Hands down my favorite BNL song. This is just an amazing song and without Steve their best songs are missing from any live performances. What a powerful and emotionally charged song.
So true. I love BNL but jump around from band to band and this is the first time I have heard this song in years and time really does change ones perspective.
So sick of people like you bragging on youtube about how you can relate to a song now that you didn't used to be able to. Some of us will never have anyone, but you don't care about that. You're selfish.
I agree. Despite what the Canadians say, I’m American. They are EXTREMELY underrated here. Never hear their jams anymore. This shit they call “music” sucks now.
This song is so unique in that in builds up to the final vocal catharsis instead of giving it away early on. Songs that adjust their forms and emotional states add an extra layer of identification between the listener and the singer.
Those songs you listen to during those difficult "times" in your life? my parents were divorcing when I was 10 and I had no friends or siblings or people to talk to or share my burden. Then came music. I would hide and cry and wish my parents could call and answer each other, it's a great song by itself, but my life has a special relationship with this song that is super powerful
Oh my goodness. I haven’t heard this song in over a decade. The nostalgia I’m feeling right now is overwhelming. I’m struggling to fight back tears while smiling because of the memories of my youth. The harmony is stellar. Both of their voices are so beautiful and meaningful and painful and intoxicating. They are a definite vibe. They almost remind me of The Cars, like in a subtle sort of way. I can’t place it. Of course they are their own thing 100%. They just give me the nostalgic, warm, deep feeling I get when I hear The Cars. These bands were both so meaningful and influential in their time. The world seems to have long forgotten about BNL, but God knows I haven’t. And neither have you, if you’re reading this. God bless each and every one of you. Love you all. Take care of yourself and of those you love. Time is fast and fleeting. Literally live every fucking moment like it’s your last…….because it very well could be…….but more than that - if you love someone - TELL THEM. RIGHT NOW. Don’t let another SECOND slip away without letting the person you love know it. SAY IT. Tell them. I promise they need to hear it. Hell, we all do…….♥️🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️♾️
Moving post. Forget about holding back the tears. I was actually looking for another BNL song. Something about a baby, dreams... I'll find it. I hope you still have somebody to let know how much you love them.❤ Blessings
Today I thought about this song and listened to it for the entire day. I cannot believe it only has 300k views. I can't believe this wasn't even their top 5 hits.
Such a sad song. I listened to this a lot when my ex and I split in 2010. We shared a child and we had to manouver an amicable relationship after a betrayal for the sake of our son. This is the first time I’ve listen to it in a very long time and can happily say that we now are friends and have both moved on. Painful process that this song spoke to (at least to me).
Nobody cares. I'm sick of overdramatic people like you who live their lives like it's a goddamn dramatic series or something. Someone like me isn't even allowed to look at a woman. Do you understand that? I'm not even allowed to LOOK at a woman or even entertain the thought of ever having a relationship, but then I have to see all the disgusting overprivileged people like you whose entire life revolves around f***ing relationships and the overdramatic bullshit of them, acting like you're in a goddamn soap opera all the time, and like the entire world revolves around your need to just have someone to rub genitals with, when people like me will never even know what that's like and have to struggle just to keep our sanity. I hate you.
One of the best music videos ever. I love in Barelaked Nadies how the commentary says they called Volkswagon and they were like, we're not having a hard time selling them, so we're not giving you money. Or something like that. really hysterical.
What an underrated band!! These lyrics are just amazing. As good as anything. I never paid attention, didn´t know they could write like this. Thumbs up.
This song was on one of our in-store CD's at Starbucks back in 2000. It was called Contemporary Grind. And this song was our crew's favorite. Fun memories.
I first heard this song in '99 or 2000 and I've loved it so much ever since. it hits you in so many different emotions. I couldn't listen to this song enough
I agree, listen to The Mavericks and Raul Malo. Crazy talented voice as well. If you ever read this and haven't experienced yet experienced Mr. Malo, you will be glad I found this song and replied to you 7 years after your post. If you have already enjoyed the range of Raul, well then you're already the coolest...
Woof! I'm from the 60's and that song is intense! The message is to be honest with each other and talk about what's going on in your heads. I first heard it on a tape I found of no name. I loved the lyrics, so i looked it up online. and it's been a fav for --EVER! rebuild yall!
It's so weird that this song hadn't even been released until I was halfway through college (or later!), but everytime I hear these guys sing I'm a Junior in high school all over again...
I was introduced to this song by a certain someone . I fell in love with the song. It pulled my heart strings. So you KNOW who you are !! Thank you !! xoxox
+tizek absolutely one of the best ballads reminds me of the hope that I can also rebuild on a side note was this on the soundtrack for ED TV since the movie clips are in the vid!? ENJOY THE EVENING!!
MISS having their TEAM APPROACH with Steven Page! They have SUCH CHEMISTRY and have built and perform TRULY Classic Songs, like THIS! Any Thoughts? Curious.... ❤
I used to love this song and had an extremely bad breakup that haunting me for years. I could never listen to this song because it brought up horrible memories and was just to hard on head. Randomly the person reached out to me and made things right and give me closure. I listen to this song that night, I know this song is dark but it felt good to listen to it again
I'm still not over a breakup that happened to me 23 years ago. And get this: It was an online relationship. I never met her in person. Only talked to her on the phone. That makes it even worse. I've been destroyed since then and will never have anyone. She doesn't even remember that I exist now.
I think it's getting to the point where I can be myself again I think it's getting to the point where we have almost made amends I think it's the 'getting to the point' that is the hardest part And if you call, I will answer And if you fall, I'll pick you up And if you court this disaster, I'll point you home I'll point you home You think I only think about you when we're both in the same room You think I'm only here to witness the remains of love exhumed You think we're here to play a game of 'Who Loves More Than Whom?' And if you call, I will answer And if you fall, I'll pick you up And if you court this disaster You think it's 'only fair' to do what's best for you and you alone You think it's 'only fair' to do the same to me when you're not home I think it's time to make this something that is more than 'only fair' So if you call, I will answer And if you fall, I'll pick you up And if you court this disaster, I'll point you home But I'm warning you, don't ever do Those crazy, messed-up things that you do If you ever do, I promise you I'll be the first to crucify you Now it's time to prove That you've come back here to rebuild Rebuild, rebuild Rebuild, rebuild Rebuild, rebuild Rebuild, rebuild Rebuild, rebuild
Such a timeless song. That said, I would love to have heard the phone call that WB Records made to Volkswagen. "Yes we need fifty identical white beetles."
Just as there are multiple appearances of the same people in this video, methinks there were just a few Volkswagen Beetles harmed in the making of this video. As for the neighborhood, places like this do really exist in the Southwestern USA.
yes yes yes yes yes, however it would never be the same as before. I like Steve's solo work, but there's just enough difference in it that I think there could be a bigger rift. I like a bunch of their post-Steve work over the last 10 years, but it's never been the same. BNL just started a Tik-Tok channel and Ed has been giving some background on some songs and is having some open and healthy discussion/description on things that Steve worked on with them. it seems that there may finally be some piece on his side of things.
This song perfectly encapsulates my first -- and failed -- marriage. Right down to lines like "you only think about me when we're both in the same room" and "play the game of who loves more than whom" -- both of which were almost exact quotes by my ex.
In one of my acting classes in college, we were challenged to find a song under five minutes that we could mouth the words to and have it lead to a breakdown. I should've chosen this one, because it's fucking perfect.
One of the best music video ever. I love in Barelaked Nadies how the commentary says they called Volkswagon and they were like, we're not having a hard time selling them, so we're not giving you money. Or something like that. really hysterical.
An under appreciated and underrated song by the BNL IMHO. A true masterpiece that will eventually become part of all our lives
I love the crescendo
no, this man sounded like a pussy when i was 15 and he sounds like a pussy now.
🥰🥰🥰
@@kittysplode Yet here you are. Odd.
I haven't heard this song in years. After all the pain, it takes on a whole new meaning. Much love to All
Perfectly said. ♥️
Hands down my favorite BNL song. This is just an amazing song and without Steve their best songs are missing from any live performances. What a powerful and emotionally charged song.
I feel the same. Bare naked Ladies not the same without Steven Page.
I have always enjoyed this song, but as an adult I have a whole new appreciation for it.
So true Michelle
Agreed!
So true. I love BNL but jump around from band to band and this is the first time I have heard this song in years and time really does change ones perspective.
I was just thinking the same thing.
So sick of people like you bragging on youtube about how you can relate to a song now that you didn't used to be able to. Some of us will never have anyone, but you don't care about that. You're selfish.
This is the best Barenaked ladies song evahhh
Ever.
Beautiful and perfectly, brutally, honest. This song is heart breaking. I miss the 90s
You said it all.
You nailed it
Good God, I do, too, darlin…….
This is my favorite of theirs. Very song structured like a great Lennon/McCartney masterpiece
True statement.
Give her/him a second chance. But only a second chance. Love this song so much.
Superb song. Very poignant and melancholy. Still one of my all time favourites.
So well said. 🫶🏽
2:28 - This part gets me every time. Such powerful lyrics.
Dude looks evil while he's singing them
@@chiefscheiderNo. Not really. Tf? 🙄
One of the best bands ever. If you don't love the Ladies, then you don't understand music.
Pretentious comment. "If you don't like this band that I like, then you don't understand anything about music." Just shut the hell up.
This band is so underrated. They have such a great vibe!
They're literally one of the most famous bands in Canadian History...
BNL is the Canadian version of The Beatles. Their music is just as catchy and fun to listen to. I often find myself humming their tunes while working.
I guess you weren't alive in 1998.
I agree. Despite what the Canadians say, I’m American. They are EXTREMELY underrated here. Never hear their jams anymore.
This shit they call “music” sucks now.
This song is so unique in that in builds up to the final vocal catharsis instead of giving it away early on. Songs that adjust their forms and emotional states add an extra layer of identification between the listener and the singer.
More songs that do this are "Lightning Crashes" by Live and "Jesus Nitelite" by Eve 6.
One of my all time favourite songs ... crazy the emotions that this evokes
This song hits a couple old relationships of the past. Miss his voice in BNL
So much………💔
My guitar teacher taught us this song this year. Recently I’ve been listening to it A LOT. Great song
Those songs you listen to during those difficult "times" in your life? my parents were divorcing when I was 10 and I had no friends or siblings or people to talk to or share my burden. Then came music. I would hide and cry and wish my parents could call and answer each other, it's a great song by itself, but my life has a special relationship with this song that is super powerful
lost my aunt's dog daisy last year
Joseph Wright ❤❤
What dose this song me over all?
Hugging your heart
Hands down one of the best BNL songs!
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
What a good boy is mine
Their voices just compliment each other so well in this song.....
I thought that too but all the vocals are Steven Page and no one else.
This was one of my daddy's favorite songs we played this at his celebration of life. Miss you daddy. ❤
So sorry for your loss 😔
That is touching I also miss my mom so much!
Your dad is dead!
Oh my goodness. I haven’t heard this song in over a decade. The nostalgia I’m feeling right now is overwhelming. I’m struggling to fight back tears while smiling because of the memories of my youth.
The harmony is stellar. Both of their voices are so beautiful and meaningful and painful and intoxicating. They are a definite vibe.
They almost remind me of The Cars, like in a subtle sort of way. I can’t place it. Of course they are their own thing 100%. They just give me the nostalgic, warm, deep feeling I get when I hear The Cars.
These bands were both so meaningful and influential in their time.
The world seems to have long forgotten about BNL, but God knows I haven’t. And neither have you, if you’re reading this.
God bless each and every one of you. Love you all. Take care of yourself and of those you love.
Time is fast and fleeting. Literally live every fucking moment like it’s your last…….because it very well could be…….but more than that - if you love someone - TELL THEM. RIGHT NOW.
Don’t let another SECOND slip away without letting the person you love know it. SAY IT. Tell them.
I promise they need to hear it.
Hell, we all do…….♥️🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️♾️
Moving post. Forget about holding back the tears. I was actually looking for another BNL song. Something about a baby, dreams... I'll find it. I hope you still have somebody to let know how much you love them.❤ Blessings
Incredible. This song got me through some tough times, cheers to all you fine people
Today I thought about this song and listened to it for the entire day. I cannot believe it only has 300k views. I can't believe this wasn't even their top 5 hits.
Such a sad song. I listened to this a lot when my ex and I split in 2010. We shared a child and we had to manouver an amicable relationship after a betrayal for the sake of our son. This is the first time I’ve listen to it in a very long time and can happily say that we now are friends and have both moved on. Painful process that this song spoke to (at least to me).
Nobody cares. I'm sick of overdramatic people like you who live their lives like it's a goddamn dramatic series or something. Someone like me isn't even allowed to look at a woman. Do you understand that? I'm not even allowed to LOOK at a woman or even entertain the thought of ever having a relationship, but then I have to see all the disgusting overprivileged people like you whose entire life revolves around f***ing relationships and the overdramatic bullshit of them, acting like you're in a goddamn soap opera all the time, and like the entire world revolves around your need to just have someone to rub genitals with, when people like me will never even know what that's like and have to struggle just to keep our sanity. I hate you.
One of the best music videos ever.
I love in Barelaked Nadies how the commentary says they called Volkswagon and they were like, we're not having a hard time selling them, so we're not giving you money. Or something like that. really hysterical.
What an underrated band!! These lyrics are just amazing. As good as anything. I never paid attention, didn´t know they could write like this. Thumbs up.
Samesies.
What a beautifully written, clever song. Long live rock and roll.
AMEN!!!!!!! ♥️🙏🏽🫶🏽♥️
Listened to Stunt for the first time in over a decade and was absolutely blown away this song, beautiful and heartbreaking all at once.
This song was on one of our in-store CD's at Starbucks back in 2000. It was called Contemporary Grind. And this song was our crew's favorite. Fun memories.
I used to listen to them way back in college 20 years ago and to watch Steven Page live yesterday Canada Day 🇨🇦 and sing this song was so surreal 🤗
Canada sucks.
I first heard this song in '99 or 2000 and I've loved it so much ever since. it hits you in so many different emotions. I couldn't listen to this song enough
Brooke Wall-E yup
This has to be one of my favorite songs of all time.
Gahd, someone please bring me back to this era!!!
This song helped me through a rough breakup...that along with Camels and Jack Daniels
What a brilliant songwriter Steven Page is.
Are.
Reminds of some of the best times of my life ... Michigan 2008 - forever etched in my memory, what a holiday, the place and people. Great times.
I just saw Stephen Page and Kevin Fox perform a medley of this and bridge over troubled water, one of the best things ive ever heard
Page is one of the best modern day singers, IMO.
I agree, listen to The Mavericks and Raul Malo.
Crazy talented voice as well.
If you ever read this and haven't experienced yet experienced Mr. Malo, you will be glad I found this song and replied to you 7 years after your post.
If you have already enjoyed the range of Raul, well then you're already the coolest...
I listen to this song every day. Hands down, one of the greatest bands.
They should get back together. Forget your grudge. We need you
I'm really wishing Steve and Ed would take this song to heart and "rebuild".
Heuzier Daddee Oh me too.
Heuzier Daddee Me 4
Mike Cords
Cathy Moses do I know you?
Mike Cords no
Woof! I'm from the 60's and that song is intense! The message is to be honest with each other and talk about what's going on in your heads. I first heard it on a tape I found of no name. I loved the lyrics, so i looked it up online. and it's been a fav for --EVER! rebuild yall!
Beautiful sad song
Almost 2018 and I'm still listening . I love this band
This is 2022. Tell them not to eat the bat.
This is a amazing song! I have to listen to it every single day now..^^
Can't get enough of this song!
These guys and The Hip (Only Canadians will know) Rock!
Beautiful song! Should have been more popular than it is.
Im here cuz this song was at the end of ep 5 of Schooled season 2. Love this classic song. These guys are such a good group. I wish them the best.
this song makes me feel something , still...I still have that ache in my heart that started in 1999 and this song always makes me cry.
I've been sad since 1999 too.
Ive been sad since 2011 😢@James-if3kc
I love this song so much... makes me feel like everything is going to work out just fine.
It's not. You're probably dead now.
It's so weird that this song hadn't even been released until I was halfway through college (or later!), but everytime I hear these guys sing I'm a Junior in high school all over again...
One of the best concerts I ever have seen was the Bare Naked Ladies They are amazing.
I was introduced to this song by a certain someone . I fell in love with the song. It pulled my heart strings. So you KNOW who you are !!
Thank you !!
xoxox
This song is a LOT like my most recent relationship. Really needed this right now.
+Ryan Ahr I hear you BRUV!! I've had some painful ones in the past but working on rebuilding !! CHEERS!!
2014 and still a awsome song constantly listening to BNL one of the bands that i can listen over and over and not get bored
me too
me three
Nick Evans mee five. no really, I'm sometimes feel like i'm five years old. lol
+tizek absolutely one of the best ballads reminds me of the hope that I can also rebuild on a side note was this on the soundtrack for ED TV since the movie clips are in the vid!? ENJOY THE EVENING!!
I first heard this when I was in Michigan - what a special time and what a beautiful song ❤
I got into BNL through American pie. I stayed because of this amazing album and their chemistry, please sort your shit out lads!
This is one of my favorite BNL songs. It needs more likes!
Hauntingly beautiful song, that I can some how relate too.
love this one. My all time Favorite !!
This song in particular, let alone the whole Stunt album, really defined my early childhood.
MISS having their TEAM APPROACH with Steven Page!
They have SUCH CHEMISTRY and have built and perform TRULY Classic Songs, like THIS!
Any Thoughts?
Curious....
❤
I used to love this song and had an extremely bad breakup that haunting me for years. I could never listen to this song because it brought up horrible memories and was just to hard on head. Randomly the person reached out to me and made things right and give me closure. I listen to this song that night, I know this song is dark but it felt good to listen to it again
I'm still not over a breakup that happened to me 23 years ago. And get this: It was an online relationship. I never met her in person. Only talked to her on the phone. That makes it even worse. I've been destroyed since then and will never have anyone. She doesn't even remember that I exist now.
God, I love this album. An absolute textbook example of a cohesive production... Just excellent.
Hey when I search up Bearnaked Ladies on TH-cam now it actually shows up!!! Wow only took 20 plus years but that's great!
Underrated song.
I think it's getting to the point where I can be myself again
I think it's getting to the point where we have almost made amends
I think it's the 'getting to the point' that is the hardest part
And if you call, I will answer
And if you fall, I'll pick you up
And if you court this disaster, I'll point you home
I'll point you home
You think I only think about you when we're both in the same room
You think I'm only here to witness the remains of love exhumed
You think we're here to play a game of 'Who Loves More Than Whom?'
And if you call, I will answer
And if you fall, I'll pick you up
And if you court this disaster
You think it's 'only fair' to do what's best for you and you alone
You think it's 'only fair' to do the same to me when you're not home
I think it's time to make this something that is more than 'only fair'
So if you call, I will answer
And if you fall, I'll pick you up
And if you court this disaster, I'll point you home
But I'm warning you, don't ever do
Those crazy, messed-up things that you do
If you ever do, I promise you
I'll be the first to crucify you
Now it's time to prove
That you've come back here to rebuild
Rebuild, rebuild
Rebuild, rebuild
Rebuild, rebuild
Rebuild, rebuild
Rebuild, rebuild
This is one of my favorite songs!!! love it!
This song is really sweet... and mellow. And Thoughtful. Thought provoking...
I was thrilled when i 1st heard it on the Mac O 9 Install CD. It was in the "Extras" folder.
Such a timeless song. That said, I would love to have heard the phone call that WB Records made to Volkswagen. "Yes we need fifty identical white beetles."
Back when music videos had crazy budgets and there was money in music.
Just as there are multiple appearances of the same people in this video, methinks there were just a few Volkswagen Beetles harmed in the making of this video. As for the neighborhood, places like this do really exist in the Southwestern USA.
Just saw Steven do this with the WSO (Winnipeg Symphony Orchestra ) and it was amazing!!! We love you Steven
Damn. This song hits right now
2013 and this is still an amazing and emotionally powerful song...
My wife and I got married to this song. We love it forever!!
Nobody cares. Overprivileged a$$ h0le.
They absolutely crushed it with this song..... Does anyone wish Stephen was back?
yes yes yes yes yes, however it would never be the same as before. I like Steve's solo work, but there's just enough difference in it that I think there could be a bigger rift. I like a bunch of their post-Steve work over the last 10 years, but it's never been the same. BNL just started a Tik-Tok channel and Ed has been giving some background on some songs and is having some open and healthy discussion/description on things that Steve worked on with them. it seems that there may finally be some piece on his side of things.
2019 and still better than at least 75% of current music!
damn straight
75%? Is this supposed to be a Compiment? 99.999%
No mumble rap crap
Just saw him live at my local radio station kink fm..He has got it all!!!!!!
This song perfectly encapsulates my first -- and failed -- marriage. Right down to lines like "you only think about me when we're both in the same room" and "play the game of who loves more than whom" -- both of which were almost exact quotes by my ex.
Art imitates Life, Life imitates Art, Art intimates Life, Life intimates Art
Great song, the best album they had for sure!
This is an Alpha offer at recompense; beautifully savage, savagely beautiful it goes balls deep!
such a beautiful and powerful song.
I miss the 90s amazing time and when you look back and think about how it was then and now its a sad place to live in today !
I love the fact that it's an actual "call and answer".
I blasted this song back in 2007, after my wife died. Rip tracy I miss you.
Best song by these guys without a doubt
One of the best bands ever
Arguably one of the most sexy and melodic ballads ever!
sexy? It's about recovering from an affair.
This song deserves 500 mil views
Stunt is still one of my favourite albums
The album that made me fall in love with them.
AMAZING SONG
AMAZING BAND
In one of my acting classes in college, we were challenged to find a song under five minutes that we could mouth the words to and have it lead to a breakdown. I should've chosen this one, because it's fucking perfect.
It reminds me of 4am song of OLP, they both Canadian and such a great band of the 90's!
Great song!
Haven't heard this in years, wow, just wow, what a beautiful song..Anyone else in here in 2024?
10/26/2024 seeing BNL tonight in Biloxi
One of my fav songs ever
One of my favorite songs of all time. And I agree with the Steven Page love. Hope he doesn't have any more troubles with the law
One of the best music video ever.
I love in Barelaked Nadies how the commentary says they called Volkswagon and they were like, we're not having a hard time selling them, so we're not giving you money. Or something like that. really hysterical.
This song is art
This song reminds me of the greatest person I've ever known. We got this, babe.