Makena understands her Meru culture. Rurashio kwa Kimeru ni mahari na kila mwanaume ambaye amepoza msichana kwa njia hulali mahari ni lazima kutolewa iwapo utafanya harusi au la. Mahari au Rurashio kwa Wameru inadhibitisha ume appreciate wazazi wa binti kukulealea na kuzalia mwanaume anaye poza binti mzuri
The same way Ali u cant marry a person who has not converted, the same way makena akona culture za kwao. U cannot just do a wedding without ruracio. Hizi vitu ni process. No skipping. Trust the process.
Yeah napia paying dowry is a must it be paid before wedding and it doesn't end coz you can nvr fully buy someone's daughter and still it shows your wife you appreciate her na huwa iko tu agreement nawazee wa side ya dame
Kwani mnadhani pia Ali Hana traditions? Wacha kujichocha na hizo ruracio kuna Mila zaidi ya hizo na wakati mwingine nyinyi hamngependa kujihusisha nazo , epukeni Mila potovu ! Harusi moja tu inatosha!
Ali, the moment you allowed Medina in your life, it's the time you could have realized what you were up to. Some of these things you might ignore might have repurcussions in future. You are supposed to go as per her culture. You don't pay the dowry pap, because you can't measure her worth. It's like kurudisha shukrani. The girl belongs to the clan and there are things you can't skip.
Ali uku na point some things in this generation look unnecessary but I think they still define us and our communities and parents value them . So ukipata kwa kina medina wanafollow traditions huna option. Just be open
Wewe Medina hutaki mume ungetaka kuolewa ungewafahamisha wazae wako culture ya HUSBAND wako to be iko tafauti ni lazima umsaidie Ally kuwafahamisha wazae mpk waelewe.
Once upon a time, my lecturer told us that TRADITIONS ARE THERE TO BE FOLLOWED AND NOT UNDERSTOOD. However much you try to, you can never understand, but you have to follow them. The second thing, you two came together and became one, so you have to appreciate each other's culture and embrace both.
A good beginning is a better ending.Kidole kimoja hakivunji chawa. Ali should be considerate of Medina in decision making. Marriage is not a two people decision it's community issue she has her roots. Otherwise this girl will be voiceless in decision making and keep sacrificing in the name of love. .
Ruracio is a must whether you like it or not...my parents died when I was young and the people who has raised me hawawezi kula my ruracio coz my mum yake haikuwa imelipwa,,and if they take my dowry something bad can happen to me,my kids ama grandkids...so pia wewe ukikataa kulipia Makena dowry ya msichana wako usiwahi guza hata cent.
Nyambura and i believe hiyo ni Mila lazima ifwatwe....swali yangu nii mbona wakikuyu husema wao hawana mila,i've encountered some na wanapingana sana,atleast you are a kyuk and umepitisha point,i wish i could tag them.
Ali ruracio is a way of thanking your inlaws for raising your wife to be ,kumlisha,kumwelimisha etc mpaka hii time unamchukua awaache,pia irs kinder replacement
Am so sad because people try to avoid culture that's why we end up destroying our next generation, story ya digital please don't mix with culture never,Ali look for Pluto he will explain to you or kabus
U can not escape culture and one day down the line u will wish u did it the right way..The man will feel he easily got u from your parents..Ruracio is a token from the parents thanking them they raised a woman who will be ur wife and the other relatives are involved coz when Medina’s mama was pregnant maybe her sister who is medina’s aunt took care of her mum then maybe her brother at one time maybe paid something for Medina it’s just a token to appreciate anyone who took part in raising Makena thts it..
Me I would say Ali u should respect medinas cylture the way she changed her religion for u ...ruracio happens everyone na she won't be the first ama the last...I feel venye uko na rules za kislamu u should fuata medinas
The way you cannot marry mtu haja slim the same way make makena has culture kwao and lazima ruracio utafanya.Na u will not marry makena until u ask hand a marriage to create boundaries(kùhandà Ìthìgì)to bless the marriage .It a community aspect....Ali try to know Kikuyu,Embu,Kirinyaga etc.Ndio uelewe.Now that Ali culture would love to know more about.
Sorry to say this but Ali wacha kuwa mstingy if unapenda Medina the way aliconvert juu anakupenda ata wewe you have to a ruracio for coz hiyo ni must kwanza huwezi fanya wedding kaa hujaracia
Medina and Ali pliz makini sure hio Wedding iko lyv au sio,coz Wengine tuko mbali Team Gulf,bt we want to feel we r there on that Special day ....Wishing you al da best Turusss.....
Ali in meru first u go to introduce urself wewe na makena,to know wewe dio uko na msichana wao,yani wajue wewe dio uko naye,next ruracio ni dowry,iyo lazima otherwise medina anaeza tolewa dowry na mwingine na aede,this gal is cute ohh.ad by the way in meru some parents will tell u uede ujipange ile unaweza,they will give u blessings
Among kikuyus after you finish paying the dowry (Ruracio) is only way you get to do a traditional wedding its the last step.. Traditionally every family receives certain dowry which doesn't change or overpriced However, if you don't pay ruracio to your wife's parents, and you two are blessed with a daughter and your son-in-law pays ruracio presenter Ali will accept it and take it to Medina's parents
Ruracio is a must, otherwise any man can come and remarry her na hakuna kitu utafanya🤣🤣🤣,piga report kwao useme wee ndie uko naye,utapewa date uambiwe siku utaenda na wazae wako,then watahesabiwa dowery wafaa kupeleka,si must utoe yote at once coz huwa hiishi bado.....it's a continuous thing,unakaa unapeleka Ka shopping...mara pesa,that's part of dowery
Ali please stop beating the bush and pay the dowry is for respect. You are muslim yes but remember you are marrying from non Muslim family and you have to follow their culture.
Ali I get your point, but just the way you like Medina and took her. Go to the parents and ask for blessings and advice. It's a culture and a pride of every parent for their daughter to leave their home the right way. Have a seating with you parent in law as them what is expected of you, and then give them their point of view, and the way of your religion. I believe you will come to an agreement.
Alfu there must be amount quoted, sio lazima utoe yote once kama hauna uwezo unatoanga pole pole ndio maana unaskia haiishangi so ruracio must be there in kikuyus ....it's kinda a way ya kukaa mkiunite as a family ...it should not look that expensive to Ali
Appreciating our parents is always a good thing but at times inakua too mch....unapata ankoo/aunty anakam hata haumjui sijui anataka what the f**ck. Mm ningeulizwa kuna watu hawangefika kwa shughuli yangu na akuna kitu itanifanyikia as long as my parents wameridhia
Times have changed not a must ua auntie's and uncles to be given monetary values.... Wakunywe muratina na nyama and that's all... Pesa or any gifts it's upon ua parents to decide what to do with it
Rucacio ndio kutoa mahari na ndio bado kutoa mahari but u can make with very few ppl..just close family only.its doesn't have to be something big as long as uko na pesa ya mahari.
Ali anatarajia mahari ikuwe kiasi kama ya waswahili,mahari ya msichana wa christian family is expensive,thats y u are given time to prepare,bora mshareport,mkaitisha list ya mahari,ndio ujipange,ukijipanga thats when you pay the dowry then have the traditional wedding.The moment you marry outside your culture,you wil have your wifes culture to follow then she will learn yours too and follow.
Kuna mahari ambayo ni ya msichana na wazazi pia wakona zao wanaitisha ni lazima,hakuna vile unaoa direct Bila kupitia hizo process.ruracio lazima ,familia lazima ikuwe involve.
Wadau Niko wrong kweli? 😂😅
Mwana uko wrong...you have to do Ruracio so that your both parents can Get to know each other.
Very wrong😂😂 ruracio is a must
Actually ruracio is important than wedding...
lazima ufanye ruracio kakangu
You are wrong hata waislam mke hupewa mahari na wazazi hupewa kilemba na maziwa hii ni pesa na maybe vyakula kwa wazazi
Dont be selfish Ali.Medina has already sacrificed alot for you.Every womans culture must be acknowledged in a marriage.
He's not being selfish...they're just trying to come to an agreement
Mkosa mila.hutumwa,Ali you will have to follow the culture
I'm from a Christian family...my fiance is from a Muslim family but for him to marry me he has to follow the culture of my people no matter what.....
Ali ruracio is a must.nakama hutafanya ivo hata watoto wko wakitakuolewa huezi pokea any dowry according to kikuyu clan
Makena understands her Meru culture. Rurashio kwa Kimeru ni mahari na kila mwanaume ambaye amepoza msichana kwa njia hulali mahari ni lazima kutolewa iwapo utafanya harusi au la. Mahari au Rurashio kwa Wameru inadhibitisha ume appreciate wazazi wa binti kukulealea na kuzalia mwanaume anaye poza binti mzuri
The same way Ali u cant marry a person who has not converted, the same way makena akona culture za kwao. U cannot just do a wedding without ruracio. Hizi vitu ni process. No skipping. Trust the process.
Ata makena ni expensive girl
Exactly 💯
Yeah napia paying dowry is a must it be paid before wedding and it doesn't end coz you can nvr fully buy someone's daughter and still it shows your wife you appreciate her na huwa iko tu agreement nawazee wa side ya dame
Kwani mnadhani pia Ali Hana traditions? Wacha kujichocha na hizo ruracio kuna Mila zaidi ya hizo na wakati mwingine nyinyi hamngependa kujihusisha nazo , epukeni Mila potovu ! Harusi moja tu inatosha!
Tell him
Ali, the moment you allowed Medina in your life, it's the time you could have realized what you were up to. Some of these things you might ignore might have repurcussions in future. You are supposed to go as per her culture. You don't pay the dowry pap, because you can't measure her worth. It's like kurudisha shukrani. The girl belongs to the clan and there are things you can't skip.
Ali uku na point some things in this generation look unnecessary but I think they still define us and our communities and parents value them . So ukipata kwa kina medina wanafollow traditions huna option. Just be open
Wa this hit Ali mahali lazima utoe as a kikuyu
Not only u medina uko kwa culture bt this thing is a must to all kikuyu
All African countries have culture and whenever a girl is getting married..there must be a cultural wedding
Wewe Medina hutaki mume ungetaka kuolewa ungewafahamisha wazae wako culture ya HUSBAND wako to be iko tafauti ni lazima umsaidie Ally kuwafahamisha wazae mpk waelewe.
Once upon a time, my lecturer told us that TRADITIONS ARE THERE TO BE FOLLOWED AND NOT UNDERSTOOD. However much you try to, you can never understand, but you have to follow them. The second thing, you two came together and became one, so you have to appreciate each other's culture and embrace both.
Kabisa kabisa otherwise itakusumbua sana badae
@@napleieunice Exactly, no matter how civilised we are, we can't question or gamble with culture.
Ali Ruracio can cost your marriage bytheway
A good beginning is a better ending.Kidole kimoja hakivunji chawa.
Ali should be considerate of Medina in decision making. Marriage is not a two people decision it's community issue she has her roots.
Otherwise this girl will be voiceless in decision making and keep sacrificing in the name of love. .
Ruracio is a must whether you like it or not...my parents died when I was young and the people who has raised me hawawezi kula my ruracio coz my mum yake haikuwa imelipwa,,and if they take my dowry something bad can happen to me,my kids ama grandkids...so pia wewe ukikataa kulipia Makena dowry ya msichana wako usiwahi guza hata cent.
Nyambura and i believe hiyo ni Mila lazima ifwatwe....swali yangu nii mbona wakikuyu husema wao hawana mila,i've encountered some na wanapingana sana,atleast you are a kyuk and umepitisha point,i wish i could tag them.
Ali ruracio is a way of thanking your inlaws for raising your wife to be ,kumlisha,kumwelimisha etc mpaka hii time unamchukua awaache,pia irs kinder replacement
My wife born Thika raised Murang'a...iyo kitu ni must bro jipange😁😁
Am so sad because people try to avoid culture that's why we end up destroying our next generation, story ya digital please don't mix with culture never,Ali look for Pluto he will explain to you or kabus
U can not escape culture and one day down the line u will wish u did it the right way..The man will feel he easily got u from your parents..Ruracio is a token from the parents thanking them they raised a woman who will be ur wife and the other relatives are involved coz when Medina’s mama was pregnant maybe her sister who is medina’s aunt took care of her mum then maybe her brother at one time maybe paid something for Medina it’s just a token to appreciate anyone who took part in raising Makena thts it..
Medina you are very right
Mwana kwanza wameru hawachezii na hio stuff ya ruracio...it so important
ATA ukifanya hiyo wedding ruracio is part of it, Kwanza Kwa kikuyu hizo steps must be followed
I like It when Mwana thinks beyond every aspect! Ndio Dunia huru
Ruracio sio wedding ni kuanzisha kulipa mahari,you can do it with a very few number of people,sio must iwe a whole community.
Yes. Ruracio in kikuyu culture is a must as long as unafanya white wedding
Me I would say Ali u should respect medinas cylture the way she changed her religion for u ...ruracio happens everyone na she won't be the first ama the last...I feel venye uko na rules za kislamu u should fuata medinas
The way you cannot marry mtu haja slim the same way make makena has culture kwao and lazima ruracio utafanya.Na u will not marry makena until u ask hand a marriage to create boundaries(kùhandà Ìthìgì)to bless the marriage .It a community aspect....Ali try to know Kikuyu,Embu,Kirinyaga etc.Ndio uelewe.Now that Ali culture would love to know more about.
Sorry to say this but Ali wacha kuwa mstingy if unapenda Medina the way aliconvert juu anakupenda ata wewe you have to a ruracio for coz hiyo ni must kwanza huwezi fanya wedding kaa hujaracia
Presenter Ali na Trevor ,same wassup group🤣🤣 waliambiana
Ali in islam ruracio is a must in sharia laws ...mahari is a must
There is difference between ruracio and mahari I guess
Ali ruracio it's a must in Kikuyu culture,u can't do a wedding before ruracio, uncles are the spoke men to the family and it's a must
Hyo ya kupata mimba na uende ulipe mahari ukiwa na Mimba n kweli it's either u loose a child or a mother mm n mijikenda bt nme witness 2 cases
Medina and Ali pliz makini sure hio Wedding iko lyv au sio,coz Wengine tuko mbali Team Gulf,bt we want to feel we r there on that Special day
....Wishing you al da best Turusss.....
Wow that's amazing mwana fanyia wife everything...🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰
Madina it's true ruracio it's so sensitive it can finish ur family,Ali remove religion and way to look just money,ruracio it's a must in Kikuyu,
Ali in meru first u go to introduce urself wewe na makena,to know wewe dio uko na msichana wao,yani wajue wewe dio uko naye,next ruracio ni dowry,iyo lazima otherwise medina anaeza tolewa dowry na mwingine na aede,this gal is cute ohh.ad by the way in meru some parents will tell u uede ujipange ile unaweza,they will give u blessings
You can't do a white wedding without mahari..😂😂mahari is important than wedding
In Islam mahari is given to the bride not the parents
Ali uhepe usihepe hiyo lazima utafanya hiyo ni desturi yetu wazee lazima ndo uchukue mrembo wetu kwa heshima
My Dearest friends that Mahar,Rorashiyo, dowry that must in all religions
So even muslims do it
Among kikuyus after you finish paying the dowry (Ruracio) is only way you get to do a traditional wedding its the last step..
Traditionally every family receives certain dowry which doesn't change or overpriced
However, if you don't pay ruracio to your wife's parents, and you two are blessed with a daughter and your son-in-law pays ruracio presenter Ali will accept it and take it to Medina's parents
Ruracio is a must, otherwise any man can come and remarry her na hakuna kitu utafanya🤣🤣🤣,piga report kwao useme wee ndie uko naye,utapewa date uambiwe siku utaenda na wazae wako,then watahesabiwa dowery wafaa kupeleka,si must utoe yote at once coz huwa hiishi bado.....it's a continuous thing,unakaa unapeleka Ka shopping...mara pesa,that's part of dowery
Heri ukose kufanya harusi ufanye ruracio
True
Roracio ni kama kutoa mahari,na huwezi fanya wedding bila kutoa roracio, hata Heri nikose kufanya wedding but nitolewe roracio man
Me too
Presenter Ali please ,usitake kuchukua msichana wa wenyewe na black market 😜😜😜😜
Dowry is a must no short cut bila hyo no wedding ata uende kwa Anthony General utaitwa mwizi
Ruracio is better than wedding
The way your mum alitolewa the same way ndio unafaa utolewe mahari,it's not supposed to exceed
Roracio ni the same na vile waswali hupeleka mabags na vitu kadhaa kwa Akina bibi
Yeahhhhhh waambie
Ata afadhali uachane na wedding ufanye ruracio hio ni lazima la sivyo sisi wakikuyu hatujui kama ni wako😂
Kma huna uwezo unalipa pole pole mpaka umalize chenye utaambia bt it a must Ali ruracio
Ali,, mwana, bibi ni gharama 😂😂you have to own a wife,,utajua hujui 😂😂🤣💪 but big up guys,, big love ❤️😘
She got mad when Ali said MTACHAGUA KAMA MTABAKI NA MSICHANA WENU AMA……
Ali you are right bro follow din yetu
Ali please stop beating the bush and pay the dowry is for respect. You are muslim yes but remember you are marrying from non Muslim family and you have to follow their culture.
Wwe Ali ruracio is important than wedding atakama l don't have more idea about it
True
Makena Ali alikukalia ngumu hadi ukaslim .....ssa mbona yy anataka kukufuliza?? Culture muhimu sana mamaaa usikubali kwenda short cut
Mimi no ruracio no wedding infact tunaachana Kwan ni kesho hiyo kwanza ni kitu I can't argue with someone
Mashallah guys ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😍😍
Ali itapiti upee wazazi wa Medina time waongee vile wanataka usijaribu kuamulia
In Kikuyu land wazazi lazima watumie wazee lakini si lazima wakue wengi mzee mmoja na mama mmoja wa kijiji
Don't be selfish Ali the lady converted to your religion why not give respect to the parents by doing ruracio for the lady.
Mwanetu wa nguvu ruracio is a must🤣🤣
Tufanye Tu wedding story iishe
Ali I get your point, but just the way you like Medina and took her.
Go to the parents and ask for blessings and advice.
It's a culture and a pride of every parent for their daughter to leave their home the right way.
Have a seating with you parent in law as them what is expected of you, and then give them their point of view, and the way of your religion.
I believe you will come to an agreement.
Aki mnitafte niwaelezee vizuri
Kindly call family members from both sides to come to a common understanding... Ur arguing for nothing.. Mahari lazima utoe na ruracio ifanyike
Mahari is a must than even the wedding. The mahari is solely for the lady but should be reasonable amount agreed upon by the couples
Noooo African culture without traditional process. These two meru women can't let you go just like that
Ruracio is a must mwana
Mwana ruracio issa must
Alfu there must be amount quoted, sio lazima utoe yote once kama hauna uwezo unatoanga pole pole ndio maana unaskia haiishangi so ruracio must be there in kikuyus ....it's kinda a way ya kukaa mkiunite as a family ...it should not look that expensive to Ali
Kabisa am proud to be a kikuyu ruracio rutithiraga mundu atwara kiria ona😅
Pride is the Devil and he got a hold on me.
huwezi discuss culture na madame...tafta msee anaelewa culture
Ali ruraccio is a must like it or not...
medina achana na hiyo mahari yako ndio mfanye ruracio
Culture, plus religion don't mix them.ithink Ali cames from specific tribe in Kenya which has his own traditions
Toa Mahari kakangu
Appreciating our parents is always a good thing but at times inakua too mch....unapata ankoo/aunty anakam hata haumjui sijui anataka what the f**ck. Mm ningeulizwa kuna watu hawangefika kwa shughuli yangu na akuna kitu itanifanyikia as long as my parents wameridhia
Times have changed not a must ua auntie's and uncles to be given monetary values.... Wakunywe muratina na nyama and that's all... Pesa or any gifts it's upon ua parents to decide what to do with it
Ali is arguing too much
Ali and Medina consult and come in one conclusion.
Ali mtu wangu hawezi epuka Roracio
Rucacio ndio kutoa mahari na ndio bado kutoa mahari but u can make with very few ppl..just close family only.its doesn't have to be something big as long as uko na pesa ya mahari.
Lazima ruracio...haufai kuacha culture
KWETU UNCLES HAWAPEWI KITU LABDA THAO MBILI MBILI
mbna
Bro bora umefuata dini
Ali pelekea wazee jaba na asali acha ujinga😂😂we merians lazima clan itosheke na wazee peane baraka
You must follow traditional
This is so sad. Ali you must pay the ruracio if you want to live with makena. We dont do it your way unanyamaza unaelezwa kwa sababu msichana c wako
Ali anatarajia mahari ikuwe kiasi kama ya waswahili,mahari ya msichana wa christian family is expensive,thats y u are given time to prepare,bora mshareport,mkaitisha list ya mahari,ndio ujipange,ukijipanga thats when you pay the dowry then have the traditional wedding.The moment you marry outside your culture,you wil have your wifes culture to follow then she will learn yours too and follow.
Always following pitieni kwangu pia guys
hata korti wanakataanga kutatua maneno ya culture
Hio ya kufunga leso ..si part ya ruracio...ni for fun tu
Rurachio ni lazima Kwa SSI wakikuyu at kama utafanya white wedding
Lazima ruracio mtoto wetu.
Ww Ali nakuonea 18 lazima mahari kwa wakikuyu before wedding
Kuna mahari ambayo ni ya msichana na wazazi pia wakona zao wanaitisha ni lazima,hakuna vile unaoa direct Bila kupitia hizo process.ruracio lazima ,familia lazima ikuwe involve.
weeeee aty ali hataki ruracio.wah aki tolea msichana wetu mahari
The thing Is Ali ,lazima u appreciate the culture of Makena.... ruracio lazima ,hizi vitu unafaa u consider
Ali respect Medina she converted because of you now you should do the right things