What's disgusting is that grooming is becoming normalised within the celebrity industry and the biggest culprit is Hollywood. I'm glad people are pointing this out. It's not okay.
They know right from wrong. They just think they're above the law. It's narcissism at its best, putting their own needs and desires above and beyond anyone else.
As a mother myself, I would be upset if either one of my sons, when they were 16 to be labeled as a womanizer. It's not ok to label a 16 year girl as a man eater! Therefore, it is not ok to label a 16 year old boy as a womanizer. It is disgusting.
I worked in Hollywood and everyone knew the music industry was way sleazier than the film and TV industry - which is quite a race to the bottom!! Sexual predators are normalized in rock n roll. Sex sells music is the ethos in the industry. It’s disgusting. The way these boys were sexualized right from the start, by the media, and their own fans, is alarming - whether (homo)sexualized or (hetero) sexualized. The world needs to protect young boys the same way we would protect young girls.
This is reminding me of the female reporter who said Harry was a womanizer … and when Zayn said he wasn’t and that he was a nice guy, she said ‘NO! HE HAS TO ANSWER!’ … It makes me sad to see such a young Harry being treated like that! She would be canceled for it, in today’s world! We still need to make progress though!😽💚🎵
Yesss I was flabbergasted, like if I was Harry I would’ve flipped the question so many times to the reporters and said like “how would you feel if many ppl asked you how many men you have laid with, or if your married and you have cheated” but since he is Harry he just took it all 🥺
Thank u for covering this so compassionately & addressing this . This kid was harassed and stalked and they're trying to humiliate him. All these older women. The industry targeted them. So why use concerts and fashion to talk to young fans about their ssxuality, when they're clearly just hanging on by a thread by the sexualisation theyve been thru. Those same ppl are still around him, no doubt skillfully editing his words and image. They appropriated that poor kid
Well spoken. Feels this industry is trapped by this vicious circle. Hope the fight over this will be spread out, not only by the activists by also by the artists themselves
Important to talk about this. I have been watching Harry and 1D only for about the last month but right away I was struck by how these boys were constantly sexualized and their privacy invaded. There seemed to be no protection for these boys. It’s alarming and as a society we need to do better. I will not buy 1D music because those who exploited these young men will profit. I will only buy their solo music. Thanks for making this video. The exploitation of boys (and girls) must be exposed and we must, as a culture, change this and stop it. 💖
Very correct! 👍 I used to know young, pretty girls are the ones used, abused, exploited by Directors, Producers to be chosen as artists. Turned out the 1D boys (then) weren't spared. Like Harry, first to a contest host who had a 14-year gap when he was just 17. Then another host with a 16-yr gap when he was 19. Likewise Liam where a contest judge took a fancy on him, also older, and even bore a kid, which of course was so stressful to be saddled at an early age with a kid when he's supposed to be free and enjoying himself. So he turned to booze eventually, good thing he's sober now.ĺ
@victoriaaletaaustria2817 Liam turned to booze during 1D. His and Cheryl were together after 1D But she's a sick lady. Took a fancy to him when he auditioned for the xfactor at age 14 and then on X Factor age 17.
It’s crazy how many young celebrities are sexualized. It’s even crazier that no one talks about the male perspective. Take Justin Bieber for example. Bizarre from D12 had a song about raping Justin Bieber when he just turned 19, how Jeffry Star wanted to know how big his dick was when Justin was only 16 years old, when Shawn Dawson talked about if he was a porn star what would his name be… again when he was only 16 years of age! Justin would flirt with female interviewers and they would smile, giggle, and flirt back to a kid who looked 12 for 5 years of his life.
What bothers me is these kids were totally taken advantage of... And I also think the older women were wrong to take advantage of these boys at such a young age. When a young girl dates an older man, it's called abuse, and waiting to hear the same said here. 16 and 17 is too young for a predator of any sex.
@@threeangels9318 ..whether he actually dated the older women mentioned is not the point, they were just kids when in 1Direction.. and it is improper for a manager or agent to make sexual overtures toward teenagers. It's just wrong, leaning toward child abuse or molestation. That was my point. And i do believe Harry has dated some women, for whatever reasons. Frankly tho, i can't believe the interest in who he dated is so wide. Get a life, ppl.
I don’t think he did but that’s what was so wrong with the management of that they wanted him to be seen as a womanizer and all that, so they could make headlines
@@Changelingheart Yes, it actually is part of the point. I don’t believe Harry dated, or was intimate, with any woman but it is still disgusting that they implied he was. It was especially disgusting to report that at 17 he was dating a 31 yr old and having her be seen coming out of his flat early in the morning so there would be no doubt that they were having sex. Also reporting that he was having sex with married women, flirting with all the female interviewers and that by the time he was 17 he had slept with over 400 women. Do you ever ask yourself WHY did Harry have this reputation pushed on him when it’s clearly not true?
We owe gratitude to Harry Styles being Ernest and humble. Its none of any body business and just because he is in the public eye it doesn't just for any one to divulge in his privacy. He makes wise decisions and choices because he is a learner of life. He really teaches his fans that is OK to be what you are. If you decide to live in certain way. Harry you are a reminder and a breath of fresh air.
That's true n let the world know that Harry is no longer with Louis n that his anniversary with Louis on 28th September was a PR stunt by Harry's manager. That's why for 12 years they r on the rocks of not coming out.check Pnnerest it says once they seperated they never ever came back Harry is a sweet talker he makes believe to his fans he wears the peace ring of Louis's but that belongs to Zayn.
Now Harry n Louis r both cheating their fans by celebrating their fake anniversary n making them beleive.Harry n Louis r just friends after breaking up.
❤. I had a dream last week. So weird it was about a Harry being married. I guess whoever he marries will enjoy a life of hatred from his fans and constant criticism
@@intuitivediane Harry still got lots of years ahead to have himself tied, anyway he can have kids much later because he's a male. Unless he wanted to lose his fans for betraying them by marrying someone just picked randomly, not suitable for him like those used to butterfly relationships hopping from one man to another as long as the guy is rich to indulge their every whims. Those type of girls are not for keeps and will eventually leave him when the going gets rough.
Seeing anyone being gr**med is just the most disgusting and sad thing in the world. They are so young and influenced by try to be liked. They just need real love and support, not manipulation
Painful, complex issues here, throughout human history, for all. Mr.Styles w/extraordinary public destiny, will always have my respect, & prayers for his wellbeing in every way.
I remember being a fan at that time, honestly no one saw it this way. Crazy it hasn’t been that long yet at that time the media loved to label him as the player party boy
It's true and he live to that title. In 2012 he bought a house (well really big) at just 18 y.o. and it is known as "Harry's Party Palace". No deep analysis, you know what goes on there.
It's despicable that they were so awful to Harry. It's hard enough trying to future who u are at 16 .but doing that infront of the world .I can't imagine what he went through.just glad that he's at peace with himself ..
EXACTLY!! Society also discounts the negative impact that early, unhealthy sexual experiences have on young men. I've seen videos of young men crying after being assaulted by females who assume the guy wants it simply because he's a guy. SMH
@@debrasnipes233 He had to sign a cleanliness clause while in 1D and was always afraid he would fuck up or say the wrong thing while in 1D. He said he burst in to tears when he signed his solo contract because no such clause was in there.
I know it’s disgusting and a lot of the time it’s adults HE WAS A KID it’s gross and wrong if people do this they are just asking for him not to be open with his love life or his life.
Not all of this is necessarily true, even though this video presents it as a «deep dive». We never see Harry saying he dated these women. We do, however, have the 60minutes interview where he says «I have a lot of friends who are girls, and apprently I’m dating all of them.» Grooming a 17 year old is terrible. But this whole video’s premise, asking why Harry doesn’t talk about his relationships, can easily be answered with «He prefers some privacy». He doesn’t owe us any info on his relationships and we should respect that.
Those older women were facts. He doesn't talk about fir his own reasons. He's in psychotherapy I'm pleased to know. Vulnerable boys in the headlights of the world. Some of the questions s he was asked st 15, 16, by I terviewers were despicable and sexualised him. I'm full of respect for him surviving this. Assumptions are made that boys just want to have sex bit they're sensitive too.
I have recently learned to enjoy One Direction's music and realize that almost every song they sang, at 14-16, was about sex, not just romance. They were set up from the start to be sexualized.
The point that’s missing is that pr relationships exist… Oliv was most definitely one of the - also his „I don’t want to“ reads to me like „I‘m not allowed to tell you“ because he became so loud lately.. 🥺
Harry is really a God gifted talented one and kind hearted one,I love his personality,his smile,his positivity and i like the way he always likes to be himself rather than showing up or acting love you lot hazza 💚
This makes me cry. F*cking disgusting. Why can't people just be people. Social media/PR has to make it seem like he can't stop having sex. Personal it makes me want to throw up. Also, people don't know the real him. They only know what they see off of social media. This really helps to see what social media is all about.
Totally agree. I rescued my son (barely 15 at the time) from a hotel an older woman had him. I was livid! B*tch went to jail, which I helped it make happen. I have zero tolerance for these women.
I watched this and I had no idea those boys were being used like they were! If they were girls and those people using them were men, they would all be in prison! Everyone is pissed at Wilmer Valderama after Demi's 29 came out, but this lady was 30 when he was 16,and in charge of the show that's going to make or break his career! That's unacceptable!
@@LightningFox7 I didn't know anything about them at the time, I've seen bits and pieces of the show in clips but I was never a fan one one direction, or really of them since they've gone solo honestly so idk if I would have known if I had watched or not. But I know it retrospect it's disgusting and I can't believe this ladies life and career isn't being ruined over it! Cancel culture is huge right now and people's careers are being ruined for jokes they told 20yrs ago! She should be cancelled over this!
In the older days, men fashion was actually really colourful and eye-catching. The royals and wealthy people wear heels, high stockings, flamboyant frocks and ruffles.
I think Louis has suffered the same, to build an image for him that wasn't his true self. I have a problem with the relationship Simon has with him, not sure why, but it's a feeling. He was sent back after the gay bar incident and came back a totally different person, what went on that could affect him so badly. Just my opinion. I totally agree it's time this industry was regulated to protect kids like these boys were.
The boy performed on stage had a big cake fight, I think a couple had a little too much to drink and there was open affection being shown by H & L. Louis was suddenly put on a flight that night and didn't return for a week. He went from happy and carefree to cautious, moody and quieter.
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A kid that was thrown in situations so disproportional and artificial like many others it's hugely exciting but extremely dangerous at the same time. Not many make it through in one piece...
Ig Zayn made a good decision by quitting the band cause he and the boys were so traumatized by the label and strictly rules and they had soo much when they were just 16-17 and for good the band was discontinued and just hope for their betterment
As a 31 year old I dated a 26 year old who came from a wealthy, well traveled family situation. He knew more than I did ! But in this case I don't think with Harry being 17 it was even legal. I'm sure his Mom never imagined that sending her son away to sing would have him taken advantaged of by a woman in her 30's. Elvis and Priscilla always seemed strange to me also.
Age of consent is 16 in the UK. It might not have been 'appropriate' but it wasn't illegal. Which is also the reason why Prince Andrew wasn't arrested or charged with any crime. Legally, he didn't do anything wrong. But morally is another story .......
Its not ok even if he was legal age. He was still a teen, imechure and was away from home for his first time. He problebly did have a crush on caroline but it was the "hate" she got for dating a kid that seperated them. Having a crush when your a kid doesnt either always make it convinient or apropiet. But aperently she got the approval from Harrys mother while his dad said in the paper he did not aprove and found it rather disturbing. As a parent i can understand you dont have much say in who your kids are dating especially when they are over 15. With the fact he didnt live at home they problebly had to maintein some peace. Maybe they saw it for what it was "a face".
We don't deserve Harry you all. Beacuse this angel went through so much in his life and at the very young age people fans media just thrashed him like anything and yet he is smiling today happily. Just let the man live guys coz he is genuinely and purely the sweetest human being ever!! We need to learn and respect everyone's privacy here because what you see on social media isnt always real. Shame on this media and articles. Poor Hazza 🥹💚
"if it was a girl and a 30yr old man it would be different" why do people use that when its bs? Look at Prince Andrew, Elvis Epstein the list goes on, it would be no different.
The thing is where i am from when we learned Harry or any of the boys were dating women older than them, me and most of my friends were flabbergasted. Not entirely because of ageism but because these boys were young. So young to be exposed to women very much older than them.
@@user-zd7cc5xc1s I know a lot of celebrities do this as a p.r stunt but from my understanding of this Harry character he apparently very closed off about his relationships ... I could be wrong but maybe he's different and actually loves her 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Liam met Cheryl briefly on his first audition, just like thousands of others, stop making 2 and 2 be 5, there was no relationship between them at all, at that time. They started dating when he was a grown man of 23!
Nothing actually happened between Harry and these women. They were all beards for him. I don’t know who came up with the idea of pairing him with a 31 yr old at 17. Hmm maybe the fact she had the same mgmnt and hosted the xtra factor?
This whole idea that he’s now ‘free’ and making his own decisions in life. Look at the pictures / modelling campaigns he’s in. He’s clearly still being groomed / controlled in some way. That’s what happens when you’re under contract all your life and you’re used to people telling you what to do. The man’s not free, he’s still a slave to the industry.
I worry about what Harry has had to do,to sign,to allow to be done to him,deals made and with whom,etc.Nobody as famous as harry,who has gotten so far,hasn't had to do things to get there .Now,after liam,I'm especially worried.Did harry ever go to diddy parties? Did liam ever tell him what happened to him at Diddy party?
@@deliacozo8542 Nothing to do with shipping him with anyone. I believe that Harry is gay and was given the reputation of womanizer at the start of 1D to hide this. Can’t have a boyband member being gay but it’s fine if he’s seen as a womanizing lothario that’s into older women, even married ones, and basically can’t keep it in his pants.
@@threeangels9318 Ok because even tho i think he is bi, is a little bit disrepectful when he said he doesnt wan to tell us his sexuality and he is right is not our place to know, but why do you think he is? But lest just be kind and not assume or just talk about his sexuality
@@deliacozo8542 I think he knows exactly how he identifies, he just isn’t sharing with us. I believe, imo, that Harry is gay. I have a lot of reasons why I think this but I’m not listing them all here.
I’m sorry but there’s a lot of misinformation in this video. For example Liam meeting Cheryl at 14. Sure they met there just like any other contestant did, but they didn’t start dating until he was 22
Exactly....this is the most ridiculous thing I've seen yet. Harry is nearly 30 years old. Olivia is 10 years older...big freaking deal! If he was 10 years older than her, no one would bat an eye. And they shouldn't! They are both adults. I'm pretty sure a 30 year old man is capable of making his own decisions. The Caroline Flack thing is also ridiculous. They were not dating, ever. I'm sure he had a crush, which is perfectly normal. And with Liam and Cheryl, sure, it was it a bit odd but again, there was NOTHING happening when Liam was a teenager and she was a judge on XF. When they did start dating, again, both adults who didn't need anyone's approval. Stop this nonsense and let these grown men lives their lives as they see fit.
He winked at her at his second audition. Lots of eye contact and smiling at each other. Might not have hooked up at that time, but, he was being groomed
@@jens309 one direction I feel v hurt that Zayn, Liam n Louis do not live together with their children. Harry already looks like an elderly man with his asthma, PR Stunts with Olivia back grid n paps not leaving him alone managers forcing Harry to smooch Olivia on the road with friends Harry n Louis doing PR stunt for their anniversary n makin fans believe the r still together.
The other four were making decisions in a democracy, Harry suggested a break in 2014 but was out voted, their contract with S. Cowell was ending that year and according to Zayn ppl were not re-signing and he got out mid tour to get a head start on the others solo careers, so please don’t paint Zayn as their saviour
His love life is nobody's business but his. Leave him alone and let him live his life the way he wants. Whether it's a man or a woman as long as he is happy is what matters. It's nasty these older women taking advantage of him.
Even as a teenager, I knew that it was wrong for Harry to date Caroline because of their age difference. However, as I got older, I fully realized that what Caroline did to him was incredibly wrong. She groomed him. She sexually abused him. 💔
These women are sick! Whats grossest is when Harry was 17, he looked like a boy!! Shame on Caroline and any other woman that formed sexual relationships with him. As a 32 year old woman, I couldn’t even imagine
I feel because ppl think because they are males it’s ok and it’s not abuse , alot of guys would say they were lucky but they don’t know what it can do to you mentally
Harry--even his mom said- likes older women too and when he was 17 he went after Flack. Watch the video when Harry was in ID and he tells Flack she is gorgeous and asks her out on video-he was of age of consent. FLACK blushes and says she is too.old for Harry as she is 31. ..Harry tells her flirting that she may be to young for him and they started dating...all the other boys were there but Harry only concentrated on Roberta Flack. When it came out, Harry did not defend Flack like Louis defended Eleanor when fans went after her.....Zayn who did not hide his love for Gigi thought Harry only cared about how Harry looked. When years later at 40 years old and Flack killed herself, Harry's mom wrote heartbreaking and wrote a beautiful poem about Flack as Flack when dating Harry met Harry's mom and was ok with them dating. .Harry once said in an interview he will make sure no gossip is about him. So when he dated Olivia for two years and her housekeeper publicly said Olivia and her fiance were not over when she dated Harry and stupidly Harry was being called a homewrecker he broke it up with Olivia. By the way, beards are not having.sex with their partner. Louis had set with his son's mom even though it was a short fling since he went with another girl after that he really liked and beards do not have sex when they are beards. It is for show only if a gay guy is trying to hide it. .
I’m crying. Harry is just a beautiful angel taken advantaged of, and just so eager to make other people happy he put himself last. Hoping one dat he will eventually find the woman deserving of his love.
Don’t think it’s actually a woman that he wants love from. I believe the reason he was given the womanizer, fuck boy, lothario reputation, into older women is to hide that he isn’t actually attracted to women.
It’s truly shocking to hear about this-wrong on every level, without question. These young women should have faced accountability for their actions, but was any of this even legal? It seems contracts protected others but left these young boys exposed and unprotected. Regardless of gender or orientation, everyone deserves the chance to understand themselves and grow with the right guidance. Unfortunately, these boys were not given the support to mature into young adults with the right mindset to discern right from wrong. Becoming fathers at such a young age, you have to wonder what these older women were thinking-they knew better. Where was the protection for these boys? And now, some say no one is to blame for these young men’s struggles with mental health, alcohol, and drug abuse. But ignoring the reality only perpetuates the problem. We need honesty and accountability to protect future young artists entering this industry. Where is the trust?
Legal restrictions of sex is kinda gross, to think government gets to tell you what to do with your body. Plenty of people in the US have sex at 15/16 & yet the law says 18… However, this imbalance of power & age difference is awful as well. The fact that they are in a questionable business, isn’t comforting when we start to question these things. Older male celebrities were sexually exploited as children, so it wouldn’t be anything new. Honestly, I think they made Harry play up these relationships to hide his sexuality & give older “forgotten” women publicity, and make them seem desirable. Hopefully it wasn’t anything manipulative, and he was just having fun, but I just don’t find that likely…
It’s bad enough that he has to have beards to cover up his sexuality, but pairing a 17 year old boy with a 31 year old woman was disgusting. Making sure they got pictures of her leaving his home in the morning so that everyone would think they had sex. I think he hated it but was afraid of what would happen to him, and the four other boys, if he didn’t go along with it.
@@debrasnipes233 So you believe he dated all these women, broke up marriages, slept with his friends mum? They gave him the reputation of a womanizer to hide that he isn’t attracted to women.
When it comes to Liam: I’m not sure about grooming as they did date when he was a legal adult and he was highly interested, but I do think she used him to have a baby. And yeah, maybe she preyed on him when she saw how keen he was. She’d been divorced twice before and she wanted to secure motherhood. It may be harsh but there are many women who do this. But for Harry, it’s devastating to see this happened. If it were the gender roles reversed, the world would be in uproar. Both boys have been screwed with majorly. I hope they both find peace and can become entirely happy within themselves as individuals.
If you watch his movie “ Don’t Worry Darling”, his role there was nasty . Olivia the director, his ex, made him do those things. I wish he will be more choosy about his role
@@debrasnipes233 You mean WS? The song that he said was about the female orgasm but then quickly said, “but that’s not really relevant, it’s not really about that.” You can’t mean medicine where he sings about being ok with fooling around with guys, giving them a blow job and having them ride him. He even simulates giving a bj when he sings it. What songs is he singing about having sex with a woman in graphic detail? Why do you think he had a womanizer reputation from the start of 1D? He used gender neutral pronouns to describe his ‘ideal girl’ but when he fucked up he would use he/him. Louis said “what a waste” about a girl having a crush on Harry. He is most likely not sexually attracted to women and they needed to hide that from the fans.
Isn’t it shocking to hear that young boys were being pursued by women 10 or 11 years older than them? It’s absurd! These were women who should have known better, some even with a history of marriage, now attaching themselves to Harry and Liam. Where was the oversight, the protection for these young artists? Listening to the podcasts where these guys were interviewed, it’s clear they were unprepared to handle such relationships-they were still teenagers facing much older women. Who’s responsible for the anxiety, the depression, or the feeling that they had to go along with things just to keep the peace? The adults around them, including managers, judges, and others, should have had more respect and care for their well-being. Parents, too, should have been able to step in and ensure their teens were treated appropriately. Instead, it seems like all control was left to the entertainment circle around them. Anyway, that is just me.....
When I look at Harry at 16, I see a cute kid. I’m sorry but he was a kid. Woman in her 30s being attracted to a kid is beyond me. And the sexualized questions adult interviewers would ask these teenagers is absolutely unheard of. Love Harry 💚 RIP Liam ❤
Women predators need to be held accountable such as much as men do!! A rapist is a rapist, a child molester is a child molester...period!! I don't want to hear "you can't rape the willing " bullshit!! The fact as to wether a person is bisexuality has no merit in the conversation....
Who is bisexual? Harry? No, as he said, “bisexual? Me? No, I’m pretty sure I’m not”. Harry was not having sex with Caroline, she was his first beard. The sad part is that they felt they needed to give him beards, the womanizer reputation and hide his sexuality for the sake of the band.
@@nuggetsofchiken You know Harry can be gay despite Larry being real or not? I’m weird because I actually listen to Harry and conclude that he’s probably gay? “Thank you for listening, thank you for knowing, thank you for accepting”.
The more I read about Harry, he seems like a very nice guy. He got the fame and the freedom now. He will be okay, because he is not stupid with he's fame. Cheers everyone.
If this would have been a girl band and not a boyband. And girls would have been groomed, the scandal and the backlash would be 100x bigger. When are we going to accept that sexual harassment, grooming, predatory behaviour doesn't have a gender. (This is not a question of being woke or not). Regardless if the perpetrator is a man or a woman is still atrocious! We see a teenage boy with a woman in her 30s and people Hi5 the boy. And then he is wondering 5 -10 years later wtf is wrong with him. It's still abuse.
Wondering if you ever gonna take a break from bringing up all the time and everywhere this thing? Sometimes it is good for yourself to be more respectful toward Harry.
Because he never loved him like you think. Friendship at that age, among men, in those extraordinary conditions, is something special and Zayn betrayed them all. Harry is without any doubt the one not ready to forgive him.
@@gnappedusforever you truly don't know what you talk about. You don't get what Zayn went through and still goes through. His contracts are still in place. The same as other boys. Put your hate aside and open your eyes to abuse they went through.
Here is the negative stuff that comes with fame. We should stop sexualizing everything we see. Sex is something but not everything. Let kids be kids. Blame on those old women, Larries and everyone treated them that way. How did u date a son? So ashamed as a feminist about the way those women acted. I know I gonna receive a lot of hate for this comment, but I don't care. Truth is truth someone should tell it.
Did what? Had to pretend to be having sex with a 31 yr old when he was 17 to hide that he isn’t actually attracted to women? I don’t think it was his idea.
Yes he was sexualized, and that was disgusting, but he also fed into it. Harrys always been interested in older women. It's been a pattern. I feel like he has "mommy issues". I don't think he's gay. He likes to stay "interesting". And I see nothing wrong with a morals clause. If it helps keep the children as innocent as possible, I'm all for it.
What you don't get it is that image you discuss he was labelled at 16 by his former management, image that is so ingrained in people 's mind that they absolutely refuse to believe anything else about this man. So what's the image? Lothario hearbreaker who loves women, is womaniser and usually dates older women. Those women are mostly white, thin, blonde models(well now actress/director bc he entered Movie business). This image was sold to his dominantly female fanbase for 5 years even tho plenty of times he himself would say that he wasn't really thay intrested in older women and media pointed out that detail unnecessarily frequently. He said it this years as well how much he doesn't like sex symbol image and image of sb who sleeps with any woman, any age anyone who breaths near him. What i'm trying to say it he didn't like the image his former management gave him. Image that guaranteed older audience in his random bc they thought they might have a chance with him bc he apparantly liked older women. So what happened when he went solo? Apparently his now manager Jeff Azzofs is his friend and for a while his image started to change, in media we would get articles about his music, his achievements him as a person and not who he slept with this time , here and there we would get articles about his "typical girlfriends" but that was it. Imo apprearence sake bc i strongly believe this man isn't straight. I know he's unlabeled and i didn't gave him one just now, only saying that anyone who says they are unlabeled aren't straight. They , whoever they might like are under qeer umbrella. So i think this man has been in glass closet at least for 5 years, for fans 12 but 5 years is the time he started actually expressing that side of him at least on stage at tours but his "real life" stayed the same. Why? Why didn't he came out. I'm not saying he doesn't like women, i'm just saying that this man isn't straight, yet we have never seen him date man, but he acts like he doesn't actually hide that he might like men as well, so that puts him in glass closet where pretty much everyone in the industry/audience knows or suspectes he is qeer but nobody actually says anything including himself. Why do i say that he is in the closet against his will? It's bc the way he acts on stage whenever he helps fans come out, it's obvious he's proud of who he is yet he isn't really allowed to show it outside of stage, where it wouldn't be put into box his so-called fans(once who can't bare the thought that he might be qeer) created for him called:" performance things"🙄, they think it's his stage persona part and not real him lol He is been acting like this non stop for 12 years, who acts that well for that long, not him, he's not that good actor, well at least for now. So back to my previous point for a while his former image changed and main focus of media about him become his career and achievements over his sex life, but things started to change around his second album bc it became mainstream popular and H started to became huge name in industry. His management started pretty much same pr game around him what his former management did. Why? Bc it is tried and successful strategy and it almost guarantees his name in press. At any stage any celebrity needs pr, so H isn't different. Things got worse during pandemic when when he started pr relationship with his director. Why do i say pr?😃 It's bc it is. During times when he could not really perform and cancelled tour his name needed to be in press and not just bc of his single watermelon sugar, no that's not enough of a shock value or something people will talk about constantly, no they needed something more controversial so they started Holivia and it's became one of the most damaging stunts of his. So why they put him in pr relationship if they knew it would be a scandal? Honestly i really don't think they anticipated this amount of backlash, they just wanted another controversial couple who would make movie be talked about in any way possible during times when people were deep in thier own sh*t so much they hardly care about anyone else. When he wasn't really performing his name needed to be in the press all the time so that relationship guaranteed that. His management started to act like his former one at least for last 3 years and made press around him all about his womaniser ways and his sex life over his career and that's incredibly sad bc most of us thought things were starting to change for him but we were wrong. His image stayed the same as it was during his band days, if not got worse in that aspect . He isn't man who can be mia for months on end if he wants to but the minute his stunt gf apprears paps somehow find him anywhere. This isn't normal, paps didn't stalk people these days, they are tipped which means his current relationship is sold to public as genuine one and it's pretty damaging for his image. Hence his management s*cks and he needs to sign better deal as soon as possible. This image "he sleeps woth an women that breaths near him" needs to change bc that's not real him and it's getting disgusting and old.
Do you honestly believe that at this stage in his career, Harry could be forced to do anything he doesn't want to do? Are you calling him ingenuine or a hypocrite? Harry is set for multiple lifetimes. He does not have to conform to anything. He is well aware that if he dropped his label today, 10 others would be there to snatch him up. And this "management" crap...Harry is Jeff's employer, not the other way around. Quite frankly, the way you all think he would allow himself to be a pawn or act in any way that goes against his values and beliefs is insulting to Harry. The man has integrity.
@@jens309 apparently his mgmt have quite the choke chain on him. Right now, 2 X-factor contestants from the same season as 1D are made a group are talking about the abuses they endured - physical & emotional.
@@terrycook6998 perhaps when they were naive and just starting out. They had no idea what they were doing and I think at that, their management was employed by Syco. That is not the case now. Especially for someone of Harry's calibur. He has been in the business for a long time and knows exactly what he wants. I assure you Jeff doesn't have any kind of hold on Harry. He works for Harry and if he's not managing Harry's career in a way that he wants, Jeff would be fired. That is how it works.
He's such a gentleman with great thoughts .. I just don't have a clue why this world can't accept people as they are .. 🤐😑 There is sooooooooo much toxicity all around me .... I wanna get rid of all this .. and live a peaceful life without giving a fuck to anyone .. 😖 At last what matters is just one's own happiness.. :) No-one is gonna support u all the time .. 👀 So better try to be YOU .. try to be FREE ... ❤❤❤ Open up to urself as much as u can .. ❤️❤️
None of this is ok. I don’t agree with or condone it. But the reason she is acting like it’s no big deal is likely because the age of consent in the UK is 16. Technically she was not breaking laws. That doesn’t make it ok. There is obviously an inappropriate power dynamic happening. No 30-something should be grooming a teenager. Just a reason why it’s openly talked about.
She wasn’t actually having sex with him, she was his first of many beards. They couldn’t have a gay member of a boyband so they gave him beards and the reputation of being a womanizer.
I’m so glad the disgusting grooming of children is more recognized. I noticed Wow so much of Bad bunny’s personality and quotes are direct rip offs of Harry Styles. He literally said the same thing about his shows being a safe place and his sexuality..
@@debrasnipes233 He said he isn’t bi, uses gender neutral pronouns to describe his ideal partner but when he messes up uses he/him, sings about fooling around with men and liking it, wears a dick necklace and t-shirt with two men wanking each other, Louis said, “what a waste” about Emma Watson having a crush on Harry. Open your eyes, he is probably gay.
That age doesn’t tend to result in young men not acting out sexually. Have heard they like older women because experienced but since have never crossed that line that is just my opinion based on what know about human developmental stages. .??
He doesn't talk about it because he DOESN'T WANT TO! He doesnt owe us anything! As he said its the only thing he has that is his and is still private!!!..It is nothing to do with us or anybody else....just respect his wishes! If your a true fan you will...leave his private life alone!!! Even this video is invasive to his privacy!
Da mamma mi dispiace che dei ragazzi di 16 anni siano stati esposti a tutto questo... È insano e tutto questo per business... Sono riusciti a trovare da soli la loro strada e adoro tutti loro e le loro canzoni... Sono persone splendide... Grazie per aprire i nostri occhi con questi video..
Harry was used by predators in the business. No wonder he doesn't share his private life. He knows who truly loves him. He needs to be proud of himself. Soulmates are always their to love you.
@@lalat5649 Uh no. Caroline Flack was 31 and he was 17. Camille Rowe was 31 and Harry was 23. Taylor Swift is 22 and he was 18. Emily Atack was is five years older than Harry. Nicole Scherzinger was is 35 and Harry was 19. Shall I go on. Kendall Jenner’s pretty much the only girl hair has ever dated that was younger than he and that’s only by a year. He likes older women. That’s a fact. He said the only woman that is too old for him as one that’s older than his mom. No one has is ever exploited Harry Styles.
@@debrasnipes233 UH NO, you're naming gorgeous, successful women, who no one actually knows what the nature of those relationships are it's all speculation. He could be dating a 25 year old boy, who fkn cares. He's an amazing entertainer, a rockstar, just enjoy ffs
@@lalat5649 UH NO. There are pictures and articles and documentaries and if they were lies Harry would have already denied them. Plus, Matilda is about Carolina Flack. Cherry is about Camille Rowe (even has her voicemail to Harry in it), as well as Falling. Actually, most of the fine line album is about Camille Rowe. He has always loved older women. You’re the one who said he doesn’t. Practice what you preach.
it happens all the time to young girls and yes it is absurd but no one seems to be terrified. But when it's a guy with an older woman then it's the end of the world
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What's disgusting is that grooming is becoming normalised within the celebrity industry and the biggest culprit is Hollywood. I'm glad people are pointing this out. It's not okay.
I agree but the celebs are old enough to know right from wrong and no amount of fame and money is worth selling your soul to the devil
They know right from wrong. They just think they're above the law. It's narcissism at its best, putting their own needs and desires above and beyond anyone else.
As a mother myself, I would be upset if either one of my sons, when they were 16 to be labeled as a womanizer. It's not ok to label a 16 year girl as a man eater! Therefore, it is not ok to label a 16 year old boy as a womanizer. It is disgusting.
@@sparkle4051 yup
I worked in Hollywood and everyone knew the music industry was way sleazier than the film and TV industry - which is quite a race to the bottom!! Sexual predators are normalized in rock n roll. Sex sells music is the ethos in the industry. It’s disgusting. The way these boys were sexualized right from the start, by the media, and their own fans, is alarming - whether (homo)sexualized or (hetero) sexualized. The world needs to protect young boys the same way we would protect young girls.
This is reminding me of the female reporter who said Harry was a womanizer … and when Zayn said he wasn’t and that he was a nice guy, she said ‘NO! HE HAS TO ANSWER!’ … It makes me sad to see such a young Harry being treated like that! She would be canceled for it, in today’s world! We still need to make progress though!😽💚🎵
Yesss I was flabbergasted, like if I was Harry I would’ve flipped the question so many times to the reporters and said like “how would you feel if many ppl asked you how many men you have laid with, or if your married and you have cheated” but since he is Harry he just took it all 🥺
I think it’s got worse . The only progress that’s been made since then is more people are opening their eyes.
If he has to answer and he says no THAN YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY THAT HE IS LYING AND START MAKING CONSPIRACIES ABOUT HIM. ! ! THE HYPOCRISY IS REAL
Thank u for covering this so compassionately & addressing this . This kid was harassed and stalked and they're trying to humiliate him. All these older women. The industry targeted them. So why use concerts and fashion to talk to young fans about their ssxuality, when they're clearly just hanging on by a thread by the sexualisation theyve been thru. Those same ppl are still around him, no doubt skillfully editing his words and image. They appropriated that poor kid
Well spoken. Feels this industry is trapped by this vicious circle. Hope the fight over this will be spread out, not only by the activists by also by the artists themselves
Important to talk about this. I have been watching Harry and 1D only for about the last month but right away I was struck by how these boys were constantly sexualized and their privacy invaded. There seemed to be no protection for these boys. It’s alarming and as a society we need to do better. I will not buy 1D music because those who exploited these young men will profit. I will only buy their solo music. Thanks for making this video. The exploitation of boys (and girls) must be exposed and we must, as a culture, change this and stop it. 💖
Well said!! I couldn’t agree more!!!❤❤
Your comment needs to be seen by more people.
Well Said 😊
Very correct! 👍 I used to know young, pretty girls are the ones used, abused, exploited by Directors, Producers to be chosen as artists. Turned out the 1D boys (then) weren't spared. Like Harry, first to a contest host who had a 14-year gap when he was just 17. Then another host with a 16-yr gap when he was 19. Likewise Liam where a contest judge took a fancy on him, also older, and even bore a kid, which of course was so stressful to be saddled at an early age with a kid when he's supposed to be free and enjoying himself. So he turned to booze eventually, good thing he's sober now.ĺ
@victoriaaletaaustria2817 Liam turned to booze during 1D. His and Cheryl were together after 1D
But she's a sick lady. Took a fancy to him when he auditioned for the xfactor at age 14 and then on X Factor age 17.
It’s crazy how many young celebrities are sexualized. It’s even crazier that no one talks about the male perspective. Take Justin Bieber for example. Bizarre from D12 had a song about raping Justin Bieber when he just turned 19, how Jeffry Star wanted to know how big his dick was when Justin was only 16 years old, when Shawn Dawson talked about if he was a porn star what would his name be… again when he was only 16 years of age! Justin would flirt with female interviewers and they would smile, giggle, and flirt back to a kid who looked 12 for 5 years of his life.
What bothers me is these kids were totally taken advantage of... And I also think the older women were wrong to take advantage of these boys at such a young age. When a young girl dates an older man, it's called abuse, and waiting to hear the same said here. 16 and 17 is too young for a predator of any sex.
I don’t believe he actually dated any of these women, I believe they were all beards.
@@threeangels9318 ..whether he actually dated the older women mentioned is not the point, they were just kids when in 1Direction.. and it is improper for a manager or agent to make sexual overtures toward teenagers. It's just wrong, leaning toward child abuse or molestation. That was my point. And i do believe Harry has dated some women, for whatever reasons. Frankly tho, i can't believe the interest in who he dated is so wide. Get a life, ppl.
I don’t think he did but that’s what was so wrong with the management of that they wanted him to be seen as a womanizer and all that, so they could make headlines
@@Changelingheart Yes, it actually is part of the point. I don’t believe Harry dated, or was intimate, with any woman but it is still disgusting that they implied he was. It was especially disgusting to report that at 17 he was dating a 31 yr old and having her be seen coming out of his flat early in the morning so there would be no doubt that they were having sex. Also reporting that he was having sex with married women, flirting with all the female interviewers and that by the time he was 17 he had slept with over 400 women. Do you ever ask yourself WHY did Harry have this reputation pushed on him when it’s clearly not true?
We owe gratitude to Harry Styles being Ernest and humble. Its none of any body business and just because he is in the public eye it doesn't just for any one to divulge in his privacy. He makes wise decisions and choices because he is a learner of life. He really teaches his fans that is OK to be what you are. If you decide to live in certain way. Harry you are a reminder and a breath of fresh air.
That's true n let the world know that Harry is no longer with Louis n that his anniversary with Louis on 28th September was a PR stunt by Harry's manager.
That's why for 12 years they r on the rocks of not coming out.check Pnnerest it says once they seperated they never ever came back
Harry is a sweet talker he makes believe to his fans he wears the peace ring of Louis's but that belongs to Zayn.
Now Harry n Louis r both cheating their fans by celebrating their fake anniversary n making them beleive.Harry n Louis r just friends after breaking up.
❤. I had a dream last week. So weird it was about a Harry being married. I guess whoever he marries will enjoy a life of hatred from his fans and constant criticism
Totally agree
@@intuitivediane Harry still got lots of years ahead to have himself tied, anyway he can have kids much later because he's a male. Unless he wanted to lose his fans for betraying them by marrying someone just picked randomly, not suitable for him like those used to butterfly relationships hopping from one man to another as long as the guy is rich to indulge their every whims. Those type of girls are not for keeps and will eventually leave him when the going gets rough.
Seeing anyone being gr**med is just the most disgusting and sad thing in the world. They are so young and influenced by try to be liked. They just need real love and support, not manipulation
Honestly I feel Harry is just a great human being.
Yes, he's a great human being ♡
Great human being? What exactly he has done that to earn that? Do you really throw around such heavy word like that, like a salad?
Painful, complex issues here, throughout human history, for all. Mr.Styles w/extraordinary public destiny, will always have my respect, & prayers for his wellbeing in every way.
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I remember being a fan at that time, honestly no one saw it this way. Crazy it hasn’t been that long yet at that time the media loved to label him as the player party boy
It's true and he live to that title. In 2012 he bought a house (well really big) at just 18 y.o. and it is known as "Harry's Party Palace". No deep analysis, you know what goes on there.
@@victoriaaletaaustria2817 So you believe all the bullshit you read in the media?
It's despicable that they were so awful to Harry. It's hard enough trying to future who u are at 16 .but doing that infront of the world .I can't imagine what he went through.just glad that he's at peace with himself ..
When it is the other way around, nobody says anything.
People shit on Dicaprio all the time now
EXACTLY!! Society also discounts the negative impact that early, unhealthy sexual experiences have on young men. I've seen videos of young men crying after being assaulted by females who assume the guy wants it simply because he's a guy. SMH
The conditions in the band were horrible. Breaks my heart. For each one of them
Not according to Harry.
@@debrasnipes233 obviously he won’t say that bc of his current management but it’s horrible
@@debrasnipes233 He had to sign a cleanliness clause while in 1D and was always afraid he would fuck up or say the wrong thing while in 1D. He said he burst in to tears when he signed his solo contract because no such clause was in there.
@@debrasnipes233 He wont say yea they treat us like shit, they sign contract that doesnt allow them to talk bad or sue them
This makes me so sad😭 He is the sweetest person ever! He should have had to go through any of that crap!
I know it’s disgusting and a lot of the time it’s adults HE WAS A KID it’s gross and wrong if people do this they are just asking for him not to be open with his love life or his life.
LITERALLY
My gratitude to harry is endless
For Ruth to say nothing is wrong with Caroline 31 adult to date a 17 year old child is deplorable!
Not all of this is necessarily true, even though this video presents it as a «deep dive». We never see Harry saying he dated these women. We do, however, have the 60minutes interview where he says «I have a lot of friends who are girls, and apprently I’m dating all of them.»
Grooming a 17 year old is terrible. But this whole video’s premise, asking why Harry doesn’t talk about his relationships, can easily be answered with «He prefers some privacy». He doesn’t owe us any info on his relationships and we should respect that.
Those older women were facts. He doesn't talk about fir his own reasons. He's in psychotherapy I'm pleased to know. Vulnerable boys in the headlights of the world. Some of the questions s he was asked st 15, 16, by I terviewers were despicable and sexualised him. I'm full of respect for him surviving this. Assumptions are made that boys just want to have sex bit they're sensitive too.
@@lizrivers4422 These women were all beards for him. He was given the womanizer image to hide that he isn’t actually attracted to women.
But how you know she groomed him? Harry said Caroline was his friend
I have recently learned to enjoy One Direction's music and realize that almost every song they sang, at 14-16, was about sex, not just romance. They were set up from the start to be sexualized.
The point that’s missing is that pr relationships exist… Oliv was most definitely one of the - also his „I don’t want to“ reads to me like „I‘m not allowed to tell you“ because he became so loud lately.. 🥺
Harry is really a God gifted talented one and kind hearted one,I love his personality,his smile,his positivity and i like the way he always likes to be himself rather than showing up or acting
love you lot hazza 💚
This makes me cry. F*cking disgusting. Why can't people just be people. Social media/PR has to make it seem like he can't stop having sex. Personal it makes me want to throw up. Also, people don't know the real him. They only know what they see off of social media. This really helps to see what social media is all about.
Totally agree. I rescued my son (barely 15 at the time) from a hotel an older woman had him. I was livid! B*tch went to jail, which I helped it make happen. I have zero tolerance for these women.
I watched this and I had no idea those boys were being used like they were! If they were girls and those people using them were men, they would all be in prison! Everyone is pissed at Wilmer Valderama after Demi's 29 came out, but this lady was 30 when he was 16,and in charge of the show that's going to make or break his career! That's unacceptable!
From the beginning it was noticeable. And I was young
@@LightningFox7 I didn't know anything about them at the time, I've seen bits and pieces of the show in clips but I was never a fan one one direction, or really of them since they've gone solo honestly so idk if I would have known if I had watched or not. But I know it retrospect it's disgusting and I can't believe this ladies life and career isn't being ruined over it! Cancel culture is huge right now and people's careers are being ruined for jokes they told 20yrs ago! She should be cancelled over this!
I feel so sorry they experienced that at that age:((
In the older days, men fashion was actually really colourful and eye-catching. The royals and wealthy people wear heels, high stockings, flamboyant frocks and ruffles.
that's how it is for most animals too! the males are the prettier, more colorful ones 💕
this was so well made, wow!
I think Louis has suffered the same, to build an image for him that wasn't his true self. I have a problem with the relationship Simon has with him, not sure why, but it's a feeling. He was sent back after the gay bar incident and came back a totally different person, what went on that could affect him so badly. Just my opinion.
I totally agree it's time this industry was regulated to protect kids like these boys were.
What happened at the gay bar?
The boy performed on stage had a big cake fight, I think a couple had a little too much to drink and there was open affection being shown by H & L. Louis was suddenly put on a flight that night and didn't return for a week.
He went from happy and carefree to cautious, moody and quieter.
@@palokalaba5120 Harry and Louis were touchy I think but Simon didnt like it so he made only Louis go to him and sing something
He's in this world to shine. He's really brave!!
there is so many men with huge age gaps and no backlash, jagger, stewart, duchovny, Allen, Penn, Foster etc.
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:(. This is absolutely digusting. As a mother, the last thing I would want is having my child pursued by ADULTS. So sorry Harry.
A kid that was thrown in situations so disproportional and artificial like many others it's hugely exciting but extremely dangerous at the same time. Not many make it through in one piece...
Ig Zayn made a good decision by quitting the band cause he and the boys were so traumatized by the label and strictly rules and they had soo much when they were just 16-17 and for good the band was discontinued and just hope for their betterment
As a 31 year old I dated a 26 year old who came from a wealthy, well traveled family situation. He knew more than I did ! But in this case I don't think with Harry being 17 it was even legal. I'm sure his Mom never imagined that sending her son away to sing would have him taken advantaged of by a woman in her 30's. Elvis and Priscilla always seemed strange to me also.
Age of consent is 16 in the UK. It might not have been 'appropriate' but it wasn't illegal. Which is also the reason why Prince Andrew wasn't arrested or charged with any crime. Legally, he didn't do anything wrong. But morally is another story .......
Its not ok even if he was legal age. He was still a teen, imechure and was away from home for his first time. He problebly did have a crush on caroline but it was the "hate" she got for dating a kid that seperated them. Having a crush when your a kid doesnt either always make it convinient or apropiet. But aperently she got the approval from Harrys mother while his dad said in the paper he did not aprove and found it rather disturbing. As a parent i can understand you dont have much say in who your kids are dating especially when they are over 15. With the fact he didnt live at home they problebly had to maintein some peace. Maybe they saw it for what it was "a face".
We don't deserve Harry you all. Beacuse this angel went through so much in his life and at the very young age people fans media just thrashed him like anything and yet he is smiling today happily. Just let the man live guys coz he is genuinely and purely the sweetest human being ever!! We need to learn and respect everyone's privacy here because what you see on social media isnt always real. Shame on this media and articles. Poor Hazza 🥹💚
"if it was a girl and a 30yr old man it would be different" why do people use that when its bs? Look at Prince Andrew, Elvis Epstein the list goes on, it would be no different.
Yea it’s really just money and power
He hardly ever smiles in photos anymore and that makes me so sad.
He's just not the same.empty,sad,vacant, tired,no joy.i really worry about him now.
I was wondering what happened too. He was known for his large smiles before
@@hawaiiandawn374you’re right. He seems empty
The thing is where i am from when we learned Harry or any of the boys were dating women older than them, me and most of my friends were flabbergasted. Not entirely because of ageism but because these boys were young. So young to be exposed to women very much older than them.
I'm sorry ... is there going to be a part 2 because there's so many things that need to be discussed i thought this was about them getting married no?
Lol they're not getting married. His r/s with Olivia is a PR stunt.
Harry and Olivia getting married?? Why would Harry marry his latest beard?
@@user-zd7cc5xc1s you think? Maybe they'll last?
@@user-zd7cc5xc1s I know a lot of celebrities do this as a p.r stunt but from my understanding of this Harry character he apparently very closed off about his relationships ... I could be wrong but maybe he's different and actually loves her 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Harry n Louis did a PR stunt for their anniversary. Both Louis n Harry r never a couple after their break up
Liam met Cheryl briefly on his first audition, just like thousands of others, stop making 2 and 2 be 5, there was no relationship between them at all, at that time. They started dating when he was a grown man of 23!
These women were in a position of power and theses guys were just starting out. Definitely inappropriate for them. Sad for Harry
Nothing actually happened between Harry and these women. They were all beards for him. I don’t know who came up with the idea of pairing him with a 31 yr old at 17. Hmm maybe the fact she had the same mgmnt and hosted the xtra factor?
This whole idea that he’s now ‘free’ and making his own decisions in life. Look at the pictures / modelling campaigns he’s in. He’s clearly still being groomed / controlled in some way. That’s what happens when you’re under contract all your life and you’re used to people telling you what to do. The man’s not free, he’s still a slave to the industry.
I worry about what Harry has had to do,to sign,to allow to be done to him,deals made and with whom,etc.Nobody as famous as harry,who has gotten so far,hasn't had to do things to get there .Now,after liam,I'm especially worried.Did harry ever go to diddy parties? Did liam ever tell him what happened to him at Diddy party?
Humiliation ritual
How many other boys have they done this too.
I'm Sorry It's making me sick to my stomach.
Harry dating Olivia was not bad, harry was 26 or more, he is an adult, I didn't see nothing wrong about it.
Nothing wrong with that age gap, I just don’t believe it was a real relationship. I think it was pr and she was his beard.
@@threeangels9318 You are everyhwere on Harry's gf saying he is gay, do you shipp him wiht somone or why you say that?
@@deliacozo8542 Nothing to do with shipping him with anyone. I believe that Harry is gay and was given the reputation of womanizer at the start of 1D to hide this. Can’t have a boyband member being gay but it’s fine if he’s seen as a womanizing lothario that’s into older women, even married ones, and basically can’t keep it in his pants.
@@threeangels9318 Ok because even tho i think he is bi, is a little bit disrepectful when he said he doesnt wan to tell us his sexuality and he is right is not our place to know, but why do you think he is? But lest just be kind and not assume or just talk about his sexuality
@@deliacozo8542 I think he knows exactly how he identifies, he just isn’t sharing with us. I believe, imo, that Harry is gay. I have a lot of reasons why I think this but I’m not listing them all here.
I’m sorry but there’s a lot of misinformation in this video. For example Liam meeting Cheryl at 14. Sure they met there just like any other contestant did, but they didn’t start dating until he was 22
It's still werid.
That still doesn't excuse the age gap. Sure he consented to it as an adult but she practically knew him as a kid.
Exactly....this is the most ridiculous thing I've seen yet. Harry is nearly 30 years old. Olivia is 10 years older...big freaking deal! If he was 10 years older than her, no one would bat an eye. And they shouldn't! They are both adults. I'm pretty sure a 30 year old man is capable of making his own decisions. The Caroline Flack thing is also ridiculous. They were not dating, ever. I'm sure he had a crush, which is perfectly normal. And with Liam and Cheryl, sure, it was it a bit odd but again, there was NOTHING happening when Liam was a teenager and she was a judge on XF. When they did start dating, again, both adults who didn't need anyone's approval. Stop this nonsense and let these grown men lives their lives as they see fit.
He winked at her at his second audition. Lots of eye contact and smiling at each other. Might not have hooked up at that time, but, he was being groomed
@@jens309 one direction I feel v hurt that Zayn, Liam n Louis do not live together with their children. Harry already looks like an elderly man with his asthma, PR Stunts with Olivia back grid n paps not leaving him alone managers forcing Harry to smooch Olivia on the road with friends Harry n
Louis doing PR stunt for their anniversary n makin fans believe the r still together.
Sometimes I wonder is fame really worth it when it emotionally and mentally drains you.
None of this is new or shocking. Very old stuff. You just want to clickbait. Do better...
Zayn leaving the band saved all of them❤
The other four were making decisions in a democracy, Harry suggested a break in 2014 but was out voted, their contract with S. Cowell was ending that year and according to Zayn ppl were not re-signing and he got out mid tour to get a head start on the others solo careers, so please don’t paint Zayn as their saviour
This is an important conversation
this makes me wanna say sorry to the boys
Harry, I wish you would feel safe to come out
His love life is nobody's business but his. Leave him alone and let him live his life the way he wants. Whether it's a man or a woman as long as he is happy is what matters. It's nasty these older women taking advantage of him.
Even as a teenager, I knew that it was wrong for Harry to date Caroline because of their age difference. However, as I got older, I fully realized that what Caroline did to him was incredibly wrong. She groomed him. She sexually abused him. 💔
I believe she just went along with being his first beard, I don’t believe anything intimate actually happened between the two of them.
@@threeangels9318isgusting still. Is it because she’s a woman it’s hard to believe she’d commit rape?
I dont think it was right eihter but neither death threads but how you know she groomed him?
@@threeangels9318if they wanted a beard for Harry they would have choosen someone less scandalous, don’t you think?
@@evatrost1750 Why? They wanted to push the ‘into older women’ image on him, she was hosting the xtra factor at the time.
he is so amazing
These women are sick! Whats grossest is when Harry was 17, he looked like a boy!! Shame on Caroline and any other woman that formed sexual relationships with him.
As a 32 year old woman, I couldn’t even imagine
I don’t think he was actually having sex with any of these women, I believe he’s gay.
I feel because ppl think because they are males it’s ok and it’s not abuse , alot of guys would say they were lucky but they don’t know what it can do to you mentally
My daughter and her best friend used to prank call Harry Styles when he was still at school in Holmes Chapel. Lol.
Not funny. That’s called bullying
@@quinncooper_28 Have a word with yourself
And you would tell this not nice behaviour of your daughter on the internet exactly why???
I was always curious about what the narrator looked like from tea/spill... I'm stoked we got a face reneal in this video ✌️💕
Harry--even his mom said- likes older women too and when he was 17 he went after Flack. Watch the video when Harry was in ID and he tells Flack she is gorgeous and asks her out on video-he was of age of consent. FLACK blushes and says she is too.old for Harry as she is 31. ..Harry tells her flirting that she may be to young for him and they started dating...all the other boys were there but Harry only concentrated on Roberta Flack. When it came out, Harry did not defend Flack like Louis defended Eleanor when fans went after her.....Zayn who did not hide his love for Gigi thought Harry only cared about how Harry looked. When years later at 40 years old and Flack killed herself, Harry's mom wrote heartbreaking and wrote a beautiful poem about Flack as Flack when dating Harry met Harry's mom and was ok with them dating. .Harry once said in an interview he will make sure no gossip is about him. So when he dated Olivia for two years and her housekeeper publicly said Olivia and her fiance were not over when she dated Harry and stupidly Harry was being called a homewrecker he broke it up with Olivia. By the way, beards are not having.sex with their partner. Louis had set with his son's mom even though it was a short fling since he went with another girl after that he really liked and beards do not have sex when they are beards. It is for show only if a gay guy is trying to hide it. .
He shouldn't have to if it makes him uncomfortable and inconsiderate people should understand that instead of assuming otherwise
I’m crying. Harry is just a beautiful angel taken advantaged of, and just so eager to make other people happy he put himself last. Hoping one dat he will eventually find the woman deserving of his love.
Don’t think it’s actually a woman that he wants love from. I believe the reason he was given the womanizer, fuck boy, lothario reputation, into older women is to hide that he isn’t actually attracted to women.
It’s truly shocking to hear about this-wrong on every level, without question. These young women should have faced accountability for their actions, but was any of this even legal? It seems contracts protected others but left these young boys exposed and unprotected. Regardless of gender or orientation, everyone deserves the chance to understand themselves and grow with the right guidance. Unfortunately, these boys were not given the support to mature into young adults with the right mindset to discern right from wrong.
Becoming fathers at such a young age, you have to wonder what these older women were thinking-they knew better. Where was the protection for these boys? And now, some say no one is to blame for these young men’s struggles with mental health, alcohol, and drug abuse. But ignoring the reality only perpetuates the problem. We need honesty and accountability to protect future young artists entering this industry. Where is the trust?
Legal restrictions of sex is kinda gross, to think government gets to tell you what to do with your body. Plenty of people in the US have sex at 15/16 & yet the law says 18… However, this imbalance of power & age difference is awful as well. The fact that they are in a questionable business, isn’t comforting when we start to question these things. Older male celebrities were sexually exploited as children, so it wouldn’t be anything new. Honestly, I think they made Harry play up these relationships to hide his sexuality & give older “forgotten” women publicity, and make them seem desirable. Hopefully it wasn’t anything manipulative, and he was just having fun, but I just don’t find that likely…
It’s bad enough that he has to have beards to cover up his sexuality, but pairing a 17 year old boy with a 31 year old woman was disgusting. Making sure they got pictures of her leaving his home in the morning so that everyone would think they had sex. I think he hated it but was afraid of what would happen to him, and the four other boys, if he didn’t go along with it.
@@threeangels9318 Nobody “paired” Harry with Carolina. lol
Yeah obviously need to research and find a lot of Harry’s interviews. No one exploited him. And the age of consent in the UK is 16.
@@debrasnipes233 So you believe he dated all these women, broke up marriages, slept with his friends mum? They gave him the reputation of a womanizer to hide that he isn’t attracted to women.
When it comes to Liam: I’m not sure about grooming as they did date when he was a legal adult and he was highly interested, but I do think she used him to have a baby. And yeah, maybe she preyed on him when she saw how keen he was. She’d been divorced twice before and she wanted to secure motherhood. It may be harsh but there are many women who do this. But for Harry, it’s devastating to see this happened. If it were the gender roles reversed, the world would be in uproar. Both boys have been screwed with majorly. I hope they both find peace and can become entirely happy within themselves as individuals.
If you watch his movie “ Don’t Worry Darling”, his role there was nasty . Olivia the director, his ex, made him do those things. I wish he will be more choosy about his role
I’m 24, I could NEVER. Absolutely not.
Dicaprio young, Styles old😌♥️
Harry is not old tho
@@JK-jn5ku i know, he has my same age ;). I mean he choose older women than him!
I think the thing both men have in common is that neither of them are sexually attracted to women
@@threeangels9318 For someone who isn’t attracted to women he sure writes plenty of songs about having sex with them in graphic detail. lol🤦♀️
@@debrasnipes233 You mean WS? The song that he said was about the female orgasm but then quickly said, “but that’s not really relevant, it’s not really about that.” You can’t mean medicine where he sings about being ok with fooling around with guys, giving them a blow job and having them ride him. He even simulates giving a bj when he sings it. What songs is he singing about having sex with a woman in graphic detail?
Why do you think he had a womanizer reputation from the start of 1D? He used gender neutral pronouns to describe his ‘ideal girl’ but when he fucked up he would use he/him. Louis said “what a waste” about a girl having a crush on Harry. He is most likely not sexually attracted to women and they needed to hide that from the fans.
I only have respect and admiration for Harry Styles. A beautiful soul. God bless and protect him.
I was born in 2010 so like what did I miss
At 1.39 there is a paper article, someone knows where can I find it?
Isn’t it shocking to hear that young boys were being pursued by women 10 or 11 years older than them? It’s absurd! These were women who should have known better, some even with a history of marriage, now attaching themselves to Harry and Liam. Where was the oversight, the protection for these young artists? Listening to the podcasts where these guys were interviewed, it’s clear they were unprepared to handle such relationships-they were still teenagers facing much older women. Who’s responsible for the anxiety, the depression, or the feeling that they had to go along with things just to keep the peace? The adults around them, including managers, judges, and others, should have had more respect and care for their well-being. Parents, too, should have been able to step in and ensure their teens were treated appropriately. Instead, it seems like all control was left to the entertainment circle around them. Anyway, that is just me.....
When I look at Harry at 16, I see a cute kid. I’m sorry but he was a kid. Woman in her 30s being attracted to a kid is beyond me. And the sexualized questions adult interviewers would ask these teenagers is absolutely unheard of. Love Harry 💚 RIP Liam ❤
Women predators need to be held accountable such as much as men do!! A rapist is a rapist, a child molester is a child molester...period!! I don't want to hear "you can't rape the willing " bullshit!! The fact as to wether a person is bisexuality has no merit in the conversation....
Who is bisexual? Harry? No, as he said, “bisexual? Me? No, I’m pretty sure I’m not”. Harry was not having sex with Caroline, she was his first beard. The sad part is that they felt they needed to give him beards, the womanizer reputation and hide his sexuality for the sake of the band.
@@threeangels9318you are very obsessed and odd. Harry isn’t gay and in a relationship with Louis. Leave him alone.
@@nuggetsofchiken You know Harry can be gay despite Larry being real or not? I’m weird because I actually listen to Harry and conclude that he’s probably gay? “Thank you for listening, thank you for knowing, thank you for accepting”.
The more I read about Harry, he seems like a very nice guy. He got the fame and the freedom now. He will be okay, because he is not stupid with he's fame. Cheers everyone.
If this would have been a girl band and not a boyband. And girls would have been groomed, the scandal and the backlash would be 100x bigger. When are we going to accept that sexual harassment, grooming, predatory behaviour doesn't have a gender. (This is not a question of being woke or not). Regardless if the perpetrator is a man or a woman is still atrocious! We see a teenage boy with a woman in her 30s and people Hi5 the boy. And then he is wondering 5 -10 years later wtf is wrong with him. It's still abuse.
Tell that to the people still calling Caroline Flack's death a "tragedy"
This needs to be viral!!
Because the person he really loves told the world they never really talked, just kidding 😂
Wondering if you ever gonna take a break from bringing up all the time and everywhere this thing? Sometimes it is good for yourself to be more respectful toward Harry.
Because he never loved him like you think. Friendship at that age, among men, in those extraordinary conditions, is something special and Zayn betrayed them all. Harry is without any doubt the one not ready to forgive him.
@@gnappedusforever you truly don't know what you talk about. You don't get what Zayn went through and still goes through. His contracts are still in place. The same as other boys. Put your hate aside and open your eyes to abuse they went through.
How grown people even see teenagers as potential romantic partners is mind boggling to me wtf
Here is the negative stuff that comes with fame. We should stop sexualizing everything we see. Sex is something but not everything. Let kids be kids. Blame on those old women, Larries and everyone treated them that way. How did u date a son? So ashamed as a feminist about the way those women acted. I know I gonna receive a lot of hate for this comment, but I don't care. Truth is truth someone should tell it.
I can't believe Harry did that. Sick
Did what? Had to pretend to be having sex with a 31 yr old when he was 17 to hide that he isn’t actually attracted to women? I don’t think it was his idea.
Such good documentary
It’s not anybody’s business 0:32
The amount of double standards in this video!!! Not saying the creators are making them. Its the sources.
Yes he was sexualized, and that was disgusting, but he also fed into it. Harrys always been interested in older women. It's been a pattern. I feel like he has "mommy issues". I don't think he's gay. He likes to stay "interesting". And I see nothing wrong with a morals clause. If it helps keep the children as innocent as possible, I'm all for it.
No, he’s most likely gay
What you don't get it is that image you discuss he was labelled at 16 by his former management, image that is so ingrained in people 's mind that they absolutely refuse to believe anything else about this man.
So what's the image? Lothario hearbreaker who loves women, is womaniser and usually dates older women. Those women are mostly white, thin, blonde models(well now actress/director bc he entered Movie business).
This image was sold to his dominantly female fanbase for 5 years even tho plenty of times he himself would say that he wasn't really thay intrested in older women and media pointed out that detail unnecessarily frequently.
He said it this years as well how much he doesn't like sex symbol image and image of sb who sleeps with any woman, any age anyone who breaths near him.
What i'm trying to say it he didn't like the image his former management gave him.
Image that guaranteed older audience in his random bc they thought they might have a chance with him bc he apparantly liked older women.
So what happened when he went solo?
Apparently his now manager Jeff Azzofs is his friend and for a while his image started to change, in media we would get articles about his music, his achievements him as a person and not who he slept with this time , here and there we would get articles about his "typical girlfriends" but that was it. Imo apprearence sake bc i strongly believe this man isn't straight. I know he's unlabeled and i didn't gave him one just now, only saying that anyone who says they are unlabeled aren't straight. They , whoever they might like are under qeer umbrella.
So i think this man has been in glass closet at least for 5 years, for fans 12 but 5 years is the time he started actually expressing that side of him at least on stage at tours but his "real life" stayed the same.
Why? Why didn't he came out. I'm not saying he doesn't like women, i'm just saying that this man isn't straight, yet we have never seen him date man, but he acts like he doesn't actually hide that he might like men as well, so that puts him in glass closet where pretty much everyone in the industry/audience knows or suspectes he is qeer but nobody actually says anything including himself.
Why do i say that he is in the closet against his will? It's bc the way he acts on stage whenever he helps fans come out, it's obvious he's proud of who he is yet he isn't really allowed to show it outside of stage, where it wouldn't be put into box his so-called fans(once who can't bare the thought that he might be qeer) created for him called:" performance things"🙄, they think it's his stage persona part and not real him lol
He is been acting like this non stop for 12 years, who acts that well for that long, not him, he's not that good actor, well at least for now.
So back to my previous point for a while his former image changed and main focus of media about him become his career and achievements over his sex life, but things started to change around his second album bc it became mainstream popular and H started to became huge name in industry. His management started pretty much same pr game around him what his former management did. Why? Bc it is tried and successful strategy and it almost guarantees his name in press. At any stage any celebrity needs pr, so H isn't different.
Things got worse during pandemic when when he started pr relationship with his director. Why do i say pr?😃 It's bc it is. During times when he could not really perform and cancelled tour his name needed to be in press and not just bc of his single watermelon sugar, no that's not enough of a shock value or something people will talk about constantly, no they needed something more controversial so they started Holivia and it's became one of the most damaging stunts of his. So why they put him in pr relationship if they knew it would be a scandal? Honestly i really don't think they anticipated this amount of backlash, they just wanted another controversial couple who would make movie be talked about in any way possible during times when people were deep in thier own sh*t so much they hardly care about anyone else.
When he wasn't really performing his name needed to be in the press all the time so that relationship guaranteed that.
His management started to act like his former one at least for last 3 years and made press around him all about his womaniser ways and his sex life over his career and that's incredibly sad bc most of us thought things were starting to change for him but we were wrong. His image stayed the same as it was during his band days, if not got worse in that aspect .
He isn't man who can be mia for months on end if he wants to but the minute his stunt gf apprears paps somehow find him anywhere. This isn't normal, paps didn't stalk people these days, they are tipped which means his current relationship is sold to public as genuine one and it's pretty damaging for his image. Hence his management s*cks and he needs to sign better deal as soon as possible.
This image "he sleeps woth an women that breaths near him" needs to change bc that's not real him and it's getting disgusting and old.
Do you honestly believe that at this stage in his career, Harry could be forced to do anything he doesn't want to do? Are you calling him ingenuine or a hypocrite? Harry is set for multiple lifetimes. He does not have to conform to anything. He is well aware that if he dropped his label today, 10 others would be there to snatch him up. And this "management" crap...Harry is Jeff's employer, not the other way around. Quite frankly, the way you all think he would allow himself to be a pawn or act in any way that goes against his values and beliefs is insulting to Harry. The man has integrity.
@@jens309 apparently his mgmt have quite the choke chain on him. Right now, 2 X-factor contestants from the same season as 1D are made a group are talking about the abuses they endured - physical & emotional.
@@terrycook6998 perhaps when they were naive and just starting out. They had no idea what they were doing and I think at that, their management was employed by Syco. That is not the case now. Especially for someone of Harry's calibur. He has been in the business for a long time and knows exactly what he wants. I assure you Jeff doesn't have any kind of hold on Harry. He works for Harry and if he's not managing Harry's career in a way that he wants, Jeff would be fired. That is how it works.
Lolololol
@@terrycook6998 Who’s talking about abuses? lol
He's such a gentleman with great thoughts ..
I just don't have a clue why this world can't accept people as they are .. 🤐😑
There is sooooooooo much toxicity all around me .... I wanna get rid of all this .. and live a peaceful life without giving a fuck to anyone .. 😖
At last what matters is just one's own happiness.. :) No-one is gonna support u all the time .. 👀
So better try to be YOU .. try to be FREE ... ❤❤❤
Open up to urself as much as u can .. ❤️❤️
None of this is ok. I don’t agree with or condone it. But the reason she is acting like it’s no big deal is likely because the age of consent in the UK is 16. Technically she was not breaking laws. That doesn’t make it ok. There is obviously an inappropriate power dynamic happening. No 30-something should be grooming a teenager. Just a reason why it’s openly talked about.
She wasn’t actually having sex with him, she was his first of many beards. They couldn’t have a gay member of a boyband so they gave him beards and the reputation of being a womanizer.
The background music is too loud..
I’m so glad the disgusting grooming of children is more recognized. I noticed Wow so much of Bad bunny’s personality and quotes are direct rip offs of Harry Styles. He literally said the same thing about his shows being a safe place and his sexuality..
0:41 this scene break me 😭
Y’all shall make a video of every member of one direction
Do you realize he's gay this is a muse he really is not straight he's sideways up ways and all around
I can’t believe that people can’t, or don’t want to, see this. What more does he have to do until people see that he is gay?
No he isn’t. lol
@@debrasnipes233 He said he isn’t bi, uses gender neutral pronouns to describe his ideal partner but when he messes up uses he/him, sings about fooling around with men and liking it, wears a dick necklace and t-shirt with two men wanking each other, Louis said, “what a waste” about Emma Watson having a crush on Harry. Open your eyes, he is probably gay.
Telling so much while saying absolutely nothing.
That age doesn’t tend to result in young men not acting out sexually. Have heard they like older women because experienced but since have never crossed that line that is just my opinion based on what know about human developmental stages. .??
Harry didn’t actually date, or have sex with these women, he’s most likely gay.
He doesn't talk about it because he DOESN'T WANT TO! He doesnt owe us anything! As he said its the only thing he has that is his and is still private!!!..It is nothing to do with us or anybody else....just respect his wishes! If your a true fan you will...leave his private life alone!!! Even this video is invasive to his privacy!
Harry is with Louis 💚💙
Every relationship Harry’s been in has been a PR stunt
If your reading this…. Hello fellow Larries!
lolol
Hey! H and L was the only real relationship H has had and still has
Da mamma mi dispiace che dei ragazzi di 16 anni siano stati esposti a tutto questo... È insano e tutto questo per business... Sono riusciti a trovare da soli la loro strada e adoro tutti loro e le loro canzoni... Sono persone splendide... Grazie per aprire i nostri occhi con questi video..
Harry was used by predators in the business. No wonder he doesn't share his private life. He knows who truly loves him. He needs to be proud of himself. Soulmates are always their to love you.
You can't speak for Harry or put your personal beliefs and opinions on him, they're your perceptions. Leave him alone!
why does he have to talk about his love life. he likes who he likes. i dont think he goes for older women i think he spends time with whoever he likes
He has always said he likes older women. The only age that is too old for him is older than his mother. That’s what he said.
@@debrasnipes233 hes mostly dated girls his own age so...
@@lalat5649 Uh no. Caroline Flack was 31 and he was 17. Camille Rowe was 31 and Harry was 23. Taylor Swift is 22 and he was 18. Emily Atack was is five years older than Harry. Nicole Scherzinger was is 35 and Harry was 19. Shall I go on. Kendall Jenner’s pretty much the only girl hair has ever dated that was younger than he and that’s only by a year. He likes older women. That’s a fact. He said the only woman that is too old for him as one that’s older than his mom. No one has is ever exploited Harry Styles.
@@debrasnipes233 UH NO, you're naming gorgeous, successful women, who no one actually knows what the nature of those relationships are it's all speculation. He could be dating a 25 year old boy, who fkn cares. He's an amazing entertainer, a rockstar, just enjoy ffs
@@lalat5649 UH NO. There are pictures and articles and documentaries and if they were lies Harry would have already denied them. Plus, Matilda is about Carolina Flack. Cherry is about Camille Rowe (even has her voicemail to Harry in it), as well as Falling. Actually, most of the fine line album is about Camille Rowe. He has always loved older women. You’re the one who said he doesn’t. Practice what you preach.
it happens all the time to young girls and yes it is absurd but no one seems to be terrified. But when it's a guy with an older woman then it's the end of the world