If she starts literally hitting on you like Mike Tyson, and there are other people around, just say "She can't keep her hands off me!". Then Brace yourself. I find the fetal position works well in this situation.
Many times women will do many of the above things you mention as friends. I think to boost their own self confidence. So it's still difficult to tell if a woman is truly interested in a romantic relationship or just wants to remain friends.
For twelve years I was a college professor and a lawyer. Nearly every semester one or two of the young ladies (20 to 30 yrs old) in my class acted differently from the others. I didn’t know quite what to make of it because (1) as their professor, I had to remain strictly professional both in and out of class; (2) I was much older; and … there was something else … oh yeah, I am married and happily so, and I mentioned my wife here & there during the semester. Thought I was safe. Still, there were young ladies who would sit in the front row, stare at me nonstop while smiling and fiddling with their hair. The professor in me was annoyed that they weren’t paying attention to the discussion, lecture or whatever I was presenting. The older gentleman in me was flattered from there to Jupiter & back. Another semester, a drop-dead gorgeous student arrived late for the first class and said her car broke down. I asked if she could arrange a ride for the next two classes that week; she said “I want you to pick me up.” Convinced she was joking, I told her I’d pay for a cab. She looked disappointed and asked me again to fetch her. I didn’t. Mid-semester, she said she had a job interview and asked me what she should wear. I told her to dress “business formal,” which she made me explain from top to bottom. She was absent the next class, but came in after the other students had left, dressed to the nines and impeccably made up. She asked what I thought; I said her choice was excellent. I thought that was it, but she came over to my desk and sat on it, about 18” from me and asked me to ask her some questions she might get during her job interview. I did the best I could, then told her I had somewhere I needed to be and excused myself. Thought I could make my exit, but she asked me to walk her to her car as it was getting dark. I couldn’t say no, and of course her car was parked on the other side of the campus. Finally she got into her car and I turned and started walking back to my car, breathing a sigh of relief. Too soon. She drove up beside me, said she felt bad that I had to walk all the way back and offered to drive me back. So, I hopped in hoping she didn’t make any detours. Happily she didn’t because by now the tension was nearly unbearable. Made it to my car, thanked her, got into my car and locked the door. Just to be safe. Typical semester. Nothing improper ever happened. I am an oak.
Yeah this gal and I would flirt with each other all the time. We couldn't keep our hands off each other so I figured this relationship can go only in one direction. So one day I suggested to her that we go and celebrate one of her accomplishments. Misconstruing my suggestion she told me she has a boyfriend. Since then all though I am respectful to her I treat her like she's just a normal freind. Little does she know it she did me a huge favor because now I have women much younger and far better looking than her knocking at my door. Now she stares at me as if to say" Why won't you flirt with me anymore. Answer: I don't want to make your fictitious boyfriend jealous. It actually worked out great for me. I'm not into adolescent games.
These are good. Every girl that ive been with started with her scooching over to sit closer to me. That was always what gave it away. And then if you like her you can give her all your attention while being really close to her. Compliment her. Light touches if appropriate. Be playful and not creepy.
I stopped trying to figure out if a girl is hitting on me ages ago as its hard to tell sometimes. If me and a new girl started getting on well and it looks like the possibility of romance is there then I just tell them straight. I say to them that I like them and if they want something to happen the ball is in their court. That seems to work.
Another great video. There is another subtle thing that can be included. If you are sitting at a table or standing at a location, she comes to you to be beside you and chat a bit, standing or sitting closer than normal.
Signs are much more difficult to interpret when there are cultural differences too. As an example: When in Mexico, people are very much accustomed to greeting with a hug and kiss and they also use terms that we would deem endearing like "love, sweetheart and more" sometimes among other friends and to a lesser degree with people that just met.The only reason I know we are more is because I can give her multiple kisses; our hugs are very body close; finally, she has specifically said that she does not like to be touched, but is ok by my touch.
Yep. Latin America and the US are very different in terms of culture. I moved here when I was 16, and still have been unable to fit with Americans, not to mention reading women (ESPECIALLY AMERICAN WOMEN). In fact, all of my best relationships had been with south americans or mexicans
Lately, the last few times I've heard these things were from women I worked with and they were all in relationships. Some were very touchy-feely and some were very into telling me about their relationship problems. Which is fine. I'm glad to be a sounding board for my friends and coworkers. Additionally, if any man can't be bothered with being a friend (and only a friend) with a woman. Then don't expect to ever have a proper relationship with one.
Another great video Anna always amazing to see you and how you are able to help many. Sometimes we get so bogged up with the daily of life we miss small signals that in the end could be a positive thing for everyone. Much love and support always.💕
I once was irreverent towards my Spanish class topic and laughed off that I didn't know how to Speak Spanish once a girl started greeting me in Spanish. Later on I saw her turn towards me whilest smiling at me for no reason and I just passed her as if I wasn't interested. Apparently she was flirting with me..dang.
Joya: "is she hitting on you " Me: "no she's really not, it's my wishful thinking causing me to have serious delusions which is trying to turn me into a creep. That shit will turn me into swiss cheese soon if that shit keeps up."
So if someone makes long eye contact with me, smiles while we stare at each other, but never answers a simple text or phone call, that means she is into me 🙄
The problem with women who use signs instead of clear communication, is that they struggle to communicate properly during the relationship. Men shouldn't have to learn a different communication style just for women because many men do this, but the women rarely ever put in the same effort.
Guys, just take the safe road and wait until she actually says she likes you or asks YOU out. Not to be mean, but most of them just want to talk to use you for resources, attention, emotional tampon, or just one of her many backups lol. Plus there’s so many allegations going around left, right, and center. I’ve been married for 12 years….but she’s the one that made the first move. This way, you DEFINITELY know she’s in to you.
All of the subjects that you have mentioned are absolutely the truth....I have experienced every one of these actions with the one who has been intimately interested in you.....You can definitely just feel the energy that you definitely both feel.
Honestly trying to figure out if a girl at work is into me, but it's really hard to tell sometimes. Lately she seems to have pulled away alittle I think, but I haven't done anything to suggest I'm into her.
I'm older now, and looking back I feel these clues are mostly pointless. None of them ever happened to me except for one time. I went to Merrill Lynch (NYC) to do a few days of freelance graphics work. A thin brunette was assigned to work with me. I don't recall how she was dressed, but on the second day she was somewhat overdressed in some sort of spanish flamenco style dress and with a huge number of jangling silver bracelets. I later surmised that maybe she was trying to dress up for me (although I would have never guessed this at the time) because her boss walked by and jokingly commented to her on suddenly changing her appearance. Then at the end of the day she made an odd comment about having to walk in the dark to the subway, seemingly implying that she would feel safer to be escorted. I didn't take the hint. Anyway, like all my other stories, "nothing happened". She wasn't my type, and if anything the fancy dress and jewelry seemed out of place and actually I found them slightly annoying. Had I found her more attractive, perhaps I would have taken the hints. Anyway, my point is that in this case the signs were rather evident, but I never experienced any other overt signs like this from women.
Wellp… no woman has never shown any of these signs to me with the exception of mayyybe 2-3 signs. Yet I am married and have two kids. Still no idea how that happened. But very glad it did😎❤
Again, very good collection of subtle signs with points, which are rarely mentioned by your other colleges. I could, however, add a lot more, just ask me, so I can see, that you really read it.
I continue to be confused when you put out videos like this. Because these videos and the situations are perfect to understand if she is interested. I completely understand that and you have given incredibly valuable information regarding helping guys to know when a girl is interested. That is different from when somebody's actively hitting on you and to be able to pick up on what the subtle differences are between casual conversation and being hit on. Most of your male audience are looking to you to give guidance between the difference on friendly jovial conversations and when they're actively being hit on so that they understand that the Dynamics have changed and won't be oblivious and therefore miss out on potential opportunities for Meaningful experiences and possible significant relationships with good high-value women.
A girl I work with has shown me a LOT of these signs and i'm certain she definitely likes me and I like her too however this coworker has a boyfriend 😂😂
One time i went bowling with my coworkers and this girl came up to my group and was like "can i borrow a bowling ball?" Up to me and i was thinking theres a bunch of bowling balls everywhere, but i said yeah lets go get you one and then she was like thaaaaaanks. My boss told me "why didnt you give her yours?" I said im using it 😂😂😂, I've always been completely oblivious, but growing up I was taught to never assume anything from a girl and just be respectful.
I would love to have some of these advices in One direction, how does a man, affirm that he is only seeking friendship. There are a rare amount of us that don't wish to get into romantic relationships and end up hurting a lady. However we're plagued with many attractive women that want us in a romantic relationship. How about doing that one as a topic. 👍🙏🐺
Lots of signs women give are just friendly, it’s still up to the guy to ask her out. If you want to be sure and approach to ask the woman out then obviously find out if she’s single first!, look for obvious signs like rings on her finger, and maybe find out through someone who knows her if she’s single, that might give a guy a bit more comfortable and confident to ask a woman out. There’s lots of signs that a woman is just friendly. It’s mostly about confidence and being comfortable and just getting to know her a bit more then ask her out after a few chats. I’ve tried to ask one woman out before because she was being super flirty with a lot of guys in a office environment including me but she was like no I’m busy kind of thing one day or the next day so….. it’s not that easy to tell if a woman likes you and just wants to be friends or friendly and wants to go out a few times to see if you both are good for each as bf, gf. So now I generally won’t approach a woman who is being super flirty with every guy. Good tips tho, like your content
As I grew up, I started to like girls, little did I knew how they are and act on the daily basis… she compliments and is initiative with you and after awhile they ignore you completely… 🔥
I became friends with a Chinese girl in college. We dated, got married, had a son and are approaching our 20th wedding anniversary…I think she might be slightly interested in me…but I’m not sure.
What do you do when a woman brings up their boyfriend but also puts out all these signals? Just today a woman I work with and am interested in worked overtime. Our times coincided where it was just the two of us. She looked extra good. Different style of dress and very pretty. We're close and have shared a lot. I know there is something there but every so often she'll mention her boyfriend. I keep distant because I'm not sure how she really feels.
Keep the distance if there's another guy in the picture. You don't want to be involved in that drama. I'm in a similar situation. She teases me a lot, casually touches me in the arm/ shoulders, and laughs at my comments even when I'm not really trying to sound funny or witty... I've never had this experience with women before, it's almost surreal. They usually ignore, reject or treat me as a friend. Oh, and the other day as we were having a conversation she was looking at my face in a kind of hypnotic way. I swear, it was like she was under a magic spell or something... I had to break the moment by asking her if my hair or forehead had something wrong. She snapped out of it (like when you are daydreaming and all of the sudden you wake up in the real world). It was weird to me because, again, it was the first time a woman was staring at me in a deep and almost loving way. But it is not possible to have something with her because she also talks a lot about her boyfriend. This is the worst thing: she doesn't speak in a possitive way about him. It's like she's annoyed by the reminder that she's already in a relationship. That's messed up. I love the attention and this new feeling of getting these looks, but at the same time I am aware of the existence of the other guy and I don't want to be the second option and ruin the things between them. It's hard to ignore her advances but I must deflect them if I want to be at peace. As much as she gets me hard I must force my will and mind my own business.
I saw lot's of charecterless girl do those stuff with many guys 😁😁😁... Smart guys never fall for it,,chosee the girl for whom u r the first & last love.
Like someone said previously a lot of these things that you said it seems like people just flirt with people to boost their own confidence there was this young lady that knew me and I happen to run into her out of place employment and I haven’t seen her in some years but it seemed like she was trying to hit on me and what not and a lot of the things that you name the things that she was doing and I asked her for her Facebook and I sent her a request and she never responded and maybe I just assumed that she forgot so I messaged her and like liked one of her photos and just told her that it was a simple nice photo of her and then I looked up and she had me blocked so some people I think just do things to get attention sometimes even some of these things are those things so just letting you know
You made the mistake of sending a second request and didn't take the hint when she didn't respond to the first request. Tom Leykis and Rush Limbaugh have said "Don't give women a second chance to say *'no'*".
Bro! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m sorry I shouldn’t laugh but no wonder! If a girl flirts with you or hits on you you don’t ask for her Facebook page and then send a friend request (unless maybe you’re still in high school) 🤣🤣🤣 You haven’t seen her in a while, run into her and that happens you say something like, “Damn! This is so much fun running into you!! Let’s get together and talk more! I’ve really missed you and wondered where you had gone off to! Let’s not let that happen again!” If she seems excited about that then your next step would be, “Cool! Hey listen I’m free this weekend, if you are let’s go do (think of something) and we can catch up and do something fun at the same time!” If you are projecting genuine excitement she will nod, smile, give some positive reaction to that then you close the deal and say, “Great!! I’ll make those arrangements/ get tickets, (whatever)!!” “What’s your number now, I’ll get everything set up and give you a call to confirm the time and details!“ She will now give you her number and say, “Great! Talk to you soon! Glad I ran into you!” Voilà now you have a date and can be on your way. Now if during the above exchange she failed to give positive feedback, didn’t seem to be all in with a plan to get together or seemed hesitant now you know right away she’s not interested that way and you won’t need to go through the time consuming (and ridiculous) process of sending a Facebook friend request, which she would have looked at as incredibly lame, immature, high school-like behavior immediately anyway. The moment you went that route she instantly saw that you were not a take charge kinda guy and therefore not viable as a mate. I don’t mean to be harsh but not only was that a lame and childish way to go about it but it also places all the decisions in her hands, that’s the way you should see it. You have to send her a friend request and then she has to accept it. And then deal with a guy that appears to be doing one little baby step at a time. I can totally see why she blocked you! And Office is not even to mention that a guy should never want to be Facebook friends with any girl he’s thinking of dating. That’s the dumbest thing you could possibly do and there are 1 million reasons but I’d have to write another book to explain them all to you. 🤣🤣🤣 You can be Facebook friends if you ever get married, then yes it would be appropriate and expected. Trust me she doesn’t wanna be Facebook friends with someone she would be interested in dating either. They going the route you did you told her right off the bat that you only want to be in the friend zone and she’s probably not looking for another guy “friend.” Girls are looking for a relationship, you can take that to the bank. You may or may not end up being the right one for her but you would only find that out through pursuing her. You’ll never find it out asking her to be Facebook friends, you’ll only get blocked. Seriously man I’m not saying any of this to ridicule you, only to help! Best luck to you! Take the bull by the horns my man! Seize those moments as opportunities and take charge to create your destiny, you will have success! “Let’s be Facebook friends”- not so much. You deserve the Batman slap meme for that to wake you up! 🤣✌️
Hey Joy. This happened to me once and I got the impression this girl wasn’t just hitting on me, she wanted me. I was on vacation with my wife on a cruise. We are in our late 50s early 60s. I’m retired firefighter paramedic. The couple we ran into was a young Asian couple in their 30s. The woman was a doctor. They sat with us at our table every meal the entire cruise. Even if we switched tables they would find us. The woman would always sit next to me and talk up a storm. One night she offered me a taste of her dessert on her fork. I politely turned her down knowing it was completely inappropriate especially in front of her husband and my wife to be sharing a utensil. We may as well be tongue wrestling. My wife was so upset she wanted me to not sit next to the woman anymore, so I obliged and sat across from her the last couple of nights. I don’t think she was just trying to make her husband jealous, or my wife jealous, because she said derogatory things about him and ignored her. Am I correct in believing she wasn’t just being friendly, not just being flirtatious, but was acting seductively?
I am not married but have had been in similar situations. Rock and a hard place springs to mind. Women are definitely from Venus and men are from Mars!
I’ve remarked on other videos of this stripe; None of this is hard evidence that she indeed “likes you”. The modern generation of young women can do all this with her “best buds”, male or female. It’s called “playin’”, or “funnin’ wit’ you”. It’s on display every day.
per my boss.....when the pno worker is leaving to go home, she childishly stands up and waves at him. Then one day, instead of parking her car a few cars away from his, she parked her car next to his...this happened often. while on her lunch break, HE would hang out in the lobby as to wait for someone. Then, he would go into the kitchen where she is and hang out ( a males version is he KNOWS he got her as his temp-gf) Also he often hangs out after work....waiting nearby her car (stalking??) Now....she does not talk to me much or emails me back......reason, he may have told her that I dont talk to him ever (harassment rule in the co notebook) and I know for a legit fact that he IS a "womanizer" or playboy (I have saved txt messages from him). So SHE is taking his side and now hates the sight of me :(((. Thats ok though because when the husband arrives in town to "settle in"......all of this will STOP.
Great tips! If a girl seems to always be smiling and happy whenever you’re around - watch out! - she’s interested in you, trust me! She doesn’t do this with everybody - so there’s no doubt that she’s into you, and that she likes you! It might be time to make a move - don’t snooze, or you’ll lose her! Lol Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
I find if they are acting a bit shy and 'giggly' and with her friends whispering to each other then looking at you quickly from the corner of their eye. Time to make a move, but then dont do it like a cat amongst the birds all they'll fly away. Got to pick your time right. I never do. Maybe they were just making fun of me. I'll never know.
@ B M - You sound like you have been around the block a bit and know what you are doing ! Why does it STILL sound like this has to be such a difficult, frustrating challenge ? You deserve a LOT of credit !
Ok...what if she is hitting all these check points, but sometimes has her friends with her and basically talking to them when you are around? She then seems open again when they are gone. What the hell is going on?
isn't. Refered to as the herd,lol. Women will not show interest in a guy when they're freinds are around, in case they get shot down, basically has to do w self image. My sister explained this to me yrs ago. Never approach a girl in the herd ,lol,your wasting your time.
*I remember a time when a girl was playfully teasing me, and I had no clue she was flirting. For those who’ve had similar experiences, what was a sign that took you by surprise?*
The non-stop talking and asking of questions is a way of pumping you for information so she can figure out the best way to control you when she has you it's an old technique that women have been using for years and because your chemically attached to her because of her pheromones you're more than happy tell her whatever you want to know it's like being fed a drug and you don't want the pleasantness to wear off but it does eventually then you see what they're really like but it's all control
When she gets tired of my not picking up on her hints, she just gives me her phone number. lol Thats happened over 10 times in my life. Guess I just pick up on hints very well.
Nothing holds a man's attention like a drop-dead gorgeous woman explaining ideas, and no English accent is better suited to imparting common sense wisdom you can take to the bank, than the Mancunian accent. Subbed and liked it for sure. Pulling up a chair here, notepad in hand.
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She punches you in the face. That's when you know she's hitting on you
In my case, she kicked me in the ass.
@@trustobey1016 I’m sorry, WHAT? That’s only a few girls mate, but I’m sorry that must’ve hurt…
If she starts literally hitting on you like Mike Tyson, and there are other people around, just say "She can't keep her hands off me!". Then Brace yourself. I find the fetal position works well in this situation.
@@Not.itslucia She was playing around
@@trustobey1016 I know :) I do it too
Many times women will do many of the above things you mention as friends. I think to boost their own self confidence. So it's still difficult to tell if a woman is truly interested in a romantic relationship or just wants to remain friends.
Is she seeking validation through attention?
or sex!! well 😌😌💯
I don't bother to notice anymore it makes things easier
I agree. My latest new "friend" gave me nearly all those signals but I was promptly rejected when I asked her out. 🤷🏼♀️
Or does it work differently with lesbians?
is she hitting on you?
no
she's just being nice, they're always being nice.......i live by that lol
Facts
My girl trow these signs all the time I thought she was just being super nice, I’m glad I saw this… we’re so happy now..
The woman I like always gives me the finger in a playful way. I think it’s her way of saying that she loves me.
Kinda reminds me of a saying in my friends group: "We are terrible people. If we didn't pick on you, we wouldn't like you." Lol
@@isaiahwelch8066 so true
For twelve years I was a college professor and a lawyer. Nearly every semester one or two of the young ladies (20 to 30 yrs old) in my class acted differently from the others. I didn’t know quite what to make of it because (1) as their professor, I had to remain strictly professional both in and out of class; (2) I was much older; and … there was something else … oh yeah, I am married and happily so, and I mentioned my wife here & there during the semester. Thought I was safe. Still, there were young ladies who would sit in the front row, stare at me nonstop while smiling and fiddling with their hair. The professor in me was annoyed that they weren’t paying attention to the discussion, lecture or whatever I was presenting. The older gentleman in me was flattered from there to Jupiter & back. Another semester, a drop-dead gorgeous student arrived late for the first class and said her car broke down. I asked if she could arrange a ride for the next two classes that week; she said “I want you to pick me up.” Convinced she was joking, I told her I’d pay for a cab. She looked disappointed and asked me again to fetch her. I didn’t. Mid-semester, she said she had a job interview and asked me what she should wear. I told her to dress “business formal,” which she made me explain from top to bottom. She was absent the next class, but came in after the other students had left, dressed to the nines and impeccably made up. She asked what I thought; I said her choice was excellent. I thought that was it, but she came over to my desk and sat on it, about 18” from me and asked me to ask her some questions she might get during her job interview. I did the best I could, then told her I had somewhere I needed to be and excused myself. Thought I could make my exit, but she asked me to walk her to her car as it was getting dark. I couldn’t say no, and of course her car was parked on the other side of the campus. Finally she got into her car and I turned and started walking back to my car, breathing a sigh of relief. Too soon. She drove up beside me, said she felt bad that I had to walk all the way back and offered to drive me back. So, I hopped in hoping she didn’t make any detours. Happily she didn’t because by now the tension was nearly unbearable. Made it to my car, thanked her, got into my car and locked the door. Just to be safe. Typical semester. Nothing improper ever happened. I am an oak.
Your will to do the right thing is strong. Very very strong.
Should’ve never walked her alone nor gotten into her car. Hell would’ve broken loose by a thread. You’re so lucky nothing transpired.
Doc Holliday: Wyatt, you are an Oak!
I woulda smashed.
Regrets suck
Yeah this gal and I would flirt with each other all the time. We couldn't keep our hands off each other so I figured this relationship can go only in one direction. So one day I suggested to her that we go and celebrate one of her accomplishments. Misconstruing my suggestion she told me she has a boyfriend. Since then all though I am respectful to her I treat her like she's just a normal freind. Little does she know it she did me a huge favor because now I have women much younger and far better looking than her knocking at my door. Now she stares at me as if to say" Why won't you flirt with me anymore. Answer: I don't want to make your fictitious boyfriend jealous. It actually worked out great for me.
I'm not into adolescent games.
I know when she's hitting on me, I can feel that tennis racket on the back of my head🤣🤣🤣
Uncle Smith💀
...Or the baseball bat
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I saw one girl who was smiling while looking down bc she was shy obvious
These are good. Every girl that ive been with started with her scooching over to sit closer to me. That was always what gave it away. And then if you like her you can give her all your attention while being really close to her. Compliment her. Light touches if appropriate. Be playful and not creepy.
I stopped trying to figure out if a girl is hitting on me ages ago as its hard to tell sometimes. If me and a new girl started getting on well and it looks like the possibility of romance is there then I just tell them straight. I say to them that I like them and if they want something to happen the ball is in their court. That seems to work.
Another great video. There is another subtle thing that can be included.
If you are sitting at a table or standing at a location, she comes to you to be beside you and chat a bit, standing or sitting closer than normal.
Yup. I have definitely been flirted with and all I could think was "calm down and stand still you silly goose".
Wow. I have had women over the years, do all these things, to me, and never knew they were hitting on me.
Same. Right now I wanna punch that stupid punk that I was in High school through a time-warp
Signs are much more difficult to interpret when there are cultural differences too. As an example: When in Mexico, people are very much accustomed to greeting with a hug and kiss and they also use terms that we would deem endearing like "love, sweetheart and more" sometimes among other friends and to a lesser degree with people that just met.The only reason I know we are more is because I can give her multiple kisses; our hugs are very body close; finally, she has specifically said that she does not like to be touched, but is ok by my touch.
Yep. Latin America and the US are very different in terms of culture. I moved here when I was 16, and still have been unable to fit with Americans, not to mention reading women (ESPECIALLY AMERICAN WOMEN). In fact, all of my best relationships had been with south americans or mexicans
Lately, the last few times I've heard these things were from women I worked with and they were all in relationships. Some were very touchy-feely and some were very into telling me about their relationship problems.
Which is fine.
I'm glad to be a sounding board for my friends and coworkers.
Additionally, if any man can't be bothered with being a friend (and only a friend) with a woman. Then don't expect to ever have a proper relationship with one.
Another great video Anna always amazing to see you and how you are able to help many. Sometimes we get so bogged up with the daily of life we miss small signals that in the end could be a positive thing for everyone. Much love and support always.💕
I once was irreverent towards my Spanish class topic and laughed off that I didn't know how to Speak Spanish once a girl started greeting me in Spanish. Later on I saw her turn towards me whilest smiling at me for no reason and I just passed her as if I wasn't interested. Apparently she was flirting with me..dang.
Joya: "is she hitting on you "
Me: "no she's really not, it's my wishful thinking causing me to have serious delusions which is trying to turn me into a creep. That shit will turn me into swiss cheese soon if that shit keeps up."
Those aren't delusions, bro... She just made you infatuated with her.
So if someone makes long eye contact with me, smiles while we stare at each other, but never answers a simple text or phone call, that means she is into me 🙄
The problem with women who use signs instead of clear communication, is that they struggle to communicate properly during the relationship. Men shouldn't have to learn a different communication style just for women because many men do this, but the women rarely ever put in the same effort.
You're a real whiner. Girls are different than boys. I guess you didn't notice.
Guys, just take the safe road and wait until she actually says she likes you or asks YOU out. Not to be mean, but most of them just want to talk to use you for resources, attention, emotional tampon, or just one of her many backups lol. Plus there’s so many allegations going around left, right, and center. I’ve been married for 12 years….but she’s the one that made the first move. This way, you DEFINITELY know she’s in to you.
SHO RIGHT!! 👏
Yeah, that will never happen, bro.
All of the subjects that you have mentioned are absolutely the truth....I have experienced every one of these actions with the one who has been intimately interested in you.....You can definitely just feel the energy that you definitely both feel.
No one wants you. Don’t lie . Jk jk. Get ‘em pimpm . You da man !!!!! 👍👍👍👍
Honestly trying to figure out if a girl at work is into me, but it's really hard to tell sometimes. Lately she seems to have pulled away alittle I think, but I haven't done anything to suggest I'm into her.
I thought she was hitting on me, but she was just been nice because she wanted to nailed my cousin, i was taproot 😭🤧😂🥰
Woke up from the coma , to find out some random woman hit on me with a baseball bat according to eye witness statements .
I'm older now, and looking back I feel these clues are mostly pointless. None of them ever happened to me except for one time. I went to Merrill Lynch (NYC) to do a few days of freelance graphics work. A thin brunette was assigned to work with me. I don't recall how she was dressed, but on the second day she was somewhat overdressed in some sort of spanish flamenco style dress and with a huge number of jangling silver bracelets. I later surmised that maybe she was trying to dress up for me (although I would have never guessed this at the time) because her boss walked by and jokingly commented to her on suddenly changing her appearance. Then at the end of the day she made an odd comment about having to walk in the dark to the subway, seemingly implying that she would feel safer to be escorted. I didn't take the hint. Anyway, like all my other stories, "nothing happened". She wasn't my type, and if anything the fancy dress and jewelry seemed out of place and actually I found them slightly annoying. Had I found her more attractive, perhaps I would have taken the hints. Anyway, my point is that in this case the signs were rather evident, but I never experienced any other overt signs like this from women.
I knew this chick was hitting on me when she blasted me with bear spray.
It really is a masterclass in confusion these videos
So Joyanima, are you gonna tell me if you are married, angaged, in relationship, or you are hoping for the best?
RIP Kevin Samuel...we gonna miss you Godfather
Wellp… no woman has never shown any of these signs to me with the exception of mayyybe 2-3 signs.
Yet I am married and have two kids. Still no idea how that happened. But very glad it did😎❤
I love the way you explained this content! Its soo true have seen this happen. Thanks and well done
Again, very good collection of subtle signs with points, which are rarely mentioned by your other colleges. I could, however, add a lot more, just ask me, so I can see, that you really read it.
If she says wanna hang out. You bet I do
I continue to be confused when you put out videos like this. Because these videos and the situations are perfect to understand if she is interested. I completely understand that and you have given incredibly valuable information regarding helping guys to know when a girl is interested. That is different from when somebody's actively hitting on you and to be able to pick up on what the subtle differences are between casual conversation and being hit on. Most of your male audience are looking to you to give guidance between the difference on friendly jovial conversations and when they're actively being hit on so that they understand that the Dynamics have changed and won't be oblivious and therefore miss out on potential opportunities for Meaningful experiences and possible significant relationships with good high-value women.
@ J D - Hey, confusion REIGNS ! God forbid that you misread the "signals ' . . . that can be a REAL problem . . . .
You mean trollopes.
A girl I work with has shown me a LOT of these signs and i'm certain she definitely likes me and I like her too however this coworker has a boyfriend 😂😂
It's called being polyamorous. Ask her if she's married or engaged. If not, she's fair game..
One time i went bowling with my coworkers and this girl came up to my group and was like "can i borrow a bowling ball?" Up to me and i was thinking theres a bunch of bowling balls everywhere, but i said yeah lets go get you one and then she was like thaaaaaanks. My boss told me "why didnt you give her yours?" I said im using it 😂😂😂, I've always been completely oblivious, but growing up I was taught to never assume anything from a girl and just be respectful.
I have a similar story about the girl asking me what time it was right beneath an enormous clockface.
I just pointed at the clock.
I love that shirt you're wearing in your hair looks awful pretty keep up the good work I love your knowledge cool cat dan
I would love to have some of these advices in One direction, how does a man, affirm that he is only seeking friendship. There are a rare amount of us that don't wish to get into romantic relationships and end up hurting a lady. However we're plagued with many attractive women that want us in a romantic relationship.
How about doing that one as a topic. 👍🙏🐺
Poor baby.
@@georgerivera9220 oh! A connoisseur of the 4 F's club. Now tell me why you are on a site of a respectable young lady and leaving such comments 😜🤣🤣🤣🐺
Lots of signs women give are just friendly, it’s still up to the guy to ask her out. If you want to be sure and approach to ask the woman out then obviously find out if she’s single first!, look for obvious signs like rings on her finger, and maybe find out through someone who knows her if she’s single, that might give a guy a bit more comfortable and confident to ask a woman out. There’s lots of signs that a woman is just friendly. It’s mostly about confidence and being comfortable and just getting to know her a bit more then ask her out after a few chats. I’ve tried to ask one woman out before because she was being super flirty with a lot of guys in a office environment including me but she was like no I’m busy kind of thing one day or the next day so….. it’s not that easy to tell if a woman likes you and just wants to be friends or friendly and wants to go out a few times to see if you both are good for each as bf, gf. So now I generally won’t approach a woman who is being super flirty with every guy. Good tips tho, like your content
It is MUCH easier to pick up a girl who is already in a relationship..
@@andersnielsen6044how?
These videos are amazing as telling me that the ladies I like as friends seem to want more and the ones I like more only see me as a friend.
Thank you for this awesome advice I've always been very timid didn't pay attention like I should
Insightful, and hotly delivered. 5 stars 👍
As I grew up, I started to like girls, little did I knew how they are and act on the daily basis… she compliments and is initiative with you and after awhile they ignore you completely… 🔥
i have aspergers so i find it a lot more difficult to clock on if she likes me that way.
I became friends with a Chinese girl in college. We dated, got married, had a son and are approaching our 20th wedding anniversary…I think she might be slightly interested in me…but I’m not sure.
Another amazing video Anna! There are some I never picked up on before. Thanks so much!!!!
Thank you for this, I have always struggled with this distinction!
I love your insight Joyanima.. your a lovely lady yourself!!!!
I'm so grateful and humbled thank you for your confirmation numbers next time it's coming together nicely ♥️💯👈😃
What do you do when a woman brings up their boyfriend but also puts out all these signals? Just today a woman I work with and am interested in worked overtime. Our times coincided where it was just the two of us. She looked extra good. Different style of dress and very pretty. We're close and have shared a lot. I know there is something there but every so often she'll mention her boyfriend. I keep distant because I'm not sure how she really feels.
Keep the distance if there's another guy in the picture. You don't want to be involved in that drama.
I'm in a similar situation. She teases me a lot, casually touches me in the arm/ shoulders, and laughs at my comments even when I'm not really trying to sound funny or witty... I've never had this experience with women before, it's almost surreal. They usually ignore, reject or treat me as a friend.
Oh, and the other day as we were having a conversation she was looking at my face in a kind of hypnotic way. I swear, it was like she was under a magic spell or something... I had to break the moment by asking her if my hair or forehead had something wrong. She snapped out of it (like when you are daydreaming and all of the sudden you wake up in the real world). It was weird to me because, again, it was the first time a woman was staring at me in a deep and almost loving way.
But it is not possible to have something with her because she also talks a lot about her boyfriend. This is the worst thing: she doesn't speak in a possitive way about him. It's like she's annoyed by the reminder that she's already in a relationship. That's messed up.
I love the attention and this new feeling of getting these looks, but at the same time I am aware of the existence of the other guy and I don't want to be the second option and ruin the things between them.
It's hard to ignore her advances but I must deflect them if I want to be at peace. As much as she gets me hard I must force my will and mind my own business.
I saw lot's of charecterless girl do those stuff with many guys 😁😁😁...
Smart guys never fall for it,,chosee the girl for whom u r the first & last love.
I get that energy from this pretty lady at my job. She's married 🤦
don't go there
Like someone said previously a lot of these things that you said it seems like people just flirt with people to boost their own confidence there was this young lady that knew me and I happen to run into her out of place employment and I haven’t seen her in some years but it seemed like she was trying to hit on me and what not and a lot of the things that you name the things that she was doing and I asked her for her Facebook and I sent her a request and she never responded and maybe I just assumed that she forgot so I messaged her and like liked one of her photos and just told her that it was a simple nice photo of her and then I looked up and she had me blocked so some people I think just do things to get attention sometimes even some of these things are those things so just letting you know
You made the mistake of sending a second request and didn't take the hint when she didn't respond to the first request. Tom Leykis and Rush Limbaugh have said "Don't give women a second chance to say *'no'*".
Bro! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m sorry I shouldn’t laugh but no wonder! If a girl flirts with you or hits on you you don’t ask for her Facebook page and then send a friend request (unless maybe you’re still in high school) 🤣🤣🤣 You haven’t seen her in a while, run into her and that happens you say something like, “Damn! This is so much fun running into you!! Let’s get together and talk more! I’ve really missed you and wondered where you had gone off to! Let’s not let that happen again!” If she seems excited about that then your next step would be, “Cool! Hey listen I’m free this weekend, if you are let’s go do (think of something) and we can catch up and do something fun at the same time!” If you are projecting genuine excitement she will nod, smile, give some positive reaction to that then you close the deal and say, “Great!! I’ll make those arrangements/ get tickets, (whatever)!!” “What’s your number now, I’ll get everything set up and give you a call to confirm the time and details!“ She will now give you her number and say, “Great! Talk to you soon! Glad I ran into you!” Voilà now you have a date and can be on your way.
Now if during the above exchange she failed to give positive feedback, didn’t seem to be all in with a plan to get together or seemed hesitant now you know right away she’s not interested that way and you won’t need to go through the time consuming (and ridiculous) process of sending a Facebook friend request, which she would have looked at as incredibly lame, immature, high school-like behavior immediately anyway. The moment you went that route she instantly saw that you were not a take charge kinda guy and therefore not viable as a mate.
I don’t mean to be harsh but not only was that a lame and childish way to go about it but it also places all the decisions in her hands, that’s the way you should see it. You have to send her a friend request and then she has to accept it. And then deal with a guy that appears to be doing one little baby step at a time. I can totally see why she blocked you! And Office is not even to mention that a guy should never want to be Facebook friends with any girl he’s thinking of dating. That’s the dumbest thing you could possibly do and there are 1 million reasons but I’d have to write another book to explain them all to you. 🤣🤣🤣 You can be Facebook friends if you ever get married, then yes it would be appropriate and expected. Trust me she doesn’t wanna be Facebook friends with someone she would be interested in dating either. They going the route you did you told her right off the bat that you only want to be in the friend zone and she’s probably not looking for another guy “friend.” Girls are looking for a relationship, you can take that to the bank. You may or may not end up being the right one for her but you would only find that out through pursuing her. You’ll never find it out asking her to be Facebook friends, you’ll only get blocked. Seriously man I’m not saying any of this to ridicule you, only to help! Best luck to you! Take the bull by the horns my man! Seize those moments as opportunities and take charge to create your destiny, you will have success!
“Let’s be Facebook friends”- not so much. You deserve the Batman slap meme for that to wake you up! 🤣✌️
I’m not sure what it is but your channel feels and looks very early 2000’s might be the way you talk and the background
I like it.
Nice video ! I like that you start quickly and end quickly so I can hear your message and move on to your next video !
40 year old virgin here. This as never happened to me
“How do you flirt on the internet”, should receive epic response.
Ya the touch bearer is a great way to get charges
GREAT ADVICE ANNA !
PS. I love the way that you pronounce 'LAIDEEZ !' - ( Nice work #!#)
Hey Joy. This happened to me once and I got the impression this girl wasn’t just hitting on me, she wanted me. I was on vacation with my wife on a cruise. We are in our late 50s early 60s. I’m retired firefighter paramedic. The couple we ran into was a young Asian couple in their 30s. The woman was a doctor. They sat with us at our table every meal the entire cruise. Even if we switched tables they would find us. The woman would always sit next to me and talk up a storm. One night she offered me a taste of her dessert on her fork. I politely turned her down knowing it was completely inappropriate especially in front of her husband and my wife to be sharing a utensil. We may as well be tongue wrestling. My wife was so upset she wanted me to not sit next to the woman anymore, so I obliged and sat across from her the last couple of nights. I don’t think she was just trying to make her husband jealous, or my wife jealous, because she said derogatory things about him and ignored her. Am I correct in believing she wasn’t just being friendly, not just being flirtatious, but was acting seductively?
I am not married but have had been in similar situations. Rock and a hard place springs to mind.
Women are definitely from Venus and men are from Mars!
It might have even been a situation where the wife and husband wanted a third. This is not uncommon, especially if the husband is submissive.
They were probably swingers, or the hubby just liked to watch.
What if she looks at me but doesn’t smile but keeps looking towards me
I felt you flirting with me with the way you chose a tight top to wear.
I thought I was going to get so much out of this video, but I thought there was an "S" before the word hitting.
What does it mean when your girlfriend introduces her best male friend to you
It means you need to do as I do, and introduce her to your (beautiful) female "friend".😂🙌💯
Next.
I’ve remarked on other videos of this stripe; None of this is hard evidence that she indeed “likes you”. The modern generation of young women can do all this with her “best buds”, male or female. It’s called “playin’”, or “funnin’ wit’ you”. It’s on display every day.
Girls know what they are doing I'm so dumb I get so nervous around my crush 🤣 even though she's giving me half these signs.. damn
Only 19? I better write them down because I'm sure as f not going to remember them all.
per my boss.....when the pno worker is leaving to go home, she childishly stands up and waves at him. Then one day, instead of parking her car a few cars away from his, she parked her car next to his...this happened often. while on her lunch break, HE would hang out in the lobby as to wait for someone. Then, he would go into the kitchen where she is and hang out ( a males version is he KNOWS he got her as his temp-gf) Also he often hangs out after work....waiting nearby her car (stalking??) Now....she does not talk to me much or emails me back......reason, he may have told her that I dont talk to him ever (harassment rule in the co notebook) and I know for a legit fact that he IS a "womanizer" or playboy (I have saved txt messages from him). So SHE is taking his side and now hates the sight of me :(((. Thats ok though because when the husband arrives in town to "settle in"......all of this will STOP.
Once you've seen this kind of video, they keep popping up. I shall say again, none of these things ever happen.
She comes over and leaves a bunny rabbit head in your fridge, she's crazy about you, quite literally and going to let you know it!
Great tips! If a girl seems to always be smiling and happy whenever you’re around - watch out! - she’s interested in you, trust me!
She doesn’t do this with everybody - so there’s no doubt that she’s into you, and that she likes you!
It might be time to make a move - don’t snooze, or you’ll lose her! Lol
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@ CV-DT - Hey, you have a GREAT outlook. . . better not lose that .
What if that's my cousin
I find if they are acting a bit shy and 'giggly' and with her friends whispering to each other then looking at you quickly from the corner of their eye.
Time to make a move, but then dont do it like a cat amongst the birds all they'll fly away. Got to pick your time right.
I never do. Maybe they were just making fun of me. I'll never know.
@ B M - You sound like you have been around the block a bit and know what you are doing ! Why does it STILL sound like this has to be such a difficult, frustrating challenge ? You deserve a LOT of credit !
Look how gorgeous you are!! 🥰. Love your content, keep it up!!
No please stop
Ur one of the best out here 😺 ty
Ok...what if she is hitting all these check points, but sometimes has her friends with her and basically talking to them when you are around? She then seems open again when they are gone. What the hell is going on?
isn't. Refered to as the herd,lol. Women will not show interest in a guy when they're freinds are around, in case they get shot down, basically has to do w self image. My sister explained this to me yrs ago. Never approach a girl in the herd ,lol,your wasting your time.
IS IT TIME FOR LADY ANNA TO CHANGE HER "THUMBNAIL'S" TO SHOW OFF HER NEW LOOK CAUSE THAT COLOR & CURLS ARE HER NEW LOOK AND SHE REALLY ROCKIN IT ?¿?
*I remember a time when a girl was playfully teasing me, and I had no clue she was flirting. For those who’ve had similar experiences, what was a sign that took you by surprise?*
Verifiable proof is her fist keeps hitting your face then there is no doubt she is hitting on you.
Great video, thank you very much...
The non-stop talking and asking of questions is a way of pumping you for information so she can figure out the best way to control you when she has you it's an old technique that women have been using for years and because your chemically attached to her because of her pheromones you're more than happy tell her whatever you want to know it's like being fed a drug and you don't want the pleasantness to wear off but it does eventually then you see what they're really like but it's all control
I recognized all these signs expect where's the opportunity?
Thanks for the hints luv
Pretty simple is she hot? If Yes: she's just being nice. If No: then there's a good to high chance she's also just being nice.
Love this mate
When she gets tired of my not picking up on her hints, she just gives me her phone number. lol Thats happened over 10 times in my life. Guess I just pick up on hints very well.
The question is; whether I am interested in her or not. Isn't that what really matters?
A friend i was interested in asked me a personal question pertaining to romance."do you have any single friends?" Game over.
“ …i had a dream about you .”
yup, that's one
Nothing holds a man's attention like a drop-dead gorgeous woman explaining ideas, and no English accent is better suited to imparting common sense wisdom you can take to the bank, than the Mancunian accent. Subbed and liked it for sure. Pulling up a chair here, notepad in hand.
I have never experienced any of these things 🤔
Video is spot on.
If you are good looking... She is hitting on you. If you are not.... She Isn't.
Hilarious 😂 but true
You said it !
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Good advice, as always! Keep the good work up. Nice top btw 😉
Another awesome vid!
I’ve seen all these signs but sadly they’re either married or I’m not interested 😒
For the most part, none of these things ever happen.
You look fabulous in stripes!
Playground tactics is the rule of thumb. The "game" was set back in kindergarten 😂
C. Still can't tell.