I love your reading soooo true I have been on my healing journey a few years now. Thank you to Allaah God and my family for helping me and be by my side on my healing journey. God is great all the time tu tu tu Sending love to all
I can’t believe I lasted as a people pleaser in this one-sided relationship/marriage for 17 years 🙄. Thank you so much for validating my experience, WW!
You've got my number! Now my parents are gone. I have 6 kitties and just turned 70 last week. Air Force brat. New girl over and over again. Still all alone and doing not so bad. I love your channel.
Haven't fully started the video yet, but scrolling through these comments I am happy to see that I am not alone feeling like this and happy that we're being seen for once and not in a harmful way. I wish you all strength, courage, and freedom on your journeys 🙏.
Resonates, and yes I am aware of this learned adaptive behavior that is how I survived growing up yet with this person the last Years were chaotic as I was standing up for myself, he used Emotional manipulation and did not. Take no for an answer. I can feel the resistance he has to my change, very uncomfortable . Helpful❤ Thank you
I’m 22min in and I’m definitely triggered. I’ve crossed the bridge and continuing to move forward but damn I’m pissed I have lived this way for so long❤
Oh, yes it was definitely an adaptive strategy to protect myself from older siblings and parents. Thank you Wendy for a great reading!!! I enjoyed it!!!!
Thank you. You are so spot on. I listen to your readings, and it resonates so much. Actually, listening to your readings have confirmed what I have gone through; uncovered deep traumatic wounds I have protectively suppressed but am at a safe stage where I can heal, and gives insight. You are really gifted! 😊❤
Yeah baby~fire in the belly indeed! Co-dependency shackles your true identity and self,until you choose to heal from it and find your true self that doesn’t put up with toxic partners and you learn healthy boundaries
I love your truth readings. As a child I was abused and saw toxic drama with my parents and people. I wanted to become the peace maker, people pleaser. Keep everyone happy but I forgot about myself. Especially in relationships. It was empowering to finally meet the real me💜
This is my story too now im😢trying to find myself at 53. One step at a time. No contact with family but thank goodness for my friends and my pets who have pulled me through.
@@paulamackay5259 I'm on my own healing journey and empowering myself with supportive friends and making peace with family as well. I've always been worthy. I'm awake now.
this??! was so ME …raised as the people pleaser …thank god she is long gone…life is so peaceful now….and authentic …thanks Wendy 🔮💫✨ya just have to be yourself 🙏👏👏
Wow Wendy !!! Reading me like a book... Bless your heart for bringing my experiences to words.. The resignation I'm receiving is helping my foundation to leap into the new... You are among the best of the best .. I would love to meet you one day and give you a heart felt hug.. XO......
I have no kids not married yet I spend more money on kids than they parents do...and spend more time with em. This read was def for me and Ive begun to focus on just me. I grew up in a single mom household with a demanding mom and they only male in the house...I was way too nice and got played a lot, by men and women. So thanks Wendy you're amazing.
Thank you Wendy your messages are resonant and very practical and empowering, I enjoy when you share your own personal stories as well. This helped me today to remember to listen to my body and choose my true yes and no based on that and not the feeling of obligation which feels heavy and like a heck no.. I am working on focusing my energy to myself and getting to know my true self more everyday now that I have extracted myself from the dysfunctional family system and other relationships…allowing myself to set boundaries and be perceived as not the good nice girl which at first triggered great terror in me but I am feeling stronger the more I practice giving myself the love and reassurance I gave away to others opinions, needs, and desires for me to fit. It feels good, thank you.
The queen of wands in reverse is my sister. I've stopped people pleasing, which enabled me to see her more clearly. She is very threatened by my growth.
Ha, I am seeing your message at 7.77K subscribers, posted 7 hours ago. Thank you Wendy for all the support you give with your readings. I appreciate you, and the lovely birdsong accompanying you.
Sounds like a ' Vertical and Horizontal Stresser ' paradox in people, places, and things to me. Conduct becoming of the stereotype in these 3 things depends on environment, events, and time management. But the paradox is in those 10 year generational time lines without chronology of the family group chronometer, or vocation for diplomacy.
Thank you Wendy! Spot on! This queen of wands is my estranged mother. she always kind of treated me like a child and she would do things for me and I told her I was a grown woman. I could do it myself like she always viewed me as a young child that can’t do anything without her. I’ve been a people pleaser wayyyy too long lost myself in romantic relationships over it. A lot of times just to keep the peace and avoid conflict, but no more. I know my self-worth now and I’m not gonna be somebody’s doormat. I loove your birdies. Love and light to you. 🙏💕
It's work. Trained to do whatever others want, even at my life's expense. Literally. You're getting NOTHING at all in return and then they have the nerve to act like they're tolerating you while draining you of your energy, time, AND resources. (Family)- mother and sister.
“Baby” of the family. Yep. It’s been a journey to find my voice and stand up to everyone trying to keep me there. Ironically having to be a parent to my parent while she was playing parent. Exhausting.
Yes, I’ve cut so many people off in the last 4 years. It’s been a bit of a shock to a lot of people who were so comfortable taking advantage of me on repeat. It’s been so nice to focus on myself.
My mother used to make me go up to my room until I could come down with a smile on my face. Zero expression. Didn’t learn to properly express myself as a result.
So true in families everyone has a role. God help you if you deviate and upset the balance. I realized that but always felt like an outsider. An observer. I was always avoiding the Frey by tuning out. Knowing and living this way I always knew my tribe, my person was out there. I just had not met them yet. I think I have manifested them and now trust Devine timing.
All of these readings are about the person that I am connected connected to is amazing how each story seems to be his story. And it's amazing that it is coming through you.
In my raising that was called Be Sweet. Now being told be softer quieter gentler. Be the bigger person. Why were others not told to grow up be responsible for themselves. Tired of doing everyone's thinking for them.
That was how I was raised and it seems like a waste, but it taught me how to deal with others that simply assume superiority over me. I just go along with their stupid little game, and wait. Not sure what the actual laws is causing it, but I’ll be damned if not every single time I decide to break out, it’s at the most inconvenient time for them, resulting in them laying on the floor with a nosebleed, wondering why I suddenly decided that I don’t exist to throw my jacket on every puddle they have to cross!🤷♂️
Wherever that is it sounds like dealing with. A bunch of co dependents, got fed up, opened eyes. It was the family dynamic. Growing up. I wouldn't say playing a role . That person is gone. Now will not allow these ppl in my life again. Oh I faught. But not until. I Was taken advantage really bad!!!
If you have a hockey puck or neoprene pad for under your microphone would really help your products. Your are 100% right everything changes when I get some distance . Following mother driven training as goat. I am now in control on my life, first time in decades maybe ever that I chose my close to buy and where, noticed everything I wear was black blue or grey, not anymore
If anyone has grown up with a parent who was diagnosed terminal would relate what was not explained is the nature of the illness would take 30 years to play out Muscular Dystrophy is a-slow and painful disease and the person being consumed by it’s progression going through it’s many phases change by way of mood and becomes each form of the disease the worst part is the co dependance of it . The good son never says no to his dying father. It makes you into a yes man without a life of your own and if you do stand up the family turns on you . Try it sometime how could i take a wife . I would always be torn between the two when it was over i was not fit for anyone and too old to care. So i opted for the bachelor life terminal father drug addicted brother aging mother . Can anyone say short circuit . It is possible to recover but how old will i be when I’m good for anything. I accept who and what i am so I listen and offer advice if i can
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Every time I've tried to stand up for my injustices, I was called 'CRAZY', even with the proof in my hands!
Major Gaslighting.😢
I love your reading soooo true
I have been on my healing journey a few years now.
Thank you to Allaah God and my family for helping me and be by my side on my healing journey.
God is great all the time tu tu tu
Sending love to all
I can’t believe I lasted as a people pleaser in this one-sided relationship/marriage for 17 years 🙄. Thank you so much for validating my experience, WW!
15 years for me
14 years for me
Me too! 😔
18 years here. I feel you and hope like me you finally got the courage to walk away.
@@slickchick8292 17 years for me
It's mind-blowing. What a reading! It's so explanatory of personal and societal energies. Thank you. It's a personal and social service.
You've got my number! Now my parents are gone. I have 6 kitties and just turned 70 last week. Air Force brat. New girl over and over again. Still all alone and doing not so bad. I love your channel.
Haven't fully started the video yet, but scrolling through these comments I am happy to see that I am not alone feeling like this and happy that we're being seen for once and not in a harmful way. I wish you all strength, courage, and freedom on your journeys 🙏.
Resonates, and yes I am aware of this learned adaptive behavior that is how I survived growing up yet with this person the last Years were chaotic as I was standing up for myself, he used Emotional manipulation and did not. Take no for an answer. I can feel the resistance he has to my change, very uncomfortable . Helpful❤ Thank you
I’m 22min in and I’m definitely triggered. I’ve crossed the bridge and continuing to move forward but damn I’m pissed I have lived this way for so long❤
Oh, yes it was definitely an adaptive strategy to protect myself from older siblings and parents. Thank you Wendy for a great reading!!! I enjoyed it!!!!
Thank you. You are so spot on. I listen to your readings, and it resonates so much. Actually, listening to your readings have confirmed what I have gone through; uncovered deep traumatic wounds I have protectively suppressed but am at a safe stage where I can heal, and gives insight. You are really gifted! 😊❤
You are so welcome
Yeah baby~fire in the belly indeed! Co-dependency shackles your true identity and self,until you choose to heal from it and find your true self that doesn’t put up with toxic partners and you learn healthy boundaries
I love your truth readings. As a child I was abused and saw toxic drama with my parents and people. I wanted to become the peace maker, people pleaser. Keep everyone happy but I forgot about myself. Especially in relationships. It was empowering to finally meet the real me💜
This is my story too now im😢trying to find myself at 53. One step at a time. No contact with family but thank goodness for my friends and my pets who have pulled me through.
@@paulamackay5259 I'm on my own healing journey and empowering myself with supportive friends and making peace with family as well. I've always been worthy. I'm awake now.
@@paulamackay5259 I'm around your age too💖
@@paulamackay5259 Please take all the time you need. Sit with your emotions.
I feel you and hear you! My experience as well. ❤
this??! was so ME …raised as the people pleaser …thank god she is long gone…life is so peaceful now….and authentic …thanks Wendy 🔮💫✨ya just have to be yourself 🙏👏👏
Wow Wendy !!!
Reading me like a book...
Bless your heart for bringing my experiences to words..
The resignation I'm receiving is helping my foundation to leap into the new...
You are among the best of the best ..
I would love to meet you one day and give you a heart felt hug..
XO......
I have no kids not married yet I spend more money on kids than they parents do...and spend more time with em. This read was def for me and Ive begun to focus on just me. I grew up in a single mom household with a demanding mom and they only male in the house...I was way too nice and got played a lot, by men and women. So thanks Wendy you're amazing.
Thank you Wendy your messages are resonant and very practical and empowering, I enjoy when you share your own personal stories as well. This helped me today to remember to listen to my body and choose my true yes and no based on that and not the feeling of obligation which feels heavy and like a heck no.. I am working on focusing my energy to myself and getting to know my true self more everyday now that I have extracted myself from the dysfunctional family system and other relationships…allowing myself to set boundaries and be perceived as not the good nice girl which at first triggered great terror in me but I am feeling stronger the more I practice giving myself the love and reassurance I gave away to others opinions, needs, and desires for me to fit. It feels good, thank you.
You're welcome 😊
This reading is like a therapy session. Thank you for sharing your gift with the world 🙏
That naivety is my past .. no more.❤
Omg nailed it ... hard.😮
Waiting on the World to Change--thats a song😂❤
🎸🎶🎵🎶🏄
Nope I have been this way since i was 5. Im not doing it anymore!
The queen of wands in reverse is my sister. I've stopped people pleasing, which enabled me to see her more clearly. She is very threatened by my growth.
You're reading resonates ❤
Ha, I am seeing your message at 7.77K subscribers, posted 7 hours ago. Thank you Wendy for all the support you give with your readings. I appreciate you, and the lovely birdsong accompanying you.
You're welcome 🦜🦜😊
Sounds like a ' Vertical and Horizontal Stresser ' paradox in people, places, and things to me. Conduct becoming of the stereotype in these 3 things depends on environment, events, and time management. But the paradox is in those 10 year generational time lines without chronology of the family group chronometer, or vocation for diplomacy.
Thats my Mom exactly. Hmm, wonder why I needed to hear this.
thank you for this insight, unfortunately it took me 59 years to get here...❤
Thank you Wendy! Spot on! This queen of wands is my estranged mother. she always kind of treated me like a child and she would do things for me and I told her I was a grown woman. I could do it myself like she always viewed me as a young child that can’t do anything without her. I’ve been a people pleaser wayyyy too long lost myself in romantic relationships over it. A lot of times just to keep the peace and avoid conflict, but no more. I know my self-worth now and I’m not gonna be somebody’s doormat. I loove your birdies. Love and light to you. 🙏💕
🦜🦜
🎯💯 finally focusing on ME ! 😂😂😂
Good morning Wendy😊
Yes, haven't changed who I am to meet other people's expectations of me. I just put up strong Boundaries!
It's work. Trained to do whatever others want, even at my life's expense. Literally. You're getting NOTHING at all in return and then they have the nerve to act like they're tolerating you while draining you of your energy, time, AND resources. (Family)- mother and sister.
Thank you so much for your love and understanding and clarity
Your gift is amazing and so helpful
“Baby” of the family. Yep. It’s been a journey to find my voice and stand up to everyone trying to keep me there. Ironically having to be a parent to my parent while she was playing parent. Exhausting.
Yesss… fired myself from that job! 👌
Yes, I’ve cut so many people off in the last 4 years. It’s been a bit of a shock to a lot of people who were so comfortable taking advantage of me on repeat. It’s been so nice to focus on myself.
wow😵💫 your video appeared on my feed thank you so so much for sharing this wisdom 😭💝
Thank you so much. 🙏❤️
You are so welcome
Totally resonates, as I sit here in tears. Exactly the dynamic I'm dealing with sadly.
Absolutely resonates! ❤
My mother used to make me go up to my room until I could come down with a smile on my face. Zero expression. Didn’t learn to properly express myself as a result.
Always on point ..xo
Wendy Star Wing..❤
Thank you for your sight 🙏
The saga continues Wendy❤
Thank you for sharing! Very impactful.
You're welcome 😊😊
oh wow, I had to watch all over again, because seeing your birds flying around made me so happy that I forgot to listen.
That makes ME happy to hear that! Thank you 🙏🦜🦜
So true in families everyone has a role. God help you if you deviate and upset the balance. I realized that but always felt like an outsider. An observer. I was always avoiding the Frey by tuning out. Knowing and living this way I always knew my tribe, my person was out there. I just had not met them yet. I think I have manifested them and now trust Devine timing.
thank you, love yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
All of these readings are about the person that I am connected connected to is amazing how each story seems to be his story. And it's amazing that it is coming through you.
Patches--thats a song😮❤😂
Amazing! Resonates so much for me 🙏
I know who I am! 😊
Yes, your story resonates with me ❤
All true
Thank you so much Wendy 🙏🏻🥰❤️😍😘💐✨🤩💛
In my raising that was called Be Sweet. Now being told be softer quieter gentler. Be the bigger person.
Why were others not told to grow up be responsible for themselves. Tired of doing everyone's thinking for them.
Thank you so much ❤ so true & enlitening
You are so welcome
That was how I was raised and it seems like a waste, but it taught me how to deal with others that simply assume superiority over me.
I just go along with their stupid little game, and wait.
Not sure what the actual laws is causing it, but I’ll be damned if not every single time I decide to break out, it’s at the most inconvenient time for them, resulting in them laying on the floor with a nosebleed, wondering why I suddenly decided that I don’t exist to throw my jacket on every puddle they have to cross!🤷♂️
Spot on, wow. Thank you.
You are so welcome
I was just their maid, secretary, chauffeur, nurse, chef, etc... Not anymore!!!
Yes very difficult to do. Yes
Dead on! My mom is the perp.
I was a Empath and didn't know it!
Thank you 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
Thanks Bb...😊👌✨✨✨
Wherever that is it sounds like dealing with. A bunch of co dependents, got fed up, opened eyes. It was the family dynamic. Growing up. I wouldn't say playing a role . That person is gone. Now will not allow these ppl in my life again. Oh I faught. But not until. I Was taken advantage really bad!!!
If there isn't a Good Reason to Be Otherwise Does it Matter? I Am More than Capable of Standing Up for Myself❤
Love Light & Peace
Yep. ❤
Thanks!
Thank you 🙏 So appreciate your support 😊✨
Yeah I know who the hell she is... My mother had a lot to do with this. If my mother passed away on August 9th karmic. This resonates. Very helpful.
If you have a hockey puck or neoprene pad for under your microphone would really help your products. Your are 100% right everything changes when I get some distance . Following mother driven training as goat. I am now in control on my life, first time in decades maybe ever that I chose my close to buy and where, noticed everything I wear was black blue or grey, not anymore
Thank you for the mic advice 🙏
Q W reverse, my mother!
Exately ‼️❣️😳😲🎯💯🔝👍🌈💖✨️🙏💌🎁💐🌹🌿🕊!!!!! Stunning!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 God Bless You!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉❤Awakening and liberation for all who where abused!!! 😘 Lisa M., Italy
Hello Lisa M in Italy!!! 😊😊😊
If anyone has grown up with a parent who was diagnosed terminal would relate what was not explained is the nature of the illness would take 30 years to play out Muscular Dystrophy is a-slow and painful disease and the person being consumed by it’s progression going through it’s many phases change by way of mood and becomes each form of the disease the worst part is the co dependance of it . The good son never says no to his dying father. It makes you into a yes man without a life of your own and if you do stand up the family turns on you . Try it sometime how could i take a wife . I would always be torn between the two when it was over i was not fit for anyone and too old to care. So i opted for the bachelor life terminal father drug addicted brother aging mother . Can anyone say short circuit . It is possible to recover but how old will i be when I’m good for anything. I accept who and what
i am so I listen and offer advice if i can
Yes, I support a lot of people, but don't get the same support in return 😔.
Yes
Good morning I'm sorry I'm late the birds have something to do with the resignation of the reading lol
🦜🦜
Honey the word no is a whole sentence which part of that people online do not understand
Amen!🎉
This is 🎯💯
BUT, its the birther.
Not a romantic partner.
Going no contact asap.
She's a narc.
Maybe a psychopath...
People pleaser for 62 years😢
💗yup
Chirp chirp!
🦜🦜
💪
🌺♥️🪶
MI ENERGIA SE PAGA: 3 BILLONES DE DOLARES POR AYUDAR A ESA GENTE.
You mean, I wasn’t programmed the same way you were
Thank you so much, awesome message. 🤍🪷
🎯🙏🪷🦋