As a retired Ob/Gyn clinician I always told my patients this. What y'all do is your business. Everyone will always talk and ask questions. Focus on you all and don't worry or let what others says bother or affect you. When it happens it will. Continue to be awesome and inspiring others. 🙂
The more the outcry from earth to heaven, the more jubilation, excitement sending best wishes for the future the more likely the good and pleasant things will happen Cole and Charisma need not to be anxious and not at all. We are the one waiting quietly biting on our nails to sing 🎶 the victorious song 🎵 when the moment comes. We are like children waiting for Santa to knock on our door on Christmas Eve 😁
Don’t listen to anyone telling you that it’s too late to have a baby. I just had my first baby at 38 and I’m planning on having another soon. I wish you guys the best! ❤️
Don't worry, Charisma. I had my first child at 30, my second at 34, my third at 36, and my fourth at 43! And now I have a 2 year old grandson as well. You don't need to feel rushed.
Oh man, I had to pause the video...this hit close to home and I got all the feels because it felt like it was yesterday. My condolences for your loss and my heart goes out to you. I know it's a bummer being told what to do or receiving advice when not asked...but one thing my husband and I learned is to take care of our mental health during the process. We're proud of your strength, resilience and bravery. Wishing you both all the best!
THIS is the best advice we could receive right now! We have been really focusing on our mental health. I meditate and journal almost every morning and it’s been super helpful for me. - Charisma
We will be praying that in God's timing, all things happen as they should. PLEASE don't feel obligated to share more than you feel comfortable sharing, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!🙂
You are YOUNG! I had my first and only baby at 40. No problems and he was such a gift! He is such an awesome person and I cannot imagine life without him!
Guys it’s the hardest thing when you want to conceive and people really don’t understand how upsetting it is to be asked when it’s not happening for you. I’m 49 and it never happened I had miscarriage’s but I took them really badly. I’m at peace with it now and very happy. I wish you all the best for the future 💞
I am so sorry you had to experience that. It must have been extra hard dealing with other people's reponses too. Glad you were able to find some peace. God Bless you.
@@bridgetsuttles9908 didn’t want to say it but I agree this was my goal for the first round and for the second round one will be just fine. A total of 6 little feet 🦶 running all over the place ❤️👏🏽 jumping on Mom and Dad’s bed early in the morning to get some attention
@@coleandcharisma not sure if you have been reading my comments from a while ago. You and Cole have been in my prayers as a Catholic tomorrow is The Day December 8-12 to beg for favors from Our Lady of Guadeloupe. Oh yes 👍🏽 you and Cole gonna hear your ears ringing because your name will be mentioned for you to catch a couple of birdies with one single stone. Watch for a full moon 🌕 and a nice glass of Chardonnay along with the nicest slice of European cake 🍰.
BLESSING and Prayers 🙌💕. It's a huge blessing they found Your polyp 🙏, there's always a good in a bad situation and in the decades to come it Could Save Your Life. I'm Sorry For Your Loss but That Child Will Be Back Growing In Charismas Tummy, timing just wasn't right appatently, God Knows. I can feel that You Two 💕 will have A GORGROUS Baby Girl💗, It Feels Right!!!! Gorgeous like Her Mommy or His Mommy... and Handsome Daddy. Many Blessings Ahead Of You Both Including Your Babies and Amazing Family 💕🙌. Sending Love and Hugs From Western Upstate New York.... Your Tree Is Beautiful 🌲 Enjoy The Holiday Seasons
I am so excited for the both of you! My daughter chose to go with IVF after losing 3 babies. She also decide to only share her pregnancy with only a few people until after the first trimester, because of the emotional tole it took on them. She now has two beautiful baby girls and just found out she has another one on the way. This new one is a do it yourselfer! I was shocked, because I had a dream about 2 weeks previous that she was pregnant and she was going to have a boy! After you have your precious little one, the biggest problem you will face is Grandparents wanting to buy everything in sight for their beautiful Grandbaby! I tell my daughter, I waited a long time and I worked very hard to get my Grandbabies, so let me spoil them! You would think I delivered them myself! I was a nervous wreak the whole pregnancy. LOL!
I am 53 years old and I have been following you for about a year now. And funny I was not sick then till September of 2021 was hit by COVID. And had lots of complications that led me to be wheel chair bound till now. But watching you guys has such a blessing. I love how you love each other. It gives a lot of courage and strength. Love you guy and praying for you.
I would never pressure anyone about this topic, I have had several people in my life who had trouble becoming pregnant, and the family members were not supportive, and even rude about it.One couple ended up having 5 miscarriages in seven years, eventually adopted two children. How ever you form a family is what is right for you. You do what is best for you in your situation This not something that others are supposed to be involved with, except those you choose to tell. I was at a wedding and an older woman asked the bride,when the baby shower was going to be, the bride who was in her early twenties, said that it was to early for them, they were paying off student loans. The rude woman said some pretty nasty things about this and upset the bride to tears ,she spent her wedding reception in the ladies room. So I wish people would leave personal topics alone ,unless you are very close to someone, who wants advice on the subject, don't ask so when's the baby coming? Or another one is when are you gonna get a better job. I am sure that if they want us to know something they will tell us, topics like this are very personal and can be difficult and hurtful, if someone is trying and it's not happening for some reason.
I had that same thing happen to me and I was dealing with a bad case of endometriosis! It never happened for me even with surgeries and hormones! People were so cruel 😪!
Beverly Dust: Also, it's none of anybody's business! I hate fans pressuring famous people (influence/content creator) to have a baby or asking questions!
@@sharonharris7245 Eu tinha ovários policísticos, endometriose, miomas e cistos por dentro e fora do útero... Tive uma ferida pequena no colo do útero, que se não tratasse poderia virar câncer no colo do útero, tratei no início e deu tudo certo. Mas vários médicos, falaram que nunca teria filhos. Com muita esperança e fé, consegui ter meus lindos presentes, quando nem esperava mais. Engravidei sem tratamentos e naturalmente aos mais de 40 anos do primeiro filho, e com mais de 43 anos do segundo filho. Meus presentes lindos e especiais pra mim, o mais novo é autista, um anjinho especial na minha vida. Quando queremos muito, de alguma forma conseguimos...Deus ouve ...
Y’all are *so* young - please, take your time! Children are a blessing, but also change your life completely. Continue having fun times together as a couple: pursue your ambitions, travel, sleep late …. Just keep laughing and loving each other. As Charisma said early in the video, folks have babies much later these days - there’s plenty of time. Love y’all.
Praying for a blessing this year ! We tried for 8 years after our first child. When God finally blessed use with our 2nt child. We are praying for blessings over you!
I feel for ppl who desperately want children, who would make great supportive parents but struggle to conceive. Keeping my fingers crossed your able to conceive a much wanted child. We don’t deserve your story but I’m happy to hear all about it and cheer y’all on. Sending baby dust y’all way!! ❤
I don’t know why I’ve always seen you two having a baby boy first!💙 This is exciting! Thank you SO much for allowing us insight on your beautiful journey. Everything happens for a reason and in it’s due time.
My sister had two miscarriages, one being a biochemical loss and now my niece is three years old and thriving. It is so so common. It will happen for you! Prayers for you and so much love your way. I love you two!
I feel honored that you've chosen to share with us 🙏🏽. I pray your baby brings even more joy into your hearts, might be in the minority but I see a boy or twins 🥰🥰
I see a baby Charisma. The reason why is because her family genetics seems so strong. Either way, this baby will be blessed 💯 percent to have you both as parents.
You to go for it.I had my last child at 43.It went very smoothly.And a life changing experience that is priceless.Nobody has the right to say anything other than,we are so happy for you and congratulations!
I see a beautiful healthy baby and two beautiful emotional parents on the blessed day! We’re going to be happy with whichever one you two have because that’s how we roll here! 🫂🙏💜❤️
It’s crazy watching this months later, knowing that you all just had your egg retrieval and you got five embryos and to hear charisma say you are all have about five names. May God bless your family on this fertility journey.
Becoming pregnant is a beautiful feeling, but I understand your distress and wanting to keep it to yourselves. It is not always easy, certainly for me is was not. Blocked tubes, surgeries, but to let you know, after 5 miscarriages, 2 ectopic pregnancies, I had my first child, another miscarriage and then my second child. I am blessed! They are now 25 & 27, it was so worth all the heartbreak. You will get thru this. Thank you for sharing your personal story, I love your channel. So positive and you both are really great people.
This is what I see, I see a beautiful Baby born and raised by a loving, beautiful couple, I pray that 2023 is the year that Our Father in Heaven send you two your Baby.
Good luck with the process! You don't need pressure or questions from anyone. I totally think keeping this to yourself until you want to share is the way to go.
My heart goes out to you! It took us 2 yrs to get pregnant the first time. It was so draining! I feel that. As soon as we made appts with a fertility specialist I found out I was pregnant. It's weird how life works. Then it took us 1.5 yrs the second time. Then never again despite never using birth control. I feel so blessed to have my 2 kiddos.
I am excited for your guys. We went through this 18 years ago and it will happen. The waiting game sux but when the ball gets rolling it is nonstop. I started at 27 and said no more after 35 and ended up having my surprise blessing at 36 LOL. Three kids later I can say enjoy each other, because it will get busy quick :) Many blessings of health and peace heading your way in 2023.
The same thing happened to a couple I knew from church in the past. They waited 10 years to get pregnant after nany petitions the 1st baby was born, a year later the second, a year after the 3rd, and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth. They decided to do contraception the natural way 3 years later the 7th and the last one a very pretty little girl with deep blue eyes and dark hair. Careful what you asked God for cause when it rains it pours 😁
Viewers need to chill on their baby comments/questions. It will happen when it's meant to happen and they will share when they want to share. This video is so vulnerable. I appreciate all you both share with us. Stay warm in this chilly LA weather. Sending my love and support 💝
Thank you to you both for your graciousness in responding to your fans in such a way. I'm not fond of the fans who insist on voicing their comments regarding babies, which is, as you've revealed, an intimate and stressful aspect of your lives. The journey to parenthood is multifaceted for whomever takes it on, and it's becoming more known that the road to pregnancy is not a slam dunk! That being said, I pray for you all to have an enjoyable experience on this journey, however it comes about, and Thank you for sharing with us, while keeping the joy intact along the way. Blessings to you both and your families.
Trying to get pregnant and not having it happen is enough pressure without adding the public to it. Just keep to yourself what you want to do, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you both all the best 🙏🏻💓🙏🏻
There is thousands of couples on this platform but this two are special and super strong super heroes. May God bless them greatly with whatever they wish. I feel they contributed immensely to TH-cam 🏆❤️🙏God will bless them with a baby at the right time.
Thank you for being so open about this! I'm 33 and constantly being asked when I'm going to have a baby 🙄 it's exhausting because people don't know my fertility struggles so it's hurtful. I pray for your strength and sending you baby dust! The horizontal tango is the fun part lol 💚
I never ask woman about having a baby people don't understand it's hard especially if you have PCOS or anything that messes with you having a baby. I'm sorry for dumb ass people hugs and prayers
I too, have had a chemical pregnancy and couldn’t pass the baby on my own & man oh man I couldn’t agree more with “there was a lot of tears”. Here’s hoping you guys have a baby when “the time is right” good luck on your journey loves❤️
I hate people asking about when you will have a baby. It’s none of their business! I’m 42 and i hope to start trying soon but won’t tell anyone. Hope it happens for you, the less stress around it the more chance of it working. It’s such a personal thing, I’ve had 16 years since our wedding of people asking! Enough from everyone lol
Thank you for sharing ❤. Infertility is so under talked about. My husband and I went through the same. After 3 years of trying we adopted. 12 years later it’s sad infertility is still a taboo subject
Gosh, you guys, I'm so sorry that it's been emotionally tough. Thank you for being vulnerable and for sharing your story, which of course is totally up to you how much you choose to share! I love your guys' positivity and can totally picture you with a baby girl. I will be praying for your family!! ♥
I literally just had a myomectomy last month to remove a small polyp. My Dr said that it's location, in my uterine lining, could prevent a pregnancy. If you do need a procedure for that, I can confirm it's not that bad. Best of luck with all your trying!
I had a myomectomy in May to help with conceiving a baby. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. People constantly asking when I’m gonna have a baby with me knowing that I had something preventing me from conceiving was so difficult. Hence I would never ask a couple this question. I pray that things will work out in you and Cole’s favor. And maybe we can all be in the 2023 baby club. Blessings.
Sharing this openly and putting your faith out in the atmosphere, is a major part of the fulfillment process. Now you have the agreement of thousands of other faith walkers joining you. God will bless.
No one is to old to have a baby if someone is wanting a baby. You two would make awesome parents with lots of love and that is all that matters... Love
Thank you because if people don't realize God give you a menstrual cycle for as long as he wants you to be able to have kids if he thought you were too old and he would take that away 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏾
I hope the baby news is going to be really soon 🎉. My daughter turned 35 years old this year and this is the year of the baby for her… I can’t wait. It will happen one way or another for sure.
I had a miscarriage back in late august/early September of 2020. It was the hardest thing I ever went through. However, I ended up getting pregnant in February of last year and had my daughter last November. She is a year now and all I can do is thank god for that experience because it made me even more ready for my daughter and there is never a day that goes by that I don’t thank God for her. I was 29 when I had my daughter and I don’t regret being a little bit older.
As a mom of 4 kids I learned that when you take the regimental structure out of things and just let a natural flow happen then pregnancy can occur rather easy. When you try to overly plan and force things it adds stress, not a healthy baby making environment ☺. I'm glad u guys got tested and I pray when the timing is right you all will be blessed with a beautiful and healthy baby☺☺
Cole & Charisma sorry for your loss but good to know it is possible to conceive God timing is perfect you will be awesome parents. Such love ❤️ to give to a child. Ps don't pay attention to pressure. Relax enjoy your jounery.
I agree. Try to relax and take the stress out of it. It took my younger sister four years after her marriage to become pregnant, largely because her husband was in the military and he had to spend many months on several occasions away from my sister on overseas deployment. They eventually had two healthy children without any problems.
As a person as who has struggled with fertility for the last 10 years this is THE LEAST HELPFUL MOST HURTFUL advice I have ever heard repeatedly. My organs are not working. This is like telling someone with heart condition to just "relax" it will fix itself. No it won't. My organs still aren't working. Relaxing does not make my ovaries release my eggs
When the most high is ready to bless y'all, you will have all the babies he know you are able to take care of, when it happens enjoy your blessings guys
We had to go to a fertility specialist, so we totally understand what you’re going through. My thoughts are with you all on your journey to grow a family.
Oh, the first half of the video, I had tears of joy for you all. Then you all explained what happen. I’m so sorry that you experienced that. Have faith it will happen in Gods time. You all are going to make awesome parents and the baby is going to be beautiful. Good luck on your journey to get pregnant, stay safe, and God Bless the both of you and your future children. Love you guys. Much respect and love.
I always find it interesting when people always give their own opinions on your body and family plans. I am also 28 and I do not have kids, I have been asked a million times by family and friends for the last 5-8 years when I am having a baby. I got to the point in telling people I didn't want kids just so they would leave me alone about it. My husband and I finally decided to try for one soon and I am excited, but we haven't told anyone were trying because then people will just have a million more questions. I understand where you guys are coming from completely.
I hope y'all addressing this helps people consider not making comments like that. There are far more reasons to NOT ask those things, even with the best intention and purest curiosity. Love y'all
Every time you guys make a video, it is cuteness overload. Boy, girl, twins, triplets, they will be so blessed to have you guys as their parents. I agree with 2023 being your year to have a baby. I wish you and Cole the best of luck.
I am totally excited! One thing a secret, the less you think about it the sooner that will happen. I will continue to pray for you and God knows when you are ready and that precious time will happen. One day at a time, ok? Love you so much! Anita 🌟
I was 28 when pregnant the first time and 36 the second time - with twins. Take your time, enjoy being a couple and babies can come when you are ready.
Take it as it happens. U'll rejoice the same. People should let up on the questions. It's a very personal issue. Putting too much pressure on u guys may b making it less enjoyable too.
Thank y'all for being so open and honest. Not everyone's road to pregnancy is smooth or "typical." More couples struggle than we realize because it's not talked about much. (I got surprised with severe endometriosis!) I'm sorry for your loss...such a hard thing. But that baby will come! And I say...GIRL! #GirlPower ✊🏻❤️
Congrats and yes keep what you want and need to yourselves. The questions have to be hard I'm sorry some people forget that is sometimes a pain line of questioning.
Questioning someone's PERSONAL lives and choices is NEVER appropriate. It is especially rude when questions are directed to complete strangers. People all need to "mind their own business". I wrote my family's experience, if you want to read it.
Wow. Late!? I was 29 when I had my son. It IS very emotional. We were headed to IVF when I got pregnant and it can be rough on the relationship. Intimacy becomes a chore. I have dealt with Endometriosis and growing cysts/Endometriomas, including abdominal surgeries to remove them. I should NOT have been able to have children. I ended up with two and two miscarriages. I'm glad you kept it to yourselves. It is YOUR business and no one else's. 💕
I pray that all the plans and procedures align and 2023 will be your year. You put it right Charisma, it WILL happen at the right time. The triplets are coming ! 🍼🍼🍼I'm with Cole in this 💗 💗 💓 God bless you both xx
Guys, it's nobody's business at all but thank you for sharing. I rarely ask people about their baby plans because it is such a sensitive and emotional issue. So much pressure. Don't feel obliged to share no matter the probing questions. Do you and share when you're ready. Took me 20 months to get pregnant with my second child; it happened after I gave up trying! So, relax and try to enjoy the process. God bless!
Cole and Charisma I feel that Y’all will be great parents when the time comes. I’ve seen a lot of people stress out about getting pregnant and it not happen. And when you least expect it bam it happens. God will make it work. Stay positive good luck
You two are such an inspiration and give hope to others, even those who may be suffering with other diseases. And I can't help but always smiling through your whole videos. Your smiles are contagious..
Yay I’m so excited for you guys! I pray that your present this year for Christmas is a pregnancy! You both are going to be fantastic parents. God Bless
My heart feels for you both. I also struggled a bit with fertility. I just want to encourage you. I also went through taking my temp and I was blessed with seeing a fertility specialist. I found that I wasn’t ovulating . So we tried a little dose of clomid. AND I got TWINS!! Turns out I had twins in the family that I didn’t know about. I pray you both get what your heart desires!!
As a retired Ob/Gyn clinician I always told my patients this. What y'all do is your business. Everyone will always talk and ask questions. Focus on you all and don't worry or let what others says bother or affect you. When it happens it will. Continue to be awesome and inspiring others. 🙂
Well said, and thank you!!
Amen
The more the outcry from earth to heaven, the more jubilation, excitement sending best wishes for the future the more likely the good and pleasant things will happen Cole and Charisma need not to be anxious and not at all. We are the one waiting quietly biting on our nails to sing 🎶 the victorious song 🎵 when the moment comes. We are like children waiting for Santa to knock on our door on Christmas Eve 😁
Has she seen obgyn for confirmation?
well said.
God is in Control of everything. He brought you two together for a reason and the blessing of God is coming
Lets normalize not asking people when they are going to have children!
New subscriber- praying for y’all ❤️
Guy huh huh huh0 kip up😊😅
I will Pray for God to Bless y’all with twins soon ❣️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Don’t listen to anyone telling you that it’s too late to have a baby. I just had my first baby at 38 and I’m planning on having another soon. I wish you guys the best! ❤️
I know someone who had her 1st at 30 and 3rd at 40...
I agree! Had my first baby at 34 (easy pregnancy, no issues, easy delivery, healthy baby). Planning on my second now at 39.
Agreed. Trying for a second one and I'm 35. I am healthy. My tests came out fine.
Congratulations on your first baby.
I agree, my mom made me when she was 43 years. Now I'm 25 years
Don't worry, Charisma. I had my first child at 30, my second at 34, my third at 36, and my fourth at 43! And now I have a 2 year old grandson as well. You don't need to feel rushed.
Oh man, I had to pause the video...this hit close to home and I got all the feels because it felt like it was yesterday. My condolences for your loss and my heart goes out to you. I know it's a bummer being told what to do or receiving advice when not asked...but one thing my husband and I learned is to take care of our mental health during the process. We're proud of your strength, resilience and bravery. Wishing you both all the best!
THIS is the best advice we could receive right now! We have been really focusing on our mental health. I meditate and journal almost every morning and it’s been super helpful for me. - Charisma
@@coleandcharisma I love watching you guys on your TH-cam channel
@@coleandcharisma wish u well 💕🇳🇬
Congratulations in advance guys! We're speaking this baby into existence 🙏💙💜
Oh yea I’m 💯 percent on board with this comment 😂 ❤️ 🙏
AMEN!!!!!
🙏 Amen
ONLY GOD can DO That.
Twins
We will be praying that in God's timing, all things happen as they should. PLEASE don't feel obligated to share more than you feel comfortable sharing, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME!!🙂
I just love you people.lots of love from kenya.
Thanks for sharing what is none of our biz! 😂
I never ask anyone that’s one of the things I was taught. It’s personal. I wish you all much success!
It's shocking some of the things people ask. I was raised as you not to ask questions like that
I see a healthy baby, I don’t see any particular gender, just two happy parents with a beautiful baby❤
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I had my son at 35... there are 14 years in between him and my daughter so yes you do have time... so good luck yall
You are YOUNG! I had my first and only baby at 40. No problems and he was such a gift! He is such an awesome person and I cannot imagine life without him!
Guys it’s the hardest thing when you want to conceive and people really don’t understand how upsetting it is to be asked when it’s not happening for you. I’m 49 and it never happened I had miscarriage’s but I took them really badly. I’m at peace with it now and very happy. I wish you all the best for the future 💞
@@LyslScentedLife that’s a hurtful thing to say to someone when they wanted to become a parent
Hugs
@@parler8698 you’re the one
I am so sorry you had to experience that. It must have been extra hard dealing with other people's reponses too. Glad you were able to find some peace. God Bless you.
@@LyslScentedLife Are you crazy ???
Cole and Charisma make my day. Can’t wait to see the little one : boy or girl it don’t matter. We will be waiting ❤😊
I'm team twins. Boy and girl
@@bridgetsuttles9908 didn’t want to say it but I agree this was my goal for the first round and for the second round one will be just fine. A total of 6 little feet 🦶 running all over the place ❤️👏🏽 jumping on Mom and Dad’s bed early in the morning to get some attention
Y’all are too much!! 😂❤️
I am team triplets❤💓🥰
@@coleandcharisma not sure if you have been reading my comments from a while ago. You and Cole have been in my prayers as a Catholic tomorrow is The Day December 8-12 to beg for favors from Our Lady of Guadeloupe. Oh yes 👍🏽 you and Cole gonna hear your ears ringing because your name will be mentioned for you to catch a couple of birdies with one single stone. Watch for a full moon 🌕 and a nice glass of Chardonnay along with the nicest slice of European cake 🍰.
BLESSING and Prayers 🙌💕. It's a huge blessing they found Your polyp 🙏, there's always a good in a bad situation and in the decades to come it Could Save Your Life. I'm Sorry For Your Loss but That Child Will Be Back Growing In Charismas Tummy, timing just wasn't right appatently, God Knows. I can feel that You Two 💕 will have A GORGROUS Baby Girl💗, It Feels Right!!!! Gorgeous like Her Mommy or His Mommy... and Handsome Daddy. Many Blessings Ahead Of You Both Including Your Babies and Amazing Family 💕🙌. Sending Love and Hugs From Western Upstate New York.... Your Tree Is Beautiful 🌲 Enjoy The Holiday Seasons
I am so excited for the both of you! My daughter chose to go with IVF after losing 3 babies. She also decide to only share her pregnancy with only a few people until after the first trimester, because of the emotional tole it took on them. She now has two beautiful baby girls and just found out she has another one on the way. This new one is a do it yourselfer! I was shocked, because I had a dream about 2 weeks previous that she was pregnant and she was going to have a boy! After you have your precious little one, the biggest problem you will face is Grandparents wanting to buy everything in sight for their beautiful Grandbaby! I tell my daughter, I waited a long time and I worked very hard to get my Grandbabies, so let me spoil them! You would think I delivered them myself! I was a nervous wreak the whole pregnancy. LOL!
Aaaaw so sweet congrats to your daughter n family yeah right thats gonna be me one day when I'm a grandma will spoil them rotten
I am 53 years old and I have been following you for about a year now. And funny I was not sick then till September of 2021 was hit by COVID. And had lots of complications that led me to be wheel chair bound till now. But watching you guys has such a blessing. I love how you love each other. It gives a lot of courage and strength. Love you guy and praying for you.
I would never pressure anyone about this topic, I have had several people in my life who had trouble becoming pregnant, and the family members were not supportive, and even rude about it.One couple ended up having 5 miscarriages in seven years, eventually adopted two children. How ever you form a family is what is right for you. You do what is best for you in your situation This not something that others are supposed to be involved with, except those you choose to tell. I was at a wedding and an older woman asked the bride,when the baby shower was going to be, the bride who was in her early twenties, said that it was to early for them, they were paying off student loans. The rude woman said some pretty nasty things about this and upset the bride to tears ,she spent her wedding reception in the ladies room. So I wish people would leave personal topics alone ,unless you are very close to someone, who wants advice on the subject, don't ask so when's the baby coming? Or another one is when are you gonna get a better job. I am sure that if they want us to know something they will tell us, topics like this are very personal and can be difficult and hurtful, if someone is trying and it's not happening for some reason.
I had that same thing happen to me and I was dealing with a bad case of endometriosis! It never happened for me even with surgeries and hormones! People were so cruel 😪!
Beverly Dust: Also, it's none of anybody's business! I hate fans pressuring famous people (influence/content creator) to have a baby or asking questions!
@@sharonharris7245 Eu tinha ovários policísticos, endometriose, miomas e cistos por dentro e fora do útero...
Tive uma ferida pequena no colo do útero, que se não tratasse poderia virar câncer no colo do útero, tratei no início e deu tudo certo.
Mas vários médicos, falaram que nunca teria filhos.
Com muita esperança e fé, consegui ter meus lindos presentes, quando nem esperava mais.
Engravidei sem tratamentos e naturalmente aos mais de 40 anos do primeiro filho, e com mais de 43 anos do segundo filho.
Meus presentes lindos e especiais pra mim, o mais novo é autista, um anjinho especial na minha vida.
Quando queremos muito, de alguma forma conseguimos...Deus ouve ...
@@amorcompartilhado601 I'm sorry, I can't translate and I don't speak Spanish! Is there anything you can do to help? I'd love to hear from you!
You sound like a good and çaring person with the right outlook on life !
Y’all are *so* young - please, take your time! Children are a blessing, but also change your life completely. Continue having fun times together as a couple: pursue your ambitions, travel, sleep late …. Just keep laughing and loving each other. As Charisma said early in the video, folks have babies much later these days - there’s plenty of time. Love y’all.
You are still young. I was 33 when my son was born and my sister had her son at 43. So enjoy each other. ❤️
Hello, I hope you're safe over there and I hope this year brings happiness, prosperity, and love to you as well, can I know where you're from?
As soon as you posed the question, I envisioned a pretty little girl that looks just like Cole. Praying and claiming it for you in 2023! 20:36
Praying for a blessing this year ! We tried for 8 years after our first child. When God finally blessed use with our 2nt child. We are praying for blessings over you!
I feel for ppl who desperately want children, who would make great supportive parents but struggle to conceive. Keeping my fingers crossed your able to conceive a much wanted child. We don’t deserve your story but I’m happy to hear all about it and cheer y’all on. Sending baby dust y’all way!! ❤
Thank you 🤍🤍
I don’t know why I’ve always seen you two having a baby boy first!💙 This is exciting! Thank you SO much for allowing us insight on your beautiful journey. Everything happens for a reason and in it’s due time.
My sister had two miscarriages, one being a biochemical loss and now my niece is three years old and thriving. It is so so common. It will happen for you! Prayers for you and so much love your way. I love you two!
I feel honored that you've chosen to share with us 🙏🏽. I pray your baby brings even more joy into your hearts, might be in the minority but I see a boy or twins 🥰🥰
Just pray and God will do the rest 🙏🏽❤️
You both bring so much joy to my week every week with this content! All my love and support from Scotland xx
I had a miscarriage and God bless my husband and I to have a healthy baby boy…Stay encouraged! It will happen!🥰
I see a baby Charisma. The reason why is because her family genetics seems so strong. Either way, this baby will be blessed 💯 percent to have you both as parents.
You to go for it.I had my last child at 43.It went very smoothly.And a life changing experience that is priceless.Nobody has the right to say anything other than,we are so happy for you and congratulations!
I see a beautiful healthy baby and two beautiful emotional parents on the blessed day! We’re going to be happy with whichever one you two have because that’s how we roll here! 🫂🙏💜❤️
I am in agreement with Miss Natha! Be Blessed C&C!
Best wishes with God everything is in control 🤗🌾🔥🤰👪👌
I see Cole& Chairsma wonderful parents who will love and take good care of there of babies.
It’s crazy watching this months later, knowing that you all just had your egg retrieval and you got five embryos and to hear charisma say you are all have about five names. May God bless your family on this fertility journey.
Wishing y’all much success in your pregnancy endeavors. Prayers are on their way 🙏🏽 😊
Becoming pregnant is a beautiful feeling, but I understand your distress and wanting to keep it to yourselves. It is not always easy, certainly for me is was not. Blocked tubes, surgeries, but to let you know, after 5 miscarriages, 2 ectopic pregnancies, I had my first child, another miscarriage and then my second child. I am blessed! They are now 25 & 27, it was so worth all the heartbreak. You will get thru this. Thank you for sharing your personal story, I love your channel. So positive and you both are really great people.
Praying that everything goes well with you and hope you have twins.
This is what I see, I see a beautiful Baby born and raised by a loving, beautiful couple, I pray that 2023 is the year that Our Father in Heaven send you two your Baby.
I’m happy for you, it will happen soon, you guys will be great parents 🙏🏾 that things work out for you in 2023
Whenever it happens, I know this will be a beautiful baby and the baby will be so blessed to have you as parents❤
Good luck with the process! You don't need pressure or questions from anyone. I totally think keeping this to yourself until you want to share is the way to go.
My heart goes out to you! It took us 2 yrs to get pregnant the first time. It was so draining! I feel that. As soon as we made appts with a fertility specialist I found out I was pregnant. It's weird how life works. Then it took us 1.5 yrs the second time. Then never again despite never using birth control. I feel so blessed to have my 2 kiddos.
Our time is not God's time...be patient it will happen! Love you guys❤️
God allowed the murder of toddlers in that school. Shooting. God has bad timing
This is SO SO SO True! Have been struggling with this personally myself.
Waiting on God's timing is so real...just relax guys...when you least expect...keep praying and thanking God in advance..
Probably. But maybe it won't, and if so you will cross that bridge when you come to it and find a way through.
I am excited for your guys. We went through this 18 years ago and it will happen. The waiting game sux but when the ball gets rolling it is nonstop. I started at 27 and said no more after 35 and ended up having my surprise blessing at 36 LOL. Three kids later I can say enjoy each other, because it will get busy quick :) Many blessings of health and peace heading your way in 2023.
The same thing happened to a couple I knew from church in the past. They waited 10 years to get pregnant after nany petitions the 1st baby was born, a year later the second, a year after the 3rd, and the fourth and the fifth and the sixth. They decided to do contraception the natural way 3 years later the 7th and the last one a very pretty little girl with deep blue eyes and dark hair. Careful what you asked God for cause when it rains it pours 😁
Viewers need to chill on their baby comments/questions. It will happen when it's meant to happen and they will share when they want to share. This video is so vulnerable. I appreciate all you both share with us. Stay warm in this chilly LA weather. Sending my love and support 💝
Absolutely agree ❤
Thank you to you both for your graciousness in responding to your fans in such a way. I'm not fond of the fans who insist on voicing their comments regarding babies, which is, as you've revealed, an intimate and stressful aspect of your lives. The journey to parenthood is multifaceted for whomever takes it on, and it's becoming more known that the road to pregnancy is not a slam dunk! That being said, I pray for you all to have an enjoyable experience on this journey, however it comes about, and Thank you for sharing with us, while keeping the joy intact along the way. Blessings to you both and your families.
Sending lots of love to you both on your journey! That’s gonna be one beautiful baby! ❤️
I see two great parents who will be loving and caring. I look forward to your bundle of joy
Trying to get pregnant and not having it happen is enough pressure without adding the public to it. Just keep to yourself what you want to do, you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you both all the best 🙏🏻💓🙏🏻
Thank you 🤍🤍
There is thousands of couples on this platform but this two are special and super strong super heroes. May God bless them greatly with whatever they wish. I feel they contributed immensely to TH-cam 🏆❤️🙏God will bless them with a baby at the right time.
Thank you for being so open about this! I'm 33 and constantly being asked when I'm going to have a baby 🙄 it's exhausting because people don't know my fertility struggles so it's hurtful. I pray for your strength and sending you baby dust! The horizontal tango is the fun part lol 💚
I never ask woman about having a baby people don't understand it's hard especially if you have PCOS or anything that messes with you having a baby. I'm sorry for dumb ass people hugs and prayers
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I too, have had a chemical pregnancy and couldn’t pass the baby on my own & man oh man I couldn’t agree more with “there was a lot of tears”. Here’s hoping you guys have a baby when “the time is right” good luck on your journey loves❤️
I hate people asking about when you will have a baby. It’s none of their business! I’m 42 and i hope to start trying soon but won’t tell anyone. Hope it happens for you, the less stress around it the more chance of it working. It’s such a personal thing, I’ve had 16 years since our wedding of people asking! Enough from everyone lol
42 the ship may have sailed 😢
Super verdade
Muitas pessoas soa muito srm noção
Thank you for sharing ❤. Infertility is so under talked about. My husband and I went through the same. After 3 years of trying we adopted. 12 years later it’s sad infertility is still a taboo subject
May God give you triplets, you two are too sweet you deserve everything and more.
Namanya! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm in awe of y'all sharing that. Y'all are so vulnerable and open with us about your lives. Thank you for being you!
Gosh, you guys, I'm so sorry that it's been emotionally tough. Thank you for being vulnerable and for sharing your story, which of course is totally up to you how much you choose to share! I love your guys' positivity and can totally picture you with a baby girl. I will be praying for your family!! ♥
I literally just had a myomectomy last month to remove a small polyp. My Dr said that it's location, in my uterine lining, could prevent a pregnancy. If you do need a procedure for that, I can confirm it's not that bad. Best of luck with all your trying!
Omg thank you for sharing! So happy to hear it wasn’t bad. I was so nervous! Haha
I had a myomectomy in May to help with conceiving a baby. It wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. People constantly asking when I’m gonna have a baby with me knowing that I had something preventing me from conceiving was so difficult. Hence I would never ask a couple this question. I pray that things will work out in you and Cole’s favor. And maybe we can all be in the 2023 baby club. Blessings.
I apologies for all of us but I know we are so vested in being aunts, uncles, grandma's and grandpa's...we will try and contain our enthusiasm...
I'm 38 with 2 kids and never heard of a polyp till this video and reading through comments 🤷♀️
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Sharing this openly and putting your faith out in the atmosphere, is a major part of the fulfillment process. Now you have the agreement of thousands of other faith walkers joining you. God will bless.
Awww guys. So many of us care so much and are rooting for you. We genuinely do care. We're going to be over the MOON when that wonderful time comes.
Good luck guys
You’ll have a family when YOU are ready!!!!, not rushing from anyone!! Please live your life!!!🙏🏼♥️🙏🏽♥️🙏🏾
Many blessings and positive thought for the two of you!
No one is to old to have a baby if someone is wanting a baby. You two would make awesome parents with lots of love and that is all that matters... Love
Thank you because if people don't realize God give you a menstrual cycle for as long as he wants you to be able to have kids if he thought you were too old and he would take that away 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏾
I see a beautiful healthy baby with two loving parents. I’m praying for you guys ❤
That is going to be one beautiful baby. You are both going to be amazing parents.
Praying for a bouncing, healthy baby for you guys... 😍
You are teaching us a true love.May God we trust be with you guys.
🙏🏾It will happen for you all…Stay encouraged!
You will be blessed soon, God will be there for you on this new journey. "Girl"
I hope the baby news is going to be really soon 🎉. My daughter turned 35 years old this year and this is the year of the baby for her… I can’t wait. It will happen one way or another for sure.
I had a miscarriage back in late august/early September of 2020. It was the hardest thing I ever went through. However, I ended up getting pregnant in February of last year and had my daughter last November. She is a year now and all I can do is thank god for that experience because it made me even more ready for my daughter and there is never a day that goes by that I don’t thank God for her. I was 29 when I had my daughter and I don’t regret being a little bit older.
It will happen when it happens and we will all be here for it guys! ❤❤ so excited for you both!!
Keeping my fingers crossed and praying for good news for you in 2023
As a mom of 4 kids I learned that when you take the regimental structure out of things and just let a natural flow happen then pregnancy can occur rather easy. When you try to overly plan and force things it adds stress, not a healthy baby making environment ☺. I'm glad u guys got tested and I pray when the timing is right you all will be blessed with a beautiful and healthy baby☺☺
Mom of 4 here too and couldn't agree more!
Cole & Charisma sorry for your loss but good to know it is possible to conceive God timing is perfect you will be awesome parents. Such love ❤️ to give to a child. Ps don't pay attention to pressure. Relax enjoy your jounery.
I agree. Try to relax and take the stress out of it. It took my younger sister four years after her marriage to become pregnant, largely because her husband was in the military and he had to spend many months on several occasions away from my sister on overseas deployment. They eventually had two healthy children without any problems.
As a person as who has struggled with fertility for the last 10 years this is THE LEAST HELPFUL MOST HURTFUL advice I have ever heard repeatedly. My organs are not working. This is like telling someone with heart condition to just "relax" it will fix itself. No it won't. My organs still aren't working. Relaxing does not make my ovaries release my eggs
Yup. Mom of 6 and two years of temping and timing with no success. Gave you and bam! Had 3 back to back 😂. Then had 3 more
When the most high is ready to bless y'all, you will have all the babies he know you are able to take care of, when it happens enjoy your blessings guys
We had to go to a fertility specialist, so we totally understand what you’re going through. My thoughts are with you all on your journey to grow a family.
Cole will be a very protective dad. Chrisma will be a great mom. I think you will have one of each. 😊
Oh, the first half of the video, I had tears of joy for you all. Then you all explained what happen. I’m so sorry that you experienced that. Have faith it will happen in Gods time. You all are going to make awesome parents and the baby is going to be beautiful. Good luck on your journey to get pregnant, stay safe, and God Bless the both of you and your future children. Love you guys. Much respect and love.
Yes!!! This is your year!!!! I had my first at 30, my second at 39 and we are planning for one more. You got this!!
I always find it interesting when people always give their own opinions on your body and family plans. I am also 28 and I do not have kids, I have been asked a million times by family and friends for the last 5-8 years when I am having a baby. I got to the point in telling people I didn't want kids just so they would leave me alone about it. My husband and I finally decided to try for one soon and I am excited, but we haven't told anyone were trying because then people will just have a million more questions. I understand where you guys are coming from completely.
Great that you're sharing! A lot of people don't know this. God bless you two.
I hope y'all addressing this helps people consider not making comments like that. There are far more reasons to NOT ask those things, even with the best intention and purest curiosity. Love y'all
Wishing you the best. Share what you want because everything is not everyone’s business. Continue to enjoy your life together.
Every time you guys make a video, it is cuteness overload. Boy, girl, twins, triplets, they will be so blessed to have you guys as their parents. I agree with 2023 being your year to have a baby. I wish you and Cole the best of luck.
Praying for u 2 love you both.
I am totally excited! One thing a secret, the less you think about it the sooner that will happen. I will continue to pray for you and God knows when you are ready and that precious time will happen. One day at a time, ok? Love you so much! Anita 🌟
I was 28 when pregnant the first time and 36 the second time - with twins. Take your time, enjoy being a couple and babies can come when you are ready.
20 with my daughter and 35 with my son... I am done now for sure lol
Take it as it happens. U'll rejoice the same. People should let up on the questions. It's a very personal issue. Putting too much pressure on u guys may b making it less enjoyable too.
A healthy baby with amazing parents that will love him or her unconditionally- good luck and lots of positive thoughts coming your Way 💕
Thank y'all for being so open and honest. Not everyone's road to pregnancy is smooth or "typical." More couples struggle than we realize because it's not talked about much. (I got surprised with severe endometriosis!) I'm sorry for your loss...such a hard thing. But that baby will come! And I say...GIRL! #GirlPower ✊🏻❤️
Congrats and yes keep what you want and need to yourselves. The questions have to be hard I'm sorry some people forget that is sometimes a pain line of questioning.
Questioning someone's PERSONAL lives and choices is NEVER appropriate. It is especially rude when questions are directed to complete strangers. People all need to "mind their own business". I wrote my family's experience, if you want to read it.
YAY!!! I'm soooooooo ready to be the TH-cam Auntie!!!!
I have been speaking twins, healthy and blessed in everything..but, I trust God's will for you both..love, love you both.
Wow. Late!? I was 29 when I had my son. It IS very emotional. We were headed to IVF when I got pregnant and it can be rough on the relationship. Intimacy becomes a chore. I have dealt with Endometriosis and growing cysts/Endometriomas, including abdominal surgeries to remove them. I should NOT have been able to have children. I ended up with two and two miscarriages. I'm glad you kept it to yourselves. It is YOUR business and no one else's. 💕
29 is the perfect age! We’re so shocked when people tell us it’s getting late to have a baby. Haha thank you for your comment 🤍
Seriously, when she said that I was wondering who these people are who think 29 is late. 🤷🏽♀️
I pray that all the plans and procedures align and 2023 will be your year. You put it right Charisma, it WILL happen at the right time. The triplets are coming ! 🍼🍼🍼I'm with Cole in this 💗 💗 💓
God bless you both xx
Guys, it's nobody's business at all but thank you for sharing. I rarely ask people about their baby plans because it is such a sensitive and emotional issue. So much pressure. Don't feel obliged to share no matter the probing questions. Do you and share when you're ready. Took me 20 months to get pregnant with my second child; it happened after I gave up trying! So, relax and try to enjoy the process. God bless!
I love the way you guys love and treat each other
Cole and Charisma I feel that Y’all will be great parents when the time comes. I’ve seen a lot of people stress out about getting pregnant and it not happen. And when you least expect it bam it happens. God will make it work. Stay positive good luck
You two are such an inspiration and give hope to others, even those who may be suffering with other diseases. And I can't help but always smiling through your whole videos. Your smiles are contagious..
Yay I’m so excited for you guys! I pray that your present this year for Christmas is a pregnancy! You both are going to be fantastic parents. God Bless
My heart feels for you both. I also struggled a bit with fertility. I just want to encourage you. I also went through taking my temp and I was blessed with seeing a fertility specialist. I found that I wasn’t ovulating . So we tried a little dose of clomid. AND I got TWINS!! Turns out I had twins in the family that I didn’t know about.
I pray you both get what your heart desires!!
Those babies will be so cute!! Hoping for twins, boy and girl.
congratulations on your bundle of joy in 2023 Blessings