I almost died in RCCG, running the errands as protocol, team nehemiah and special units leader/member. When I went down in a service and had to lay on the floor till service ended. Hubby took me home in pain and I thought it was ulcer pain. He left me at home the next day thinking I was fine only to become paralysed and unable to call for help. I was able to reach for my phone, rushed to the hospital and had a surgery. Only the Women leader who was a close friend followed up....in a whole province, II was discharged and no one cared. I refused not to lay my life as a church worker again. For the first time, province pastors wife came to visit because she was ashamed. That was my turning point. I could have died. I was in church 7days a week leaving 3 children at home. Province pastor and his wife could travel and leave the church in our care. I was the same age mate with the wife and I was running errands like a servant. I served in cash and kind but when I left, they became our sworn enemy. I'm glad I left. Thanks for sharing your life with the world.
Thank you for this, I can resonate with you ma. Married for 18 years to the love of my life, we both in ministry and so fulfilled in God and suddenly he dies without warning. To cut the story short he got buried last month and it feels like a nightmare knowing how much he loved to serve God and humanity.im struggling to cope right now and having 4 kids and my last being 6 years old makes it more heartbreaking. Nobody in this world can replace him. He was my mentor, pastor and best freind. I wish to speak with you personally ma.
It's not easy to do what you are doing. I wish you more grace to liberate people the more. I woke up from my own slumber in 2019 December. I am not looking back even though I am still in the church because of my husband. But wiser in my dealings with the manipulative one.
WOW! You are a strong woman. May the Lord continue to uphold you and the children. May your husband's soul continue to rest in peace. You will live long to enjoy the fruit of your labour. You are a blessing.
Your story is touching. Your husband will make heaven. Strive to get to where he is now. He will be glad to welcome you. He was far ahead of you in spiritual things. The church is not the problem when men (of God) fail to meet our expectations. God is ever faithful. The good works of your husband still speak for you today. Don't despair. If you have another opportunity serve God. There is reward in it.
I guess you dont understand her video from your comment, her husband died of ignorance, Her ppoints alot have died through this means, being a slave doesnt mean you serve God more, for crying out loud he left 3 little children behind becos of his own ignorance that's not God's plan for man, if only he had listened to his wife....
@@maydvicky3316 God bless you. What happened to the man has nothing to do with the church. Like you said, he died of ignorance. There's nothing bad in going to the hospital as a christian when you're sick. In fact there're is always a series of topics in Sunday School around divine healing and going to the hospital when you are sick. This woman is just spreading propaganda and only God knows her intent.
Exactly,it was unfortunate and I feel sorry for this woman.Ignorance and religion is a great disease.aHer husband died of ignorance and these happened to insensitivity to the holy Spirit.I am sorry if I sound judgemental.How it was their ignorance that caused all.I am not exonerating the church, however religion blindfolded them.
All I want to say is THANK YOU for sharing this very personal part of your life....... May the reason you do this achieve its goal even beyond your imagination. Thank you again 💓
Thank you for being courageous enough to tell your story. I admire your courage and confidence. May God continue to protect and provide for you and your Children, grant you peace and Happiness.🙏🙏🙏
Touching story ,Im weeping here. The issue is that when men are serious with God they can easily be brainwashed by doctrine and nothing can change their mind. This is an example for men to please listen to their wives.Thank you so much for sharing Ma
Your story is a journey many ministers have gone through not only in redeemed. People must learn balance in serving God, the church leadership must put systems in place to ensure there is no suffering on the part of the congregation and workers. Your family is your first ministry. Orthodox churchea hire staff to do some of the work. It is only in pentecostal churches that people are overworked without proper compensation. Like you rightly said, you were young and inexperienced in ministry. The work you were doing is for full time workers that are compensated. Thank God that you were serving your God sincerely and that He has kept you and preserved you and your children. May the Lord reward you for all your labor for the Lord. Your reward be is in heaven. THERE IS NO PERFECT CHURCH AND THERE ARE NO PERFECT LEADERS, THEY ARE ALL HUMAN AND CAN FAIL. WE pray they make the necessary changes to ensure the name of the Lord is not put to shame. Churches are run by human beings and not angels so they are likely to fail on some areas, if we did not see these things then the scriptures would be lying. It is only Jesus Christ that showed is the perfect example. Every other human can be overtaken by the flesh. The berean christians always went to double check what they were taught. Every church has a doctrinal short fall based on what they emphasize. At they end of the day, let us work out our own salvation with fear and trembling. Paul said, follow me as I follow Christ. One of my teachers in Bible school said, you can make the Bible say what you want it to say. Let's be discerning and know what the will of God for our own lives is and follow it so we continue to serve the Lord with gladness wherever we are. ALL WILL BE WELL. Shalom
Thank you my sister, tell them, I don't know why Adunni is now painting RCCG, it's everywhere. They way Adunni is talking for me she out there to dent redeem and pastor Adeboye. Are you now saying this so that people will stop going to redeemed church? Fear God o. Sorry for the loss of your husband but this is not what you should be doing. It's totally wrong to the best of my knowledge. You should have just leave and let God be the judge.
We spend too much time in church instead of being productive. We have more churches than production facilities. This is a major problem. I saw a factory building that was converted to a church in benin city and I felt bad! How do we close down factories and open church to pray for jobs?
So true sounds silly really ! Then you start prayin and fasting for a job and giving seed to open the gates of heaven 😂😂😂😂 practically example of selling your common sense
We have so many employees string their bosses time to run to church. When they get fired, they pray and fast to find another employer and then start misbehaving.
Your children will grow from strength to strength. They will grow and surpass their dad in Jesus name! I'm glad for you that you're moving on in the right direction. It's difficult to listen to this without feeling sad
Keep preaching the truth Aunty Adunni you are a strong woman, So Sorry for your loss may his soul rest in peace, He is indeed watching over you and the kids
Hmm, I'm so sorry about your loss Ma. God will definitely console and heal your heart. Your husband's labour of love I believe would yield generational blessings. It may seem painful how he passed but there's a God and He will keep standing by you and your family.
Just listening now and I really understand your passion. May you continue to be blessed. No harm can come upon you. Sometimes men are even more gullible than women. ❤❤❤
We are not ready for this conversation. Church in Nigeria has taken advantage of a lot of gullible people. I left as a church worker in 2020. I never looked back. Ordinary response to my text message from my pastor when I was terribly sick,just to say a word of prayers. He knows that I don’t need any money from him. Even when I recovered, no visit. Thank God for few of my team members that encouraged me. We worship men not God. Know God for yourself.
Even here in the UK, it's the same. When you decide to leave, you become their enemy. They will start sending you Hell fire movies, claiming they sent to all members but it's all lies, as no other member said such movie was sent to them. They're indirectly trying to say one will go to Hell for leaving or saying your truth. So sad! So so pathetic! When I left after 10yrs, it was like a great burden was taken off my chest. I believe in God and in the power of the Holy Spirit but the way we practise Christianity in some of our African churches isn't it at all.
The truth has to said God will continue to give you that strength so can educate other people in bandage of all this churches, God bless you and all your family.
Thank you for standing tall. I understand what you are saying, the Lord will uphold you to the end. You can only become a blessing to others after you've been broken and restored. When we pray ' Father make me a blessing, it is a big prayer. Shalom.
Yes yes yes. Sharing my experience has helped a lot of women to stand tall and I will continue to do it bec I’m not the first nor will I be the last that will experience this
You are the definition of a strong woman. You have a beautiful soul. God is your strength my daughter. Continue to bask in the euphoria of God’s love, grace and mercy. It is well with you ❤
Thank you for sharing your experiences in order to educate people,am glad you are able to cope and came out victoriously. I doff my hat for you. God continued blessings on you and family. You are brave 💕
God bless you. I hope she read,if hosband died that does not mean she should chase people away on rhe road to christ. Moreover ADEBOYE is not our standard but christ,he might not be her roal model but many enjoy christ in him. Please mentain a prsonal relationship with GOD, your intersession could have change the whole narative if you step up a little. May the ALMIGHTY continue to be with you and your family.
@@gbohunmiogunleye7844 I hate your comment, you can never understand the pain she went through, u are mean and lack empathy....she's sharing her experience Mr Man, you ain't God let him judge us, I dont know why some of you men are so coldhearted 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Aunty Adunni....epele ma. This brought tears to my eye and how much more you. Thanks for been so vulnerable, this is your truth and I hope people learn from this. ❤❤
My dear Sister, I wholeheartedly salute your courage and boldness. What you're doing is not easy and I pray this would help to set many in bondage free from religious slave masters.
Wow! This is so touching, I can relate to this story...but God's strength has kept me and my 4 children. My last born was about 4 years when it happened. A widow is more or less alone, especially in Africa. I remember the day I knelt to ask God for strength, to be strong for myself and my children and not to depend on man. Up unto this day, I still talk to my late husband, because I believe he wouldn't desert me and our children... God is forever faithful my sister. it takes some time but gradually we learn to live without our departed loved ones...It is well, and I thank God for the strength you have to share your experience.
Aunty Adunni...... You are so bold and courageous. Your husband was a great man to you and the children, May he continue to rest in perfect peace. Wish I could give you a big hug. We thank God Almighty for everything. 🙌🏽🤗❤️🙏🏽
Most 9ja churches one-man owner are destiny destroyers. You are the ones digging the well, they are the ones drinking the water from your hard labor. Thank you Aunty Adunni. Keep speaking it.
Thank you so much ma. I know exactly what you are talking about. I am Ugandan and I experienced all that and more in a small church. Ah! God help us!!!!
Hmmmm!What a touching story! I have my experience about this and knows your pain. I am so sorry for your loss due to apostolic witchcraft in these our so called new generation churches. People give their all and are left to suffer in the midst of plenty. The early church had everything in common and none lacked anything. However,these new fake definition of Christianity makes alleluyah the only thing that believers have in common. I worked away from them for years now and never looked back though still in faith but with a new orientation that the holy ghost only can give. May the truth you are propagating set people free from the worship of men to the worship of God. God bless you ma. Apostle Livingstone.
Your are spot on my sister. Everyone will fail you. Yes the only answer is to be strong. Yes it’s true the sincere ones are always there. They never leave us and they always send someone to help us. Your are real. God never leave us he is forever faithful to his words. It always end in praise
You are a good and strong woman. God bless you and your children. Thanks for being there for the kids and making your husband's life a blessed existence worthy even in his absence
Good blessed afternoon from Nigeria. i just listened to what you went through. I was almost moved to tears. The Lord strengthen you and your family, comfort on all sides in Jesus's name. I am a minister of the gospel and have been to over 40 nations preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ. Only the Lord Himself will continue to bless and keep your family. Please am available for fellowship or any support. Your story is very very touching. I wished I knew your husband before he passed to glory but God understands. It is well ma.
I am so sorry for all you went through ma. It's only God that can comfort you. As Christians, let's always try to build special relationship with the Holy Spirit....
I feel u!!!!!! no body can really understand what it means to loose someone u really love. my heart and prayers goes to u and ur family amen. pls be strong. i appreciate ur strength in carrying on. God bless u amen.
Thanks for sharing,I just prayed that some of our Fathers in faith will read this and correct certain things,the church is becoming far from their So called Junior pastors,workers and members of congregation.Some of their actions to them can be termed wickedness in the name of discipline.May God have Mercy.
God bless ma'am. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you are going to write a book to encourage other women. Thank you Jesus for this lady's life. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
I wanted to say it clearly here, it's not only in the Redeemed church that church workers are being over used, I am saying it categorically here that it's amongst all those one man's churches across Nigeria that people are being over used, it's one of my major reason of quiting deeper life in Scandinavia, I simply quit because I could not take it anymore
Aunty Adunni I feel like hugging you, you're such a strong woman with determination to face the reality of life, I love you sis ,sending my love and kisses 😘🥰💕💓❤💗💋💋💋💋
From this Part 3! It was like your late husband did all he did to pls man, trying to compare himself to daddy Adeboye. The Bible say we should look unto Jesus the author and finisher of our Faith. In any denomination you worship do all you do to the glory of God, expecting nothing from any man. I experienced same disappointment when mom passed on.
Sister I feel your pain, and can relate with some of your experiences but it will be nice if you look at how you brought some of these on yourself. Why don't you learn from them and move on, am saying this because there are people who were and are still committed to to God through the service they render and for decades and they are still moving on with God regardless of what they see. Please let go, and continue to serve your God . God bless.
You're such a strong woman whom genuinely loved her husband unlike today's women. Love then was more real and genuine than today. It's so sad that your husband died a very avoidable death because of one man's doctrine. It's painful. As for me, I have never been a church worker, I go to church but I never associate myself with any activity, once Church close, I go my house, nobody for my Church know me, some might know me by appearance but I'm sure they don't know my name, I no dey any church group, men, women, youth, teenagers, children anyone I no dey. I just dey on my own. I saw Church as a social gathering. That was when I've grown though. In my case, my mum was the church person, my father never went to church and was always laughing at us going to church, he would look at us like "one day you people will have sense" . I used to feel guilty at times about not being involved in church activities, about not working in the vineyard of the Lord. But when I take a closer look, I no dey see pastor children for any department. Pastor's children are always in the main church during service while their mates will be children section. So they're more special than other children. Pastors children can never be in sanitation dept. Never!!!. All these are all doctrines of men. I've stopped going to Church for over a year now and I'm not dead yet. I thought the worst calamity will before me if I stopped going to church. On tithing and first fruit, if your pastor can show us who he pays his own tithe and first fruits to, then I will follow, abi them too no wan go heaven ni, or are they the god we serve?? I don comot hand for church matter. Thank you for sharing your experience.
My sister may the very God of heaven whom you represent bless, empower and engrace you. May God protect you and your family from the attact of unreasonble blind "church" members who would rather fight to protect a "church" and their "GOs" but are daily bringing and allowing shame and insult on the very name of Christ. May God bless you. I also had my experience but mine was such that i refuse the satanic web and rejected it at once!
This is a wake up call for RCCG and other churches who rush to label anyone who shows any form of enthusiasm in church as a worker or pastor. Aunty went through all the emotions without understanding what she was doing!
I sympathise on her loss. It was quite traumatic because it was at a young age. Please being zealous without understanding what it means to be a christian is dangerous.Nobody forces anyone to take the position of a pastor if that is not your calling. When you accept to be so, you know the condition. I believe wives should be carried along and when led with her consent too there will be no complaints about the work or the church. Be a partner and friend with the Holy Spirit for direction and guidance all the time in decision taking so that there will be no " had I know"
Dear Sister. Thank you so much for your ministry. Nigerians need information. Please continue to inform our people. These pentirascal thieves in the pulpit are taking money from people who are already not making enough to sustain their families. What is so godly about that?
Sister ride on! Fire on! Those who have ears let them hear. Let those who refuse to reason and listen inwardly to their spirit but depend on a man's interpretation of the Bible to them, thereby imposing his doctrines on them wallow in their ignorance.
The Lord is your strength ma, my husb was a pastor, he died in UK few years back and I haven't recovered. It's a pain you have to live with and remember everyday. I suffered too much, am in UK still managing my life with no family support 😭. Am even scared of going to church now bc they did not really give a toss abt me. The church failed me , so I stopped. I went through PTSD, flash back and depression even till now, I started wearing glasses too bc I cried so much in my closet. God will help us😓
Oh dear. Accept my sincere condolences. The Lord will strengthen you and I pray that the Lord will continue to comfort you, all I can saw my dear daughter is to hold on the God wholeheartedly and learn to know Him better personal cos no man or religion sects will help you only God can sort us out. I pray that the Lord will surround you with good and godly people in Jesus name.
Sorry ma for wat u went tru... may God continue to b ur guide ijn.Thank God u came out Victorious... May d good lord restore ur sight back and grant u peace and joy. Shalom!
3:30 - 4:40 - Funding workers etc. 4:50 - Being in their 20's 5:45 - "We thought we were working for God" 5:44 - Husband lost Job 7:20 - Starting his own company 8:00 - Baking. 8:30 - Doing so much with his expenses 9:40 - Jan Fast. 100 days. Ah! 10:25 - Divine Health 11:00 - "Woman of little faith" 11:40 - 10th Wedding anniversary 12:10 - I never knew he was dying 12:50 - Another Widow 13:20 - Papa Adeboye and Health 14:45 - 6hours in Church 15:40 - Hiding his ill health 17:40 - "There can never be a man that can be like him" ❤️💔 19:00 - God exists. She knows! 19:50 - "Her Husbands Last words " 22:00 - My Love increased on that day ❤️ 22:40 - Couplelated 23:35 - "I have prayed" 25:10 - "He knew he was going " 27:10 - PTSD 💔 27:45 - Where RCCG starts 28:30 - 7, 3, 2 ages. 29:40 - "A pain I'll carry to my grave" 💔 30:30 - Everyone will desert you 💔 31:20 - Encourage yourself in the Lord 32:00 - Gather strength. 🥺🥺 33:15 - Using glasses. Crying her eyes out for her husbands death. ❤️🥺💔
Sister Adunni, so sorry for your loss. So proud and inspired by your story. God bless you for this brave post. Tell your viewers yo read the book for Colossians 2. Pay particular attention to vs 8, 15-23. Christ has paid the price, don't let any man, any woman deceive you. Read, study your bible and pray to God with your own mouth. He will answer you. God bless you all.
I feel wisdom is profitable to direct ,if a fasting program isvbein announced and I check my system big I can fast I pray and if I fast I break on time as we age our system can no longer accommodate some things
Weldone ma. You've been through a lot. Anyone who has been to a one-man church can not relate or understand at all. I was in one of such churches for 6years, and I almost hated and almost vowed never to go to any church again. I even told my children as young as they were that even if it's raining fire in a one-man church, they should never step into any. So ma, All you have said about one-man church is nothing but truth. But I beg you in the name of Jesus Christ, please don't take it to the extreme of never going to church again. Just carefully check which one to go too. Even myself, I could not go to church for a few months and have to take my time to study my current church for about four months before I joined. Definitely not a one-man church this time.
Tnx definitely not one man church when I’m ready. I just stopped three years ago. I stopped after my kids were been dragged to be workers in church. I won’t do that to them. They are very active kids so the pastor wife was already eyeing them as workers 😂
You have really spoken well may the Lord continue to be your strength. However I wish to say do not forsake the fellowship of the brethren remember we need ourselves. Also if touching the altar did not give u a child that there are more spiritual people who touch and did not receive like u. If you u doubt the miraculous what of parting of the red sea, Lazarus, woman with the issue of blood etc. Please Jesus is still in the business of doing the miraculous. Keep your faith, I hope u still believe in Jesus as your Lord and saviour. RCCG may have their faults, churches may have their faults but Jesus is perfect so make him the author and the finisher of your faith, God still answer prayers shalom
I am so sorry to hear about how your husband passed. So sorry "church " did this to you. Jesus HIMSELF loves you. Cleave to Him and nurture your relationship with Him. When you are healed and ready, ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to a church where the love of Christ is all you see and experience. No slavery! No theft from the pulpit! What you have described sounds like a cult. And God will judge all cult leaders! You may wish to check out an episode on cults in Navigating Narcissism by Dr Ramani. Sending you hugs and kisses. ❤
WOW! This is so much TOUCHING 😢 The healing process is usually life long, but it gets better just a little bit. May the good Lord continually console and uphold you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
What you said is true about RCCG that i stopped attending. The HQ demands much without any input. Papa Adeboye's sons dont start parish from the scratch but posted to already made church; Leke is even warming up to take over City of David and RCCG at Large. God help his church. The only help you can get from RCCG comes from member's who have giving spirit. Their schools built with church members money are unapproachable by church members. They collect aims from the church and redistribute to the poor in the name of the church often. The christianity in Nigeria differs from that of the white missionaries who offered sacrificial services: built free schools, hospital, infrastructures without tasking the members
I almost died in RCCG, running the errands as protocol, team nehemiah and special units leader/member. When I went down in a service and had to lay on the floor till service ended. Hubby took me home in pain and I thought it was ulcer pain. He left me at home the next day thinking I was fine only to become paralysed and unable to call for help. I was able to reach for my phone, rushed to the hospital and had a surgery. Only the Women leader who was a close friend followed up....in a whole province, II was discharged and no one cared. I refused not to lay my life as a church worker again. For the first time, province pastors wife came to visit because she was ashamed. That was my turning point. I could have died. I was in church 7days a week leaving 3 children at home. Province pastor and his wife could travel and leave the church in our care. I was the same age mate with the wife and I was running errands like a servant. I served in cash and kind but when I left, they became our sworn enemy. I'm glad I left. Thanks for sharing your life with the world.
Oluwa oooo when you think yours is worst. Ahhhh 😮😮😮😮 I’m glad you are alive and well 😳😳😳💕💕💕🤗🤗🤗
Which Province is this? A ni ika ni won . I pray people attacking me for this exposure will also be a victim
Nawa oo. May God deliver His people 🙏
May the Lord uphold and console you and family forever in Jesus mighty name.
Hugs darling hope you are well today
Thank you for this, I can resonate with you ma. Married for 18 years to the love of my life, we both in ministry and so fulfilled in God and suddenly he dies without warning. To cut the story short he got buried last month and it feels like a nightmare knowing how much he loved to serve God and humanity.im struggling to cope right now and having 4 kids and my last being 6 years old makes it more heartbreaking. Nobody in this world can replace him. He was my mentor, pastor and best freind. I wish to speak with you personally ma.
Wow 🤔🥰. So proud of you and praying for you, and everyone going through the same experience. You’re never alone. God bless you!💕💕💗
It's not easy to do what you are doing. I wish you more grace to liberate people the more. I woke up from my own slumber in 2019 December. I am not looking back even though I am still in the church because of my husband. But wiser in my dealings with the manipulative one.
Manipulative one ?
WOW! You are a strong woman. May the Lord continue to uphold you and the children. May your husband's soul continue to rest in peace. You will live long to enjoy the fruit of your labour. You are a blessing.
Your story is touching.
Your husband will make heaven.
Strive to get to where he is now.
He will be glad to welcome you.
He was far ahead of you in spiritual things.
The church is not the problem when men (of God) fail to meet our expectations.
God is ever faithful.
The good works of your husband still speak for you today.
Don't despair.
If you have another opportunity serve God.
There is reward in it.
I guess you dont understand her video from your comment, her husband died of ignorance, Her ppoints alot have died through this means, being a slave doesnt mean you serve God more, for crying out loud he left 3 little children behind becos of his own ignorance that's not God's plan for man, if only he had listened to his wife....
@@maydvicky3316 God bless you. What happened to the man has nothing to do with the church. Like you said, he died of ignorance. There's nothing bad in going to the hospital as a christian when you're sick. In fact there're is always a series of topics in Sunday School around divine healing and going to the hospital when you are sick. This woman is just spreading propaganda and only God knows her intent.
Exactly,it was unfortunate and I feel sorry for this woman.Ignorance and religion is a great disease.aHer husband died of ignorance and these happened to insensitivity to the holy Spirit.I am sorry if I sound judgemental.How it was their ignorance that caused all.I am not exonerating the church, however religion blindfolded them.
All I want to say is THANK YOU for sharing this very personal part of your life....... May the reason you do this achieve its goal even beyond your imagination. Thank you again 💓
Thank you for being courageous enough to tell your story. I admire your courage and confidence. May God continue to protect and provide for you and your Children, grant you peace and Happiness.🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing your peculiar church experience. The next generation needs to understand the essence of a real relationship with God.
Exactly... ❤
Touching story ,Im weeping here.
The issue is that when men are serious with God they can easily be brainwashed by doctrine and nothing can change their mind.
This is an example for men to please listen to their wives.Thank you so much for sharing Ma
Your story is a journey many ministers have gone through not only in redeemed. People must learn balance in serving God, the church leadership must put systems in place to ensure there is no suffering on the part of the congregation and workers. Your family is your first ministry. Orthodox churchea hire staff to do some of the work. It is only in pentecostal churches that people are overworked without proper compensation. Like you rightly said, you were young and inexperienced in ministry. The work you were doing is for full time workers that are compensated. Thank God that you were serving your God sincerely and that He has kept you and preserved you and your children. May the Lord reward you for all your labor for the Lord. Your reward be is in heaven. THERE IS NO PERFECT CHURCH AND THERE ARE NO PERFECT LEADERS, THEY ARE ALL HUMAN AND CAN FAIL. WE pray they make the necessary changes to ensure the name of the Lord is not put to shame. Churches are run by human beings and not angels so they are likely to fail on some areas, if we did not see these things then the scriptures would be lying. It is only Jesus Christ that showed is the perfect example. Every other human can be overtaken by the flesh. The berean christians always went to double check what they were taught. Every church has a doctrinal short fall based on what they emphasize. At they end of the day, let us work out our own salvation with fear and trembling. Paul said, follow me as I follow Christ. One of my teachers in Bible school said, you can make the Bible say what you want it to say. Let's be discerning and know what the will of God for our own lives is and follow it so we continue to serve the Lord with gladness wherever we are.
ALL WILL BE WELL.
Shalom
Thank you my sister, tell them, I don't know why Adunni is now painting RCCG, it's everywhere. They way Adunni is talking for me she out there to dent redeem and pastor Adeboye. Are you now saying this so that people will stop going to redeemed church? Fear God o. Sorry for the loss of your husband but this is not what you should be doing. It's totally wrong to the best of my knowledge. You should have just leave and let God be the judge.
We spend too much time in church instead of being productive. We have more churches than production facilities. This is a major problem. I saw a factory building that was converted to a church in benin city and I felt bad! How do we close down factories and open church to pray for jobs?
So true sounds silly really ! Then you start prayin and fasting for a job and giving seed to open the gates of heaven 😂😂😂😂 practically example of selling your common sense
Nigeria has a long way to go
We have so many employees string their bosses time to run to church. When they get fired, they pray and fast to find another employer and then start misbehaving.
Your children will grow from strength to strength. They will grow and surpass their dad in Jesus name! I'm glad for you that you're moving on in the right direction. It's difficult to listen to this without feeling sad
Keep preaching the truth Aunty Adunni you are a strong woman, So Sorry for your loss may his soul rest in peace, He is indeed watching over you and the kids
Hmm, I'm so sorry about your loss Ma. God will definitely console and heal your heart. Your husband's labour of love I believe would yield generational blessings. It may seem painful how he passed but there's a God and He will keep standing by you and your family.
Just listening now and I really understand your passion. May you continue to be blessed. No harm can come upon you.
Sometimes men are even more gullible than women. ❤❤❤
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They sure are...!
We are not ready for this conversation. Church in Nigeria has taken advantage of a lot of gullible people. I left as a church worker in 2020. I never looked back. Ordinary response to my text message from my pastor when I was terribly sick,just to say a word of prayers. He knows that I don’t need any money from him. Even when I recovered, no visit. Thank God for few of my team members that encouraged me. We worship men not God. Know God for yourself.
Even here in the UK, it's the same. When you decide to leave, you become their enemy. They will start sending you Hell fire movies, claiming they sent to all members but it's all lies, as no other member said such movie was sent to them. They're indirectly trying to say one will go to Hell for leaving or saying your truth. So sad! So so pathetic! When I left after 10yrs, it was like a great burden was taken off my chest. I believe in God and in the power of the Holy Spirit but the way we practise Christianity in some of our African churches isn't it at all.
We worship men and not God should not be a generalized statement.... Mind you some of us worship God and not men.
Thank you for saying the truth.1👌🏾
The truth has to said God will continue to give you that strength so can educate other people in bandage of all this churches, God bless you and all your family.
Thank you for standing tall. I understand what you are saying, the Lord will uphold you to the end. You can only become a blessing to others after you've been broken and restored. When we pray ' Father make me a blessing, it is a big prayer. Shalom.
Yes yes yes. Sharing my experience has helped a lot of women to stand tall and I will continue to do it bec I’m not the first nor will I be the last that will experience this
Just came across your video today. May you receive the strength to continue. God will never leave or forsake you. God bless.
You are the definition of a strong woman. You have a beautiful soul. God is your strength my daughter. Continue to bask in the euphoria of God’s love, grace and mercy. It is well with you ❤
You are an amazing wan! Thank you for your encouragement. Your story meant a lot to me!
Thank you for sharing your experiences in order to educate people,am glad you are able to cope and came out victoriously.
I doff my hat for you. God continued blessings on you and family.
You are brave 💕
God bless you.
I hope she read,if hosband died that does not mean she should chase people away on rhe road to christ.
Moreover ADEBOYE is not our standard but christ,he might not be her roal model but many enjoy christ in him.
Please mentain a prsonal relationship with GOD, your intersession could have change the whole narative if you step up a little.
May the ALMIGHTY continue to be with you and your family.
@@gbohunmiogunleye7844 I hate your comment, you can never understand the pain she went through, u are mean and lack empathy....she's sharing her experience Mr Man, you ain't God let him judge us, I dont know why some of you men are so coldhearted 😡😡😡😡😡😡
Aunty Adunni....epele ma. This brought tears to my eye and how much more you. Thanks for been so vulnerable, this is your truth and I hope people learn from this. ❤❤
My dear Sister, I wholeheartedly salute your courage and boldness. What you're doing is not easy and I pray this would help to set many in bondage free from religious slave masters.
Thank you Peter
Amen...!
Been there too... can relate.
Wow! This is so touching, I can relate to this story...but God's strength has kept me and my 4 children. My last born was about 4 years when it happened. A widow is more or less alone, especially in Africa. I remember the day I knelt to ask God for strength, to be strong for myself and my children and not to depend on man. Up unto this day, I still talk to my late husband, because I believe he wouldn't desert me and our children... God is forever faithful my sister. it takes some time but gradually we learn to live without our departed loved ones...It is well, and I thank God for the strength you have to share your experience.
I am deeply sorry for your loss 😭😭😭 God is and will be your strength my sister. 🙏🙏🙏
Aunty Adunni...... You are so bold and courageous. Your husband was a great man to you and the children, May he continue to rest in perfect peace. Wish I could give you a big hug. We thank God Almighty for everything. 🙌🏽🤗❤️🙏🏽
I now understand why you are doing what you are doing. God continue to comfort you.
Most 9ja churches one-man owner are destiny destroyers. You are the ones digging the well, they are the ones drinking the water from your hard labor. Thank you Aunty Adunni. Keep speaking it.
Real destiny destroyer and time and resources waster
Wow , well said
You are strong and thank you 🙏🏾 You are helping thousands of people.
Thank you so much ma. I know exactly what you are talking about. I am Ugandan and I experienced all that and more in a small church. Ah! God help us!!!!
Thank you Ma for sharing, I pray God will continue to sustain you and your family ❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss. Your courage is admirable. I am grateful for your strength.
Sorry for your loss and painful experience. Keep strong and may the love and grace of God be with you. Lord have mercy on the Church!
Hmmmm!What a touching story!
I have my experience about this and knows your pain.
I am so sorry for your loss due to apostolic witchcraft in these our so called new generation churches.
People give their all and are left to suffer in the midst of plenty.
The early church had everything in common and none lacked anything.
However,these new fake definition of Christianity makes alleluyah the only thing that believers have in common.
I worked away from them for years now and never looked back though still in faith but with a new orientation that the holy ghost only can give.
May the truth you are propagating set people free from the worship of men to the worship of God.
God bless you ma.
Apostle Livingstone.
Good for you. I pray many nigerians become as smart you👌🏾
Your are spot on my sister. Everyone will fail you. Yes the only answer is to be strong.
Yes it’s true the sincere ones are always there. They never leave us and they always send someone to help us. Your are real. God never leave us he is forever faithful to his words. It always end in praise
You are a good and strong woman. God bless you and your children. Thanks for being there for the kids and making your husband's life a blessed existence worthy even in his absence
This a true experiences of many, I happen to be a victim as well, pray the Lord deliver his people before the time
Tnx for confirming
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Good blessed afternoon from Nigeria. i just listened to what you went through. I was almost moved to tears. The Lord strengthen you and your family, comfort on all sides in Jesus's name. I am a minister of the gospel and have been to over 40 nations preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ. Only the Lord Himself will continue to bless and keep your family. Please am available for fellowship or any support. Your story is very very touching. I wished I knew your husband before he passed to glory but God understands. It is well ma.
I am so sorry for all you went through ma. It's only God that can comfort you. As Christians, let's always try to build special relationship with the Holy Spirit....
I am tearing up. Every word you said tore my heart out.😭. He's in a better place now. Rest well my brother.
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I feel u!!!!!! no body can really understand what it means to loose someone u really love. my heart and prayers goes to u and ur family amen. pls be strong. i appreciate ur strength in carrying on. God bless u amen.
I am sorry for all you went through. I am so sad you had to go through this. The joy of the Lord is your strength and will always be
Thank you so much, mama. God bless you and yours real good!
YOU ARE VERY STRONG. I COMMEND YOUR COURAGE. GOD ALMIGHTY WILL CONTINUE TO BE YOUR STRENGTH. I FEEL FOR YOU WITH MY WHOLE HEART 💜💜💜
God is your strenght Aunty...... I understand the memories play back like throw back movies. It is well...... Thank God how far he has brought you.
You're saying the undiluted truth...I love you dear... Won ti Je awon generation wa m'aye...our children must not fall into the same illusion...
May God will complete your healing, God will be with u and your family IJN. Sorry for your loss.
Thanks for sharing,I just prayed that some of our Fathers in faith will read this and correct certain things,the church is becoming far from their So called Junior pastors,workers and members of congregation.Some of their actions to them can be termed wickedness in the name of discipline.May God have Mercy.
You are a strong woman,God bless you
It is well with you my dear sister
Thank God of where you are today, and the freedom you have gotten
Thanks for been strong
God bless ma'am. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope you are going to write a book to encourage other women. Thank you Jesus for this lady's life. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏
Praying for you Ma. Deeply touched. Jesus Christ is LORD!
My heart goes out to you
You are a strong woman
I wanted to say it clearly here, it's not only in the Redeemed church that church workers are being over used, I am saying it categorically here that it's amongst all those one man's churches across Nigeria that people are being over used, it's one of my major reason of quiting deeper life in Scandinavia, I simply quit because I could not take it anymore
Very true Leo
Aunty Adunni I feel like hugging you, you're such a strong woman with determination to face the reality of life, I love you sis ,sending my love and kisses 😘🥰💕💓❤💗💋💋💋💋
Thank you so much❤
From this Part 3! It was like your late husband did all he did to pls man, trying to compare himself to daddy Adeboye. The Bible say we should look unto Jesus the author and finisher of our Faith. In any denomination you worship do all you do to the glory of God, expecting nothing from any man. I experienced same disappointment when mom passed on.
Sister I feel your pain, and can relate with some of your experiences but it will be nice if you look at how you brought some of these on yourself.
Why don't you learn from them and move on, am saying this because there are people who were and are still committed to to God through the service they render and for decades and they are still moving on with God regardless of what they see.
Please let go, and continue to serve your God . God bless.
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May his soul continue to rest in peace and continue to protect and bless your family my sister
God will continue to strengthen you .Wow, he went so young may he rest in peace.
I'm so sorry Ma , may God strengthen you and your children i Could feel the emotions talking about your loss
The love story of a woman on her journey of faith. Thank you for sharing. May the Lord comfort you and the entire family.
You're such a strong woman whom genuinely loved her husband unlike today's women. Love then was more real and genuine than today. It's so sad that your husband died a very avoidable death because of one man's doctrine. It's painful.
As for me, I have never been a church worker, I go to church but I never associate myself with any activity, once Church close, I go my house, nobody for my Church know me, some might know me by appearance but I'm sure they don't know my name, I no dey any church group, men, women, youth, teenagers, children anyone I no dey. I just dey on my own. I saw Church as a social gathering. That was when I've grown though. In my case, my mum was the church person, my father never went to church and was always laughing at us going to church, he would look at us like "one day you people will have sense" . I used to feel guilty at times about not being involved in church activities, about not working in the vineyard of the Lord. But when I take a closer look, I no dey see pastor children for any department. Pastor's children are always in the main church during service while their mates will be children section. So they're more special than other children. Pastors children can never be in sanitation dept. Never!!!. All these are all doctrines of men. I've stopped going to Church for over a year now and I'm not dead yet. I thought the worst calamity will before me if I stopped going to church.
On tithing and first fruit, if your pastor can show us who he pays his own tithe and first fruits to, then I will follow, abi them too no wan go heaven ni, or are they the god we serve??
I don comot hand for church matter.
Thank you for sharing your experience.
My sister may the very God of heaven whom you represent bless, empower and engrace you. May God protect you and your family from the attact of unreasonble blind "church" members who would rather fight to protect a "church" and their "GOs" but are daily bringing and allowing shame and insult on the very name of Christ. May God bless you. I also had my experience but mine was such that i refuse the satanic web and rejected it at once!
I pray that God will keep you strong, fill you with wisdom and may your healing be complete. God bless you for sharing
I’m following you right now ma. Thank you thank you
It's well aunty Adunni...Almighty God will continue to strengthen you. Amen
God bless you real good..! 🌹
This is a wake up call for RCCG and other churches who rush to label anyone who shows any form of enthusiasm in church as a worker or pastor. Aunty went through all the emotions without understanding what she was doing!
She didn't understand what she was doing? Do you understand what you are doing?
I sympathise on her loss. It was quite traumatic because it was at a young age. Please being zealous without understanding what it means to be a christian is dangerous.Nobody forces anyone to take the position of a pastor if that is not your calling. When you accept to be so, you know the condition. I believe wives should be carried along and when led with her consent too there will be no complaints about the work or the church. Be a partner and friend with the Holy Spirit for direction and guidance all the time in decision taking so that there will be no " had I know"
God will continue to strengthen you Ma
I had to take pauses while watching this video so I won’t spontaneously burst into tears… sorry about your loss. I applaud your strength and courage.
Dear Sister. Thank you so much for your ministry. Nigerians need information.
Please continue to inform our people. These pentirascal thieves in the pulpit are taking money from people who are already not making enough to sustain their families. What is so godly about that?
Auntie you are a precious jewel. 👏👏👏👏well done
My sister the good lord continues to uphold you and shower you with favor
Sister ride on! Fire on! Those who have ears let them hear. Let those who refuse to reason and listen inwardly to their spirit but depend on a man's interpretation of the Bible to them, thereby imposing his doctrines on them wallow in their ignorance.
Mmmmmh snail again; lots of similarities. Well done for being this strong, I appreciate your strength ma
The Lord is your strength ma, my husb was a pastor, he died in UK few years back and I haven't recovered. It's a pain you have to live with and remember everyday. I suffered too much, am in UK still managing my life with no family support 😭. Am even scared of going to church now bc they did not really give a toss abt me. The church failed me , so I stopped. I went through PTSD, flash back and depression even till now, I started wearing glasses too bc I cried so much in my closet. God will help us😓
It is well.i am interested in your case please.kindly let me have your contact
Oh dear.
Accept my sincere condolences.
The Lord will strengthen you and I pray that the Lord will continue to comfort you, all I can saw my dear daughter is to hold on the God wholeheartedly and learn to know Him better personal cos no man or religion sects will help you only God can sort us out. I pray that the Lord will surround you with good and godly people in Jesus name.
So painful, my dear sisters. May God's grace abound over be comforted you as you continue to run your race in this land of the living.
Pls who's number, just to be sure?
Who's contact sir?
Yes, you can do it. God is on your side, and you're going it.
May God continue to be with you and your family
Sorry ma for wat u went tru... may God continue to b ur guide ijn.Thank God u came out Victorious... May d good lord restore ur sight back and grant u peace and joy. Shalom!
Father Lord! Hmmmm! Poor woman! May God continue to uphold you and your children in Jesus Mighty Name 🙏 🙌
God will continue to uphold you and your children in Jesus name.
ohhhhhh. I screamedddddd hearing about your husband's death. I wish he is still alive, it is well Ma.
3:30 -
4:40 - Funding workers etc.
4:50 - Being in their 20's
5:45 - "We thought we were working for God"
5:44 - Husband lost Job
7:20 - Starting his own company
8:00 - Baking.
8:30 - Doing so much with his expenses
9:40 - Jan Fast. 100 days. Ah!
10:25 - Divine Health
11:00 - "Woman of little faith"
11:40 - 10th Wedding anniversary
12:10 - I never knew he was dying
12:50 - Another Widow
13:20 - Papa Adeboye and Health
14:45 - 6hours in Church
15:40 - Hiding his ill health
17:40 - "There can never be a man that can be like him" ❤️💔
19:00 - God exists. She knows!
19:50 - "Her Husbands Last words "
22:00 - My Love increased on that day ❤️
22:40 - Couplelated
23:35 - "I have prayed"
25:10 - "He knew he was going "
27:10 - PTSD 💔
27:45 - Where RCCG starts
28:30 - 7, 3, 2 ages.
29:40 - "A pain I'll carry to my grave" 💔
30:30 - Everyone will desert you 💔
31:20 - Encourage yourself in the Lord
32:00 - Gather strength. 🥺🥺
33:15 - Using glasses. Crying her eyes out for her husbands death. ❤️🥺💔
Sister Adunni, so sorry for your loss. So proud and inspired by your story. God bless you for this brave post. Tell your viewers yo read the book for Colossians 2. Pay particular attention to vs 8, 15-23. Christ has paid the price, don't let any man, any woman deceive you. Read, study your bible and pray to God with your own mouth. He will answer you. God bless you all.
God heal you profoundly ♥️.
Hmmmmm.,thanks you for coming out boldly to share your story,
I feel wisdom is profitable to direct ,if a fasting program isvbein announced and I check my system big I can fast I pray and if I fast I break on time as we age our system can no longer accommodate some things
I repeat no church is worth dieing for and no GO can replace the blessings the Lord has put on your parents,do your best and leave the rest
Keep going with the strength of God my sister. Like people used to say that won ti fi esin gba wa. May God help us in Nigeria.
Weldone ma. You've been through a lot. Anyone who has been to a one-man church can not relate or understand at all. I was in one of such churches for 6years, and I almost hated and almost vowed never to go to any church again. I even told my children as young as they were that even if it's raining fire in a one-man church, they should never step into any. So ma, All you have said about one-man church is nothing but truth.
But I beg you in the name of Jesus Christ, please don't take it to the extreme of never going to church again. Just carefully check which one to go too. Even myself, I could not go to church for a few months and have to take my time to study my current church for about four months before I joined. Definitely not a one-man church this time.
Tnx definitely not one man church when I’m ready. I just stopped three years ago. I stopped after my kids were been dragged to be workers in church. I won’t do that to them. They are very active kids so the pastor wife was already eyeing them as workers 😂
Be rest assured he is in a better place. God will comfort you and the family ma
You have really spoken well may the Lord continue to be your strength. However I wish to say do not forsake the fellowship of the brethren remember we need ourselves. Also if touching the altar did not give u a child that there are more spiritual people who touch and did not receive like u. If you u doubt the miraculous what of parting of the red sea, Lazarus, woman with the issue of blood etc. Please Jesus is still in the business of doing the miraculous. Keep your faith, I hope u still believe in Jesus as your Lord and saviour. RCCG may have their faults, churches may have their faults but Jesus is perfect so make him the author and the finisher of your faith, God still answer prayers shalom
I am so sorry to hear about how your husband passed. So sorry "church " did this to you. Jesus HIMSELF loves you. Cleave to Him and nurture your relationship with Him. When you are healed and ready, ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to a church where the love of Christ is all you see and experience. No slavery! No theft from the pulpit!
What you have described sounds like a cult. And God will judge all cult leaders! You may wish to check out an episode on cults in Navigating Narcissism by Dr Ramani.
Sending you hugs and kisses. ❤
Thanks for your boldness
WOW! This is so much TOUCHING 😢
The healing process is usually life long, but it gets better just a little bit. May the good Lord continually console and uphold you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am even running tears God is your stren5 and he will
What you said is true about RCCG that i stopped attending. The HQ demands much without any input. Papa Adeboye's sons dont start parish from the scratch but posted to already made church; Leke is even warming up to take over City of David and RCCG at Large. God help his church. The only help you can get from RCCG comes from member's who have giving spirit. Their schools built with church members money are unapproachable by church members. They collect aims from the church and redistribute to the poor in the name of the church often. The christianity in Nigeria differs from that of the white missionaries who offered sacrificial services: built free schools, hospital, infrastructures without tasking the members
Daddy encourages Us to seek Medical attention and do regular check up.
God will continue to strengthen you, I know I attend Nigeria church