"My daughter’s disassociation from the Jehovah's Witnesses helped wake me up". Meet Laura exjw

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  • @elynsp
    @elynsp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Laura, thank you for sharing your story! We have a few things in common. I'm from Northern CA and was also baptized in early 1975 at the age of 15. And my single mom was receiving SS benefits too! But my JW mom insisted I start working when I turned 18 instead of going to community college. She told me I could not go to college and continue living at home. She did not even want me working full time or missing field service and meetings. I had just graduated from high school and had no money, job, car, or friends outside the witnesses so I began working part-time and contributing a little to the household. Eventually, I saved enough to move out and began attending college at the age of 24. I also remember the talk given by Bro Franz (1976?) after armageddon didn't happen. A huge deal was made of the fact that he was speaking at the convention. Many elders seemed to know what the talk was about but refused to divulge any info ahead of time. One of my fave young elders did tell me that many would be sorely disappointed and leave "the truth". Even though I still believed at that point, I had never really cared about living in the new system. And I was beginning to like what I was seeing of the world, lol. It took me five more years to leave and it was very painful.

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow, I’ve known so many my age that never got a college education and are now dealing with no retirement savings. If you live in the Bay Area, I would love to connect with you. DM on Fb

    • @ShoNuffSoulBro1
      @ShoNuffSoulBro1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vusimngomezulu2500 : Wake up to the truth about the “Truth”. Waking up to the fact that Fred Franz and his pre GB predecessors were all delusional and spreading false doctrines. If it were True there would be no need for the current 8 dudes to revise everything with so-called New Light. What was wrong with the old light, supposedly that was revealed by God too. “No one comes to the Father except through ME” not 8 old out of touch dudes in New York.
      Wake up to the Christ ! !

    • @ShoNuffSoulBro1
      @ShoNuffSoulBro1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Eva Spillane : Similar experience here too. I remember all the pre 1975 hype and then afterwards the excuse was about not knowing how long after Adam that Eve was created, then it was all about “This Generation” not passing away.

    • @unleashyourinnerwriter
      @unleashyourinnerwriter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My mom was baptized in 1975 - and I remember the hype that the end was coming very soon, and no one would grow old. Well, my mom is 83. She's old and has nothing. You'd think this was enough to open her eyes. Nope.

  • @RudisKetabs
    @RudisKetabs ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This lady is sooooo cool. One of the best interviews I’ve ever heard. Thanks for sharing your story 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @Alisha-zq6vh
    @Alisha-zq6vh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wowwww i have NEVER heard of someone actually having the state of mind to basically tell the elders that they’re asking for too many details and that they have sufficient info to decide your case! I got mad respect for that!

  • @stephenvos2398
    @stephenvos2398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Best interview I have listened to since wacthing ex Jw's video glad her kids did not land up becoming trapped in this cult.Great Mom.

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So happy you enjoyed it!

    • @tammyg8031
      @tammyg8031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am so glad that she was able to have her children & husband...she is very fortunate. Good for her. So glad that so many are leaving and waking up from this very sick and sinister DOOMSDAY CULT.

  • @リマンドガリャルドマリフェ
    @リマンドガリャルドマリフェ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much Laura for your openness and boldness for sharing your spiritual life's story with the "CULT". The Holy Spirit of God sees your heart and He is now helping you and your Beloved Family experience and enjoy the True Wonderful Life our Almighty GOD designed for all of us His Beloved Children even if we are still here on earth. Keep up the best work for God's Glory. Laura, You are an ENCOURAGEMENT!!! Sincerely, Marife of Shizuoka, Japan

  • @nellylugo7414
    @nellylugo7414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a nice congregation, when my mother died I was expecting my brothers and sisters to be there for me because I was one of them, but nobody showed up because she wasn’t a JW, that was what a sister told me! I cried a lot! my family was asking me, do you think any of your elders will come and say something for us? My family is not a religious family, so they weren’t a member of any church!

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so sorry for your experience. From my understanding congregations can have different personalities. My sister was known in the congregation though she never went to a meeting or studied. But, she took care of my mom so she could pioneer. And we were very close. We had a
      Memorial at the mortuary. An elder spoke for 20 min, other people gave comments, I even spoke on behalf of the family. It was so not a JW memorial, but everyone was there.

  • @MichelleLoveMercy
    @MichelleLoveMercy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your story parallels mine so much! Thank you for sharing, I relate soooo much.

  • @Ap-wz5rr
    @Ap-wz5rr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing interview. I hung on every word didn’t skip forward once

  • @johnnyruins9025
    @johnnyruins9025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Thank you more people out of this destructive cult your kids are young and will do fine.

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you. Yes, they still have many years ahead of them and they will always have my love and support.

  • @virginiagirl7014
    @virginiagirl7014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are such a beautiful person Laura! Thank you for sharing your story! Totally related so much to you, pioneered for 12 yrs….yada, yada, yada! When my three kids started going to college & my husband stepped down as an elder…I started waking up! Love ya sis.!!!

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so happy you all woke up too.

  • @lesliethomas7234
    @lesliethomas7234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What an engaging and inspiring interview! Thanks to the interviewer for allowing her to elaborate. She has a mind of her own, rather than allowing a group of men to dictate her relationship with her daughter.

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for watching

    • @cal8007
      @cal8007 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was afraid for a while after I decided I wanted to leave. My daughter was disfellowshipped, and my son faded away. I missed them so much even though I was still talking to them, but I was trying to get them back to the meetings so our conversations were definitely very awkward. The way I woke up was when my cousin sent me some religious links, so I felt I could sent him the link to our page. To my surprise he told me he couldn’t go to that page because he considered the JWs a cult. I thought to my self what is he talking about? Then he sent me a link to a video about why JWs are considered a cult. But I couldn’t bring myself to view it. I finally started but I found some errors so I started doing research. That’s when I woke up! I was like Laura. I spent every minute lookin up things which made me more like determined to leave. I called my children and I apologized for putting them through such terrible times trying to get them to come back. I’m happy to tell you that after 50 years I feel free! With some help from my therapist and the love and understanding of my husband, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Thank you for your interviews. They have helped me very much. 😊

    • @Sunshine_AK
      @Sunshine_AK ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cal8007 are we twins?? I called my kids and apologized too for bringing them into a cult from birth. I also left after 50 years. It was the realization that they protected CSA victims, we lived it, and the realization that elders choose their position, they were not chosen by God, and if they did that then the GB did too and if we followed what they told us, then we were part of a cult! I left and called my adult kids who had all realized it was bullshit and I apologized 💞

  • @cherylhennessy57
    @cherylhennessy57 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview!! Really enjoyed it !! Thank you! ❤

  • @blessedmama4361
    @blessedmama4361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the best Interviews I’ve seen about EX Jehovah witness. I’ve always knew Jehovah witness was a business. When she said it was a pyramid I was I knew it. Laura made this interview interested and fun. Just her personality.

  • @petertherock7340
    @petertherock7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is what concerns me most about such a deceptive organization as the Watch Tower. Good sincere people spend their whole lives serving faithfully to enrich the lives of deceitful men in New York for the false promise of a paradise earth in the future (which never comes). When this woman’s mother died during the telling interview, I thought “What a waste of a person’s life! This is wrong…”. Many other faithful JWs have also died in the darkness of this cult. Sadly, people don’t think about their end until it is too late. 🙏. P.S. A very good, award winning video series about the origins of Judaism and Christianity is “The Footprints of God” series by Steve Ray.

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, my mom loved her life waiting for paradise. But, she was supported and loved to preach. She converted at 43 and this new religion made her happy and feel valued. But that not the case for most. Born ins never have that luxury to choose as adults. It’s expected and they are guilted into baptism, which then traps them.

    • @petertherock7340
      @petertherock7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Whatever reasons a person has for converting to the Jehovah’s Witnesses (feelings of loneliness, social isolation, wanting to belong somewhere, or other), this organization was built on lies from the beginning. Charles Russell was a disgruntled youth with not even a high school education when he founded Zion’s Watch Tower in the late nineteenth century. He walked away from his father’s haberdashery business to start his own false religion for profit $$. He never had any theological training or ordination from any religious body. Judge Rutherford was an attorney with no theological credentials either. In the old days, people called men like Russell and Rutherford “snake oil salesmen.” 👍

  • @seanrathmakedisciples1508
    @seanrathmakedisciples1508 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤Thanks Laura , I was also born catholic and I was born again later having called on the name of the Lord Jesus. The Jehovah’s Witnesses called to visit me for years and I was reading Gods word daily and studying by myself When I was born again I was led to read John and Acts and the word became alive to me. I kept debating the word with the Jehovah’s Witnesses and we kept debating. Eventually they stopped coming and another Jehovah’s Witness told me that the Jehovah’s witnesses were ordered to keep from my home because I was demonic and wouldn’t submit to their indoctrination. I decided to learn more of this .organization and I discovered about their failed prophecies and about Beth Sarim which was the mansion that they built for Abraham and the Old Testament Saints ❤. I now have many ex JWs friends who are now free in Christ ❤

  • @henrim9348
    @henrim9348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing interview. It is always good to listen to the interviews of ex members. I was never in the religion, but have family in it.

  • @EmmasLittleKitchenOfficial
    @EmmasLittleKitchenOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the best story ever! Thank you so much, Auntie Laura and Auntie Vevian❤️ GOD bless you!

  • @user-bf5os3fo9m
    @user-bf5os3fo9m 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Powerful video. You have some really intelligent kids.

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you. I’m very happy my kids are out and I am too. I am finally feeling what unconditional love feels like when I give it to my children.

  • @samtheman9307
    @samtheman9307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Nice always great interviews!

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏽💖

  • @evaarnold5838
    @evaarnold5838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Laura, great story…thank you for sharing….we grown ass women, we don’t need to be told how to act, and certainly don’t need to judge anyone or anything ! The freedom is so refreshing ….. living in the moment with nothing but loving freely to share 🥰
    Vevian thank you for sharing Laura’s story with us! Another wonderful EXJW success story.
    Life is meant to be enjoyed 🥰

  • @valeriepritchard2900
    @valeriepritchard2900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thankyou so much, such an interesting story that many would relate to,
    so encouraging. 💕💕💕

  • @mthokozisilanga4497
    @mthokozisilanga4497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, enjoyed this free flow interview. Vevian and Laura rocks.🌹🌹🌹👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you for watching :)

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching.

  • @jeneb52
    @jeneb52 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awesome for this family to get out and the kids too. My kids saw through the B.S. they were dishing out! May you enjoy your freedom from the cult!

  • @katb945
    @katb945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember the excuse of not knowing when Eve was made the gap, back them most of us took notes and we were told to drop studies that were not progressing within six months that is starting to attend meetings and giving up the cigs progressing toward baptism within six months or they would be dropped because the time was urgent and not to waste on those not progressing so we can spend more time in the field searching for more interested ones.

  • @tammyg8031
    @tammyg8031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Its good to see so many people waking up and leaving this very deceptive DOOMSDAY CULT. Watchtower will pay for what they have done

    • @realliving7340
      @realliving7340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It is good so many are leaving. I sure hope Watchtower pays for their crimes!

    • @tammyg8031
      @tammyg8031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@realliving7340 Watchtower will pay for everything. We must ALL BE WHISTLE-BLOWERS, AND HOLD THESE CRIMINALS ACCOUNTABLE. NOBODY IS OVER THE LAW...

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching.

    • @lavernethomasbey6822
      @lavernethomasbey6822 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks Laura and Val
      I was raised in and lived thru 1975. JW doctrines originated with the Roman Catholics and no matter how much they deny it, they are still the Church of Rome.
      I never believed our ancient ways were demonic. Why would I believe the colonizers about MY ancestors. I did the research and Christianity stole and reverse engineered our ancient. Under our Goddesses we taught love and life and reaching the highest ❤.
      As Christianity they teach slavery and repression. This proves that J is not the real God because the real G is feminine. Why would she give U life and passion just to repress U into waiting and waiting and waiting.
      This rubbish is crazy. Celebrating the mass murder of all the world's in people is beyond sick.
      You are both Goddesses to me🎉.

  • @stephcarlofc
    @stephcarlofc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Laura is an amazing person. God bless her!!

  • @rebella5769
    @rebella5769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    WOW, what a story. Vevian, you always find the most fascinating stories. I enjoyed it immensely. Though, I couldn't help but want to hear more details about her awakening experience. It was like reading a great book where you can't put it down.

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you♥️

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching 💖

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have gone into more detail in a video I did on my TH-cam channel: fourth girl

    • @ShoNuffSoulBro1
      @ShoNuffSoulBro1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vusimngomezulu2500 : : Wake up to the truth about the “Truth”. Waking up to the fact that Fred Franz and his pre GB predecessors were all delusional and spreading false doctrines. If it were True there would be no need for the current 8 dudes to revise everything with so-called New Light. What was wrong with the old light, supposedly that was revealed by God too. “No one comes to the Father except through ME” not 8 old out of touch dudes in New York.
      Wake up to the Christ ! !

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vusimngomezulu2500 why do we have to follow the Bible? are you still a JW?

  • @ItsKrazyKIki
    @ItsKrazyKIki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love her

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laura is wonderful ❤️

  • @toddhayes3506
    @toddhayes3506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great Job 👍

  • @rochelle_johnston2703
    @rochelle_johnston2703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Holy poop,
    you so do not look 60 years old Laura, thanks for sharing.

  • @eallanboggs
    @eallanboggs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She inspires me on how to milk the system. If I wanted to be on the dole I would follow her example

  • @churchofthegoldenone4577
    @churchofthegoldenone4577 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was baptized about the same time as my mother, A few months after I was born.

  • @sheilacollinge4753
    @sheilacollinge4753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant

  • @romancarrillo7904
    @romancarrillo7904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a video 👍

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching 💖

    • @romancarrillo7904
      @romancarrillo7904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vevianvoz I been out one year ago but I stop going to the meeting for a long time 3 years

    • @fourthgirl5028
      @fourthgirl5028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching. Glad you’re out.

    • @romancarrillo7904
      @romancarrillo7904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fourthgirl5028 I never like talking to people about God lol

  • @criseldaperalta5818
    @criseldaperalta5818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am in a situation now that sometimes I want to give up...I am catholic and my husband, since pandemic the zoom meeting begun and that's the right moment that thru internet bible study(indoctrination) is very opportunity for thise organization by the way my husband is 3rd gen of being a not so active but bec. Of his clans that very much active (this organization is really in bond much more family clan, communication is 24\7🥺 that they consented my husband doing here in macau way way back)...after of
    20 years of marriage my personal relationship with my husband has been tarnished...after almost a year of indoctrination he was recently baptized in this cult...some important aspect like financially, we have 2 colleges( which really i, as a mom pushed them in schooling) but the problem is my husband voluntarily demoted himself from work bec.he carry gun( without talking to me about it only I knew when his salary flushed in atm machine). As a crew commander bec. He's work is Cash in Transients so he must carry gun and by this his salary was slashed too...imagine 2 college students back in the philippines house mortgage, bills foods of my children, aside from our expenses here in macau, so everytime salary comes I was stress but my husband is just shrugging his shoulder saying that jehova's will find ways...omg I can't handle his dumbness🙄
    And the most stressful part for me is long long way back when my husband just alone working here in macau he had a girl and it bear a child that he give money with out my consent and knowledge, only recently I knew it and as if I could do nothing bec. I don't want to have a broken family again(I am a product of it)..so I have to accept it with emotionally, financially, spiritually disturbed ...In fairness my husband is very kind person, but Is this enough for me to holding, wishing, and praying that I can push more to the situation that someday when my children finish schools I can decide what is really good for all of us?...confused but still working for the best of my family...

  • @moniquedelaney7958
    @moniquedelaney7958 ปีที่แล้ว

    Too alive to be a witness . Things fall into place nicely 😄

  • @franziskani
    @franziskani 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:10:00 the old history of the Watchtower Society (and before)

  • @RudisKetabs
    @RudisKetabs ปีที่แล้ว

    Does she have her own TH-cam channel?

  • @EmpressT5
    @EmpressT5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Research Ray Hagins

  • @danielpayan737
    @danielpayan737 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve seen a handful of interviews on this channel, very interesting to say the least. However, (unsolicited advice incoming) you lose me and others I’m sure with your questioning method. You ask multiple questions at once and it seems you’re not listening to guide them back when they stray from the question asked. Maybe an outline?

  • @kathryna6370
    @kathryna6370 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugh, the constant laughter!

  • @harajukulover321
    @harajukulover321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go BEARS!

  • @eabay2102
    @eabay2102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Her story seems so unbelievable. No way witness would even acknowledge a disfellowshipped person let alone be this encouraging. Her story just doesn't seems real just a bunch of made up bull. If she was love bombed like that even after being disfellowshipped why would someone in their right mind leave that strong of support system? Most of us left because of neglect and always being left out. This lady spiced up her story to seem like she's this lovable person.

    • @aloramermaidful
      @aloramermaidful ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not unbelievable, it was that generation of JWs. The congregation I grew up in, was exactly like this. Shunning was unheard of. You just didn't do that to your kids, family. Even elders didn't do that to their kids. Of course they tried everything to get their kids to come back, but never shunned them.

  • @johncolage1651
    @johncolage1651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    V ONE TRUE RELIGION
    It is only logical that there would be one true religion. This is in harmony with the fact that the true God is a God, "not of disorder, but of peace." (1 Corinthians 14:33) The Bible says that actually there is only "one faith." (Ephesians 4:5) Who, then, are the ones who form the body of true worshipers today?
    We do not hesitate to say that they are Jehovah's Witnesses.

    • @aliwisy
      @aliwisy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So why r u on this site? Which religion or group represented that one faith for almost 2000 yrs?

    • @AlexisLexLexi
      @AlexisLexLexi ปีที่แล้ว

      Haven’t you been warned about viewing apostate material? I see you trolling on so many exJW comments. You sound foolish and you’re exposing the typical JW arrogant ignorance.

    • @johncolage1651
      @johncolage1651 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AlexisLexLexi Jesus shared good news. Jesus walked hundreds of miles on dusty roads, sharing the good news as many people as possible (Luke 8:1) To be a follower of Jesus we are to follow his example or footsteps. (Isaiah 61:1) A Christian is a follower of Jesus. To be his follower means to be not just a believer but an imitator. From the time of his baptism, Jesus spent much of his time in preaching and teaching the good news of God's kingdom. He was, in fact, addressed as "Teacher." (John 13:13; Matt. 23:8) He is called "the faithful and true witness" for he faithfully witnesses to his Father's will and purpose. ----Rev. 3:14; John 18:37; 1 Tim. 6:13.
      To stay with Jesus Christ is to stay with those whom he pleased to use. Outside the true congregation, what alternative organization is there" Only Satan's organization consisting of his political "wild beast" and his Babylonian world empire of false religion. ----Rev. 13:1, 14, 15; 17:3-6.

    • @petelancaster6715
      @petelancaster6715 ปีที่แล้ว

      The only "we" you're referring to is a rapidly dwindling few millions of brainwashed cult members. By the way, Armageddon was supposed to come when you reached a critical mass of JWs. How does that make any sense when your numbers keep falling? Anyone care to guess the canned Watchtower response? 1 Thessalonians 5:2?

    • @beaniebaby1208
      @beaniebaby1208 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its ALL christians because God says in the great trib to get oit of there my people. His people are in ALL of babylon being deceived.

  • @johncolage1651
    @johncolage1651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Bible is a Jehovah's Witness Book.----Isaiah 43:10-12.

  • @percyob1
    @percyob1 ปีที่แล้ว

    None of this makes sense :(

    • @vevianvoz
      @vevianvoz  ปีที่แล้ว

      What about this interview didn’t make sense

  • @petelancaster6715
    @petelancaster6715 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Remember when the JW's taught that once the 144,000 anointed remnants were complete, Armageddon would finally come? Cause they conveniently forgot. 🤷‍♂

  • @lavernethomasbey6822
    @lavernethomasbey6822 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Laura is so funny😅