Don't Be a Starter Wife: Recognize These Red Flags

In this video, we explore critical signs that might indicate a man is settling for you rather than truly committing. Don't be a starter wife or girlfriend-put yourself as a priority and become high value. Recognizing these signs is the first step toward reclaiming your self-worth and deciding what’s best for your future.
Sign 1: He Does Very Little for the Relationship
He gives minimal effort in nurturing your connection, showing a lack of attention to your needs and overall indifference.
Example: You’re always the one initiating plans and making compromises, while he remains passive.
Sign 2: He Doesn’t Do House Chores
He believes household chores are a woman's job, creating an unfair division of labor and lack of respect.
Example: After a long day, you come home to a messy house, and he refuses to help, saying, “That’s your job, not mine.”
Sign 3: He Isn’t Emotionally Invested
He avoids deep emotional connections and is indifferent or dismissive when you share your feelings.
Example: You share good news or seek support, but he changes the subject or provides superficial responses.
Sign 4: He Needs Your Support but Doesn’t Reciprocate
He uses you for emotional or financial support but is unavailable when you need help.
Example: You lend him money or offer advice, but when you face challenges, he’s nowhere to be found.
Sign 5: He Manipulates You with Bread Crumbing
He gives just enough attention to keep you interested but not enough to satisfy your need for commitment.
Example: He sends sporadic texts or makes vague promises about the future without following through.
Sign 6: He Shames You for Wanting More Out of the Relationship
He belittles your desires for a deeper connection, making you feel guilty for wanting more.
Example: When you express your needs, he accuses you of being demanding or unreasonable.
Time stamps:
0:00 Intro
1:38 Sign 1: He Does Very Little for the Relationship
Sign 2: He Doesn’t Do House Chores
Sign 3: He Isn’t Emotionally Invested
Sign 4: He Needs Your Support but Doesn’t Reciprocate
Sign 5: He Manipulates You with Bread Crumbing
Sign 6: He Shames You for Wanting More Out of the Relationship
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