just fine. Don't care what other people think, we just see a little part from your life so we, as followers do not have the right to judge. Cheer up, love you both 👊😘

  • @lisa_and_christian
    @lisa_and_christian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just hate that you feel the need to explain. It's absolutely terrible that (some) people feel they have the right to judge how others should react in their own situation.
    Every single one of us is on an individual journey in this life. Our paths sometimes cross with others (friends, spouses, children, parents, strangers in an airport, etc). Sometimes it's forever, sometimes not. But at the end of the day, NO ONE has a totally easy journey. We're here to learn and love. Challenges come up and NONE OF US should judge how other people experience their journey. Much love to you, Janni. ❤Hope you heal from the unnecessary hurt others brought you. ❤‍🩹

  • @stephanieheizer3071
    @stephanieheizer3071 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweetie, no one can understand unless the are walking in your shoes! I pray for you and the kids and Jon! People need to understand this isn’t a movie with pretend characters and situations, we have been following real life! No one should be judging or hating you for doing the best you can to get thru this sad time! I’m so upset that people would attack you just because you don’t seem to be handling things the way they think you should! Stop judging everyone and let’s just be supportive and loving with one another! Life is tough! Love to you Janni, stay strong!!

  • @edwardfrench6
    @edwardfrench6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    You don’t have to explain! Life is a journey and sometimes our paths take a different direction! That’s all that’s happened! Love to you all x❤

  • @jeffreydaniels7519
    @jeffreydaniels7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think the wicked response from followers is a reflection of the illusion social media creates. After all your vlogs are professionally produced and edited like movie vignettes. They don’t reflect so much reality as an illusion of an ideal life. People that you don’t even know lives vicariously through your adventures when they should just get lives of there own. The shock is believing in the fantasy and not understanding that you are human just like the rest of us. You are both incredibly talented and will land on your feet and find something that works for your kids symbiotic with your careers. You both seem like great parents and in the end that’s the only thing that matters. I hope this does not impair the relationship Jon has with your father, that seems like a great friendship.

  • @ritaj7080
    @ritaj7080 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best response to adversity is No response...
    No audience no show

  • @Lushandvegandeliciosa
    @Lushandvegandeliciosa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Janni, you are going to do amazing in life. I just watched this video and the one before and I honestly cannot believe anyone would comment anything but support for YOU. Misogyny is unfortunately growing exponentially and it is completely uncalled for. You already know this, but it is important to remember it as you continue to post online as a single woman. We love your videos and are sending you so much love and support! xxxxx

  • @joycady8325
    @joycady8325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for being honest with your feelings. Please focus on the positive comments. That’s what matters. There will always be the nasty people that only see the
    bad. No one knows what brought you guys to this point. I’m sure it was a very difficult decision for both of you. Hang in there❤

  • @TheCaro24lein
    @TheCaro24lein 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Loved this video! Thank you Janni, keeping us updated, being so honest and trying to let your community be part of your real life, with struggels and good days! Can’t wait to see what life has in line for you and to follow your journey!❤

  • @kalea5554
    @kalea5554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I understand that people cannot understand in a way, but they are not in your situation and you’re the only one (or two or you) dealing with the situation. Always tried to figure out the best way to do it so let people in their hate ❤

  • @Remyalexander
    @Remyalexander 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love comes and goes, it's better to move on rather than beeing miserable. Good to see that u guys still can have a healthy friendly relationship.

  • @frida978
    @frida978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Stay strong Janni and keep doing what you are doing, you can't argue with stupid people anyway, we others know what kind of person you are! Much love!

  • @tonoru3370
    @tonoru3370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    for everyone judging and telling you what to do, NOT YOUR BUSINESS.

  • @DenziBird
    @DenziBird 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's the thing with social media nowadays: people feel entitled to voicing their opinions. I think turning off the comments for a while on both channels will give you a peace of mind, and a creative outlet without the negativity. Remember- the world is full of bad people, but you decide whom to let in. Take care of yourself, Janni, your kids need a healthy mama. And yes, you will be happy again, just give it time. We got you, keep walking. Lots of love.

    • @Rin-id2sd
      @Rin-id2sd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They put content out and there are gonna be comments lol. She wants the cake a d to eat it to. Grow up it is a cruel world.

  • @Anna-nq3to
    @Anna-nq3to 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Jag separerade ett 10årigt förhållande men utan barn! Va fortfarande skit jobbigt och tappade mycket vikt även om jag åt som vanligt pga stressen som uppstår! Det blir bättre och jag hoppas du får tid att lära känna dig själv igen. Man kan inte förstå om man inte gjort en liknande resa. Kram på er! ❤

  • @eaccount2659
    @eaccount2659 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sending you so much love. People can be so mean about things that aren't their business. You are amazing. Keep being you 💓

  • @BlackSkyentertainment
    @BlackSkyentertainment 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a long time fan of you both I was just sad for you both…I got divorced long ago when my sons were young like your children are…so that part made me sad for you both. My life is absolutely wonderful now…many years later and it will be that way for you guys as well I am sure. You are both talented and driven…it will be different in a year. We will definitely miss seeing your dad…he is an inspiration.

  • @akfootballforever
    @akfootballforever 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I criticized both of them in that video for rushing it and especially that montage in the end made it feel disingenuous (which alot of people agreed to) but I didn't call her any names or say anything hateful but this this video was how they should have come out. This felt significantly more mature and more palatable and didn't come off in your face. But regardless, still feel sorry for them both and the entire situation.

  • @DouglasWhitcomb
    @DouglasWhitcomb ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "I haven't even looked at another guy" ahahahaha

    • @E39M5SPEED
      @E39M5SPEED 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How much is the divorce settlement? 😢

  • @babayaga8112
    @babayaga8112 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Getting kids is the ultimate test to a relationship not many couples manages to go through that phase when the kids are young.

  • @marianna3253
    @marianna3253 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's insane that it's impossible for someone to just fall out of love. Happens all the time especially when you're together for a long time. Sometimes it's possible to get the feelings back, sometimes you can't and it's just better to end it. I've been with my man for almost 14 years, nearly broke up at one point because we felt more like room mates than a couple but we worked through it. But sometimes it just doesn't work. Why people always make the woman the bad person and why do people always think there's cheating envolved?

  • @lottoo5693
    @lottoo5693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dude need to ghost her and find a better woman just have contact when it comes to the kids. He need to go back to dating and dont be around her.
    Poor children her happines was more important than the happiness of the children

    • @harrypotter_petronus
      @harrypotter_petronus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He need to salvage what's left and kick this B out to the curb

  • @seanbaldwin2099
    @seanbaldwin2099 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi, I have watched you both for years now. I don't usually comment but just wanted to say, you are both amazing people. Life with kids is unbelievably hard. Try not to lose who you both were before kids. All I'm saying is as parents we tend to put all of our focus on the kids and we forget about us. I think you both are great and wish you the best of luck.
    P.S. Thanks for sharing :)

  • @mattthompson8329
    @mattthompson8329 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bluntly, he's the more interesting person.

  • @Bermas1992
    @Bermas1992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish you both the very best! It’s all ups and downs but seeing you two together with the kids doing fun things and working together is great. A good example for other parents who are no longer lovers.

  • @andreeacristinazaharia4143
    @andreeacristinazaharia4143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Off topic question... Can you tell us what camera you used for the photos and for the vlog? They have such a good quality ☺️

  • @ingetest8312
    @ingetest8312 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    be better to each other as spouses by divorcing than you were when you were married.

  • @EthanFromLondon
    @EthanFromLondon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should ignore the haters! I know its easy to say this since I get hate comments on my channel too.... You two were the ideal lovely couple of many of us out there and this is a shock to your viewers. We feel sorry for both of you and hope you will find happiness again and also be great friends with each other in future.

  • @maxneu410
    @maxneu410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Janni,
    I came here as a Fan of Jon and just want to share some love with u.
    Its not "our" right to judge from the outside.... anybody who does so, is wrong. So no need to justify!
    Wish u all the best for the upcoming challenges and a solution that works out for each of you and your family