Be very secure Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers Work with internal deadlines Give him a taste of your charm not everything Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.
Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊
If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married
1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin 🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this….. 2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him) 3.Disciplined keep boundaries 4. To have time limits…..
Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am
Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you
I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .
Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42
This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin
The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.
How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT... Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....
Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤
Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks
the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way
Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....
Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must... Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes
Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos, He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide.. Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince) Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.
Be very secure
Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers
Work with internal deadlines
Give him a taste of your charm not everything
Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.
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Aah Zulu,I swear God doesn't regret giving you a voice😂😂God bless the womb that carried you🙏
Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😅😅😅😅😅
Very very interesting
If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married
He is like a father to me . he's teachings gets deep to me
Thankyou
I’m empowered by your conversation.
Sometimes being broke doesn't mean you don't have money 😮 lesson learnt
❤❤❤
Exactly dia
But been broke for long definitely takes one poor 😂
It is that time to learn and laugh. Keep up the good work.
Benjamin thanks for this ,,,a humble reminder ,kindly invite an image consultant one of these days.
1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin
🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this…..
2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him)
3.Disciplined keep boundaries
4. To have time limits…..
Thank you
Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am
Absolutely True. Thank you Benjamin sir!
The first time watching this andi can say I have learnt a lot.+humour =100%.
My first time listening to this man n damn i admire his wisdom a real gentleman.i could listen to him over n over n over😊
I can watch this video over and over making alot of sense!
Such profound wisdom Mr. Zulu. God bless you
Zulu Benjamin, all the way!! I appreciate you Sir! Thank you for your wisdom. It has taken me higher and made me better and whole! God bless you!
I can't stop listening to you again and again...Uar the BEST Zulu👏
Everlasting Blessings Upon U
Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you
The gentleman that oozes wisdom. Yours is not a profession but a talent, thank you sir.
😂😂Did you just say that bra from hell😂😂 😂😂
@@gloriamusau6681yes he did
I got blessed the moment I landed on this channel, my life has never been the same..from Uganda
Thanks alot sir,,,,,may God grant u more wisdom to inspire many
This gentleman oozes wisdom
Was about to leave aprince but listening to u has saved me, respect sir
It must be intense to handle the obstacles of life 👏🏾
Work with internal deadlines this is my pique side🙏God bless you my brother Zulu I never get enough of your messages .
You have alot so much wisdom. Much love from +254 🇰🇪 😊
You are loved and valued in RSA 🇿🇦
I know why he is valued in RSA. The ZUKU name 😂😂
@@nawazomuzik u mean Zulu
Yebo
I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .
Awww, thank you. 😊
Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42
This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin
Thank you for this reminder
Thank you Benjamin this is very educative. In the world we are in we need to hear this more and more
Ladies listen to this..what a great message
Good advice brother Benjamin ❤God bless you
Ohh these one is so impact to my life the way you dress attract antention not respect......i salute you
Great Conversations from Zulu …as Always! These conversations are way more appropriate when the person in the listening chair is a lady Vs a man..
A great advice thank you Mr Benjamin Zulu I love it.
This interviewer though… he can hype 😂
We love you Zulu,God bless you
In short badly dressed women attract alot of attention but not respect....
I just love my coach keep educating us
I never knew you're this learned and speaks sweet,good English. I have always seen on lulu and rashid
Anaongeaga kiswahili?
Thank you for the lesson.
Just admired your accent, and your show is real.bravo
You are teaching good sir,we should just be natural end confidence.
Thx so much with dat adverse🥰
Wisdom Mr Zulu 2023 you have been one of my greatest blessings I thank God for you
The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.
God bless you sir,learnt so much from you. Its your laughter for me🤣🤣🤣
Wow absolutely amazing ed inspiring , may God bless you man of God
😂😂😂I love this man so much. Love from South Africa.
The ZUKU name got RSA fans up and following 😂
@@nawazomuzik is it a problem though
I 😅
Nami ngiyamuthanda
Great lessons all through 👌
Hahahaaaaaaa.😂😂 I definitely don't want to be loved mildly but wildly
You're really knowledgeable sir...the time limit, and to differentiate between two chasters is what I really like most..am blessed by this teaching
this is absolutely inspiring
Amazing conciousness powerful man to the point
Make peace with what you fall short of then confidence levels shoot up there.
Hi everyone 🤝 I am New here Dr thanks for the show lots of love from Uganda 🇺🇬
Wisdom 100 ......Let him see what it means for him to be with you for life ❤...
From Uganda 🇺🇬 I appreciate sir! We need more content on finances too! ❤️ Thank you sir
Wakabi nyo
Wow,am what a topic u never disappoint Benjamin
Have learnt something God bless you my coach
🙋🏼♂️ From South Africa🇿🇦 we are still watching Dr Zulu !!! 😊
Yebo!
I'm also from SA,I love this show
Me too Mzansi😊❤
Is he from 🇿🇦?
@@pattykosse9932 No, from Kenya
How I fall in love with that intro..uwee!!, This is Benjamin Zulu Global....it kills me ❤😊🎉❤😅😅
I love this information...it's educative
How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT...
Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....
Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤
Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks
the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way
I loved your advise Mr.Zulu
Nice one...can see someone looks like Nodin Haji🤭
What a wounderful teachings thank you me mr benjamine
Wow! I have learnt a lot. thank you Sir
Good advice indeed keep up mr.Benjamin❤
Always crazy of intelligent and inspirational
Fall ? Or Be ? You Can't Make Anyone ....and vice versa . Ticket for Narcissistic behaviour is to MAKE someone be for your needs.
Keep preaching sir, ...from DRC
I love this
I appreciate you.
I love your shows big up Mr Zuulu B.
Wow you built up my confidents sir thank you
Thanks for Dat knowledge mostly to we who are going in marriage or friendship
😂a good one there. Proper definition of work and happiness 😂
Nice one brother.
Benjamin is a comedian also,, how you say things in a joking way😂😂
Ooh i think i have to work on my egoo😢 thanks Brother Benjamin Zulu😊
Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....
They’re my mentors too. I am a student of clinical psychology
Am very much thankful i found mr Benjamin. Doubt overcame
It was the nose working for me😂
Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must...
Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes
Hey!!! And you look absolutely on point!!!
It was the sitting allowance for me😂
Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc
Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline
Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos,
He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide..
Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince)
Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.
Thanks you all
Wololo I've learnt something ❤❤thank you
Powerful message 👌🏻
You are such a vibe❤l learn alot from you😊😊
Wow powerful message
Can u plz make more videos of financial literacy, your goals,etc..something like that,love your videos btw.
God bless you 🙏🙌
Powerful and Excellent Piece.🔥💯👍
Powerful 💪🏼
Whatever you are good at, show it.Listen good babi
Thnx too we appreciate
Thanks u so much am coming from Uganda but thanks 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
From Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 . Zulu you are loved and appreciated
You can say that again lots of love from Zim .
😂😂😂😂 Particularly Tightened