Hoarder ❤️ Declutter the Hoarded Bathroom Part 1 | Clear out Clutter Motivation
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Let’s Continue with this decluttering momentum and get into the third bathroom! A hoarded third bathroom that is no longer functional would fall into a level for hoarding! We are recovering so I want to make sure that we get into this space and let go of some of this clutter! Though it was very emotional towards the end we gathered up the strength within us to let go of baby items.
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As someone who never ever wants kids, I can’t relate at all to the yearning you’re feeling for a child, but it hurt my heart to see you in so much pain 😞 I’m impressed that you still got rid of those items! That took a lot of strength, clearly! You’re making huge strides in your decluttering journey.
same - couldn't have posted it any better than this! ♥
Perhaps the Women's shelter has a mother who has nothing for her baby, it won't stop you from hurting for yours, but it might help you feel the precious items have a real purpose to be handed on. I've never lost a pregnancy, I cannot begin to know how it feels and I am so moved by the bravery and compassion expressed among the comments here.
Thank you so much my beautiful friend 🙏🏻💜🌟🦄 The women’s shelters mean a lot to my heart and I love helping them in any way I can 💞 It does give my life purpose to help the beautiful ladies staying there.
Never EVER apologize for feeling hurt or pain. The emotions you have are completely valid and you owe nobody an apology for having such feelings. Your bravery in coming to grips with this and telling us is a good start to the healing that wants to take place. Besides, you never know. One of your children might give you a grandchild one day that will bring the baby you wanted back to you. :)
Her journey has been so inspirational to so many of us for different reasons. Such a strong woman.
Ms. Heart will be the most amazing grandma!
I'm so proud of you for letting the baby things go. I know how hard that must have been.
I'm so sorry for your loss
Out of 5 pregnancies, I have one beautiful daughter. I feel your pain...but I feel your love too! And there is sooo much more love than pain. Let it lead. ❤ Awesome video. Thank you so much for your time and effort making this. 😉👍❤
I'm so proud of you. I know how attached you are to the baby stuff. Big hugs to you.
Knowing how hard this journey can be at times, thank you for being so real, honest and inspirational in your decluttering journey. So many of these channels seem 'fake" or "perfect" and your channel really shows how hard this journey can be but how worthwhile the successes are. You should be so proud in of yourself!
I completely understand your feelings going through the baby stuff. I've experienced my first lost this year and I can't imagine getting rid of the stuff I've saved from my son for baby #2. Thank you for sharing that raw moment. 💔❤️
Seeing you cry was so heart breaking, you’re normally such a ray of sunshine ! You’re doing such a great job, I know I’m currently struggling giving away my newborn baby stuff 😓
I cried along with you as your processed decluttering the baby things. I miscarried 14 years ago, and there's a hole in my heart that will always belong to that baby. Hugs to you as you grieve your 3 precious little ones!
Thank you for inspiring me to declutter. You're a wonderful mother, and your sons are blessed to have you.
I'm so proud of you and your progress. You are doing an amazing job. 😁
I love your heart. I'm sorry that you have had the hurt and loss in your life. It is so hard to gift those items that have so much emotion attached to them. I recently gifted my daughter's crib/toddler bed to another mother who needed one. While it felt amazing to bless someone else, I cried because I realized that for the first time in 14 years there was not a crib in our bedroom. Her crib was the last one. It was the closing of a door. I pray God helps to comfort and heal your beautiful heart. ♥️
It breaks my heart to see you so upset 😥 you are so strong for letting those baby items go. I also have a strong strong yearning for children and I know my heart would also be broken giving those items away. I’m so proud of you. This is a WIN❤️
I think the idea of selling the sentimental items at a yard sale is a good idea. It'll be bitter sweet but you'll be able to see the person who chooses it for their bub and I hope that will make it all the easier to see the joy it will bring to the recipient. Like you've said before, things are easier for you to part with if you know they are going to be treasured and used.
Ms Heart you made me cry so hard....I wish I could hold your hand so I know you don't feel alone right now.
We all love you and when you said you were going to let those things go so that another Mommy could be blessed with them I realized just how strong in your you have become!!!
You have such a loving giving sweet heart~~~ Bless you dear lady 💜💜💜💜
Could you print off a savings chart to save up to fix the bathroom? I feel like if it is a functioning bathroom you’ll be less likely to use it as a storage closet! Plus I know how much you love to color in the charts as you save up money!
Thank you for sharing your struggles and your strength. Each is so inspiring, to show that we are not alone, and that we can do this just like you, even if we need a break after.
My mother loved the sound of rustling leaves- she planted a tree for each of her children, including her miscarriage. She didn't talk about it much, but baby "Sam" was every bit her child as my brother and I, and a living memorial to match each of our very first birthday presents helped her in her grief. I saw another comment mentioning their relative planting rose bushes and other flowers to help with their own grief, and honestly, I think it's a wonderful idea. Whether it be shade-giving tree, a beloved aromatic, a tasty berry bush, or something just plain beautiful, caring for these things in the short-term and enjoying them in the long-term can help provide a sense of peace. If this is something that speaks to you, please consider it.
Sending hugs from Michigan. 💜
I know how it feels…lost two I very much desired…it never really goes away.
They will always be in your heart. Just wanted to let you know that by letting go, you actually open your heart to something new that will help you heart heal in ways you didn’t expect. Let that door open and healing will come. Thinking of you with all my heart.
Oh lovely. I really wish I could give you a huge big hug right now. You are a beautiful person inside and out and I really hope your loving heart heals soon. XXXXXX
Thank you for sharing your moment of struggle with us. Even though you were sitting by yourself in front of a camera, remember you are certainly not alone. I'm sending all my love and strength. 💜💙💚
If your family doesn’t have a serious need for a third bathroom, it’s worth considering removing the fixtures and putting in storage for all things gift related (things to give, wrapping, etc) with an inventory list, or an inventoried craft storage room.
I think this is a good idea, too! But it will effect the $ value of the home to lose a bathroom. A temporary transformation might be better, until/in-case they sell
@@Cali_Flowers possibly.. but 2 bathrooms in a 3 bedroom home seems sufficient, and goodness knows we all need storage 🤣 I think a ‘bonus craft room or office’ is a good selling point.
Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏻❤️ We’re talking about what to do...we are thinking of moving in summer 2022...my friend who’s a realtor said to keep it as a powder room. But I LOVE the idea of having it as a storage closet!! So many decisions lol
Ok , from now I'm totally calling my house a " deranged Santa's workshop " every time I start to get overwhelmed by my messes lmao
You're doing a fantastic job ❤
🤣🤣🤣 Right!!!! Lol That’s what it is!!!!
Don’t ever apologise for how you are feeling, you are such a strong women! Sending love and hugs as always from across the pond in England xx
you can use the space above those cabinets as additional storage space for baskets and bins!! sending love to you and your babies this mother’s day!!
Mrs. Heart
I don't know what God has planned for you, but listen to your heart. You are so generous and kind donating to women's shelters. Ask God what your next step is. Maybe fostering or adopting, or maybe he wants you to help us grown up kids ♥️
Whatever he says to your heart know that I cry for you and cry from your pain. Miscarriage is a wound to remind you to love your family extra hard
I had the same thing happen to me. I had 3 miscarriages and stopped trying. I had all my baby things in the garage. I would walk past it every time I left the house. I didn’t realize how much it bothered me until I started to declutter the items. It was so hard, but so freeing of all of the emotions of maybe if I hold on to this stuff, one day I will be able to have a baby. You did a great job of stopping yourself and taking the break that you needed! Love your channel!
Love and hugs for your grief.
That was so hard, I'm sure. You are really healing, though, in your hoarding. I'd like to see you gather every "gift" item that you intend to use for gifts into a bin or basket. Include the one for Denise and the Christmas ones you showed plus the kids' birthdays. Then get your wrapping supplies. Spend one session wrapping those all gifts, label them for the person and set them up on a table or shelf in your laundry room. You can line them up in order of the events that are coming up and into the future. That way, you'll actually have them ready to go! You can do this!!
I’m so sorry 😞 for your loss My 🙏 are with you and your family
I’m hugging you so tight in my heart. I support your choices and am so proud of you for knowing when to stop so that you will be successful later.
Bless you I can feel your pain. But you are doing so well to give the baby things away!!xx💗
Your videos are so emotional and motivating.
Awe!!! That really means the world to me because I look up to you 🙏🏻🦄🌟💜 Your message truly lifts my spirits up and to never give up!! One day, my home will be organized like yours 💞
Oh, hon. You are so brave, Hugs and prayers,
Unicoooooorn time. Wow, the end, I am so proud of you!
My heart goes out to you!! I’m so sorry for all of your loss and sadness. You are a beautiful person with so much love. Your boys are blessed to have you as their mommy. I pray that with time your heart heals. 🥰
I see you...big hugs...what strength you have...what love you have for yourself ..amazing....❤️💐
Thank you so much my sweetest friend 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟
I wish I could give you a hug. You are so amazing. We love you. I'm so glad this is such a loving supportive community. 💓
Awe!!! Virtual Hugs 🤗💜🦄🌟 Thank you so much for being my friend 🙏🏻
Oh babe, I´m so sorry! I know it hurts - I went through it myself years ago. All I can say is: Your heart will heal. So proud of you! Think of the little baby using the things( whose parents can´t afford it to buy them new?). You did well! God bless you! Love from Germany ♥
You have done such an amazing job with your decluttering. My heart really went out to you when you came to the baby stuff. Sending you lots of love 🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰
Also, the other day I was thinking of how much you acomplished in, basically, 2 years!!! You were very afraid of showing yourself, afraid of your emotions and afraid of the stuff... And now I se your smile and you seem so proud and it looks like you really really know who you are and is not ashamed or afraid of it!!! It brings me so much Joy
Hugs and what you did took incredible strength. Sorry for your loss 😔
I'm surprised (and proud) you were able to let go of the baby stuff and what it represents. I hope you have one small item re this time in your life for your sentimental bin. Thankyou for sharing about your miscarriages, people need to know they are common and normal. We decided not to have a 4th child, which was kinda sad but fit our family and choices. I cant get my head around making a descision like yours where you are balancing pains. I hope your descision brings you peace.
With all the items you have bought for gifts, maybe set up a bookshelf where you store all the gift items so they are easy to find like your own little gift shop.
You are brave and strong! Thanks for sharing and allowing yourself to be vulnerable on camera. You inspire me!
You are being so strong! It takes courage to be that honest with yourself ❤️
I was waiting for the 3th bathroom. So happy to see your great progress. And also making such an hard but right choise... Be strong, you re on such a great road to your healthy happy future
Aww I wish I could give you a hug! You did a great job!!
You have come so far!! Your incredible!! I’m so sorry for what you have experienced. You create and share so much happiness and joy with us! I hope that helps in your healing 🦄💜x
You so are strong 🤍 with love from South Africa
Much love to you on your loss. I had a stillborn December 2020. I was 34 weeks pregnant and it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through. You are so strong for sharing ❤️
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss!
If you don't want to use it as a bathroom maybe you could put some shelves in there and just turn it into a gift room
I second that idea. If you haven't missed having a 3rd bathroom up to now then make it what it seem to work best for. A gifting closet , you could even keep wrapping supplies in bins with the gifts.
Sending love and prayers for comfort and strength as you grieve. 💜
I'm so incredibly proud of you for letting go of the baby things. I know how difficult that was, and you should be so proud of yourself
proud of you for giving up that baby stuff. i could see the struggle and you pulled through! You can do it!
I have never been more proud of you 💖
Hugs for you beautiful! We love you so much. Your babies are in your heart and mind. They are waiting for Mommy. Maybe you won't have another here on earth but your boys are here and your littles are in heaven watching over and they are so proud of your strength
Thank you love, I needed to hear that 🦄💜🙏🏻🌟💞
I’m so sorry for your loss. I love your videos...mostly I’m not commenting but I just wanna tell you that I feel your pain. You are amazing strong loving soul❤️
So proud of you 💕❤️💕
You did a great job! Sorry for your losses and you are showing tremendous strength ❤️
Way to go!! ❤
We feel the feels with you! You are so so so strong. Can’t wait for the next round! You will love having one more bathroom.
I think you should pick a spot in your house of where gift giving items are going to live. How do you fix the hoarder if you don’t know where to place. Creates a bigger churn issue to continue to deal with. I suggest a shelf unit in basement and all gift giving items are placed on unit.
Sending love. Your strength, vulnerability, and grace are beautiful.
😢 ❤️❤️❤️ it was so emotional. I sent you hugs and positive vibes 🌈🌹🌹🌹🌹🌈🦄 Be strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you my sweet friend, I can feel your loving vibes 🌟🌟🌟 I appreciate that 💞
God bless you🏆🏆🏆🏆
Sorry, hit send by accident. Letting go of the last stuff was hard to watch, but excited for you. BIG HUGS!
You are brave I understand your loss x
Proud of you. 💜
You became so strong! 💪
ALSO yay for putting things in homes, bins ready to start with AND seeing exactly how you’re going to “tossy tossy” the things 😁🌱not a lot of actual landfill things which is such a plus! Go you! 💕✨🦄
Oh honey I was tearing up for you. I am sorry you had to experience all that pain and loss love ya!
Thank you my sweetest friend 🙏🏻❤️🦄💜🌟
So much love for you hunny!
I’m so proud of you and so honoured that you share your raw painful times with all of us. You are amazing !!!
Sending u lots of hugs hun losing a child is never easy but I promise we get a little stronger everyday iv lost 11 babies from a couple of weeks to full term and they all hurt the same but I did get my rainbow baby who is now 4 wasn’t easy to calcareous her and I was a mess tomorrow o get to go the the cemetery for my archies 6th birthday then the next my day my rainbow son will be 16 and it’s hard to go celebrate but next mth my oldest sons would have been 20 instead my rainbow will be 18 every year it hurts but every year it hurts just a little less keep going hun will all your doing u have two amazing boys and maybe one day u will be ready again 🥰🥰🥰🥰
sympathy for your losses. One such loss is so hard enough. so glad you have two healthy, lovely boys to solace you abit.
Great job 😊❤️
Hugs to you, I so sorry
Great job girl 🌷♥️👍
I'm so proud of you. I have had a few miscarriages too, but I kind of his those emotions. Watching you makes me want to open that door again. I never felt I had support, so I don't actually know how I feel...
BIG HUGS
I was thinking, if the bathroom is never used as a bathroom maybe you could take out the toilet and sink and turn it into a craft supplies cupboard. I think I would do that, anyway.
You are so powerful.
I think you should calculate how much ($) is in your heart budget for a year. How much you want to put towards gifts. It will help justify your purchases and train your mind to check your stash first to see if you have something already that would work.
I’m so sorry! I know it want easy at all for you to do that but thank you for opening up to us in such a vulnerable way! I’d just like to say that this was such an amazing declutter! You did so well ! Please take all the time you need off 🥰😂
Find strength 💕
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A third bathroom!!! We only have one. Can the toilet get fixed?
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I believe the Rock n Plays were recalled due to safety - will you check the model you have before passing it on? Thank you for sharing your experience - you don't know how many people you have helped
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would you be able to mail some of the gifts you have for people who have saved things for but havent been able to see?
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Is there space in your basement to set up a present station? A shelving unit with the gifts and a wrapping paper and gift bag area? Because you're such a giver I think this would be so good for you!
I second this!! It seems these items need a drop zone that is convenient and easy to use. Otherwise old habits of putting it off to the side and out of site will bring the clutter/hoard back.
Great idear
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT IDEA 🦄💜🌟🦄💜🌟 Yes to “Giving Station”!!!!! Oh I can envision this too!! Thank you my friend 💞
I was thinking of turning the 3rd bathroom into a giving station until you said you were going to get it functioning again. You will want a nearby flat surface to wrap on, but maybe a drop down or pull out surface so it doesn't get dumped on in between uses.
I was thinking of a gifting station too! What a great way to have a happy space that's functional.
I’m so sorry for your and your husband’s loss. Three miscarriages is so tough and takes such a toll physically and emotionally. Sending you hugs and love. My sister in law had several miscarriages and she found planting a rose bush or special flowers helped with her grieving process.
Ohhhhhhhh....I LOVE THAT!!!! Thank you so so much for sharing that beautiful story with me 🦄💜🙏🏻❤️🌟
So proud of you, I had a miscarriage of my first pregnancy, it does get more bearable, I will always miss her, even after 26 years, but I know I will hold her in heaven one day. Stay strong xxx
Miss Heart ❤️ if I could ease your pain I would and so would so many of us watching. Sending you hugs, love, healing, prayers and comfort to you and your family. ❤️🤗🙏 Your so brave to share such painful emotions. I’m also glad you knew your limit and spent time with your family. Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife 💐❤️
Oh I think it would be so great to get the bathroom back to working... I am so excited for this video. Edit: I am so sorry for your loss. And I am so proud of you for making your choices of what to let go.
Thank you for being so honest about your pain and how it impacts this process. I know myself and so many others understand. 💜
A few tips I have noticed work for me: 1. Get off fb marketplace or only go there when you need something. Otherwise you end up hoarding stuff you would not even think of just because they are free/cheap. 2. I personally like giving others things that can be used up. So they are useful for some time and remind them of me but my gifts don't declutter their place. They can use it and then throw it away. 3. I don't look at ads/leaflets because they make me want more or feel I need something. I only buy something when in my everyday life I get a few times the feeling that I just NEED something. Only after I can pinpoint my need I go and buy one that I really LOVE even if it's a little expensive.
You’ve clearly grown so much that you can let the baby things go to a mom who can use them right now. If you should be blessed in the future you will be able to replace those things but for now this growth is amazing.
Also, why don’t you ship the gifts to Charlie and your nephews so they don’t outgrow the items before you see them again.