【Apple】When my mom passed, my family turned into a pack of vultures and showed their worst sides...

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  • @RockDay-wv8jq
    @RockDay-wv8jq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    One thing life has taught me and it's a very harsh reality: Weddings and funerals will always bring out a person's true colors and it's not always pleasant.

    • @wendymonkelien-brown579
      @wendymonkelien-brown579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yep! Have a BIL that has proved that over & over & over again!

    • @ediamondsounds
      @ediamondsounds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly. They come out of the wood work. It can be disgusting

    • @GenGamesUniverse
      @GenGamesUniverse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh yes, I can agree with that. My stepdad died of a heart attack in 2016 and the day after he died, my step-sister started acting strangly, we originally thought it was because she was grieving like me and my mom, but she really showed her true colors afterwards, when my mom did things like arrange stuff for the funeral, she took credit for that, she asked if my mom wanted a song to be played after the service was over, she took that away from her etc

    • @JackieSkellington
      @JackieSkellington 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's a strange sad thing 😢 PSA: Everyone, do your wills and Trusts and Advanced Directives and make arrangements now... My Nana always said "Tomorrow is not promised to anyone." RIP ❤🙏

    • @georgegarrison7263
      @georgegarrison7263 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely true

  • @mleighqs
    @mleighqs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Sadly this story reminds me of people in my own extended family who have and will act like this when elders pass on.

    • @Allie_phelps
      @Allie_phelps 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We had the same thing after my great grandparents passed away. My great aunt showed her true colors and we haven’t seen her nor her family ever since. Her daughter and the daughter’s husband were very much the same, gold diggers. We knew it all along but never realized how badly they were only after money. Money was way more important than the only family they had left. Now even her daughter is divorced for the same gold digging ways. You’re not alone in people showing their true colors durning a death. I hope you are doing well and have people that truly love you around you always

    • @wendymonkelien-brown579
      @wendymonkelien-brown579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My BIL was trying to get EVERYTHING he could. Thank GOD my husband's OTHER sister was in charge of the estate! He tried to grab family heirlooms & everything else! The best was that I had bought a small multi-ladder to work on my FIL's place before the sale of the property. My BIL came to take my FIL's ladder (a 7' fiberglass ladder), but was ACTUALLY looking for mine....that he KNEW I had bought! His latest was spending his daughter's disability money on a "family" vacation. They stayed at the good in-laws place, he paid for very little of anything (his DAUGHTER paid) AND my he expected my good in laws to pay for their rental car & gas! The good in-laws did just to keep the peace! The very saddest part of that was that he told my husband that his daughter would get out of the group home they placed her in "when she got married". These are just scratching the surface of what he has done over the years. He is truly a HORRIBLE person!

    • @Allie_phelps
      @Allie_phelps 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wendymonkelien-brown579 oh geez that sounds absolutely awful. When my husbands parents became sick, my mother in law had dementia and my father in law stage 4 lung cancer that had metastasis to the brain, this was years after my own father passed away from stage 4 lung cancer), my husband was an absolute mess. We lived 5 years away from them and my brother in law lives on the other side of the country. We went to them when my father in law needed up in the hospital and that when we find out he had cancer. I told my husband to live them into our home because we’d be able to bring my father in law to treatment and still have someone there to stay with my mother in law ( my mom live with us since the passing of my father). My brother in law didn’t even come out to see his parents. At less point, I was married to my husband whom wanted his brother to be the best man at our wedding and is the godfather to our daughter, I never met and our daughter was 8 when all this happened. We took care of them for a year when my mother in law needed to be put in a home and shortly after, my father in law passed away. My husband took care of their assets because he was the one in charge of their estate. We finally told my brother in law he needed to come see his parents since we were going in a family vacation and he needed to help with his father. My husband didn’t even take the monthly fee that’s 100% allowed while taking care of the estate because he was worried about his OLDER brother causing hell over the estate. My husband has a good job, makes good money, is married with children, I make good money, while his brother is a bum. The brother came out for their fathers funeral but never came out for their mothers, which broke my heart because even though she was in a nursing home with dementia, she was such a great woman before all this, saying, “it’s Iike she’s been dead to me for years and I just don’t see a reason to come back for this”. We divided the assets according to the will and haven’t heard from him since. But my husband was so worried he’d cause problems over the will that he didn’t even take what was rightfully his. His brother is much like his father was, a trash bag and I’m thankful I only had to deal with him a handful of times

  • @MontyCats
    @MontyCats 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The VA is amazing, all those characters well done by one person. Chirp and Audible should hire her to narrate books!

  • @hoptoit5910
    @hoptoit5910 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    MIL says DIL needs to go to the hospital after being told her DIL’s mother is dying. Then when they go to leave she snarkely says “Are you just going to leave us like this?!” What a revolting woman.

  • @ediamondsounds
    @ediamondsounds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    The sister is so whiny lol

    • @yettabelfon
      @yettabelfon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't stand her voice sounds like a child

  • @dragonyami
    @dragonyami 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    If you wanna cut ties with people
    CHANGE YOUR NUMBER at the same time you move!

  • @Gah2Kylie
    @Gah2Kylie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Never spend money unless you have it in your hand. You cannot depend on others. Inheritance is for those in the will. No one else!

  • @Mehp2
    @Mehp2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    “I’m going to drop dead and die.”
    I hope that was intentional.

    • @JackieSkellington
      @JackieSkellington 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂 That's like " I'm gonna leave and go away"

  • @Gah2Kylie
    @Gah2Kylie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The ONLY way to keep a secret is to keep it to yourself! 😮

    • @conjumonblue6450
      @conjumonblue6450 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead." -Benjamin Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanack

    • @estefanyav3780
      @estefanyav3780 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That character got me mad

  • @youmadhuh6375
    @youmadhuh6375 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I wish my MIL would tell me she doesn't care if my mom is sick I need to take care of her son.. is her son sick? Is he handicap?.. is there a reason why a fully functioning able bodied adult can't take care of himself?.. my sick mom would ALWAYS comes first.. damn you & your son ma'am..

  • @riley6740
    @riley6740 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Get a divorce, remarry and he takes your name. That way he’s no longer a part of their family.

    • @GenGamesUniverse
      @GenGamesUniverse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He can change his surname without having to do that.

    • @Lifewithoutyou0105
      @Lifewithoutyou0105 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Waaay too long and drawn out

    • @dustinswiney1474
      @dustinswiney1474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Error logic

  • @linexp274
    @linexp274 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Inherited money doesn’t have to be shared with anyone else! Not even the husband or wife are entitled to the inheritance! Let them contact you! It means absolutely nothing! Change your number and move away from them. This is so stupid! Leon is clueless! He’s doing exactly what he told him not to say! I would come after this moronic clueless man ! Unbelievable!! It’s no one’s business WTH!

  • @raptressreptile655
    @raptressreptile655 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's an inheritance nobody including the husband gets nothing Wether or not they divorce

  • @Anonymous98766-e
    @Anonymous98766-e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The greed of the MIL & SIL is stunning even for these stories.

  • @clukecluke8316
    @clukecluke8316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting story. Nice change up. Love how she's so broke, but can still afford a phone lol.

  • @StoopidMonkeysMomma
    @StoopidMonkeysMomma 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Two words restraining order!!

  • @speedmeisterkym6120
    @speedmeisterkym6120 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Too much unnecessary dialogue 😒please cut off ALL the REPETITIVE dialogue!!!!
    Especially the call from the hospital urghhh

    • @dustinswiney1474
      @dustinswiney1474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm so angry
      Okay
      I'm so angry
      You already said that
      I'm so angry
      That this story at one point

  • @mog-gyveroneill2500
    @mog-gyveroneill2500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Why is just accepting what she's told?

    • @alanaanderson7260
      @alanaanderson7260 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Grief can make people confused and sometimes go into shock, and it's something that can affect loved ones that can last for weeks or months after someone dies , they basically end up in a zombie like state, and they end up clinging to the only other people and family around them for safety and comfort, and unfortunately they are very easily manipulated at this time.

  • @ediamondsounds
    @ediamondsounds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yay! Great ending 😊

  • @JoanStark-p4z
    @JoanStark-p4z หลายเดือนก่อน

    It just amazes why the hell do in laws feel that they are entitled to inheritance monies.

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No way would I put up with MIl for two seconds

  • @dustinswiney1474
    @dustinswiney1474 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    OH MY FUCKING GOD ALL I HEAR IS
    "IM DONE WITH MEN GET A DIVORCE."
    "no thats bad for me"
    Over and over FOR FUCK SAKE THIS IS REPETITION
    For fuck 10 minutes straight

  • @DarkKirby8976
    @DarkKirby8976 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1:05:04 Love to see you try and fail lol

  • @gdangeldth
    @gdangeldth หลายเดือนก่อน

    I detest when the same lines are repeated in different ways.

  • @jackharter660
    @jackharter660 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When you write a story like this put a black expired or something can you incorporate the word tedious somewhere

  • @hellothere8811
    @hellothere8811 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OH HELL NAW!!!

  • @SandraSivertsen-v6w
    @SandraSivertsen-v6w 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Liked the other format. This is to plain😢

  • @MarcieArnold-e1r
    @MarcieArnold-e1r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sure if you want to are you coming up soon? I want to go through gmas closet. I know Jenny has clothes in there.

  • @gretchenannmckissack1400
    @gretchenannmckissack1400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stupid story. Too confusing. 😡

  • @mariantabaksmith6557
    @mariantabaksmith6557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Stupid story

    • @wendymonkelien-brown579
      @wendymonkelien-brown579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If you had my BIL, this story would have completely resonated with you, believe me!

    • @Ronin.Samurai
      @Ronin.Samurai 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Then why did you click on it snowflake?

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why would you even keep contact with MIL