The Real Culprit: A Broken System, Not Just Laws| Controversy on Atul Subash & Puneet Khurana

The Real Culprit: A Broken System, Not Just Laws| Controversy on Atul Subash & Puneet Khurana | EP|01|
We always need a soft target so that we can put all the blame on him, for the sake of ourselves.. This is what is happening - after Atul Subash & Puneet Khurana case..
Every man is just talking that no one talks about men's rights or our law does not give any rights to men.. But here I say, all wrongs are wrong.. Have you ever seen your own rights, will you ever know that? I tried to find out why this happened.
We come later on law because this problem is more social than the rights found in law.
Our society teaches us how to talk, how to live or in short how to live.
He told us that equality of men and women is according to our convenience. Who has decided that who will cook, sew, weave, cook, take care of the house is the job of the woman or the job of making money making machine is the job of the man. Who says that a woman is weak or that a man is a strong and tough man?
We have to say that we take care of daughters separately or give separate care to sons.. Separate education of sons is done by caste or concrete. In this world, daughters grow up under their mother's lap since childhood, where sons are asked to sleep in separate rooms, brothers also do not want their mother, this is to make men harsh. Where daughters are able to express their emotions by crying, where sons are taught to practice silence. What kind of society are we creating? Today, the world is becoming dependent on the weak or the helpless daughter.
Good society is that which understands that a man or a woman completes another, because they are blessed in themselves. Whatever quality is there in a woman, the man accepts it or whatever quality there is in a man, the woman fulfills it.. It is not a competition whether I am better than you or you are better than me.
When you get hurt by your brother, you beat him, but your mother beats you or your brother - you beat both of them, you can but you also give.. or understand both of them.. but you remain the same. You say to your husband, 'Mummy Papa' - instead of trying to make you understand, he tells you that my son has come home. I have heard one line many times - It's okay when you come home. NO, its not okay..
Marriage is not a joke, I know some cases become so bad that the last resort is to end the relationship, but are all cases like this? I am not saying that all cases are like this, but in some cases this is true. what is there?
We always hear within ourselves that all men are the same, or all women are the same but why have we reached this conclusion..
Man is dependent on woman to take care of the house or woman is slowly on the way to end her dependence on man.
Indian Penal Code which is now Bhartiya Nyay Sanhita was established in the year 1860, at that time the condition of women in India was very bad, forget about Sati Pratha, lack of access to education and employment, because the social status of women was not good, they did not get respect even in the family, husband's killing, beating, burning, must have been very common, that is why when the law was made, some special rights were given to women in the law to protect their rights, but it does not mean at all that men do not have rights.
For example, under Section 498A, women can file a case of cruelty against their husbands. If the husband is also facing any kind of cruelty from his wife, then he can also file a case under this section.
Article 14 of the Indian Constitution Act gives equal rights to both men and women.
Then what is the problem? Crying, talking about male rape, talking about male sexual harassment or filing a case of cruelty against your wife makes a man a laughing stock and instead of talking openly about all these things, he thinks it is better to hide them or bear them silently.
The mistake is here..
Joseph Harper is a therapist. In an article in the Washington Post, he tells that he has seen women literally pushing their son or husband to him, and from here the real struggle begins where they have to work very hard to get their emotional issues out.
And then they say that its not a big deal, it's just that our wife is not like that.
Where the man himself is emotionally tired, and he himself is very hesitant to accept this, imagine how much he must be struggling to discuss it with someone else.
If we provide the same environment to our sons as we provide to our daughters, and give them the same freedom to share their sorrows and happiness, then cases like Atul Subhash and Puneet Khurana will stop happening.
Do think about it.