How to Prevent Miscarriages - What no one else will tell you about preventing miscarriages
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 พ.ย. 2019
- Miscarriage sucks. In this video I will share the truth I have learned about preventing miscarriages, and it's something no one else seems to be talking about 🤷♀️
Study that showed 7% of recurrent miscarriages due to chromosome issues: journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/...
Great information on the male factor of RPL: / top_information_post_a...
Need some help? These are great places to find it:
/ miscarriage
/ ttcafterloss
Facebook group called "Recurrent miscarriage / multiple miscarriage support"
/ 114173492216
Need the help of a Dr? These are the best Reproductive Immunologists that specifically help women with recurrent miscarriages:
Alan E. Beer Medical Center - www.repro-med.net
Braverman Reproductive Immunology - www.preventmiscarriage.com
Dr. Kwak-Kim - www.rfuclinics.com/services/r...
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I totally agreee with you. We are NOT in control of anything. God is in full control, the giver if life and the taker. I tortured myself being perfect and had a miscarriage anyways: the month I gave up and got drunk the most and didn’t care is when I got my big fat positive test!!!
Lol, this is so cute 🥰
I think on FRIENDS, when phoebe is trying to get pregnant and she’s trying to do everything in her power, her brother says “I know, you can get drunk, it worked for a bunch of girls in my HS”. I’m starting to think he was onto something
Dr OK os un helped me stoped my miscarriage
I have to kids now
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I hate that doctors don't want to see you until your 8 weeks !!
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Same here it's awful
Same here and before they saw me l ended up with another miscarriage
Same here I ended up with miscarriage in 6 weeks
The book It Starts with the Egg literally saved my life. Improving your egg quality can seriously help decrease miscarriage rates. It lays out the supplements that are right for your specific situation, and tells you which ones NOT to take. And only recommends the ones that have been proven through many good studies.
I have the book and am reading it now thank you for sharing.
I really needed to hear this right now! My heart is still breaking from losing my son. But this is healing mentally.
My dear let me introduce you to Dr okosun he helped me stoped my miscarriage after many miscarriages,
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I do think that our subconciousness does matter soo much. I had three miscarriages and after the third I realized that deep down I was not ready for a baby. I was still struggeling with my own stuff in life and would have "used" the baby for a quick fix to get out of a job I don't like. I am very empowered by this realization which makes the last miscarriage an eye opener for me. I also realized at one point that if a baby is something the universe has planned for me in this life, it will come. I just need to realize who I really am. A soul that makes a human experience on earth.
Thank you for your honesty and relatability ❤️
(Dog barking in background)....
It's not your fault also!
Thank you, You've opened up many many exhausted eyes. Hopefully I can loosen up my grip on all this guilt and burden on my miscarriages, and finally conceive once we "relax and let go"
I just discovered I had a missed abortion.I'm so heart broken.This is my 3 miscarriage after I lost my daughter in 2020 I feel so depressed 😔
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you're feeling better.
I'm sorry sorry for your loss. ❤ I'm sad as well. I had a miscarriage two weeks ago.
May Allah heal you my sister 🤲 Ameen
Thanks for taking about this 💖
Thank you 🙏 this made me feel so much better
Thank you so much. That really is what i need to hear...
Excellent video, thank you so much!
This is the best miscarriage video yet. I am going through my first and I am not sure if I want to try again. I was looking for gentle exercises to do during a miscarriage and came across this video and decided to give it a try. I don't blame myself for anything (at least not yet) and it breaks my heart knowing that so many women second-guess everything they did before and during pregnancy. I was always anxious during my pregnancy because I couldn't control the outcome. I did everything right, the supplements, no caffeine, a super healthy diet and ended up finding out I had an anembrionic pregnancy. If I ever decide to try and get pregnant again and miscarry again I will definitely seek medical advice, but this has definitely been an eye opener in terms of surrender and letting go of control.
I am so sorry for all your losses. 💛
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Dr okosun can helped you too
Stoped my miscarriage and I deliver my twins safely
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I had a miscarriage 7 months ago and I just recently found out I was pregnant 🤰🏻 again I have pocos so I’m very scared I pray to god this time around I can carry to full term.
Oh congratulations!! I pray everything is going good so far for you! I’ve had 3-4 miscarriages.
How are you now?
How are u now??
Thank you for sharing! My name is Christina. I had my first baby totally fine, but my second one I experienced a silent miscarriage. I just found out today and I cried multiple times. I am super devastated. My husband asked me if I want to try again. I am scared that it will happen again 😞
How are you doing? I had two miscarriages and then got pregnant with my son who is 10 months old. I got pregnant recently and had a miscarriage again.
Thank you soooo much for this!
I am waiting for your good news❤❤❤
I'm supposed to be at 7 weeks, and I haven't had that first ultrasound yet... so this is helpful for any future bad news I may receive, thank you
I just had my first appointment and he said I'm 5weeks based off my last period but it didn't feel like a real period so I feel like I need an ultrasound. This video is helpful for bad news to me too. It's crazy how Dr's just tell you the same thing you know yourself and now I'm waiting for an ultrasound. This is my first baby and I haven't had miscarriages but my friend miscarried at 3months so I'm stressed and just wanna know exactly how far along I am. I'm waiting for insurance to approve it but I'm in a mom app and I posted about this and the ladies just say "well the Dr can't do anything until 8 weeks the ultrasound won't really tell you much and you should just go based off last period" but I think I'm farther along. I couldn't imagine back in the days before ultrasounds this waiting is driving me nuts
It's not any women's fault. There are things that the doctors could have told me to try to reduce the chances, but not many doctors recommend it. I had a threatening miscarriage and my doctor actually told be that he did not believe my pregnancy was viable or going to be viable due to consistent spotting/bleeding. I did my research and found that progesterone helped a lot of women experience this, so I begged my doctor to put me on progesterone suppositories. He reluctantly prescribed it for me, and the moment I started taking it, my bleeding stopped (I switched doctors after), and now I have a bounce baby girl.
If I didn't follow my gut and advocated for myself I would not have my baby right now.
Even though it may hurt right now, knowing that you tried everything you could and what the doctors recommended should give you a feeling of peace to know that there was nothing else you could have done to prevent the miscarriage, and none of it is your fault.
I have asked an ER doctor and an OB to please put me on progesterone and they refuse. Dr said “I can’t put you on progesterone because idk where your pregnancy is and if it’s ectopic it will not be good”
I’ve told my OB who has seen me through my last 2 MCs and she hasn’t done anything, I’m now on my 4th pregnancy and my HCG levels are so low. I just want a dr to understand that I want to give this baby a chance and finally have a full term pregnancy
@@xxkaykittyxx omg, I am so sorry you are going through this. You could try buying Natural Progesterone Cream on Amazon, I'm not sure how strong it is, but it's a chance.
@@jessiejay947 Your comment gives me chills your story is the perfect example the medical isnt here for us, we need to listen to our bodies and fight for whats best for US. I used to believe in medical until they waisted 4 years of my life suffering with pcos went holistic and never looked back now health is in my control. Hopefully more women learn the medical is only there when you really need them, they can put you through hell & unnecessary heartbreak. Congratulations on your baby girl 💕.
In Mexico they offer that right away. He in California they won't even see you until your 10 weeks.
In Mexico they use injections called "Cuerpo Amarillo" they have a high success rate
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much 😢😢😢❤️❤️❤️
I just made a video about my miscarriage. I have been trying for my rainbow baby and I am so scared of having another miscarriage.
Thank you for this video.
@Jonathan Nowak thank you so much , he really helped my wife , I really appreciate you for dropping his contact
I am also trying for my rainbow baby I lost my 16 week old baby on the 16th of March
@@sairahramsingh9756 I am so sorry. Sending hugs your way.
@@realityandunicorns521 my dear Dr okosun was the doctor who helped me stop my miscarriages, and I'm a mother now with 2kids
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There’s many things such as low progesterone which can help maintain a pregnancy. Some women’s TSH is high and needs to be under 2.5 to lessen changes of a miscarriages. There’s so many things that can help with a miscarriage. As a PCOS woman I am aware of all the things that help women maintain a pregnancy.
Please tell me
Please Pray for me I am pregnant and have had light spotting n bleeding O had a miscarriage last year and now being pregnant My family is so happy 😊 so Please prayers 🙏❤
Praying for you
My dear I was like you before I had 3 miscarriages , but Dr okosun helped me out with his power herbs
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thank you 🙏🏼
I had 4 miscarriages and I waited after 1year to be pregnant again I'm so scared
Thank you!
Doctors aren't particularly motivated to take RPL seriously though, so for some of us, nobody can do anything, no matter what.
THIS. Amen
You know it depends on the person. You may be able to do something thru more natural means or not on a case to case basis. That doesn't mean you blame yourself, it means you are trying to empower yourself and do natural things. ...nothint wrong with going to a doctor for advice too.
Had my 2nd miscarriage. I cant get into a recurrent miscarriage clinic. Im going to speak to my GP for some tests or even progesterone but the drs in the UK from what ive seen always put you to a stop. I really want to try again, i hope it is successful a third time! X
try to see your levels of prolactine levels, thyroid too
@@Draondusoleil i would but the drs in the UK refuse to do testing until 3 mc. So im stuck really
@@sususususuuu3063 I had a miscarriage a few months ago and you can call to your doctor asking for a blood test of prolactin levels because you were producing milk in your breast, I think they will acept that and will refer you to blood test for prolactine, just try it again... and see if your hunsband is having good nutrition too, sometimes miscarriages are caused by sperm or eggs of bad quality due to bad nutrition
@@sususususuuu3063 I recomend you this video please translate it into english
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Thank you so much. My wife and I just went through our third miscarriage and as a man, I feel so helpless. Of course I'm supporting my wife, but there is also a big part of me that just wants to fix this. I'm happy you mentioned that I could be a big part of the problem, and I tend to believe this as my wife loss all three in her first trimester. I have a feeling that her body is rejecting my cells. In your experience, what type of specialist do you think would be the best to speak to in regards to this? Thank you again for your words and advice.
Depends on her blood type there’s a shot that the doctor can give her to stop rejecting the baby.
Ur Doctor can refer u for genetic testing in case ur not compatible. Could be rhesus blood type incompatibility. Also consider taking infertility supplements like Amitamin, vitabiotics, impryl, concieve plus, procieve andd so on. For both men and women.
At how many weeks are miscarriages more likely to happen?
What are the things the doctor will do to prevent miscarriage?
Yeah this seems weird. What’s the magic wand the doctor has that I can’t pick up for myself? Confusing.
Just had my second back to back miscarriage. My doctor wants to start me on progesterone since my husband has been checked and everything looks good on him. I don't think progesterone is going to help. I am trying to see if we can get further investigation because I have that gut feeling that something is wrong.
@Jonathan Nowak Guys this really work thanks a lot , it really helped me
Dr okosun helped me stop my miscarriage after several , and with two kids now
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Here in mexico it helps. They use cuerpo amarillo . Progesterone injections .
I love the intention behind this video but I have to say, whilst saying we shouldn't blame ourselves but then plastering being overweight in the same category as drug/ alcohol abuse... kinda sends the opposite message
Thank you, that’s a fair point and I really should have thought more about that because you are right, those are two very different things.
she said morbidly obese, not just overweight, which is a lifestyle choice just like abusing alcohol
What type of doctor did you see to help w recurrent miscarriages?
Not drinking any alcohol during and before pregnancy is something every pregnant woman should do! All the other stuff is not causing or able to prevent miscarriage. There is obviously something wrong, or the babies would not all die in the womb, but the father and the mother needs to investigate what is going on with the female and male genetic material.
That anyone needs to tell that to adult people to consult a doctor is really shocking. This is the logical thing to do!
Look into testing for MTHFR
i noticed many miscarriages are w women who over exercise, like fat burning constantly. not enough fat to hold the distress?
I worry about that because what is too much when working out? I want to keep training but I think i should stop and just go for walks and maybe some yoga. I don't know..
I worried about this at first. But really, I think this ends up being just one more thing that we use to blame ourselves for the miscarriages. The reality is:
1. I am a member of many miscarriage support groups where there are just as many women asking if being overweight could have caused their miscarriage as women who worry their workouts caused their miscarriage.
2. This is only antidotal but with my first pregnancy, which was my only pregnancy that resulted in a live birth...I was very underweight. I was working out hard-core before finding out I was pregnant and through the whole thing my dr was warning me I needed to gain more weight. Of course that is the only pregnancy that actually worked. 🤷♀️
3. Studies just haven't proven exercise to be a detriment during pregnancy. Even strenuous exercise. If you want to be infuriated, just search youtube to see how many women are powerlifting or running marathons during pregnancy.
I think this all points to there being something else at play in our recurrent miscarriages. Something outside our control and most importantly, not our fault. 💖
I'm sorry @Zeyna. I hate how this messes with our brain and makes us question everything we do. For what it's worth... My most recent pregnancy I was on bed rest from the time of transfer until I confirmed miscarriage, and even with bed rest it didn't save the pregnancy 😔. This leads me to believe we each have to do whatever makes us feel the best. If working out relaxes you, then it's probably best to keep training. But if it causes anxiety, then maybe try a cycle where you go easy and see if that feels better. Best of luck to you 💖
You can take precautions to try to prevent miscarriage but you cannot completely prevent it.
Exactly
My prob was that my amniotic fluid was very less
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Except i have been to multiple ones. They WONT HELP. I either get im to old now. Or i had healthy kids so keep trying bs.
Getting medical help isnt easy when you dont fit into their prescribed boxes.
Yes, this is sadly so true. Keep trying to find a Dr that will help. 95% of OBs and REs don't know how to treat recurrent miscarriages. If you haven't read Dr. Beer's book "Is your body baby friendly?" I highly recommend it. It helped me so much and he addresses those 2 issues. Best of luck to you💗
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Thank you!
@@KelliMiguez welcome because I always thought when woman have miscarriage I thought it was our fault I don't have a kid yet and I was scared my husband to be wanted to get me pregnant. Miscarriage ran in my family but now I understand it wasn't the woman but there partner. My fiance is pretty healthy so I wouldn't be concerned about the miscarriage anymore. I'm greatful for your video you took my fears away. The power of knowledge. And no don't thank me. I thank you
There are other factors that could lead to miscarriage. But, for the record, other pregnant fish have been observed eating sperm. The black widow and praying mantis actually sometimes eat their male mates, with the female praying mantis being fond of the male praying mantis' brain. A praying mantis bites into her mates head like an apple and cleans her face like a cat.
Few people know there are some octopus that possess bioluminescent suction cups. I am actually curious if they could mimic "lights" along their skin to communicate with each other in strange patterns. Female octopi will even attempt to devour their mate after copulation. Female fireflies tend to give strange bioluminescent signals to devour male fireflies. And all these male cannibalisms seem to greatly reduce the chances of miscarriages. So it is not uncommon to see practices like this in the animal kingdom.
And we all know fellatio is a rescue for expecting parents who cannot enjoy intercourse due to full-term pregnancy. I suspect this was an ancient practice long forgotten that was known to keep the amniotic babies strong. This may even account for her "strange food cravings" when pregnant. He could even drink pineapple juice to make it taste better.
Pregnant women like performing fellatio on their man in the same way that babies love suckling on their mother's breast for comfort and nourishment. And I suspect that women who have a tragic tendency to miscarry their amniotic babies will be blessed and be able to carry them safely to childbirth when they do this.
As God said way back then, "Be fruitful & multiply."
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she fully blamed men wtf, no one is to blame
50% of infertility and miscarriages are because of male factors. She’s right in that men also play a part in embryo and fetal viability and health. That’s not “blaming men”
Shes not blaming men... she's pointing out it isn't just the woman's egg that can be a factor in a miscarriage. Men also need to live a healthy lifestyle.