Dear Murtaza, Your videos are a great source of learning and i must say, that the topics you have addressed are really need of the hour . I wish you the best of health and happiness. Stay ALIVE & FEARLESS
I thought this would be a religious argument but u are completely logical and this is exactly what I want thanks all muslims would have been good if imams were like u
I like all your videos especially this one but you cannot change people but change yourself to be positive. Sometimes it doesn't work if the person is too egoist to listen.
I am happy to help and hope you regain what you have lost. Also would highly recommend you check my Online course www.murtazabadri.com/LLYL it's a step-by-step guide to unleash your hidden potential and get the results you want.
Amazing advice and the best part was I could relate with it from the start to the end. Thank you. This video has not only bought a smile on my face but also tought me an important lesson. Looking forward for more transformational blogs. Thank you
My toxic ass relativea give me extreme anxiety!!! I cut them ALL out of my life. I only have my grandma now but even she ias negative af!!! Can never have a single convo with her with out her blowing shit out of proportion!!!!!! Ive just stopped talking to her tbh. It gives me anxiety. Im just gonna ignore her all together unless its something about me or something not negative
Salam May Allah Taala bless you Murtaza. Your vedios are awesome and this one dealing with negative behavior is such a help when I really needed. How I treated the negative behavior, omg very difficult to face and brought me very low.It felt me like just sunk. Then I tried to bring myself into normal life shedding lots of tears. Now I will definitely try 4 steps. Thanks again
I am happy for you and your breakthrough... you are Alive & Fearless and you will achieve your heart's dream. Make sure to keep moving forward and to never get sucked down by negative people or their comments.
Narsictic people never leave a chance to hurt u.i tried almost everything u said.but again they do something horrible.but as a muslim im staying with them.but it does not beneficiet my dunya nor my aakhira Pls tell some solution
@Sunu Nena Move out. Or stay in your bedroom. Muhummed (SAW) had lots of enemies. But also had lots of friends/companions. He (peace be upon him) spent most of his time, with friendly people. Not with his enemies. That's how Muhummed (SAW) was able to keep his patience with mean people. He wasn't always hanging out with his bullies. If you stayed at work , and never went for a lunch break and never went home, it's going to be impossible to control your anger with an annoying boss. Because they're always in your face without any break.
You are definitely not alone... Putting us down especially for some choices of life. Even at times when you are not to be blamed. Like not getting married or just being born a girl, or just not having long hair or just didn't give birth to a son. Woah our own parents create a hatred and negative competition among siblings themselves
Asalamu alaikum, thank you ever so much for you motivational videos. They have been very inspiring and I ask Allah Subhana Wa Taala to reward you abundantly for you great work. I wish In Sha Allah that I become as positive as you are. All the best and may God continually bless you .
Yes I have toxic and negative family they Constantly belittled ,dog or Constantly criticize me ,its to the point where I don't like them sure I love them because they are family.
Be straight and let them how you feel and that it's not helping you nor them... if they don't understand... work on getting out of a toxic environment ASAP.
Evaluate if they are taking advantage of you or just too dependent on you? Being nice is good, but demand excellence and growth as a head of the family from self and others.
I agree with everything except "if they wanna hit you, you give them hug". In Islam we're taught self defence bro, I think holding both their arms to prevent them from hitting you is better. Love and hugs won't work for everyone. Some people and/or family are dealing with mental illnesses, sometimes involving sadism (they enjoy others pain). Giving them hugs, would teach their already injured brain that "hate and violence, leads to respect". Which might lead them to get shot, because they're randomly strangling strangers. Love, doesn't involve you, or anyone having to become a victim.
Agree... you need to be thoughtful and use love more than hate... but there are always going to be a few people who just won't get it even all the love you can give them... remove them from your life as best as you can... and if you cant be straight and communicate firmly.
My dad and siblings are abusive and always try to put me down and I can't leave them till my marriage as an Indian culture. Please suggest a solution in this case.
@@MurtazaBadri pls post videos for children motivation...which i can show my kids...i have good children...but i want dem to b motivated to help around the house..help other people...just basic respect and honesty video for kids..thanku
Thank you so much sir. You have done a great video which will be useful for each and every one. You have selected a very good topic about negative people. I really appreciate your selection of this topic. May Allah bless you with health happiness n wealth
Rukmini Narayana My wife thinks that whenever I go to my sisters or brothers home they tell me to marry a second wife or teach me other stuff because she is not have good relationships with them, but that’s not the case it’s only her thoughts that annoy her but the truth is my family say to me to convey our Salam to ur wife.
I have two sisters but the one I have always had issues with is the older one. however everyone seems to like her everybody follows her and talks to her, so I have started to think I am the one with the problem. Every time I am in the same space as her she avoids me and goes to her room. When she goes out she invites everybody but me. She knows that hurts me, But it looks like she likes doing just that. I have been direct with her and she does not change she is the same person she says we are going to work on being sisters, but it goes back to her being a highschooler. We are three biological sisters and one girl that is my stepdads daughter she also lives with us. My older sister says she hates her and talks behind her back but when the girl invites her to places she goes and they can actually be in a room and talk and laugh for hours, but as soon as I am in the same room they leave and the other girls start acting different because they listen to what the older one says :(... unfortunetely they are the only family I have I do not know what to do I do not want to end up alone but I also know they dont want me to be part of their life. Besides them I only have my mom. Please help
You need to focus on yourself. if you are alone then it is a best time for gain knowledge. Now the world is competitive. If you Learn programming or watch TH-cam tutorial how making an animation then you will prepare free lunch. Now this time you added value in your life. So neglected about your sister behaviour.
Asalamualaikum sir subban Allah ur video really helps ,make more such veiod so that we can come out of this negativity and may Allah bless u wed health,wealth and so many good things
5:00 if I ever say that I’m getting a cussing like I remember last time I said ok well I’m gonna stop now because your being negative and got cussed out bc they said me saying my older sister was being “negative” was an insult like huh
If you are open to a discussion we can get on a call and see how I can help you with this? You can schedule a call with me or my team here => www.murtazabadri.com/call
Vai can you help me i have two tocix brother cousine.. They provokes me... And i rebel but then i make them aware of my situation of their insults.. But still they does that.. So i remain silent But they kept provoking me... Help me
You just proved my point...if all that you could see in this video is negative then...probably I am talking about people like you. But I appreciate your comment and share and your time and interest in my work...thank you!
@@MurtazaBadri You statement sounds quite negative itself, accusing instead of trying to understand my point: there is no universal standard of positive and negative. Unless you have some unmentioned standard to decide if someone is negative or not?
@@MurtazaBadri Perhaps you should rename your video to "How to Not See Other People and Their Comments as Negative" instead of claiming they are themselves negative people. Otherwise you should first define what you even mean by negative since you are the one making videos claiming people are negative.
Having sucide thoughts are miserable.... Why should you end your life becasue of other people .... It's better to communicate, fight for your life and live it
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It's very important for children to learn ways of dealing with negative people .
True!
Dear Murtaza,
Your videos are a great source of learning and i must say, that the topics you have addressed are really need of the hour .
I wish you the best of health and happiness.
Stay ALIVE & FEARLESS
So true mate, stay positive and flush out negativity ! Cheers
I thought this would be a religious argument but u are completely logical and this is exactly what I want thanks all muslims would have been good if imams were like u
I will take that as a compliment : )
It's not about Muslims or non Muslims it's for human
I like all your videos especially this one but you cannot change people but change yourself to be positive. Sometimes it doesn't work if the person is too egoist to listen.
Agree you can only change yourself and hope to influence the other... if it works, great! if it does not ... move on.
bhai i found this when i needed the most!!! have hit the rock bottom. but this helped! thanks bhai
I am happy to help and hope you regain what you have lost. Also would highly recommend you check my Online course www.murtazabadri.com/LLYL it's a step-by-step guide to unleash your hidden potential and get the results you want.
Amazing advice and the best part was I could relate with it from the start to the end. Thank you. This video has not only bought a smile on my face but also tought me an important lesson. Looking forward for more transformational blogs.
Thank you
Murtaza Ujjainwala thank you for sharing, appreciate your interest and keep being awesome!
Exelent advice always.Salaams from South Africa.
This video deserves more likes and views! Other videos have more views but cant explain as well as this one. Thanks Murtaza 😎
Thank you brother.may Allah swt give you success here and hereafter.
My toxic ass relativea give me extreme anxiety!!! I cut them ALL out of my life. I only have my grandma now but even she ias negative af!!! Can never have a single convo with her with out her blowing shit out of proportion!!!!!! Ive just stopped talking to her tbh. It gives me anxiety. Im just gonna ignore her all together unless its something about me or something not negative
Salam
May Allah Taala bless you Murtaza. Your vedios are awesome and this one dealing with negative behavior is such a help when I really needed.
How I treated the negative behavior, omg very difficult to face and brought me very low.It felt me like just sunk. Then I tried to bring myself into normal life shedding lots of tears. Now I will definitely try 4 steps. Thanks again
I am happy for you and your breakthrough... you are Alive & Fearless and you will achieve your heart's dream. Make sure to keep moving forward and to never get sucked down by negative people or their comments.
Excellent Murtazabhai...never missed your videos they are just tooo helpful and inspiring...Thank you!
Jumana Juzer Your most welcome. thank you. appreciate your interest and share.
At right time right video i have seen. Thanks brother.
Your English very simple and nice voice
Thanks!
Your the best Murtuza!! ❤️
great advice... I will always remember
Love your family, but don't get influenced by negative family members.
Narsictic people never leave a chance to hurt u.i tried almost everything u said.but again they do something horrible.but as a muslim im staying with them.but it does not beneficiet my dunya nor my aakhira
Pls tell some solution
leave. Life is deceivingly short
@Sunu Nena Move out. Or stay in your bedroom. Muhummed (SAW) had lots of enemies. But also had lots of friends/companions. He (peace be upon him) spent most of his time, with friendly people. Not with his enemies. That's how Muhummed (SAW) was able to keep his patience with mean people. He wasn't always hanging out with his bullies. If you stayed at work , and never went for a lunch break and never went home, it's going to be impossible to control your anger with an annoying boss. Because they're always in your face without any break.
Awesome. It's true. I'll follow 🌹
Thank you so much
....very helpful
They need to chill cause 2020 I ain't playing
Be straight, know what you want and take control of your life. Join the Alive & Fearless Tribe here www.aliveandfearless.com
That negative person is my own biological mother...Even after I became a mother....I have always opted for AVOIDING....
Hey feel free to talk if you like
@@MM-qh9yh thank you!!!
You are definitely not alone... Putting us down especially for some choices of life. Even at times when you are not to be blamed. Like not getting married or just being born a girl, or just not having long hair or just didn't give birth to a son. Woah our own parents create a hatred and negative competition among siblings themselves
Nice video 👌
The time u said ..just smile and move on was good 😇
Thanks
Jazak Allah, May Allah bless you with his glorious blessings
Thank you! appreciate your love and blessings : )
Good job Murtaza
the video was so so helpful. honestly i wud simply jump to the 4th step...lolz. thnx alot.
Happy to help! Appreciate the share.
Asalamu alaikum, thank you ever so much for you motivational videos. They have been very inspiring and I ask Allah Subhana Wa Taala to reward you abundantly for you great work. I wish In Sha Allah that I become as positive as you are. All the best and may God continually bless you .
Wow that's a lot of blessings : ) I am humbled and appreciate your kind words and prayers.
I just loved it. It is amazing .l really appreciate it because it is very very helpful to me .
Love the last point
Yes I have toxic and negative family they Constantly belittled ,dog or Constantly criticize me ,its to the point where I don't like them sure I love them because they are family.
Be straight and let them how you feel and that it's not helping you nor them... if they don't understand... work on getting out of a toxic environment ASAP.
Salaam
Dear Murtuza Bhai
Excellent !
My family is not capable of returning love. The more positive I am the more they step on me. Moving on
Evaluate if they are taking advantage of you or just too dependent on you? Being nice is good, but demand excellence and growth as a head of the family from self and others.
To live a Happy, Healthy and Regret-free life join the Alive & Fearless Tribe here www.aliveandfearless.com
U r doing a wonderful job
Thanks, appreciate your kind words.
Very nice video murtuza bhai
Thank you 😊
Pleasure
Thankx alot Sir
You're welcome!
I agree with everything except "if they wanna hit you, you give them hug". In Islam we're taught self defence bro, I think holding both their arms to prevent them from hitting you is better. Love and hugs won't work for everyone. Some people and/or family are dealing with mental illnesses, sometimes involving sadism (they enjoy others pain). Giving them hugs, would teach their already injured brain that "hate and violence, leads to respect". Which might lead them to get shot, because they're randomly strangling strangers. Love, doesn't involve you, or anyone having to become a victim.
Agree... you need to be thoughtful and use love more than hate... but there are always going to be a few people who just won't get it even all the love you can give them... remove them from your life as best as you can... and if you cant be straight and communicate firmly.
Thnx so much
Thank you sir
Salaam bhai im Nafeesa Hussain tekadi wala Bangalore thank you so much.
Your welcome!
My dad and siblings are abusive and always try to put me down and I can't leave them till my marriage as an Indian culture. Please suggest a solution in this case.
yes murtaza bhai you have done with good points but I m one who joined bit late
spoiled some relationship
It's okay jab jage tab savera... go say sorry or forgive and move on.... you can't change the past, but you can improve the future.
@@MurtazaBadri pls post videos for children motivation...which i can show my kids...i have good children...but i want dem to b motivated to help around the house..help other people...just basic respect and honesty video for kids..thanku
Amazing video
Thank you so much sir. You have done a great video which will be useful for each and every one. You have selected a very good topic about negative people. I really appreciate your selection of this topic. May Allah bless you with health happiness n wealth
Uar thankyou so much it’ really helped me
Nice exaplanation bhai. I need a solution for peoples who taunt us badly.. what to do?
One word... IGNORE and move on... if its work related or someone important... then go and confront.
Excellent advice
Glad you think so!
So helpful sir
Thanks it helped me a lot mentally
Most welcome!
Excellent .... good job.. can u pls share how to handle mother In-law , sister In-law and their negative influence on husband...
The 4 steps work for any family members.
Rukmini Narayana
My wife thinks that whenever I go to my sisters or brothers home they tell me to marry a second wife or teach me other stuff because she is not have good relationships with them, but that’s not the case it’s only her thoughts that annoy her but the truth is my family say to me to convey our Salam to ur wife.
I have two sisters but the one I have always had issues with is the older one. however everyone seems to like her everybody follows her and talks to her, so I have started to think I am the one with the problem. Every time I am in the same space as her she avoids me and goes to her room. When she goes out she invites everybody but me. She knows that hurts me, But it looks like she likes doing just that. I have been direct with her and she does not change she is the same person she says we are going to work on being sisters, but it goes back to her being a highschooler. We are three biological sisters and one girl that is my stepdads daughter she also lives with us. My older sister says she hates her and talks behind her back but when the girl invites her to places she goes and they can actually be in a room and talk and laugh for hours, but as soon as I am in the same room they leave and the other girls start acting different because they listen to what the older one says :(... unfortunetely they are the only family I have I do not know what to do I do not want to end up alone but I also know they dont want me to be part of their life. Besides them I only have my mom. Please help
You need to focus on yourself. if you are alone then it is a best time for gain knowledge. Now the world is competitive. If you Learn programming or watch TH-cam tutorial how making an animation then you will prepare free lunch. Now this time you added value in your life. So neglected about your sister behaviour.
This is very useful vedio to me my mind is relaxed i got the solution thanku so much anna
Welcome!
Can you do one on Family members who keep secrets from you?
what kind of secrets and who is doing this?
Superb sir 👍🏼
Thanks... appreciate the feedback.
U are doing a good job..I like all ur videos
Appreciate your interest and share!
Great tips
Thanks
Tried & tested each point.... nothing worked out...now what??
Really i wl try ur way 😊 i hope it works
Share the results.
Asalamualaikum sir subban Allah ur video really helps ,make more such veiod so that we can come out of this negativity and may Allah bless u wed health,wealth and so many good things
Excellent video 👍
Thank You!
What if its indirect taunts and gossips which harm my image????
confront the source.
5:00 if I ever say that I’m getting a cussing like I remember last time I said ok well I’m gonna stop now because your being negative and got cussed out bc they said me saying my older sister was being “negative” was an insult like huh
If you are open to a discussion we can get on a call and see how I can help you with this?
You can schedule a call with me or my team here => www.murtazabadri.com/call
How does the last point work with family? You can't just walk away. You continue to live with them and they might still try to control you.
y not? Life is deceivingly short
On point
Jasakallahu Khaire
Very helpful
Thank you!
Very helpful video
4th One works really 😅😅😅
Awesome!
I, had to put up with them.
Then dont ... be Alive & Fearless and do what needs to be done
Vai can you help me i have two tocix brother cousine.. They provokes me... And i rebel but then i make them aware of my situation of their insults..
But still they does that..
So i remain silent
But they kept provoking me...
Help me
No body should be able to provoke you... next time when they provoke you... leave the place and no need to talk to people who don't respect you.
Thanks brother
Can you make video in telugu
Thanks for the feedback... but the max I can do is hindi.... telugu maybe in translation... in the future.
Sir,how to work on self love,self esteem and self confidence
murtazabadri.com/blog/build-self-worth/
Thnx
Welcome
I must share all over india... im serious
Appreciate your trust and motive.
The last point was amazing. Thank them for their opinion and move on.
i married one
My father yelling verbally abuse me
Ask him to stop and be straight with him.
bhai, need more assistance on this negative aspect of family members
Sure post your question here.
How to deal with negative mom in law and also husband who believes her every bad word
Everyone has their own idea as to positive and negative. Who is to say this entire video isn't negative? Now, what are we going to do about that?
You just proved my point...if all that you could see in this video is negative then...probably I am talking about people like you. But I appreciate your comment and share and your time and interest in my work...thank you!
@@MurtazaBadri You statement sounds quite negative itself, accusing instead of trying to understand my point: there is no universal standard of positive and negative. Unless you have some unmentioned standard to decide if someone is negative or not?
@@RobertMOdell then how did you measure the video and my comment as negative...what standard are you using....😃
@@MurtazaBadri Perhaps you should rename your video to "How to Not See Other People and Their Comments as Negative" instead of claiming they are themselves negative people. Otherwise you should first define what you even mean by negative since you are the one making videos claiming people are negative.
😊
Nice yar
Your vid made me subscribe
Thank you!
Hi bro is Law Of Attraction exists in Islam I'm a reverted muslim
In Islam, you attract based on your deeds and your neeyat ( intention) so yes what you think and how you behave attracts similar energy and people.
Marshall
It's miserable.. Sir suicide thought comes
Having sucide thoughts are miserable.... Why should you end your life becasue of other people .... It's better to communicate, fight for your life and live it
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To women: pray for me
But this is unrealistic. How could you let the person keep yelling over you all the time?
Sounds like me
visit www.aliveandfearless.com and watch the free video to understand the root cause of negativity and what to do about it.
Bhai app hindi ma banaw vidio plz
link for all Hindi videos - th-cam.com/play/PLyXb4zZxsXqg62QyvEnTo7_gqQNi5K6xS.html
Make this video in hindi language.