And the same mom says something entirely different to OP, citing it being Mel's decision. Sarah did parental alienation to replace OP with Brian, whether Mel saw it or not
every time she came up with an excuse or pure BS,she knew what she was doing and the reality is she took her father for granted,she is just as easy to manipulate as her mother.
it wasnt the daughter's job to make everyone happy, it was her job to show respect to the parent that raised her and i think the sister that keeps telling him the bullshit needs to go to as she should have been telling the daughter she was the one making the mistake. his sister most definitely was not on his side.
also the new husband is also clearly completly clueless and dumb as a rock,had it been me i would have put my foot down and said if she didn't allow her father to lead her down the aisle there would be no wedding.
@@deutopia2953 Agree, i was sat there " like tf did i miss " must be a practice ceremony, but htf does his girl not see shes in the wrong . like at all, Then be a cow about it by sending that photo
This just hurts to listen to. I haven't experienced it but i can partially understand that a father pours blood, sweat and tears into the commitment for family and those he holds close. He sacrificed so much yet was sacrificed when it came to the wedding. The road ahead glooms darker day by day for him... Please return to light soon... They may not understand... But we can...
Only another dad can understand this issue No woman in the world can even dare to have an opinion over it simply because the " walk down the aisle " is the father right and honour, and take that away from him is openly tell him that all the sacrifices he did were for nothing So the women in this story can't even possibly know how OP is feeling, because it's something they will never have to live with
Like mother like daughter. Husband better watch out. OP's sister is a piece of work too, first dismissing his feelings rather than supporting him and then believing she should tell the niece. She probably helped tje Ex escape. Shouldn't leave anything for her in will either.
7:09 a 50k wedding is not a special event that's just wasting money on something that you could use for something that's actually useful like a house are repaying debts instead of spending a ridiculous amount of money on a wedding lol.
It's heartbreaking to read stories like this, where a child's world is turned upside down. No matter the reasons behind the decisions made, it's important to remember that kids need love, stability, and support from all sides. What stands out here is how much the father clearly cares for his daughter, and I hope they can rebuild their relationship and heal together. It's a reminder of how crucial it is to always put the child’s emotional wellbeing first during tough times like these.
Op needs to block his daughter. He needs to make a new life for himself like Melanie is gone for good. Melanie was old enough to tell her mom snd Brian no. Op deserved better. I hope Op meets someone nice that makes him happy. This one needs an update.
Sorry but I'm with OP on this one, because I would make the same exact decision. Melanie has not even started to grasp what she did, and i doubt she will, she is her mother daughter after all, and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Her mother traded being her mother to be with someone else And Melanie traded her father to be with someone else Shes exactly like her mother
Yeah, your daughter did not in any way, shape, or fashion make the right move in not allowing you to walk her down the isle. I felt wounded for you. I hope she never knows the pain she inflicted on you. I'm so sorry OP.🎉
The sister definitely knew about the affair and took part in it, the daughter is probably being feed bs and being manipulated into being a puppet for he mother.
I honestly don't understand this obsession American families have of keeping the peace over loyalty, truth, honesty and fairness. It's the complete opposite of the rest of the world. No wonder theres so many estranged relationships over there
Isn't it obvious that the mother was clearly manipulating the Ops daughter By saying " A big happy family again" and by the looks of it actually tying to erase op out of his daughter's life.
Funny how she wants everyone to be happy, accept her dad. Funny how she didn't talk to him afterward until she found out about the will. Your daughter is a piece of trash, guess she takes after her mom.
I mean, this is obviously fake, but in case someone went through something similar... The daughter is an absolute abomination. Like holy fuck, she is a heartless monster.
AI-generated garbage. First the father attends the wedding even if he doesn't get to give his daughter away. Then the story 'rewinds' and suddenly the father refuses to attend the wedding and disinherits the daughter. There is also a story line about some deep dark secret related to some bank account of the mother's that is completely dropped.
I dont why would Melanie do that to her own father i just really couldn't accept that i cried for OP i feel bad and his daughter really repayed him by choosing brian to walk down the aisle all Op's effort have gone drowning in the sink because of his good for nothing daughter i really don't like Melanie and i hope karma will bite her if her father dies alone without telling her
If i was Melanies fiance and knew her real father (op) and not knoweing her mother and that Brian character if she whanted to make sutch a change just before wedding i would say even if i loved her most of all if you want to mske the change then there wont be a wedding .
These stories have to be fake no way a daughter does this to her father. No way and then she acts like she is a child who just did something minor Also i I wish your aunt Julie would told her she is making a bad decision. Also wish there where endings
I think the Aunt told her that and there actually a syndrome if you're separated from your parent for awhile you're really acceptable to their opinion and influence And you don't know what happened behind closed doors that's probably a chance that Brians her dad exactly since he found out that they was going on why they are together she also might be scared to tell him that news I'm really wants Brian's acceptance
"Mom said that replacing you would make the wedding more harmonious "
How, exactly, does that work?
And the same mom says something entirely different to OP, citing it being Mel's decision. Sarah did parental alienation to replace OP with Brian, whether Mel saw it or not
"i didn't see it as hurtful"
A father's most significant honor being given to a stranger? Nah! Not hurtful at all.
@rmhartman This can't be true. For one, he says in the beginning he went to the wedding.
"it's not about replacing you"
Yes, it is. Literally.
every time she came up with an excuse or pure BS,she knew what she was doing and the reality is she took her father for granted,she is just as easy to manipulate as her mother.
it wasnt the daughter's job to make everyone happy, it was her job to show respect to the parent that raised her and i think the sister that keeps telling him the bullshit needs to go to as she should have been telling the daughter she was the one making the mistake. his sister most definitely was not on his side.
also the new husband is also clearly completly clueless and dumb as a rock,had it been me i would have put my foot down and said if she didn't allow her father to lead her down the aisle there would be no wedding.
I would've been disowned her lmao. "You are your mother's daughter-I cleanse my hands of you."
Sister Julia would also be cut off and she was supposed to be a lawyer.....she must suck!
Right! She was overstepping left,right and center.
Ive heard this story before. And i will say this again, SHUT THEM OUT. Dont accept apologies. Choices have consequences. Ensure they are permanent
Why is no one talking about the fact he went to her wedding early in the video but then later didn't go
I chocked that to a wedding practice . Its a thing
Lmao we aint come here for all that
@@deutopia2953 Agree, i was sat there " like tf did i miss " must be a practice ceremony, but htf does his girl not see shes in the wrong . like at all, Then be a cow about it by sending that photo
"AI will replace humans" ahh moment
This is an abridged/bootleg version of another story btw
I thought I heard that to.
Heartbreaking, can't imagine the pain of being replaced after all those years 😢
You do NOT use a major family event to "make peace" with someone who abandoned you for a decade.
The message Melanie sent to OP at the last part made my blood boiled.
Did she send it, or did the mother get ahold of her phone?
@veliona5670 well thank God this story didn't happen.
Exhibit A: in the beginning he says he went to the wedding.
This just hurts to listen to. I haven't experienced it but i can partially understand that a father pours blood, sweat and tears into the commitment for family and those he holds close.
He sacrificed so much yet was sacrificed when it came to the wedding. The road ahead glooms darker day by day for him... Please return to light soon... They may not understand... But we can...
@@jgtelite2383 this story was fake rage bait.
Only another dad can understand this issue
No woman in the world can even dare to have an opinion over it simply because the " walk down the aisle " is the father right and honour, and take that away from him is openly tell him that all the sacrifices he did were for nothing
So the women in this story can't even possibly know how OP is feeling, because it's something they will never have to live with
"Dad? How could you do this?"
"I went to my lawyer and had my will rewritten. Easy-peasy!"
"you've both been such important parts of my life"
What part of your life has he been, exactly?
@@rmhartman that's how you can tell this story is bullshit.
the daughter has taken after her mother.
Sounds like the daughter truly Took after her mother so sad
He should have told her about the bank account, showing that Brian was the guy who the mom left with
Wait, was there no follow-up on the paperwork he found? That was basically proof of cheating, right? He didn't think that warranted any investigation?
Like mother like daughter. Husband better watch out. OP's sister is a piece of work too, first dismissing his feelings rather than supporting him and then believing she should tell the niece. She probably helped tje Ex escape. Shouldn't leave anything for her in will either.
7:09 a 50k wedding is not a special event that's just wasting money on something that you could use for something that's actually useful like a house are repaying debts instead of spending a ridiculous amount of money on a wedding lol.
She just showed she only cared about money
It's heartbreaking to read stories like this, where a child's world is turned upside down. No matter the reasons behind the decisions made, it's important to remember that kids need love, stability, and support from all sides. What stands out here is how much the father clearly cares for his daughter, and I hope they can rebuild their relationship and heal together. It's a reminder of how crucial it is to always put the child’s emotional wellbeing first during tough times like these.
What's up with the story? First he is at the wedding and lated he is staying away😂
Op needs to block his daughter. He needs to make a new life for himself like Melanie is gone for good. Melanie was old enough to tell her mom snd Brian no. Op deserved better. I hope Op meets someone nice that makes him happy. This one needs an update.
Sorry but I'm with OP on this one, because I would make the same exact decision.
Melanie has not even started to grasp what she did, and i doubt she will, she is her mother daughter after all, and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Her mother traded being her mother to be with someone else
And Melanie traded her father to be with someone else
Shes exactly like her mother
"i just wanted everyone to be happy"
Except for me.
When you get disrespected badly like op did, you don't go backwards and keep replaying the past. You move forward and leave the toxic shiit behind..
NO ENDING + NO CATHARSIS
''the weeks turned into months and still there was no real contact'' Good, keep it that way.
Yeah, your daughter did not in any way, shape, or fashion make the right move in not allowing you to walk her down the isle. I felt wounded for you. I hope she never knows the pain she inflicted on you. I'm so sorry OP.🎉
I didn’t choose him over you. She said after she chose him over you. And NOW she’s pissed she is cut out of his will? Consequences of actions ?
"i need to find myself"
Have you checked the soda cushions?
The sister definitely knew about the affair and took part in it, the daughter is probably being feed bs and being manipulated into being a puppet for he mother.
He wasted so many years raising that ungrateful brat.
"i was just trying to keep the peace"
... not with me.
"We need to talk"
"You mean you want to say something"
I can't believe she chose him over her real father 😢💔
You should not have "stayed out of it ".
Daughter apparently has the same illness that mom has. Funny how all the major attempts to reconnect occur over money.
Who thinks Brian is her father ?
I do I think that's the real reason and she scared to say it
You don't need my money! Go be in "new daddy's" will!
I honestly don't understand this obsession American families have of keeping the peace over loyalty, truth, honesty and fairness.
It's the complete opposite of the rest of the world.
No wonder theres so many estranged relationships over there
This guy slow, after finding the letter, he should have put 2+2 together that Bryan is her real father.
Isn't it obvious that the mother was clearly manipulating the Ops daughter By saying " A big happy family again" and by the looks of it actually tying to erase op out of his daughter's life.
Funny how she wants everyone to be happy, accept her dad. Funny how she didn't talk to him afterward until she found out about the will. Your daughter is a piece of trash, guess she takes after her mom.
I mean, this is obviously fake, but in case someone went through something similar... The daughter is an absolute abomination. Like holy fuck, she is a heartless monster.
AI-generated garbage. First the father attends the wedding even if he doesn't get to give his daughter away. Then the story 'rewinds' and suddenly the father refuses to attend the wedding and disinherits the daughter. There is also a story line about some deep dark secret related to some bank account of the mother's that is completely dropped.
It happens with almost every damn story on this channel
I dont why would Melanie do that to her own father i just really couldn't accept that i cried for OP i feel bad and his daughter really repayed him by choosing brian to walk down the aisle all Op's effort have gone drowning in the sink because of his good for nothing daughter i really don't like Melanie and i hope karma will bite her if her father dies alone without telling her
Well I'm guessing she was only interested in the father for money
If i was Melanies fiance and knew her real father (op) and not knoweing her mother and that Brian character if she whanted to make sutch a change just before wedding i would say even if i loved her most of all if you want to mske the change then there wont be a wedding .
The AI keeps struggling with something that has already finished happening then somehow made it in the future
I thought the wedding took place and he sat watching Brian walk her down the aisle? proof read before uploading 😅
That's it? What a fucked up ending
Lmao dude proof read your stories. In one part he went to the wedding then later he didn’t go.
two endings ??
I think you mixed two different recordings on this video.
About 20:15 it shifts to a story you published a while ago, similar to this one
Stupid, inconsistent rage bait story.
Terrible story!
These stories have to be fake no way a daughter does this to her father. No way and then she acts like she is a child who just did something minor
Also i I wish your aunt Julie would told her she is making a bad decision. Also wish there where endings
You would be greatly surprised. Ive seen ppl make very very bad decisions like this and still not understand why they get consequences
@@michellealinateague9892 even the new husband "stayed out of it" ahole.
I think the Aunt told her that and there actually a syndrome if you're separated from your parent for awhile you're really acceptable to their opinion and influence
And you don't know what happened behind closed doors that's probably a chance that Brians her dad exactly since he found out that they was going on why they are together she also might be scared to tell him that news I'm really wants Brian's acceptance