@@babyyoda4942 Taking one day at a time, depression is still there but getting better. using this breakup to become the 2.0 version on myself like Clark says. Quit smoking weed for good because of it so i guess its a blessing in disguise, im not understanding totally what went wrong. you just cant actually and thats ok we should not ruminate on what could be and what we did wrong. a breakup doesnt mean youre less than. Smile because it happened. Its better to have loved and experience loss than to not have loved at all.
I’ve got an ex I call “Asteroid Boy” because our collision sent me off on a trajectory I could never have imagined. Led to a complete change and total fucking growth.
“Write out what you would be willing to commit to in a partner in the future”. I did this a couple a years back : ) Awesome thing to do. It made me realise how little the “dream” ex was actually giving. And what I was capable of instead.
Needed this in my teens and early 20s. Lost a coworker and friend in 2011 because her husband shot her, then himself because she wanted a divorce. We got to LEARN about our emotions or be controlled by them.
the universe always provides. Currently heart broken, hadn't been on your channel In a little.. and what do you know. A video just for me. Thanks man, I appreciate you
Thank you Clark for sharing this video. You have put a lot of time, energy and effort in this. This will help a lot of people. You are amazing! Thank you for being You!! 😺
Love your videos, as always you're incredibly wise and you know how to speak in an amazing engaging manner. And it is cute how when you will share a personal story you ask if it's ok with us. Thanks for sharing all your knowledge, stay safe
to a much lesser degree you also have to deal with electronic ghosts when people are not metaphorically but actually dead to you. I had to deal with stuff like that after my mother died a few years ago. removing her number from my contacts archiving message threads removing buy gifts reminders from my google calendar etc. obviously this is not someone I am trying to forget but cutting down on the little electric jabs that she isn't here anymore helps a little with the grieving.
I agree with everything but…deal with an ex-wife after 23 years of marriage and two children in common. I ‘ll survive surely but it will be not easy to struggle. Cheers from Switzerland!
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yeah, it’s a nightmare. I went through it 4 months ago and I’m barely feeling better. We broke up after 5 years. You’re gonna randomly start feeling okay.
I'm confused because in the beginning of the video you say pretending they don't exist is bad. However, mid-way through this is the advice you give -pretend they don't exist. Maybe I'm not understanding.
Emotionally they existed so don't pretend the feelings didn't exist actually later he means practically in your house and behaviour with Internet erase it so you can heal without reminders all de time
@@nicholasbrajkovic1710 this is relative. I'm going through a breakup rn and I could get valuable information for every point he made. So think about others as well
The fact that I’m still alive after all my failed relationships is good enough.
Well reasoned conclusion
are you though? maybe we’re all dead already 💀
I hear you
Understood
Relatable brother
This video couldnt more on point with timing, just broke up yesterday. Thank you.
how u doing bro
@@babyyoda4942 Taking one day at a time, depression is still there but getting better. using this breakup to become the 2.0 version on myself like Clark says. Quit smoking weed for good because of it so i guess its a blessing in disguise, im not understanding totally what went wrong. you just cant actually and thats ok we should not ruminate on what could be and what we did wrong. a breakup doesnt mean youre less than. Smile because it happened. Its better to have loved and experience loss than to not have loved at all.
Good luck dude, we’re right there with you.
I’ve got an ex I call “Asteroid Boy” because our collision sent me off on a trajectory I could never have imagined. Led to a complete change and total fucking growth.
“Write out what you would be willing to commit to in a partner in the future”.
I did this a couple a years back : ) Awesome thing to do. It made me realise how little the “dream” ex was actually giving. And what I was capable of instead.
3:44 "Did you sit there and judge yourself for getting sick."
Me: yes actually, every time. *laughs in c-ptsd*
Great GREAT video. I am going through a breakup and I feel like I just went through every stage emotionally because of your presentation. Thank you
Needed this in my teens and early 20s. Lost a coworker and friend in 2011 because her husband shot her, then himself because she wanted a divorce. We got to LEARN about our emotions or be controlled by them.
Your personal anecdotes are as insightful as your advice, Thanks Good Buddy
the universe always provides. Currently heart broken, hadn't been on your channel In a little.. and what do you know. A video just for me. Thanks man, I appreciate you
The example with the trash is awesome
Bro I’m goin through it rn, I wanna go back and try to fix things and break no contact but I’m just trying to fix myself first. Shits tuff fr
you got this bro 🤝 focus on building yourself first then eventually you'll be in a better place
Thank you for this. Betrayal blindside of is hurtful. Thank you for this video.
Thank you Clark for sharing this video. You have put a lot of time, energy and effort in this. This will help a lot of people. You are amazing! Thank you for being You!! 😺
Love your videos, as always you're incredibly wise and you know how to speak in an amazing engaging manner. And it is cute how when you will share a personal story you ask if it's ok with us. Thanks for sharing all your knowledge, stay safe
I didnt see this coming. But as always your content have valuable information everytime.
great video thanks for the information , very useful
to a much lesser degree you also have to deal with electronic ghosts when people are not metaphorically but actually dead to you. I had to deal with stuff like that after my mother died a few years ago. removing her number from my contacts archiving message threads removing buy gifts reminders from my google calendar etc. obviously this is not someone I am trying to forget but cutting down on the little electric jabs that she isn't here anymore helps a little with the grieving.
Wow. I have never thought about this. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏
This is incredible thank you!
Did i miss the how to get a girlfriend guide?
Thank u Clark,, very helpful ❤
This video îs the best from the best! I am so lucky that i found you❤
I was good then had a dream, and now I relapsed.😢
Keep going, I'm in pain, so much, I just want a particular person to make it better. They won't do it
those dreams really set you back right.. I know them really well too.
Use this to realise that this is the nature of life for things in life. They come and they go. Impermanence
Good advice. Thx man.
Well said thank you 😊
Very good advice thank you ❤
Thanks… my dumb ass is going on vacation with my ex in October smh
7:31 and I'm literally listening to "Dead to Me by Palaye Royale" on repeat atm lmao
Good Timing. We always appreciate you 🙏🩷✨
Now that I know Monday is Break up day I feel relieved...
I need a min by min, day by day guide for my daughter's boyfriend!
Lol broke up some minutes ago real life saver
50 percent happen on MONDAY! YES YES YES.
Hard to block and remove all that stuff when we have kids..
Please do a video for folks with kids.
Bro, 0:45 that was exactly what i was thinking.
I agree with everything but…deal with an ex-wife after 23 years of marriage and two children in common. I ‘ll survive surely but it will be not easy to struggle. Cheers from Switzerland!
REQUEST - Sir i believe healthy society can only be sustained by healthy family but relationships and cheating is becoming so obvious than we as man unable to commit completely to relationship causes lesser fire for purpose in life. Could you please make all the masculine qualities every man must must have and how to completely stop relationship breakup and cheating. Love from India ❤
How did you know I am going through this right now lmao
Great, now do one for co-parenting 😊lol
Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting dirty underwear on after
Is your name written in the lambs book of life?
I just had a break up and I accepted he wanted to end our relationship. I just want to stop missing him.
why you had to call me out sir 😭
Im preparing for a break up 2:40 ;’) I just can’t anymore
I had a break up last month
We had a 4 year long Relationship she said she doesn't love me anymore
yeah, it’s a nightmare. I went through it 4 months ago and I’m barely feeling better. We broke up after 5 years. You’re gonna randomly start feeling okay.
@@drivethrufilmzz I feel better buddy thanks for your reply
It’s been 14 months and he is now married…I still can’t move on….what should I do?
Did you make mistakes and push him away or did he just not value you?
But she is my next door neighbor. What do I do now?
I'm confused because in the beginning of the video you say pretending they don't exist is bad. However, mid-way through this is the advice you give -pretend they don't exist. Maybe I'm not understanding.
Okay I noticed that too like what’s happening 😂
Emotionally they existed so don't pretend the feelings didn't exist actually later he means practically in your house and behaviour with Internet erase it so you can heal without reminders all de time
I think he meant having no contact. But I agree he should’ve been much more straightforward.
It's so hard to be sentimental in a superficial world. The memories are hard.
Surviving a breakup meant having to break up with your job as well. But for other reasons.
This is wonderful for young and middle aged people. For older people a breakup is a farewell to romantic relationships 😢
What you think you become
What you feel, you attract
What imagine, you create
The Buddha
I thought I would be the first to comment 😭😭😭😭
Meh. It's just a breakup. So what. The real hard part is getting a new girl.
Not exactly a breakup. More of a separation, caused by my girl dying.
😳 I'm so sorry
Thai not Korean😂 ig ask Asian sounds the same
Too much fluff. You need to simplify.
He doesn't need to do anything, you're the one who needs to extract what's useful for you
@@andyxbox1 true but I’d do my viewers the gold standard
@@nicholasbrajkovic1710 this is relative. I'm going through a breakup rn and I could get valuable information for every point he made. So think about others as well
good timing