"You dont know who you are if youre not fighting." This hit me so hard. If Im not fighting for something or working towards goals that require a lot of attention, I feel like nothing. Finding identity outside of being able to fight for something is very hard for me.
My chiron is conjunct libra so it's been tough! Most of my wounding has come from putting people first and playing a supportive role. The energy exchange has rarely been balanced in a way where I felt supported too...
My Chiron is conjunct Aries SN - I think I am meant to use my Aries wounds to help others, but without identifying with the wounds. Perhaps you need to work towards being a professional in healing so the energy exchange is time for money? Just a thought.
This is so accurate for me… I feel like I always have to be overcoming something and always grinding.. and it’s driven by this constant anxiety inside of me
Have taken drastic measures to be independent and has failed because of this placement. Had to learn how to work with others. Also worked on diplomacy, I thought being blunt was okay bc it was truth but admitting to saying it in a way that was harsh which made people not want to be around me. I also try to force my ideas on others, learning that everyone doesn't think like me and to be at peace with that. Used to be very defensive bc I felt I needed to protect myself but learned how to let things go. I still can work on realizing others are around I still have selfish tendencies. New Subscriber love your channel😍😍
The part I hate about having this placement is just i WANT to be in relationship and just relax but just struggling so much and not having anyone or anything to lean on... Just sucks so much Guess I'm still in the "at war" phase of this placement
Oh my God, I am going through this, and I feel the same way. Its Frustrating.. and it sucks. But I’m .wishing you lots of love, peace and happiness on your journey 🙏🏽♥️
Thank you for sharing! This is the best explanation so far 😊 I have North Node in Libra ♎️ and I think by having a Pisces Ascendant and Virgo moon I'm emotionally fulfilled by helping/being of service to others :)
i have other placements in libra and it's like i started my life the other way around with my north node, tons of libra energy growing up, always interested in others, lots of good friends, very sociable etc... but now in my 40's it's the total opposite, still have the same friends but i'd rather spend my time alone than having to listen to stuff i dont relate anymore... same for co-workers or groups, it's so annoying having to juggle with everyone's behaviour...my tolerance went to the toilet 😂
Absolutely spot on. Libra NN no libra placements i have struggled with relationships and battle constantly with feeling like i should join the military. Libra placements amaze me by how open they are with relationships i can’t imagine. But i see now why . Thank you !
I do have a hard time accepting help. I didn't have a strong sense of my self early in life but by adolescences I did, & it came from a deep spiritual sense. My South Node Aries is in the 8th house. I seem to have a hard time partnering with others in connection with entrepreneurship things, yet I need the partnership/ help. It's definitely a challenge. North node Libra 2nd house.
Sometimes I cringe when I hear the word “ partnership”. It is true I do not like to share. Now that I am older I am learning to incorporate my libra ♎️ NN.
My name means fighter or warlike in Irish. I've been in the military and I feel like I've been living in my Aries SN most of my life. I'm now learning that this may have been a primary problem in my relationships. Everything you have said is REALLY resonating with me especially accepting help. Thank you for this video
As someone with no planetary placements in my 7th house (aries), I resonate with having the natural diplomatic ability you mentioned here. In fact the superpower you mentioned about helping others reach their goals has proven its self as a big part of my life path. But because my 7th house is empty, I tend to get lost into that giver state. Libra is represented with a scale for a reason. It's a balancing act.
You're very professional and deserve a bigger following, you should mix some visual presentation in if possible, I think people would appreciate it. Also your perfectly right I don't seem to see the individuality in others, I have a lot to learn. I'm the 'I don't know who I am' type I think. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much for this compliment! That’s a great idea about visuals. And I’m glad the video resonated. Is there an area of life that not knowing who you are shows up? Like what job to have or what you want to eat for dinner? 😂 Libras are notorious for that.
My sun, rising, and Venus is Aries. My moon is Taurus. In my youth I definitely can see the Aries but now I’m older I can see the Libra traits showing up.
After hearing this, I’m so happy I did. Everything makes sense now… I’m known for being a fighter but I’ve always felt like fixing a problem was better than dealing with it
I have this placement and when I saw Kanye West has it too, I laugh. We March to the beat of Our Own Drum. That's why we were Warriors in a past life. But and this one we have to balance and that is the hard part because how?? is the question. I guess life experiences and learning to be neutral like you said
Wow. Thank you 😊 I’m currently taking a twin flame course and learned about my north node tonight; wound up here. I’m a 6 placement Libra Stellium who absolutely falls into this mentality of it’s all me, I’m on my own, and I’m fighting. I’ve recalled three past lives involving wars so far. I do sometimes put others before myself; I struggle with that in the twin flame dynamic but especially bc my journey has always been with chronic illness, I’ve always fancied myself a warrior.
Crap I have always been other people’s cheerleaders and therapist. It’s exhausting and forces you to stay away from people. It’s never reciprocated. So I guess I’ll fail my life path cause I’m done.
NN in LIbra with Moon and Pluto 2nd house. SN Aries with Mars and Venus on top of each other lol..Spot on with all of this. I was shocked to discover (at like 35) that other people don't always think like me. Would never consider that my actions would affect anyone. This energy though was absolutely necessary for me to get through the first half of my life. Moving forward to the NN the last 10 years or so.
🙋🏽♀️super relate to having difficulty remembering other people exist. I don’t want to be selfish I just don’t know how to think of everyone at once especially when I’m deep in a moment living my life idk like it’s just a brain block ☹️
I'm nothing like my aries south node 🤷♀️, I think a lot about others, like helping others and I feel inappropriately quickly guilty. I also have no other libra placements...but my ascendant is cancer but on the other hand I have a leo sun 🥴. I'm an INFP on the mbti personality test which they literally call "the mediator" lol.
What about now…as we are entering a nodal reversal for the next several years?! Are we really not at war? perception is individuals perceptive reality… I choose peace ✌️
Very interesting because I definitely have been on the opposite end of this. I sacrifice myself way to much and learning to undo this now. I'm very diplomatic and maybe too diplomatic at times. I see my Aries come out at times but mostly my north node. My younger years are just blah. I'm in the economic justice field now after I learned so much. I use to know who I was but now everything is a blur. So I figured I'm just going through a major shift.
Wow so weird you said in a past life you were a soldier because I’m always having recurring dreams of being a soldier that’s the only recurring dreams I have. They were always so vivid I figured on my own they must be some type of past life memories. Even my profile name is of a military unit in the revolutionary war. I have several playlists dedicated to military knowledge and learning as well. WOW and I just got my birth certificate to calculate everything then looked this video up and that’s the first thing I hear. All of my interests are military as well and people make fun of me for being so militant. I couldn’t join the military in this life though cause a personal issue. But i always figured it was necessary cause I probably already did that before and need to do something else this life. I’m also into hunting and predator hunting that’s wild .
Libra sun ☀️ Aries rising with Libra North node in 7th house and Aries south node in 1st house. With sun pluto mercury and Uranus in 7th house. My life is a nightmare 😭 thanks ❤️.
So, it's a bit difficult. The only way I can serve others through my Libra NN is through 12H - so if I'm not serving people through spiritual means, I'm immediately living out of my SN Aries in the 6H. BUT when I reframe it that way, it gives me a path of finding trust in myself without feeling alone or used.
So soooo true you Are!!! Omg ive had a short relation with a libra male... he is off to Warr. Left me alone! He is my soulmate. Was it meant to be. WtHellllll... he alwas saiddd i need to give you balance. You need balance... pfff i felttt like i got balance. Then he is gone pfoeeee
Thank you so much ,this put some clarity on my path as a NN in libra In my first house . So for me I have Uranus and Venus with my NN in the first house and few times I was told to stop fighting lol and to contrôle my Uranus . Any tips I can focus on .... thank you
I would like to say ,iv been doing tarot cards , music , tying to find a bussiness partner trying to find a partner in generall reaching out to ppl helping out homless and my life still sucks im still alone and surviving why is this ?? More i try live in my north node the worse mylife becomes i end up with no money ,no friends ,nothing i get depressed like yeh fair my lifes over i gotta lose in this life i gotta get killed i gotta bend over n let life fuck me n then i think naah thats wrong ! I shouldent have this life if its gunna cause me pain ,im really unhappy since i found my north node out ,what can i do to be of service with out others throwing me in the trash ,sorry for harsh wording x peaace
I don't mind how you word things. I'm sorry to hear that you're still alone and surviving and htat living out your north node doesn't seem to be working for you. To be honest, I'm really limited as far as how much I can help with that kind of stuff. But I hope you find the answers you're seeking and that things get better for you. 💗
I came back to listen to this a second time. I realized that my North Node is retrograde. Trying to understand what the implications of this would be in comparison to an outward expression? I am very much a loner. I do sense this lingering inner warrior...what you say vibes a lot. Kinda showed up as lessons I learner through trauma in childhood making doing the N. Node bonding super hard. The speaking thing... having Capricorn in Mercury doesn't help. Ahhh, Help
As a NN in aries i find it funny that people struggle with the libras quality that I AM TRYING SO HARD TO GET RID OF 😭😭😭😭 I know this video is not for me, but i was curious how would it be for the opposite.
Ok but what happens when I'm 27 and my saturn is in Aries? :s I'm lost and confused. Should I be me or what? Is that constant guilt of should I be doing a duty or something or can I follow my heart and inner truth for once? Both seems to be and opposite directions :s it has been causing me depression ;s
Have I failed if I’m 45 and still single? I’m pretty much a loner and I’m shocked I’m here for partnerships. I think my Taurus sun and moon with Capricorn rising overrides this
That's quite natural. It was something I didn't know when I made these videos but it's how it works. You just try to be the best side of each coin that you can. :)
@@SaffronSageAstrology You speak from an outside perspective and while your take is text book accurate...its missing a lot of what it feels like to be at odds with others based on justice, fairness balance and peace. That is ultimately what being North node in libra struggles with. And by default suffering in silence due to avoiding conflict. Because we go from zero to 100. Which is the another struggle
yes, i have a very strong sense of myself. but am very good at "walk a mile in my shoes" awareness. Have never liked to be involved with competitive games/sports as in I quit if the competitive energy starts to rise. I have a square to saturn on my north node in libra, 3rd house. leo rising here. i have a hard time trusting others to care about or take into consideration of my needs or goals when i partner with another to reach a project or goal.
Stupid question. If you're north node is what your becoming or learning, and the south ia what you were and bring to this life. This implies you will be a libra south node in your next life. And aries north? So I'm going to be flip flopping between the two forever?
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"You dont know who you are if youre not fighting." This hit me so hard. If Im not fighting for something or working towards goals that require a lot of attention, I feel like nothing. Finding identity outside of being able to fight for something is very hard for me.
My chiron is conjunct libra so it's been tough! Most of my wounding has come from putting people first and playing a supportive role. The energy exchange has rarely been balanced in a way where I felt supported too...
Same here! I completely relate to this!
Same here😢
Me too but I'm a pisces sun
My Chiron is conjunct Aries SN - I think I am meant to use my Aries wounds to help others, but without identifying with the wounds. Perhaps you need to work towards being a professional in healing so the energy exchange is time for money? Just a thought.
Same u I have Rahu and Chiron in Libra
This is so accurate for me… I feel like I always have to be overcoming something and always grinding.. and it’s driven by this constant anxiety inside of me
Have taken drastic measures to be independent and has failed because of this placement. Had to learn how to work with others. Also worked on diplomacy, I thought being blunt was okay bc it was truth but admitting to saying it in a way that was harsh which made people not want to be around me. I also try to force my ideas on others, learning that everyone doesn't think like me and to be at peace with that. Used to be very defensive bc I felt I needed to protect myself but learned how to let things go. I still can work on realizing others are around I still have selfish tendencies. New Subscriber love your channel😍😍
Thanks for sharing. I always love to hear how these patterns manifest for different people. Sounds like you've learned a lot already.
We’re so alike. Freaky lol
The part I hate about having this placement is just i WANT to be in relationship and just relax but just struggling so much and not having anyone or anything to lean on... Just sucks so much
Guess I'm still in the "at war" phase of this placement
Oh my God, I am going through this, and I feel the same way. Its Frustrating.. and it sucks. But I’m .wishing you lots of love, peace and happiness on your journey 🙏🏽♥️
@@qianagorrell2164 SAME TO YOU LOVE ❤️
Awareness is the first step and I maybe it's safe to be seen loved and supportable with an equal❤complimentary traits❤ ❤❤
The hue of those eyes 😍
I’m always shocked on how accurate these are 😂 thank you💖
Thank you for sharing! This is the best explanation so far 😊 I have North Node in Libra ♎️ and I think by having a Pisces Ascendant and Virgo moon I'm emotionally fulfilled by helping/being of service to others :)
wtf I'm the same!!! what's your sun? mine is capricorn
i have other placements in libra and it's like i started my life the other way around with my north node, tons of libra energy growing up, always interested in others, lots of good friends, very sociable etc... but now in my 40's it's the total opposite, still have the same friends but i'd rather spend my time alone than having to listen to stuff i dont relate anymore... same for co-workers or groups, it's so annoying having to juggle with everyone's behaviour...my tolerance went to the toilet 😂
You just described my entire life!😫
I felt the same way when I first learned about my north node.
Absolutely spot on. Libra NN no libra placements i have struggled with relationships and battle constantly with feeling like i should join the military. Libra placements amaze me by how open they are with relationships i can’t imagine. But i see now why . Thank you !
I do have a hard time accepting help. I didn't have a strong sense of my self early in life but by adolescences I did, & it came from a deep spiritual sense. My South Node Aries is in the 8th house. I seem to have a hard time partnering with others in connection with entrepreneurship things, yet I need the partnership/ help. It's definitely a challenge. North node Libra 2nd house.
Thank you, I will try to balance my life and embrace my libra ♎️ north node.
I want to leave this life behind and live like mogli
Sometimes I cringe when I hear the word “ partnership”.
It is true I do not like to share.
Now that I am older I am learning to incorporate my libra ♎️ NN.
My name means fighter or warlike in Irish. I've been in the military and I feel like I've been living in my Aries SN most of my life. I'm now learning that this may have been a primary problem in my relationships. Everything you have said is REALLY resonating with me especially accepting help. Thank you for this video
As someone with no planetary placements in my 7th house (aries), I resonate with having the natural diplomatic ability you mentioned here. In fact the superpower you mentioned about helping others reach their goals has proven its self as a big part of my life path. But because my 7th house is empty, I tend to get lost into that giver state. Libra is represented with a scale for a reason. It's a balancing act.
Extremely accurate! I forget about others until reminded. Really good reading, the whole thing!
You're very professional and deserve a bigger following, you should mix some visual presentation in if possible, I think people would appreciate it. Also your perfectly right I don't seem to see the individuality in others, I have a lot to learn. I'm the 'I don't know who I am' type I think. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much for this compliment! That’s a great idea about visuals. And I’m glad the video resonated. Is there an area of life that not knowing who you are shows up? Like what job to have or what you want to eat for dinner? 😂 Libras are notorious for that.
Aquarius Sun and Pisces Rising: I am very "We are" 😉
Definitely in the "know thine self" space🧘🏻♀️🌈💕
You’re Goddamn beautiful. Great analysis
My sun, rising, and Venus is Aries. My moon is Taurus. In my youth I definitely can see the Aries but now I’m older I can see the Libra traits showing up.
After hearing this, I’m so happy I did. Everything makes sense now… I’m known for being a fighter but I’ve always felt like fixing a problem was better than dealing with it
I read a phrase that has become one on my mantras.. 'The war is over, you have one.'
"won"
I have this placement and when I saw Kanye West has it too, I laugh. We March to the beat of Our Own Drum. That's why we were Warriors in a past life. But and this one we have to balance and that is the hard part because how?? is the question. I guess life experiences and learning to be neutral like you said
Wow I resonate with so much said here…. I really have a lot to work on😩
We are all works in progress❤
Wow. Thank you 😊
I’m currently taking a twin flame course and learned about my north node tonight; wound up here.
I’m a 6 placement Libra Stellium who absolutely falls into this mentality of it’s all me, I’m on my own, and I’m fighting. I’ve recalled three past lives involving wars so far. I do sometimes put others before myself; I struggle with that in the twin flame dynamic but especially bc my journey has always been with chronic illness, I’ve always fancied myself a warrior.
Heal the trauma and the chronic illness may dissipate❤ my body knows how to heal itself and I allow it to heal❤
I have a strong sense of self.
Great information, and presented wonderfully. Thank you
Thank you!
Crap I have always been other people’s cheerleaders and therapist. It’s exhausting and forces you to stay away from people. It’s never reciprocated. So I guess I’ll fail my life path cause I’m done.
I give myself permission to enjoy life and have fun ❤
Thank you for the amount of effort and detail you put together in this video. I felt as if you were speaking directly to me. Blessings my dear ❤
NN in LIbra with Moon and Pluto 2nd house. SN Aries with Mars and Venus on top of each other lol..Spot on with all of this. I was shocked to discover (at like 35) that other people don't always think like me. Would never consider that my actions would affect anyone. This energy though was absolutely necessary for me to get through the first half of my life. Moving forward to the NN the last 10 years or so.
What beautiful advice. Thank you. Great job on the video!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
🙋🏽♀️super relate to having difficulty remembering other people exist. I don’t want to be selfish I just don’t know how to think of everyone at once especially when I’m deep in a moment living my life idk like it’s just a brain block ☹️
haha #southnodeairesproblems 😂
Very good video, one of the best on TH-cam on this placement. I am north node Libra,Saturn in Aries 😂 and Scorpio rising
Thanks, I’m glad you liked it.
North Node Libra, Libra Sun, Taurus moon and Scorpio rising and Mars in Scorpio
So informative. Love your videos, this really resonated with me.
So glad!
I'm nothing like my aries south node 🤷♀️, I think a lot about others, like helping others and I feel inappropriately quickly guilty. I also have no other libra placements...but my ascendant is cancer but on the other hand I have a leo sun 🥴. I'm an INFP on the mbti personality test which they literally call "the mediator" lol.
Yeah that cancer rising will make you a natuarally caring person. 💗
What about now…as we are entering a nodal reversal for the next several years?! Are we really not at war? perception is individuals perceptive reality… I choose peace ✌️
Very interesting because I definitely have been on the opposite end of this. I sacrifice myself way to much and learning to undo this now. I'm very diplomatic and maybe too diplomatic at times. I see my Aries come out at times but mostly my north node. My younger years are just blah. I'm in the economic justice field now after I learned so much. I use to know who I was but now everything is a blur. So I figured I'm just going through a major shift.
Wow so weird you said in a past life you were a soldier because I’m always having recurring dreams of being a soldier that’s the only recurring dreams I have. They were always so vivid I figured on my own they must be some type of past life memories. Even my profile name is of a military unit in the revolutionary war.
I have several playlists dedicated to military knowledge and learning as well. WOW and I just got my birth certificate to calculate everything then looked this video up and that’s the first thing I hear. All of my interests are military as well and people make fun of me for being so militant.
I couldn’t join the military in this life though cause a personal issue. But i always figured it was necessary cause I probably already did that before and need to do something else this life. I’m also into hunting and predator hunting that’s wild .
You too. I have past life as a samurai. I catch myself in that mode at times. I need to chill a bit
i always wanna do e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g by myself, i'm litteraly unable to ask for any help...
Libra sun ☀️ Aries rising with Libra North node in 7th house and Aries south node in 1st house. With sun pluto mercury and Uranus in 7th house. My life is a nightmare 😭 thanks ❤️.
I have an almost similar situation, I feel ya lol
My father and my sister has south node in Aries... Yes indeed they are warrior😂😂soul warrior
I'm listening to Libra NN but I honestly had to learn how to set boundaries total opposite of above. Interesting
Well done
Its currently my nodal return (nn aries,sn libra)
Im very interested in what could happen!
So, it's a bit difficult. The only way I can serve others through my Libra NN is through 12H - so if I'm not serving people through spiritual means, I'm immediately living out of my SN Aries in the 6H. BUT when I reframe it that way, it gives me a path of finding trust in myself without feeling alone or used.
Aries (5th) libra (2nd)
So soooo true you Are!!! Omg ive had a short relation with a libra male... he is off to Warr. Left me alone! He is my soulmate. Was it meant to be. WtHellllll... he alwas saiddd i need to give you balance. You need balance... pfff i felttt like i got balance. Then he is gone pfoeeee
Thank you so much ,this put some clarity on my path as a NN in libra In my first house . So for me I have Uranus and Venus with my NN in the first house and few times I was told to stop fighting lol and to contrôle my Uranus . Any tips I can focus on .... thank you
It' so hard to go on with duets I find myself being more in a solo mode.😨
What kind of duets?
@@SaffronSageAstrology By duets i mean by collaborate with others, any kind of of collaborations from family and friends to boyfriends😂
boyfriendS? LIke more than one!? (I'm jealous 😂)
I’m a Libra rising and NN with Chiron in my first house so it’s a struggle.. and SN Aries in 7th with Saturn 😢 any tips?
What are your thoughts when the north node libra is also in the 1st house?
I have north node in aries so trying to figure out how I can strike a balance between these two energies.
I would like to say ,iv been doing tarot cards , music , tying to find a bussiness partner trying to find a partner in generall reaching out to ppl helping out homless and my life still sucks im still alone and surviving why is this ?? More i try live in my north node the worse mylife becomes i end up with no money ,no friends ,nothing i get depressed like yeh fair my lifes over i gotta lose in this life i gotta get killed i gotta bend over n let life fuck me n then i think naah thats wrong ! I shouldent have this life if its gunna cause me pain ,im really unhappy since i found my north node out ,what can i do to be of service with out others throwing me in the trash ,sorry for harsh wording x peaace
I don't mind how you word things. I'm sorry to hear that you're still alone and surviving and htat living out your north node doesn't seem to be working for you. To be honest, I'm really limited as far as how much I can help with that kind of stuff. But I hope you find the answers you're seeking and that things get better for you. 💗
I came back to listen to this a second time. I realized that my North Node is retrograde. Trying to understand what the implications of this would be in comparison to an outward expression? I am very much a loner. I do sense this lingering inner warrior...what you say vibes a lot. Kinda showed up as lessons I learner through trauma in childhood making doing the N. Node bonding super hard. The speaking thing... having Capricorn in Mercury doesn't help. Ahhh, Help
I have a war when I was looking for south node in Aries I forgot my north node is libra
My sun, asc and north node are in libra, so basically i have no choice but to collaborate 😂😂
As a NN in aries i find it funny that people struggle with the libras quality that I AM TRYING SO HARD TO GET RID OF 😭😭😭😭
I know this video is not for me, but i was curious how would it be for the opposite.
Lol I know how can it be so easy for them?
Ok but what happens when I'm 27 and my saturn is in Aries? :s I'm lost and confused. Should I be me or what? Is that constant guilt of should I be doing a duty or something or can I follow my heart and inner truth for once? Both seems to be and opposite directions :s it has been causing me depression ;s
Omg. Literally same. Every word.
Have I failed if I’m 45 and still single? I’m pretty much a loner and I’m shocked I’m here for partnerships. I think my Taurus sun and moon with Capricorn rising overrides this
What if you can see yourself in both sides of the coin?
That's quite natural. It was something I didn't know when I made these videos but it's how it works. You just try to be the best side of each coin that you can. :)
😁 my placement in vedic
These aren't for vedic. That's totally different to be honest. It's practically opposite.
Ugh 😑, I can’t believe my higher self is doing this to me!
Seems like a Libra /Aries club is where it's at
Your eye contact is making me nervous ;)
My ex in a nutshell .
I don't agree with your view.
That's okay. What are your thoughts?
@@SaffronSageAstrology You speak from an outside perspective and while your take is text book accurate...its missing a lot of what it feels like to be at odds with others based on justice, fairness balance and peace. That is ultimately what being North node in libra struggles with. And by default suffering in silence due to avoiding conflict. Because we go from zero to 100. Which is the another struggle
Most warriors travel alone... being libra loneliness is another level. We prefer relationship but have cut so many off that loneliness is just safer
Do you have other placements in Libra?
@@SaffronSageAstrology Sun Venus and North node..
I have absolutely no tact. lol
lol 😂
yes, i have a very strong sense of myself. but am very good at "walk a mile in my shoes" awareness. Have never liked to be involved with competitive games/sports as in I quit if the competitive energy starts to rise. I have a square to saturn on my north node in libra, 3rd house. leo rising here. i have a hard time trusting others to care about or take into consideration of my needs or goals when i partner with another to reach a project or goal.
Yep me to most things kinda working by myself ,I want everyone to win lol
Stupid question. If you're north node is what your becoming or learning, and the south ia what you were and bring to this life. This implies you will be a libra south node in your next life. And aries north? So I'm going to be flip flopping between the two forever?